January 14, 2025 • 36 mins
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What do you use to define your value to yourself and this world?
Have you ever considered the life-altering power that words hold over our reality? Join me, Blaire Stanislao and Justin Wood, as we unravel the profound vibrations of language and their impact on self-perception. Together, we explore the importance of teaching children about the potency of words early in life to cultivate self-awareness and independence. By dissecting labels and their potential to create misconceptions, we discuss the duality of human experiences and utilize tools like astrology and human design to aid in our journey toward a more compassionate and truthful world.
We are all interconnected through love, even amidst societal divisions. By reconnecting with this love, we can transform our lives and heal from personal traumas, much like overcoming addiction. Through raw personal stories, we discuss how self-love stands as a powerful healing force, encouraging us to face our fears and move beyond societal labels. This narrative serves as a guide to navigate life's difficult experiences and use them as educational tools to foster genuine connections with others, ultimately leading to a more authentic existence.
Humanity is on the cusp of a global awakening, as individuals reconnect with their true selves and challenge societal structures of fear and control. In our quest for authenticity, we emphasize the power of love and truth as catalysts for change.
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Blaire Stanislao (00:01):
Hello, this is Blair Stanislao with the Happy
Lion Center.
Welcome to our podcast Mysticaland Infamous, where we have
playful and easy conversationsabout anything mystical, getting
to the heart of all things,strange and weird.
Join us in a bit of magicaltomfoolery, spreading the
alchemy of love and light.
And now we invite you to enjoythe show.
Justin Wood (00:27):
And they come with a frequency right, like words
are spells, they are vibrations.
I mean, I wrote some children'sbooks and one of the books is
the Power of Words and I thinkthat we should be taught that at
a very young age how much powerare inside of words, and not
only to each other but toourselves.
I mean, how much of aconversation are we having in
(00:48):
our mind in that language istowards ourselves.
So if we don't understand that,you know the words like hate
and I can't like our limitedbelief systems that create a
reality to hold us back.
I mean, geez, like we.
We've got to be having theseconversations and sharing this
education because it can reallyset us up for success in this
(01:09):
life in another way, likeanother idea of success,
something that has us becomesovereign, you know, and
independent within our ownthinking and feeling and not
have to have that comeexternally or be validated
externally from us.
Blaire Stanislao (01:23):
Yeah, I didn't really think about that too
much until even really just lastfive or 10 years where I
noticed I mean I guess I noticedother things when I was younger
, like I would have friends,parents, who I would go over to
their house or they'd be worriedabout their kid, like, oh, is
my child going to do this, thatbad behavior, or whatever.
(01:43):
And then they'd say, oh, no,they're with blair, it's fine.
And I was like, okay, I don'tknow about, but it did have to
do with that same kind of thingthere.
I somehow I know when to saysomething and when you just
don't say something.
It's like picking words isextremely important.
Um, greg brayden has a thing Idon't know if you've heard this,
(02:03):
but um, he has a little blurb.
I'm sure it's out theresomewhere, but he, he talks
about some tribe somewhere, I'mguessing, in Africa, and they
have, like I don't know, 25different words for the color I
don't remember it's green orblue, one or the other.
They don't have a name for theother color, either green or
(02:24):
blue or the other.
They don't have a name for theother color, either green or
blue.
And so, and then their dynamicof what their culture is like is
completely changed by that.
So you're talking about wordslike hate or I don't know what
you want to call I mean eveneven the word racist or any you
know.
Justin Wood (02:38):
Any kind of insightful word does stir things
up within people and it couldbe really eliminated if that was
not used yeah, I think thatjust understanding I I don't
know if we like eliminating themis a good idea, because I think
we, we knowing both sides isvery important.
(02:58):
I think you know likeeverything has harmony and
balance, just like when peopleleave their kids with you, they
don't think anything about it.
It's because you're balanced isbecause you, you know the
negative side of things and youknow the positive side of things
and you also know when andwhere to use those things.
So I think it is important tohave a good understanding of of
both sides.
But I do understand what you'resaying.
(03:19):
You know like we can reshape theway we are using words and the
way we are using labels.
I mean labels is such adetriment to society and to
mankind because we throw a labelon something and we have no
idea what that is.
But we've heard of this label.
You know, take addiction orhomelessness.
(03:40):
You know we can meet someoneand you can introduce them and
say they're homeless,homelessness.
You know we can meet someoneand you can introduce them and
say they're homeless.
Well, immediately you thinkjail, drug, addict,
untrustworthy, disrespectful.
You know, watch your stuff likeinsecurities are all arising
all out of this label andmeanwhile you know, you might
have someone in front of youwho's been physically or
sexually abused their whole lifeand they've just been
(04:01):
victimized by an immense amountof trauma that they've held
themselves in because theyhaven't been given the tools and
the education on how to processit.
Like, that's what a label cando, and I think that if we're
able to really use words inanother way to describe the
truth, this world could be verydifferent.
Blaire Stanislao (04:21):
I totally agree.
So what we're touching on hereis duality.
Justin Wood (04:24):
Yes, different I totally agree.
Blaire Stanislao (04:25):
So what we're touching on here is duality, yes
, and the spectrum.
Um, I don't, we don't.
I mean, this is the first timewe've met, so I don't know.
I'm just gonna throw some stuffout there and you can do
whatever.
So I recently have been umdiving a little into human
design and I actually studied,started studying astrology in
2016.
Didn't really know why, but Iwas like completely interested
in it and couldn't get enough ofit and so forth.
(04:46):
Um, I now know, like it's inyour chart, to be able to do
that, but I really felt recentlylike now I know the more of the
real reason why I got intoastrology is because it was a
back is background informationfor human design and in human
design which is similar orconnected to the gene keys, they
have these numbers that areassociated with a spectrum very
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similar to what you're talkingabout.
So, like one of uh, I thinkit's my personality, son.
Um, they're two.
They call them gates as well,so there's two and oh, two ends
and they're kind of like in away.
They're kind of opposites.
They're not really opposites,but they're similar to opposites
.
So mine is like 40 and 37.
(05:32):
So 40 is is about going inwardand and regenerating by being
alone.
Okay, so in other words, I needtime to myself, like this is a
huge part of who I am and who Iproject to the world.
And then the other end of thespectrum is embracing community,
like family, like the newfamily, not necessarily what
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your blood family is, but thepeople around you.
So I go back and forth betweenthose two and that's what
happens as people go throughthose gates.
But, in terms of it, I alsowant to touch on, like you were
talking about choosing thespecific words and there is a
limitation with language.
So how do you get around thelimitation of language to really
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talk about the ideas?
We were just talking about thatbefore I hit record a little
bit, but Well, the avenue arounda limited set of words is
action.
Justin Wood (06:36):
Actions always speak louder than words and they
are a language what you do.
You may not have all of thewords that you need to describe
what you want to say, so just dowhat you want to do.
You know what I mean.
Say, say what you mean and meanwhat you say and do what you
say Like I mean.
That's, that's the the mainthing about it.
I think all of us can be reallyheld by our actions in this life
(07:00):
.
Words are kind of a limited wayof talking about things,
because there's many things thathave a lot of power within them
that really don't, you know,demand such action.
And something that comes tomind is religion.
You know, like religion isfilled with words, but all of
religion was built off of oneman's actions.
(07:22):
Let's talk Christianity for thesake of having a conversation.
Or even Buddhism.
I mean Buddhism was builtaround one man's action Buddha.
You know we have Allah withinthe Muslim teachings.
You know they're all built offof an individual's actions, yet
they seem to come with so manywords to describe a very
(07:47):
simplistic experience, and onethat we all have the capability
of acting in our own way in ourown life, because I don't
believe we need followers inthis life.
I think we need leaders.
But I think the reason we lackleaders in this life is because
we lack an example of what wecan lead our lives by.
You know, you look at the youthand people today.
(08:11):
They're just so misled by whatthis idea of success is
Celebrity money, ceo materialism.
You know these work, work, work, be busy all the time.
It's just an illusion or it'sjust a one-sided perspective.
But then you have this hugething called religion that many,
(08:32):
many, many, many, many peopleare attracted to.
Yet the whole fundamental ofreligion is to take action in
your life to help your brothersand sisters and to remove
judgment and not to live in fearbut to live in love.
Yet society's translation ofthose words is very different
from their action.
Blaire Stanislao (08:51):
Yes and well, and, and, depending on where you
live, that religion is notnecessarily mandated, right or
it's.
It's not one religion, but um,but my thought about that is
(09:18):
like it is about action, butit's more like almost like the
feeling is a huge part of it.
Justin Wood (09:23):
So what do you think the sole purpose is of
life in general?
Love, it's love, it's love andit's connection.
That is the purpose, because weare all one and we are all one
and and we're all part of this,this same collective.
Um, we're just individualisticwithin an experience, so we're
all broken apart from the samething, but the thing is love.
(09:49):
It's that, the source is love.
This is what we find within allof us, which is why, when many
of us come together over onecommon interest, we can see the
pieces of love all come backtogether, which is why there's a
great demand for us to bedivided within who we are and
what we believe we can do.
I mean, we're being misled tothink that we're different,
(10:10):
based on culture, based onlanguage, based on religion,
based on color, and it's all anillusion because everything is
from an external representation,when really what we are is
beyond this.
We're beyond the size and thecolor and the language and the
culture and the.
What we are is beyond this.
We're beyond the size and thecolor and the language and the
culture and the tradition.
Everything is the light within,if the light within has been
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taught how to love andunderstand what love is in that
shared connection to otherpieces of love.
The world changes, everythingchanges, so the sole purpose is
for all those pieces of love toremember that, to remember where
they come from and to movethrough the density of the
energies of the difficultexperiences.
Many people are just held backby the inability to be seen or
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to be heard or to find valuewithin their story of, you know,
maybe being brought up poor ortheir mother left or their
father left, or they weren'tloved.
So they hide from that storyand they create an identity that
they display to other people,that has other people accept
them for that identity, nottheir true, authentic selves,
which is where we disconnectfrom ourselves to begin with.
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So our purpose begins with usnavigating our difficult
experiences and really findingthe education within it to share
with other people and thatconnects us to love and to each
other.
It really helps us find what'sreally meaningful in this life,
not money and materialism andthese labels that society places
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on us.
It's actually within our story.
It's it's all the educationthat comes with it so
interesting.
Blaire Stanislao (11:47):
You said that about essentially we're
separating we we as all oneseparate parts of ourselves to
then remember that we are oneagain right through.
What you're saying is throughthe lens of love, which I agree
to.
But let's speak a little bit,because I think you probably
have some experience of thisworking through those traumas,
(12:09):
because a lot of times peoplewill.
I just talked to a friendyesterday who I think it was
yesterday within the last twodays who is at a really really
or was at a really really lowplace because she just realized
some of the experiences that shehad in life that were extremely
horrible.
She had completely blocked themout of her memory.
She was actually shown thisstuff in a dream and they were
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really horrible.
She had completely blocked themout of her memory.
She was actually shown thisstuff in that dream and they
were really horrible things.
Now I don't know what yourexperience is, but my experience
is is, if the person is notreally ready to see whatever
they won't get shown it Like,they just won't see it.
So just the utter fact that sheactually saw that in her dream,
what was happening, is atestimony to how brave she is
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and how ready her soul is towork through those traumas.
But in that moment of it feelslike it's right before you have
the breakthrough.
But that moment of pain or itfeels like torture or whatever
you want to call it right beforeyou start to get to that
recognition, either of onenessor love or whatever is your next
step.
What is your experience withthat?
(13:18):
The moment of I almost feellike it could be represented in
if you're addicted to drugs andthis particular drug has this
very dramatic withdrawal process, almost like that withdrawal
process where, like, you feellike you're physically dying and
with a drug it might beactually a physical experience,
(13:38):
but it doesn't always have to bethat.
It's almost like that fortrauma anywhere.
Justin Wood (13:42):
Yeah, of course, as an individual who did
experience 23 years of usingheroin and all the drugs and
like 16 years with the needle,you know, I mean, I know all
about withdrawal, but withdrawalwas at the time a very
difficult teacher, but now it'sa very wonderful teacher to me
because you're exactly rightwithin your example Humans that
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are not using opiates or drugsthat demand them to be used.
What the body is reacting to isa disconnection from love.
So, like this is the power oflove we think as humans, like
love comes from anotherindividual as a feeling.
And yes, of course we can sharelove with another individual,
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but we cannot share love withanother individual authentically
, honestly and openly.
But we cannot share love withanother individual authentically
, honestly and openly unless wefirst understand what it means
to love ourselves.
And this is where we feel theseemotional body responses to
trauma.
So the body is stuck in fightor flight mode and it's because
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of this our nervous system isobstructed.
So the calibration that cantake place with using the energy
of love, like with through selflove and self care applications
, it is the medicine we allpossess, the medicine you don't
need to get these syntheticsexternally from us, like the
healthcare system dictates thatthey have our best interests at
hand, when in reality, what thatdoes is it obstructs the
vibrational frequency.
To even heal the body like havethe body heal itself, because
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we possess everything that weneed, we just really have to
understand how to use it.
So you know, with myself, forexample, um, you know I, I woke
up from a 23 year journey in ajail cell because I surrendered
my life to.
I surrendered my life to Jesusis what happened.
But the interesting thing withthose words again with words
(15:33):
came great intention.
I was homeless for years and Ijust, I'd lost everything.
I was homeless for years andyou know I just I'd lost
everything.
I wasn't a bad guy, I wasn't abad person, I just didn't love
myself and I didn't have thelanguage for that.
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So I had lost love.
I'd lost my children, I'd lost,you know, a couple of women
that I was with, the houses, thematerialism.
I lost everything because whathappened was is I lost myself.
Now you don't have to be a drugaddict, you don't have to be
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homeless to lose yourself.
Many, many, many people arelosing themselves and we call
this mental health.
So mental health is a wonderfullabel to just really put people
inside of boxes and prescribethe medication for a
disconnection to love, becausewe don't talk about love in this
life.
But I was so grateful to speakthose words.
I surrender my life to Jesus,but what I did was I aligned
with the frequency of love?
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It never dictated me to go andstudy the Bible and go to church
and preach scripture on thestreet.
What it showed me was that myaction would speak louder than
words, and I had an example ofhow I could lead my life.
So the only thing I really tookfrom that entire experience of
surrendering my life to Jesuswas to look at Jesus as an
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example.
And here I knew there was a manwho didn't have nothing.
He wasn't a king, he wasn'tthis living in this castle
somewhere.
He was a man with nothing, buthe cultivated this thing within
himself that he could go intoplaces with less and where there
were sick people and he couldheal them using his energy.
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So that was something that Icould comprehend and I could
understand.
So for the first time in my life, I had understood what love and
peace could do if I was willingto become a student on how to
learn it.
So in that jail cell, that day,I became a student of love, and
that was almost five years ago.
And it has been my pursuit tounderstand like this application
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of love.
And today, here we are likefive years later I have two
companies, I have a beautifulwife, I you know, I have all of
these wonderful things, but thething I'm most proud about is is
the love that I have for myself, because I took action to
understand tools like boundaries, forgiveness, gratitude,
honesty, authenticity.
(18:01):
These are the tools that weneed to really navigate our
trauma and see them from a placeof happening for us rather than
to us, and that's a big onethat people get lost in the
blame and victim mentality,which I can appreciate.
It's something that societydictates as an acceptable
measure of avoidance.
Blaire Stanislao (18:22):
Right, but I think we're in a culture of.
I mean, I've never lived in theEast like Eastern world, so I
don't know completely about that, I know a little bit about it,
but at least in the Westernworld we have this culture of
going outward, and I wouldventure to say that you had.
What you just shared with us isan experience of, yes, okay,
you use the substance, right,but you use the substance, I'm
(18:45):
guessing, to disconnect.
Whether you were conscious ofit or not, you're trying to
disconnect, and part of that wasfeelings that you didn't enjoy.
They weren't pleasant, and Iwould venture to say that, to be
honest, it doesn't really evenrequire a drug, because I see
people constantly lookingoutside of themselves to find
exactly what you were talkingabout.
(19:08):
I know a teenager who is datingsomebody, and this person that
she is dating is kind of alwaysreaching out for this.
It feels like it's clingy toher, but it's very obvious that
they're reaching out for love,right, like they're reaching out
for affirmation.
They're reaching out tounderstand that they are okay,
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and and that's where I think, atleast in relationships, you
wind up having those issues isif you've got somebody who is
very close to themselves anddoes understand that inner love,
and then you've got somebodywho's kind of at least on some
level looking for thatvalidation outward.
You don't have a two whole.
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The way I've heard it describedis you don't have two whole
beings coming together toexperience life together.
The way I've heard it describedis you don't have two whole
beings coming together toexperience life together.
You have one who might be wholeand then one who's still
looking on the outside, and soit was always clinging to these
things that are outsidethemselves but yet if they turn
around inside they'll find itRight.
Justin Wood (20:06):
Right, but they've not been given the tools in the
education which is, which is whythey have the podcast.
Blaire Stanislao (20:11):
That's what it's to put it out there.
Justin Wood (20:13):
Right, exactly, and that's why I started mine as
well and that's why I did drugs,and I mean this is why we have
codependency.
Like drugs is not a problem,like being addiction is not the
problem.
Addiction is a solution to aproblem.
Blaire Stanislao (20:26):
Yeah, yes, yep .
Justin Wood (20:28):
Like that's.
It's not a negative.
We don't need to it any morenegative than it already is, but
the reality of the situation isalways the truth.
So where does the truth lie?
Where did the attachment beginto become curated within one's
life?
And for me, I, in my family,like families all over the world
, we do not talk about how wefeel and it's not that I didn't
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come from a wonderful family,because I did but my parents
were never given the tools ofhow to love themselves and
communicate about that, so theycouldn't teach me something they
didn't know, because mygrandparents never taught them
that our generational traumathat we all carry is an
inability to love ourselves andto avoid communicating about how
we feel, which is why 80% ofhomes are experiencing mental
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health and addiction and almost80% of people are medicated in
some form, way or or, or somesome way or shape or form.
And and that reality justreally dictates something is
very, very wrong.
But it's not this big globalproblem.
It's, it's a personal problem.
So, if we are able to findsolutions to these problems by
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offering the tools and theeducation that those of us who
have experienced these samedetriments but found and used
love as a tool to alchemizethese difficult experiences.
I mean, this is it and this iswhat we're showing up for.
And a lot of people right noware experiencing these shifts,
like you were talking about,your friend with this dream.
Um, there's an awakeninghappening, like there, there is
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absolutely an awakeninghappening and it can't be
stopped, no matter what anyonetries to do to try and avoid it.
You can't it it's.
It's light, penetrating thelight body, which is the vessel.
So it's it's bringing ininformation that recalibrate a
nervous system and a connectionto source.
This is just the evolutionaryprocess.
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We've not come here to thisplanet to retire and pay taxes.
You came here to have all ofthe pieces of this thing called
God.
I don't like to say God, butlike this source of love, let's
say the source of love to comeall back together.
This is what we're doing, but wehave to do that within
ourselves first, so that we knowthe importance of connecting
with our brothers and sistersaround us, because we're all
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part of the same whole.
So when you have codependencyissues in so many different
formats, it's more so anattachment issue you look at
like shopping or food or videogames, social media, porn,
reading, work, alcohol, drugs,nicotine, coffee pick one,
they're all the same.
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It's all the same.
It's there to be used in a formto distract an individual from
having an ability to process afeeling on the inside because
they lack the language.
So these things, externallyfrom us, have become solutions.
But now, like you say, in thesepodcasts and individuals that
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have learned how to speak theirtruth, we're bringing the truth
into what these substances andthese attachments are actually
doing to us.
So you know, we're we're seeinga great awakening within people
that were living very difficultlives, which is beautiful.
It's a beautiful time.
Blaire Stanislao (23:41):
It is.
And actually you know, you, youtouched on something.
So as we talk about this, itgives me great hope it always
has, because I kind of had knownthis for a very long time.
But how does that change theworld?
Like, I can remember being ateacher and I had great hope in
the years that I taught withthose children because, of
course, like every generation,their brains work differently
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than the generations before,like they utilize different
parts of their brain, and so aswe gradually stop a lot of
people call it programming stopteaching them.
This is how you do it and youknow you've got to use your mind
for everything, and so forth.
As they start to kind of becomeless programmed and they start
to live in their heart, then wehave adults who are better able
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to live in their heart and maketheir decisions from their heart
.
That turns out to be is asociety of adults who are
grounded and centered in thatlove, take steps forward from
there and their relationshipsare better.
The things they produce arehelpful to not only themselves
but society and humanity as awhole, and I think that's where
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there is hope for the future,whereas if we were to stay in
the old programming like whatour parents or our grandparents
were to teach us the way thatthey operated not out of the
heart, not with those tools thatyou're talking about then, yeah
, we're going to create theworld that you know.
Sometimes the news presents asdoom and gloom and this is.
Justin Wood (25:11):
You know, all this is bad, that kind of thing then
says doom and gloom, and this is, you know, all this is bad,
that kind of thing.
It is because we have people,you know, avoiding their truth
and afraid to be their authenticselves.
And I think that any societythat's built out of fear, with
this, you know, looming,overview of an entity, an
organization that kind of cancontrol that fear through.
Overview of an entity, anorganization that kind of can
(25:33):
control that fear through, youknow, organizations and
establishments we'll just callthem that for the sake of the
podcast.
But you know, you kind of lookat that for what it is and you
go, wow, like why is fear sonormal within our society?
Well, because if you're afraid,you can be controlled.
Yes, you can be controlled, andthese practices of life through
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the generations have beencrumbling each generation a
little bit and a little bit more, because we start to see the
reality of what's actuallytranspiring.
I mean, you have companies andorganizations that are using
money as a way to control anddominate mankind, when in
reality, money is just afictitious source.
The only thing that allows itto have any value is a belief
(26:23):
system.
There's a belief system curatedinside of people to say this
fictitious thing, this littlepiece of paper is worth this
much, and the human life thatdoesn't have this little piece
of paper that is worth this muchis actually worth less.
This organic, physical beingthat was born into poverty and
had no hope, just because of itsyou know circumstances and
(26:46):
demographic, I mean it's worthless.
So I'm going to have youindoctrinated into this belief
system, which is what theeducation system does, and you
know it's.
It's really.
It's hard to carry on that,that education that our parents
try to put into us.
It's like, actually, you knowwhat.
That's not true.
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That's, that's not good forpeople, and I actually don't
think it's right for a baby thatis born of poverty to not have
any food or access to educationbased on these fictitious, you
know, pieces of paper, like youknow.
So it really changing the worldis is always been happening
within us.
It's just our truth.
(27:27):
It's our truth and ourconnection to love.
That is our true power.
Yet again, when we we talkabout these, these control
measures of fear, um, that's,they work very well like they.
They do, it's true and it'salmost like.
Blaire Stanislao (27:42):
It's almost like the.
Um, what do you call thatfinger handcuff thing like?
chinese finger yeah, the moreyou tighter it gets, and I've
thought about this a lot.
So the money thing, I totallyam.
I mean even.
It even goes in religion, likeyou know, or government, or
whatever you want to call it.
There's like, okay, there arepeople who are let's put a quote
at the top.
(28:02):
Right, they're at the top ofthe organization and they like
being at the top, they like thepower, they like whatever, and
so they're going to continue toperpetuate this belief structure
around money has value.
You know, you don't havefreedom unless you do.
We protect you or whatever.
It is right.
They're going to continue toperpetuate that because it keeps
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them there.
So if we can get the people whoare in those positions to
connect with the message of love, then we have to.
We're going to have.
I think what we'll have is likemass changes throughout the
world.
Because if, if a leader is ableto go into that space of
self-love and project that outto other people, then there's a
(28:47):
sense of safety.
Others can kind of get intotheir, their heart space and
kind of live from that place.
But but that's the interestingkey is like, how are we?
I'm really interested to seehow this is going to play out.
How does it?
How do we go from this paradigmof these little people, pieces
of paper or some kind of valuebased on something, and all of
(29:08):
these structures around?
What makes you valuable, whatmakes you not valuable?
And there is a time I feel likewe can see it actually evolve
into becoming more of humanity.
And this is also in the genekeys and the human design and I
don't remember which one it isbut there's this concept that
you know, letting go andoperating from the heart space.
(29:30):
For someone who is not able todo that or is not familiar with
it is really scary, because whatif things aren't organized?
But in reality, if you reallyjust led from the heart space,
you'll find that there iscomplete organization.
There is complete, there'sstructure that things will flow
and things will work.
Justin Wood (29:51):
The most important thing there is when we're
leading from the heart, space isbalance, and you don't really
have to worry about chaosexternally from you because
you're recalibrating the chaoswithin.
So when we operate from balance, we find ourselves in
communities and environments andin conversations that are
balanced because we understandthis frequency within ourselves.
(30:13):
So the fear will cause chaoswithin the nervous system and
within the mind to believe thatnothing can be organized because
we are not organized withinourselves.
So this living from the openheart centeredness really comes
from an understanding of balance, and we really have to have the
light and the dark, or thedifficult experiences and the
(30:34):
blessings to calibrate thatbalance and have a perspective
of both.
It's very important, just likewith words.
That being said, we need notlook to the leaders that are
currently in place as they livefrom an egotistical standpoint,
and the amount of work that itwould take to undo a lifetime of
(30:55):
being told that you're more andthen you're better and that
money is the power tool ofcontrol that we are in
possession of, is a long process, one that an individual can
move through at its own speed,with its willingness.
But where we're moving in thisnew earth is looking to
indigenous cultures, indigenousteachings.
(31:17):
So we have indigenous teachingsthat can help us organize
communities and live back on aland-based model.
Now, that doesn't mean that wewon't use modern technology, but
it doesn't come in the formatof these computers and the cell
phones, which are completelydetrimental to mankind.
It comes more so in harnessingfree energy from the earth and
using the energy of theatmosphere to grow an abundance
(31:42):
of food that is clean and freefrom GMO, and we curate the
nature as we tap back into ourconnection with it and we
understand it's just like themovie Avatar that we are so
connected to this source, thisfrequency, this energy that is
right under our feet andprovides this beautiful thing
called life that we as a wholeare able to thrive.
(32:04):
And we don't like.
These systems are justdefective.
They only keep a small numberof people in power and the rest
of us, you know, under its thumb.
But that's changing, like thisis, we're moving out of it.
Blaire Stanislao (32:15):
This time is very difficult, but it's so
beautiful yeah, it is really, uh, inspiring, I think, and it's
it leads to a lot of hope.
I think, yeah, if people can seepast which I think is one of
the reasons why pretty mucheverybody's on this path stops
watching the news, becausethat's where those programs are
just like.
That is just like beating itinto your head.
(32:36):
And even as a person who's onthis path, when I go out into
the world and I'm around otherpeople who maybe, maybe they're
not on this path or whateverthey don't get it Right it's it
is still sometimes very hard tobe like, okay, well, let me tell
you this thing, and you know,there's this huge fear of, I
think a lot of people experiencewhere you're going to be called
(32:56):
crazy.
I mean, that's a legitimatefear because within the
structure there is a potential.
I mean, I have known people Ihave you see it in movies like
you get labeled some kind ofmental disability or mental
condition and they're going tolook you up, you know, and then
you have no ability, and if theyfeed you with drugs it's even
worse.
So they're very real fears.
Justin Wood (33:20):
But we have examples like, let's say I'll
take one that most people canunderstand it's like John Lennon
.
You know, like John Lennon waskilled for his action.
The man was creating a movement, regardless of what we saw,
with a man shooting, him readingJD Salinger's book like the
Catcher in the Rye.
Sure, that's a narrative thatwas created, but the reality of
the situation is John Lennon wascreating a movement.
(33:42):
People were beginning to standup against the military based on
a man's actions, through hiswords.
So we all have the same abilityto become these examples.
So I look to these guys likethis, you know, that are willing
to step out of line, you know,and really take back their
(34:02):
sovereign entity and stand inthat and stand for what you
believe in.
But it doesn't come through theavenues of aggression,
intimidation and violence.
You know you become an exampleof love and you know I'll walk
into some rooms, like I mean, Iwork with addicts here all the
time on the street and I canwalk into some very dark areas.
(34:23):
But because I have this lovefor myself, it changes the room,
it changes the area, becauseit's infectious, because we are
vibrations and frequencies.
So if we can curate this withinus, somebody who might call you
crazy.
You walk into a room and theysee you and they see your
example.
They might go.
They're, they're lost for wordsbecause that word doesn't have
(34:44):
any value, it's not validanymore.
They can't call it that becausethey're like what the hell does
this guy have?
That happens to me all the time.
Like what, how do you have thisthing?
Which is why we're starting tocreate this six week courses.
Uh, myself, through my difficultexperience in my alchemization
of my um densities, my my denseemotional misunderstanding, into
(35:08):
this beautiful transition oflight.
Uh, I've got like eight otherpeople that have same kind of
stories, different, all withintheir not all addiction, because
it's not all addiction, right,it's so many different things
mental health, physical abuse,sexual abuse, trauma in so many
different forms.
So I've got like 10 people thatare all coming in and all of us
(35:29):
are throwing our best tools inthere, everything that we have
that helped us overcome andalchemize these very difficult
experiences and liveauthentically in this, this
place of love.
We're going to give it topeople.
So this is what we're, we'reworking on right now.
Blaire Stanislao (35:45):
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Justin Wood (00:27):
And they come with a frequency right, like words
are spells, they are vibrations.
I mean, I wrote some children'sbooks and one of the books is
the Power of Words and I thinkthat we should be taught that at
a very young age how much powerare inside of words, and not
only to each other but toourselves.
I mean, how much of aconversation are we having in
(00:48):
our mind in that language istowards ourselves.
So if we don't understand that,you know the words like hate
and I can't like our limitedbelief systems that create a
reality to hold us back.
I mean, geez, like we.
We've got to be having theseconversations and sharing this
education because it can reallyset us up for success in this
(01:09):
life in another way, likeanother idea of success,
something that has us becomesovereign, you know, and
independent within our ownthinking and feeling and not
have to have that comeexternally or be validated
externally from us.
Blaire Stanislao (01:23):
Yeah, I didn't really think about that too
much until even really just lastfive or 10 years where I
noticed I mean I guess I noticedother things when I was younger
, like I would have friends,parents, who I would go over to
their house or they'd be worriedabout their kid, like, oh, is
my child going to do this, thatbad behavior, or whatever.
(01:43):
And then they'd say, oh, no,they're with blair, it's fine.
And I was like, okay, I don'tknow about, but it did have to
do with that same kind of thingthere.
I somehow I know when to saysomething and when you just
don't say something.
It's like picking words isextremely important.
Um, greg brayden has a thing Idon't know if you've heard this,
(02:03):
but um, he has a little blurb.
I'm sure it's out theresomewhere, but he, he talks
about some tribe somewhere, I'mguessing, in Africa, and they
have, like I don't know, 25different words for the color I
don't remember it's green orblue, one or the other.
They don't have a name for theother color, either green or
(02:24):
blue or the other.
They don't have a name for theother color, either green or
blue.
And so, and then their dynamicof what their culture is like is
completely changed by that.
So you're talking about wordslike hate or I don't know what
you want to call I mean eveneven the word racist or any you
know.
Justin Wood (02:38):
Any kind of insightful word does stir things
up within people and it couldbe really eliminated if that was
not used yeah, I think thatjust understanding I I don't
know if we like eliminating themis a good idea, because I think
we, we knowing both sides isvery important.
(02:58):
I think you know likeeverything has harmony and
balance, just like when peopleleave their kids with you, they
don't think anything about it.
It's because you're balanced isbecause you, you know the
negative side of things and youknow the positive side of things
and you also know when andwhere to use those things.
So I think it is important tohave a good understanding of of
both sides.
But I do understand what you'resaying.
(03:19):
You know like we can reshape theway we are using words and the
way we are using labels.
I mean labels is such adetriment to society and to
mankind because we throw a labelon something and we have no
idea what that is.
But we've heard of this label.
You know, take addiction orhomelessness.
(03:40):
You know we can meet someoneand you can introduce them and
say they're homeless,homelessness.
You know we can meet someoneand you can introduce them and
say they're homeless.
Well, immediately you thinkjail, drug, addict,
untrustworthy, disrespectful.
You know, watch your stuff likeinsecurities are all arising
all out of this label andmeanwhile you know, you might
have someone in front of youwho's been physically or
sexually abused their whole lifeand they've just been
(04:01):
victimized by an immense amountof trauma that they've held
themselves in because theyhaven't been given the tools and
the education on how to processit.
Like, that's what a label cando, and I think that if we're
able to really use words inanother way to describe the
truth, this world could be verydifferent.
Blaire Stanislao (04:21):
I totally agree.
So what we're touching on hereis duality.
Justin Wood (04:24):
Yes, different I totally agree.
Blaire Stanislao (04:25):
So what we're touching on here is duality, yes
, and the spectrum.
Um, I don't, we don't.
I mean, this is the first timewe've met, so I don't know.
I'm just gonna throw some stuffout there and you can do
whatever.
So I recently have been umdiving a little into human
design and I actually studied,started studying astrology in
2016.
Didn't really know why, but Iwas like completely interested
in it and couldn't get enough ofit and so forth.
(04:46):
Um, I now know, like it's inyour chart, to be able to do
that, but I really felt recentlylike now I know the more of the
real reason why I got intoastrology is because it was a
back is background informationfor human design and in human
design which is similar orconnected to the gene keys, they
have these numbers that areassociated with a spectrum very
(05:10):
similar to what you're talkingabout.
So, like one of uh, I thinkit's my personality, son.
Um, they're two.
They call them gates as well,so there's two and oh, two ends
and they're kind of like in away.
They're kind of opposites.
They're not really opposites,but they're similar to opposites
.
So mine is like 40 and 37.
(05:32):
So 40 is is about going inwardand and regenerating by being
alone.
Okay, so in other words, I needtime to myself, like this is a
huge part of who I am and who Iproject to the world.
And then the other end of thespectrum is embracing community,
like family, like the newfamily, not necessarily what
(05:55):
your blood family is, but thepeople around you.
So I go back and forth betweenthose two and that's what
happens as people go throughthose gates.
But, in terms of it, I alsowant to touch on, like you were
talking about choosing thespecific words and there is a
limitation with language.
So how do you get around thelimitation of language to really
(06:19):
talk about the ideas?
We were just talking about thatbefore I hit record a little
bit, but Well, the avenue arounda limited set of words is
action.
Justin Wood (06:36):
Actions always speak louder than words and they
are a language what you do.
You may not have all of thewords that you need to describe
what you want to say, so just dowhat you want to do.
You know what I mean.
Say, say what you mean and meanwhat you say and do what you
say Like I mean.
That's, that's the the mainthing about it.
I think all of us can be reallyheld by our actions in this life
(07:00):
.
Words are kind of a limited wayof talking about things,
because there's many things thathave a lot of power within them
that really don't, you know,demand such action.
And something that comes tomind is religion.
You know, like religion isfilled with words, but all of
religion was built off of oneman's actions.
(07:22):
Let's talk Christianity for thesake of having a conversation.
Or even Buddhism.
I mean Buddhism was builtaround one man's action Buddha.
You know we have Allah withinthe Muslim teachings.
You know they're all built offof an individual's actions, yet
they seem to come with so manywords to describe a very
(07:47):
simplistic experience, and onethat we all have the capability
of acting in our own way in ourown life, because I don't
believe we need followers inthis life.
I think we need leaders.
But I think the reason we lackleaders in this life is because
we lack an example of what wecan lead our lives by.
You know, you look at the youthand people today.
(08:11):
They're just so misled by whatthis idea of success is
Celebrity money, ceo materialism.
You know these work, work, work, be busy all the time.
It's just an illusion or it'sjust a one-sided perspective.
But then you have this hugething called religion that many,
(08:32):
many, many, many, many peopleare attracted to.
Yet the whole fundamental ofreligion is to take action in
your life to help your brothersand sisters and to remove
judgment and not to live in fearbut to live in love.
Yet society's translation ofthose words is very different
from their action.
Blaire Stanislao (08:51):
Yes and well, and, and, depending on where you
live, that religion is notnecessarily mandated, right or
it's.
It's not one religion, but um,but my thought about that is
(09:18):
like it is about action, butit's more like almost like the
feeling is a huge part of it.
Justin Wood (09:23):
So what do you think the sole purpose is of
life in general?
Love, it's love, it's love andit's connection.
That is the purpose, because weare all one and we are all one
and and we're all part of this,this same collective.
Um, we're just individualisticwithin an experience, so we're
all broken apart from the samething, but the thing is love.
(09:49):
It's that, the source is love.
This is what we find within allof us, which is why, when many
of us come together over onecommon interest, we can see the
pieces of love all come backtogether, which is why there's a
great demand for us to bedivided within who we are and
what we believe we can do.
I mean, we're being misled tothink that we're different,
(10:10):
based on culture, based onlanguage, based on religion,
based on color, and it's all anillusion because everything is
from an external representation,when really what we are is
beyond this.
We're beyond the size and thecolor and the language and the
culture and the.
What we are is beyond this.
We're beyond the size and thecolor and the language and the
culture and the tradition.
Everything is the light within,if the light within has been
(10:32):
taught how to love andunderstand what love is in that
shared connection to otherpieces of love.
The world changes, everythingchanges, so the sole purpose is
for all those pieces of love toremember that, to remember where
they come from and to movethrough the density of the
energies of the difficultexperiences.
Many people are just held backby the inability to be seen or
(10:58):
to be heard or to find valuewithin their story of, you know,
maybe being brought up poor ortheir mother left or their
father left, or they weren'tloved.
So they hide from that storyand they create an identity that
they display to other people,that has other people accept
them for that identity, nottheir true, authentic selves,
which is where we disconnectfrom ourselves to begin with.
(11:20):
So our purpose begins with usnavigating our difficult
experiences and really findingthe education within it to share
with other people and thatconnects us to love and to each
other.
It really helps us find what'sreally meaningful in this life,
not money and materialism andthese labels that society places
(11:40):
on us.
It's actually within our story.
It's it's all the educationthat comes with it so
interesting.
Blaire Stanislao (11:47):
You said that about essentially we're
separating we we as all oneseparate parts of ourselves to
then remember that we are oneagain right through.
What you're saying is throughthe lens of love, which I agree
to.
But let's speak a little bit,because I think you probably
have some experience of thisworking through those traumas,
(12:09):
because a lot of times peoplewill.
I just talked to a friendyesterday who I think it was
yesterday within the last twodays who is at a really really
or was at a really really lowplace because she just realized
some of the experiences that shehad in life that were extremely
horrible.
She had completely blocked themout of her memory.
She was actually shown thisstuff in a dream and they were
(12:30):
really horrible.
She had completely blocked themout of her memory.
She was actually shown thisstuff in that dream and they
were really horrible things.
Now I don't know what yourexperience is, but my experience
is is, if the person is notreally ready to see whatever
they won't get shown it Like,they just won't see it.
So just the utter fact that sheactually saw that in her dream,
what was happening, is atestimony to how brave she is
(12:55):
and how ready her soul is towork through those traumas.
But in that moment of it feelslike it's right before you have
the breakthrough.
But that moment of pain or itfeels like torture or whatever
you want to call it right beforeyou start to get to that
recognition, either of onenessor love or whatever is your next
step.
What is your experience withthat?
(13:18):
The moment of I almost feellike it could be represented in
if you're addicted to drugs andthis particular drug has this
very dramatic withdrawal process, almost like that withdrawal
process where, like, you feellike you're physically dying and
with a drug it might beactually a physical experience,
(13:38):
but it doesn't always have to bethat.
It's almost like that fortrauma anywhere.
Justin Wood (13:42):
Yeah, of course, as an individual who did
experience 23 years of usingheroin and all the drugs and
like 16 years with the needle,you know, I mean, I know all
about withdrawal, but withdrawalwas at the time a very
difficult teacher, but now it'sa very wonderful teacher to me
because you're exactly rightwithin your example Humans that
(14:03):
are not using opiates or drugsthat demand them to be used.
What the body is reacting to isa disconnection from love.
So, like this is the power oflove we think as humans, like
love comes from anotherindividual as a feeling.
And yes, of course we can sharelove with another individual,
(14:24):
but we cannot share love withanother individual authentically
, honestly and openly.
But we cannot share love withanother individual authentically
, honestly and openly unless wefirst understand what it means
to love ourselves.
And this is where we feel theseemotional body responses to
trauma.
So the body is stuck in fightor flight mode and it's because
(14:52):
of this our nervous system isobstructed.
So the calibration that cantake place with using the energy
of love, like with through selflove and self care applications
, it is the medicine we allpossess, the medicine you don't
need to get these syntheticsexternally from us, like the
healthcare system dictates thatthey have our best interests at
hand, when in reality, what thatdoes is it obstructs the
vibrational frequency.
To even heal the body like havethe body heal itself, because
(15:12):
we possess everything that weneed, we just really have to
understand how to use it.
So you know, with myself, forexample, um, you know I, I woke
up from a 23 year journey in ajail cell because I surrendered
my life to.
I surrendered my life to Jesusis what happened.
But the interesting thing withthose words again with words
(15:33):
came great intention.
I was homeless for years and Ijust, I'd lost everything.
I was homeless for years andyou know I just I'd lost
everything.
I wasn't a bad guy, I wasn't abad person, I just didn't love
myself and I didn't have thelanguage for that.
(15:55):
So I had lost love.
I'd lost my children, I'd lost,you know, a couple of women
that I was with, the houses, thematerialism.
I lost everything because whathappened was is I lost myself.
Now you don't have to be a drugaddict, you don't have to be
(16:16):
homeless to lose yourself.
Many, many, many people arelosing themselves and we call
this mental health.
So mental health is a wonderfullabel to just really put people
inside of boxes and prescribethe medication for a
disconnection to love, becausewe don't talk about love in this
life.
But I was so grateful to speakthose words.
I surrender my life to Jesus,but what I did was I aligned
with the frequency of love?
(16:37):
It never dictated me to go andstudy the Bible and go to church
and preach scripture on thestreet.
What it showed me was that myaction would speak louder than
words, and I had an example ofhow I could lead my life.
So the only thing I really tookfrom that entire experience of
surrendering my life to Jesuswas to look at Jesus as an
(16:58):
example.
And here I knew there was a manwho didn't have nothing.
He wasn't a king, he wasn'tthis living in this castle
somewhere.
He was a man with nothing, buthe cultivated this thing within
himself that he could go intoplaces with less and where there
were sick people and he couldheal them using his energy.
(17:18):
So that was something that Icould comprehend and I could
understand.
So for the first time in my life, I had understood what love and
peace could do if I was willingto become a student on how to
learn it.
So in that jail cell, that day,I became a student of love, and
that was almost five years ago.
And it has been my pursuit tounderstand like this application
(17:41):
of love.
And today, here we are likefive years later I have two
companies, I have a beautifulwife, I you know, I have all of
these wonderful things, but thething I'm most proud about is is
the love that I have for myself, because I took action to
understand tools like boundaries, forgiveness, gratitude,
honesty, authenticity.
(18:01):
These are the tools that weneed to really navigate our
trauma and see them from a placeof happening for us rather than
to us, and that's a big onethat people get lost in the
blame and victim mentality,which I can appreciate.
It's something that societydictates as an acceptable
measure of avoidance.
Blaire Stanislao (18:22):
Right, but I think we're in a culture of.
I mean, I've never lived in theEast like Eastern world, so I
don't know completely about that, I know a little bit about it,
but at least in the Westernworld we have this culture of
going outward, and I wouldventure to say that you had.
What you just shared with us isan experience of, yes, okay,
you use the substance, right,but you use the substance, I'm
(18:45):
guessing, to disconnect.
Whether you were conscious ofit or not, you're trying to
disconnect, and part of that wasfeelings that you didn't enjoy.
They weren't pleasant, and Iwould venture to say that, to be
honest, it doesn't really evenrequire a drug, because I see
people constantly lookingoutside of themselves to find
exactly what you were talkingabout.
(19:08):
I know a teenager who is datingsomebody, and this person that
she is dating is kind of alwaysreaching out for this.
It feels like it's clingy toher, but it's very obvious that
they're reaching out for love,right, like they're reaching out
for affirmation.
They're reaching out tounderstand that they are okay,
(19:29):
and and that's where I think, atleast in relationships, you
wind up having those issues isif you've got somebody who is
very close to themselves anddoes understand that inner love,
and then you've got somebodywho's kind of at least on some
level looking for thatvalidation outward.
You don't have a two whole.
(19:49):
The way I've heard it describedis you don't have two whole
beings coming together toexperience life together.
The way I've heard it describedis you don't have two whole
beings coming together toexperience life together.
You have one who might be wholeand then one who's still
looking on the outside, and soit was always clinging to these
things that are outsidethemselves but yet if they turn
around inside they'll find itRight.
Justin Wood (20:06):
Right, but they've not been given the tools in the
education which is, which is whythey have the podcast.
Blaire Stanislao (20:11):
That's what it's to put it out there.
Justin Wood (20:13):
Right, exactly, and that's why I started mine as
well and that's why I did drugs,and I mean this is why we have
codependency.
Like drugs is not a problem,like being addiction is not the
problem.
Addiction is a solution to aproblem.
Blaire Stanislao (20:26):
Yeah, yes, yep .
Justin Wood (20:28):
Like that's.
It's not a negative.
We don't need to it any morenegative than it already is, but
the reality of the situation isalways the truth.
So where does the truth lie?
Where did the attachment beginto become curated within one's
life?
And for me, I, in my family,like families all over the world
, we do not talk about how wefeel and it's not that I didn't
(20:49):
come from a wonderful family,because I did but my parents
were never given the tools ofhow to love themselves and
communicate about that, so theycouldn't teach me something they
didn't know, because mygrandparents never taught them
that our generational traumathat we all carry is an
inability to love ourselves andto avoid communicating about how
we feel, which is why 80% ofhomes are experiencing mental
(21:11):
health and addiction and almost80% of people are medicated in
some form, way or or, or somesome way or shape or form.
And and that reality justreally dictates something is
very, very wrong.
But it's not this big globalproblem.
It's, it's a personal problem.
So, if we are able to findsolutions to these problems by
(21:36):
offering the tools and theeducation that those of us who
have experienced these samedetriments but found and used
love as a tool to alchemizethese difficult experiences.
I mean, this is it and this iswhat we're showing up for.
And a lot of people right noware experiencing these shifts,
like you were talking about,your friend with this dream.
Um, there's an awakeninghappening, like there, there is
(21:59):
absolutely an awakeninghappening and it can't be
stopped, no matter what anyonetries to do to try and avoid it.
You can't it it's.
It's light, penetrating thelight body, which is the vessel.
So it's it's bringing ininformation that recalibrate a
nervous system and a connectionto source.
This is just the evolutionaryprocess.
(22:20):
We've not come here to thisplanet to retire and pay taxes.
You came here to have all ofthe pieces of this thing called
God.
I don't like to say God, butlike this source of love, let's
say the source of love to comeall back together.
This is what we're doing, but wehave to do that within
ourselves first, so that we knowthe importance of connecting
with our brothers and sistersaround us, because we're all
(22:42):
part of the same whole.
So when you have codependencyissues in so many different
formats, it's more so anattachment issue you look at
like shopping or food or videogames, social media, porn,
reading, work, alcohol, drugs,nicotine, coffee pick one,
they're all the same.
(23:02):
It's all the same.
It's there to be used in a formto distract an individual from
having an ability to process afeeling on the inside because
they lack the language.
So these things, externallyfrom us, have become solutions.
But now, like you say, in thesepodcasts and individuals that
(23:23):
have learned how to speak theirtruth, we're bringing the truth
into what these substances andthese attachments are actually
doing to us.
So you know, we're we're seeinga great awakening within people
that were living very difficultlives, which is beautiful.
It's a beautiful time.
Blaire Stanislao (23:41):
It is.
And actually you know, you, youtouched on something.
So as we talk about this, itgives me great hope it always
has, because I kind of had knownthis for a very long time.
But how does that change theworld?
Like, I can remember being ateacher and I had great hope in
the years that I taught withthose children because, of
course, like every generation,their brains work differently
(24:04):
than the generations before,like they utilize different
parts of their brain, and so aswe gradually stop a lot of
people call it programming stopteaching them.
This is how you do it and youknow you've got to use your mind
for everything, and so forth.
As they start to kind of becomeless programmed and they start
to live in their heart, then wehave adults who are better able
(24:26):
to live in their heart and maketheir decisions from their heart
.
That turns out to be is asociety of adults who are
grounded and centered in thatlove, take steps forward from
there and their relationshipsare better.
The things they produce arehelpful to not only themselves
but society and humanity as awhole, and I think that's where
(24:51):
there is hope for the future,whereas if we were to stay in
the old programming like whatour parents or our grandparents
were to teach us the way thatthey operated not out of the
heart, not with those tools thatyou're talking about then, yeah
, we're going to create theworld that you know.
Sometimes the news presents asdoom and gloom and this is.
Justin Wood (25:11):
You know, all this is bad, that kind of thing then
says doom and gloom, and this is, you know, all this is bad,
that kind of thing.
It is because we have people,you know, avoiding their truth
and afraid to be their authenticselves.
And I think that any societythat's built out of fear, with
this, you know, looming,overview of an entity, an
organization that kind of cancontrol that fear through.
Overview of an entity, anorganization that kind of can
(25:33):
control that fear through, youknow, organizations and
establishments we'll just callthem that for the sake of the
podcast.
But you know, you kind of lookat that for what it is and you
go, wow, like why is fear sonormal within our society?
Well, because if you're afraid,you can be controlled.
Yes, you can be controlled, andthese practices of life through
(26:00):
the generations have beencrumbling each generation a
little bit and a little bit more, because we start to see the
reality of what's actuallytranspiring.
I mean, you have companies andorganizations that are using
money as a way to control anddominate mankind, when in
reality, money is just afictitious source.
The only thing that allows itto have any value is a belief
(26:23):
system.
There's a belief system curatedinside of people to say this
fictitious thing, this littlepiece of paper is worth this
much, and the human life thatdoesn't have this little piece
of paper that is worth this muchis actually worth less.
This organic, physical beingthat was born into poverty and
had no hope, just because of itsyou know circumstances and
(26:46):
demographic, I mean it's worthless.
So I'm going to have youindoctrinated into this belief
system, which is what theeducation system does, and you
know it's.
It's really.
It's hard to carry on that,that education that our parents
try to put into us.
It's like, actually, you knowwhat.
That's not true.
(27:06):
That's, that's not good forpeople, and I actually don't
think it's right for a baby thatis born of poverty to not have
any food or access to educationbased on these fictitious, you
know, pieces of paper, like youknow.
So it really changing the worldis is always been happening
within us.
It's just our truth.
(27:27):
It's our truth and ourconnection to love.
That is our true power.
Yet again, when we we talkabout these, these control
measures of fear, um, that's,they work very well like they.
They do, it's true and it'salmost like.
Blaire Stanislao (27:42):
It's almost like the.
Um, what do you call thatfinger handcuff thing like?
chinese finger yeah, the moreyou tighter it gets, and I've
thought about this a lot.
So the money thing, I totallyam.
I mean even.
It even goes in religion, likeyou know, or government, or
whatever you want to call it.
There's like, okay, there arepeople who are let's put a quote
at the top.
(28:02):
Right, they're at the top ofthe organization and they like
being at the top, they like thepower, they like whatever, and
so they're going to continue toperpetuate this belief structure
around money has value.
You know, you don't havefreedom unless you do.
We protect you or whatever.
It is right.
They're going to continue toperpetuate that because it keeps
(28:23):
them there.
So if we can get the people whoare in those positions to
connect with the message of love, then we have to.
We're going to have.
I think what we'll have is likemass changes throughout the
world.
Because if, if a leader is ableto go into that space of
self-love and project that outto other people, then there's a
(28:47):
sense of safety.
Others can kind of get intotheir, their heart space and
kind of live from that place.
But but that's the interestingkey is like, how are we?
I'm really interested to seehow this is going to play out.
How does it?
How do we go from this paradigmof these little people, pieces
of paper or some kind of valuebased on something, and all of
(29:08):
these structures around?
What makes you valuable, whatmakes you not valuable?
And there is a time I feel likewe can see it actually evolve
into becoming more of humanity.
And this is also in the genekeys and the human design and I
don't remember which one it isbut there's this concept that
you know, letting go andoperating from the heart space.
(29:30):
For someone who is not able todo that or is not familiar with
it is really scary, because whatif things aren't organized?
But in reality, if you reallyjust led from the heart space,
you'll find that there iscomplete organization.
There is complete, there'sstructure that things will flow
and things will work.
Justin Wood (29:51):
The most important thing there is when we're
leading from the heart, space isbalance, and you don't really
have to worry about chaosexternally from you because
you're recalibrating the chaoswithin.
So when we operate from balance, we find ourselves in
communities and environments andin conversations that are
balanced because we understandthis frequency within ourselves.
(30:13):
So the fear will cause chaoswithin the nervous system and
within the mind to believe thatnothing can be organized because
we are not organized withinourselves.
So this living from the openheart centeredness really comes
from an understanding of balance, and we really have to have the
light and the dark, or thedifficult experiences and the
(30:34):
blessings to calibrate thatbalance and have a perspective
of both.
It's very important, just likewith words.
That being said, we need notlook to the leaders that are
currently in place as they livefrom an egotistical standpoint,
and the amount of work that itwould take to undo a lifetime of
(30:55):
being told that you're more andthen you're better and that
money is the power tool ofcontrol that we are in
possession of, is a long process, one that an individual can
move through at its own speed,with its willingness.
But where we're moving in thisnew earth is looking to
indigenous cultures, indigenousteachings.
(31:17):
So we have indigenous teachingsthat can help us organize
communities and live back on aland-based model.
Now, that doesn't mean that wewon't use modern technology, but
it doesn't come in the formatof these computers and the cell
phones, which are completelydetrimental to mankind.
It comes more so in harnessingfree energy from the earth and
using the energy of theatmosphere to grow an abundance
(31:42):
of food that is clean and freefrom GMO, and we curate the
nature as we tap back into ourconnection with it and we
understand it's just like themovie Avatar that we are so
connected to this source, thisfrequency, this energy that is
right under our feet andprovides this beautiful thing
called life that we as a wholeare able to thrive.
(32:04):
And we don't like.
These systems are justdefective.
They only keep a small numberof people in power and the rest
of us, you know, under its thumb.
But that's changing, like thisis, we're moving out of it.
Blaire Stanislao (32:15):
This time is very difficult, but it's so
beautiful yeah, it is really, uh, inspiring, I think, and it's
it leads to a lot of hope.
I think, yeah, if people can seepast which I think is one of
the reasons why pretty mucheverybody's on this path stops
watching the news, becausethat's where those programs are
just like.
That is just like beating itinto your head.
(32:36):
And even as a person who's onthis path, when I go out into
the world and I'm around otherpeople who maybe, maybe they're
not on this path or whateverthey don't get it Right it's it
is still sometimes very hard tobe like, okay, well, let me tell
you this thing, and you know,there's this huge fear of, I
think a lot of people experiencewhere you're going to be called
(32:56):
crazy.
I mean, that's a legitimatefear because within the
structure there is a potential.
I mean, I have known people Ihave you see it in movies like
you get labeled some kind ofmental disability or mental
condition and they're going tolook you up, you know, and then
you have no ability, and if theyfeed you with drugs it's even
worse.
So they're very real fears.
Justin Wood (33:20):
But we have examples like, let's say I'll
take one that most people canunderstand it's like John Lennon
.
You know, like John Lennon waskilled for his action.
The man was creating a movement, regardless of what we saw,
with a man shooting, him readingJD Salinger's book like the
Catcher in the Rye.
Sure, that's a narrative thatwas created, but the reality of
the situation is John Lennon wascreating a movement.
(33:42):
People were beginning to standup against the military based on
a man's actions, through hiswords.
So we all have the same abilityto become these examples.
So I look to these guys likethis, you know, that are willing
to step out of line, you know,and really take back their
(34:02):
sovereign entity and stand inthat and stand for what you
believe in.
But it doesn't come through theavenues of aggression,
intimidation and violence.
You know you become an exampleof love and you know I'll walk
into some rooms, like I mean, Iwork with addicts here all the
time on the street and I canwalk into some very dark areas.
(34:23):
But because I have this lovefor myself, it changes the room,
it changes the area, becauseit's infectious, because we are
vibrations and frequencies.
So if we can curate this withinus, somebody who might call you
crazy.
You walk into a room and theysee you and they see your
example.
They might go.
They're, they're lost for wordsbecause that word doesn't have
(34:44):
any value, it's not validanymore.
They can't call it that becausethey're like what the hell does
this guy have?
That happens to me all the time.
Like what, how do you have thisthing?
Which is why we're starting tocreate this six week courses.
Uh, myself, through my difficultexperience in my alchemization
of my um densities, my my denseemotional misunderstanding, into
(35:08):
this beautiful transition oflight.
Uh, I've got like eight otherpeople that have same kind of
stories, different, all withintheir not all addiction, because
it's not all addiction, right,it's so many different things
mental health, physical abuse,sexual abuse, trauma in so many
different forms.
So I've got like 10 people thatare all coming in and all of us
(35:29):
are throwing our best tools inthere, everything that we have
that helped us overcome andalchemize these very difficult
experiences and liveauthentically in this, this
place of love.
We're going to give it topeople.
So this is what we're, we'reworking on right now.
Blaire Stanislao (35:45):
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