Ep. 96 Why True Partnership Requires Destroying Patriarchy, Not Just Criticizing Men

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July 18, 2025 • 36 mins

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The Hidden Connection Between Narcissistic Abuse and Patriarchy: A Groundbreaking Episode

Have you ever wondered why toxic relationship patterns keep repeating, no matter how hard you try to "fix" things? What if I told you the problem isn't you, your partner, or even individual men – but an invisible system so pervasive that most people never see it operating? In this riveting episode, we uncover the shocking connection between narcissistic abuse and patriarchy that will fundamentally change how you understand relationships, power, and social change. This isn't another male-bashing session – it's a revolutionary approach to healing that liberates everyone from destructive patterns while holding people accountable for their actions.

What You'll Discover:

The devastating truth about why individual relationship "fixes" always fail
Shocking research findings connecting narcissistic abuse patterns to patriarchal systems
The exact same tactics both narcissists and patriarchy use: gaslighting, isolation, trauma bonding, and reality manipulation
Real-life examples of couples who transformed their relationships by addressing systemic patterns
Why this approach benefits everyone – including men trapped by toxic masculinity expectations
Practical steps to dismantle destructive patterns in your personal life and community
The liberation perspective that turns partners into allies instead of adversaries
How to hold people accountable while simultaneously changing the systems that create problems

Perfect for:

People healing from narcissistic abuse and toxic relationship patterns
Partners wanting authentic equality
Anyone interested in systemic social change

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Hosted by trauma-informed coach & author Lynn, this podcast helps survivors of narcissistic abuse uncover covert manipulation, set boundaries, and reclaim their voice. From family roles to patriarchy, we explore how personal healing intersects with cultural change.