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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Welcome to the Nearly
Enlightened podcast.
I'm your host, gianna Giarusso.
Today, I am joined by thelovely Venus Rising.
All right, danielle, welcome,welcome back.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I'm so excited you're
here.
There's literally so much totalk about.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I know it's insane.
I'm like there's so much thatit's like what do we even choose
to talk about?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Let's start with
where we so.
We were just catching up alittle bit before we started
recording and we'll just recapthat a little.
So you've been on a crazycleaning spray.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I have.
So everyone in my family who Ilive with has been sick probably
for the past two months.
On and off.
It's like cycling through thewhole family and when people get
sick, like when I have theenergy, not only does it feel
like germs, but the energy is sodisgusting that, like I have to
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clean every single like crevice, I have to pull the furniture
out.
I have to like get single likecrevice, I have to pull the
furniture out.
I have to like get thingsmoving, because it's not just
like a physical germ to me, it'sthe energy of it as well.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Right, yeah, no, I
totally agree with that, and I
just did the same thing theother day.
I was like underneath furniturewith like one of the big
microfiber wipes that you canlike reach what I was like doing
underneath the my bureaucabinets, like, yeah, it just
feels like.
I feel like just like the samewith spring energy.
It's like we have that springcleaning energy.
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I feel like going into the fall, like you almost need the same
thing, like we're getting ready.
I mean, we both live in RhodeIsland.
In new England it's beenunseasonably warm and I think
that has a lot to do with it too.
Like there's been bigfluctuations of like cold, warm,
cold, warm, and now we're likeback in warm.
So if you're listening to thisand you're in New England, like
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the next couple of days, getsome sun on your face, like a
lot of these energetic thingstoo.
It's like when our body doesn'thave enough vitamin D, when we
start getting depleted ofvitamin D, like we're more
susceptible to our immune systembeing shaken.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
A hundred percent and
like just to touch on that too
like the synchronicity between,like, a spring cleaning and a
fall cleaning.
They're both equinox.
So when you're like thinkingabout the solstice summer
solstice and winter solsticeyou're like in the winter I'm
hibernating hibernating, heckyeah and and.
In the summer you're like okay,like let's go, yeah let's be
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outside activity yep, and solike it's.
It's just interesting that justdawned on me that they're, you
know, the time that we want tolike most refresh.
I mean, each season.
You should want to do a deepclean.
You should want to clean outyour closets per se.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Yes, I, I am kind of.
I'm definitely getting the urgeand I started over this weekend
, but I have actually had mythings packed for so long
Because when I lived in Arizona,when I was there for four years
, I moved back and forth fromArizona to Colorado and my
things were literally alwayslike compact, ready to go like
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minimalist to the max, like Imoved 10 times in four and a
half years.
So now I know, I know, isn'tthat crazy?
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
It's a lot.
Yeah, moved from Rhode Islandto Arizona, arizona to Colorado,
back and forth, a bunch likemoved apartments a bunch, wow,
yeah, it was crazy, but it wasalmost kind of nice because I
had to keep my stuff soorganized and just have what I
needed and that was it.
But now, coming back to RhodeIsland, like I did have to say
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goodbye to a lot of my stuff,Like a lot of my stuff is still
in Arizona and it's just like atthis point, it's like not mine,
it's like you have to leave itbehind.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
You just have to let
that stuff go.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
And you know it's a
good practice and non-attachment
fun times, fun times, fun times, and it's.
It's interesting, though,because I live with my sister
and I, you know, only everintended to stay here for like
six months, and now it's goingto be three years in March and
most of my stuff is still in,like Tupperwares.
Yeah all the time, like decor,even my kitchen stuff.
So I make it a point like everyfew months I'll go through it
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and I have to tell you, nothingis my style anymore.
Nothing resonates.
I'm like I just don't do thesethings anymore.
At one point I had a lot ofherbs and I was like I'm not
making tinctures anymore.
I'm not, you know, puttingthese teas together Like I once
did when I had my own space.
So I think you really dooutgrow.
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But on the other hand,sometimes you do go through the
stuff and you're like, oh, Icould use this now.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Yeah, you find things
.
I've been wanting this.
So, yeah, you find things.
I've been watching this so I'vebeen getting the urge to do
that and to like really organizeand like be like okay we're.
I never felt like I didn't haveroots, if that makes sense,
like and it's.
It's funny because if I talkedabout, you know, when I was
living in Arizona, if I talkedabout home, I could have been
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talking about any place I couldhave been talking about.
Rhode Island I could have beentalking about Arizona.
I could have been talking aboutany place.
I could have been talking aboutRhode Island, I could have been
talking about Arizona.
I could have been talking aboutwhere I lived in Colorado, like
it was so uh, interchangeableto me, like I and it's not that
I didn't have roots, I think Ihave such strong like family,
community roots that, like it,it didn't matter to me that I
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was traveling all over the placeand like I just always felt
rooted and grounded, as crazy asthat sounds, because it sounds
like the exact opposite of whatit should be.
But now coming back here, likeactually having roots, like not,
like, probably not goinganywhere.
You know, never say, never got.
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You know, know, human makeplans, god laughs.
But um, like yeah, I don't seemyself really going anywhere
anytime soon.
So like, yeah, now it's time togo through these things and
reevaluate.
Like is it worth keeping orlet's organize it better?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
or like, yeah, oh my
gosh, like I came upon this
thing that I forgot about andit's been tucked away for a year
and three months that's sofunny that you say that too,
because I have definitely beengoing through a pattern for the
past year, if not longer, ofjust like my like, completely
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going through my identity andlike what makes me feel at home,
and it's amazing how thingsshift and whoever is listening,
like.
I highly encourage you to justhave the willingness to open up
to how you feel and noticingthat everywhere you go.
Like, how do you feel at work?
Do you feel at home at work?
Do you feel at home where youlive?
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Do you feel at home with thepeople you're surrounding
yourself with?
Do you feel at home in yourbody?
My biggest challenge I'm aPisces, so I have this water
energy, this delulu, always, youknow, up here and practicing as
an energy healer.
I'm just like in differentdimensions all the time.
So for me it's feeling at homein my own body and letting that
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carry me anywhere.
So it's it's funny that youmentioned that and I know I just
brought it deeper, but I thinkit's going to resonate for a lot
of people and it's so funnythat when you were kind of like
hopping all over the place, youfelt the most grounded and
rooted that you've ever been,because you probably need
movement.
Yeah, feel that.
Yeah, not everybody has to staycomplacent to be rooted.
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It just could be that you needto take your roots different
places and then let them growfrom there.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Right, or like what
you said feeling at home in your
body, like I talk about thisall the time when I when I moved
in Arizona, I was actually justjust talking about this with my
best friend, nikki, who washere for lunch, but I lost my
train of thought now.
Oh, I, I know what I was goingto say.
When I first moved to Arizonawhen I was 28, I that's like the
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most me that I have ever feltright, like I was in such a good
place and I I was grounded inwho I was.
I had spent all of this timelike uncovering and learning and
gathering these tools and itwas the first time that I think
I stepped into real teacherenergy and I felt so strong and
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powerful and and like thisconviction, and when I first
moved there, my intention was tobe there for four months and I
ended up there for four years.
Um.
So in my mind when I was goingthere, it was like not, it was
just like this temporary thingand, as everything is like I
even say it in my yoga classeswhen I hold people in goddess
for so long it's like this, too,shall pass, like it's
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uncomfortable right now, butthis, this too, shall pass.
So it's like remembering thateven those good feelings,
they're like, they come and theygo, and it's about feeling.
It's about feeling rooted andgrounded in who you are and then
, yeah, you can, you can expandand go anywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, it's like
radical self-acceptance.
And then, yeah, you can expandand go anywhere.
Yeah, it's like radicalself-acceptance.
And it's funny because, asyou're talking about this, I am
just like thinking of all thewomen and like how we have
different cycles and taking intoaccount, like just that
acceptance of yourself and likewe do have these monthly cycles.
We do go through these.
You know ups and downs, it'snatural, and we put so much
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criticism on ourselves and we,you know I know people have to
work, I know people haveresponsibility and obligation,
but it's like your body and you,like you come first, your, your
mental health, your body comesfirst.
Like if you need to take thatfirst day off of your period,
like you need to do that to rest, and people are just detached
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from that.
But when you really lean in,that's when or what I've learned
that you can really just startaccepting your body and feeling
more comfortable in your ownskin.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Yes, and it's also I
feel like we're like so on the
same wavelength today.
Yeah, this month my lutealphase hit like so hard Like I've
never.
I have never experienced itbefore.
I like crashed so hard afterovulation and that's never
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really happened to me before.
It's always been like a gradualcome down until I start my
cycle.
But this month, I swear, I feltthat shift in hormones so hard
like you know I'm.
I think I'm like eight days outnow from my cycle starting ish
like well, see tracking cycles,tracking cycles is so important
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and, and like you said, noticinghow you feel.
You don't have to make anyjudgments or just notice how you
feel, like you just noticing,being the observer, like you
don't have to analyze it or justjournal it and just make note
of, like what you're feeling.
You don't have to know the whyor the what or the how behind it
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, just like checking in withyourself how are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (11:32):
exactly so.
My acupuncturist says that yourperiod is your report card for
the previous month.
So I think it's so interestingto kind of track it now, because
I'm like, well, was it likemore tolerable this month or was
last month?
You know, I had more rage, Ihad what was I going through.
So it becomes a little bit moreintriguing.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Opposed to wanting to
reject it, yes, and now I'm
finding myself, cause I've beentracking my cycle for kind of a
while.
I came off birth control.
When I have this blind faith,especially, you know I have a
very deep connection as do youwith your spirit guides and
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things like that.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I just kind of have
this unspoken agreement with the
universe, and you were sayingsomething earlier about
detachment detaching from thoseitems.
But for me, when things startto fall apart and I'm like, oh
shit, tomorrow's the first dayof my period, like I actually
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have the day off, I'm going toallow that to be instead of
being like, oh no, a clientcanceled or I better.
You know, I have a couple extraminutes, let me fill it up with
other errands that I needed todo, and it it just usually
always works out.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Yeah, I mean
sometimes, sometimes keeping
busy.
My teacher, when I firststarted yoga, my yoga journey,
used to say it all the time Likesometimes being busy is a
distraction of the mind, likeyou're keeping yourself because
what are you, what are youreally avoiding?
Like, and I used to be one ofthose people who had a very hard
time being with myself and nowI think I kind of lean the
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opposite.
It's like that's my zone andlike anything else feels like
out of the well, here's thething is like nobody else is in
your mind.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
So you can get really
honest with yourself.
And I'll give an example.
When I was thinking aboutmoving to Rhode Island, I was
like my friend had said to me sowhen are you going to admit
that you want to move to RhodeIsland?
Because I had been saying, youknow, I want to move in a couple
of years and a couple of years,and a couple of years.
And then finally I said tomyself I was like it's been a
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couple of years yeah said tomyself.
I was like it's been a couple ofyears, yeah, and I didn't tell
anyone.
And I felt the biggest relief,that like the biggest weight off
my shoulders, like oh my God,it felt like I could actually
like sink into my you know, likebeyond my stomach, beyond that
anxiety, and just we resist,resist, resist day in and day
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out of what we actually need.
And the first thing to do isget completely honest with
yourself.
You don't have to journal it,just think in your head, and I
know it's a whole.
Nother topic is when peoplehave bad thoughts in their head.
But when you can ask yourselfthese questions like do I really
want to be with this person?
Do I really want to be friendswith this person?
Like, do I really want to bewith this person?
Do I really want to be friendswith this person?
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Like, do I really want to dothis?
Is this something that I reallywant?
When we can really startpicking apart and asking
ourselves the hard questionslike nobody knows, nobody knows.
And once you move through thoselike feelings of people being
able to read you, or the guiltthat you feel, or the shame or
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feeling like you're holding asecret, then you start to move
through your life a lot faster.
It's like this is actually whatI want.
Now I've given my space toadmit that and the universe can
start rolling with what myactual, authentic desire is.
And that is how alignmenthappens.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yes, and it's because
God creator, the universe,
whatever you want to call itresponse to frequency.
So if you're sending thatfrequency of uncertainty, it's
like of course there's going tobe mixed messages and like with
this hot and cold feeling comingup because you haven't decided.
But when you do make thatdecision, like when I made the
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decision to move to Arizona, itwas like totally out of the blue
.
Like when I came home and toldpeople that like everyone was
shocked because I went there tovisit a couple months prior and
I was like looking around, likewhy the fuck would anyone live
in this barren wasteland?
And then I ended up being therefor so long and loving it and
like I know now that it's likevery much not a barren wasteland
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, um, but like once I made thatdecision, everything started to
fall into place.
Like I got an apartmenteffortlessly.
Like I literally got myapartment sight unseen, like
signed a lease, sight unseen,just like trusting and and it,
it all worked out, it all workedout great, got a job before I
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even got there.
Like once I made that decision,everything started to click into
place that when I went there.
I think that's one of thereasons that I felt so grounded
and so at home, because it wasaligned, it was coming from this
decision.
I made this frequency thatmatched up with it.
It was the right path to takeand all of the things started
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clicking into place to make ithappen so that when I got there
I did feel that sense of peaceBecause it was a grounded
decision.
It was a rooted decision and itdoesn't need to be home where
I'm from.
But that was the energy thatwas there for me and even still
now, like I think if I went backto visit, like I would still,
because they were raising therent, like $800.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
And two of my
roommates at the time were like
we're moving out of the city andso the universe did me a favor,
Right?
Because sometimes they made thedecision for me.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Right, well,
sometimes that's what you need
to like.
Get on that path.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Exactly, and I
actually came down to Rhode
Island because my sister haslived here since college.
I went to hairdressing schooldown here.
But I was living back inMassachusetts, obviously in
Boston, and I was visiting afriend.
We were at the Coast Guardhouse in Narragansett and it
dawned on me, it was like abeautiful day, there was live
music on the deck and I was likeoh my gosh, and I thought
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immediately of a town that wasnearby where my parents live,
newburyport, massachusetts,which is like a small, like
riverside town, really quaint,kind of like Wickford.
And it didn't dawn on me untilI moved here, like, oh my gosh,
maybe my intuition was tellingme like hello, you're here,
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you're already here, like thisis what you want.
But because my whole life wasthere, I had to take those
stepping stones before theuniverse was really like knock,
knock, bitch, yeah, time to makethe move.
But sometimes we're just notready.
So it really life startssetting things up for us before
we even know, because we'vealready prepared for it.
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We're constantly in preparationmode.
So even if you know you havethis full time job and you're
like, oh man, I really like mybody needs my first day of my
cycle.
Like like off, maybe yourmeetings cancel.
Just let it go to the universeand then when the things start
coming in, detach detach fromwhat you thought it was going to
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look like or what it had tolook like in your mind's eye.
It might not mean that you havethe day off, maybe it means you
work remotely and all yourmeetings are canceled and you're
like, cool, I can kind ofhalf-ass my day.
You, you just never know, right, you just never know.
But letting go of that controlis the hardest part, because we
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and I've been told this by somany of my friends who live
outside of this countryAmericans have to know, or want
to know, the future beforethey'll make any moves.
There's a lot of fear aroundthe unknown and for some reason
and I kind of see it too becausemy friends who don't live in
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this country they don't have thesame fear of the unknown that
we do.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
I totally know what
you mean, because that's the
thing.
When my life fell apart, Iended up back in Rhode Island.
Everyone would be like sowhat's next?
And I would just look at peopleand be like what the fuck do
you mean?
Like what's next?
Right now, it's like I'm goingto fucking grieve my life.
Yes, like I am going to grievemy life.
That's what's next.
I don't fucking know what'snext.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
What's next?
What's next?
So many people said that when Ileft hairdressing full time, I
left the salon that I was at andit was such a shock to everyone
because I truly loved it.
And this is just like that sameyear I had so many lessons in.
Sometimes love is not enough.
I had so many people and thingsaround me that I just loved so
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much.
But there was something missingand I could not pinpoint it.
But I had to trust thatniggling feeling and the first
thing and this was mostly men, Ihave to say was so how are you
going to make money?
What are you going to do?
And I was like I'm moving on,my sister, I don't need to worry
about this right now, like I'llfigure it out.
And I already had my own fearsabout it.
Of course.
I was like, yeah, what the fuckam I gonna do?
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Spirit, because you told me toquit my job.
And now what am I gonna do?
I've always measured my successon making money, so I really
had to like hit rock bottom whenit came to that.
But I gave myself six months andI said, okay, after six months
time to think of something.
And I had asked my sister'sfriend who owns a UPS store,
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because I wanted to start theenergy business.
I had had my business name, mybusiness model, everything in a
journal for like five yearsprior to this and just didn't
think anything of it.
I said, all right, I'm gonnajot this down, I'll think about
it later.
And finally the time came.
But I had asked my friend, mysister's friend, who owns a UPS,
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like hey, do you need help forthe holidays?
Like I'll just come in for likethree months and then I'll have
something to carry me overuntil I can get this started.
And he was like no, I don'thire friends.
And I was like, okay, show mesomething better to the universe
.
And I was just took it as likeokay, all right, I'm not going
to panic here.
Where in the past I have beenthat person who's like what do
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you mean?
things to their will, becauseyeah.
Yeah, what do you mean?
Well, I'll do this or I'll dothat, and then onto the next
thing.
But when you give yourself thatspace and that quiet time to
just be like, okay, this isreally uncomfortable, I
definitely want something, thenthe next thing that's actually
right for you will come in.
And that's when I met Justine,who is the owner of Soul
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Sanctuary in.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Coventry, rhode
Island.
Has she been on?
Yes, she's been on, yeah, so ifyou haven't listened to her
episode, go listen to herepisode yes so everyone's
connected through jamie gray.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
That's like this
podcast, like it's brought to
you by brought to you by jamiegray, like 90 of the guests are
connections through hercommunity I love that because I
love networking and that's oneof my number one favorite things
to do is to just like setpeople up with how they can get
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somewhere, get something donefaster or more efficiently,
Cause support is the number onething.
We have lost a major sense ofcommunity and I think I told you
this.
I know you don't watch much TV,but I have been obsessed with
ancient apocalypse on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
It is on my list for
two years.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
So two years ago I
was in Florida for my cousin's
wedding and it came on and Iliterally sat in the Airbnb
while my family did likewhatever.
And I watch this show andbasically the whole premise is
this journalist.
He travels the world todifferent um, ancient sites to
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connect the dots of differentlike ancient lore and theories
and things like that and itreally is like fascinating and,
of course, some of the stuff I'mhe could be making all this
shit up.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
What do I know?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I'm not like a
archaeologist.
I don't know if this isaccurate Trust me.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
I always have my
tinfoil hat on.
I'm ready for a conspiracy.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Yes, yes, but I mean,
it's just so amazing how
separated we have become.
And again, this is like theAmericas have separated
themselves.
We have like hyper independence.
Everyone is feeling lonely.
We're not meant to be isolatedfrom our communities, from our
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families, from our friends.
When you go to Europe, a lot ofpeople live in villages.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
And they go out
walking every night.
They are all shopping at thesame local store.
You know what I mean.
Like we're going to these bigcorporations separate.
It's a miracle.
Like I wouldn't feelcomfortable walking over to the
neighbor's house and asking fora cup of sugar.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
I just don't feel
like I know them.
It is funny, it's veryinteresting.
I lived in several apartmentbuildings and I didn't know the
people who lived right next tome.
Like we literally lived in anapartment, like it's so you're
in such I mean they weren'tsmall apartments, but like there
were like three, four hundredapartment complexes but but yeah
, you have 300 or 400 neighborsthat you don't know but you
literally live on top of eachother.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Exactly.
I have to say, when I lived inNewburyport the neighbors it was
good with the neighbors, we allkind of looked out for each
other and did take care of eachother.
But the rest of the community Ihad moved there and I was like,
oh, I'm going to make newfriends, this is going to be
great.
No, no, I did not meet oneperson outside of that.
The house that I lived in wasdivided into four apartments and
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then there was a carriage house.
That was another apartment.
I didn't meet anyone outside ofthere and I was going out.
This was pre-COVID, so I wasgoing out to dinner a couple
nights a week, even by myself,and people would say hi, here
and there, but nobody took thetime to like get to know you or
like want to hang out outside ofthat.
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And I do think that it was justan older community at the time.
But I was in shock that I justI didn't find anybody that I
really wanted to be friends withand it became lonely and
isolating.
When I moved to Rhode Island Icould not believe still the
amount of people that I have metin such a short amount of time
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that I can rely on that.
They are like a huge supportsystem.
I genuinely love spending timewith them, love talking to them.
I mean, it's insane.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
It's.
It just goes to show too, likewhen you align to that right
decision and the things fallinto place like you were meant
to be here, so your energymatched all of these people who
pulled into your fields.
Exactly, and now I can'timagine leaving, just like you.
Well, I can imagine leaving.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I just think I'm
going to be here.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Yeah, you'll be here
for a while I feel grounded in
that decision, it doesn't feellike forced upon me like it
might have in the beginning, butsame like when that happened, I
came back here.
I allowed myself six months tojust kind of like move through
what I needed to move throughand to decide, like to really
tap in and decide what's next.
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And my friend Kat, who's beenon this podcast too you can go
back and listen to her episodes.
There's like a couple between2022 and I think she was on just
a couple of weeks ago.
But she would say, just like,keep asking God, the creator,
universe, whoever it is to you,to like show you what's next, to
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like open up the doors to showyou what's next.
And once I did that same thing.
Like I went to a restaurant andI was waited on by someone who,
like looked like a Yogi.
And then it just so happenedthat I knew the bar manager and
she came over to say hello and Isaid, like, who is our waiter?
(28:20):
He looks like somebody I wouldbe friends with.
And she was like, oh, no, likehe's a yoga teacher around here
too, like you guys would befriends.
And then he came over and satwith us and he was like, oh,
this studio, this studio andthis studio is hiring like why
don't you go talk to the ownersand check it out?
And then it just so happenedthat, like my sister knew one of
the yoga teacher owners at ouryoga studio owners, and it just
(28:41):
like everything just started toclick into place and it was like
, okay, this is what it'sshowing me.
This.
It's like why those thingsunfold so easily and, kind of
like, put you where you need tobe, like I definitely had a big
path force, correct.
But like, sometimes that'sthat's necessary.
(29:02):
And you have to sit in in thatuncomfortable space of like,
yeah, show me, show me what'snext.
And and trying not to live inthat fear because, yeah, it was
scary, especially wheneveryone's like, oh well, what
are you gonna do to pay yourbills?
And like you don't have healthinsurance.
So like, what are you gonna do?
And it's like I get where otherpeople are coming from with
that, but it's like don't havehealth insurance.
(29:22):
So like, what are you gonna do?
And it's like I get where otherpeople are coming from with
that, but it's like, don'tproject your fear onto me, like
I can't you can't.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
That's exactly what
it is.
It's a, it's a projection, andthat's what I had to come to
terms with too.
But what what's interesting is,you get to decide like is this
a mirror of my own fear?
yeah or is this their projectprojection?
And then it's like we can bringin the compassion for the other
person, like, oh my gosh, theydo not feel like they have any
(29:52):
support, that they can just likehave a month or two with no
income coming in like that'sterrible.
Know, for me, my family wouldnever let me be homeless.
My family would never let me,you know, not be able to go to
the hospital or get the care Ineed, like I'm just very
fortunate in that way and I knowthat you are too, so I can
(30:15):
completely understand if someonedoesn't have a support system.
Yeah, it's it's way scarier, butI think that we have such
attachment and it it hinders ourflow as spiritual beings, as
this is really just a movie.
It's like what do you want yourplot to be?
Like, what do you want toexperience?
(30:35):
And just because I mean, Idon't know what's going to
happen in five years, do I havegoals?
Yes, but do I need to controlevery detail of them?
No, but when you surrender justa little bit, even when your
life seemingly falls apart, likethat's a rebirth.
It's painful, but there's alwayssomething better on the other
(30:57):
side, and some people doexperience like downfall after
downfall, but it's just howspiraled out are you from your
true self?
And we all have thecapabilities to get back to that
.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Yeah, and what kept
me going is that that thought
like this is all happening formy highest good.
Like I know that whatever comesof this, like I know that it's
uncomfortable right now, butthis is all happening for my
highest good.
And it's really funny because Iwas just watching.
It came across my I was likescrolling this morning while I
(31:31):
was getting ready and a friendshared an Emmy speech from like
the 90s room.
She played Blanche on GoldenGirls, oh yeah, and she was
saying like she had been kickedso many times like on her way to
becoming a successful actressand her mom used to say like
(31:55):
with, with every kick down, it'slike actually a kick forward,
like it's it's going to give youwhat you need to bring that
blessing in.
And that just hit me so hardthis morning and I was like,
yeah, I'm kind of in that spotnow where it's like I've moved
forward a little bit and now I'min a new spot of what's next.
It's like feeling what'saligned and what's not aligned,
(32:17):
like letting go of of somethings to make space for for
what's to come.
And I've talked about it alittle bit on here.
Like I've been working reallyhard on the back end of Nearly
Enlightened, because it's morethan a podcast.
Right, it's like it's amovement.
It's bigger than me and I'vekind of let it unfold naturally
(32:37):
and in some ways I've even myown patterns and habits have
held it back a little bit.
So I'm really working onconsistency and consistently
showing up for NearlyEnlightened and birthing what's
to come next, because at thispoint, if I'm not moving forward
, I'm blocking this fromhappening.
(32:58):
So I have the podcast and mynew website is going to be
launching soon.
I have an online guidedmeditation portal with like over
35 plus counting guidedmeditation so far with not just
me but other teachers as well.
So that's a great resource.
It's $12.99 a month.
(33:18):
It's like two coffees.
Yeah, it's amazing and it's soneeded.
And I think it's 12.99 a month.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
It's like like two
coffees yeah, it's amazing and
it's so it's so needed and Ithink it's yeah, to have the
compilation of who you have onthe podcast that people will be
able to get to experience beyond, just like the, the speaking
version and and really feel intotheir work what they can bring
to the people energetically,yeah and so, um, a blog is
(33:44):
coming soon as well.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
That is going to
again not just be me, but other
authors as well, and some, somefirst posts that are coming up.
Is I really, um, I've alreadystarted writing them?
It's going to be a series ofabout, I think, five, five, five
articles, but diving into yoga,beyond the physical practice of
(34:06):
yoga, because it's it's waymore than asana, it's way more
than the poses, it's it's reallya science of wellbeing and we
definitely have watered it downthe practice to just a physical,
like fitness class, and it's somuch more than that, and I
really want it to be accessibleto people who are, like, so
(34:29):
adverse to yoga, because thefirst two limbs of yoga are just
about being a good hygienicperson, and everyone is capable
of doing that.
So yoga is for everybody.
It's not, it was a science ofwell-being and I think we really
need that, and I think this isa good segue into, like, some of
the other things that weplanned on talking about and
(34:50):
wanted to talk about, like thenext couple of weeks.
Like, let's buckle up, like, getright with your energy, get
right with getting grounded and,um, getting grounded and
clearing that spaceenergetically, because, no
matter what happens that firstweek of November, america is
changing in a way that we havenever experienced before, and I
(35:15):
was talking about this with twofriends, jamie and my friend
Deirdre, who have both been onthe podcast.
We talked about this on Sunday,sunday, I mean.
We were together saturday um,saturday night when we were out
for dinner, and it's reallygoing to change the landscape
for a lot, but it's going to bea big awakening for a lot of
people.
So it's like, so it's anecessary turmoil, and I'm going
(35:38):
to use that word notforeshadowing anything bad, but
either way, we know it's gonna,it's there's gonna be crazy
energy.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Think about it, it's,
it's.
It is going to bring turmoil inthe sense of it's polarizing
there is a weight is, there's aweight of responsibility on the
people and let's just say, likemost people I've spoken to are
like I don't like either one ofthem.
So it's kind of like people arereally feeling I'm damned if I
do, I'm damned if I don't, andthat's a really, it's a burden,
(36:11):
it's a, it's a compromisingplace to be in, because I think
it's a really tender place,because you don't feel like you
have freedom in that, and thatis what's like shitty, because
all of us just want emotionalfreedom, we want mental freedom
we want physical freedom andspiritual freedom and everything
(36:33):
is kind of feeling like forcedupon us, but at the same time,
all that force and deception iscoming to light faster than we
have ever experienced, and I Ithink it's funny because all
this stuff that's coming outwith like celebrities and
politicians and stuff I've seenonline people posting like old
(36:55):
interviews, old, um old videosLike let's, let's talk about
like the Diddy situation yes,yeah, as an example, okay, so
the yummy, the yummy music video.
That was like very telling tosome of the stuff that happened
to Justin Bieber and we werejust so like, wow, what a fucked
up video.
Like that's kind of weird.
(37:15):
But now that it's all comingout, we're like, oh, my god,
he's been telling us and it'sjust like, yeah, were we
sleeping like?
Or we just didn't care, likesomething has shifted something
has shifted.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
No, I totally agree,
and you know people have woken
up or well that definitelydefinitely when.
So when 2020 first started, thiswas before the podcast was born
, but if you were reading any ofmy social media posts or like
when I was going live, or I dida lot of like videos during like
quarantine days and I would sayall the time, 2020 started a
(37:54):
spiritual war like this next warthat's coming is spiritual.
So you choose what side you'reon, but being a bystander is not
an option anymore, because ifyou are choosing the path of the
bystander, then I'm sorry, butyou're actually on the side of
evil because you're allowing itto happen.
So now that we're seeing thesethings come to light, we cannot
(38:16):
ignore them anymore.
We cannot brush them under therug.
I just saw like six more peoplecame forward in the Diddy case
and there were like six morelawsuits filed this past Sunday.
And polarizing going back tobeing polarizing I was reading
(38:38):
his camp is trying to filemotions because he thinks what's
happening, or they think what'shappening in the media right
now is he's not getting a fair,he's not going to get a fair
trial and I just he doesn'tdeserve a trial crazy straight
(38:59):
to jail, I know, and he's tryingto get out on bail.
And this is a person with likeendless amounts of money, his
own private island private jets,like he can disappear if he
wants to like.
No, I don't agree with thisanymore.
Like there's more than 120people that have come forward
and accused him of somethinglike this isn't a little like.
(39:19):
Yeah, it's not a little thinganymore.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
This is huge this
isn't a publicity stunt and like
now.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
I think it's time
that we all stand up.
Like the Jeffrey Epstein thinghappened and we let that be
brushed under the rug.
The little black book justdisappeared and you know, this
child trafficker just got awaywith trafficking children to
whom no one, no one, allegedlynothing happened.
There were no further casesfiled, like you know.
(39:47):
You can say that, elainemaxwell or whatever, but like
she's rotting in prison stayingsilent again, who was she
trafficking these girls to like?
Why has no one else come down?
I think the diddy thing is thesame situation.
I think he's the bottom of thetotem pole, like who?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
Oh, absolutely, it
was very political.
Who?
Speaker 1 (40:06):
enabled him who
looked the other way.
Like we should be demandingnames.
So one of the things that Iread that just came out on
Sunday was it was somebody she'sno longer 13.
This happened a couple yearsago, but she was sexually
assaulted by Diddy at 13 yearsold While another two famous
(40:28):
people, a man and a womanunnamed, watched.
So two other adults werewatching and allowed it to
happen and this was years ago,said nothing.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
what is going on in
hollywood, like I do have a
friend who knew someone who wasof age but recalled a story to
her that did he did watch andwore like a face mask, like
(41:05):
screwed up stuff, and I believethis because just of how she's
connected to this person, I justknow.
But here's the thing we havebeen living in our shadows.
We cannot live as our shadowself anymore.
Step into the light, our shadowself anymore.
Step into the light, step intoyour light.
(41:25):
You have to go, move throughyour shadows, move through your
own bullshit.
We all have it, we've all been.
I know for a fact.
I just went through some majorI'm still feeling the residual
effects of my throat chakra,major effects of staying silent
and not saying anything.
And you know what?
I made myself sick and now I'mdealing with getting, uh,
(41:50):
respiratory symptoms.
I'm I'm talking six months outof the past year, because that
is how deep I was living in mylet's call it my unself in the
shadows, because I I'mdefinitely an informer.
I am someone who likes to talkabout things and I grew up in a
(42:10):
household where you kind of keptthings secretive, so I really
had to do a huge unlearning ofthat and I was placing a lot of
blame and judgment on otherpeople.
For you know, I was createdthis way.
I was doing.
You know, my parents are likethis.
I learned it.
No, no, no, no, no.
Just as much as my parents dothings.
I am mirroring that in some way.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
Right, and you have
the choice.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
It may not be the
exact same thing.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
Yeah exactly.
Yeah, and you have the power,yeah, yeah, and you have the.
You have the power, yeah, yeah.
Radical personal responsibility, yeah, and that I mean that was
why I think part of the reasonwhy nearly enlightened was born,
because I felt this insaneresponsibility to help people in
(42:56):
the where I was.
Like I was seeking I wantedsomething better, I wanted tools
and I was met with a wantedsomething better.
I wanted tools and I was metwith a lot of like well, if you
pay me this money and you putthis teacher up on this pedestal
and if you join my communityand all of this stuff, but it's
like no, if they are notteaching you the tools to do
(43:17):
this yourself, like run fromthat person because we all have
these gifts and abilities.
Like I go back to the ancientspiritual texts all the time,
but in both the yoga sutras andin the Bible it says pray,
meditate, clear your physicalbody and spiritual gifts will be
(43:37):
bestowed on you.
So these are two separateancient texts that are saying
essentially the same thing youpray, you meditate, you clear
your channels, you are a purevessel and God will give you
these spiritual gifts.
We all have these other senses,we're all able to use them.
It's just creating the spaceand preparation to be that, and
(44:02):
I think if you really are aperson who is clearing the
channel, all of these stuff thatthat's coming out in the
celebrity world, in thepolitical world, you're really
seeing it for what it really is.
It's all division, it's alldistraction tactics like, oh,
look over here while we do this,like it's only like you said,
it's only going to starthappening faster, especially as
(44:24):
the election approaches, like Iknow.
I really wanted this episode tobe about talking a little bit
about this like political andpop culture things that are
going on, because they are so inour face and it's time to make
a decision.
Are we going to look at thisthrough a spiritual lens and
learn a lesson from it andcreate better from it so that
this doesn't happen again?
(44:44):
Or are we just doomed to repeatthe same cycles over and over
again and are we going to letthese people in power run around
like they're above the law,like I don't want to live in
that paradigm anymore, and Ithink a lot of people who listen
to this podcast don't either.
Like you know, not just talkingabout the doom and gloom, but
what can we do?
(45:05):
Going forward, like how do wehold this accountable?
And like I think, with the Diddysituation, like I really hope
and pray that it doesn't end upbeing an Epstein thing, where it
all gets brushed under the rugand he gets, you know, unalived
or whatever.
We all know he didn't killhimself, um right, but there
(45:29):
were clearly other peopleinvolved.
And where are those peopleright now?
And like, why isn't the hammercoming down on them too?
Because they've been named, youknow, and there's proof.
We all know that there aretapes out there, we all know
that there are blackmail videos.
So like, let's let it come outso that we can purge this evil
(45:57):
right.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
We have to hold
yourself accountable and hold
others accountable.
I'm not saying going up to astranger and be like you do this
, that and this, but I had aconversation with my best friend
the other day and she was like,listen, this is like not a new
story for you, this is what youdo because of this.
And I was like you know whatYou're right.
You're right.
(46:18):
And then it's like are youtaking that advice?
Speaker 1 (46:23):
And I was like was
like all right, I'm gonna do a
few things a little differentlyand to allow yourself to be in
that uncomfortable space,because I think it's really easy
for us to get defensive inthose spaces.
But realizing that the otherperson is like, your friend is
holding you by holding youaccountable.
Like that, that friend is moreloving than the friend who is
(46:44):
like just listening to you ventabout the same thing over and
over again and just essentiallybeing an enabler to the bad
behavior right exactly, and,like I said, it's like choose
one, one of your best friends,like someone you trust, who you
can like.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
Admit something you
have shame around, admit
something that you normallywouldn't talk to somebody else
about, like I keep, I don't likethis about myself, like we
can't keep stuffing it down.
That's where secrets and liesget stored.
And because more and morepeople are awakening and working
on this and they're starting tochoose the light and they're
(47:21):
starting to choose the higherpath.
That's why we're seeing all ofthis come out.
And it's like we haveresponsibility, because we are a
vibrational being.
What we think, feel and say areall basically spells that go
out into the universe to mirrorback to us.
(47:42):
But, on the other hand, we alsohave astrology and there is
planetary mixes going on thatcan be predicted over time
because of the ancient peopletracking it and learning and
giving us kind of that wasmathematics, thankfully.
And right now the astrology islike no, no bullshit, there's no
(48:06):
hiding, there's no hiding.
Speaker 1 (48:08):
No.
So talking a little bit aboutthe full moon, this full moon is
really about lighting a fireunder our ass.
Like it was an Aries full moon,so very fire energy, and it was
also like, okay, we know whatwe have to do now.
Now, it's time to take action.
Now, absolutely.
And it was the end of a sixmonth cycle, yep.
Speaker 2 (48:31):
So the new moon in
April was also an Aries, and
then the eclipses began, andthen the full moon in Aries was
the culmination of that sixmonth cycle, so that more people
that I spoke to than not werelike the same triggers are
coming up.
This trigger, I'm triggered.
I'm triggered, yes, becausethis is like the grand.
(48:54):
You still care.
How are you going to react?
How are you going to react tothis?
Are you still the same person?
And if you're sitting theresaying, fuck this, this isn't
(49:14):
like I don't want this anymore,you have done the work, because
that is how you know.
It no longer resonates with you.
It no longer resonates with youand some people, the universe
moved things out of their wayand that's where the detachment
comes in.
Feel your feelings.
Do you have to do?
But just know like sometimes weneed to be blindsided in this
(49:34):
way so that we can be putcompletely on a different path
that is more authentic to us.
Speaker 1 (49:42):
Yeah, I mean, that
was definitely the case for me.
My I got ripped from my pathkicking and screaming.
I was clawing and holding onfor dear life.
Speaker 2 (49:54):
Oh girl, we've all
been there.
There's not one person who hasnot been there at one point or
another, I even still go throughit.
Speaker 1 (50:03):
I feel like
collectively collectively,
that's kind of where we're atright now Like we're holding on
to this paradigm, with we'rewhite knuckling this paradigm.
But for those of us who areawake and already get it, it's
time to let go and build thosestructures that when it really
all crumbles and crashes andburns, it's like okay, we're all
over here doing it this way andit works.
(50:25):
So you can just, you can justcome over and do it this way, or
you can leave this planet, youcan cease to exist, because
that's what's going to happenLike you are either going to let
go and surrender and get onthat right path or, like I've
seen it in my, in my own life,like people who just couldn't
(50:45):
get it together this lifetimeand that's okay, you know it's
that's.
Speaker 2 (50:51):
It is okay, people
won't, and some people are going
to be more more awakened and Ireally I think it's interesting
because when you look at it froma higher perspective, a lot of
the division and I know this haskind of taken the religious
turn too is it's language.
It's language.
I've dealt with very religiouspeople who are like I don't
(51:14):
understand what you do, I don'twant to be a part of that.
I'm like, just as you would goto church and pray, we're coming
together collectively to setintentions.
What is a prayer and intention?
Asking for something right or,you know, sending out hopes and
blessings for other people, toremember that we're different.
(51:42):
We all speak differentlanguages.
So trying to see from otherpeople's perspective I'm not
saying see from the perspectiveof you- know a murderer or a
politician who is using theirpower, you know, with the utmost
abuse.
But we've seen this time andtime again.
I mean, look at the history.
The history has had it like youknow emperors and things like
kings and queens.
(52:02):
There's always like the powerdynamic and this is where it
comes in.
It's like the middle class, thelower class, take your power
back.
Take your power back.
You have the ability.
You're giving it away and evenif it's just you feeling strong
in your own life, don't let itget any bigger than that, cause
that's where it feels too faroutside of you, where it feels
(52:25):
too expanded and where you canreally get lost because we do
there's, we have access to toomuch.
Speaker 1 (52:31):
Yeah, More
information than humans have
ever had access to.
I mean, think about it Likeit's kind of a weird thing to
have social media and beconnected to, like people you
didn't stay friends with, butnow you're just like social
media acquaintances with or exes, or we have access to more
(52:52):
information and it's likesuperficial connection.
But like yeah, I mean it's,it's just weird.
Like do I need to know what myex-boyfriend from high school is
doing in his life?
Like no, no.
Speaker 2 (53:07):
No, absolutely not.
Bring it back to you.
Bring the focus back to you.
That's always my advice where,when I'm starting to feel too
spiraled or like I'm tooinvested in drama or fear, it's
like bring it back to you.
Are you even directly involved?
Are you even directly involved?
(53:27):
And one thing I will say,because I experienced this too,
was, with all these naturaldisasters and all of this like
political stuff, we do have thissense of impending doom.
Yes, and that's when you have toask yourself what if it all
does fail?
Will life still go on?
(53:49):
And for a lot of people, mostpeople yes, it will just like
when you got ripped home fromarizona your life went on and
everything is probably betternow.
Yeah, just like me.
Speaker 1 (54:05):
Like I said, this too
shall pass.
Speaker 2 (54:08):
Exactly, exactly.
Life is going to go on.
We get to decide how we want itto, but you know it's we.
Speaker 1 (54:18):
let ourselves get out
of control yes and give our
power away to others and all ofthese things coming to light
right now are allowing us thespace and the opportunity to see
things with the observer's eyeand to move forward accordingly,
like we have seen what'shappened in our own country with
natural disasters there are amonth.
(54:39):
There are still people thatdon't have electricity, don't
have running water, don't haveaccess to food or medical
supplies that they need.
Yeah, yeah, and we havepolitical, uh people running for
office going on.
Speaker 2 (54:55):
Call her daddy yep,
yep, I listened to that.
Speaker 1 (55:01):
It's funny I haven't,
I've only given a listen.
Like I only listened to, like,um, a couple of clips.
I haven't really like listenedto it, listened to it, but it
all comes back to the same thing.
Like these are all divisiontactics, like it's a paradigm
that's failing and literallywe're watching the house of
cards fail and I'm just in thespace where it's like, okay,
(55:23):
what's next?
Like either way we go in thiselection, it's going to be like
a not a great outcome and peopleare going to be pissed and who
knows what they're going to dowith that anger to create
whatever narrative, and it'slike I don't want any part of it
because I'm over teachingpeople how to, how to tap into
(55:46):
the yoga of wellness, and soonce you start to head down that
path, you realize like none ofthis matters anyways.
Speaker 2 (55:55):
And as far as these,
I think a lot of it will be
faded.
Speaker 1 (55:58):
Yeah, as far as these
celebrity things go like, yeah,
let it come out.
Let it come out, purge everyevil person out of Hollywood,
like anyone who knew, anyone whowas a bystander, who stayed
silent, who covered up, anythinglike let it all come out.
Let it all come out.
(56:18):
Let it burn to the ground.
You know I was I.
It all come out.
Let it burn to the ground youknow I was.
I am all peace, love and lifeLike you fuck with kids and.
You're all, you're all done tome.
And like I think, yeah,innocent until proven guilty.
But like we're really going towaste taxpayer money on this.
Like we know he did it, we.
(56:39):
There's more than 120accusations.
This is bigger than the harveyweinstein thing, this is bigger
than the jeffrey epstein thing.
And, like I said, he's thebottom of the totem pole.
So who is above him?
Let them all fry.
Let's bring back publichangings, let's leave them in
the square.
Like fuck around and find out.
Like you want to do that tochildren.
(57:03):
Like, yeah, yeah, now he, hedoesn't think he's getting a
fair trial, so they're trying topush back the trial from may
5th even further.
Speaker 2 (57:11):
It's like, well,
because they're just trying to
push it, push it, push it, pushit because they're probably
trying to buy themselves moretime to protect whoever else
they need to, and but here's thething is, people are getting
their voice back and DAs arecoming up.
Take your power back.
Give yourself a voice.
Make sure it's coming from theheart and what you believe in.
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People have lost their values.
They have become money hungry.
They have ignored Back themoral compass Bad behavior.
Bad behavior Because we don'thave all the answers.
We need to let it crumble tothe ground without needing to
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know the outcome.
We will all survive in one wayor another.
Speaker 1 (57:59):
Yeah, and we're going
to be better off for it.
Like right, and you know I Iwas talking about this in just
one last thing before we we wrapit up about this diddy thing,
like you, think about theprogramming that happened when
we were young, so that was likethe dawn of mtv music videos.
Think about the music thatDiddy and the like were putting
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out.
It was all like booty shaking,fuck hoes like yes, radically
sexualized.
Speaker 2 (58:31):
To the window, to the
wall, Like come on yeah.
And we ate that shit up.
Speaker 1 (58:36):
I know we were like I
was in middle school.
Speaker 2 (58:38):
I was like get off
the bus, Get straight to DRL
yeah.
Speaker 1 (58:42):
Yeah it.
It hyper sexualized an entiregeneration and this is what we
were being fed Like.
This was the programming thatwas being pushed on our
generation to like have sexwithout connection, that, like
real family values don't matter,it was just like finding the
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next best thing.
This is what we were programmedto operate as.
So it's taking a whole look atthat as a generation and seeing
how that affected us, like thosethat planted seeds, that
planted some sort of seeds.
So, even if you're in like ahappy monogamous relationship
(59:25):
right now, like that, realizethat those that had an effect on
you like purge that fromourselves, from our, our
energetic fields, and allow thisto to come up and come out like
the music of our generation.
We're never going to be able tolisten to it the same way ever
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again, because all of thosepeople were connected to what's
being, what's coming to lightright now.
So I think that millennials,especially, like have to take a
hard, hard ass.
Look at this, because these arehard grief yeah, because these
are people we glorified and,like you know, it's fucked up in
a way, but worshipped totallyagree with that.
Speaker 2 (01:00:12):
I totally agree.
And just I know personally fromworking with many people and
things that I've had to healabout myself have been like some
serious sexual confusionserious like sacred sexuality
just the complete loss of thatand the uncomfortability of even
(01:00:35):
talking about it.
Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
We really a hard look
is exactly right yeah, I think
that this, uh, hibernationseason is going to be a lot of
like healing these wounds thathave come up through all of this
.
Like there, this is there's alot of fear of the unknown about
what's to come in the nextcouple of weeks, and a lot of
(01:01:02):
things coming to light right nowthat it's like, oh my god, this
happened under everyone's nose,and so I think that, moving
through the next couple of weeks, we really have to keep in mind
, like one, love your neighbor,like let's go back, that you
don't have to agree with them,you don't have to have the same
(01:01:23):
views as them, but like let'srespect one another Because, no
matter what happens, like, likeyou said, the middle and lower
classes, like we're here doingthe work, like we don't have the
luxury of like hiding in abunker until it's over with,
like personal servants andpersonal chefs and that kind of
(01:01:46):
life, so we're the ones that aregoing to suffer and are going
to either clean up the mess orlike we're not going to stand
for it.
Like you said, we're going togo the other way and let it all
burn down to the ground.
But let's take care of andrespect one another.
Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
We don't have the
same views Exactly.
And the last thing I want tojust make sure people understand
is we, especially millennials,have kind of been gaslit into
thinking things might not havehappened.
So I highly encourage you ifyou do feel a sense of like.
(01:02:28):
Maybe you were sexuallyassaulted or just something
inappropriate happened, or maybeyou had sex with somebody
because you didn't you didn't,you didn't want to, but you just
kind of felt pressured.
Whatever it is that comes uparound it, whether it happened
or not, you have that energywith you and it's only natural
(01:02:50):
because there's so much of itgoing on.
So I highly encourage you tojust allow yourself to process
and heal that, despite needingto know did this really happen?
What exactly happened?
Because we can our egos reallyhave to have a story to attach
to it to make us feel safe, andthat is really useful a lot of
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the time.
But if you feel like somethinginappropriate happened to you or
you did something inappropriate, inappropriate, take the time
that you need.
Speaker 1 (01:03:24):
Whether it happened
or not, you need to process it
because that energy is with youyeah, and it's clearing out out
the space from, from not justyour physical being but your
energetic being, like I'vetalked about this too Like we
(01:03:45):
have this energetic field thatlike it pulls things in and
hangs on to things and thataffects the decisions that we
make, the energy that we'removing forward in.
And I just think that, goingback to what we were saying
before at the beginning of thepodcast, and I just think that,
(01:04:23):
going back to what we weresaying before at the beginning
of the podcast, when you'retruly rooted in a solid
foundation, in self-worth, fearover it, because I think it's
what we need, I thinkcollectively we're moving
through so that we can literallyraise the vibration of this
entire planet.
And I think that, no matterwhat happens, even if it's like
a rocky outcome, like it's allhappening for the higher good,
(01:04:44):
like we have that's what I wassaying, meaning like I think
it's going to be faded.
Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
It's exactly what we
need, and we just need to ride
that wave together.
Speaker 1 (01:04:54):
Yeah, it's time to
take our power back and reclaim.
Like the systemic dumbing downof society is a real thing.
Like we used to teach calculusas like sophomores and juniors
in high school and now peoplelike don't even take it in
college, where like last in mathand sciences on the scale of
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the of the world.
It's like let's bring back ridein in education, in even like
having craft and hobbies, like.
It's like two ends of thespectrum.
I have a few friends with likeno hobbies at all.
And then I have a few friendswith like, like and even my
brother.
He has more hobbies than anyoneI've ever met and gets time to
(01:05:39):
celebrate that and like leaninto that.
Like learn pottery, take a classlike, do things that really
fill you up and bring you joy,because when you're operating on
that frequency, it justreverberates out, and that's how
we make the world a betterplace.
It's not this complicated thing.
The structures that change needto be coming back to our
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humanity, coming back to thethings that bring us joy, that
fill us up, that give usconnection.
And, like you said, yeah, maybeyou're not afforded that, but
it takes nothing to go for awalk on a beach and smile or say
hello to a stranger that youwalk by.
Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
That's free, that you
walk by.
Exactly.
That's free, exactly Well, thisended up being a very powerful
conversation.
Always as it is.
Yes, well, I hope that, like aswe move the neck through the
next couple of weeks, like welean on each other for support,
(01:06:40):
and the podcast will be here.
We got some great guests comingup and, yeah, tell us a little
bit about Revitalize, because ifpeople are looking for a space
to clear energy, I think that'sthe perfect space.
Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
Yeah, absolutely so.
Revitalize is my weekly energyclearing and healing.
We meet.
It is a membership, so you optin and there's a monthly
membership and every Tuesday wemeet live on Google Meet or you
receive the replay.
So if you can't make the live,you'll get the replay and during
(01:07:17):
that time, between 12 and 1230on Tuesdays, I am calling in all
the energy of the members andI'm individually and
collectively working on yourenergy so I can make sure that
you are getting realigned withyour authentic self.
Your energy field isdecluttered.
(01:07:38):
There's often, always, you know, a universal theme.
I pull an Oracle card, I useessential oils, so you get all
that information with the replayas well, and you get access to
the revitalize vault, which hasmore content PDFs on a whole
(01:08:01):
slew of topics.
I think right now Sacred Spaceis up how to open and close
Sacred Space.
There's one on manifestation,so there's a bunch of things
that you can get on there, a lotof content.
But yeah, overall, revitalizeis your weekly sanctuary to come
and get your energy cleared.
(01:08:23):
You can listen to the replay asoften as you want.
The energy work is embeddedinto the video and it's amazing.
All of my members every weekare texting me, whether they
come to the live or not, thatthey can feel when I'm tapping
into them and they'reautomatically feeling better.
(01:08:43):
So you can check that out on mywebsite.
Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
It's taking care of
that, taking care of that
spiritual hygiene.
Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
Exactly, exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:08:53):
We got a clear space
and make space to bring the good
stuff in.
Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
Yeah, exactly, and
it's something that I needed so
desperately.
To be consistent with that,that is why I created it,
because, I'm taking on a lot ofenergy, and I know others are as
well.
Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
Yeah, and it's so
important I say this all the
time too it's so important topractice what you preach and,
when you work with somebody, towork with somebody who practices
what they preach.
Speaker 2 (01:09:22):
One thousand percent.
Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
Learned that the hard
way, learned from my mistakes.
Yes, we've all been there.
Well, thank you so much forbeing here.
I will link your website andthe link to Revitalize in the
show notes so if you'reinterested in that, you can
connect with Danielle further.
Thank you so much for beinghere, danielle.
It was a pleasure.
If you liked this episode, orif you know it will resonate
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It's an honor to be here and tolead through this space.
Thank you for being here and Iwill see you next time.