John Graham Jr. on Healing, Love, and Building Upfront for the Culture

On this episode of More Than A Title, Im chopping it up with my co-hosts Chadeo and Nadege as we welcome a powerful voiceJohn Graham Jr., CEO of Upfront and the mind behind the groundbreaking book Plantation Theory: The Black Professionals Struggle Between Freedom & Security. Johns story hits different. Growing up as a child of divorce, he saw firsthand what it means to carry those wounds while still holding space for love and family. Instead of letting that pain define him, he turned it into purposea lifelong mission to bring healing, restoration, and real connection back to the Black community. We'll discuss his journey: from studying African Studies and Education at Lincoln University, to working with some of the worlds biggest brands, to realizing that even in boardrooms and job offers, what were all really chasing is dignity, humanity, and love. Thats where his company, Upfront, comes inits not just a dating app, its a movement to help single Black professionals heal, grow, and build relationships that strengthen families and, ultimately, the culture. This conversation is about way more than titles or rsumsits about how we choose to show up for ourselves and each other. John breaks down why healing is community work, why love is a revolutionary act, and how building intentional relationships can shift the trajectory for generations to come. If youre ready for an honest, thought-provoking, and empowering conversation, this episode will give you more than a few gems to take with you.