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Our financial behaviors and beliefs are deeply rooted in childhood programming that affects our adult money decisions in ways we often don't recognize.

• Childhood trauma creates an "inner child" that makes adult financial decisions
• Money blueprint forms through what we heard, saw, and experienced as children
• Verbal conditioning includes phrases like "money doesn't grow on trees" and "I'm broke" that limit our prosperity
• Unconscious programming creates financial ceilings that prevent wealth accumulation
• Life operates in four dimensions: mental, emotional, spiritual and physical
• Inner blockages must be healed before outer financial success can manifest
• Financial success requires balancing practical knowledge with inner healing
• Journey of self-investigation helps identify and transform limiting money beliefs
• Healing requires stillness, journaling, and connecting with your higher self
• Breaking generational patterns creates new financial possibilities for yourself and future generations

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
That voice, that still voice that you hear in us,
is always with you.
You don't have to go lookingfor it, you have to just spend
time with you to hear from it.
Right, a lot of the times we'retrying to fix the adult, but
it's not the adult that isbroken, it's the inner child
that is in you.
It's the children in us, thechild within us, that have never

(00:23):
been healed from the childhoodtrauma that is showing up in the
adult life.
Hello, hello, hello.
Welcome back to the Money IsFor you podcast brought to you
in collaboration with notableWealth Management Inc.
We are in season two of theMoney Is For you podcast, and my

(00:43):
name is Jacqueline Correa, thehost for this journey.
So today we're going to act.
Today's episode is a littlespecial and we are going to talk
a little bit about why Istarted Money Is For you, and
we're going to dive in into thepsychology of money and your
money blueprint.
So I've actually brought todaysome toys.

(01:05):
You know, as children, we playwith toys, so I thought, you
know, I'll bring some people inhere with me today to be my
illustration for what I'mactually going to talk about.
So before I get started, though, so I always believe that
everybody can have a successfullife.
I don't think you have to bethe elites to actually have a

(01:30):
life in abundance.
I believe everybody can havethat life, and so when I said
money is for you, I trulybelieve that everybody should
and be able to have that moneycoming to you, flowing to you
abundantly, and that was why thename Money Is For you came in.

(01:52):
When I actually there was somethings happened within my own
dynamic, which was with my son.
When it first happened and ithad happened a couple of times
and I think it's by the third orfourth time I'd seen it I
realized that there was somepatterns, and what I noticed was
it was that he was, he was likeemulating, he was saying things

(02:16):
that I saw in my mother and Iwas like but wait a minute, this
child wasn't raised by my mom,why does he have all these
mannerisms?
And he's speaking the way mymom would speak.
What I didn't realize was itwas I was programmed, and so my
son was now repeating what hehad seen me do and I didn't

(02:38):
realize that.
So I actually went down therabbit hole and I did some
research, and in doing myresearch, I realized that I'd
seen some of these patterns alsoin my clients.
So have you ever thought or haveyou ever seen a situation where
one person had a dream andthey're manifesting, and their

(03:01):
manifestation came to lightquickly.
And then the other person youknow, every year they do their
goal settings and whatnot, andnothing ever comes of it.
And for some reason, years goby and they're still struggling
and they're still trying to makeends meet.
But here is I want to call herdiva.
Diva says, he says she wants anew car and within three weeks

(03:25):
she got herself a new car.
Or she wanted, you know, apartner, a life partner.
She gets that partner.
She wants to start a business,everything that she manifests or
dreamed about, she'ssuccessfully getting it.
And then here we have Karen.
Yeah, karen, I like the nameKaren because there's always
drama coming with Karen.
Yeah, karen, I like the nameKaren because there's always

(03:45):
drama coming with Karen.
But then Karen is just that, nomatter what she says, you know,
her relationships fall apart,her finances fall apart and no
matter what she does in life,she just never seemed to get
ahead.
And so in my research, whatI've come to realize was it's
not that, you know Karen, therewas nothing wrong.

(04:07):
Well, there is some thingswrong with Karen, but what Karen
is walking around with issomebody else's programming,
right?
So here is Karen.
She wants to have a good life,but she has childhood trauma
that she's never dealt with.
And then she has limitedbeliefs that she has also never

(04:32):
dealt with and she doesn't feelthat she's worthy to be wealthy
or to have the good things inlife, and she says it
continuously.
And Karen is also very insecure.
She doesn't think she'sbeautiful, she doesn't think
she's worthy to have the thingsshe wants in life.
And then, bigger and more thananything else, she's walking
around with OPP.
And OPP stands for otherpeople's problems, right,

(04:53):
because she's taking on mom'sproblems, maybe dad's problems,
whatever, maybe her own problems, her children's problems.
So she's walking around allthese things.
And then, last but not least,she has a big ego and her ego is
overcoming opinion of others.
So here she is again.
She's not too.

(05:13):
You know, she's always insecurebecause maybe an older sister
tells her she wasn't good enough, or maybe a parent didn't tell
her she was good enough, or ateacher didn't tell her she was
good enough, and all thesethings now.
And she has like, maybe, let's,sayaren is about in her 30s, or
maybe even 40s, or even 45,even 50, but she's never dealt

(05:34):
with these dramas.
So you imagine karen is walkingaround with this for 50 years
on her shoulder.
So if she tries to manifest,she'll never, ever get it
because all these things aregoing through her mind.
Right, these are what she'sdealing with the childhood drama
that she never dealt with,which could be you never know,

(05:56):
it could be either she wasmolested or she was beaten or
she saw her parents strugglefinancially.
But all these things she'swalking around with.
And until Karen decides toclean up the trauma, the limited
beliefs, the insecurities,other people's property and

(06:18):
overthinking or overcoming otherpeople's opinion, then she
could start living the diva'slife.
And this doesn't happenovernight.
It doesn't happen overnight, ittakes time, it's an ongoing
journey.
I like to call it, I actuallycall it the journey of
self-investigation.
So when you actually starttaking the time to start dealing

(06:40):
with certain things andsometimes we don't even know
that we have it because we'rewalking around with, we're
unconscious A lot of this stuffis it's, it's in there, it's in
our subconscious mind and wedon't even know it's there.
And, as I said, even myselfsometimes when I think my life
is good and everything's greatand then something happens and I
have to step back and says,okay, where is that coming from?

(07:03):
Is that somebody else's programand I'm walking around with, or
is this my program?
So we're going to go throughsome of the steps as to, based
on my investigation, what I havecome to find out and based on
my own experience, because a lotof the stuff, even though I did
the experience, I also had todo the work.
So I'm sitting here todaybecause I've had at least 40

(07:27):
years of well, I shouldn't say40.
I started this journey probablywhen I was 28, because I already
had my son, more for myself andmy son and I knew what I was

(07:49):
hearing from the people aroundme was not who I was, but I also
did not like I had to go do thework.
I had to do the work.
It didn't take.
It takes time.
So for me, I journal a lot, Ido a lot of mirror work and I do
a lot of self-coaching.
You know I say to people maybeyou might need to speak to
someone, but for me I had to.
I do a lot of mirror work and Ido a lot of self-coaching.
You know, I say to people maybeyou might need to speak to
someone, but for me, I had to.
I did a lot of self-coachingmyself.

(08:11):
I read a lot of books and Icall those books my mentors,
because I'm reading from thepeople who have also solved a
lot of the problems.
So, even though these problemscan relate back to deeper
situation, I'm going to keep itwithin the financial part of it,
which is what is your moneyfoundation?

(08:33):
So your money foundation isunique program of beliefs that
you have about money, whichinfluence your financial habits
and decisions.
Your money functions are oftenformed during your childhood and

(08:54):
the influential people are likeyour family members, society,
your teachers, the government,all of those.
So basically, the government,all of those.
So basically, you come out tothis world and somebody
basically train you or youbasically are programmed and we
are all.
So I'm not special, everybodyis programmed, doesn't matter

(09:16):
who you are.
We are programmed from thepeople, from the television,
from the newspaper that we read.
We're all programmed.
So you know, it's just until webecome consciously aware of
these patterns.
That's when we know that thereis something wrong or we're
feeling that things are notworking for us.
So we need to do somethingdifferent.

(09:37):
Your money function is oftenformed during your childhood and
it's influenced your familydynamic, society norms and
personal experience.
It allows you to identifypatterns that may be holding you
back from achieving yourfinancial success.
So we live in a world ofduality.

(10:01):
Just like it's hot and cold,there's left and right, there's
up and down, when it comes to usas humanity, as a human being,
we live in a life of duality.
So, basically, we have fourparts to us, four body parts, or
we're talking it where we havethe mental, we have the

(10:22):
emotional, we have the spiritual, and whatever is going on in
those three shows up in thephysical.
So when we talk about theduality, it's whatever is
showing up in your physical iswhat's going on in the three
other pieces of your life, whichis the spiritual man, the
emotional man and the mental man.

(10:44):
Right?
So if something is nothappening that you like in the
physical, you cannot go outsideof you to fix it.
You have to go inward, you haveto make time, you have to go
into silence, you have tomeditate, you have to journal,
you have to spend time withyourself, and that is how you're

(11:05):
going to find out what's reallygoing on.
You know the scriptures talkabout be still and know that,
that I am God.
Be still and know that you areGod.
That's what the scripture istelling you.
So when you become still, thatstill voice within yourself
guides you to the right answer.

(11:26):
We call it intuition.
You know the deep thoughts, notthe thoughts where our head is
saying you're not worthy, I'mnot special.
You know I have lack.
That's not what I'm talkingabout.
I'm talking about the one thatwhen you get it, there's a piece
that comes with it that youknow is the piece that surpasses
all understanding.
And that answer is always youknow what you know what you know

(11:48):
.
That's the peace I'm talking.
But a lot of people don't makethe time to spend time with
themselves, so they don't knowthat voice.
But that voice is always there.
That inner man, that God-likeperson, is always with us.
You don't have to be aChristian to be it.
You were born with it.
You are a spirit that came intothe earth and become flesh.

(12:09):
It's not the other way around.
So that voice, that still voicethat you hear in us, is always
with you.
You don't have to go lookingfor it, you have to just spend
time with you to hear from it.
To just spend time with you tohear from it.

(12:30):
So, just as I said, everythinghappens twice first on the
inside and then on the outsideright.
So there is the outer laws ofmoney and there is also the
inner laws of money.
So the outer law of money isthe business knowledge, the
money management, the investmentstrategy, the risk management,
and these are all essential.
So I'm a wealth builder, I'm alicensed financial advisor, but

(12:55):
I'm also I call myself thewealth builder and I can teach
my clients and this is why Ialso feel it was important to
educate.
So, share this with you andalso for you.
If you're wondering why it isthat now you may have you're in
the third year, third term ofbankruptcy.
Maybe these are some of thethings that you need to look at

(13:15):
your life.
It's not the fact that you knowyou're in third bankruptcy.
Maybe you need to step inwithin yourself and look back
and say what it is in my pastthat I have not dealt with that
is now showing up in my adultlife.
Right, a lot of the times we'retrying to fix the adult, but
it's not the adult that isbroken, it's the inner child

(13:37):
that is in you that is broken,the child, the small child.
The past is what you need tofix.
I think Bob Marley's son sang asong you will never know your
future until you know your past.
And that's where we all have togo.
We're like, as I said, I had todo the work, I'm still doing
the work and I will continue todo the work until I die, because
when I think that I'm got ittogether, something will pop up

(14:01):
again in, in, in our, in our,you know, making for me to go
check to see, okay, what's goingon.
So, again, if you want tobecome successful and, as I said
, we need I've showed here, I'vetold you the business knowledge
, the money management, theinvesting, risk management, all
of that there is important tolive in the physical, but we

(14:23):
have to fix the inner so thatwhat is showing up in front of
us is going to be successful,and it's not a short-term
successful, we're talking aboutlong-term.
So when you start to do your networth statement, you just see
the dollars and whatever you'retrying and I'm talking finances
in my side, because that's who Iam, I'm a wealth builder, but

(14:47):
it could be the fact that youmight be looking for a husband,
or you might be looking to starta family, or you want to buy a
house, whatever it is.
What I know for a fact is thefact that, because the money is
something that we have to use tolive on earth, most of the
times when we have blockages, itshows up in the finances.

(15:09):
It's just that's the name ofthe beast, unfortunately,
because you're not functioningin the capacity that you should.
Where it shows up there, right,and I mean everything takes
time.
Everything takes time.
As I said, I've been doing thissince I was 28.
I'm 58 now and I'm never goingto stop.
And when I think I got throughwhat I need to get through, as I

(15:32):
said, sometimes things pop upagain, or, as I call it, nelly
turns up in me again, which ismy mother Right.
So some of the things that youneed to ask yourself when you're
going through the healingprocess is the inner laws of
money.
So the question, one of thequestions I always ask my client

(15:52):
who are you?
And I think sometimes peopleget to that place like what do
you mean who I am?
So I was once coaching thisindividual and I asked the
question who are you?
Because there was just the hercharacter at the time.
She was just not.
I've never seen it before.
And I said you know who are you?
And she just keep oncomplaining about how everybody

(16:15):
is doing her something and she'sgoing to prove to them that
she's right.
And and I kept saying, well,who are you?
And she never answered me.
But when I went, so, so when Isay the inner laws of money is
who are you?
How are you thinking?
What are you?
What are your beliefs andthoughts?
How, how you feel aboutyourself, and do you truly feel

(16:39):
you deserve wealth?
What is the ability?
What is your ability to actdespite of fear, worries or
inconvenience, despite ofdiscomfort?
So I'm going to go back to thewho are you?
Who are you?
Is that, when I asked thatquestion to her that day, was I

(17:01):
wanted her to step back andreally recognize what's going on
, meaning take accountability,be responsible for your actions.
Right, because when you, for me, I have a higher self within me
that pulls me up when I'm outof line, when my character is

(17:24):
not in line, and sometimes Ilaugh with that higher self, but
because I have done the workand I'm in tune with myself that
sometimes, when that character,when that inner God within me
says to me you need to takeaccountability for your actions
or you need to be responsiblefor what you just did, it kind

(17:45):
of makes me check myself andrealize that this is what I'm
doing is not right.
So, when we talk about who areyou is, are you walking in,
complete into in your spiritualGod, in your spiritual self, in
your higher self, to know thatwhatever you're trying to do or

(18:06):
acting out on, is you operatingin the ego self or the lower
self of who you are, other thanoperating from a spiritual self
where you're allowing if youknow there's something's going
on in your life or you feel thatthese people are doing
something is more for you tostep back.
Because I'll tell you, if youwant to change who you are or

(18:32):
you want to change the peoplethat are around you, you first
have to change who you are.
You have to make changes foryourself, within yourself, so
that you can become a better you, and so that is something that
when I say you have to askyourself who are you, the inner
laws of money is very critical,and it will determine the level

(18:57):
of your financial success.
So, as I said, if you that'sthe first place you go, ask
yourself those questions andI'll be honest with you, if you
become still within yourself,the answers will come.
And, as I said, I do thejournal thing.
I love my journaling.
I love it because it actuallyallows me to look back in time

(19:19):
and says oh my God, this iswhere I was.
Oh, wow, I have growntremendously.
So I love journaling.
The laws of cause and effect.
So I'll give you a littleillustration of this.
A seed planted in the earthtakes root and grow.
At the end of the journey, atiny seed bloom and become a

(19:40):
plant, a fruit.
The seed is the invisible.
The cause is what the seedcreated.
The visible, the effect, whichis the plant or the fruit.
The law of cause and effect.

(20:03):
In your life, your thoughts andyour feelings are the seeds,
the cause, what you think, fusedwith what you feel, the emotion
, produces the effect, thecondition, those things which

(20:23):
you see in your life Right.
So operate in.
Whether you plant positivethoughts or negative thoughts,
the seed will produce goodthoughts or good feelings or
negative ones, it doesn't matter.
It will give you in kind is theseed.

(20:45):
So what are you saying everyday.
Remember, I said to you aboutKaren.
These are what Karen isprobably saying to herself every
day, right, she's actuallyfeels she's no good, she's
holding on to childhood trauma,she's listening, she has limited
beliefs.
These are the things that sheis thinking every day, feeling
every day, right, because, as Isaid, whatever you're thinking,

(21:09):
whatever your thoughts are,you're feeling them.
Those are the emotion.
So, therefore, this is whyKaren can't have the successful
life that Deaver have or thatshe wants, not so much what
Deaver have, but her success islimited because she's holding on
to all these negative things,right, all the negative stuff

(21:32):
that she hasn't worked on isshowing up in her life, and this
is why she's unable to becomesuccessful.
And it's not because she's abad person or it's just that she
has to work through the process.
She has to heal her wounds,right?
Her mother wounds, her fatherwounds, her insecurities, her

(21:54):
limited beliefs.
She just has to take care ofthose.
And so those are what herfinancial blueprint.
Because of all of this, herfinancial blueprint is coming up
to zero, or to the lack, or tothe insufficient, or whatever
you want to call it right.

(22:14):
So where do these thoughts comefrom?
And, as I explained it righthere, it comes through the
original files that we havestored.
So Karen has had these filesstored up in her head, in her
subconscious mind, and they'vebeen there since she was a child

(22:35):
.
So, even if she tries torecorrect it, or sometimes you
find that people may sometimesable to move forward, or they're
able to create this ego mindsetand says, okay, I'm going to
show you, I'm going to do this,and they end up making like
maybe 200,000 a year and whatnot, and then before the next year

(22:57):
they end up being zero, back tozero again and you're like but
why is that?
Right, I had a.
I had a neighbor that livednext to me.
She the the whole one of thehomes in the princess, princess
um margaret hospital thing andwithin three years she was
renting again.
Right, again she.
She had all the right thoughtsto win it but she couldn't keep

(23:22):
it because all the other stuffhere we go again was still there
.
Right, she, she didn'tunderstand first had to fix
certain things that were brokenin herself.
So right, because for her, herblueprint is set for renting.
It's just that.
Right, she's just happy renting.

(23:44):
Not that she's happy, butthat's what makes, that's where
she feels she's comfortable with.
She makes you know three 4,000,she'd prefer to pay the rent
than actually owns a property,because to that is just a
different stress that shecouldn't handle, right.
So it just it's just pastprogramming that is within her
that she's holding onto andthat's what she's holding on to

(24:06):
and that's what she's operatingwith.
So, majority of time people areasleep, they're operating
unconsciously and don't evenrealize it.
Right, they're on autopilot, sothey're actually operating in
somebody else's program andthey're not even realizing it
until they start to do the workor become consciously aware and

(24:26):
start living in the presentmoment, to see some of these
things.
Okay, how is your moneyfoundation?
How your money foundation wasformed, as I said, from
information we receive in thepast, and especially as a young
child, that plays a humongous,humongous role, especially a
child from zero to seven, thatis the most precious time for

(24:48):
them, and so a lot of that stuffis stored in that and then it
continues to keep adding to it,right?
It's like, as I said, walkingaround with these weights on our
shoulders every day, every day.
After a while you get tired,right, and after a while it just
becomes a part of life.
You think this is the way it'ssupposed to be.

(25:11):
Who were your primary source ofprogramming and conditioning?
As I said before, the adults,your parents, your siblings, the
authority figures, teachers,religion leaders, medias and the
culture in which we live in.
How was your money foundation?
Well, how was it formed?

(25:31):
All those teaching became yourprogramming, as I said before,
and your conditioning, whichcomes as an automatic response,
which influenced the financialhabits and decisions that you
make Unless, as I said, yourewire and revise your money
blueprint.
So we are all programmed inthree different ways.

(25:59):
First, verbal conditioning whatdid you hear?
The other one is observationconditioning, or modeling what
did you see?
So, what did you see growing upas a child?
What did you hear growing up asa child?
And then the third one isspecific incidents what did you

(26:20):
experience when you were young?
So you know, I think we allheard this saying.
For the verbal communication,which is the first, influence,
money is the root of all evil.
Money doesn't grow on tree,save for a rainy day.
I'm guilty of that one.
Rich people are greedy.

(26:40):
Money don't grow on trees.
That was always my mom'sfavorite.
What am I made of Money?
That was another one.
My mom always say I am broke,life is a struggle.
Those two last ones I'm goingto talk about I am broke.
Now imagine you're saying youwalk around and say I'm broke,

(27:01):
and I say this all the time.
Life and death is in the powerof the town.
What a man thinks eventuallywill come out of his mouth.
What is a man's hearteventually will come out of his
mouth.
Whatever he's thinking, hebecomes right.
So you could say I'm broke.

(27:21):
You could end up with a brokenheart, a broken foot, a broken
life.
It's not just broke money,right, the word broke, it's that
our tongue is a mixing bowl.
We are creators and everythingwe do or say, we are creating it
with our tongue.
So we have to be very carefulof the words that we continue to

(27:44):
choose, because it affects howour life comes.
We are the creators of ourlives.
We create the life that we want.
Whether you want to believe itor not, we are.
You could sit back and reflectand think about the things that
you have said, that are showingup today in your life, that
you've called upon yourselfwithout even realizing it.

(28:05):
So we just have to be veryconsciously aware of how we are
functioning.
We just have to right and lifeis a struggle.
I dated a guy once and that wasevery month and he said that
Life is a struggle Every time.
I ask him how are you doing?
Life is a struggle.
You know, he needed $2,000 amonth for his rent and he was

(28:29):
always short 200.
And I used to say to him howcould you be self-employed and
still short 200 every month?
His blueprint was just set for1800, that's just, that's it.
His blueprint was set for 1800,nothing more.
He did not know what to do.
After that, to 1800 came rightand and I used to say to him you

(28:51):
understand, you can go back outand do another deal, or you
know, and the time he was todrive, he used to drive Uber, I
think it was and I said you know, you can just go pick up a
couple more clients, right, buthe just somehow, once he get
that 1800, he was stuck.
He didn't know how to get evengas in the car and just said no,
this is not going to work forme.
I know.
I even used to say to him youknow, I would try to motivate

(29:12):
him.
He goes you know, that doesn'twork for me.
That doesn't work for me pleasedon't, don't tell me, that
doesn't work for me.
And then the same time he, hewould say to me God, turn his
back on him.
I'm like, okay, maybe you turnyour back on yourself.
So eventually that didn't workfor me.
And I said, no, babes, you gotto go, because this is not where
I'm trying to build my life.
I was I mean, in those times too, I was actually going through

(29:35):
my own financial struggle,because when I met him, I was in
and I could see why also, Iattracted this individual
because I was, I had lost my joband I was putting my kids to
university and I was trying torebuild my life and I was in the
lowest dimension ofconsciousness in my life.
I had just started back workingand I had just started to build

(29:57):
back my life.
So I was in that low vibrationalso.
So, as I said, I look back nowand I could see why I attracted
this person, because I myselfwas trying to figure out my own
finances, because I was beinglaid off for two years and I was
trying to get back on my feet.
And this is why I said and tome at that time was very
important who I brought into myspace.

(30:18):
So his behavior and his actionand his words was not what I
wanted to hear when I was tryingto lift my life back from out
of a pit of hell or to pick apig of, or the pit of the gutter
or whatever you want to call it.
And see, and it's important whoyou have surrounding you and
his thoughts and his words iswas not aligning with who I was.

(30:40):
So I said, babes, you got to goand I quickly closed that
relationship off.
Um, the second influence is ummodeling.
What have you modeled?
What was?
What was your family umattitude towards money?
Uh, while you were growinggrowing up, how did they, how
did your parents, um or yourguardian approach your financial

(31:04):
matters?
Did they both good?
Were they good with money?
Were they able to handle theirfinancial responsibility?
Were they spenders or savers?
Did they take risk with moneyor were they more conservatives?
Was money a source of happinessor were they always fighting?

(31:28):
All of those things matterbecause then you'll know why
sometimes you're constantly inthis tug of war for financial
struggle, or you're alwayslooking for you know it's like
you can never or you're alwaysfighting with your partner,
because these are, this is whatyou saw as a child.
You saw that as a child.
And now you're repeating thesame cycle, right?
So these are.

(31:49):
This is this is secondinfluence.
This is second influence.
And then the third one isspecific incident.
So I had a client.
She had a daughter and herdaughter's father had passed
away before she turned 18.

(32:10):
And so he did not put a trusteeon the life insurance, but she
was the beneficiary.
And when she turned 18, theinsurance company paid out the
money to her and within twoyears she was in more financial
struggle.
She was like she literally hadto go bankrupt and moving back

(32:32):
with her mother, and what hadhappened here was in her case.
She saw this money, this check,as pain, thought that this

(32:56):
money is, is is.
She doesn't want it because itcaused her pain.
She lost her dad in thissituation, right?
So again, what is money mean toyou?
You have to find that out.
You have to ask yourself whatwould you see Like for me when I
was growing up, my parents wereentrepreneurs, so I always and
I had to be a part of of theirbuilding their business like
when I came home from school, mymom would say to me you can't

(33:19):
just come home.
If you don't have homework, yougot to come in and you have to
help me.
So from a very early age Ilearned that money was an
exchange I provide a service andI get paid for it.
So for me and I see that allwith my siblings is that we
learn very early that if weprovide a service, we'll get
paid for it, right?

(33:40):
So that's what we saw.
I have another situation wherethis young lady, beautiful young
lady I'll call her Karen andshe graduated from university.
She, you know, can get any jobshe wants, but she does not feel
she needs to work.
She's 28 years of age, and thereason why was when her mother

(34:05):
was younger and she had just shejust born.
Her mother was in a dynamicrelationship that she had to
move back in with her parents,with the grandmother, and so
what she saw was papa, which isthe grandfather, was the
provider for the family.
So, even though this individualcame back home, which is her

(34:30):
mother, she never worked in aday in her life.
So Papa was now taking care ofhis wife, his daughter and now
the granddaughter.
So in the eyes of Karen, shefeels that it's the man's job to
go and work while the womenstay home.

(34:52):
So these are what specificincidents that you see that is
causing you the blockage ofsucceeding.
These are all things.
I mean, these are some things,but it's an important thing.
And, as I mentioned before, wehave four quadrants, we are four
bodies and, as I said, it's themental world, the emotional

(35:14):
world, the spiritual world andthe physical world.
The mental world is where theego lies, um, often seeking
validation and control, whichcan lead to stress negative
thoughts, and it's not managedproperly, right?
Um, we can go back to karen,where and I said to you, I used
to mentor Karen and you know,there was some stuff going on in

(35:38):
her life and I asked her whoare you?
And her answer was she wasgoing to prove them wrong, that
she was right and they were.
They were wrong.
It's because she's operatedfrom a state of ego, her mental
state, her self-talk, herself-sabotaging, as saying, you
know, telling herself how good,she's good and she doesn't need
anybody, and blah, blah, blahand all of that.

(35:59):
That is the mental talk withinher that is going on back and
forth, that is creating who sheis today.
And, as I said, karen couldmake money, but Karen will lose
all the money because Karen doesnot realize that she had
childhood trauma that she'snever dealt with, right, she
doesn't feel she's worthy tohave this money.
Again, the emotional world isthe inner child.

(36:21):
That is the key to most of ourconfusion today.
A lot of the times it's not theadult that is running the world
, it's the children in us, thechild within us that have never
been healed from the childhoodtrauma that is showing up in the
adult life.
You ever sometimes somebody'stalking to you and you're like

(36:42):
what?
That person doesn't sound.
Who's this person?
And it's because they're likeblabbering, but it's actually
there that that pain from theinner child is showing up in
their adult life.
Right, it's the inner childthat holds the experience and
the feeling influencing ourcurrent emotional response.
And I'll tell you a story ofmyself.

(37:03):
For me, when I was growing upas a little girl, I used to get
a lot, a lot of whippings.
I mean whippings to the pointwhere, um, you know, I love my
mom, she's gone and everything,but I used to have brands in my
back.
That's how bad it was.
And many times you say tomyself, like, why is this woman
even doing this to me?

(37:23):
Because I couldn't ever believethat I did something wrong.
Like you know, sometimes it wasthe silliest things.
But as I grew older and when Istarted to do the work, I
realized that my mom was dealingwith her own personal stuff,
like, for instance, the factthat she was she, her mother had

(37:45):
passed and so she was placed,she was in an orphanage and she
was, you know, she was there fora time.
So there was a lot ofinsecurities and then, you know,
there's just a lot of thingsgoing on in her life and so a
lot of her frustration she tookon me.
I'm not saying it's right orwrong, I'm just saying that's
what happened.
Um, but the other thing was mymom had this way of again when

(38:10):
she raised her voice.
Mom had this way of again whenshe raised her voice.
She was very bellowed about itand you know, I was raised in a
household where things shouldyou should be, children should
be seen and not heard.
So when my mom started like loudtalking or, you know, trying to
get my attention to do whatevershe wants, I found well, I
didn't know at the time I wouldgo within myself and I would

(38:34):
lose myself, like literally.
I got quiet and I shied awayand I did not even realize that
this pattern was showing up inmy adult life.
So now I'm in a relationshipthat I love dearly and I have a
good man, but sometimes when weargue, I would go into that
person and I didn't even know Iwas doing it.
I just knew that I was in theego stage where it's like it's

(38:59):
all about him, he's the onewho's doing it, and I could hear
the chatters in my head andthis is why I said we always
have to continue to do the work.
And it got to a point where Iwas like, really, really upset
and I was like I'm not dealingwith this nonsense because the
ego is coming out right.
I'm like why do I have to livewith this kind of thing?
But I knew my relationship isworth fighting for.
So I went into the stillnesswithin myself and I said you

(39:21):
know, show me what it is about.
Why does this keep coming up inmy relationship?
Why does it keep popping up?
And my higher, the God withinme, the Holy Spirit, the spirit,
whatever you want to call itshowed me and said and it showed
it brought me back to aparticular moment that I could

(39:42):
remember, when I was in a shopand my mom snapped at me and I
got really quiet.
I remember sitting in the chair, but this time there was a
gentleman who had come to to buypoultry, buy stuff from us, and
my mom had gone to the back toget the stuff and he had said
you did good.
And I was like, what do youmean you did good?

(40:03):
I said I didn't say anything.
He said, yeah, you didn'tanswer her back and this was why
I was able to remember theparticular Pacific incident that
triggered me back to that onetime when she, when she spoke,
he reminded me or he brought meback to present that.
I remember when she snapped atme and I went deep within myself

(40:25):
, but when I, when I rereflected now, there were many
times I had done that over mylifetime with friends and
whatnot, when things weregetting in a certain way, I
would cut off the relationshipbefore I got hurt because I was
like I'm going to protect myself, because that's what I was
doing.
I was going to protect myselfbefore you hurt me.
And so again, this was apattern in my own life where my

(40:50):
inner child was turning up intothe adult world and the adult in
me, but it wasn't the adult wasshowing up, it was the child
was showing up.
So this is why, if you don'tspend time with yourself and be
and make time for yourself, maketime to love you right?
This is why I started theself-love program.
The self-love Fridays wasbecause are you making time to

(41:15):
love you?
Are you making time foryourself to get to know the true
you right?
So until you start to do thework, you're not going to know
that these are things that needhealing, and I mean you're doing
it, so I'm doing it so that Ican have a better life with my
grandchildren, so that I canbreak the cycle for the next
generation Right.

(41:36):
And then there's the spiritualworld, and the spiritual man is
tied into the consciousness, thepeace, the peace, peace,
encouragement, growth,connection and understanding of
our all purpose in life.
So if you can get those threethings right and if you can get
the mental and the emotionalright, then you can get the
spiritual man right and then youcan get everything right,

(41:58):
because when you are operatingfrom your higher self, the god
self, everything is balanced.
Everything is flowing to you,everything is flow into you and
flowing out to you what is notfor you will flow past you,
right, and that's that's becausea spiritual man is trying to
lead you to your purpose, forwhat we were created to be.

(42:21):
But many of us can't do what wewere called to do because we're
walking around with thesethings right, so we can't tap
into the fullness and theabundance, like we can have the
life of abundance.
We just have to do a little bitof the work.
We have to stop running fromourselves and stop and just

(42:42):
check in Me.
I love the lake.
I spend a lot of time in that Iwent through over the years.
So all of that is important.

(43:02):
It's not just about, you know,just trying to deal with it from
the outside.
You have to deal with it fromthe inside.
So, as I said, those, as Imentioned as the four pieces
that you have to work through,and if you work through that man
like you'll have a good life.
And, as I said, the work neveris finished.

(43:23):
It's never, never is finished.
So the step for change, some ofthe things that you can do for
yourself, as I said, it's ajourney of self-investigation.
I'm the queen of that.
Um, one of the things reflecton the messages you receive
about money during yourchildhood, and you can do this

(43:43):
for anything.
But, as I said, I'm a financialadvisor, I am a wealth builder,
your wealth builder, and so,for me, I'm going to tap into
the financial part of it.
So everything I do, as I said,money is for you, and this is
the reason I bring it back towhat I said.
This was the reason why Icreated money is for you,
because I know that each andevery one of us can have a life

(44:04):
of abundance.
You can have everything youwant, not some things, like you
hear people say.
You can have everything yourheart's desire.
But, as I said, you may have todo some of the work and that's
okay.
Also, you just have to bepatient with yourself.
Um, consider what financialbehaviors were um demonstrated

(44:25):
in your family and anysignificant emotion events
related to money.
Um, you know, and I said tolearn more about this or, if you
want to, you know, talk to meabout it.
You can send me an email atinfo at n w m incca, and just,

(44:47):
you know, and I, we can go fromthere.
So, again, if you like thiscontent, we can go from there.
So, again, if you like thiscontent, click the link.
There's more to come and um,make sure you forward, subscribe
, send out to your friends.
Um, again, reach out to me ifyou want to talk more about this

(45:12):
.
Um, I will be, uh, doing somecourses coming up in the fall,
and one of them we will talkmore about the four bodies, how
to heal it.
Um, we also going to talk aboutthe chakras cause, not only and
I didn't go into that Um, youknow, some people are still
within the third dimension andthey're just about this religion
and stuff, but we have sevenchakras in our body and, trust

(45:33):
me, if your body is stuck andyou're stuck here, it's going to
affect you.
And the third, the three firstchakras, which is the, the eye
chakra, the throat chakra andthe heart chakra, has a lot to
do with the internal.
They show up in the, the lowerthree, which is your, your tummy

(45:53):
, your, um, the solar plex, yourbelly, and your, your root
chakra.
That's this sometimes where youhear women have a lot of pains
or they have, you know, end upwith certain sicknesses, or even
men, and it's showing up in thelower part because that's your
physical part.
But the three top part.
If you can get these threeright, you can heal your body.

(46:15):
So that's another part, acontinuation of the four bodies,
and then the chakra, and thenit's about healing the bodies
and it's all about.
You know, it's, as I said, it'san ongoing work.
These are things on top of whatI do and I've just connected
the two how, when your body isnot in line or you're stuck, how

(46:36):
it shows up in your finances.
But there are courses that we'regoing to be coming soon, that
I'm going to be working on.
Some are going to be with due,with finances.
Especially, I want to targetself-employed, small business
owners and also families, butmore so the young entrepreneurs

(46:58):
that are coming out.
I have a lot to offer.
I've been doing this businessfor 13 years and there's a lot
that we go through prospectinghow to build.
The most important part is howto keep your fiscal organization
in order.
That's a course that I'm comingin and also how to grow your

(47:25):
income, how to grow your wealth,some of the things that you
have to do.
I will start you from where youare and just how we can build
your network statement.
How to keep track of yourexpenses.
How can you know all that stuff?
It's needed.
It's needed for you to besuccessful.
A lot of this stuff I had to domyself and I think it's time
for me to start sharing thisknowledge because I'm a teacher.

(47:48):
That's what God, that's my gift, that's my purpose is to teach,
is to educate, and I'm for mycommunity.
I mean, I'm a I'm a West Indiankind of gal, I'm a Guyanese
Canadian, and my community needsme and I think it's time for me
to start giving back to thecommunity.
So we will be having somecourses coming in the fall.

(48:09):
Look forward to this again.
If you like what you see today,click on the link, share the
video.
You know and remember money isfor you.
And also one of my other booksthat I need to.
Everybody needs this book.
If you're 18 years and over,you need this book.
You need this book, like thisweek I had three of my clients

(48:32):
in the hospital with a criticalillness.
If something happened to youtomorrow, where's your stuff?
If anybody knows where yourstuff is, this book will guide
you.
It doesn't take the place ofthe will of a powerful attorney,
because you still need that Ifthere's monies to be collected.
If you don't have a will andpower of attorney, your family

(48:55):
can't help you, this book alsowill help you, but you still
need those things.
You can get this book on Amazon.
So, again, get yourself a copytoday and again, money is for
you and I'll see you on the nextshow.
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