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March 12, 2024 27 mins

It's a question that will sometimes cross your mind when you're widowed and might be starting to consider dating again...

"But if I re-partner, who will I be with in heaven?"

In this episode, John and Carolyn discuss their own personal thoughts on this topic, and how this question has affected some of their clients' decisions on whether to date after loss.

Please note that we are simply providing our own personal thoughts and beliefs on this sensitive topic and are not trying to say that this is the truth, nor should be for everyone. We respect everyone's personal beliefs, and expect you to decide what feels right for you.

Don't forget to check out our book "The Stupid Shit People Say To Grievers". It's available worldwide via Amazon. Click on the link for your country below to order:

US:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers: Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: 9798373054041: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

AUS:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers : Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: Amazon.com.au: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

UK:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers: Amazon.co.uk: Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: 9798373054041: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

GERMANY:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers : Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: Amazon.de: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

FRANCE:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers : Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: Amazon.fr: Livres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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ITALY:

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NETHERLANDS:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Stupid Sh*t People Say to Grievers : Polo, John, Gower, Carolyn: Amazon.nl: Boeken⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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We'd love to help as many grievers as possible through this hardest time of their lives.

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