November 10, 2024 • 51 mins
What if the signs from our departed loved ones are not just coincidences but messages of love and guidance? Do we shift dimensions to experience them? Join us for an intriguing conversation with Kim, who shares the hopeful and miraculous story of her Aunt Ro. Initially given only hours to live, Aunt Ro defied expectations and lived 12 days, leaving behind a legacy of spiritual insights. We look at how she continues to touch Kim's life symbolizing the enduring connections we have with those who have passed on.
Personal stories of synchronicity and unexpected encounters illustrate how life's randomness often holds deeper meanings. Aunt Ro’s wisdom on the transformative power of compassion within family dynamics is a reminder of the lasting influence of love and understanding.
Finally, we discuss the vibrational energy that shapes our experiences and how aligning with joy and inspiration enhances our journey. Embrace the unexpected, from spontaneous car purchases to seeing the world through an open-hearted lens. With reflections on the joy of life, inspired by Aunt Ro and other departed loved ones, this episode invites you to celebrate your connections and remain receptive to the universe's signs.
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Rebecca (00:07):
Welcome to the Mystical Truths Podcast.
This is Rebecca and I'm reallyglad you're here.
Let's unlock your world.
On March 21st of this year, Ireleased a talk that I had with
my guest, im, about how her AuntRo suddenly and unexpectedly
ended up in hospice with a 10 to48 hour window to live.
(00:30):
It would be great if you goback and listen to that and then
come and listen to this If youremember it.
Wonderful Either way.
This is going to be great evenwithout that one, because I
asked Kim to return todaybecause Aunt Ro is back.
Welcome, kim.
Kim (00:47):
Hi, thank you.
Rebecca (00:50):
I'm so glad that you followed your inspiration to
email me to cue me in on what'sbeen happening lately with Aunt
Ro, because I think that this isexactly what people can relate
to and it will actually helpeverybody to understand how we
keep that connection going.
How do we keep thatrelationship alive?
(01:10):
Do we have to do it?
Does it do it by itself?
Do we have to connect dots?
So Kim, when you let me knowwhat's been happening, I
thought,Not only was that a really
interesting story.
.
.
and just to give people alittle bit of the back backstory
, Kim's Aunt Ro.
She was a power of attorney forAunt Ro and she suddenly ended
up in hospice with 10 to 48hours to live, and that left Kim
(01:33):
sort of in a tailspin of tryingto get all of her last wishes
accomplished in 10 hours or less, and miraculously Kim made it
through all of that and thenAunt Ro lived for 12 days, and
so there was a lot that went onthere.
It's a really interesting storyand most of all, what I like
(01:56):
about it is when it was the 12thday and time for Aunt Ro to
make her passing, everybody wasperfectly placed.
We connected so many dots,because we were able to look and
see how well designed that allis.
(02:17):
When you're in it, when you'reliving it, it's generally harder
to see how perfectlyorchestrated it all is.
And we also took a look at howwe torture ourselves through
things like this because of whatwe think is happening to the
other person and what we'reexperiencing.
The title of that episode, bythe way, is Did I Make the Right
Caregiving Decision?
(02:38):
And, like I said, that wasMarch of 2024.
So if you want to grab that oneand listen to it at some point,
it really is so nice to seethat, if we just step back from
these things, we learn so muchabout life, about death, just by
taking that broader view ofwhat was really going on there.
(02:59):
Did Kim make the rightcaregiving decisions?
Is there such a thing as thatbeing wrong?
Can we make the wrongcaregiving decisions, which we
really can't.
We explained in that episodethat when death is going to be,
(03:19):
we can't interfere with thatprocess.
It's going to be what it'sgoing to be.
It finds its beautiful,orchestrated way of happening,
and the better we get aboutpaying attention to it and
understanding it, the easier itis for everybody, the person
passing and all of us who arenot at that point.
(03:39):
So, is there anything youwanted to add to that, kim?
Kim (03:43):
I think you summarized it very well, thanks.
Rebecca (03:45):
And so, Aunt Ro passed and gave us some signs
after and there was so muchinformation leading up to that
point, and so now it's been howlong since your Aunt Ro has
passed?
Kim (03:57):
About four years.
Rebecca (03:59):
Okay.
So do you think she's stillpaying attention?
You think she's still part ofyour life?
Kim (04:05):
Absolutely.
Rebecca (04:10):
And you know this because of some of the things
that you've been experiencinghere and there.
Right, so you, you, like I said, I'm so glad you followed your
inspiration, because that's whatthis is.
They will inspire us to spreadthe word, to share.
These are experiences that youhad.
You can relate, your husbandcan relate, but now, like we
(04:30):
said before, Aunt Ro's story wasrippling out there in so many
great ways, and now it's goingto do it again, like how amazing
that Aunt Ro is back to teachus more and to show us more.
Kim (04:42):
And it's so her personality to do that.
Rebecca (04:44):
Yeah, see, it makes perfect sense, and so I think
you started your email with howimportant anniversaries were to
her and where that went for youlately.
Kim (04:57):
Yeah, she would always like birthdays and anniversaries.
She made it a point that youhad to celebrate it and every
birthday, every anniversary, youwould get a phone call from her
and she would sing happybirthday or she had to sing
happy anniversary doing thehappy birthday melody.
But she never let one pass andthere'd always be a card in the
mail and she would always sayyou do something, especially for
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wedding anniversaries, becauseI think she just realized what
a special gift it is tocelebrate your wedding
anniversary with your spousebecause her husband had died
when they were so young, so shewas always like you guys do
something special.
You celebrate it.
So well, I'll back up, myhusband and I, for our honeymoon
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, had gone to Hawaii and bought,as a trinket to bring back,
they sell these roots ofdifferent types of plants that
are in Hawaii and I bought oneand brought it home and I
planted it and I had it for 18years and it never once bloomed.
It was beautiful but it neverbloomed.
It was very healthy and it wasvery big.
I mean it was like five feettall, it was a bird of paradise
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but never once did I get a bloomon that plant.
One year after she died.
The day of my weddinganniversary, there were two big,
beautiful orange blooms on thatplant and I just know that was
her way of celebrating andsaying happy anniversary again.
Rebecca (06:20):
Because otherwise we would be saying oh, what a
coincidence, right?
Isn't that funny how, justaround your anniversary after
she passes, and after all thoseyears of having the plant, it
blooms! And, I really want topoint out that one thing I
appreciate about you is that youpay attention and you see these
things and you give them creditwhen they happen, and that's
what I want other people to beable to see.
(06:42):
This isn't work.
This isn't hard, this isn'tanything we have to grab for.
It's there.
Just pay attention and bewilling to say it's not a
burning bush, but it is prettycool, because what are the
chances?
Kim (06:58):
Yeah, and once you're open to it, it's almost like you
can't help but see it.
Yeah, I mean it literally wasthe day of my anniversary.
All of a sudden, these bloomsappeared, big, beautiful orange
blooms, just two, like one foreach of us.
It was, I remember my jawdropped and I said to my husband
oh my god, look at that.
Rebecca (07:18):
Kim
Ro! Rebecca (07:19):
And see, that could have happened any day and
you wouldn't have connected thedots.
I don't think quite as much asit happening on your anniversary
, because she made a big dealout of dates like that.
So how clever of her.
They're always so clever, buthow clever of her to pick that
day knowing that you two wouldsee the connection.
(07:41):
It seems subtle, but I thinkit's really important, it's
really cool stuff.
I think that we can learn to bewith it right there when it
happens, instead of going huh,well, that's interesting, I
don't know.
I mean, maybe that was her, itcould be.
And that's okay.
It's not that they're upsetwhen that happens if we don't
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connect the dots, but it's morefun when we do.
Kim (08:08):
You could just be seen as oh, what a coincidence.
Yeah, I mean, you could look atit that way, but you know it's
more fun not to.
Rebecca (08:16):
Even if it seems a little silly at first to think,
okay, was it her?
I think it was.
I'm just going to believe itwas her.
Do that!, because when you dothat, you start to open up more
in yourself that is ready formore of that.
So, even if it doesn't feel asreal as you'd like it to be or,
I'm saying this for everybodyout there, then just play with
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it and just let another onehappen, and let another one
happen, and before too long youstart to realize that this is
really a thing that's happening.
And it may remain subtle becausethey're not wanting to remain
too active in our lives here,because we're here to focus
where we're at and there's areason why we're here and they
(08:59):
are no longer physical.
So they will play with us andthey will guide and entertain
and all that kind of stuff, butthey don't want to be too much a
part of.
I mean, we don't have to talkto them all day long, every day,
and expect them to answer every..
you know sort of, I don't know,but they will answer every
(09:20):
question.
So I can't say that, becausethe other side, the all of the
other side, it's not just oneloved one when we have a
question, when we want someguidance, it's being answered by
a large number, we'll say andeven these signs that you're
getting from her are most likelymore than just her, anyway, you
(09:41):
know, but it's fun for us toconnect it to one person that we
knew here.
Kim (09:46):
What do you mean by that?
It's not just her.
Rebecca (09:48):
Well, I think that there are so many souls that are
aware of all of us and who arepaying attention and guiding us
that it tends to be a collectiveoffering from the other side.
We're not individual souls somuch, like we think.
(10:09):
When we're in a human body wefeel very individual.
When we're outside, when we'renot focused through our physical
body, we realize this divineconnection that we all have and
we don't have to consult witheach other about.
As in, Kim's asking a questionor Kim could use a little high
sign right now from us.
Which one of us should do it.
(10:32):
It's not a thought process likethat, it's just a seeing, a
knowing, a doing, a sharing.
So, it's always more collectivethan we think it is.
But, of course, they understandwhen we want to just pin it on
one person.
There are souls that you don'teven remember right now that
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know you very well and know youbetter than you currently know
yourself, because we have a verylimited memory.
They're all a part of that lovethat comes forward.
That orchestration of the plantblossoming NOW.
Is she like the main focalpoint of it?
Probably, but they tell ussometimes, you're just not aware
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of how many of us are payingattention and how many of us are
reveling in the guidance andthe connecting of the dots that
happen.
So, we are very well tended toand when we think, well, you
know, I have like maybe two,three, four people that I've
known here who've passed, soI've got a few eyes on the other
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side.
It's way more than that.
It's just that you can identifymore personally with those few
because you knew them physicallyhere and we don't have the
memory of the others on purpose,because to remember all of that
would be sort of aninterference here.
Just like I feel we don'tremember past lives because
(12:06):
we're hard enough on ourselvesjust remembering this past.
Can you imagine if youremembered all of your past, all
the things that you thoughtwere mistakes or screw ups, or
maybe memories of people thatnow you're going to start
missing because you knew themtwo lifetimes ago and they might
not be incarnated with youright now?
In this current life, we havelived a lot of lives just in
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this life, so to speak.
Right, and we've been closewith many people that we aren't
anymore, whether they're aliveor not.
My children don't know mygrowing up people, friends, or
my grandparents.
They barely knew my mom andnever knew my dad.
He died when I was right out ofhigh school.
So I had that whole life.
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I've had friends and coworkersthat I don't have now.
So we have all of these things,these different lives that we've
lived, that we remember, andthey tell us we usually don't
accurately remember THIS pastanyway.
We sort of twist it in ourminds often.
So can you imagine if weremembered more than this life?
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We would do a twisty job with alot of that and we'd be beating
ourselves up for so much of it.
And then something wouldtrigger a memory, and then we'd
be upset about that.
I think we have enough in onelifetime to to focus on and to
pay attention to, and it is niceto know, though, that we can
still have this life and havethe other side participate in it
(13:33):
.
You know, they've been a partof our history, and I don't
think there's anything wrongwith remembering a past life or
regressing into a past life, butI think our main focus is right
here and right now, becausewe're always living in the now,
and that's a nother talk.
So what?
What happened after the theblossoming?
Kim (13:56):
Well, I actually hadn't told anybody this story.
I told my husband because Iknew he would understand it, but
then I didn't tell anybodybecause I thought they would
think I'm nuts, but then youcame out.
Your last episode was talkingabout, you had an epiphany about
different dimensions and, itwas literally your last episode
that you released and itprompted me.
(14:16):
I thought, okay, you know what?
Because I was like I shouldtell Rebecca this, I should tell
her?
And I thought no.
And then you released thatepisode and I thought, this is a
sign I should tell her.
So I had some free time, whichis unusual, and it was quiet,
and so I sat down and I typed itall out in an email so I could
remember it all and I send it toyou and it kind of it links
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through time, so to speak.
So many years ago, probably 15years ago and let me just
preface this, I'm going to beextremely vague on some stories
because it's not my story totell, I'm just telling how their
story affected me.
S o, I'm going to be vague insome areas.
(15:01):
But about 15 years ago, afamily member of mine had done
something that was just, it wasjust they made a stupid choice
and I was close to this familymember and I knew this person
knew better and I was so angrythat they did this.
We all make mistakes, but Ithink I was so close to this
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person and I just knew that theyknew better, they knew what the
consequences were and they madea dumb decision and I was so
angry, I was furious, and so atthe time she was my confidant,
her and I would talk a lot.
So I called her up and she wasclose to this family member too,
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and she was calm and shelistened to me and I just vented
to her and I was like how couldthis person be so stupid?
How could they do this?
Didn't they know what was goingto happen?
And I just went on and on andon and on.
I was so angry and she let metalk, and then I finally stopped
and she goes did you get it allout?
Do you feel better now?
(16:04):
And I looked at her like I waslike what do you mean?
Like aren't you mad?
And she goes well, I don'tagree with what they did, but do
you really think this personneeds your anger right now?
Do you think that that's whatthey could use, or do you think
maybe they need yourunderstanding and your love?
She goes don't you think thisperson knows they screwed up.
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Don't you think that they'reashamed of what they did?
And don't you think they'rebeating themselves up enough
already?
Do you really think they needyou to do more?
And she goes.
I don't agree with them, butI'm going to love them and I'm
going to support them throughwhat's going to be coming in the
future.
And I was like, she completelydeflated my anger.
I was just annoyed because shewas right.
(16:45):
She was always right.
But she's right, she wasabsolutely right.
And so it completely made mechange the way I was looking at
the situation and it completelymade me rethink how I was going
to move forward, because Ihadn't talked to this family
member yet.
I talked to Aunt Ro first.
It really, I learned a lot andit really probably saved the
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relationship I had with thisfamily member too, that I didn't
proceed with anger and insteadI was a supportive person.
In the end, everything workedout fine.
I mean, this person had theconsequences that they had to
deal with from their decision,but in the end, it worked out
fine.
So that was a long time ago, solet's fast forward to present
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time.
Earlier in this year, adifferent family member from a
different side of the family haddone something that was not a
good decision and was stupid.
I don't condone what they did inany way, shape or form and it
was kind of shocking.
And, of course, when the newsbroke, family members were
calling and texting and it wasgoing on all morning long and I
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just thought, instead of beingangry, I just had so much
compassion for this person andso much empathy and I felt bad
for them.
Again, I didn't condone whatthey did and I knew there were
going to be consequences theywere going to have to deal with.
But instead of being angry andsaying how stupid, they should
have known better, I just saidto the family members, I'm going
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to support this person and theimmediate people in their lives
because they really need thelove and support right now,
cause they had to be feelingpretty horrible and I thought,
my God, I learned that.
You know it.
It kinda paralleled with what Ihad learned from Aunt Rosemary,
like 15 years prior.
So this had gone on all morning.
I was getting texts and phonecalls and stuff, and so at
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lunchtime it was an absolutelybeautiful day, and so I said,
you know, I just need to get out, I'm going to take my dog for a
walk, I'm going to shake it alloff.
So I got my dog and we'rewalking around the neighborhood
and there was nobody out.
It was so calm and so quiet andso peaceful and, of course, you
know, it was in my mind,everything that was going on,
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and I just thought, well, I wasvery grateful to Aunt Rosemary
for, showing me a different wayto look at a very difficult
situation.
I was feeling very sorry forsome of the family members, but
I was feeling very compassionateand empathetic towards this
particular person, and so allthis was kind of going in my
mind.
And it was quiet, there wasnobody in the neighborhood, and
I was coming to the end of theblock, to a four-way stop sign,
and I turned the corner, turnedto the left, and as I turned the
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corner, this bright, shiny SUVpulls up to the stop sign and
the windows were down and theperson was in the driver's side,
they were leaning towards thepassenger side where I was
standing, and I had to back up.
I have to explain about my dog.
My dog barks at everything andeveryone like he's a nut, and
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especially if you look at him hefreaks out and so and he's a
big dog, he's like 90 pounds andhe's either sniffing around or
smelling something or he'sbarking at something.
So, anyway, I turn the corner,this big, bright, shiny SUV
pulls up, the window is down andthe person leans across to the
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passenger side and they'rewaving emphatically and there's
this big, huge smile and I swearto God, it was Aunt Ro.
It was her looking at me,smiling and waving her hand, and
I was stunned, I wasdumbfounded and I swear to God,
it was Aunt Ro.
And I just stared and I waslike, oh my God.
And I was so happy for her.
Because the one thing I don'tknow if I had mentioned about
Aunt Ro before is she had aToyota Corolla and it was like
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25 years old and she just keptit running because she couldn't
afford another vehicle.
And it was beat up and it wassunworn and it was just this,
rackety old car.
And so here I see her in thisbig, beautiful, shiny SUV and I
was so happy for her.
I'm like, oh my gosh, she got anew vehicle.
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I just felt so happy that shewas so happy, and I didn't even
blink my eyes and I was staringat her and all of a sudden her
face just morphed and she turnedinto my neighbor who lives
several blocks away, and I wasconfused and she was smiling and
she looked at my dog whohappened to be just standing
next to me, not sniffing thestop sign post, not barking at
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her, nothing.
He was just standing next to me, looking at her and she called
him by name and she said hi tohim and then she just drove off
and I just felt like there was aglitch in the matrix.
I felt like there was adimensional shift for a brief
moment of time.
It was just the weirdestfeeling.
It was so strange and the factthat my dog acted so calm and
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quiet and just stood there andlooked at her and I'm like, come
on, let's go.
And that's when he went overand started sniffing the stop
sign pole.
It was just a really weirdthing.
And so I came home and I toldmy husband I swear to God I saw
Aunt Ro today.
I swear I did.
But, like I said, I had her inmy mind all morning and I had a
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whole bunch of jumbled thingsin my mind.
I'm like, well, maybe my mindwas playing tricks on me, I
don't know, or maybe it reallywas her saying hi, I don't know.
So kind of put that aside.
So then, a few months later,we're coming up on my
anniversary again and my husbandreally wanted to go to the
lake for a couple of days tocelebrate our anniversary.
So he puts it together andwe're getting ready to leave and
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my car's engine light goes on,and so we take it to the
mechanic and we're like, goahead and work on it.
We're going to be away for afew days and so we go up to the
lake and on our anniversary weget a call from the mechanic and
the cost was way more than whatit was worth.
It was a 12-year-old car with147,000 miles on it.
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It wasn't worth it to put themoney in to fix what it needed.
So we were like, okay, fine,we're just going to enjoy our
anniversary, we're not going toworry about it.
We don't even have to replacethe car very soon because I work
from home and we have myhusband's truck it.
It's no big deal.
We came home and later that weekwe had some time and we were
driving.
I said, hey, let's just take alook and see what's out there.
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I'm in no rush to get a car,let's just see what's out there,
I'll get an idea.
I really like my old car.
It was an Acura.
We bought it used and I saidlet's go to the used Acura
dealership to just see what theyhave.
Give them our name, Ifsomething comes in that we might
like they can give us a call.
So my husband's driving and hepulls into what he thought was
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the used Acura dealership.
And so we get out and we startwalking around and we're looking
at the vehicles.
Turns out he didn't pull intothe used Acura dealership at all
.
He pulled into the used Hondadealership, which is similar,
but they're not the same.
I'm looking at these differentcars and the salesman comes over
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and he wasn't pushy or anything.
But we start talking and I'mtelling him, here's my budget,
here's what I'm looking for.
I'm in no rush.
If you happen to get somethingin, let me know.
You know the whole thing.
And in the meantime myhusband's walking around looking
at vehicles and he comes over.
He's like hey, Kim, take a lookat this.
So I take a look at this carand it was in my budget.
It had everything I was lookingfor, it was perfect.
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And, long story short, I boughta car that day and I had no
intentions of buying a car,absolutely none.
It was a used vehicle, it had acouple of scratches on it and
they said we'll take care of thescratches.
It was even dirty.
It was a lease that someone hadturned in.
It was just turned in and sohe's like, come back in a few
days and we'll have it clean,we'll take care of everything.
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So I said, okay.
Later that day we're walking mydog around the neighborhood
again and I'm like I can'tbelieve it.
I've never bought a car thatfast.
I've never.
And it wasn't even the car Iwanted.
It wasn't even the place Iwanted to be.
He just happened to be thereand the guy wasn't pushing it.
He was just like, oh, this iseverything you said, just went
down your checklist.
This fits it.
And I'm like I can't believe it.
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I research cars, I look at allthese different places, I try to
get the best deal.
So I'm just walking with myhusband, we're walking our dog
around the neighborhood andwithout realizing it, we start
walking past my neighbor's house.
The neighbor I had seen that dayand we had walked past her
house before, but her car hadalways been in the garage, it
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was never in the driveway and Ihad not seen her since that day
and we just happened to turn thecorner, we walked past her
house and her car is in thedriveway.
It's the same car I just bought, different color, but the same
car I just bought and I was like, oh my God, and my husband
starts laughing.
He's like holy crap.
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Because I was like that's thecar I saw and it was just so
funny.
So then later that week we hadgone to pick up my new car and
in the lot and there was thisorange butterfly that kept
flying around the car.
Now, you know, could it all bea coincidence?
I don't know, but it just allseemed very easy, it just all
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fell in place and I forgot tomention when we were up at the
lake the day of our anniversary,there was an orange butterfly
that kept following us as wewere walking on the lakeside.
Rebecca (26:13):
So you see how, SEE how this is! Isn't that fun?
And it is easy for us to go,especially after the fact.
Well, I don't know, maybe itwas just my mind playing tricks,
but it's, it's not uncommon.
Actually, she was on your mind,you were in appreciation, you
were in love and trying to atleast have some sort of kind
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feelings for somebody that wasgoing through something
difficult.
And you know what, in this islife, none of us screw up, but
we can put that word on it.
We make decisions that are notthe best.
We make decisions that otherpeople are not going to agree
with.
We came here to bang around anddo the best we can with what's
in us at every given moment, andthat's always changing.
(26:59):
And so isn't it funny howpeople are so quick to judge
somebody else and say, well,that was really wrong.
And now I'm mad because you didsomething that I didn't want
you to do.
And your aunt Ro was very wiseto see people from the eyes of
source.
Because that's what that is,when you can back up and see
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people from a broaderperspective and say I love you,
no matter what.
I don't have to like what youdid.
I don't have to agree with it.
Now, source doesn't disagreewith anything that we do here,
because they literally see thebigger picture.
But when we can say we are allbanging around here doing the
best we can with what's in us inthis moment, and that is so
(27:41):
different from a moment a dayago, tomorrow, because we can
look at people and say, hey, youdid know better, that wasn't
your best.
Well, it seemed like a goodidea at the time for them.
It was their best in just thatsplit moment.
And so and these are thethings that we came to expand
(28:12):
from, to learn, to dig deep,even.
So none of it is wrong, It issource saying I love you still,
and I know that me being angryor me being disappointed in you
will not help you, it will onlyhurt you, always.
Kim (28:27):
Yeah, she used to always say when you love somebody, you
have to love all of them thegood, the bad, the ugly.
Rebecca (28:32):
Yeah, and she taught that wisdom to you.
You retained it for a long timeand quickly put it right back
into use, right when somethingsimilar came up all those years
later and then you got yourselfin a nice place with it.
So here you are having a nicewalk with your dog, beautiful
(28:53):
day, nice and calm.
Of course, that is a perfecttime for her to impose her image
of who she was here oversomebody else.
So you were in a relaxed statewhere you could see that, and
she took the little crack ofleast resistance there to get
(29:13):
through and deliver something toyou.
That was sort of like a burningbush.
Those moments that we don't getthat often, that are so
profound and so, just in ourface, obvious, but they are
short lived.
Yeah it was seconds, and we liketo string it out, make it last
longer so that I have morereason to believe it.
(29:35):
But this is just the way it is.
They're not going to come inand do tricks for us and they're
not going to come in and try toconvince us of anything, but
they will give us those glimpsesof..
.
See, I'm right here, I see you,I feel you, I appreciate what
you're doing right now.
(29:55):
And how your wisdom is shiningnow, because other people are
going to learn from that, notnot just in your family, but
through this podcast.
Now.
Even so, just like we talkedlast episode about how this
ripples out what she did, howshe did it, what you did it, it
just ripples out.
And here we go again.
Right, this is going to rippleout.
(30:16):
This is going to cause somepeople to think, oh yeah, maybe
that is a better way to to goabout a situation like that, and
maybe, if I stay in a reallynice place, not all the time,
this is a world of contrast.
We're not going to stay in ahappy, sweet sort of sunshine
and roses place all of the time.
But when we can take ourselvesthere on purpose especially,
(30:56):
we're more apt to have thoseexperiences that just touch our
heart.
Because they didn't know whatthey were doing, they just knew
that they were inspired.
Something in them just had tolean and wave.
And your dog did what was verycalm, just sit there, didn't do
its usual thing.
It's typical, usual thing,because animals are, you know,
(31:19):
they can tune, they're in tune.
It's not like they're in tune,It's not like they have to do
it, they're in tune.
So it's easy for your dog torealize that oh, this is a whole
different energy right here.
And just respond to the energythat it was or that it is in
that, in that situation, in thatmoment, and which is more data
for you, right, that's moreinformation.
Kim (31:39):
Isn't that odd that my dog didn't do what it always does,
right?
And so I swear I see her.
And isn't it amazing that I seeher, and it feels good that
she's in a nice, shiny vehiclethat she didn't have when she
was here.
Rebecca (31:57):
It was her way of saying not only Hi, but pay
attention, because I havesomething really nice I'm going
to help you line up with.
And not just her, all of thosewho guide you, right?
Like I said, it's a collectivething.
They know what's in your what'son your list, what's in your
likes category, right?
(32:17):
They knew that this personcould synchronistically drive
down the street just at thatperfect time where you and your
dog were, right there.
.
You saw the SUV.
You saw Aunt Ro went about yourbusiness.
Something happens to yourvehicle.
You need a new one.
You just happen to go into thewrong lot and your husband just
(32:41):
happens to see a vehicle that isperfect for you, that is a
match for the one that you sawAunt Ro in.
How does it get any better thanthat?
I mean, the only way it getsbetter than that is if Aunt Ro
stands there and materializes infront of you, right?
Kim (32:56):
If she sells the car to me.
Rebecca (32:59):
Gives you the lottery number so you can pay for it.
No, I'm just kidding.
They don't do those trickseither.
But, how di vine is that, andthis is what I want people to
see.
This isn't difficult, and wedon't have to look for big,
dramatic conversations with them.
We should be aware of howthey're still blending into our
(33:24):
world, but they're not insertingthemselves into our world.
They're just blended and payingattention, very happily paying
attention and helping ussynchronize with what we want,
if we're in an easy enough placeto see it.
You know, if you had remaineddisgruntled or maybe for a while
(33:46):
thought, yeah, I should thinklike Aunt Ro, oh no, I can't,
I'm just pissed, then you wouldhave never had that experience.
You'd have been walking yourdog, you would have missed the
SUV, the whole thing justwouldn't have played out that
way, and Lord knows what vehicleyou'd be in right now.
LOL Might not be anything likeyou have now and another point
(34:08):
is that we don't have to workhard for the stuff that we want.
We've been taught we have towork hard.
Like you said, I have to do myresearch, like typically, if I'm
going to buy a vehicle, I'mdoing my research, I'm looking
to see what's out there, whatyou know, what the ratings are
on these things, what peoplehave been buying, what works out
for them?
Is the engine good enough?
(34:29):
Are people having problems withit?
That's a lot of work when,instead, we can just pay
attention to the other side.
That says, oh, look at this.
And then inspires your husbandto turn into the wrong lot and
inspires him to walk over to avehicle that they've made all
nice and shiny vibrationally tohim, so you just can't resist it
.
And then he shows it to you.
(34:51):
And then eventually you connectthe dots of the butterflies.
The first time you saw thebutterfly you probably thought,
oh, that's really cute, that'snice, but it really didn't mean
too much, right?
Until you saw the butterflygoing around the car.
And that's when we connectthose dots and go huh, there it
is it is, so easy.
Kim (35:09):
I've never bought a car so easy and so fast in my entire
life.
It was just literally fell inmy lap and I wasn't expecting to
buy a car.
I had no intentions two weeksearlier that I was going to get
a car.
The one I had was fine.
And then, all of a sudden, theengine was no good.
to get something, and it wasjust as much surprising to me
(35:30):
that I bought the car as quicklyand as easily as I did as it
was.
When when saw Aunt Ro drivingthe SUV up the street, I was in
shock.
It's like, confused.
It's almost like by the timeyour brain catches up to what's
happening, it's over becauseyour guard's back up.
My guard wasn't up when ithappened.
Rebecca (35:47):
Bingo, there's the key.
Yep, that's that crack of leastresistance, right, we're not
resistant in that moment, we'rejust being.
We're just being, and so iteasily happens.
It's happening anyway, but wemiss it when we're being
resistant.
It's not that these thingsaren't synchronizing up around
(36:08):
us all of the time.
Back to the dimensional idea.
Right, it's like being indifferent spaces, dimensions or
frequencies, however you want tothink of it, and you just can't
see the things that are there,just right there, but you can't
see them because you'revibrationally not lined up with
(36:29):
that.
(37:09):
two or three.
Second experience that I hadwhen I was reading that quote
and I not only felt, second gota visual of me.
I can't even find the words todescribe it, got a visual of me.
of me, find the words todescribe it.
It's like or something likethat.
(37:31):
It really felt like adimensional shift, and I'm sure
it was, and so that was morereal than any that I've had
before.
It was just I could feel, see,sense, whatever, my whole not my
body, necessarily from onestate of being to a different
state whole, being and what thatnecessarily, means, because when
(37:54):
that happens nothing elsearound you really changes.
Right now that you can see.
That's really interesting tothink about.
The room I'm in looks the same,the people around me look the
same, but I'm vibrationallydifferent.
Now I'm in a different state ofbeing, which is a different
state of attraction too, but I'min a different state of what I
(38:15):
see now, what I sync up with now.
We're always seeing and syncingup with things.
It just depends on whichvibrational state of being we're
in.
Are we in a vibrational stateof being, of unexpecting what we
want or expecting things to notwork out, or expecting this to
(38:36):
be difficult.
Then there we are.
If you're in that state of being, you're going to get what's in
that state.
It's like shopping on twodifferent levels of a department
store.
You know, if there are fourlevels to this department store
and you really want brand newfurniture and you go to a floor
(38:57):
where there's used furniture,you can stand there and complain
all day that it's not new.
" I'm not looking forrefurbished furniture and what's
wrong with my life that I can'thave new furniture?
I know other people do.
You can argue that point allday long, but the new furniture
is not going to be on that level.
It's not going to be on thatfloor.
So what do you need to do?
You need to change levels.
(39:19):
You need to go to a differentfloor in the department store
where the new furniture existsand let the people that want to
refurbish beautiful furniture beon that other floor.
None of the floors are wrong.
They're just different, verydifferent.
Some are very uncomfortable,some are very comfortable.
(39:40):
And like we said in the lastepisode, when we're going
through the soon to be death ofsomebody, there's nothing scary
or freaky or wrong about it.
(40:03):
So you know, when we are inthat mode it's really up to us
whether we make it verydifficult or very full of ease.
You know, and back in thatprevious episode with your aunt,
it was just your sheer desireto fill every like wish on her
(40:29):
list, everything that she wanteddone before she passed, and you
felt pressured in 10 hours tomaybe 48, which is a big
difference, to get all of thepeople in and get the priest in,
and there was no priest to befound and you know all that.
So it it fell togetherbeautifully, but it stressed you
(40:52):
out.
Kim (40:54):
Yeah, totally.
Rebecca (40:55):
But now, with what you know, if you go through an
experience like that again, thisis going to be like what Aunt
Ro taught you about how to dealwith somebody that just made a
what we call a bad decision.
Now, when we go through it thenext time we think okay, wait a
minute.
Everything is always workingout, and it works out so much
(41:15):
more smoothly and comfortably tous if we relax and just say,
okay, this will, everything willfind its place.
I will find a priest, or itwill find me, he will find me.
But you found what a priest.
.
Kim (41:36):
A priest, a minister and a pastor.
Rebecca (41:37):
Except you didn't get the Pope, which she made a joke
about that.
LOL so.
(42:00):
wNot only did you find one, but
you found three different peopleto come and help her and make
her feel more comfortable, andshe did get her last rites and
all that.
So it's just you know howbeautiful.
So, and you know, just to helpanybody remember that, listen to
that episode.
When she actually passed, youwere at home, relaxed, because
you'd been so stressed out rightwhere you needed to be watching
a movie that was about rosary,and she was about rosaries, and
your husband, who was theprobably easiest one to be with
her, the calmest, was with her,and your brother was at a diner
where he and Aunt Ro wouldfrequent.
(42:20):
Everybody was perfectly inplace and she let go.
Kim (42:27):
Yeah, yeah, that's exactly how it happened S h t p o?
(43:23):
.
Rebecca (42:32):
Every death is very intelligently and finely
synchronized and finallysynchronized.
It's just that it often happensin ways that we wouldn't have
picked consciously or figuredout or expected or you know.
But it is what it is.
And I say to people all thetime see what I mean.
(42:55):
See what I mean, becausesomebody will die and I'll say,
see how that person was going todie today, cause what are the I
mean?
Look at that.
How can you deny it was thatperson's day to die?
You know so, even with withanimals, it's the same.
And I think it's fun for us tolook at how that plays itself
(43:16):
out so that we can find moreease in it and then do what
we're doing today Watch how theconversation continues, how the
relationship has the opportunityif we want to continue.
In often subtle ways, althoughseeing her in that SUV wasn't so
much subtle, I think that was alittle more than subtle.
Kim (43:37):
That was almost a slap in the face again, like she did
with me the first time she saidyou know, you really think this
person needs your anger.
I was like it just stopped mein my tracks.
Seeing her in the SUV juststopped me in my tracks.
I was like she has a knack fordoing that, you know.
Rebecca (43:53):
A nd she did in that last episode, didn't she
Remember?
There was something went wrongwith the equipment or whatever
and we had to stop.
Kim (43:59):
Oh yeah, she stopped the equipment or and we had to stop.
Yeah, well, actually, I wantedto point out to you I think this
is pretty funny.
You probably didn't realize it.
We had originally scheduled todo this Monday, right, and then
I wasn't feeling good, I wasfeeling a little bit, I just
wasn't feeling it and I hadcontemplated a few times of
(44:19):
contacting you and asking you ifwe could reschedule and I
thought, no, no, we, you know,both of our schedules are busy.
I'll just push through, I'll gowith it.
And then later that afternoonyou had contacted me and said
hey, can we reschedule becauseyou were having equipment issues
again.
So we reschedule for today.
Today is the day afterHalloween.
(44:41):
You know, Aunt Ro was veryCatholic.
She followed the Catholicreligion.
Today is All Saints Day in theCatholic world.
I just thought that was funny.
We rescheduled to a day whereshe would be in church today
going to mass, and you know,yesterday was Halloween.
You know, the veil is supposedto be the thinnest at this time
(45:04):
of the year.
Rebecca (45:07):
Yeah, because they make a point with this stuff.
And it's not even that theynecessarily agree with our
religious ideas here.
It's just that they know how wecan connect the dots.
And it's funny because normallyI would have powered through
that and I would have found away to make that work so that we
could have kept our time, but Ijust felt like, no, it'll just
(45:31):
be better, and that's guidance,that's what you do, you pay
attention to.
It just feels like we shouldreschedule.
And then it ended up you hadbeen getting the same thing.
So you see how, and it's justso funny because when the
episode was interrupted thatfirst time, that was at a tender
moment for you, so it gave youtime to kind of, regroup.
(45:54):
Yeah, and then when I recordedthat little insert to put in
there to explain to everybodywhat had just happened, I said
something like okay, let's getback into the episode, then I
noticed something else with thetiming and, remember, I texted
you about that, which made sense.
So, I put another insert intothe episode that I was like,
okay, now we're really going togo back, but I wanted people to
(46:15):
understand why we went from avery tender moment to a more
conversational moment.
It's just so much fun when wejust have fun with it.
I mean, that's what they tellus.
That's why my one of myfavorite sayings is Isn't Fun
the Best Thing to Have?
I saw that in that movie Arthur,he was like a drunken rich man.
(46:39):
Remember he was, yeah, yeah,Liza Minnelli.
I think was his girlfriend init.
Kim (46:44):
I love the song from that movie.
I just listened to it last week.
Rebecca (46:47):
I always loved that movie and his character I just
thought was so funny.
And at some point in the earlypart of the movie he says in a
drunken state, " isn't fun, thebest thing to have, but I'm
taking that with me.
I love that.
That is so true.
An artist friend of mine put iton a plaque for me.
I'm looking at it on mybookshelf right now.
(47:07):
It's in my signature for myMystical Truths emails.
That's just been my thing, islike isn't fun the best thing to
have?
People can say, well, isn'tthis blank the best thing to
have?
But it's all fun.
Isn't love the best thing?
Well, that's fun.
Isn't family the best thing tohave?
Well, that's fun.
(47:28):
It all comes back to fun andthey do tell us often from the
other side, you're all takingthis life too seriously.
Lighten up, have more fun andthen there will be more fun to
be had.
It'll just synchronize up andwe can have fun with them.
Just like, I know I've probablytold this story in a different
episode where my mother, a fewyears or so after she passed, I
(47:50):
had some rotisserie chicken andI thought, you know I should, I
want to do something with thischicken and I just had this
thought oh, mom's chicken saladwas so good, so I start breaking
up the chicken and I got somemayonnaise and I thought, oh,
yeah, I have grapes.
And I went and got the grapesand I thought, oh, I do have
raisins.
She put raisins in there,that's right.
A nd so I realized like, oh,mom, I could sense her.
(48:13):
She was saying you have apples,but apples in there, you have
walnuts.
And I'm like, yes, I do havewalnuts.
So I went and got the walnuts.
It was the best chicken salad Iever made, and so it's just fun
, because the inspirations orthe good ideas, the bright ideas
that we get, are generally notcoming from our brain.
(48:36):
They're not generated from ourthought process, they're shared.
Not that we're not smart, we dohave good ideas, but we are
that connected and it's thatmuch of a blend that, no matter
who you are, it's happening,because it can't not happen.
We're all one.
Kim (48:55):
The world would be a better place if we could have more fun
.
Rebecca (48:58):
Yeah, and it's our choice.
That's the good news.
It's literally our decision.
It's our choice whether we havefun or not.
So the next time somebody isgoing into the another dreaded
meeting that they don't want togo to, it's the choice before
you go there.
That's why I teach aboutpre-paving or pre-programming,
(49:20):
and that's an Abraham thing fromthe Abraham teachings, is that
you can program it ahead of timebecause you're pre-programming
anyway.
"This is going to be anotherone of those meetings and then
it's going to be another one.
Or you can just say you knowwhat, I don't know, maybe we'll
get a better version of peopletoday.
I think I'll just have fun withthis today.
I mean, not enough fun that Iget fired, but enough fun that I
(49:52):
can actually enjoy it.
So, anyway, that was really.
I mean, I just love how theother side is so sweetly gently
available and we can pick up onthat.
We can be an easy cooperativecomponent.
They call it an easycooperative component to how
life works.
So wonderful.
Kim (50:10):
Yeah, I hope that she, I think she's probably happy I
realized, you know, I mean shewas like waving her hand so fast
, so hopefully she realized,like oh good, Kim got it.
Rebecca (50:22):
Oh yeah, she realizes.
I mean, she's right there,she's in the moment, how could
she not?
And they know how much we lovethem.
They know that it's reallygreat when we don't miss them,
because there's no reason tomiss them.
They don't miss us.
Of course it's easier for themLOL.
(50:42):
They see the bigger pictureright, they see it all.
But for us we don't have tomiss them.
We certainly can, but we don'thave to miss them because we can
continue with them.
Of course we may say, well, Ikind of miss the physical part
of them being here and going outto lunch, to the diner.
But this is life.
Things change.
It doesn't always remain thesame, it shouldn't.
Kim (51:02):
We wouldn't grow if it did.
Rebecca (51:03):
That's exactly right.
That's what we came here for,yeah.
So thanks again, kim.
I appreciate it.
:Kim (51:16):
You're welcome.
Rebecca (51:16):
Keep us posted on Aunt Ro as she continues to unfold in
your life.
I'm sure that'll be fun.
I will.
A nd to all of you out there, it was a pleasure, and
you can find meat
mysticaltruthscom.
Welcome to the Mystical Truths Podcast.
This is Rebecca and I'm reallyglad you're here.
Let's unlock your world.
On March 21st of this year, Ireleased a talk that I had with
my guest, im, about how her AuntRo suddenly and unexpectedly
ended up in hospice with a 10 to48 hour window to live.
(00:30):
It would be great if you goback and listen to that and then
come and listen to this If youremember it.
Wonderful Either way.
This is going to be great evenwithout that one, because I
asked Kim to return todaybecause Aunt Ro is back.
Welcome, kim.
Kim (00:47):
Hi, thank you.
Rebecca (00:50):
I'm so glad that you followed your inspiration to
email me to cue me in on what'sbeen happening lately with Aunt
Ro, because I think that this isexactly what people can relate
to and it will actually helpeverybody to understand how we
keep that connection going.
How do we keep thatrelationship alive?
(01:10):
Do we have to do it?
Does it do it by itself?
Do we have to connect dots?
So Kim, when you let me knowwhat's been happening, I
thought,Not only was that a really
interesting story.
.
.
and just to give people alittle bit of the back backstory
, Kim's Aunt Ro.
She was a power of attorney forAunt Ro and she suddenly ended
up in hospice with 10 to 48hours to live, and that left Kim
(01:33):
sort of in a tailspin of tryingto get all of her last wishes
accomplished in 10 hours or less, and miraculously Kim made it
through all of that and thenAunt Ro lived for 12 days, and
so there was a lot that went onthere.
It's a really interesting storyand most of all, what I like
(01:56):
about it is when it was the 12thday and time for Aunt Ro to
make her passing, everybody wasperfectly placed.
We connected so many dots,because we were able to look and
see how well designed that allis.
(02:17):
When you're in it, when you'reliving it, it's generally harder
to see how perfectlyorchestrated it all is.
And we also took a look at howwe torture ourselves through
things like this because of whatwe think is happening to the
other person and what we'reexperiencing.
The title of that episode, bythe way, is Did I Make the Right
Caregiving Decision?
(02:38):
And, like I said, that wasMarch of 2024.
So if you want to grab that oneand listen to it at some point,
it really is so nice to seethat, if we just step back from
these things, we learn so muchabout life, about death, just by
taking that broader view ofwhat was really going on there.
(02:59):
Did Kim make the rightcaregiving decisions?
Is there such a thing as thatbeing wrong?
Can we make the wrongcaregiving decisions, which we
really can't.
We explained in that episodethat when death is going to be,
(03:19):
we can't interfere with thatprocess.
It's going to be what it'sgoing to be.
It finds its beautiful,orchestrated way of happening,
and the better we get aboutpaying attention to it and
understanding it, the easier itis for everybody, the person
passing and all of us who arenot at that point.
(03:39):
So, is there anything youwanted to add to that, kim?
Kim (03:43):
I think you summarized it very well, thanks.
Rebecca (03:45):
And so, Aunt Ro passed and gave us some signs
after and there was so muchinformation leading up to that
point, and so now it's been howlong since your Aunt Ro has
passed?
Kim (03:57):
About four years.
Rebecca (03:59):
Okay.
So do you think she's stillpaying attention?
You think she's still part ofyour life?
Kim (04:05):
Absolutely.
Rebecca (04:10):
And you know this because of some of the things
that you've been experiencinghere and there.
Right, so you, you, like I said, I'm so glad you followed your
inspiration, because that's whatthis is.
They will inspire us to spreadthe word, to share.
These are experiences that youhad.
You can relate, your husbandcan relate, but now, like we
(04:30):
said before, Aunt Ro's story wasrippling out there in so many
great ways, and now it's goingto do it again, like how amazing
that Aunt Ro is back to teachus more and to show us more.
Kim (04:42):
And it's so her personality to do that.
Rebecca (04:44):
Yeah, see, it makes perfect sense, and so I think
you started your email with howimportant anniversaries were to
her and where that went for youlately.
Kim (04:57):
Yeah, she would always like birthdays and anniversaries.
She made it a point that youhad to celebrate it and every
birthday, every anniversary, youwould get a phone call from her
and she would sing happybirthday or she had to sing
happy anniversary doing thehappy birthday melody.
But she never let one pass andthere'd always be a card in the
mail and she would always sayyou do something, especially for
(05:20):
wedding anniversaries, becauseI think she just realized what
a special gift it is tocelebrate your wedding
anniversary with your spousebecause her husband had died
when they were so young, so shewas always like you guys do
something special.
You celebrate it.
So well, I'll back up, myhusband and I, for our honeymoon
(05:40):
, had gone to Hawaii and bought,as a trinket to bring back,
they sell these roots ofdifferent types of plants that
are in Hawaii and I bought oneand brought it home and I
planted it and I had it for 18years and it never once bloomed.
It was beautiful but it neverbloomed.
It was very healthy and it wasvery big.
I mean it was like five feettall, it was a bird of paradise
(06:02):
but never once did I get a bloomon that plant.
One year after she died.
The day of my weddinganniversary, there were two big,
beautiful orange blooms on thatplant and I just know that was
her way of celebrating andsaying happy anniversary again.
Rebecca (06:20):
Because otherwise we would be saying oh, what a
coincidence, right?
Isn't that funny how, justaround your anniversary after
she passes, and after all thoseyears of having the plant, it
blooms! And, I really want topoint out that one thing I
appreciate about you is that youpay attention and you see these
things and you give them creditwhen they happen, and that's
what I want other people to beable to see.
(06:42):
This isn't work.
This isn't hard, this isn'tanything we have to grab for.
It's there.
Just pay attention and bewilling to say it's not a
burning bush, but it is prettycool, because what are the
chances?
Kim (06:58):
Yeah, and once you're open to it, it's almost like you
can't help but see it.
Yeah, I mean it literally wasthe day of my anniversary.
All of a sudden, these bloomsappeared, big, beautiful orange
blooms, just two, like one foreach of us.
It was, I remember my jawdropped and I said to my husband
oh my god, look at that.
Rebecca (07:18):
Kim
Ro! Rebecca (07:19):
And see, that could have happened any day and
you wouldn't have connected thedots.
I don't think quite as much asit happening on your anniversary
, because she made a big dealout of dates like that.
So how clever of her.
They're always so clever, buthow clever of her to pick that
day knowing that you two wouldsee the connection.
(07:41):
It seems subtle, but I thinkit's really important, it's
really cool stuff.
I think that we can learn to bewith it right there when it
happens, instead of going huh,well, that's interesting, I
don't know.
I mean, maybe that was her, itcould be.
And that's okay.
It's not that they're upsetwhen that happens if we don't
(08:03):
connect the dots, but it's morefun when we do.
Kim (08:08):
You could just be seen as oh, what a coincidence.
Yeah, I mean, you could look atit that way, but you know it's
more fun not to.
Rebecca (08:16):
Even if it seems a little silly at first to think,
okay, was it her?
I think it was.
I'm just going to believe itwas her.
Do that!, because when you dothat, you start to open up more
in yourself that is ready formore of that.
So, even if it doesn't feel asreal as you'd like it to be or,
I'm saying this for everybodyout there, then just play with
(08:37):
it and just let another onehappen, and let another one
happen, and before too long youstart to realize that this is
really a thing that's happening.
And it may remain subtle becausethey're not wanting to remain
too active in our lives here,because we're here to focus
where we're at and there's areason why we're here and they
(08:59):
are no longer physical.
So they will play with us andthey will guide and entertain
and all that kind of stuff, butthey don't want to be too much a
part of.
I mean, we don't have to talkto them all day long, every day,
and expect them to answer every..
you know sort of, I don't know,but they will answer every
(09:20):
question.
So I can't say that, becausethe other side, the all of the
other side, it's not just oneloved one when we have a
question, when we want someguidance, it's being answered by
a large number, we'll say andeven these signs that you're
getting from her are most likelymore than just her, anyway, you
(09:41):
know, but it's fun for us toconnect it to one person that we
knew here.
Kim (09:46):
What do you mean by that?
It's not just her.
Rebecca (09:48):
Well, I think that there are so many souls that are
aware of all of us and who arepaying attention and guiding us
that it tends to be a collectiveoffering from the other side.
We're not individual souls somuch, like we think.
(10:09):
When we're in a human body wefeel very individual.
When we're outside, when we'renot focused through our physical
body, we realize this divineconnection that we all have and
we don't have to consult witheach other about.
As in, Kim's asking a questionor Kim could use a little high
sign right now from us.
Which one of us should do it.
(10:32):
It's not a thought process likethat, it's just a seeing, a
knowing, a doing, a sharing.
So, it's always more collectivethan we think it is.
But, of course, they understandwhen we want to just pin it on
one person.
There are souls that you don'teven remember right now that
(10:55):
know you very well and know youbetter than you currently know
yourself, because we have a verylimited memory.
They're all a part of that lovethat comes forward.
That orchestration of the plantblossoming NOW.
Is she like the main focalpoint of it?
Probably, but they tell ussometimes, you're just not aware
(11:23):
of how many of us are payingattention and how many of us are
reveling in the guidance andthe connecting of the dots that
happen.
So, we are very well tended toand when we think, well, you
know, I have like maybe two,three, four people that I've
known here who've passed, soI've got a few eyes on the other
(11:43):
side.
It's way more than that.
It's just that you can identifymore personally with those few
because you knew them physicallyhere and we don't have the
memory of the others on purpose,because to remember all of that
would be sort of aninterference here.
Just like I feel we don'tremember past lives because
(12:06):
we're hard enough on ourselvesjust remembering this past.
Can you imagine if youremembered all of your past, all
the things that you thoughtwere mistakes or screw ups, or
maybe memories of people thatnow you're going to start
missing because you knew themtwo lifetimes ago and they might
not be incarnated with youright now?
In this current life, we havelived a lot of lives just in
(12:28):
this life, so to speak.
Right, and we've been closewith many people that we aren't
anymore, whether they're aliveor not.
My children don't know mygrowing up people, friends, or
my grandparents.
They barely knew my mom andnever knew my dad.
He died when I was right out ofhigh school.
So I had that whole life.
(12:49):
I've had friends and coworkersthat I don't have now.
So we have all of these things,these different lives that we've
lived, that we remember, andthey tell us we usually don't
accurately remember THIS pastanyway.
We sort of twist it in ourminds often.
So can you imagine if weremembered more than this life?
(13:11):
We would do a twisty job with alot of that and we'd be beating
ourselves up for so much of it.
And then something wouldtrigger a memory, and then we'd
be upset about that.
I think we have enough in onelifetime to to focus on and to
pay attention to, and it is niceto know, though, that we can
still have this life and havethe other side participate in it
(13:33):
.
You know, they've been a partof our history, and I don't
think there's anything wrongwith remembering a past life or
regressing into a past life, butI think our main focus is right
here and right now, becausewe're always living in the now,
and that's a nother talk.
So what?
What happened after the theblossoming?
Kim (13:56):
Well, I actually hadn't told anybody this story.
I told my husband because Iknew he would understand it, but
then I didn't tell anybodybecause I thought they would
think I'm nuts, but then youcame out.
Your last episode was talkingabout, you had an epiphany about
different dimensions and, itwas literally your last episode
that you released and itprompted me.
(14:16):
I thought, okay, you know what?
Because I was like I shouldtell Rebecca this, I should tell
her?
And I thought no.
And then you released thatepisode and I thought, this is a
sign I should tell her.
So I had some free time, whichis unusual, and it was quiet,
and so I sat down and I typed itall out in an email so I could
remember it all and I send it toyou and it kind of it links
(14:37):
through time, so to speak.
So many years ago, probably 15years ago and let me just
preface this, I'm going to beextremely vague on some stories
because it's not my story totell, I'm just telling how their
story affected me.
S o, I'm going to be vague insome areas.
(15:01):
But about 15 years ago, afamily member of mine had done
something that was just, it wasjust they made a stupid choice
and I was close to this familymember and I knew this person
knew better and I was so angrythat they did this.
We all make mistakes, but Ithink I was so close to this
(15:23):
person and I just knew that theyknew better, they knew what the
consequences were and they madea dumb decision and I was so
angry, I was furious, and so atthe time she was my confidant,
her and I would talk a lot.
So I called her up and she wasclose to this family member too,
(15:44):
and she was calm and shelistened to me and I just vented
to her and I was like how couldthis person be so stupid?
How could they do this?
Didn't they know what was goingto happen?
And I just went on and on andon and on.
I was so angry and she let metalk, and then I finally stopped
and she goes did you get it allout?
Do you feel better now?
(16:04):
And I looked at her like I waslike what do you mean?
Like aren't you mad?
And she goes well, I don'tagree with what they did, but do
you really think this personneeds your anger right now?
Do you think that that's whatthey could use, or do you think
maybe they need yourunderstanding and your love?
She goes don't you think thisperson knows they screwed up.
(16:24):
Don't you think that they'reashamed of what they did?
And don't you think they'rebeating themselves up enough
already?
Do you really think they needyou to do more?
And she goes.
I don't agree with them, butI'm going to love them and I'm
going to support them throughwhat's going to be coming in the
future.
And I was like, she completelydeflated my anger.
I was just annoyed because shewas right.
(16:45):
She was always right.
But she's right, she wasabsolutely right.
And so it completely made mechange the way I was looking at
the situation and it completelymade me rethink how I was going
to move forward, because Ihadn't talked to this family
member yet.
I talked to Aunt Ro first.
It really, I learned a lot andit really probably saved the
(17:09):
relationship I had with thisfamily member too, that I didn't
proceed with anger and insteadI was a supportive person.
In the end, everything workedout fine.
I mean, this person had theconsequences that they had to
deal with from their decision,but in the end, it worked out
fine.
So that was a long time ago, solet's fast forward to present
(17:29):
time.
Earlier in this year, adifferent family member from a
different side of the family haddone something that was not a
good decision and was stupid.
I don't condone what they did inany way, shape or form and it
was kind of shocking.
And, of course, when the newsbroke, family members were
calling and texting and it wasgoing on all morning long and I
(17:54):
just thought, instead of beingangry, I just had so much
compassion for this person andso much empathy and I felt bad
for them.
Again, I didn't condone whatthey did and I knew there were
going to be consequences theywere going to have to deal with.
But instead of being angry andsaying how stupid, they should
have known better, I just saidto the family members, I'm going
(18:15):
to support this person and theimmediate people in their lives
because they really need thelove and support right now,
cause they had to be feelingpretty horrible and I thought,
my God, I learned that.
You know it.
It kinda paralleled with what Ihad learned from Aunt Rosemary,
like 15 years prior.
So this had gone on all morning.
I was getting texts and phonecalls and stuff, and so at
(18:38):
lunchtime it was an absolutelybeautiful day, and so I said,
you know, I just need to get out, I'm going to take my dog for a
walk, I'm going to shake it alloff.
So I got my dog and we'rewalking around the neighborhood
and there was nobody out.
It was so calm and so quiet andso peaceful and, of course, you
know, it was in my mind,everything that was going on,
(19:02):
and I just thought, well, I wasvery grateful to Aunt Rosemary
for, showing me a different wayto look at a very difficult
situation.
I was feeling very sorry forsome of the family members, but
I was feeling very compassionateand empathetic towards this
particular person, and so allthis was kind of going in my
mind.
And it was quiet, there wasnobody in the neighborhood, and
I was coming to the end of theblock, to a four-way stop sign,
and I turned the corner, turnedto the left, and as I turned the
(19:25):
corner, this bright, shiny SUVpulls up to the stop sign and
the windows were down and theperson was in the driver's side,
they were leaning towards thepassenger side where I was
standing, and I had to back up.
I have to explain about my dog.
My dog barks at everything andeveryone like he's a nut, and
(19:47):
especially if you look at him hefreaks out and so and he's a
big dog, he's like 90 pounds andhe's either sniffing around or
smelling something or he'sbarking at something.
So, anyway, I turn the corner,this big, bright, shiny SUV
pulls up, the window is down andthe person leans across to the
(20:07):
passenger side and they'rewaving emphatically and there's
this big, huge smile and I swearto God, it was Aunt Ro.
It was her looking at me,smiling and waving her hand, and
I was stunned, I wasdumbfounded and I swear to God,
it was Aunt Ro.
And I just stared and I waslike, oh my God.
And I was so happy for her.
Because the one thing I don'tknow if I had mentioned about
Aunt Ro before is she had aToyota Corolla and it was like
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25 years old and she just keptit running because she couldn't
afford another vehicle.
And it was beat up and it wassunworn and it was just this,
rackety old car.
And so here I see her in thisbig, beautiful, shiny SUV and I
was so happy for her.
I'm like, oh my gosh, she got anew vehicle.
(20:53):
I just felt so happy that shewas so happy, and I didn't even
blink my eyes and I was staringat her and all of a sudden her
face just morphed and she turnedinto my neighbor who lives
several blocks away, and I wasconfused and she was smiling and
she looked at my dog whohappened to be just standing
next to me, not sniffing thestop sign post, not barking at
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her, nothing.
He was just standing next to me, looking at her and she called
him by name and she said hi tohim and then she just drove off
and I just felt like there was aglitch in the matrix.
I felt like there was adimensional shift for a brief
moment of time.
It was just the weirdestfeeling.
It was so strange and the factthat my dog acted so calm and
(21:37):
quiet and just stood there andlooked at her and I'm like, come
on, let's go.
And that's when he went overand started sniffing the stop
sign pole.
It was just a really weirdthing.
And so I came home and I toldmy husband I swear to God I saw
Aunt Ro today.
I swear I did.
But, like I said, I had her inmy mind all morning and I had a
(21:57):
whole bunch of jumbled thingsin my mind.
I'm like, well, maybe my mindwas playing tricks on me, I
don't know, or maybe it reallywas her saying hi, I don't know.
So kind of put that aside.
So then, a few months later,we're coming up on my
anniversary again and my husbandreally wanted to go to the
lake for a couple of days tocelebrate our anniversary.
So he puts it together andwe're getting ready to leave and
(22:20):
my car's engine light goes on,and so we take it to the
mechanic and we're like, goahead and work on it.
We're going to be away for afew days and so we go up to the
lake and on our anniversary weget a call from the mechanic and
the cost was way more than whatit was worth.
It was a 12-year-old car with147,000 miles on it.
(22:44):
It wasn't worth it to put themoney in to fix what it needed.
So we were like, okay, fine,we're just going to enjoy our
anniversary, we're not going toworry about it.
We don't even have to replacethe car very soon because I work
from home and we have myhusband's truck it.
It's no big deal.
We came home and later that weekwe had some time and we were
driving.
I said, hey, let's just take alook and see what's out there.
(23:06):
I'm in no rush to get a car,let's just see what's out there,
I'll get an idea.
I really like my old car.
It was an Acura.
We bought it used and I saidlet's go to the used Acura
dealership to just see what theyhave.
Give them our name, Ifsomething comes in that we might
like they can give us a call.
So my husband's driving and hepulls into what he thought was
(23:27):
the used Acura dealership.
And so we get out and we startwalking around and we're looking
at the vehicles.
Turns out he didn't pull intothe used Acura dealership at all
.
He pulled into the used Hondadealership, which is similar,
but they're not the same.
I'm looking at these differentcars and the salesman comes over
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and he wasn't pushy or anything.
But we start talking and I'mtelling him, here's my budget,
here's what I'm looking for.
I'm in no rush.
If you happen to get somethingin, let me know.
You know the whole thing.
And in the meantime myhusband's walking around looking
at vehicles and he comes over.
He's like hey, Kim, take a lookat this.
So I take a look at this carand it was in my budget.
It had everything I was lookingfor, it was perfect.
(24:12):
And, long story short, I boughta car that day and I had no
intentions of buying a car,absolutely none.
It was a used vehicle, it had acouple of scratches on it and
they said we'll take care of thescratches.
It was even dirty.
It was a lease that someone hadturned in.
It was just turned in and sohe's like, come back in a few
days and we'll have it clean,we'll take care of everything.
(24:33):
So I said, okay.
Later that day we're walking mydog around the neighborhood
again and I'm like I can'tbelieve it.
I've never bought a car thatfast.
I've never.
And it wasn't even the car Iwanted.
It wasn't even the place Iwanted to be.
He just happened to be thereand the guy wasn't pushing it.
He was just like, oh, this iseverything you said, just went
down your checklist.
This fits it.
And I'm like I can't believe it.
(24:56):
I research cars, I look at allthese different places, I try to
get the best deal.
So I'm just walking with myhusband, we're walking our dog
around the neighborhood andwithout realizing it, we start
walking past my neighbor's house.
The neighbor I had seen that dayand we had walked past her
house before, but her car hadalways been in the garage, it
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was never in the driveway and Ihad not seen her since that day
and we just happened to turn thecorner, we walked past her
house and her car is in thedriveway.
It's the same car I just bought, different color, but the same
car I just bought and I was like, oh my God, and my husband
starts laughing.
He's like holy crap.
(25:44):
Because I was like that's thecar I saw and it was just so
funny.
So then later that week we hadgone to pick up my new car and
in the lot and there was thisorange butterfly that kept
flying around the car.
Now, you know, could it all bea coincidence?
I don't know, but it just allseemed very easy, it just all
(26:05):
fell in place and I forgot tomention when we were up at the
lake the day of our anniversary,there was an orange butterfly
that kept following us as wewere walking on the lakeside.
Rebecca (26:13):
So you see how, SEE how this is! Isn't that fun?
And it is easy for us to go,especially after the fact.
Well, I don't know, maybe itwas just my mind playing tricks,
but it's, it's not uncommon.
Actually, she was on your mind,you were in appreciation, you
were in love and trying to atleast have some sort of kind
(26:38):
feelings for somebody that wasgoing through something
difficult.
And you know what, in this islife, none of us screw up, but
we can put that word on it.
We make decisions that are notthe best.
We make decisions that otherpeople are not going to agree
with.
We came here to bang around anddo the best we can with what's
in us at every given moment, andthat's always changing.
(26:59):
And so isn't it funny howpeople are so quick to judge
somebody else and say, well,that was really wrong.
And now I'm mad because you didsomething that I didn't want
you to do.
And your aunt Ro was very wiseto see people from the eyes of
source.
Because that's what that is,when you can back up and see
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people from a broaderperspective and say I love you,
no matter what.
I don't have to like what youdid.
I don't have to agree with it.
Now, source doesn't disagreewith anything that we do here,
because they literally see thebigger picture.
But when we can say we are allbanging around here doing the
best we can with what's in us inthis moment, and that is so
(27:41):
different from a moment a dayago, tomorrow, because we can
look at people and say, hey, youdid know better, that wasn't
your best.
Well, it seemed like a goodidea at the time for them.
It was their best in just thatsplit moment.
And so and these are thethings that we came to expand
(28:12):
from, to learn, to dig deep,even.
So none of it is wrong, It issource saying I love you still,
and I know that me being angryor me being disappointed in you
will not help you, it will onlyhurt you, always.
Kim (28:27):
Yeah, she used to always say when you love somebody, you
have to love all of them thegood, the bad, the ugly.
Rebecca (28:32):
Yeah, and she taught that wisdom to you.
You retained it for a long timeand quickly put it right back
into use, right when somethingsimilar came up all those years
later and then you got yourselfin a nice place with it.
So here you are having a nicewalk with your dog, beautiful
(28:53):
day, nice and calm.
Of course, that is a perfecttime for her to impose her image
of who she was here oversomebody else.
So you were in a relaxed statewhere you could see that, and
she took the little crack ofleast resistance there to get
(29:13):
through and deliver something toyou.
That was sort of like a burningbush.
Those moments that we don't getthat often, that are so
profound and so, just in ourface, obvious, but they are
short lived.
Yeah it was seconds, and we liketo string it out, make it last
longer so that I have morereason to believe it.
(29:35):
But this is just the way it is.
They're not going to come inand do tricks for us and they're
not going to come in and try toconvince us of anything, but
they will give us those glimpsesof..
.
See, I'm right here, I see you,I feel you, I appreciate what
you're doing right now.
(29:55):
And how your wisdom is shiningnow, because other people are
going to learn from that, notnot just in your family, but
through this podcast.
Now.
Even so, just like we talkedlast episode about how this
ripples out what she did, howshe did it, what you did it, it
just ripples out.
And here we go again.
Right, this is going to rippleout.
(30:16):
This is going to cause somepeople to think, oh yeah, maybe
that is a better way to to goabout a situation like that, and
maybe, if I stay in a reallynice place, not all the time,
this is a world of contrast.
We're not going to stay in ahappy, sweet sort of sunshine
and roses place all of the time.
But when we can take ourselvesthere on purpose especially,
(30:56):
we're more apt to have thoseexperiences that just touch our
heart.
Because they didn't know whatthey were doing, they just knew
that they were inspired.
Something in them just had tolean and wave.
And your dog did what was verycalm, just sit there, didn't do
its usual thing.
It's typical, usual thing,because animals are, you know,
(31:19):
they can tune, they're in tune.
It's not like they're in tune,It's not like they have to do
it, they're in tune.
So it's easy for your dog torealize that oh, this is a whole
different energy right here.
And just respond to the energythat it was or that it is in
that, in that situation, in thatmoment, and which is more data
for you, right, that's moreinformation.
Kim (31:39):
Isn't that odd that my dog didn't do what it always does,
right?
And so I swear I see her.
And isn't it amazing that I seeher, and it feels good that
she's in a nice, shiny vehiclethat she didn't have when she
was here.
Rebecca (31:57):
It was her way of saying not only Hi, but pay
attention, because I havesomething really nice I'm going
to help you line up with.
And not just her, all of thosewho guide you, right?
Like I said, it's a collectivething.
They know what's in your what'son your list, what's in your
likes category, right?
(32:17):
They knew that this personcould synchronistically drive
down the street just at thatperfect time where you and your
dog were, right there.
.
You saw the SUV.
You saw Aunt Ro went about yourbusiness.
Something happens to yourvehicle.
You need a new one.
You just happen to go into thewrong lot and your husband just
(32:41):
happens to see a vehicle that isperfect for you, that is a
match for the one that you sawAunt Ro in.
How does it get any better thanthat?
I mean, the only way it getsbetter than that is if Aunt Ro
stands there and materializes infront of you, right?
Kim (32:56):
If she sells the car to me.
Rebecca (32:59):
Gives you the lottery number so you can pay for it.
No, I'm just kidding.
They don't do those trickseither.
But, how di vine is that, andthis is what I want people to
see.
This isn't difficult, and wedon't have to look for big,
dramatic conversations with them.
We should be aware of howthey're still blending into our
(33:24):
world, but they're not insertingthemselves into our world.
They're just blended and payingattention, very happily paying
attention and helping ussynchronize with what we want,
if we're in an easy enough placeto see it.
You know, if you had remaineddisgruntled or maybe for a while
(33:46):
thought, yeah, I should thinklike Aunt Ro, oh no, I can't,
I'm just pissed, then you wouldhave never had that experience.
You'd have been walking yourdog, you would have missed the
SUV, the whole thing justwouldn't have played out that
way, and Lord knows what vehicleyou'd be in right now.
LOL Might not be anything likeyou have now and another point
(34:08):
is that we don't have to workhard for the stuff that we want.
We've been taught we have towork hard.
Like you said, I have to do myresearch, like typically, if I'm
going to buy a vehicle, I'mdoing my research, I'm looking
to see what's out there, whatyou know, what the ratings are
on these things, what peoplehave been buying, what works out
for them?
Is the engine good enough?
(34:29):
Are people having problems withit?
That's a lot of work when,instead, we can just pay
attention to the other side.
That says, oh, look at this.
And then inspires your husbandto turn into the wrong lot and
inspires him to walk over to avehicle that they've made all
nice and shiny vibrationally tohim, so you just can't resist it
.
And then he shows it to you.
(34:51):
And then eventually you connectthe dots of the butterflies.
The first time you saw thebutterfly you probably thought,
oh, that's really cute, that'snice, but it really didn't mean
too much, right?
Until you saw the butterflygoing around the car.
And that's when we connectthose dots and go huh, there it
is it is, so easy.
Kim (35:09):
I've never bought a car so easy and so fast in my entire
life.
It was just literally fell inmy lap and I wasn't expecting to
buy a car.
I had no intentions two weeksearlier that I was going to get
a car.
The one I had was fine.
And then, all of a sudden, theengine was no good.
to get something, and it wasjust as much surprising to me
(35:30):
that I bought the car as quicklyand as easily as I did as it
was.
When when saw Aunt Ro drivingthe SUV up the street, I was in
shock.
It's like, confused.
It's almost like by the timeyour brain catches up to what's
happening, it's over becauseyour guard's back up.
My guard wasn't up when ithappened.
Rebecca (35:47):
Bingo, there's the key.
Yep, that's that crack of leastresistance, right, we're not
resistant in that moment, we'rejust being.
We're just being, and so iteasily happens.
It's happening anyway, but wemiss it when we're being
resistant.
It's not that these thingsaren't synchronizing up around
(36:08):
us all of the time.
Back to the dimensional idea.
Right, it's like being indifferent spaces, dimensions or
frequencies, however you want tothink of it, and you just can't
see the things that are there,just right there, but you can't
see them because you'revibrationally not lined up with
(36:29):
that.
(37:09):
two or three.
Second experience that I hadwhen I was reading that quote
and I not only felt, second gota visual of me.
I can't even find the words todescribe it, got a visual of me.
of me, find the words todescribe it.
It's like or something likethat.
(37:31):
It really felt like adimensional shift, and I'm sure
it was, and so that was morereal than any that I've had
before.
It was just I could feel, see,sense, whatever, my whole not my
body, necessarily from onestate of being to a different
state whole, being and what thatnecessarily, means, because when
(37:54):
that happens nothing elsearound you really changes.
Right now that you can see.
That's really interesting tothink about.
The room I'm in looks the same,the people around me look the
same, but I'm vibrationallydifferent.
Now I'm in a different state ofbeing, which is a different
state of attraction too, but I'min a different state of what I
(38:15):
see now, what I sync up with now.
We're always seeing and syncingup with things.
It just depends on whichvibrational state of being we're
in.
Are we in a vibrational stateof being, of unexpecting what we
want or expecting things to notwork out, or expecting this to
(38:36):
be difficult.
Then there we are.
If you're in that state of being, you're going to get what's in
that state.
It's like shopping on twodifferent levels of a department
store.
You know, if there are fourlevels to this department store
and you really want brand newfurniture and you go to a floor
(38:57):
where there's used furniture,you can stand there and complain
all day that it's not new.
" I'm not looking forrefurbished furniture and what's
wrong with my life that I can'thave new furniture?
I know other people do.
You can argue that point allday long, but the new furniture
is not going to be on that level.
It's not going to be on thatfloor.
So what do you need to do?
You need to change levels.
(39:19):
You need to go to a differentfloor in the department store
where the new furniture existsand let the people that want to
refurbish beautiful furniture beon that other floor.
None of the floors are wrong.
They're just different, verydifferent.
Some are very uncomfortable,some are very comfortable.
(39:40):
And like we said in the lastepisode, when we're going
through the soon to be death ofsomebody, there's nothing scary
or freaky or wrong about it.
(40:03):
So you know, when we are inthat mode it's really up to us
whether we make it verydifficult or very full of ease.
You know, and back in thatprevious episode with your aunt,
it was just your sheer desireto fill every like wish on her
(40:29):
list, everything that she wanteddone before she passed, and you
felt pressured in 10 hours tomaybe 48, which is a big
difference, to get all of thepeople in and get the priest in,
and there was no priest to befound and you know all that.
So it it fell togetherbeautifully, but it stressed you
(40:52):
out.
Kim (40:54):
Yeah, totally.
Rebecca (40:55):
But now, with what you know, if you go through an
experience like that again, thisis going to be like what Aunt
Ro taught you about how to dealwith somebody that just made a
what we call a bad decision.
Now, when we go through it thenext time we think okay, wait a
minute.
Everything is always workingout, and it works out so much
(41:15):
more smoothly and comfortably tous if we relax and just say,
okay, this will, everything willfind its place.
I will find a priest, or itwill find me, he will find me.
But you found what a priest.
.
Kim (41:36):
A priest, a minister and a pastor.
Rebecca (41:37):
Except you didn't get the Pope, which she made a joke
about that.
LOL so.
(42:00):
wNot only did you find one, but
you found three different peopleto come and help her and make
her feel more comfortable, andshe did get her last rites and
all that.
So it's just you know howbeautiful.
So, and you know, just to helpanybody remember that, listen to
that episode.
When she actually passed, youwere at home, relaxed, because
you'd been so stressed out rightwhere you needed to be watching
a movie that was about rosary,and she was about rosaries, and
your husband, who was theprobably easiest one to be with
her, the calmest, was with her,and your brother was at a diner
where he and Aunt Ro wouldfrequent.
(42:20):
Everybody was perfectly inplace and she let go.
Kim (42:27):
Yeah, yeah, that's exactly how it happened S h t p o?
(43:23):
.
Rebecca (42:32):
Every death is very intelligently and finely
synchronized and finallysynchronized.
It's just that it often happensin ways that we wouldn't have
picked consciously or figuredout or expected or you know.
But it is what it is.
And I say to people all thetime see what I mean.
(42:55):
See what I mean, becausesomebody will die and I'll say,
see how that person was going todie today, cause what are the I
mean?
Look at that.
How can you deny it was thatperson's day to die?
You know so, even with withanimals, it's the same.
And I think it's fun for us tolook at how that plays itself
(43:16):
out so that we can find moreease in it and then do what
we're doing today Watch how theconversation continues, how the
relationship has the opportunityif we want to continue.
In often subtle ways, althoughseeing her in that SUV wasn't so
much subtle, I think that was alittle more than subtle.
Kim (43:37):
That was almost a slap in the face again, like she did
with me the first time she saidyou know, you really think this
person needs your anger.
I was like it just stopped mein my tracks.
Seeing her in the SUV juststopped me in my tracks.
I was like she has a knack fordoing that, you know.
Rebecca (43:53):
A nd she did in that last episode, didn't she
Remember?
There was something went wrongwith the equipment or whatever
and we had to stop.
Kim (43:59):
Oh yeah, she stopped the equipment or and we had to stop.
Yeah, well, actually, I wantedto point out to you I think this
is pretty funny.
You probably didn't realize it.
We had originally scheduled todo this Monday, right, and then
I wasn't feeling good, I wasfeeling a little bit, I just
wasn't feeling it and I hadcontemplated a few times of
(44:19):
contacting you and asking you ifwe could reschedule and I
thought, no, no, we, you know,both of our schedules are busy.
I'll just push through, I'll gowith it.
And then later that afternoonyou had contacted me and said
hey, can we reschedule becauseyou were having equipment issues
again.
So we reschedule for today.
Today is the day afterHalloween.
(44:41):
You know, Aunt Ro was veryCatholic.
She followed the Catholicreligion.
Today is All Saints Day in theCatholic world.
I just thought that was funny.
We rescheduled to a day whereshe would be in church today
going to mass, and you know,yesterday was Halloween.
You know, the veil is supposedto be the thinnest at this time
(45:04):
of the year.
Rebecca (45:07):
Yeah, because they make a point with this stuff.
And it's not even that theynecessarily agree with our
religious ideas here.
It's just that they know how wecan connect the dots.
And it's funny because normallyI would have powered through
that and I would have found away to make that work so that we
could have kept our time, but Ijust felt like, no, it'll just
(45:31):
be better, and that's guidance,that's what you do, you pay
attention to.
It just feels like we shouldreschedule.
And then it ended up you hadbeen getting the same thing.
So you see how, and it's justso funny because when the
episode was interrupted thatfirst time, that was at a tender
moment for you, so it gave youtime to kind of, regroup.
(45:54):
Yeah, and then when I recordedthat little insert to put in
there to explain to everybodywhat had just happened, I said
something like okay, let's getback into the episode, then I
noticed something else with thetiming and, remember, I texted
you about that, which made sense.
So, I put another insert intothe episode that I was like,
okay, now we're really going togo back, but I wanted people to
(46:15):
understand why we went from avery tender moment to a more
conversational moment.
It's just so much fun when wejust have fun with it.
I mean, that's what they tellus.
That's why my one of myfavorite sayings is Isn't Fun
the Best Thing to Have?
I saw that in that movie Arthur,he was like a drunken rich man.
(46:39):
Remember he was, yeah, yeah,Liza Minnelli.
I think was his girlfriend init.
Kim (46:44):
I love the song from that movie.
I just listened to it last week.
Rebecca (46:47):
I always loved that movie and his character I just
thought was so funny.
And at some point in the earlypart of the movie he says in a
drunken state, " isn't fun, thebest thing to have, but I'm
taking that with me.
I love that.
That is so true.
An artist friend of mine put iton a plaque for me.
I'm looking at it on mybookshelf right now.
(47:07):
It's in my signature for myMystical Truths emails.
That's just been my thing, islike isn't fun the best thing to
have?
People can say, well, isn'tthis blank the best thing to
have?
But it's all fun.
Isn't love the best thing?
Well, that's fun.
Isn't family the best thing tohave?
Well, that's fun.
(47:28):
It all comes back to fun andthey do tell us often from the
other side, you're all takingthis life too seriously.
Lighten up, have more fun andthen there will be more fun to
be had.
It'll just synchronize up andwe can have fun with them.
Just like, I know I've probablytold this story in a different
episode where my mother, a fewyears or so after she passed, I
(47:50):
had some rotisserie chicken andI thought, you know I should, I
want to do something with thischicken and I just had this
thought oh, mom's chicken saladwas so good, so I start breaking
up the chicken and I got somemayonnaise and I thought, oh,
yeah, I have grapes.
And I went and got the grapesand I thought, oh, I do have
raisins.
She put raisins in there,that's right.
A nd so I realized like, oh,mom, I could sense her.
(48:13):
She was saying you have apples,but apples in there, you have
walnuts.
And I'm like, yes, I do havewalnuts.
So I went and got the walnuts.
It was the best chicken salad Iever made, and so it's just fun
, because the inspirations orthe good ideas, the bright ideas
that we get, are generally notcoming from our brain.
(48:36):
They're not generated from ourthought process, they're shared.
Not that we're not smart, we dohave good ideas, but we are
that connected and it's thatmuch of a blend that, no matter
who you are, it's happening,because it can't not happen.
We're all one.
Kim (48:55):
The world would be a better place if we could have more fun
.
Rebecca (48:58):
Yeah, and it's our choice.
That's the good news.
It's literally our decision.
It's our choice whether we havefun or not.
So the next time somebody isgoing into the another dreaded
meeting that they don't want togo to, it's the choice before
you go there.
That's why I teach aboutpre-paving or pre-programming,
(49:20):
and that's an Abraham thing fromthe Abraham teachings, is that
you can program it ahead of timebecause you're pre-programming
anyway.
"This is going to be anotherone of those meetings and then
it's going to be another one.
Or you can just say you knowwhat, I don't know, maybe we'll
get a better version of peopletoday.
I think I'll just have fun withthis today.
I mean, not enough fun that Iget fired, but enough fun that I
(49:52):
can actually enjoy it.
So, anyway, that was really.
I mean, I just love how theother side is so sweetly gently
available and we can pick up onthat.
We can be an easy cooperativecomponent.
They call it an easycooperative component to how
life works.
So wonderful.
Kim (50:10):
Yeah, I hope that she, I think she's probably happy I
realized, you know, I mean shewas like waving her hand so fast
, so hopefully she realized,like oh good, Kim got it.
Rebecca (50:22):
Oh yeah, she realizes.
I mean, she's right there,she's in the moment, how could
she not?
And they know how much we lovethem.
They know that it's reallygreat when we don't miss them,
because there's no reason tomiss them.
They don't miss us.
Of course it's easier for themLOL.
(50:42):
They see the bigger pictureright, they see it all.
But for us we don't have tomiss them.
We certainly can, but we don'thave to miss them because we can
continue with them.
Of course we may say, well, Ikind of miss the physical part
of them being here and going outto lunch, to the diner.
But this is life.
Things change.
It doesn't always remain thesame, it shouldn't.
Kim (51:02):
We wouldn't grow if it did.
Rebecca (51:03):
That's exactly right.
That's what we came here for,yeah.
So thanks again, kim.
I appreciate it.
:Kim (51:16):
You're welcome.
Rebecca (51:16):
Keep us posted on Aunt Ro as she continues to unfold in
your life.
I'm sure that'll be fun.
I will.
A nd to all of you out there, it was a pleasure, and
you can find meat
mysticaltruthscom.
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