What does it really mean to affirm an LGBTQ+ child - and why does it matter so much more than just saying “I love you no matter what”?
In today’s powerful and practical episode, Heather explores how safety for LGBTQ+ youth begins not just in policy or protection, but in the everyday relationships that hold them. From correcting a pronoun without guilt, to celebrating milestones with joy, to staying curious instead of controlling, this episode offers a blueprint for parents, educators, and allies to show up with presence, compassion, and intention.
- Learn the 3 pillars of affirming relationships: Presence Over Perfection, Curiosity Without Control, and Allyship in Action
- Discover real-life language shifts, reflection practices, and parenting tools you can start using today
- Understand why affirmation isn’t one moment - it’s an ongoing relationship, and one of the greatest gifts you can give a young person
Press play to learn how to be a source of safety, trust, and joy for the LGBTQ+ youth in your life—starting right now.
RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT
Family Acceptance Project – https://familyproject.sfsu.edu
Trevor Project Guide for Allies – https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources
PFLAG Parent Guide – https://pflag.org
Parenting with Pride – My book includes affirming scripts, self-reflection prompts, and deeper dives into building trust.
And of course, our Kind Space community is always open to those walking this journey together.
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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate...
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