Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down to share the heartbreaking and harrowing story of Veronika—one of LAH’s friends—who has endured a lifetime of high-conflict men, beginning with an emotionally abusive father. That pattern carried into adulthood, culminating in an abusive relationship with the father of her three children.

Veronika’s experience goes beyond emotional and psychological abuse—she was drugged, raped, and manipul...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, your hosts Behk and LAH sit down with a remarkable guest, Penny, whose story is a powerful reminder that breaking the cycle is possible.

Penny takes us through her family's legacy of generational trauma, starting with a grandfather who led a double life—maintaining a secret second family he chillingly referred to as “the others.” His cruelty left lasting scars on...

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Cleo, whose powerful story we’ll be following over time. Cleo opens up about growing up with generational trauma and the deep, healing bond she formed with her sister-in-law—a woman who became more than family. Her unexpected passing has left a painful void, one made even more difficult by the arrival of a manipulative new woman dating Cleo’s brother-in-law.

We explore how toxic ...

In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in a 9-year relationship, only to uncover a shocking web of deceit.

Discussions in this episode:

• Meet a listener, Shirley
• Seemingly perfect eight years
• Shocking discovery of her partner's affairs
• Unraveling his pattern of serial cheating
• Emotional and psychological impact
• Journey to healing and reclaiming her life
• Complexiti...

In this episode, Behk and LAH reconnect with a familiar face—Buddy! If you remember his whirlwind romance that ended in heartbreak, buckle up: it’s been a year since the split, and Buddy is back with a fresh perspective, a lighter heart, and some hard-earned wisdom.

We dive into his healing journey: the deep work of changing old patterns, finding joy in new experiences, and—most importantly—rebuilding a relationship with himself...

Join Behk and LAH on this week's episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" as they catch up on the latest, from a friend's wild holiday mishap in Europe to diving into the twists of the show "YOU." Plus, get ready for an insightful follow-up as Buddy from our recent replayed series "Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak" joins us next week to discuss the journey of healing after a year. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and ple...

In this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy’s story, delving deeper into the aftermath of his whirlwind marriage. Discover the shocking reason his ex-wife ended up in jail and how this event plunged their relationship into further turmoil. Tune in to continue Buddy's emotional journey and listen to the end to hear his powerful message to men about the imp...

We will be back in two weeks. In this replay episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Buddy, a man who found himself in a whirlwind romance that led to a quick marriage after just four months of dating long distance. What seemed like true love quickly turned injurious as Buddy discovered his wife's severe bipolar disorder and alcoholism. In Part 1, we explore the ...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the fearless and unforgettable Amanda Arnier, host of the viral podcast The Dichotomy Diaries. Amanda was last on the show nearly a year ago, and a lot has happened since then.

In Season 1 of The Dichotomy Diaries, Amanda peeled back the layers of her explosive relationship with her now ex-husband — a man who sold the world a care...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Grace, a woman whose journey through an abusive marriage and the challenges of motherhood will leave you in awe of her strength and resilience.

For years, Grace endured emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of her narcissistic husband. But her world was turned upside down when he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Instead ...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the remarkable Jen Peters, author of Coming Home: The Path to Healing Your Inner Child. Jen opens up about her harrowing journey through trauma, resilience, and the healing process that has shaped her life and work today. 

Jen’s memoir, Coming Home, takes us through her life story, including growing up with an alcoholic and ab...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, an international guest from Geneva, Switzerland, to unpack her shocking story of deception, manipulation, and betrayal. Sarah thought she had found her dream man—a charming and successful financier who swept her off her feet. But the man she believed was her soulmate turned out to be a master manipulator, a serial cheater, and a fut...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Elisea, aka ‘Leecy,’ who bravely opens up about her painful journey through a toxic relationship that consumed much of her 20s. Leecy shares her experience with constant gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and physical assault by a friend of her ex. Her partner, who presented himself as a "good Christian guy," demanded she take on al...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Jessica, a resilient woman who has overcome unimaginable childhood trauma and broken the cycles of abuse in her family. Jessica opens up about her father, an alcoholic who fathered nine children and subjected her to verbal and mental abuse while forcing her to care for her younger siblings. She shares her shocking story of learning he was ...

In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.

Within a year of dating...

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with fellow podcaster Kim Davis, co-host of Slaycation, to explore her personal journey of healing from a childhood with an abusive, tyrant father. Kim opens up about how these early experiences influenced her relationships in her 20s, leading her to mirror the toxic behaviors she had learned.

We dive deep into Kim's path to self-aware...

In this eye-opening episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Charlotte Rivers, a brave woman who shares her unsettling experience within the gaming community, which was marred by toxic masculinity. Charlotte takes us through her journey of finding a supportive, inclusive gaming community—only for it to be shattered by rampant sexism and harassment.

Charlotte opens up about her ex...

Growing up with a covert narcissistic mother, Michelle was conditioned to accept toxic relationships—leading her to marry a covert narcissistic husband. For years, she carried the weight of the relationship, handling everything on her own while seeking therapy to heal. When she finally recognized the patterns of manipulation and emotional abuse, she decided enough was enough.

In this episode, Michelle shares her powerful journey...

In this episode, we sit down with Alice, who shares her compelling and heart-wrenching journey from growing up in a family with a special needs brother to navigating a marriage marked by narcissism, selfishness, and infidelity. Alice's story sheds light on the emotional toll of being in a relationship where one partner refuses to grow up, leaving the other to shoulder the weight of responsibility.

Alice opens up about her childh...