Ep. 84 How Misogyny is the Rite of Passage for Masculinity

What if misogyny isn’t just a belief—but a cultural initiation? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how boys are conditioned into manhood through subtle and overt acts of emotional suppression, peer loyalty, and disdain for the feminine. From “don’t cry” to “don’t throw like a girl,” these messages aren’t harmless—they’re foundational.

We examine:

• How masculinity is shaped by rejecting empathy, softness, and anything coded as feminine
• Why men often bond over shared misogyny—and how that loyalty can override love, partnership, and even fatherhood
• The hidden ways men withhold resources, silence women, and maintain control through emotional manipulation
• How institutions, media, and everyday interactions reinforce this dynamic without question
• Why narcissistic abuse is often a symptom of a much larger patriarchal system—and how recognizing that can be the first step toward healing

This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned the roots of toxic masculinity, felt the sting of being dismissed or silenced, or wondered why some men seem to protect each other more than the women they claim to love. If you’ve sensed that misogyny isn’t just personal—it’s systemic—you’re not imagining it.

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