Are you heading to a holiday weekend gathering with your LGBTQ child where not everyone is affirming and you're wondering how to protect their well-being without creating more tension?
For many families, gatherings (family or otherwise) bring complicated emotions. When your child is LGBTQ+ and not everyone in the room is supportive, the stakes get higher. In this episode, Heather offers heartfelt, practical guidance to help you lead with courage, protect your peace, and prioritize what matters most: your child’s well-being and your own.
- Learn how to set compassionate, non-negotiable boundaries with extended family and friends
- Use simple scripts to respond to misgendering, microaggressions, or toxic conversations
- Explore ways to re-center your child and yourself before, during, and after family gatherings
Press play to feel more grounded, prepared, and empowered to lead with kindness and courage this holiday season, for your LGBTQ child and your whole family.
RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT
Resource: PFLAG’s “When Someone You Love Is LGBTQ+” Guide
Why it matters: This is a gentle, practical guide you can even share with family members who are trying, but struggling, to understand. It’s clear, respectful, and designed to build bridges.
Other helpful resources:
- LGBTQ Family Acceptance Toolkit – The Trevor Project
- Family Acceptance Project – Research-based resources for families navigating identity and belonging
- Chrysalis Mama Articles – My own words and experience
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