January 28, 2024 • 31 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello everyone and welcome back to my Thai wife
podcast.
Well, we actually we need tochange the name already it's.
I think we have to find thename for Lada in the episode.
It's not my Thai wife becauseshe's not my wife.
So I'm here with Lada.
Hey, lada, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hi, I'm doing great.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Have you thought about?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I'm very good, just a little bit cold, but everything
else is good here.
Have you thought about a newname for our podcast yet?
Pardon, have you thought aboutnew name for our podcast yet?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, I still think about that.
You know, it's really hard tofind a right name.
So a good name.
I have a thousand names in myhead.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Give me an example for one name as soon.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Give me an example for one name as soon, mmm.
Oh, you're lying to me.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
You are lying to me.
You haven't thought about that.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
No, no, maybe because I said last time, I also think
about bad words, and also maybeit's not good.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
You can say whatever you want.
I told you this is our podcast.
We can call it however bad wewant to call it, but we need to
change the name soon.
I think yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I keep a new name for soon.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, it's very confusing for people.
I call it my Thai wife and thenyou are here.
You know, and they know alreadysoon.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
So I think it's very weird.
Yeah, because I'm not your wifeas well.
I don't really like this name.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
We will give it another week or two until we can
find a new name.
Yeah, last episode we endedabout you.
Tell us about the story inThailand about the young kids.
I think they killed some, somelady that she's a little bit,
maybe crazy, or something likethat, and I want to.
(02:25):
I was thinking about it.
You know, in my country thereis a lot that if someone is
under 12, I think 12 or 14, andhe's doing some crime, his
family pay for the crime andthey go to jail or something
like that.
So, let's say I am 12 and Ikilled someone, my father can go
to jail.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, I think it's like.
This thing is like we need totalk really, really serious
about this, this problem.
I think people can say, as Itold you, when something bad
happened here, when somethingbad happened here, and also when
they keep going to hurt someoneor doing some bad thing, every
(03:10):
parent he fucking said that mykid is good, my kids is very
good girl, my kids very good boy.
He have very good grade in theschool.
He learned very well, he havevery good behalf in house.
Everyone is saying that, butit's bullshit.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, but what do you want to say?
You want they say oh, I have ashitty kid and I'm a shitty
parent.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yes, they should accept inferred they should not
do it a big lie Like the kid isbad or the kid is good they
prefer.
They need to be sincere.
Sorry, oh, I'm really sorry.
My kid is really bad.
Make me doing bad thing.
I'm very sincere and I'm verysorry from the bottom of my
(03:57):
heart for my kid.
They never, they not say theysaid my kid is good boy, they
saw.
If nobody found the CCTV or thereporter not check the CCTV.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Her husband would be in jail.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Who gonna know?
No one know.
Yes, and the real criminal isbeing out there.
It's not just only this ladywho died, she name is Pakok.
How, it's not Pakok who died.
But they can do the bad thingto any others, you understand?
Yeah, this will teach them thatthey can do whatever they want.
(04:34):
I think the best way to protectour country from this fucking
bad boy or fucking bad kid isI'm gonna tell their parents
before you fuck this shit orfuck this shit.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Have some connection with theproblem with the connection.
Can you say that again?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I said, for me the best thing that we can solve
about this problem is I want totell all the parents in my
country, or the young parents,or the new parents, when you
have sex, before you fuck eachother, go fucking where cunt.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So just not have babies.
You think that's better?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
yes, yes, because if you have the baby and you cannot
take care of them, well, if yousaid you have no time, you need
to go work everyday, you haveno time to take care of the kid,
you have no time to teach thekid, you don't have even the
time to tell them what is good,what is bad, then you don't
(05:52):
deserve to have the baby youthink there should be a very
important.
It's very important.
You don't need to say, oh, theschool needs to teach them.
The most people who need toteach them is the parents, is
the dad and mom yeah, I thinkthis is the bigger in the
(06:13):
biggest influence on a child.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But you think like there should be some a, let's
say, course, course, or somepeople need to go school before
they can, let's say like onemonth before they can have a
baby, for learn how to beparents I think even have this
school like that some people.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
It's just like same thing.
You go to school sometimes youdon't like to learn about the
subject, you just ignore it.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
License for be parents.
You think there should besomething like that.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Some you have driving license I think so and we need
to share also, if they keepdoing some mapping and they keep
not over the edge.
Yes, so they need the.
The people who be in jail mightbe the parents yeah so if you
(07:07):
put this strong rule and thisstrong law and you do the action
same thing what you like to law, I think most of the parents
would be oppressed.
Nobody wants to be in jail butthey're gonna take care about
the baby also, because if thebaby do any bad behavior, they
can not the baby.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, so you are talking about taking
responsibility, basically yeah,yeah, I want more responsibility
from their parents.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Understand that and also also the very strong
behavior or the strong law forthe kid as well.
They keep need to know.
They keep need to be in jail,also need to know that this is
very fucking wrong.
(08:01):
You cannot hurt anybody, youcannot even kill anybody and
this is a criminal.
It's not a game or the funnythings, because if you don't
anything, the kid don't thinkthis is wrong.
You understand they can be.
If you change the law to becomea behavior for the parent, you
keep gonna be.
Oh, I'm so happy now.
(08:22):
I'm doing some bad things.
I kill some people.
I just outside, I'm just goingto school, then law school and
my parents it's already in inthe jail.
They don't fucking caresometimes they don't care about
the parent anyway.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You know I understand that, I think you are right,
but I think I think it doesn'tmatter if you teach them or not.
These people are just badpeople.
You know, some people are bornbad, just that you know what I?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
mean, I don't think it's only about how they yeah, I
know, I know some people bornbad, but it's dependent on their
environment as well, and alsodepends on the family as well.
The bad people can become agood people.
True, you understand when youcheat them when you take care of
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them well, when you choose whatis bad, what is good, for
example, the kid who, who borninside with the gangster.
It doesn't mean that all thekid is bad.
Some kid is good as well, youknow yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I know someone personally like that, that he
came for me a crime family, hisfather I don't think some people
yeah, for me, in my opinion, Idon't think everyone.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't think anyone born to be a bad people some
people are like I are bornpsychopaths.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
You know they don't care.
They don't have feeling likeyou and me.
They just think aboutthemselves.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
They don't believe that other people matter this
can can be a yeah, butrepresented also spend that kind
of people.
If they live their lives in theright place, they can be good
people as well.
Say again, what do you mean?
I said even some people, evenlike a kid, that have the
(10:22):
problem like that, if they havesomeone to teach them well, they
can be a good people as welland they can change.
I think they have a orsomething like that can change
too if I've yeah can changesomething, but it's not easy.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You know, more easy to turn people bad than turn
people good.
That's my opinion, you know.
I want to change the topic.
Some someone asked us yeah,yeah, someone asked us about
your English, about how, likemany, many Thai Lady or ladyboys
(11:01):
doesn't matter Thai people,their English is not so good,
especially if they're walking inbars or something like that
they want to know how.
How can you speak Nearlyperfect English?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
For my English.
I think it's like.
I Think it's like the topicneed to be is like and why Thai
people cannot speak good English.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Let me tell you, give you an example.
Okay, wait, I know where youare going, but I want to give
you an example.
First, let's talk about my wifesoon.
Okay, she knew how to read andwrite after she finished school,
but she didn't have anyexperience talking.
And when she moved to Pataya,she couldn't speak right, but
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she knew how to read and write.
And then, when have customersand have people, she meet Ta ta,
ta, ta ta.
Then she can speak a little bitmore, a little bit more, a
little bit more.
Now she can speak good English.
So she had practice right.
So Her English is not good, isyour English, but still, I think
(12:12):
she did.
She can speak a decent English,right.
And this why I ask you, likeyou said, why Thai people cannot
speak English.
I think they cannot speakEnglish because there are no,
there is no reason for them tospeak, who they speak with, you
know.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yeah, that the other reason.
But you know, I think, like themain things, that are the main
reason why Thai people cannotspeak English, even through, we
put all the English subject inevery school.
I think the kid want to speakEnglish, the kid want to learn
how to speak.
(12:49):
Yeah but the problem is aboutthe education system.
Thailand, we have very, veryold education system and we want
the new generation and all thenew parents.
We want to share this system.
I mean the class or that.
You just like the rule that youneed to learn this thing
(13:12):
Mathematics, you need to learnscience, you need to learn
English, you need to learn thething just blah, blah, blah.
One, two, three, four, five.
But they put a wrong way tolearn the English.
Just cool.
You know why Thai kid Englishmost of Thai kid hate English
subject?
Because they think it's reallydifficult and when something.
(13:36):
They're very difficult and whenyou go through and understand
wait.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
You cannot wait, I cannot hear you.
Can you say again, there was,there was a problem with the
connection.
Can you say again?
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I says, like I can say, when you go to the school
and then Some subject, a lot ofsubject to learn, right, for
example, for me, I'm very bad inmathematics and For mathematics
class I hate it because I'mvery bad in it.
Right, I'm in English.
When you go to the school andyou cannot speak English, you
(14:17):
don't understand what.
What the teeth To teach you,what teacher talking about, you
become like you don't like thissubject.
Yeah, and the teacher and theministry of the Education.
They the wrong way to teach theEnglish.
Because when you go to theschool, english teacher always
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teach you about the grammar, howto spell, how to put the right
grammar on it, and the work havebrally.
The only one thing that youhave in your pocket is we call
dictionary.
Every time when you cannot knowany other word, you open the
dictionary, and I think that isthe bad thing.
Maybe it's a good thing thatyou can see about the words, but
(15:03):
every time when you're thinking, oh, what you speak, you open.
What you speak, you open.
Okay, you don't remembersomething, you understand.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
So you mean they not?
They not teaching how tocommunicate, they just teaching
you words, right.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, they put the and when they do the examination
for example, the examinationabout English examination they
put a lot of examination aboutthe grammar, mm-hmm.
And when you did theexamination, you get all this
wrong, this wrong, this wrong,this wrong.
You got all the wrong side onyour paper.
(15:41):
You become scared, you don'tknow how to speak.
Okay, yeah, it's just onlyabout the wrong side, that you
need to write about the right,the right, about the right
answer and how to speak, notonly what is the right word or
(16:03):
what teacher to teach them, toteach the student of Thailand,
of the Thai, to learn how tospeak, more than how to write,
more than how to On the rightgrammar, on the same ten you
understand, and more than opendictionary.
The best way for me to learnthe English is I speak there and
(16:26):
thanks to my.
I think the most important thingto learn the English or the
other language is as much as youspeak, as much as you use it
every day.
Even you talk to yourself orthe mirror, or you watching
about a movie, like a soundtrackmovie.
(16:46):
Maybe you listen about theinternational song or maybe you
do a conversation with yourforeign friend.
And the other good thing is, ifyou have the foreign friend, you
can exchange your language anddon't be afraid to speak wrong.
Nothing wrong.
I don't want to speak becauseI'm going to speak wrong.
(17:09):
I think I'm going to speak.
I'm going to be verycomfortable.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Sound like a idiot or something like that.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I think when you see the story, try to speak Thai
language.
Sometimes they speak right,sometimes they speak wrong.
Thai people always say oh,they're slow, they're cute, but
why you can't speak English?
Why you can't try?
Why you don't try?
It's okay if you speak wrong oryou spell a wrong vocabulary,
(17:44):
it doesn't matter, because ifyou not say something wrong or
if you're not doing some mistake, you don't even know what is
the right thing to do or what isthe right word.
You understand.
You need to learn from yourmistakes.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
But I think it's going to change soon.
You know why I give you anexample.
First I will tell you a smallstory.
Two weeks ago, me and Sunari,we go visit some of my friends.
They are friends that all camefrom Russia.
In home they speak with thechildren Rasha and Hebrew.
Almost none of them can speakEnglish.
(18:26):
I mean of the parents.
Now, when the children veryyoung children, maybe three or
four, when the children areknowing them.
they give them phone to watchYouTube.
The children just choose videosfrom the picture.
(18:46):
I see Teddy Bear, or I see thisOne of them.
He doesn't know what he gives.
He gives them in French, Right?
They?
Watch French Now his young girl, she maybe three.
She starts to speak French withPapa we we, we, we.
(19:06):
She learns herself from YouTubeand I think, all the media now,
and I think it's it appliesalso to Thailand.
I think many of the youngchildren.
They watch YouTube not only inThai language, they watch
everything Right.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I think it's more interesting for them.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, and also the parents.
So I think it's moreinteresting for them to learn
and also they can learn some forthemselves.
And when you hear the languageall the time, not even have to
talk, but when you hear alanguage all the time, you are
learning.
You don't even know, but youare learning.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
So I think the generation I think the kids have
very good memory yeah, betterthan the old people 100%, very
good memory.
So I see now they the teenageparents.
They put the kids in theinternational school.
Sometimes they open the cartoonEnglish cartoon and they know
(20:04):
it.
Sometimes in the school theydon't teach very good English so
they decide to teach themselvesor open the YouTube cartoon or
whatever that they can teach thekids.
I see nowadays some very smallkids, a small girl or a little
boy, can translate the Englishto the parents as well.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
That's lovely yeah and I think the new media.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
And for myself.
Yeah, yeah, you can.
I think the English you canlearn from everywhere, not just
only in the class or in theschool.
Right now, we can learn fromthe cartoon.
You can learn from the music,the movie, from YouTube, from
Facebook, from every socialmedia I can learn it and you
don't even know that you learnedthat for you.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
You're just having fun or I'm just watching some
funny or interesting video.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Yeah, yeah, you need to have some more, more
motivation For me also.
My top secret, not top secret.
I think the way to learnEnglish for myself is like, I
know English is very importantfor me and then I learn from the
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music.
When I heard the music and Itell us, with Beyonce, I go to
the lyric, what she sings andthen I try to sing them and then
I want to know what does itmean?
Okay, sometimes you can hum andthen you want to sing, so you
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can sing the right word and alsoyou know the meaning as well.
So all my application on myphone they also have the I call
music match.
They, when you turn on themusic, they can teach you how to
.
They have the lyric show up andif you want to know the meaning
, you go to translate as well.
(21:54):
They show the lyric and themeaning in the same time.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Yeah, I think that's very, very good.
When I finish my high school, Iput myself in the job that I
can pretty much, so I go to workin the shopping mall that have
many tourists, I go to work inthe, in the airport and also in
the hotel, so I can practiceEnglish with the customer every
day and every day.
(22:19):
You speak.
As much as you speak, youremember.
As much as you speak, youpractice your skill.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Yeah, and I think I think the right way to to learn
nearly everything is to to applyto something that you like.
So let's say, if someone islike to play video games, right,
so he can learn from that.
Or if someone same you likelisten to music can learn from
that I think this is the bestway to teach and I think I think
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the old generation in Thailandnot only Thailand, I think all
over the world will know a lotof languages Because of that.
Yes, especially English.
Yeah, Because most of themovies right now and the music
is English, but they can learnanything.
I know, you know, sunari havesomeone that worked with her.
He watched a Japan anime, youknow From when he, when he, he
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was young and now he can speakJapanese from this.
He never go to school, never goanywhere.
He can speak Japanese becausehe watched this cartoon, not
cartoon anime.
But it's crazy, you know.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Yeah, and also for me , the, the, the, the motivation.
I think motivation is I want tohave like a foreigner boyfriend
, Need to speak language, like Ieat language and also you know
when?
Yeah, sometimes when, when Iwas working there in the hotel
(23:50):
so I have like a guest come tostay in my hotel and they are
Spanish guy and he's veryfucking handsome, but you cannot
speak English.
So I think, oh my God, I wantto learn Spanish language.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Just to talk with him or just more conversation.
Sometimes, when you want to dosomething not just only about
the language, I mean somethingsay, for whatever you want to do
, you need to find yourmotivation.
For example, my friends she'sbad girl and she wants to lose
her way.
She tried every fucking way tostop eating, to do some diet, to
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be like a little bit exercisein her room, but it doesn't work
.
So I told her go to the gym andfind the gym that have many
handsome men in there, A lot ofmen in there.
So right now she go to the gymevery fucking day, three hours a
day, three hours a day.
The good thing is like.
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The crazy thing is like, yeah,you go to the gym and the most
thing that you want to do is tosee a man.
Maybe you get some men backhome.
But the other good benefit isshe have very slim body right
now because she have themotivation.
Yeah, she can do exercise likethree hours, five hours, no
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problem, because she have a lotof handsome men to row.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah, and if she find a man she can do another
exercise back home with him.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Yeah, like dead exercise.
And it's good also because youknow the sex can make you very
happy.
When you have sex, you got likea real.
Your brain will releaseadrenaline and make yourself
happy and healthy as well.
Yes, so now she have a perfectbody and also she got a
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boyfriend from the gym.
He said I love the gym so much.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
She find the Tio Farang.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
And also the other benefit is that she release
better, because her boyfriend isalready done.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Oh, so she's, he's foreigner, her boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Yeah, see, sometimes the only one thing can change
your life.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah that's true, that's true.
Even a small meeting somewhereand you can find yourself
somewhere else in the world.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
You know yes yes, you just need to freak it out, yeah
and stay strong.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
this very important to stay strong, not give up,
stay strong and stay positive,don't give up, yeah.
Yeah, I think this is a good, agood, a Good thing that we can
give to our listeners.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yeah, hope me too.
Sometimes I have like a mentalbreakdown because of my, my
situation Problem and my workand everything sometimes is too
much pressure on myself.
So I did like a many time I geta mental breakdown, just
feeling so bad deep down.
But another way that make mymyself feeling better if I go to
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, it's okay, and on my InstagramI follow a lot of handsome
Moodio.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
So you just like scrolling, you know and give
yourself.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
Yeah, when I have really bad breakdown, mental
breakdown sometime, I want todie, right sometimes, oh my god,
I want to give up, I want todie.
This is very bad.
And then when, when, and then Isaid, okay, maybe I go to watch
under Instagram.
So I see, wow, many young,handsome guy is growing up
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Everyday, is born up every dayand see how beautiful his body,
how big his muscle, oh my god,there are a million handsome guy
is waiting for me.
I don't deserve to be died, Ideserve to be this live.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
That's a good motivation.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
So this is your motivation Motivation for
motivation my motivation toleave, maybe when, when I coach
the camera, I want to leave mylife like a hundred years old.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
I Think everyone need to find their own motivation
and you find yours.
Yeah, before we finish thisepisode, there is one last thing
I want to talk, to talk withyou and with our listeners.
We were thinking about bringingguests to the episodes.
It will not be in the few, likethe next episode or something
(28:23):
like that, but it will besomewhere in the future.
So we thought about, maybebring in yeah with.
We talked me and you we talkedbefore about that, of course,
and we thought about bringingmaybe one of your friends.
It doesn't have to be a ladyboy.
It can be a lady, a man,ladyboy, whatever you want, and
I will find some of my friendsin Thailand that will talk with
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us also, I Think we can get alot of information if we share
this with other people.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Right, and everyone have their own questions and
also and I have some idea alsosome people who listen us on our
podcast.
If you want to talk with us onour podcast, if you want to join
, just come up to join, becauseI want to talk.
We, we can talk with our fan aswell or with our follower as
(29:12):
well.
So, yeah, if someoneinteresting about this, yeah,
yeah it would be great.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
We can.
I can't make.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Sending the message to his email.
Yeah, I want to talk about thetopic.
I want to talk to Lada and miceabout this thing.
I want to join your podcast.
Yes, just come out?
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Yeah, we can do that.
It's very easy to arrange.
You don't have to have anyspecial equipment to do that.
You can do it even from yourphone.
I have the special equipmentfor make sure that we will hear
you very good, so don't worryabout that.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Yeah, for me, I like to talk with a lot of people.
I want to see you, what you putthings.
Maybe I think this thing, maybeI think wrong, maybe I think
why, or maybe it's like we haveany other attitude or any other
thought, like about some topicI'm same topic.
I think it's like we can talkabout Everything's together,
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like even through we have like adifferent on different mind.
But I think to be talk is Tohave like a good conversation
and know what the people aboutyou can see so many different
things, so many Idea.
We are open for everything.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
We are open for everything and we want you guys
to be part of it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, we want to listen from you as well, not
just for you to listen from us,we want to listen from you as
well.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
So if you're interested, just show up, I
charge yeah, so thank you verymuch everyone and we hope you
will keep listening to us.
We have, we are having fundoing that and we are hope you
having fun listening to us.
Lada, you have anything?
To say to them Maybe give themkisses or hugs, whatever you
(31:04):
want I.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Want to give all my followers about my big ass, but
I cannot get it.
So I give you a big kiss andlove and must love from Thailand
.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Thank you everyone, and we will see you in the next
next episode.
Bye, bye.
Yeah bye-bye you.
Hello everyone and welcome back to my Thai wife
podcast.
Well, we actually we need tochange the name already it's.
I think we have to find thename for Lada in the episode.
It's not my Thai wife becauseshe's not my wife.
So I'm here with Lada.
Hey, lada, how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hi, I'm doing great.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Have you thought about?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I'm very good, just a little bit cold, but everything
else is good here.
Have you thought about a newname for our podcast yet?
Pardon, have you thought aboutnew name for our podcast yet?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, I still think about that.
You know, it's really hard tofind a right name.
So a good name.
I have a thousand names in myhead.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Give me an example for one name as soon.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Give me an example for one name as soon, mmm.
Oh, you're lying to me.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
You are lying to me.
You haven't thought about that.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
No, no, maybe because I said last time, I also think
about bad words, and also maybeit's not good.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
You can say whatever you want.
I told you this is our podcast.
We can call it however bad wewant to call it, but we need to
change the name soon.
I think yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I keep a new name for soon.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, it's very confusing for people.
I call it my Thai wife and thenyou are here.
You know, and they know alreadysoon.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
So I think it's very weird.
Yeah, because I'm not your wifeas well.
I don't really like this name.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
We will give it another week or two until we can
find a new name.
Yeah, last episode we endedabout you.
Tell us about the story inThailand about the young kids.
I think they killed some, somelady that she's a little bit,
maybe crazy, or something likethat, and I want to.
(02:25):
I was thinking about it.
You know, in my country thereis a lot that if someone is
under 12, I think 12 or 14, andhe's doing some crime, his
family pay for the crime andthey go to jail or something
like that.
So, let's say I am 12 and Ikilled someone, my father can go
to jail.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, I think it's like.
This thing is like we need totalk really, really serious
about this, this problem.
I think people can say, as Itold you, when something bad
happened here, when somethingbad happened here, and also when
they keep going to hurt someoneor doing some bad thing, every
(03:10):
parent he fucking said that mykid is good, my kids is very
good girl, my kids very good boy.
He have very good grade in theschool.
He learned very well, he havevery good behalf in house.
Everyone is saying that, butit's bullshit.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, but what do you want to say?
You want they say oh, I have ashitty kid and I'm a shitty
parent.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yes, they should accept inferred they should not
do it a big lie Like the kid isbad or the kid is good they
prefer.
They need to be sincere.
Sorry, oh, I'm really sorry.
My kid is really bad.
Make me doing bad thing.
I'm very sincere and I'm verysorry from the bottom of my
(03:57):
heart for my kid.
They never, they not say theysaid my kid is good boy, they
saw.
If nobody found the CCTV or thereporter not check the CCTV.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Her husband would be in jail.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Who gonna know?
No one know.
Yes, and the real criminal isbeing out there.
It's not just only this ladywho died, she name is Pakok.
How, it's not Pakok who died.
But they can do the bad thingto any others, you understand?
Yeah, this will teach them thatthey can do whatever they want.
(04:34):
I think the best way to protectour country from this fucking
bad boy or fucking bad kid isI'm gonna tell their parents
before you fuck this shit orfuck this shit.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Have some connection with theproblem with the connection.
Can you say that again?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I said, for me the best thing that we can solve
about this problem is I want totell all the parents in my
country, or the young parents,or the new parents, when you
have sex, before you fuck eachother, go fucking where cunt.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So just not have babies.
You think that's better?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
yes, yes, because if you have the baby and you cannot
take care of them, well, if yousaid you have no time, you need
to go work everyday, you haveno time to take care of the kid,
you have no time to teach thekid, you don't have even the
time to tell them what is good,what is bad, then you don't
(05:52):
deserve to have the baby youthink there should be a very
important.
It's very important.
You don't need to say, oh, theschool needs to teach them.
The most people who need toteach them is the parents, is
the dad and mom yeah, I thinkthis is the bigger in the
(06:13):
biggest influence on a child.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But you think like there should be some a, let's
say, course, course, or somepeople need to go school before
they can, let's say like onemonth before they can have a
baby, for learn how to beparents I think even have this
school like that some people.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
It's just like same thing.
You go to school sometimes youdon't like to learn about the
subject, you just ignore it.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
License for be parents.
You think there should besomething like that.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Some you have driving license I think so and we need
to share also, if they keepdoing some mapping and they keep
not over the edge.
Yes, so they need the.
The people who be in jail mightbe the parents yeah so if you
(07:07):
put this strong rule and thisstrong law and you do the action
same thing what you like to law, I think most of the parents
would be oppressed.
Nobody wants to be in jail butthey're gonna take care about
the baby also, because if thebaby do any bad behavior, they
can not the baby.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, so you are talking about taking
responsibility, basically yeah,yeah, I want more responsibility
from their parents.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Understand that and also also the very strong
behavior or the strong law forthe kid as well.
They keep need to know.
They keep need to be in jail,also need to know that this is
very fucking wrong.
(08:01):
You cannot hurt anybody, youcannot even kill anybody and
this is a criminal.
It's not a game or the funnythings, because if you don't
anything, the kid don't thinkthis is wrong.
You understand they can be.
If you change the law to becomea behavior for the parent, you
keep gonna be.
Oh, I'm so happy now.
(08:22):
I'm doing some bad things.
I kill some people.
I just outside, I'm just goingto school, then law school and
my parents it's already in inthe jail.
They don't fucking caresometimes they don't care about
the parent anyway.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You know I understand that, I think you are right,
but I think I think it doesn'tmatter if you teach them or not.
These people are just badpeople.
You know, some people are bornbad, just that you know what I?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
mean, I don't think it's only about how they yeah, I
know, I know some people bornbad, but it's dependent on their
environment as well, and alsodepends on the family as well.
The bad people can become agood people.
True, you understand when youcheat them when you take care of
(09:15):
them well, when you choose whatis bad, what is good, for
example, the kid who, who borninside with the gangster.
It doesn't mean that all thekid is bad.
Some kid is good as well, youknow yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I know someone personally like that, that he
came for me a crime family, hisfather I don't think some people
yeah, for me, in my opinion, Idon't think everyone.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't think anyone born to be a bad people some
people are like I are bornpsychopaths.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
You know they don't care.
They don't have feeling likeyou and me.
They just think aboutthemselves.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
They don't believe that other people matter this
can can be a yeah, butrepresented also spend that kind
of people.
If they live their lives in theright place, they can be good
people as well.
Say again, what do you mean?
I said even some people, evenlike a kid, that have the
(10:22):
problem like that, if they havesomeone to teach them well, they
can be a good people as welland they can change.
I think they have a orsomething like that can change
too if I've yeah can changesomething, but it's not easy.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You know, more easy to turn people bad than turn
people good.
That's my opinion, you know.
I want to change the topic.
Some someone asked us yeah,yeah, someone asked us about
your English, about how, likemany, many Thai Lady or ladyboys
(11:01):
doesn't matter Thai people,their English is not so good,
especially if they're walking inbars or something like that
they want to know how.
How can you speak Nearlyperfect English?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
For my English.
I think it's like.
I Think it's like the topicneed to be is like and why Thai
people cannot speak good English.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Let me tell you, give you an example.
Okay, wait, I know where youare going, but I want to give
you an example.
First, let's talk about my wifesoon.
Okay, she knew how to read andwrite after she finished school,
but she didn't have anyexperience talking.
And when she moved to Pataya,she couldn't speak right, but
(11:51):
she knew how to read and write.
And then, when have customersand have people, she meet Ta ta,
ta, ta ta.
Then she can speak a little bitmore, a little bit more, a
little bit more.
Now she can speak good English.
So she had practice right.
So Her English is not good, isyour English, but still, I think
(12:12):
she did.
She can speak a decent English,right.
And this why I ask you, likeyou said, why Thai people cannot
speak English.
I think they cannot speakEnglish because there are no,
there is no reason for them tospeak, who they speak with, you
know.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yeah, that the other reason.
But you know, I think, like themain things, that are the main
reason why Thai people cannotspeak English, even through, we
put all the English subject inevery school.
I think the kid want to speakEnglish, the kid want to learn
how to speak.
(12:49):
Yeah but the problem is aboutthe education system.
Thailand, we have very, veryold education system and we want
the new generation and all thenew parents.
We want to share this system.
I mean the class or that.
You just like the rule that youneed to learn this thing
(13:12):
Mathematics, you need to learnscience, you need to learn
English, you need to learn thething just blah, blah, blah.
One, two, three, four, five.
But they put a wrong way tolearn the English.
Just cool.
You know why Thai kid Englishmost of Thai kid hate English
subject?
Because they think it's reallydifficult and when something.
(13:36):
They're very difficult and whenyou go through and understand
wait.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
You cannot wait, I cannot hear you.
Can you say again, there was,there was a problem with the
connection.
Can you say again?
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I says, like I can say, when you go to the school
and then Some subject, a lot ofsubject to learn, right, for
example, for me, I'm very bad inmathematics and For mathematics
class I hate it because I'mvery bad in it.
Right, I'm in English.
When you go to the school andyou cannot speak English, you
(14:17):
don't understand what.
What the teeth To teach you,what teacher talking about, you
become like you don't like thissubject.
Yeah, and the teacher and theministry of the Education.
They the wrong way to teach theEnglish.
Because when you go to theschool, english teacher always
(14:40):
teach you about the grammar, howto spell, how to put the right
grammar on it, and the work havebrally.
The only one thing that youhave in your pocket is we call
dictionary.
Every time when you cannot knowany other word, you open the
dictionary, and I think that isthe bad thing.
Maybe it's a good thing thatyou can see about the words, but
(15:03):
every time when you're thinking, oh, what you speak, you open.
What you speak, you open.
Okay, you don't remembersomething, you understand.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
So you mean they not?
They not teaching how tocommunicate, they just teaching
you words, right.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, they put the and when they do the examination
for example, the examinationabout English examination they
put a lot of examination aboutthe grammar, mm-hmm.
And when you did theexamination, you get all this
wrong, this wrong, this wrong,this wrong.
You got all the wrong side onyour paper.
(15:41):
You become scared, you don'tknow how to speak.
Okay, yeah, it's just onlyabout the wrong side, that you
need to write about the right,the right, about the right
answer and how to speak, notonly what is the right word or
(16:03):
what teacher to teach them, toteach the student of Thailand,
of the Thai, to learn how tospeak, more than how to write,
more than how to On the rightgrammar, on the same ten you
understand, and more than opendictionary.
The best way for me to learnthe English is I speak there and
(16:26):
thanks to my.
I think the most important thingto learn the English or the
other language is as much as youspeak, as much as you use it
every day.
Even you talk to yourself orthe mirror, or you watching
about a movie, like a soundtrackmovie.
(16:46):
Maybe you listen about theinternational song or maybe you
do a conversation with yourforeign friend.
And the other good thing is, ifyou have the foreign friend, you
can exchange your language anddon't be afraid to speak wrong.
Nothing wrong.
I don't want to speak becauseI'm going to speak wrong.
(17:09):
I think I'm going to speak.
I'm going to be verycomfortable.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Sound like a idiot or something like that.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I think when you see the story, try to speak Thai
language.
Sometimes they speak right,sometimes they speak wrong.
Thai people always say oh,they're slow, they're cute, but
why you can't speak English?
Why you can't try?
Why you don't try?
It's okay if you speak wrong oryou spell a wrong vocabulary,
(17:44):
it doesn't matter, because ifyou not say something wrong or
if you're not doing some mistake, you don't even know what is
the right thing to do or what isthe right word.
You understand.
You need to learn from yourmistakes.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
But I think it's going to change soon.
You know why I give you anexample.
First I will tell you a smallstory.
Two weeks ago, me and Sunari,we go visit some of my friends.
They are friends that all camefrom Russia.
In home they speak with thechildren Rasha and Hebrew.
Almost none of them can speakEnglish.
(18:26):
I mean of the parents.
Now, when the children veryyoung children, maybe three or
four, when the children areknowing them.
they give them phone to watchYouTube.
The children just choose videosfrom the picture.
(18:46):
I see Teddy Bear, or I see thisOne of them.
He doesn't know what he gives.
He gives them in French, Right?
They?
Watch French Now his young girl, she maybe three.
She starts to speak French withPapa we we, we, we.
(19:06):
She learns herself from YouTubeand I think, all the media now,
and I think it's it appliesalso to Thailand.
I think many of the youngchildren.
They watch YouTube not only inThai language, they watch
everything Right.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I think it's more interesting for them.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, and also the parents.
So I think it's moreinteresting for them to learn
and also they can learn some forthemselves.
And when you hear the languageall the time, not even have to
talk, but when you hear alanguage all the time, you are
learning.
You don't even know, but youare learning.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
So I think the generation I think the kids have
very good memory yeah, betterthan the old people 100%, very
good memory.
So I see now they the teenageparents.
They put the kids in theinternational school.
Sometimes they open the cartoonEnglish cartoon and they know
(20:04):
it.
Sometimes in the school theydon't teach very good English so
they decide to teach themselvesor open the YouTube cartoon or
whatever that they can teach thekids.
I see nowadays some very smallkids, a small girl or a little
boy, can translate the Englishto the parents as well.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
That's lovely yeah and I think the new media.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
And for myself.
Yeah, yeah, you can.
I think the English you canlearn from everywhere, not just
only in the class or in theschool.
Right now, we can learn fromthe cartoon.
You can learn from the music,the movie, from YouTube, from
Facebook, from every socialmedia I can learn it and you
don't even know that you learnedthat for you.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
You're just having fun or I'm just watching some
funny or interesting video.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Yeah, yeah, you need to have some more, more
motivation For me also.
My top secret, not top secret.
I think the way to learnEnglish for myself is like, I
know English is very importantfor me and then I learn from the
(21:13):
music.
When I heard the music and Itell us, with Beyonce, I go to
the lyric, what she sings andthen I try to sing them and then
I want to know what does itmean?
Okay, sometimes you can hum andthen you want to sing, so you
(21:34):
can sing the right word and alsoyou know the meaning as well.
So all my application on myphone they also have the I call
music match.
They, when you turn on themusic, they can teach you how to
.
They have the lyric show up andif you want to know the meaning
, you go to translate as well.
(21:54):
They show the lyric and themeaning in the same time.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Yeah, I think that's very, very good.
When I finish my high school, Iput myself in the job that I
can pretty much, so I go to workin the shopping mall that have
many tourists, I go to work inthe, in the airport and also in
the hotel, so I can practiceEnglish with the customer every
day and every day.
(22:19):
You speak.
As much as you speak, youremember.
As much as you speak, youpractice your skill.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Yeah, and I think I think the right way to to learn
nearly everything is to to applyto something that you like.
So let's say, if someone islike to play video games, right,
so he can learn from that.
Or if someone same you likelisten to music can learn from
that I think this is the bestway to teach and I think I think
(22:50):
the old generation in Thailandnot only Thailand, I think all
over the world will know a lotof languages Because of that.
Yes, especially English.
Yeah, Because most of themovies right now and the music
is English, but they can learnanything.
I know, you know, sunari havesomeone that worked with her.
He watched a Japan anime, youknow From when he, when he, he
(23:16):
was young and now he can speakJapanese from this.
He never go to school, never goanywhere.
He can speak Japanese becausehe watched this cartoon, not
cartoon anime.
But it's crazy, you know.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Yeah, and also for me , the, the, the, the motivation.
I think motivation is I want tohave like a foreigner boyfriend
, Need to speak language, like Ieat language and also you know
when?
Yeah, sometimes when, when Iwas working there in the hotel
(23:50):
so I have like a guest come tostay in my hotel and they are
Spanish guy and he's veryfucking handsome, but you cannot
speak English.
So I think, oh my God, I wantto learn Spanish language.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Just to talk with him or just more conversation.
Sometimes, when you want to dosomething not just only about
the language, I mean somethingsay, for whatever you want to do
, you need to find yourmotivation.
For example, my friends she'sbad girl and she wants to lose
her way.
She tried every fucking way tostop eating, to do some diet, to
(24:29):
be like a little bit exercisein her room, but it doesn't work
.
So I told her go to the gym andfind the gym that have many
handsome men in there, A lot ofmen in there.
So right now she go to the gymevery fucking day, three hours a
day, three hours a day.
The good thing is like.
(24:51):
The crazy thing is like, yeah,you go to the gym and the most
thing that you want to do is tosee a man.
Maybe you get some men backhome.
But the other good benefit isshe have very slim body right
now because she have themotivation.
Yeah, she can do exercise likethree hours, five hours, no
(25:12):
problem, because she have a lotof handsome men to row.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah, and if she find a man she can do another
exercise back home with him.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Yeah, like dead exercise.
And it's good also because youknow the sex can make you very
happy.
When you have sex, you got likea real.
Your brain will releaseadrenaline and make yourself
happy and healthy as well.
Yes, so now she have a perfectbody and also she got a
(25:41):
boyfriend from the gym.
He said I love the gym so much.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
She find the Tio Farang.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
And also the other benefit is that she release
better, because her boyfriend isalready done.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Oh, so she's, he's foreigner, her boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Yeah, see, sometimes the only one thing can change
your life.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah that's true, that's true.
Even a small meeting somewhereand you can find yourself
somewhere else in the world.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
You know yes yes, you just need to freak it out, yeah
and stay strong.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
this very important to stay strong, not give up,
stay strong and stay positive,don't give up, yeah.
Yeah, I think this is a good, agood, a Good thing that we can
give to our listeners.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yeah, hope me too.
Sometimes I have like a mentalbreakdown because of my, my
situation Problem and my workand everything sometimes is too
much pressure on myself.
So I did like a many time I geta mental breakdown, just
feeling so bad deep down.
But another way that make mymyself feeling better if I go to
(26:59):
, it's okay, and on my InstagramI follow a lot of handsome
Moodio.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
So you just like scrolling, you know and give
yourself.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
Yeah, when I have really bad breakdown, mental
breakdown sometime, I want todie, right sometimes, oh my god,
I want to give up, I want todie.
This is very bad.
And then when, when, and then Isaid, okay, maybe I go to watch
under Instagram.
So I see, wow, many young,handsome guy is growing up
(27:29):
Everyday, is born up every dayand see how beautiful his body,
how big his muscle, oh my god,there are a million handsome guy
is waiting for me.
I don't deserve to be died, Ideserve to be this live.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
That's a good motivation.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
So this is your motivation Motivation for
motivation my motivation toleave, maybe when, when I coach
the camera, I want to leave mylife like a hundred years old.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
I Think everyone need to find their own motivation
and you find yours.
Yeah, before we finish thisepisode, there is one last thing
I want to talk, to talk withyou and with our listeners.
We were thinking about bringingguests to the episodes.
It will not be in the few, likethe next episode or something
(28:23):
like that, but it will besomewhere in the future.
So we thought about, maybebring in yeah with.
We talked me and you we talkedbefore about that, of course,
and we thought about bringingmaybe one of your friends.
It doesn't have to be a ladyboy.
It can be a lady, a man,ladyboy, whatever you want, and
I will find some of my friendsin Thailand that will talk with
(28:45):
us also, I Think we can get alot of information if we share
this with other people.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Right, and everyone have their own questions and
also and I have some idea alsosome people who listen us on our
podcast.
If you want to talk with us onour podcast, if you want to join
, just come up to join, becauseI want to talk.
We, we can talk with our fan aswell or with our follower as
(29:12):
well.
So, yeah, if someoneinteresting about this, yeah,
yeah it would be great.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
We can.
I can't make.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Sending the message to his email.
Yeah, I want to talk about thetopic.
I want to talk to Lada and miceabout this thing.
I want to join your podcast.
Yes, just come out?
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Yeah, we can do that.
It's very easy to arrange.
You don't have to have anyspecial equipment to do that.
You can do it even from yourphone.
I have the special equipmentfor make sure that we will hear
you very good, so don't worryabout that.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Yeah, for me, I like to talk with a lot of people.
I want to see you, what you putthings.
Maybe I think this thing, maybeI think wrong, maybe I think
why, or maybe it's like we haveany other attitude or any other
thought, like about some topicI'm same topic.
I think it's like we can talkabout Everything's together,
(30:07):
like even through we have like adifferent on different mind.
But I think to be talk is Tohave like a good conversation
and know what the people aboutyou can see so many different
things, so many Idea.
We are open for everything.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
We are open for everything and we want you guys
to be part of it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, we want to listen from you as well, not
just for you to listen from us,we want to listen from you as
well.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
So if you're interested, just show up, I
charge yeah, so thank you verymuch everyone and we hope you
will keep listening to us.
We have, we are having fundoing that and we are hope you
having fun listening to us.
Lada, you have anything?
To say to them Maybe give themkisses or hugs, whatever you
(31:04):
want I.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Want to give all my followers about my big ass, but
I cannot get it.
So I give you a big kiss andlove and must love from Thailand
.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Thank you everyone, and we will see you in the next
next episode.
Bye, bye.
Yeah bye-bye you.
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