#160 | How Redefining Mothering Helped Me Grow as an LGBTQ Ally and Parent

This episode intricately examines the nuanced dimensions of mothering, positioning it as a fundamental aspect of the human experience. Through a contemplative lens, I reflect on the lessons and emotions tied to the act of mothering, particularly as I celebrate my daughter Isabelle's graduation from college. The narrative traverses the landscape of memory, encapsulating moments of joy, challenge, and inevitable change. As I talk about the significance of mothering, I challenge the audience to acknowledge the diverse expressions of this practice, which encompass not only biological connections but also the myriad ways in which individuals contribute to the nurturing of others. I emphasize the strength found in vulnerability and the importance of recognizing the often unseen acts of care that permeate our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with mothering, both as recipients and as givers of care. Ultimately, the episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to the enduring power of love and the sacredness of nurturing relationships.

Takeaways:

• The concept of mothering transcends traditional definitions, embodying a universal and profound essence.
• Mothering encompasses nurturing, witnessing, and guiding without exerting control over others.
• Engaging in mothering is a human capacity that can manifest in various forms and relationships.
• The act of mothering often occurs in the quiet moments, unnoticed yet deeply impactful.
• Letting go is one of the most challenging aspects of mothering, requiring trust and faith.
• Reflecting on who has mothered us can reveal the often unseen connections in our lives.

Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

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