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Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
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Welcome back my love to another episode of Money, Mindset and
Manicures. Today's episode is all about
identity shifting, specifically how to think, act, and attract
like a millionaire woman. So if you clicked on this
episode, I know right now you are trying to manifest more
money into your life. Maybe you're trying to manifest
your first 5K month or 10K month.
Maybe you're already across thatand you're trying to manifest
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50, or maybe you're heading intoand trying to end the year in
your first six figures and beyond.
So this episode is really going to teach you and show you, OK,
what is that next shift that I need to make?
Because right now there's probably something, I hate to
say the word blocking you, but sometimes there are just things
that are going on in our lives in the way that we show up, the
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way that we act, the way that wethink, the way that we do
things. And we just don't realize how we
are showing up until someone reveals it to us.
So that's what this episode is all about.
But before we begin, I want to share with you an Elevate Her
app review that I just saw in the App Store.
And it's from Kimberly. And by the way, when you ladies
leave me reviews, whether it's on the Elevate Her app or for
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the manuscripting journal or just in the community, with your
experience, not only does this help me like understand how this
app or product or community is helpful for you, but you also
show other women what's possible.
Because I can sit here all day telling you how great the app is
and how great the journal is andhow it's going to transform your
life. But the real magic lies in the
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testimonials. And what I love to say is
whenever you just think about leaving a review or not, just
think of the next woman that is coming to whether it's the app
or the manuscripting journal, the community.
And she's like, oh, this for me,should I do this?
And maybe just by reading your review and testimonial, that's
gonna be the decision maker. So I'm always so grateful for
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your reviews. And if you have time in a minute
to review the next time, maybe you're on the app or on
manuscripting.com, please leave a review.
It helps us out so, so much. So this review, it's a five star
review from Kimberly and she writes, wow, where do I begin?
This app is better than any pillor happy juice.
I've been longing to find something like elevate her to
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boost my confidence and help me get out of the funk.
And let me tell you, this app has it all.
Samantha guides you step by stepon how to become a better
version of yourself so you can start living a life you were
always meant to live. I cannot say enough great things
about this app. And if you're reading this, just
try it. You have nothing to lose and
everything to gain. Thank you so much, Kimberly.
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And also this past week, we actually just finished the first
live round of the Wealth Recalibration Challenge.
And Oh my God, I am so proud of all the women who joined me.
So if you're listening and if you joined this challenge, first
of all, thank you so much for saying yes, not only to
yourself, but to your future, toyour abundance, to your money.
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I am so excited for you to see how the next season and year of
your life reveals itself. Because it's when we do this
deep inner work, then we start to see the full transformation
as we move on. And there was so many immediate
shifts that the women have experienced in this challenge
from uncovering deep blocks thatthat that's been holding them
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back to mega mindset shifts thatallow them to uncover who they
truly are. And this whole process truly
allow them. And this is just from all the
comments and posts that were in the community throughout this
past week. But it really helped them to
open up, to be recoded, to be rewired and be recalibrated for
wealth. So now that this 10 days is
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done, the whole wealth recalibration method is live.
So now it's available for purchase and you can start
immediately with the first classthat's in there, which is a two
hour in depth releasing and rewiring session with me.
Now I have to tell you this first class of World's
Recalibration. And by the way, it's only the
first class and then the last closing ceremony that's over
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like 2 hours long. The 10 days of audios, they are
up to 15 minutes Max. I think the first audio is 20
minutes. But the rest of the 10 days,
you're listening to an audio every single day for 10 to 15
minutes. And then you have an embodiment
practice. So it's not like it takes much
time of your day. It's like if you just went in
and did the guided meditation every day, this would be the
meditation that you do. And it's not just a meditation,
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by the way. It's also includes tapping
breath work, everything to help you recode, rewire your brain
and your subconscious mind for wealth and abundance.
This whole session, this first one specifically, it's one of
the most powerful sessions that I've ever taught because I
brought a lot of new modalities to this session that I've never
taught in a live group setting before and only with my
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one-on-one clients. So if you've been a part of
master classes with me before, this one in here is like, whoa.
It's really like I don't want totoot my own horn, but it's going
to shift you in ways you've never done work with me before.
So if you were wanting to call in more money and abundance,
especially actually before the holiday season and to get a head
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start on manifesting more money in the new year, I highly,
highly, highly recommend jumpinginto it immediately.
And also, you might be thinking,well, Sam, this isn't live.
I'm just doing it on my own. How am I going to get support?
I got you because we have the community that goes along with
this and I'm in there every single day providing support.
Like if you go in there, you post a question, you need
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support, you need guidance, you just post it in there.
And I'm in there pretty much almost 24/7 replying to comments
suggesting different tools, modalities for you to do
practices, journaling prompts. Like I am there to full on
support you. So even if you were just going
to start this, say next week or tomorrow or, or even today after
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you're done listening to this, Iam still there with you every
step of the way. And then one thing I do
recommend, especially with thesechallenges is if you're like,
oh, I don't want to do it by myself, come on into the
community and like put up a postasking if anyone wants to do it
with you. And I'm sure you will find an
accountability buddy for supportto do it with you.
Because I know there's other ladies in there that have
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purchased it during the 10 days or even now, now that we're
going to be talking about a little bit more after the fact,
I know there's going to be more women that are going to want to
do it with you. So don't let this not be a quote
UN quote live cohort. Don't let that stop you because
the audios, the tools are already there for you and it's
just time, time to take charge of your life and your money
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situation. And the only way we do that is
if we show up and actually put the effort in to do the work.
And like I said, after I bet listening to this episode,
you're going to want to jump in there immediately because we're
going to be uncovering the 8 identity shifts that you need to
make. So I've linked wealth
recalibration down in the show notes for you.
Just go, click it, sign up, get in there.
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And I cannot wait to see you go through this challenge.
OK, now that we have that announced, let's get to this
episode. Because becoming wealthy and
successful and confident isn't about forcing your way there.
It's all about becoming the version of you who already has
it. So when you embody that woman,
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which is her habits, her thoughts, her energy, your
reality is going to start reorganizing itself to match it.
So as I mentioned today, we're going to go over 8 identity
shifts that are going to completely change the way you
see yourself, your money, and your success.
So let's dive in, OK? The first identity shift is
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going from trying to become to already being.
So most women, they get stuck intheir trying energy, right?
So have you ever been in a situation where, and maybe this
is you right now, where it's like, oh, I'm trying to make my
10K month. I'm trying to get my business to
be successful. I'm trying to get more clients.
I'm going to try and launch thisand it's going to, I think it's
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going to work. But if you're consistently
saying I'm trying to manifest money or I'm trying to grow my
business, that's not how it works.
The millionaire woman doesn't try.
She knows she is this already. She walks into every room.
And I know a lot of us don't really walk into rooms anymore,
right? Like we show up on social media,
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but we have to show up wherever it is that you are putting
yourself out there. You need to show up with the
energy of I already am that woman because her subconscious
believes it before the evidence shows up.
So for example, instead of saying I'm trying to hit my
first 10K month, you want to sayI'm calibrating to 10K months
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because that's normal for me. We need to start acting as if
that's already the baseline. Do you see the difference here?
You're not trying, you already are it.
And with manifestation, right? Like we have to become the
energy before we have proof of it in our reality.
Because if we're constantly waiting for the proof to show
up, that's just going to create the cycle of always trying,
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always wanting, always desiring.So this is the energy of
embodiment. And your nervous system starts
to recognize abundance as safe, as familiar.
So again, that first identity shift is from trying to become
to already being. OK, so #2 let me know if this is
you. Hard work equals success.
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You have to switch that to aligned energy equals results.
So as the old paradigm says, work harder, grind more,
sacrifice everything, no days off work, work, work, right?
That's how a lot of us are and feel or have been.
I know that was me for pretty much almost a decade of my life,
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especially my like 20s into my early 30s, almost like I was
that hustle. I was that grind.
I was like, if I just work more,I'm going to make more money.
Hard work equals success. But it wasn't until I learned
like the millionaire woman values aligned energy, not
constant exhaustion. Because you have to have time
and space for the ideas to come in, for the creativity to come
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in, and for the intuition to come in.
But if you were constantly busy working hard, burning out,
basically there is no time and space for the creativity and
downloads to come in. It wasn't until I really was
able to slow my day down. And what really helped for me is
having a morning routine where Idid journal and meditate.
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The idea, the download for the manuscript being journal.
I'm sure you've heard the story a million times, but it came to
me in a meditation and journaling session.
That's when it plopped into my head.
And at the time, I was not thinking about a physical
product. I was running a business
coaching. I was doing a social media and
business coaching business. That's what I was doing before.
And one day it just like droppeddown into my head and the first
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couple days, weeks, like I kind of ignored it.
I was like, this is crazy, this is so crazy, who am I to do
this? But I allowed myself the time
and space and then day and day after that, as I was meditating
and drilling on this idea, just like kept bouncing in.
And then later throughout my day, it would like pop in
randomly again until I just likereally couldn't ignore it.
But it wasn't until I allowed myself to have time and space
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throughout my day for those ideas to come in.
And This is why if we are just go, go, go, go, go, go 24/7 all
throughout the day, you're busy,you're tired, you're burnt out.
Of course, you do not have room and space, but the ideas and
downloads to come in. So she the millionaire woman,
she doesn't push through burnoutinstead.
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And you don't have to like if you're busy in the mornings,
right? And you're like, oh, I don't
have time to do that every single day.
I get it. We all have lots of different
commitments. But if you have time to even
take a walk, meditate, journal, go do something fun, go play
with your dog, go, go do stuff that doesn't require your
working brain. You know what I mean?
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Allow yourself that time and space because she knows this
millionaire woman knows her nextdownload might make make her 10K
in a day. And for me that download turned
into a 7 figure business. You guys 7 effing figures.
Like what? And no it didn't happen
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overnight, that happened in year3 for us year 3.
So imagine if you allowed to give yourself the time and space
to be creative, even doing art dance.
Like just something to let your brain let loose and allow the
ideas to flow in. Do you know that you could right
now just be blocking that $1,000,000 idea from coming in?
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Because right now you are forcing yourself to stay busy.
You are forcing yourself to workbecause you're chasing that next
paycheck to pay your bills. And I get it.
I get it when you're in that grind.
I get it when you're in that season where maybe the money
isn't flowing in. But what if, what if you just
started dedicating like 10-15, maybe even 20 minutes to allow
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yourself to be no scrolling Instagram, no checking emails,
no checking text messages, no looking at what everyone else is
doing, but allowing yourself to just be.
And that's why even just with these guided meditations inside
the elevator app and stuff that I have like this is the stuff
that got me to where I am today.It didn't just happen because I
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was working hard. In fact, the quite opposite.
The hard work to come in and then execute those ideas.
Yes, those came afterwards, but if you're in this cycle where
you were just spinning your wheels and you're sick of the
same, like literally the same cycle that you're in of this
hard work and even the job that you might have right now or the
business you have right now. Just like you hate it, it sucks,
it's burning you out. It's not, it doesn't bring you
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joy. You know that.
It's not what you're supposed tobe doing with your life.
Well, the only way those downloads are going to come in
is if you allow the space and time for them to come in.
Because when you are in your aligned energy, it's going to
produce exponential results thathard work alone cannot.
So #3 is going from I need to prove myself to I am the
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evidence. Now, who here thinks they
constantly need to prove themselves to show up, to get
validation, to get the acknowledgements, the
accomplishments, all of that? Also, me too.
Like in fact, my entire career before I got to where I am today
was based on that. I was modelling, acting.
Even before that, when I was in high school, I was a varsity
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athlete. I was a straight A student.
I was constantly chasing validation.
I was constantly trying to provemyself, and you're never going
to feel confident if you're constantly seeking validation.
The wealthy woman doesn't perform for approval.
She embodies self trust. So it wasn't until my early 30s
that I really understood and learned what self trust actually
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meant, what self love meant. I think that's a big parallel
that comes with self trust. It's loving yourself.
It's not having to seek that validation from others.
You're not posting on Instagram and waiting for the likes and
comments and the second those don't come in, you stop because
you're like, Oh my gosh, maybe no one even just likes me.
Maybe my stuff isn't valid. No, that's not true.
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There's still so many times throughout the last few years
where I'd be posting online and it just wasn't working.
AKA I wasn't getting the likes and the comments and there were
lots of times where I wanted to quit and stop showing up and
throw it in the trash. And I actually did that a few
times, especially with Tiktok. When I started to try to get in
the Tiktok game, I did that a lot and even on Instagram a
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little bit too. I go, I go in phases and I'll
I'll share this because this actually is happening right now.
So I've been on TikTok for the last year or so with a personal
account and I was just kind of like posting and sharing stuff.
I'd post on Instagram and it just wasn't hitting, wasn't
hitting, wasn't hitting. And then I took a break for like
a week and 1/2 and I'm like, screw this.
I feel like I'm putting in so much effort on this app.
I'm now putting effort on 2 appsand it's not working.
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And then like a week ago I was like, you know what, I'm going
to get on here. I'm going to take a seriously,
I'm going to post 6 times a day and I'm going to show up and I
don't even care if anyone's liking it or commenting.
I'm just going to stay committedto it.
And you guys want to know what'shappening on my TikTok right
now? And I know this is such early
news, but just in the last week alone I've gained 300 followers,
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300. I'm like what?
This doesn't happen on Instagram?
What, and I've just stayed committed and I just kind of
learned the kind of secret hack of, OK, I understand the TikTok
game right now. I understand of showing up.
And I actually even studied other popular influencers with
what they were doing and I learned what did they do?
And then all of a sudden I'm nowdoing it and committed to it.
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And now I'm, I'm, I'm doing it and nothing of this would have
happened if I just gave up because I stopped because I
wasn't getting the likes and comments and, and followers or
whatever. But I just decided one more time
and going back to the first one,the first thing of trying to
become to already being, I literally told myself a week
ago. And I think also it's because
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we're in the wealth recalibration challenge and I
was listening to those audios everyday.
This is so crazy, guys. This is like unfolding as I'm
saying this out loud. I was like, Oh, I think that's
what just happened. I literally started showing up
because one of the goals on my vision board for this year is to
hit 100K on Tiktok and followers.
OK but this girl, it's the end of October and she's barely
getting started on that goal. And I started and all of a
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sudden I got like 300 followers in a week, which is crazy.
But I'm showing up to TikTok creating content and I'm saying
to myself, I already fucking AM this 100K thousand account.
And it's just funny because we throw these numbers and goals
out there, right? Like O100K or whatever.
But at the same time, when you know that's who you are, like
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I'm showing up with the energy of I am a creator that has
100,000 followers and like it's done.
That's how I'm showing up. And it's so crazy how right now
all of a sudden, because all thetimes I've tried before for
months and months and months, nothing was happening.
But in my head previously I was saying I need to work really
hard at this. I'm trying to become this
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awesome creator and influencer on TikTok.
And now all of a sudden I'm showing up with the energy of
I'm already a popular influencerwith tons of followers and tons
of engagement. People love to follow me, listen
to my content, and interact. Like that's crazy.
I just kind of realized that this is what happened.
It was literally because of wealth recalibration.
And this isn't another plug. I just literally had this
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realization that that's what's happening.
So heck, wealth recalibration isworking you guys.
Even for someone like me, Wow, this is so amazing.
This is like crazy aha moment right here.
Interrupting this episode for just a minute because I need to
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Your dream life babe is truly just one play away.
OK, let's get back to the episode.
It's all about showing up. You know you're worth, it's not
up for debate and you are the proof of what's possible.
Again, when you already show up in the energy, reality has to
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catch up. That is the law of
manifestation. So instead of even trying, if
you're right now trying to sell a product or get clients or you
know, maybe you're in sales or whatever it is that you do for
your job, instead of trying to over explain your prices or
credentials, you simply just say, you know, like this, this
is my offer, this is what I do. It's life changing.
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It's going to change your life. Here is how to sign up.
This is how to work for me. This is how you purchase, right?
We are already showing up in energy.
You're not here to convince people.
You're not here to people. Please.
You are just literally embodied in your power.
So stop allowing your current reality to show you and prove to
you otherwise because you are the creator.
You are the one that is able to make the shift and change it.
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It is so powerful when you can get to the space.
So #4 is going from money is a result to money is a mirror.
Money isn't something you chase right?
I've said this a million times. It's something you reflect
because money mirrors yourself worth, right?
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Your boundaries, how safe you feel in receiving.
So when you under charge or say yes to misaligned clients and
customers, we all know and have had those, right?
You don't shame yourself. You notice this is where I still
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don't feel safe holding more. And then you're able to upgrade
that belief. So the millionaire woman really
understands that when she heals her relationship with herself,
her, her income naturally expands.
So take a look at your life right now.
Where is it that you are maybe under charging?
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Where is it that you're scared to show up because you don't
feel like you are worthy of thatsale?
Isn't it crazy how much we really want something like
money? But deep down inside, if our
self worth is in the toilet and we don't have the confidence,
then that literally blocks moneyfrom coming in.
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And that's literally another thing in welfare recalibration
that we work through. Because that's one of the
biggest, biggest things that I see with women, especially so #5
is going from fear of judgement to power and visibility.
So wealthy women, what do you know about wealthy women?
I don't know one wealthy woman that isn't confident, that
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doesn't let her light shine. Like, they all just have this
incredible magnetism, right? They don't dim their light to
stay likable. Like, there's a lot of women out
there, right? And you know them on social
media. I'm sure you follow some and
sometimes I'll put up a post andyou're like, damn, she said that
like, wow, I can't believe she put that out there.
They really much like they, theyknow who they are.
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They know who they're for. And it's not like they're trying
to be a bitch. Like even when I post anything
and maybe we'll ruffle some fetters, I'm not trying to be a
bitch to anyone. I'm not trying to like make
anyone feel bad or put them down.
I'm just like, this is me. This is what I believe in.
This is my truth. And you know, you can either
ride with me or not, or maybe I'm just not for you.
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And that's OK because we know millionaire women know that
being seen is part of the mission.
And part of this mission is whenyou get to a certain place in
this mission, not everybody's going to like you.
And that's when it's so important to have a really good
community around you, right, to support you through that.
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Because even still to this day, and I've talked about this
before, you know, I'll get a negative review on something or
I mean, it hasn't happened in a while.
So maybe I should step up my game with being a little bit
more bolder. I haven't really had many haters
and stuff like that, but it happens.
And you know, it just is what itis.
And when you are doing this typeof work and you understand
manifestation and frequency and and all of that, you understand
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that a lot of those people, it'slike, you know, that's, that's
either their own wounds, that's their own triggers.
And you know, when you're a light that shines bright, like,
yeah, it's going to piss off thebugs and they're going to try
and get to you. And then they're going to get
zapped and they're going to get butt hurt and it's fine.
You know, we're not here to saveeverybody, but we are here to
shine this bright light to show them what's possible.
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And for you that could be possible in your day-to-day with
your family. That could be you being the
light in your community or at your job or just for your
community. Maybe everyone's waiting for you
to go first, so then they have the balls to step up and then go
after you. You know what I mean?
There's so many of us that are put here on this planet to be
leaders, to shine bright becausewe have this incredible innate
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wisdom within us, but we're justbeing blocked because we're so
scared to, you know, be seen, bejudged, be, you know, piss
people off. And you know, there's always
going to be someone that doesn'tlike you, right?
Like, for example, you know, I love ice cream.
There's going to be someone out there that fucking hates ice
cream so bad. And they will like fight me to
the death on how terrible ice cream is or chocolate or
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whatever, you know what I mean? So you just have to believe that
every time you're visible, you're showing other women
what's possible. And I think that is one of the
most beautiful parts of being human and on this planet is just
to be that guiding light. OK, Number six is going from I
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have to do more to my energy does the heavy lifting.
This is one of my favourites, ofcourse, coming from the
background of, you know, having to struggle and having to work
really hard for success. Like when I finally started
embodying this, it was just likethe biggest exhale ever.
So the wealthy woman, she doesn't force outcomes.
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She calibrates her energy. So when she's in her power,
abundance flows to her and her strategy still matters.
This doesn't mean you sit back, relax, and, you know, let life
happen. No, no, no, no, no.
When you are doing whatever it is that you're working through,
working on, producing, putting out into the world, it's all
amplified by your frequency. For example, instead of maybe
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sending 50 DMS out of desperation, right, like maybe
you're trying to sell a product or be a coach and you're you're
D Ming everyone that comments, right, You're spending more time
connecting deeply to your next level strategy.
And then maybe one post that youput up that you spent that time
on is going to bring in five newclients versus having to chase,
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chase, chase, chase. And not going to lie, like
there's there's nothing bad about sending DMS, right?
But we know the difference between that desperate energy
than from calibrated high vibe frequency energy.
I know. And still to this day, being in
this work for so long, there arecertain things that I do that I
create or whatever and I just like put it out there because
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I'm like, oh, I just need to do this because oh, I can make some
extra money doing this or oh, I can do this on the other and
then the shit flops. But when I am fully actually
aligned with whatever I am doing, with whatever I am
launching, with whatever action I'm taking, do you know how easy
it gets to be because my energy and frequency is aligned?
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It's wild when you make the shift.
So now I intentionally before I do anything, even before I
record a podcast, I literally put myself in the space of
instead of, oh, I hope I get like 200 listens or downloads on
this podcast episode, which honestly, I don't even freaking
look at stats. And I even told my podcast
editor, I told I was like, please never share analytics
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with me because I'm not doing this for the followers and
numbers, right? I am doing this because I
absolutely love long form content and to be able to share
more than, you know, a 62nd reelon Instagram with some more
deeper level stuff. I'm like, I always show up with
the intention for broadcasting. Like if one person listens to
this and they take something away from it, my job is done,
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right? And then, for example, on
TikTok, I'm like, you know what?Again, I hope I just reach, you
know, a few, few people so that I can grow this account because
eventually I want to use that asa source and fuel to help
elevate her app grow and the managed scripting journal grow
so more women can know and learnabout this amazing freaking
community and then come and listen to my podcast, right?
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It's all the chain reaction. So everything that I step into
is with the intention of I hope this just makes an impact on at
least one person. And I hope the ripple effect of
that is just major. You have to really trust your
vibration more than the To Do List.
And if there are things on your To Do List, and don't get me
wrong, there is stuff on my To Do List every single day that
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I'm like, Oh my God, I don't want to do this.
I don't want to do this, but I have to do it, right.
That's just like the mechanics of having a business, right?
There are things that you're notgoing to be jumping up enjoy
about every single day that you have to go do.
It's just the nature of the gameof running a business.
But there's a difference betweenlaunching something, creating
something, how you show up to something.
Even with creating content, before I record a thing, I'm in
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a good freaking high vibrationalmood instead of being like, Oh
my God, I hope this next video that I fucking film right now
because it's going to take me anhour to film.
Like I I hope it like hits and Ihope it does well.
No, I'm so done with that type of energy because anytime I'm in
that creation process, it flops.It flops, and I think you've
probably heard and maybe you've experienced itself.
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How many times have you like putso much intentional energy into
creating some content and then that flops, But the one that
takes you like 2 seconds to do because you felt good and
excited to talk about something and that one hits.
It's like, what the heck? It's all about your energy and
frequency going into #7 from what if it doesn't work to what
if it's already working? Oh, this is such a great
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identity shift. Doubt collapses energy 100% of
the time. If you were constantly walking
around saying well what if this doesn't work?
Or what if this doesn't go well?Or what if no one likes it?
Or what if no one comments? What if no one buys it?
Done, you're done. Don't try to say this to allow
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the universe and your reality toprove you wrong.
It's not going to happen. It's universal law.
If you're going into things withthat energy, of course, it's
probably going to flop. And don't be fooled by oh, well,
it worked when I did it this onetime when I acted like, Oh, it's
not going to work. I got tricked and you know, it
ended up working. No, that's not the energy we
want to go into. It's just like what I just said
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in number six from I have to do more to my energy does the heavy
lifting, right? Faith expands it.
The millionaire woman lives in the expectancy, not anxiety.
That's exactly the mentality that I went to this last week
when I kind of quote UN quote, restarted my TikTok.
I went into the with the energy of it's already working, it's
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going to work, I'm going to hit that 100K.
It's going to fucking happen. Like I just, it's weird.
I've had this shift of the last like literally thanks to wealth
recalibration. I'm like, it's undoubtedly
what's happened here. I didn't show up in that account
again saying what if it doesn't work?
No, I literally am expecting it to work and watch me watch me
hit 100K on TikTok. I cannot wait to announce it
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because I know it's already done.
My reality of this is literally just it's catching up with my
energy right now. That's literally what's
happening. So the millionaire women's, we
live in expectancy, not anxiety,not anxiety.
So when something doesn't go as planned, the launch, even an
investment, maybe even investingsome money, maybe even getting
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in a crypto or something like that or a deal, you don't
spiral. You say it's working out for me,
it's working, it's happening, it's already done.
Like that's why we say, you know, manifestation in my world.
It's like, and so it is. It's already done.
Thank you. One more, please.
Because that's the energy we need to be in because the
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universe is rearranging things in your favor all the time.
So why give it fuel to sabotage you?
Why? Why?
Like, it just doesn't make sense.
So we really need to start really anchoring.
I'm like beating the side of my head right now.
Like anchoring this into our brains of this identity shift.
It's already working because that mindset creates quantum
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results because you're no longerresisting to the process because
it's already done. Your reality is just catching up
from it. OK babe, I know we're deep in
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Have questions? Send me an e-mail or DM.
OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. And #8 last and final but not
least, because this is so important, is this one.
I will feel confident when to Confidence is who I am now.
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Confidence is such a funny thingbecause all of us, right?
We're, we're living this life for the first time.
Not to say we haven't lived previous lives, but we're living
this life the first time. So a lot of things that we're
doing and going after we've probably never done before.
So what does that mean? We're going to be stepping out
of our comfort zones a lot, especially you, because I know
if you're listening to this podcast, you are a go getter,
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you are a manifesto. You are the changer of your life
and you go out and beyond all the time to make shit happen.
So what does that mean? You're constantly stepping out
of your comfort zone. So what does that also mean?
You probably don't have 100% confidence every time you do it,
right? Like, let's just be real.
It is scary doing something new.It is scary putting yourself out
there. I'm not going to say that it's
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not because it is so real, but you have to know and understand
confidence isn't something you earn.
It's something you decide. You can decide to be scared.
You can decide to be shy. You can decide that you are not
smart enough, that you're not experiencing that right.
You can totally decide that. I'm sure you may have some proof
of that. But you can also decide that you
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are proud that you are excited that you are willing to get on
out there and no matter what happens, like you're not going
to die. So you're going to take that
leap. You don't wait for the sales,
the followers, the clients, the testimonials.
No, because you are your own testimonial.
You don't have to wait. You don't earn the confidence
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because let me tell you, after doing this so long in business
of being on social media to speaking on stages to being
interviewed on podcasts and putting myself out there like
it's, it's weird. Like, I know I'm a confident
person, but it's like, but I'm just, I just keep doing the
things even when I'm scared. I'm still scared a lot of the
times. Oh, gosh, you know, like I'm
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saying something really off the deep end here.
Who's going to like it? Who's not going to like it?
You know, like I'm just doing the thing because I know that's
what I need to do to get to thisnext level.
So you need to show up boldly, even when you're scared because
your identity says I'm the type of woman who always backs
herself, right? At the end of the day, you got
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you. I got you.
This community has you. Hopefully you have some really
supportive people around you. And if not, please lean into our
community. That's why confidence and
results naturally follow. That's why because you just have
to show up in that confidence. Now.
That's the whole fake it till you make it.
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We're all out here faking it till we make it, You guys.
We're we're all doing it. There's not one person out there
that isn't faking it till you make it truly, because we're all
doing this for the first time. There's no handbook.
You know, there's a road map. You can work with a coach, you
can work with a mentor, you can go on YouTube and you don't get
the details of how to do something step by step.
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But at the end of the day, like you were doing this for the
first time, we all are. And when you're able to back
that with just at least trying to be confident and putting that
on and taking the step and accomplishing something, of
course, the confidence grows, but it doesn't mean it stays.
You have to keep on using that muscle every single day when you
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embody these eight identity shifts.
And I'd love to know, I'm curious to know, like which of
these do you have? Which one do you do you struggle
with? Please hit me up in the
Instagram. DMSI love having conversations
with you about this because it'sjust so important.
But when you embody all of theseidentity shifts, you stop
chasing success and you start attracting it.
You will become magnetic to opportunities, wealth, abundance
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and aligned relationships because you're no longer
operating from lack. Your millionaire self already
exists. There is a timeline out there
that already exists. And I know hearing the word
millionaire, you're like God, like that is so far away.
That's so far fetched. But that's exactly what I'm
talking about. If you decide it's already done,
if you know deep down in your bones, like you know, you're
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supposed to be more abundant, you, you just know you're
supposed to have my money. Like this isn't who you are
right now. You have the chance and
opportunity to change it, You just have to take action on it.
Because I know you're confident.I know you're abundant.
I know you're radiant, and everydecision you make from that
energy brings you closer to the life you've been visualizing
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right now. I want you to ask yourself, who
am I choosing to be right now? Who am I choosing to be right
now? And what would my millionaire
self do next? What would my millionaire self
do next? Because the second you start
thinking, acting, and attractinglike her, she's no longer a
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future version of you. She's literally who you are
right now. So if you like today's episode,
I would love for you to even screenshot it.
Share it to your Instagram stories.
Tag me. Let me know which identity shift
hit home the most for you. Maybe you have a friend that's
struggling with money right now.Please share this episode to her
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immediately Tell her, hey, girl was thinking of you.
I really think you need to listen to this.
And if you're ready to embody your wealthy woman energy again,
go check out, go sign up. Go Joy the wealthy recalibration
challenge. It's actually also inside the
Elevate Her app. So you can either just join the
wealth recalibration challenge, just the challenge if you're
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just like, I just want to do this and that's it, or become a
member of Elevate Her and that'sactually included with your
subscription as well. So there's two ways to go.
Access it. Let's rewire babe like it's the
end of 2025. Get a head start on 2026.
Don't let another year pass you by being in the same place, same
time, same money situation. Like F that.
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No, every single year we should be getting better and better and
better. We should be getting better with
our mindset, our bodies, our health, our wealth, our bank
account, all of it. Like everything should
constantly. If you are in my world, you
should be constantly accelerating, improving, getting
better and better and better crossing things off of that
vision board. Because remember McQueen, wealth
isn't something you get, it's something you become.
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So I thank you again for listening to this episode.
I love you so much and I'll talkto you soon.