NEEDS TO BE STUDIED PODCAST
Welcome to Needs to be Studied, the podcast where we unapologetically dive into the wild world of sex, mental health, dating, and relationships. Hosted by the one and only Billy The Bad Guy, we're here to explore all the things your momma warned you about—but with way more laughs and a lot less judgment. Each week, we bring on guests who spill the tea on their love lives, mental breakdowns, and all the juicy details in between. No topic is off-limits, and no story is too wild. Whether you’re dodging red flags, navigating a situationship, or just trying to keep your sanity in check, we’ve got you covered. We’re here to remind you that no one has it all figured out, and that’s perfectly okay. So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even learn a thing or two.
Episodes
What does it really feel like when you’ve found the right one? In this episode, I sit down with New York Times bestselling author of No Holds Barred and host of the Decision Decision Podcast Weezy WTF to unpack the difference between chasing toxic love and finding the kind of relationship that finally feels easy.
We break down:
✨ The moment you know you’ve found the right person
✨ Why healthy love feels ca...
In this episode, I’m joined by my bestie Samantha as we unpack my wild trip to Vegas for Beyoncé’s final show—and yes, THE Beyoncé said my name! 👑✨ From screaming every lyric in the crowd to waking up way too emotionally hungover, this trip wasn’t just about the concert—it was about connection. Vegas brought me and my new boo closer than ever, and now I’m out here feeling drunk in love, crazy in love, and lowkey dang...
In this episode, I’m joined by my sexologist bestie Kasha, and we’re breaking down exactly how to become the most seductive version of yourself — without changing your body, begging for attention, or overthinking your worth.
Are you falling in love after two FaceTimes and a good morning text? Yeah… you might be skipping the vetting process. This week on Needs to Be Studied, we’re breaking down why so many of us fall too fast, ignore red flags, and end up dating in delusion.
We’re joined by dating and life coach Chad Scott, who’s giving us the real about how to vet better, protect your peace, and stop choosing partners who aren’t choosing y...
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This week on Needs To Be Studied, Billy is prepping for a big date night (we’re talking cologne, candles, and clean sheets energy) — but before the romance begins, he’s joined by guest judge Samantha to unpack the messiness of micro-cheating and the real work it takes to keep a relationship hot, healthy, an...
Why are so many men checking out of modern dating? In this episode, I sit down with a single male guest to unpack the unexpected, unspoken, and sometimes hilarious things that make men lose interest fast. From “over-texting” to performative femininity, we’re breaking down the real reasons he unmatched, never called back, or suddenly got “busy.” This isn’t about bashing—it’s about understanding the male perspective in ...
This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re saying BYE to rushed relationships and fake moans. Joined by the unfiltered and hilarious @shanta_shanta_ and @shaynasmiles, we get into the slow dating era, where women are prioritizing emotional connection, peace, and pleasure over performance.
We talk about:
💋 Why the streets are exhausting
🧠 How healing is changing what (and who) we desire
🔥 The “sexual renaissance” happ...
Chris and Kasha are back—and the group chat is officially open. In part two, we get into the messy, hilarious, and too real ways couples miscommunicate. From shady tone to passive-aggressive texts, we’re talking about why it’s not what you say… it’s how you say it.
Can your delivery ruin the message? Can you be too honest? And what’s the difference between being real and being rude? Let’s talk about it—respectfull...
What does good sex really feel like — emotionally, mentally, and physically? In this episode, we break down the difference between sex that’s just “okay” and the kind that leaves you glowing, grounded, and genuinely satisfied. From physical chemistry to emotional connection, we explore the ingredients of pleasure that go beyond just orgasms.
Whether you’re unsure if you’ve ever had good sex, or you’re learning to ...
Thinking about attending your first play party? Curious but nervous? This episode is your ultimate beginner’s guide! We’re breaking down everything you need to know before you step into the room — from how parties are vetted, to first-timer etiquette, to common mistakes that can kill your vibe.
We’re also diving into the realities of consent, the role of alcohol, and how to handle your nerves if this world is brand new...
This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re turning the mirror on ourselves and asking the uncomfortable question: Would you date you?
Billy unpacks what it means to be truly self-aware in relationships — the good, the bad, and the emotionally unavailable. We talk past relationship patterns, red flags we ignored (and waved ourselves), and what we’re doing differently in our next chapter of love.
PLUS: Billy spills the tea o...
How many times have you said, “But I see so much potential in them…” only to end up heartbroken, drained, and wondering how you got here? In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, I’m joined by a certified relationship and dating coach to break down why we ignore the obvious, what it really means when someone shows you who they are — and why you need to start believing them the first time.
We’re getting into the real, ra...
This week, Billy’s in Los Angeles and he’s linking up with Jacob Willis from the Just Us Podcast to break down the #1 first date mistake that’s probably keeping you single — yes, YOU. 👀
From awkward vibes to oversharing trauma to showing up like you already planning the wedding... we’re unpacking why your first dates might not be hitting like you think. Jacob brings the realness, the laughs, and the perspective you di...
In this episode, Billy catches up with the lovely Renay and things get real. From AI giving better relationship advice than your bestie, to how technology might actually be the thing saving our situationships—nothing is off-limits. We also get into friendship dynamics, Renay’s upcoming birthday (turn up loading 🎉), and Billy finally moving… but did he make a purchase he already regrets? (Of course he did.)
It’s laughs...
In this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy the Bad Guy teams up with the hilarious and unfiltered Renay (@renayproppa on IG) to break down one of the messiest topics in the workplace—how to flirt with a coworker without ending up in HR. We’re giving you signs to look for if they actually like you back, and what you should NEVER do when shooting your shot in the breakroom.
Then we slide right into our next lesson: Th...
Renay is back, and class is officially in session! After stepping away to grieve the loss of her father, she returns to share her healing journey and opens up about navigating grief while trying to keep it all together.
This week’s syllabus is loaded:
💸 How to ask a man for money without feeling broke or embarrassed
👄 Why some say oral cheating hits harder than sex
💔 Grief, healing, and showing up when y...
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