February 3, 2024 • 43 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello everyone and welcome back to my Thai wife
podcast.
I'm Mike and I'm here with Ladaagain.
Hello Lada.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hello, hello.
Hello from the sun.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
From where?
Hello, from where.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hello from Thailand.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Oh, from Thailand I hear something else.
I hear hello from the sun.
I think how she can go there.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Hello from the other side of the world.
Yeah, hello, it's me.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
How was your week?
Okay, we are doing well, yeah.
Now we are starting recordingtwo times every week, so it will
be a little bit more contentfor you guys.
So we hope you like that and wewill upload, I think, every
Monday and Tuesday.
(01:00):
I think we will do that.
So make sure you look for newepisodes, two every week.
We will see if that's goinggood.
We will keep that on, okay.
So in this episode I want toreview something we did before.
I did an episode before thatused to called it.
(01:22):
It's called should you date aThai bar girl, but I think it
doesn't mean it matter if it'sjust a lady or a lady boy.
Should you date someone thatwalk in a bar?
Right, do you have any opinionabout this?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
before I start reading to you, To the death
some people today with like abag right Bar girl or by a lady
boy that walk in the business.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, I think it's kind of like for a man who
looking for love in this city.
I mean, it's like in Phuket,especially in Bang La, we have a
thousand of a bar and also wehave like 10,000 of the bar
(02:14):
girls.
So I think in front, if youwant to date with a bar girl,
you need to understand her job.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
So what is their job?
Because she's a sex worker.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, because she works in the bar, she needs to
surround herself with a dozenguys or a hundred guys or 10
guys in several times.
She needs to be entertained,all the guys.
And because of that, when theywant to date with a bar girl or
the lady boy like at the peoplewho work in the sex worker or
(02:49):
who work like in the nightlightcity, like this they are very
jealous.
They don't want their girl tobe surrounded herself with some
boys.
I think this thing is crazy.
I know I love it.
She works in the bar.
She needs to be around with aman.
(03:12):
You need to understand her job.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, this is her job Exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
If you need to understand her job, you need to
respect whatever she does forthe money.
Yeah, maybe she did things withthe other men, maybe she drank
with the other men, maybe shegoes back home with the other
men.
But first, for the firstrelationship, you need to
understand her and you think youwant a new relationship with
(03:43):
this girl and you want her tostop working.
You need to work with herdirectly and also like drag your
life with her.
Can you stop this job?
Can you find another job?
And I will support you, stop.
And also with something youneed yeah, it can happen as well
, but I can say it's reallydifficult.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
You think it's more difficult dating someone that
works in this industry Like, ordating some like.
What is more difficult Datingsomeone that works in a bar or
dating someone that works in ashopping center or something
like that?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I think it's more easy if you're looking for a
girlfriend in the normal, likein the shopping mall or in a
normal shop, in the office or inthe pub or whatever like that.
I think it's more because, likemost of the girls want more
(04:48):
relationships with some men.
Yeah, I want to have like aforeigner boyfriend, but the
lady in the bar also wants, wealso want a true love
opportunity.
It's not easy to find, but lookin the real life, what kind of
man wants about the lady in thebar or lady boy in the bar to
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become his wife?
It's really small percent,really little percent.
Because you sleep with athousand guys.
Oh, you don't want a realrelationship, you want just only
money from me.
Yeah, you know most of the menlike that and when you become to
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love her to the girl, you bramher.
Why this bitch wants to leavemy money.
I'm not the ATM, I'm not a bank.
Why she wants only money, whyshe wants to leave my money.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Can you speak a little bit closer to the
microphone please?
Yeah, that's perfect.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I mean some men is really breaking apart my friends
or the people who work in thecity like her oh bitch, you are
really back.
You're looking for money,you're looking for love.
You know, you're looking forthe love that the lady come for
work.
You understand, yeah, most ofthe bar girls.
(06:15):
She come for work.
You're looking for money,you're looking for love.
But there are some girls thatlook for love as well, but she
knows what is her job and what'seither situation.
It's like I told you, like thelast episode, like I told you.
The men come to this city and 99percent of the men who come in
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this city they come for sex andparty.
They're not looking for love.
Some they can tell us, like avery beautiful words, like oh,
lada, I love you, you're sofucking beautiful, you are the
most beautiful lady boy in theworld that I have met before.
I'm gonna do a piece of you,I'm gonna give you a better life
(06:59):
, I'm gonna marry you with you.
But in the end of the day, it'salways be fucking Lada, kissing
and crying and broken heart.
You know, because I trust aboutthe pretty words of a handsome
man.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
So you are saying that's bullshit.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
basically Everything is bullshit, bullshit, but it
doesn't mean like no, can'tfight your, love him.
They have some, but just veryless percentage.
But then also every bar girlalso looking for the love and
also most of the bar girl.
They have family at home.
I mean they divorce with herhusband but they still have a
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baby to take care.
So they don't know how to workand find a lot of money to take
care of the parents and theirkids.
So they come to work in the bar.
Yes, to find more money.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yeah, I also wrote about this, but I spoke about
this, but I want to explain toyou.
I mean that there is a stigma.
You know what means stigma,right?
Stigma?
What is that?
Stigma means that someone, thatmany people think something bad
about some group of people.
So there is a stigma about Thaigirls or ladyboys that walk in
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a bar that they're all fuckingbad, very bad, not have heart,
they not care, and I thinkthat's bullshit.
I think it depends on thepeople, but also you as a person
, that looking for love, youhave to be smart about something
, about some.
You have to make yourself somerules right In order to find
real love, even if it's in a bar.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
You know, like about my experience and also my
friends.
When we are here we have athousand types of men around the
world and some men just comehere for half free.
You can say a very good word,very pretty, when the lady says,
like you know the tradition ofmen also.
(09:04):
You also know when you go tothe bar and you take the burger
you need to pay bar fine and youneed to give her money for her
service.
Most of the men they know.
But there are some men thatwant to come here and then
praying game and have sex withthe girl for free and just give
her a big call.
So that's why I said we havethe strong rule that not fall in
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love with your fucking customer, because today you can be, he
can be your boyfriend, buttomorrow he shed the new
girlfriend again, he can fuckaround.
You know we call the publichusband.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Oh, the butterfly no.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, the butterfly, or a public husband.
So it's like a funny joke, likewhen I go with a friend say, oh
, we like to show also.
Oh, this is handsome man and heis my boyfriend.
And then the other friend said,oh, he's public boyfriend
Yesterday.
I fuck last two days before hemeet you, I fuck with him too.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
So inside jokes in the bath right.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
And I think it's very bad if you say, like the bar
girl or the lady boy who work inthe bar, or the sex worker, the
prostitute or the people whowork in the nightlight city,
like this, they are very badpeople, they are very bad girl.
No, I think there are the mostpeople who understand the other
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people very well, because mostof them become from the poor
family.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
We come from the broken heart from a man.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
And we come to here.
We totally understand the otherpeople feeling, but you need to
understand her job and what sheneed to do.
She need to find the money totake care of her family when you
go to Dubai.
Yes, she need your money forsure, Because it's her job.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
So I write few rules for men that looking for to meet
to find love in Thailand and Iwant to hear your thought about
these rules.
I will not read you the wholerule, I just read the sentence,
the first sentence, for youunderstand what I mean.
So, for example, the first rulewas understand that you are not
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her first friend that she'sseeing, right, so don't be
jealous if there is like historybehind her.
If she met other friends before, right, this is her job.
Same, she find you, she findsomeone before you, right?
This is important to understand, yeah, okay.
The second rule, which for meis the most important Try to
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avoid drug addicts.
That I don't mean if she smokeweed or something like that, I
mean Yaba, ice, stuff like that.
I think it's.
I don't say all, but many tiesin general, not only tie people
that work in bar using drugs,right, Okay, I mean also Yaba.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
they also have some ladies to use about the drug and
also the drug addict andalcohol addict.
It's really difficult formyself also, because I don't
like to drink, I don't smoke andalso I don't use.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Can you speak a little bit more yeah.
Microphone more yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, I mean there's like a yeah, this kind of thing
is in every most of the bar inhere, and also all these places
have the drugs, as for sure.
And also it's really difficultfor me as well, because I don't
like to drink, I don't like tosmoke and also I don't use drugs
, but I need to spend my timeand surrounding myself with
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these kind of people.
I need to be careful as well.
I know it's a lot of drugs, Iknow a lot of crazy thing that
what the man doing, but I try tostay away from that and I don't
like to use this.
And I also know in the bar wealso have like a girl or a bar
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maybe it's not, mostly not thebar girl, I mean the girl from
the outside come to the bar andthen when they like some guy,
you can call the thief or getpeople right.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
So when we are?
Speaker 2 (13:35):
men.
They use some drugs like maybewe call as arresting or sex rape
you.
When you put in the drink, theyare mine or a man can be losing
their mind and become like veryeasy to go to sleep with you,
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to go to have sex with you ormaybe to go home with you.
Maybe you end up with you runout of your sperm in the ball.
Sometimes you wake up and yourun out of all the money and all
belonging you have.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I don't know what's better.
I'm joking.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Of course, no one wants to lose all the belonging,
or maybe it can be bought.
Maybe it can be bought, youunderstand, yeah, so for me you
need to be careful as well.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Yeah, for me, I think it's always better to avoid
drug addicts.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yeah, yeah, be careful.
And also for the bar girl.
It's really difficult, baby,because like she need to find
the money to sending to baby.
Sometimes she need to dosomething for her baby, for her
kid as well, you understand.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
For example for me.
Sometimes I don't like to gowith the fucking old dirty man.
Some old man is nice, but someold man is fucking dirty.
He speaks very dirty things.
She treat me very bad, but Ihave to go with him because I
need the money.
And sometimes the girl, the girlbecome to be a drug addict or
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become to try something becauseof some man in white.
For example, when I go withsome man, some man tell me just
do it, just try it, enjoy withme, enjoy the time with me.
I said no and he said if Idon't do it, I give you only
2000.
But in fact we talked aboutlike 5000.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, so sometimes, sometimes you need to do for the
money, you know, yeah, but Ithink if you are looking for
love, better stay away frompeople that use.
I say that for the girls also,if you know the customer is
using drugs and you are notusing drugs, stay away from him.
That doesn't worth it.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah, because, like the people who added in the drug
and something like alcoholic,the most thing that they think
is about the drug and alcoholyou know is not about love.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Yeah, that's true.
And another thing I wrote thatif someone steal from you one
time, they will do again.
So if you find, if you findsome bar girl or ladyboy, let's
say just bar walkers, we callthem okay and you bring them
home and you know they stealfrom you.
Don't meet them again.
(16:32):
They will do that again, 100%.
Also, don't fight with them.
Just go to the bar owner or themama sang and tell them you
will get your money back.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Yeah, because, like there are many, many people get
and also the people on thestreet and also in the back area
.
Sometimes they have like ateamwork and we can treat those
this and can steal all thelonging even the site, even only
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one night, and also it's likeyou know, like they have.
I have some friends and theycome from Australia.
They look like more than100,000.
Yeah, that's a lot of money.
But from the girl on the trainand also the girl in the bar she
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come like two, three years.
He happy, he feel like him Withthe money he drink, he buy,
drink her, he give her a big tipand he feel like a king.
But when he wake up in themorning he become a homeless.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Yeah, but not all of the.
I want to make sure this isonly 5% of the people, not
everyone doing that yeah yeah,yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Because, like you know, if the girl who work in
the bar we not doing thisBecause we know if we doing this
the men know where I work,where we work Easy to find you,
the men come up and say and findus.
So mostly the tip to be likethis they not really work in the
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bar.
They may be in the bar for adrink and for looking for a man,
who are very drunk.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
You understand.
Yeah, this is a good way tofind them.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
They know how to make a man horny.
You know she know how to treatthe man.
But and she know how to stealthe money.
Yeah, and also a man that Ialways tell my friend, my
foreigner friend.
Sometimes he know this ladysteal his money, but he said
maybe she have some, maybe shehave some some reason to do this
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.
Yes, every girl, we have reason.
Yeah, maybe she want to takecare of the family as well, but
that's not good.
You need to do something.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
You need to do something.
And sometimes he said it's okay, she's, you know, he's still
money, so I'm not going with heragain.
But he not do anything, he nottelling police and this kind of
people we do again to thecustomer or to the foreigner.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Yeah, I say maybe better not to talk with police.
Just go to the mama song.
Or if bar owner you know him,go talk with the bar owner, they
will fix this problem for youand they will kick her out yes,
and then they can check on.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
they can check on CCTV, or maybe they know this
lady well, or she come every day.
Yeah you will get the moneyback because the bar owner and
the mama song don't want to losethe regular customer or the
foreigner for her shop.
Don't have, don't want to havethe problem.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Yeah, the next thing I wrote.
I think it's interesting, Ithink you are going to love it.
This a little bit long, but Ithink you like it.
Try to try to use your brain,not your cock, when you feel
that you begin to fall.
Wait, yeah.
You can keep going Whenever youfeel that you begin to fall in
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love with a Thai person that youmet recently.
Stop and think if they arereally good for you.
It doesn't matter how beautifulthey are or how good they are
in bed.
Try to think if they are goingto be a good partner.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I think you need to take time and spend time with
her.
If you like her, really likeher, or you want to spend the
time with her, maybe you can barfind her for four or five days
and spend time together to learnmore who she is and to be.
I think the best way to learnto know each other is spend time
together.
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So you will see after five daysshe always giving talks about
the money.
She want that thing, she wantthat thing and then you can see
yeah, this is a bar girl, it'snot a gold digger.
Maybe you can call her a golddigger, like you want, just only
money.
But I think it's about thethings that you need to call her
(21:12):
.
This is sex worker or this isabout the girl who is into work
more than relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So how can you know?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
You can frame her because you know where you get
her from from the bar.
You need to understand.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
Yes, but I mean, even lady from bar is okay to love
them.
I don't think it's wrong, but Ithink you have to.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah, it's nothing wrong, because sometimes you can
have the relationship with thebar and many men have the wife
from the bar as well.
Yes, yeah, so I think.
But you take your time to learnand also say I want to give
like some big tip, some bigtrick, like a very important
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trick.
When you come to this city orthe city that have a lot of sex
worker or the party or the baror the club, don't put so much
money in your bag.
You need to put your target,like how much money you want to
spend today, and then maybe 2000, 3000.
You just put in the bag andthen after finish, it's finished
(22:24):
.
And don't take, like the girlto go to the ATM machine with
you.
Be careful, she can watch aboutthe passwords and then she can
steal the things.
And when you take the girl tothe rooms, you need to put all
belonging in the safety box andmake sure she not see it.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
Yeah, that's also.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Because sometimes money can change people.
Sometimes the girl don't wantto steal, but when she see tons
of money is on the table shefeel like, oh my God, you need
to work 10 days for this money.
Sometimes they can change, youknow.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, so Don't put your brain in general.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
And also you say use your brain more than call.
But everything in BCP the menuse the call more than brain.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
You sure, I think the ladyboss use the call more than
the men there.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Also me.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
This, okay, this I will pass this one.
Okay, I say this If she stillwalk in the bar, you are not her
boyfriend, you are hercustomers.
You are her customer If youwant to be her boyfriend, you
have to take her out of the bar.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, you know the most important thing if you want
to fall in love with the bargirl and if you really want to
see real relationship with heror grow up with other family
with her, get her from thatfucking hell.
Take her out and try to find theshop for her.
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Or give her as much as possibleor just give her some money.
Can open some internet to giveher like a small shop to sell in
silent shop or take your keyfree.
Find the best way for her.
Show her the better way of life.
Show her the better that youcan do for her.
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Show her how you care and howyou can get off her.
Show her the opportunity forthe next step of the life.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Yeah, you know, I meet before many friends tell me
oh, yeah, yeah, I have mygirlfriend.
She walk in this bar.
I tell them you sure this yourgirlfriend?
You say, yes, this mygirlfriend.
I say, if you are not inThailand right now you think I
cannot go with her.
Then they fucking angry with me.
But this true if she walk inthe bar, she walk in the bar,
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you are a customer.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah you are just fucking customer.
Maybe we VIP customer.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Yeah, vip, but not more than that.
Okay, next thing, Okay, this,we talk about this.
What do you think about peoplethat like, let's say, someone is
60 or 70 years old and they goout with 20 years old.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Oh, I think it's me, sorry, I think that it's me in,
like after 30 years.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
You will find someone young for you.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Yeah, that's my dream .
Think about when I have nocheese, but I can still suck it.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I mean something else .
Speaker 2 (25:44):
I mean something else .
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I mean, you think a good relationship can come from
this, like real love, or youthink normally better to find
someone near your age.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think it's very similar.
It's very Look alike.
Lady boy and a boy.
It's the same damn thing.
Yeah, maybe that have some Idon't mean 100%, maybe they have
some that the boy is reallyfall in love with the old woman
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or they really love each otherbecause they very care each
other.
They spend many times together,they learn each other more and
they love each other from inside, not from outside.
You understand.
They have been through with somany problems together or they
actually held him to many times.
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Yes, but he can't be fired?
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Yes, but I mean, if you have to bet, have two
options Men is 70 and ladies 20,and men is 40 and ladies 30 and
you have to bet whichrelationship will stay longer,
who you bet on.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I can.
Maybe, if things for love isgoing to be the old lady,
because the old lady alreadypassed many times of her life
and maybe she not looking forfun, looking for the long love
relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
No, no both are older men and younger lady, but one
is 50 years difference and theother one is just 5 years
difference.
Which relationship would bebetter?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
You mean the age of the lady, right?
Speaker 1 (27:37):
No, I mean age gap.
This mean I think that if youwant to find a good relationship
, you cannot look someone veryyoung, much younger than you If
you want to find real goodrelationship.
For example, I don't think if Ibe 70, right and I find someone
that is 20.
I don't think I can make realrelationship.
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But I think if I be 50 and Ifind someone that is 40 or 45, I
think this is similar, so wecan have good relationship
because we are not too much faraway from each other.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
It can be.
Yeah, maybe it's like about youlooking for someone that are
the age is similar you or alittle bit younger or a little
older than you.
I think it's really good also,more than you choose, about a
very young or a really big gapof the age, because sometimes
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the young girl or a young boythey didn't have the life
occurrence, you know, sometimesthey can think like a kid,
understand, yeah, and sometimesthey just think about like, what
going to eat, what going to dotoday.
They don't think about thefuture, yeah, so maybe they just
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think only day by day.
They don't think about how togrow up the family, how to have
like a better life, how to buy ahouse, how to buy a car, how to
have like a stable of the life.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
So you agree that maybe better is to find someone
near your age, right, in orderto find?
Speaker 2 (29:12):
a good relationship.
Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree,but not 100%.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Not about you.
I'm talking about normal people, not about crazy people like
you that want to be 70 and find20.
I mean normal people.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
I mean, maybe it's good that what I say is also
about if you think about thelove, maybe it's just about the
gap you know, sometimes youthink about like, oh, if I am a
boy and maybe I want to be withthe old girl Because the old
lady helped me already, the oldlady not fucking around, okay,
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but how old let's say I am 20years old boy and I look for 70
year old lady Can be.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
You think it's okay?
Speaker 2 (30:02):
It's okay For me, I think, someone that it doesn't
matter if you really love eachother or maybe not love, but he
thinks about the future.
You know they have a lot.
This is the truth.
Maybe it's sad and funny things.
Some young boy married with theold lady Big money and a wheel,
(30:23):
you know, maybe he can do herfor one year After that he died
in.
After one year he get the moneyand he get all the yeah, yeah
yeah, but some, not all.
some guy is very nice guy.
She take care his family verywell and really love her.
(30:44):
But the old lady also need tobe things a lot as well to have
a young boy boyfriend, because Ithink the old lady is not Same.
Same the lady boy we not stupidthe boy one.
Of course we can see, of course, but sometimes we can see.
(31:08):
But we have money, I have money, I have house, don't worry, I
don't even know tomorrow I'mgoing to wake up or not, but how
good if I get a young handsomeman fucking my old pussy.
I feel even I cannot come, butI feel good I die.
I hope for you.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
This is how you die.
I hope for you this is how youdie in the future, that's what
my dream back, you know?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
okay, then I spent 20,000 for his cock.
No problem, because I havemoney enough.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
You understand.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
It means that you buy a happiness Some same same like
some girl by a luxury brandname.
Things like a bad, a onemillion bad.
Yeah, you understand LouisVuitton or something.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Sometimes you don't even know it.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
You just want to show , you know, but you happy to
show.
Yeah, so it's not wrong, youhappy as much as you happy.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
You happy, but is it really your bag?
You know what I mean.
Is it really love?
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Yeah, and you need to understand when, someday, the
man will leave you and then youneed to be tried to come up to
the bed by yourself.
Is no man, no, any young manhelp you.
You need to understand aboutthis as well, because it's not
about love, it's also about themoney, exactly.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
I move on to the next rule.
This is not only for this,mostly for ladies, but can be
also about lady boys, because wetalking about family BMN, if
you take care of her, take careof her children also or her
(32:54):
family also.
So let's say, someone meet abar lady or lady boy and she
have family or something likethis and you take care very good
about her, but you have tothink about her family also,
right, yeah?
So I think if I move to anothercountry let's say, sunari have
babies, she doesn't.
(33:14):
If she had babies and she movedto Israel, same she did.
Now, right, I think I want tobring her children also.
I think this is very good forher and for them, and I think
these people need to do alsomore.
More because not many people dothat.
I know many people that kickout.
They don't care about theirchildren or about her family,
(33:38):
they just care about her, andthat's not good.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Yeah, I totally understand about the.
Maybe we grow up to from the,from the different side of the
world and different culture.
I also have, like some foreignboyfriends.
Sometimes he don't understandwhy, when he helped me, like he
support me, sometimes like hesending money to me and why I
(34:05):
need to send the money back tomy family, my dad, and also
paying for his room and also hismedicine.
Or why, because we grow up fromthe different side of the world
and in your country sometimes,for example in Juro, when, when,
like when the parent is old,they, and when, like a 60 years
(34:29):
old, on their retired from thejob, the government take care of
them they have enough money forfood.
They have enough money for room,for how.
They have many, many benefiting.
That you, that you're gonna getfrom the government, right, but
in Thailand we have nothing.
You get only 500 or 600 Thaibar from the government and it's
(34:49):
very, very small.
Money is not enough.
And also our traditional theparent work very hard to send
the kid to the school.
Try to find the money to sendthe kid to the school and have a
good food, good life.
So when the kid is grow up andthe parent is go, all order,
order and all the children canit's our responsibility to take
(35:12):
care of them, you understandyeah the foreigners.
Sometimes they don't understand,because they don't need to take
care of their family and theirparents don't need to take care
and their parents don't don'tdon't want him to take care as
well, because they have enoughmoney for food for everything
yeah, so looking for Thaigirlfriend.
(35:33):
You need to understand ourtraditional and also our culture
.
We need to take care of thefamily.
So if she argue to help her,for some money to send back to
her family, please tell.
Understand her, she only wantmoney.
She need to do responsibility,and really good, because she
(35:57):
gonna do the same damn thing toyour family too, and it's not
just about your family or myfamily, it's our family exactly,
but people forget thatsometimes.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
But especially for children, I have seen very bad
things about this, like peoplethink say, oh, if you bring your
even, they buy house inThailand.
I don't want your children comehere.
This, my house no, this is verybad to do, yeah, but I hope
that our listeners don't do that.
If they find, if they do find-yeah, because I got.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
When you love someone , it not just only for two
percent.
You need to care about thefamily as well.
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah, and also to win thebugger, her.
You do this kind of thing.
You care about our family.
Maybe not much money that yousend, but just some help she
need you understand.
For example, when I have someboyfriend, I this is for example
(36:57):
when I have a boyfriend andwhen I have a big problem and I
ask for can you help me for this?
And he say no, and for anotherman that he said oh, lada, I
don't have much money, but I'mgonna help you some, maybe 1000
to 1000.
I can give you 5000.
(37:18):
At least you can see, try tohelp you understand yeah another
man that say no, understandthat but,
some man say oh Lada, I cannotgive you a big money, I cannot
take care of you, but I can giveyou an opportunity.
I can recommend you to myfriend to do, indeed, to do,
(37:42):
indeed.
Maybe you can get some extramoney for this a little job.
Maybe you can help him to dothis thing, this thing, or maybe
I can help you for the visa soyou can go to work in another
country and get a better life.
I want a man like this, youunderstand yeah, I understand
that.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
So I think this important for everyone that
understand that normally the theladies that come, ladies and
ladyboys that come to thissituation, they do that because
they need money.
Don't?
Speaker 2 (38:15):
no one want to work that exactly so yeah, we want
money for live, but sometimes wejust only the money.
We will the opportunity.
We can work hard for that, ofcourse, but I mean, I mean don't
be shocked.
Speaker 1 (38:33):
Don't be shocked that she help her family.
She help her family by comingwalk this walk.
No one want to walk this.
You know it's not fun foranyone.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Yes, yeah, you know to work, like you can go back to
your countryside and telleveryone oh, I work in the bar,
oh, I read a man for the money.
You cannot even tell yourparents yeah so how like to try
to handle this kind of things.
You cannot tell anyone, justonly a burger that become around
(39:06):
.
So we support each other andunderstand each other.
Give other the cheerful orsomething that feeling better
life.
You know, but in depth reallysometimes when you have problems
.
She will talk with the family.
She need to handle that feelingby herself.
She cannot tell her son, herdaughter that all you know,
(39:27):
mommy work like this to send youthe money.
She cannot tell anyone.
And also, you know when shegoing to work in the bar she
have very bad feeling or have areally bad day.
He cannot act like she.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
She are very bad feeling she cannot think and
have to smile, entertain, yeah,yeah, it's very yeah she need to
drink, boy, to dance.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
You need to nothing, even behind of her life, from
inside.
Yeah, as you talk some lady boy, we need to work in the bar.
She become a drug, she become aalcoholic because of her job.
You need to drink every day.
And you know why she needs todrink every day.
(40:13):
Because the way you will getthe money is the way that a man
buy you a lady drink.
For example, lady drink 200 bar.
The shop give you only 50 baror maybe 100 bar and she need to
drink as much as she can tomake money if she not do that,
she's not making money.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
That's the problem.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
People not understand that yeah, and also sometimes
she need to go to sleep with aman for extra money because some
men don't want to buy her drink.
But you want to have sex withher and also to get the money,
more than sleeping and drinks alot.
You know, because when the shopget 50% or more than 80%, but
(40:59):
if she take her to home, yougive her 1000, she get 1000 she
not get cut from the shop yeahso yeah, maybe the customer pay
bar five okay be respectful forthe people that work in the bars
every career, every job have avalue.
(41:21):
Repose.
Have value every job have likea value.
Um, have the you know, say.
I think every job is, it's agood.
Not, it doesn't mean like jobis bad.
Every job have value andeveryone is value in themselves,
(41:43):
even to the people who aretrying to, to, to get about,
like to come up in the middle ofthe day and text about the, the
trash yeah, respect them alsowith me everyone oh my, you are
discussing male so bad, male sobad.
But without them, who gonnatake care about the trash for
(42:03):
yourself?
not you, of course, if you saythis smelly, so you have to
respect yeah yeah, sometime Ibuy a drink and sometimes I buy,
like some, some cookie orsomething for them as well when
I see them sometime.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
Yeah, but you are more nice than most of people,
so this why you're doing that ifeveryone would do that.
They'll be fucking happy allday.
They will be fed because theyeating cookies and drinking
Coca-Cola all day, yeah, okay.
So I think we need to saygoodbye to our listeners for
today I think it was a veryinteresting episode and, lada,
(42:44):
say goodbye to them so bye, bye.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
I hope you guys enjoyed without our cash and
yeah, if you, yeah, if you wantto comment some things and let
us know what do you think andgreat days in your works, in
life and also on your bed that'sgreat.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
Thank you, lada, and thank you to our listeners.
We love you.
Don't forget.
If you can, please tell yourfriends about this podcast tell
your friends about this podcast,like and subscribe.
It's important to us.
It will help us grow and seeyou next time.
Bye, bye, yeah.
Hello everyone and welcome back to my Thai wife
podcast.
I'm Mike and I'm here with Ladaagain.
Hello Lada.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hello, hello.
Hello from the sun.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
From where?
Hello, from where.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hello from Thailand.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Oh, from Thailand I hear something else.
I hear hello from the sun.
I think how she can go there.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Hello from the other side of the world.
Yeah, hello, it's me.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
How was your week?
Okay, we are doing well, yeah.
Now we are starting recordingtwo times every week, so it will
be a little bit more contentfor you guys.
So we hope you like that and wewill upload, I think, every
Monday and Tuesday.
(01:00):
I think we will do that.
So make sure you look for newepisodes, two every week.
We will see if that's goinggood.
We will keep that on, okay.
So in this episode I want toreview something we did before.
I did an episode before thatused to called it.
(01:22):
It's called should you date aThai bar girl, but I think it
doesn't mean it matter if it'sjust a lady or a lady boy.
Should you date someone thatwalk in a bar?
Right, do you have any opinionabout this?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
before I start reading to you, To the death
some people today with like abag right Bar girl or by a lady
boy that walk in the business.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, I think it's kind of like for a man who
looking for love in this city.
I mean, it's like in Phuket,especially in Bang La, we have a
thousand of a bar and also wehave like 10,000 of the bar
(02:14):
girls.
So I think in front, if youwant to date with a bar girl,
you need to understand her job.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
So what is their job?
Because she's a sex worker.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, because she works in the bar, she needs to
surround herself with a dozenguys or a hundred guys or 10
guys in several times.
She needs to be entertained,all the guys.
And because of that, when theywant to date with a bar girl or
the lady boy like at the peoplewho work in the sex worker or
(02:49):
who work like in the nightlightcity, like this they are very
jealous.
They don't want their girl tobe surrounded herself with some
boys.
I think this thing is crazy.
I know I love it.
She works in the bar.
She needs to be around with aman.
(03:12):
You need to understand her job.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, this is her job Exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
If you need to understand her job, you need to
respect whatever she does forthe money.
Yeah, maybe she did things withthe other men, maybe she drank
with the other men, maybe shegoes back home with the other
men.
But first, for the firstrelationship, you need to
understand her and you think youwant a new relationship with
(03:43):
this girl and you want her tostop working.
You need to work with herdirectly and also like drag your
life with her.
Can you stop this job?
Can you find another job?
And I will support you, stop.
And also with something youneed yeah, it can happen as well
, but I can say it's reallydifficult.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
You think it's more difficult dating someone that
works in this industry Like, ordating some like.
What is more difficult Datingsomeone that works in a bar or
dating someone that works in ashopping center or something
like that?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I think it's more easy if you're looking for a
girlfriend in the normal, likein the shopping mall or in a
normal shop, in the office or inthe pub or whatever like that.
I think it's more because, likemost of the girls want more
(04:48):
relationships with some men.
Yeah, I want to have like aforeigner boyfriend, but the
lady in the bar also wants, wealso want a true love
opportunity.
It's not easy to find, but lookin the real life, what kind of
man wants about the lady in thebar or lady boy in the bar to
(05:13):
become his wife?
It's really small percent,really little percent.
Because you sleep with athousand guys.
Oh, you don't want a realrelationship, you want just only
money from me.
Yeah, you know most of the menlike that and when you become to
(05:34):
love her to the girl, you bramher.
Why this bitch wants to leavemy money.
I'm not the ATM, I'm not a bank.
Why she wants only money, whyshe wants to leave my money.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Can you speak a little bit closer to the
microphone please?
Yeah, that's perfect.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I mean some men is really breaking apart my friends
or the people who work in thecity like her oh bitch, you are
really back.
You're looking for money,you're looking for love.
You know, you're looking forthe love that the lady come for
work.
You understand, yeah, most ofthe bar girls.
(06:15):
She come for work.
You're looking for money,you're looking for love.
But there are some girls thatlook for love as well, but she
knows what is her job and what'seither situation.
It's like I told you, like thelast episode, like I told you.
The men come to this city and 99percent of the men who come in
(06:38):
this city they come for sex andparty.
They're not looking for love.
Some they can tell us, like avery beautiful words, like oh,
lada, I love you, you're sofucking beautiful, you are the
most beautiful lady boy in theworld that I have met before.
I'm gonna do a piece of you,I'm gonna give you a better life
(06:59):
, I'm gonna marry you with you.
But in the end of the day, it'salways be fucking Lada, kissing
and crying and broken heart.
You know, because I trust aboutthe pretty words of a handsome
man.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
So you are saying that's bullshit.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
basically Everything is bullshit, bullshit, but it
doesn't mean like no, can'tfight your, love him.
They have some, but just veryless percentage.
But then also every bar girlalso looking for the love and
also most of the bar girl.
They have family at home.
I mean they divorce with herhusband but they still have a
(07:38):
baby to take care.
So they don't know how to workand find a lot of money to take
care of the parents and theirkids.
So they come to work in the bar.
Yes, to find more money.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yeah, I also wrote about this, but I spoke about
this, but I want to explain toyou.
I mean that there is a stigma.
You know what means stigma,right?
Stigma?
What is that?
Stigma means that someone, thatmany people think something bad
about some group of people.
So there is a stigma about Thaigirls or ladyboys that walk in
(08:16):
a bar that they're all fuckingbad, very bad, not have heart,
they not care, and I thinkthat's bullshit.
I think it depends on thepeople, but also you as a person
, that looking for love, youhave to be smart about something
, about some.
You have to make yourself somerules right In order to find
real love, even if it's in a bar.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
You know, like about my experience and also my
friends.
When we are here we have athousand types of men around the
world and some men just comehere for half free.
You can say a very good word,very pretty, when the lady says,
like you know the tradition ofmen also.
(09:04):
You also know when you go tothe bar and you take the burger
you need to pay bar fine and youneed to give her money for her
service.
Most of the men they know.
But there are some men thatwant to come here and then
praying game and have sex withthe girl for free and just give
her a big call.
So that's why I said we havethe strong rule that not fall in
(09:27):
love with your fucking customer, because today you can be, he
can be your boyfriend, buttomorrow he shed the new
girlfriend again, he can fuckaround.
You know we call the publichusband.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Oh, the butterfly no.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, the butterfly, or a public husband.
So it's like a funny joke, likewhen I go with a friend say, oh
, we like to show also.
Oh, this is handsome man and heis my boyfriend.
And then the other friend said,oh, he's public boyfriend
Yesterday.
I fuck last two days before hemeet you, I fuck with him too.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
So inside jokes in the bath right.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
And I think it's very bad if you say, like the bar
girl or the lady boy who work inthe bar, or the sex worker, the
prostitute or the people whowork in the nightlight city,
like this, they are very badpeople, they are very bad girl.
No, I think there are the mostpeople who understand the other
(10:35):
people very well, because mostof them become from the poor
family.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
We come from the broken heart from a man.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
And we come to here.
We totally understand the otherpeople feeling, but you need to
understand her job and what sheneed to do.
She need to find the money totake care of her family when you
go to Dubai.
Yes, she need your money forsure, Because it's her job.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
So I write few rules for men that looking for to meet
to find love in Thailand and Iwant to hear your thought about
these rules.
I will not read you the wholerule, I just read the sentence,
the first sentence, for youunderstand what I mean.
So, for example, the first rulewas understand that you are not
(11:29):
her first friend that she'sseeing, right, so don't be
jealous if there is like historybehind her.
If she met other friends before, right, this is her job.
Same, she find you, she findsomeone before you, right?
This is important to understand, yeah, okay.
The second rule, which for meis the most important Try to
(11:54):
avoid drug addicts.
That I don't mean if she smokeweed or something like that, I
mean Yaba, ice, stuff like that.
I think it's.
I don't say all, but many tiesin general, not only tie people
that work in bar using drugs,right, Okay, I mean also Yaba.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
they also have some ladies to use about the drug and
also the drug addict andalcohol addict.
It's really difficult formyself also, because I don't
like to drink, I don't smoke andalso I don't use.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Can you speak a little bit more yeah.
Microphone more yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Yeah, I mean there's like a yeah, this kind of thing
is in every most of the bar inhere, and also all these places
have the drugs, as for sure.
And also it's really difficultfor me as well, because I don't
like to drink, I don't like tosmoke and also I don't use drugs
, but I need to spend my timeand surrounding myself with
(13:01):
these kind of people.
I need to be careful as well.
I know it's a lot of drugs, Iknow a lot of crazy thing that
what the man doing, but I try tostay away from that and I don't
like to use this.
And I also know in the bar wealso have like a girl or a bar
(13:21):
maybe it's not, mostly not thebar girl, I mean the girl from
the outside come to the bar andthen when they like some guy,
you can call the thief or getpeople right.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
So when we are?
Speaker 2 (13:35):
men.
They use some drugs like maybewe call as arresting or sex rape
you.
When you put in the drink, theyare mine or a man can be losing
their mind and become like veryeasy to go to sleep with you,
(13:57):
to go to have sex with you ormaybe to go home with you.
Maybe you end up with you runout of your sperm in the ball.
Sometimes you wake up and yourun out of all the money and all
belonging you have.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I don't know what's better.
I'm joking.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Of course, no one wants to lose all the belonging,
or maybe it can be bought.
Maybe it can be bought, youunderstand, yeah, so for me you
need to be careful as well.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Yeah, for me, I think it's always better to avoid
drug addicts.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yeah, yeah, be careful.
And also for the bar girl.
It's really difficult, baby,because like she need to find
the money to sending to baby.
Sometimes she need to dosomething for her baby, for her
kid as well, you understand.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
For example for me.
Sometimes I don't like to gowith the fucking old dirty man.
Some old man is nice, but someold man is fucking dirty.
He speaks very dirty things.
She treat me very bad, but Ihave to go with him because I
need the money.
And sometimes the girl, the girlbecome to be a drug addict or
(15:18):
become to try something becauseof some man in white.
For example, when I go withsome man, some man tell me just
do it, just try it, enjoy withme, enjoy the time with me.
I said no and he said if Idon't do it, I give you only
2000.
But in fact we talked aboutlike 5000.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, so sometimes, sometimes you need to do for the
money, you know, yeah, but Ithink if you are looking for
love, better stay away frompeople that use.
I say that for the girls also,if you know the customer is
using drugs and you are notusing drugs, stay away from him.
That doesn't worth it.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah, because, like the people who added in the drug
and something like alcoholic,the most thing that they think
is about the drug and alcoholyou know is not about love.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Yeah, that's true.
And another thing I wrote thatif someone steal from you one
time, they will do again.
So if you find, if you findsome bar girl or ladyboy, let's
say just bar walkers, we callthem okay and you bring them
home and you know they stealfrom you.
Don't meet them again.
(16:32):
They will do that again, 100%.
Also, don't fight with them.
Just go to the bar owner or themama sang and tell them you
will get your money back.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Yeah, because, like there are many, many people get
and also the people on thestreet and also in the back area
.
Sometimes they have like ateamwork and we can treat those
this and can steal all thelonging even the site, even only
(17:05):
one night, and also it's likeyou know, like they have.
I have some friends and theycome from Australia.
They look like more than100,000.
Yeah, that's a lot of money.
But from the girl on the trainand also the girl in the bar she
(17:29):
come like two, three years.
He happy, he feel like him Withthe money he drink, he buy,
drink her, he give her a big tipand he feel like a king.
But when he wake up in themorning he become a homeless.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Yeah, but not all of the.
I want to make sure this isonly 5% of the people, not
everyone doing that yeah yeah,yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Because, like you know, if the girl who work in
the bar we not doing thisBecause we know if we doing this
the men know where I work,where we work Easy to find you,
the men come up and say and findus.
So mostly the tip to be likethis they not really work in the
(18:16):
bar.
They may be in the bar for adrink and for looking for a man,
who are very drunk.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
You understand.
Yeah, this is a good way tofind them.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
They know how to make a man horny.
You know she know how to treatthe man.
But and she know how to stealthe money.
Yeah, and also a man that Ialways tell my friend, my
foreigner friend.
Sometimes he know this ladysteal his money, but he said
maybe she have some, maybe shehave some some reason to do this
(18:52):
.
Yes, every girl, we have reason.
Yeah, maybe she want to takecare of the family as well, but
that's not good.
You need to do something.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
You need to do something.
And sometimes he said it's okay, she's, you know, he's still
money, so I'm not going with heragain.
But he not do anything, he nottelling police and this kind of
people we do again to thecustomer or to the foreigner.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Yeah, I say maybe better not to talk with police.
Just go to the mama song.
Or if bar owner you know him,go talk with the bar owner, they
will fix this problem for youand they will kick her out yes,
and then they can check on.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
they can check on CCTV, or maybe they know this
lady well, or she come every day.
Yeah you will get the moneyback because the bar owner and
the mama song don't want to losethe regular customer or the
foreigner for her shop.
Don't have, don't want to havethe problem.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Yeah, the next thing I wrote.
I think it's interesting, Ithink you are going to love it.
This a little bit long, but Ithink you like it.
Try to try to use your brain,not your cock, when you feel
that you begin to fall.
Wait, yeah.
You can keep going Whenever youfeel that you begin to fall in
(20:11):
love with a Thai person that youmet recently.
Stop and think if they arereally good for you.
It doesn't matter how beautifulthey are or how good they are
in bed.
Try to think if they are goingto be a good partner.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 2 (20:29):
I think you need to take time and spend time with
her.
If you like her, really likeher, or you want to spend the
time with her, maybe you can barfind her for four or five days
and spend time together to learnmore who she is and to be.
I think the best way to learnto know each other is spend time
together.
(20:49):
So you will see after five daysshe always giving talks about
the money.
She want that thing, she wantthat thing and then you can see
yeah, this is a bar girl, it'snot a gold digger.
Maybe you can call her a golddigger, like you want, just only
money.
But I think it's about thethings that you need to call her
(21:12):
.
This is sex worker or this isabout the girl who is into work
more than relationship.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So how can you know?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
You can frame her because you know where you get
her from from the bar.
You need to understand.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
Yes, but I mean, even lady from bar is okay to love
them.
I don't think it's wrong, but Ithink you have to.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah, it's nothing wrong, because sometimes you can
have the relationship with thebar and many men have the wife
from the bar as well.
Yes, yeah, so I think.
But you take your time to learnand also say I want to give
like some big tip, some bigtrick, like a very important
(22:01):
trick.
When you come to this city orthe city that have a lot of sex
worker or the party or the baror the club, don't put so much
money in your bag.
You need to put your target,like how much money you want to
spend today, and then maybe 2000, 3000.
You just put in the bag andthen after finish, it's finished
(22:24):
.
And don't take, like the girlto go to the ATM machine with
you.
Be careful, she can watch aboutthe passwords and then she can
steal the things.
And when you take the girl tothe rooms, you need to put all
belonging in the safety box andmake sure she not see it.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
Yeah, that's also.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Because sometimes money can change people.
Sometimes the girl don't wantto steal, but when she see tons
of money is on the table shefeel like, oh my God, you need
to work 10 days for this money.
Sometimes they can change, youknow.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, so Don't put your brain in general.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
And also you say use your brain more than call.
But everything in BCP the menuse the call more than brain.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
You sure, I think the ladyboss use the call more than
the men there.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Also me.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
This, okay, this I will pass this one.
Okay, I say this If she stillwalk in the bar, you are not her
boyfriend, you are hercustomers.
You are her customer If youwant to be her boyfriend, you
have to take her out of the bar.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, you know the most important thing if you want
to fall in love with the bargirl and if you really want to
see real relationship with heror grow up with other family
with her, get her from thatfucking hell.
Take her out and try to find theshop for her.
(23:58):
Or give her as much as possibleor just give her some money.
Can open some internet to giveher like a small shop to sell in
silent shop or take your keyfree.
Find the best way for her.
Show her the better way of life.
Show her the better that youcan do for her.
(24:20):
Show her how you care and howyou can get off her.
Show her the opportunity forthe next step of the life.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Yeah, you know, I meet before many friends tell me
oh, yeah, yeah, I have mygirlfriend.
She walk in this bar.
I tell them you sure this yourgirlfriend?
You say, yes, this mygirlfriend.
I say, if you are not inThailand right now you think I
cannot go with her.
Then they fucking angry with me.
But this true if she walk inthe bar, she walk in the bar,
(24:51):
you are a customer.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah you are just fucking customer.
Maybe we VIP customer.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Yeah, vip, but not more than that.
Okay, next thing, Okay, this,we talk about this.
What do you think about peoplethat like, let's say, someone is
60 or 70 years old and they goout with 20 years old.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Oh, I think it's me, sorry, I think that it's me in,
like after 30 years.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
You will find someone young for you.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Yeah, that's my dream .
Think about when I have nocheese, but I can still suck it.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I mean something else .
Speaker 2 (25:44):
I mean something else .
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I mean, you think a good relationship can come from
this, like real love, or youthink normally better to find
someone near your age.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think it's very similar.
It's very Look alike.
Lady boy and a boy.
It's the same damn thing.
Yeah, maybe that have some Idon't mean 100%, maybe they have
some that the boy is reallyfall in love with the old woman
(26:20):
or they really love each otherbecause they very care each
other.
They spend many times together,they learn each other more and
they love each other from inside, not from outside.
You understand.
They have been through with somany problems together or they
actually held him to many times.
(26:43):
Yes, but he can't be fired?
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Yes, but I mean, if you have to bet, have two
options Men is 70 and ladies 20,and men is 40 and ladies 30 and
you have to bet whichrelationship will stay longer,
who you bet on.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I can.
Maybe, if things for love isgoing to be the old lady,
because the old lady alreadypassed many times of her life
and maybe she not looking forfun, looking for the long love
relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
No, no both are older men and younger lady, but one
is 50 years difference and theother one is just 5 years
difference.
Which relationship would bebetter?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
You mean the age of the lady, right?
Speaker 1 (27:37):
No, I mean age gap.
This mean I think that if youwant to find a good relationship
, you cannot look someone veryyoung, much younger than you If
you want to find real goodrelationship.
For example, I don't think if Ibe 70, right and I find someone
that is 20.
I don't think I can make realrelationship.
(27:59):
But I think if I be 50 and Ifind someone that is 40 or 45, I
think this is similar, so wecan have good relationship
because we are not too much faraway from each other.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
It can be.
Yeah, maybe it's like about youlooking for someone that are
the age is similar you or alittle bit younger or a little
older than you.
I think it's really good also,more than you choose, about a
very young or a really big gapof the age, because sometimes
(28:33):
the young girl or a young boythey didn't have the life
occurrence, you know, sometimesthey can think like a kid,
understand, yeah, and sometimesthey just think about like, what
going to eat, what going to dotoday.
They don't think about thefuture, yeah, so maybe they just
(28:55):
think only day by day.
They don't think about how togrow up the family, how to have
like a better life, how to buy ahouse, how to buy a car, how to
have like a stable of the life.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
So you agree that maybe better is to find someone
near your age, right, in orderto find?
Speaker 2 (29:12):
a good relationship.
Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree,but not 100%.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
Not about you.
I'm talking about normal people, not about crazy people like
you that want to be 70 and find20.
I mean normal people.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
I mean, maybe it's good that what I say is also
about if you think about thelove, maybe it's just about the
gap you know, sometimes youthink about like, oh, if I am a
boy and maybe I want to be withthe old girl Because the old
lady helped me already, the oldlady not fucking around, okay,
(29:49):
but how old let's say I am 20years old boy and I look for 70
year old lady Can be.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
You think it's okay?
Speaker 2 (30:02):
It's okay For me, I think, someone that it doesn't
matter if you really love eachother or maybe not love, but he
thinks about the future.
You know they have a lot.
This is the truth.
Maybe it's sad and funny things.
Some young boy married with theold lady Big money and a wheel,
(30:23):
you know, maybe he can do herfor one year After that he died
in.
After one year he get the moneyand he get all the yeah, yeah
yeah, but some, not all.
some guy is very nice guy.
She take care his family verywell and really love her.
(30:44):
But the old lady also need tobe things a lot as well to have
a young boy boyfriend, because Ithink the old lady is not Same.
Same the lady boy we not stupidthe boy one.
Of course we can see, of course, but sometimes we can see.
(31:08):
But we have money, I have money, I have house, don't worry, I
don't even know tomorrow I'mgoing to wake up or not, but how
good if I get a young handsomeman fucking my old pussy.
I feel even I cannot come, butI feel good I die.
I hope for you.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
This is how you die.
I hope for you this is how youdie in the future, that's what
my dream back, you know?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
okay, then I spent 20,000 for his cock.
No problem, because I havemoney enough.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
You understand.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
It means that you buy a happiness Some same same like
some girl by a luxury brandname.
Things like a bad, a onemillion bad.
Yeah, you understand LouisVuitton or something.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Sometimes you don't even know it.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
You just want to show , you know, but you happy to
show.
Yeah, so it's not wrong, youhappy as much as you happy.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
You happy, but is it really your bag?
You know what I mean.
Is it really love?
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Yeah, and you need to understand when, someday, the
man will leave you and then youneed to be tried to come up to
the bed by yourself.
Is no man, no, any young manhelp you.
You need to understand aboutthis as well, because it's not
about love, it's also about themoney, exactly.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
I move on to the next rule.
This is not only for this,mostly for ladies, but can be
also about lady boys, because wetalking about family BMN, if
you take care of her, take careof her children also or her
(32:54):
family also.
So let's say, someone meet abar lady or lady boy and she
have family or something likethis and you take care very good
about her, but you have tothink about her family also,
right, yeah?
So I think if I move to anothercountry let's say, sunari have
babies, she doesn't.
(33:14):
If she had babies and she movedto Israel, same she did.
Now, right, I think I want tobring her children also.
I think this is very good forher and for them, and I think
these people need to do alsomore.
More because not many people dothat.
I know many people that kickout.
They don't care about theirchildren or about her family,
(33:38):
they just care about her, andthat's not good.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Yeah, I totally understand about the.
Maybe we grow up to from the,from the different side of the
world and different culture.
I also have, like some foreignboyfriends.
Sometimes he don't understandwhy, when he helped me, like he
support me, sometimes like hesending money to me and why I
(34:05):
need to send the money back tomy family, my dad, and also
paying for his room and also hismedicine.
Or why, because we grow up fromthe different side of the world
and in your country sometimes,for example in Juro, when, when,
like when the parent is old,they, and when, like a 60 years
(34:29):
old, on their retired from thejob, the government take care of
them they have enough money forfood.
They have enough money for room,for how.
They have many, many benefiting.
That you, that you're gonna getfrom the government, right, but
in Thailand we have nothing.
You get only 500 or 600 Thaibar from the government and it's
(34:49):
very, very small.
Money is not enough.
And also our traditional theparent work very hard to send
the kid to the school.
Try to find the money to sendthe kid to the school and have a
good food, good life.
So when the kid is grow up andthe parent is go, all order,
order and all the children canit's our responsibility to take
(35:12):
care of them, you understandyeah the foreigners.
Sometimes they don't understand,because they don't need to take
care of their family and theirparents don't need to take care
and their parents don't don'tdon't want him to take care as
well, because they have enoughmoney for food for everything
yeah, so looking for Thaigirlfriend.
(35:33):
You need to understand ourtraditional and also our culture
.
We need to take care of thefamily.
So if she argue to help her,for some money to send back to
her family, please tell.
Understand her, she only wantmoney.
She need to do responsibility,and really good, because she
(35:57):
gonna do the same damn thing toyour family too, and it's not
just about your family or myfamily, it's our family exactly,
but people forget thatsometimes.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
But especially for children, I have seen very bad
things about this, like peoplethink say, oh, if you bring your
even, they buy house inThailand.
I don't want your children comehere.
This, my house no, this is verybad to do, yeah, but I hope
that our listeners don't do that.
If they find, if they do find-yeah, because I got.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
When you love someone , it not just only for two
percent.
You need to care about thefamily as well.
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah, and also to win thebugger, her.
You do this kind of thing.
You care about our family.
Maybe not much money that yousend, but just some help she
need you understand.
For example, when I have someboyfriend, I this is for example
(36:57):
when I have a boyfriend andwhen I have a big problem and I
ask for can you help me for this?
And he say no, and for anotherman that he said oh, lada, I
don't have much money, but I'mgonna help you some, maybe 1000
to 1000.
I can give you 5000.
(37:18):
At least you can see, try tohelp you understand yeah another
man that say no, understandthat but,
some man say oh Lada, I cannotgive you a big money, I cannot
take care of you, but I can giveyou an opportunity.
I can recommend you to myfriend to do, indeed, to do,
(37:42):
indeed.
Maybe you can get some extramoney for this a little job.
Maybe you can help him to dothis thing, this thing, or maybe
I can help you for the visa soyou can go to work in another
country and get a better life.
I want a man like this, youunderstand yeah, I understand
that.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
So I think this important for everyone that
understand that normally the theladies that come, ladies and
ladyboys that come to thissituation, they do that because
they need money.
Don't?
Speaker 2 (38:15):
no one want to work that exactly so yeah, we want
money for live, but sometimes wejust only the money.
We will the opportunity.
We can work hard for that, ofcourse, but I mean, I mean don't
be shocked.
Speaker 1 (38:33):
Don't be shocked that she help her family.
She help her family by comingwalk this walk.
No one want to walk this.
You know it's not fun foranyone.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Yes, yeah, you know to work, like you can go back to
your countryside and telleveryone oh, I work in the bar,
oh, I read a man for the money.
You cannot even tell yourparents yeah so how like to try
to handle this kind of things.
You cannot tell anyone, justonly a burger that become around
(39:06):
.
So we support each other andunderstand each other.
Give other the cheerful orsomething that feeling better
life.
You know, but in depth reallysometimes when you have problems
.
She will talk with the family.
She need to handle that feelingby herself.
She cannot tell her son, herdaughter that all you know,
(39:27):
mommy work like this to send youthe money.
She cannot tell anyone.
And also, you know when shegoing to work in the bar she
have very bad feeling or have areally bad day.
He cannot act like she.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
She are very bad feeling she cannot think and
have to smile, entertain, yeah,yeah, it's very yeah she need to
drink, boy, to dance.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
You need to nothing, even behind of her life, from
inside.
Yeah, as you talk some lady boy, we need to work in the bar.
She become a drug, she become aalcoholic because of her job.
You need to drink every day.
And you know why she needs todrink every day.
(40:13):
Because the way you will getthe money is the way that a man
buy you a lady drink.
For example, lady drink 200 bar.
The shop give you only 50 baror maybe 100 bar and she need to
drink as much as she can tomake money if she not do that,
she's not making money.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
That's the problem.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
People not understand that yeah, and also sometimes
she need to go to sleep with aman for extra money because some
men don't want to buy her drink.
But you want to have sex withher and also to get the money,
more than sleeping and drinks alot.
You know, because when the shopget 50% or more than 80%, but
(40:59):
if she take her to home, yougive her 1000, she get 1000 she
not get cut from the shop yeahso yeah, maybe the customer pay
bar five okay be respectful forthe people that work in the bars
every career, every job have avalue.
(41:21):
Repose.
Have value every job have likea value.
Um, have the you know, say.
I think every job is, it's agood.
Not, it doesn't mean like jobis bad.
Every job have value andeveryone is value in themselves,
(41:43):
even to the people who aretrying to, to, to get about,
like to come up in the middle ofthe day and text about the, the
trash yeah, respect them alsowith me everyone oh my, you are
discussing male so bad, male sobad.
But without them, who gonnatake care about the trash for
(42:03):
yourself?
not you, of course, if you saythis smelly, so you have to
respect yeah yeah, sometime Ibuy a drink and sometimes I buy,
like some, some cookie orsomething for them as well when
I see them sometime.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
Yeah, but you are more nice than most of people,
so this why you're doing that ifeveryone would do that.
They'll be fucking happy allday.
They will be fed because theyeating cookies and drinking
Coca-Cola all day, yeah, okay.
So I think we need to saygoodbye to our listeners for
today I think it was a veryinteresting episode and, lada,
(42:44):
say goodbye to them so bye, bye.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
I hope you guys enjoyed without our cash and
yeah, if you, yeah, if you wantto comment some things and let
us know what do you think andgreat days in your works, in
life and also on your bed that'sgreat.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
Thank you, lada, and thank you to our listeners.
We love you.
Don't forget.
If you can, please tell yourfriends about this podcast tell
your friends about this podcast,like and subscribe.
It's important to us.
It will help us grow and seeyou next time.
Bye, bye, yeah.
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