More Than an Inmate’s Girlfriend

They were friends before he went in, running in the same circles and chasing the party. Life happened, they lost touch. Then- years into what ended up being 13 years inside- they reconnected... and reconnected again.. which triggered something to start building something real, the foundation, of what it is today.

What is it today? Now he's home. 10 days ago. And she's feeling everything: the hope, the nerves, the pressu...

This episode opens with Jae in full truth mode- raw, frustrated and heartbroken. The prison system continues to block her from seeing her husband, Nicholas Ely, without cause. They're labelling her a "threat" and have gone so far as to forge Nick's signature on documents to cover for themselves (yes there's proof), to lying about why they couldn't be married on Christmas and yet she's labelled the problem here? Jae's had enough- an...

In this raw and deeply personal episode, we sit down with Pebbles- a woman who married a man serving time behind bars and battling the addiction he's struggled with almost his entire life. She opens up about the challenges, heartbreak, and unwavering commitment that comes with loving someone through their darkness.

From navigating prison policies blocking their access, to facing the painful grip of his substance abuse, Pebbles ...

⚠️ Explicit content warning: This episode contains adult language and themes that may not be suitable for all listeners.

We are getting as raw as we can get this episode, as we are blessed to be joined by none other than King Guru himself, an incarcerated author with thecellblock.net serving life without parole in California. He is the mind behind titles like "Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys" and "How to Hustle and Win...

In this episode, we kick things off with a heartfelt intro from Big Steve of PenPals.buzz, who shares how he met our guest Luis—better known as Bars and Redemption. Luis, who entered the system young and took a plea deal for second-degree murder, opens up about his transformation behind the walls. Books became his lifeline, and personal growth his mission.

Now, with a newfound purpose and presence on penpal platforms, Luis speaks ca...

Let's continue part two of Official's story:

Official never expected a simple Facebook post to change her life. What started as a friendship with a man she believed only had a short time left in his bid turned into something much deeper. But a shocking discovery made her question everything she thought she knew: he wasn't locked up for robbery and he didn't only have a few years left...

Through her own research, Official found th...

Official never expected a simple Facebook post to change her life. What started as a friendship with a man she believed only had a short time left in his bid turned into something much deeper. But a shocking discovery made her question everything she thought she knew: he wasn't locked up for robbery and he didn't only have a few years left...

Through her own research, Official found the evidence of his innocence, but freedom remaine...

In this highly anticipated episode, we sit down with Christopher "Life" Willars- a viral social media influencer known for his raw storytelling around prison life, mental health and reminders to "stay free".

With an original sentence of 144 and having served 17, Christopher opens up about the complicated world of navigating relationships while behind bars- pulling from his own experiences of falling for a C.O. and dating her for 6 y...

NB thought she had it all figured out- the man she loved was finally coming home after completing his prison sentence and they had planned every detail in anticipation of his fresh start.

Within two months, everything unraveled.

Addiction, paranoia, and chaos replaced the life they envisioned. In this heart wrenching episode, NB shares how she went from searching the streets for her partner to making the toughest decision yet in ask...

When Nicole found out the man she planned to spend her life with had been speaking to another woman, her world momentarily flipped upside down.

In this episode, Nicole opens up about the heartbreak, the healing, and the hard decision she made to stay. She gives insight into prison relationships, how they differ from others, what it means to truly love yourself, and how she learned to stand in her worth.

Plus, she shares the ins...

Emily thought she had found her happily ever after when she reconnected with an old acquaintance who was currently incarcerated. Their love story seemed promising- until subtle red flags turned into undeniable betrayals. From jealousy over her outfit choices to uncovering a secret Instagram account to a shocking discovery in a prison wives Facebook group, Emily's world came crashing down.

In this episode, Emily opens up about uncov...

In this episode, Jae starts by opening up about her wedding day- how she wasn't allowed the full visit but still felt the beauty and support surrounding their love. She shares her powerful experience speaking at Nebraska Legislature, giving Nicholas the ultimate wedding gift of reading his statement to the judiciary committee.

Later, we dive into Julie and Todd's turbulent journey. When Todd, a habitual offender, faced the choi...

Opening up to your family about dating someone who is incarcerated can be nerve wracking- but you're not alone. In this episode of More Than an Inmate's Girlfriend, M gets real about the mixed emotions she faced when deciding to tell her loved ones. She shared the fears and doubts that crept in, not just for herself but for her significant other too.

From navigating tough conversations to handling judgment, M offers practical ti...

In this episode, we dive into a unique love story of Jade and Kevin- a couple who first connected through TikTok.

It all started when Jade came across Kevin's TikTok video and decided to reach out. Despite Kevin being incarcerated in Idaho, a state known in the prison community for its share of scamming women, Jade was initially unaware of the state's reputation. She also speaks on how she always intended to support him financially ...

In this episode, Jae meets Penelope, a dedicated and loving prison girlfriend of a man given a sentence of 73 years as a juvenile. From meeting at a quinceañera and getting caught making out in the back at 14 to many years later rekindling those sparks in the visiting room of a California prison, Penelope tells the story of their love and shares what makes it beautiful and worth all of the difficulties they may face.

Beyond her...

Love behind bars comes with its own set of challenges, but that doesn't mean we don't celebrate it!

In this special Valentine's Day episode, Jae and AJ answer five love/relationship style questions that Nick wrote and have their men, Nick and D, answer them too. From defining commitment to what is betrayal, they're sharing the raw, heartfelt and sometimes surprising responses while giving you a deeper look at their relation...

This is part two of Jea and Peter Kenney Jr's story:

In the second half of this interview, Jae continues where part one left off (covid), how she dove into Peter's case, how she started her work in advocating for wrongful convictions and where she's currently at in fighting for justice. We also learn more about Peter Kenney Jr, their family dynamics and how Jea makes sure that Peter always feels loved while she fights for his freedo...

In this powerful episode, Jae sits down with Jea, a devoted wife and fierce advocate for her husband, Peter Kenney Jr., who was wrongfully convicted of murder as a juvenile and has spent over 20 years behind bars.

Jea and Peter's story is one of love, resilience, and an unbreakable bond that has stood the test of time. From their childhood until now, Jea shares her journey of love and the path she has taken to not only appeal Peter...

In this heartfelt episode, we meet Dusty Rose, a resilient prison wife and mother of five whose husband is an incarcerated fire fighter battling California's relentless wildfires. She shares the reality of what it's like for the men out there fighting to save their communities, the sacrifices in time and communication that her family is making for him to do that and the unwavering sense of pride she feels towards her husband and al...