BIG ICK ENERGY

In today's episode, Lauryn + Katie are sharing all of their biggest ICKS! 

Episode Transcript

(00:08):
-Oh, hi everybody.
Hello.
Did I have a until breakdowntoday?
Yes.
Like probably 10 minutes beforewe started recording this.
Hi everyone.
Welcome back to, we've keepingit very real here.
Mm-hmm.
on the, no Crying on theinternet.
Yep.
You had a little breakdown.
Do cry on the internet.
you had a little breakdown.
We're back in.

(00:28):
Still having a good day, We'restill having a good day.
Yeah, it's been a good day.
Yeah.
It's just, uh, been one of thosedays.
Yeah.
Now how am I feeling?
I'm feeling all right.
are you, do you have any lifeupdates for us?
Um, do I have any life updates?
Not necessarily.
Um, I do wanna talk about, like,some tea though, going down on

(00:51):
TikTok with what, you know, themakeup girl, Mikayla, whatever.
She has like black hair.
No.
You don't know who I'm talkingabout?
No, but I, I feel like I'veheard about like the MA mascara
thing.
Yeah, yeah.
What is that?
So pretty much she.
replied to, um, a video thatthis girl did on like a L'Oreal,

(01:16):
I think it was L'Oreal mascara.
Okay.
Um, and she was clearly wearingfalsies like whiskey lashes,
like, you know, like whiskey.
So like she, so she was sayingthat it was the L'Oreal mascara
that made her lashes and you canclearly see it cuz like So she
has one eye done already, right?
Yeah, she already has one eyedone.

(01:36):
This is the, in the video, thisthe Mikayla girl.
This is the Mikayla girl.
Oh, okay.
This girl has like so manyfollowers and stuff like, she
has like millions of followers.
Is she taking down the video?
No, I think it's still up.
I'm gonna watch it.
Yeah, you can go watch it.
Um, so she starts the video andshe's like, you guys like look
at how amazing this mascara.
like, looks on this girl, likewe're gonna try it.
So her, this one of her eyesalready.

(01:58):
Okay.
So she's stitching someone whoactually used the mascara, used
it already and like loved theresults.
But didn't, this girl was notwearing falsies, but Mikayla
was, I don't think the girl waswearing them.
Okay.
Okay.
But um, so you see her puttingit on, right?
But yeah, she had on must lashesand, um, do you know who
Kathleen Lights is?
Uh, I've heard of her, yeah.
Okay.
So then she is like one of the,I think she was like one of the

(02:21):
first influencers Yeah.
That her name really familiar.
Okay.
Like, you know, this is justreally messed up, like it's
false advertisement.
Yeah.
And like, you know, You shouldnot be, um, doing that whenever
you're promoting like a product.
Like, like be authentic aboutit, basically, whatever.

(02:43):
Yeah.
It's just crazy because peopleare like literally crucifying
her for this and they're tryingto like, So Jeffrey Starr, I
know you know who Jeffrey Starris.
Yeah.
So like, he's been like, we're,he's been off on the farm we've
done and like over with him,right?
Yeah.
So he's trying to like come backfrom making, making like a, he
is from like, because of thissituation, it's almost like he's
trying to take it as anopportunity to come back.

(03:04):
Oh.
And people are literally like,we miss his reviews, like
they're honest and whatever.
I'm like, you're, you wouldrather bring back a problematic
influencer.
Yeah, he was.
And crucify someone thatliterally false advertised.
Masculine.
So you're on the girls, you'reon the girls's side.
I'm not necessarily on anyanyone side.
I think it's dumb to bring back.
You think the whole drama islike stupid?

(03:26):
I love the drama because itreminds me of like old YouTube
of old.
Yes.
Yeah.
I'm like, I'm healing.
I can feel like my wounds justlike healing and all over my
body.
Um, but like them trying thatreally made me laugh.
But like people trying to bringback fr bring back Jeffrey's
star and like he is aproblematic, he's pro like,

(03:48):
leave in the bin, leave it inthe bin.
Let's support people.
Other people like that are givehonest reviews, like let's move
on.
But I don't think, I thinkpeople are going so hard on her,
her up.
Yeah, you definitely should justtype in name Mikayla.
Yeah, go to, it's funny cuz oneof my favorite fitness
influencers is name Mikayla.
And so I was like, oh no.
Go to TikTok and search Mikayla.

(04:08):
M i k something.
M i k a.
Mikayla Did um, this girl, no,no.
Let me see.
Go tie.
Oh, here's Jeffrey Star, m i k ay l a n o g.
M I K A Y L A.

(04:32):
Yep.
Here she is she's 14.4.
Oh, I know this girl.
The funny thing is, is that ithas 45.7 million views, but only
1.3 million likes.
Okay, wait, tell me why I wannago buy this mascara.
Oh my gosh.
Why?
What you think I might Youliterally have mascara just to.

(04:56):
But I want that one.
Why?
Because it looks good.
Oh my God.
I don't really like my mascaranow.
Okay, girl, Papa off.
It's like, what?
10 bucks Shouldn't I just go tryit?
It's like, look at that side byside.
No, I know.
It's so obvious.
I like her.
I actually do follow her.
I mean, I don't mind her.
I like watching her do hermakeup.

(05:17):
No, she's really good at makeup,but she, and I will say she's
giving old YouTube days, likeshe's giving old YouTube era,
which I really like and that'sprobably why she has so many
followers, don't you?
She's giving us the drama,honey.
Yeah, she's giving us the drama,but also.
Nobody really does this kind ofstuff anymore.
I mean, they do.
A lot of people do, but shejust, she a lot of old YouTube

(05:38):
vibes.
Not a lot of people give oldYouTube vibes, don't you think?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I don't know.
I like her, but I just don't,someone's kind of giving me the
I too.
Interesting.
Not me having two followers andher having 14.4 and I'm like,
she gives, she gives me the ickI'm so much more popular than
her.
Oh man.
Her wedding dress is prettythough.
Yeah.
I'm like, okay, does this popoff?
Didn't even know you wereengaged, but, um, yeah.

(06:00):
So that was my little cup of teaI wanted to sip on.
I'm just gonna be watching,like, I'm gonna be going in
depth onto this later.
Yeah.
Like I will be watching.
Someone said though, that theywere like, is this an ad?
But it clearly says paidpartnership at the bottom.
Yeah.
I wonder how L'Oreal has takenthis, whether this has been
really good for them or reallybad.
According to like what Kathleenwas kind of saying, whenever

(06:22):
you.
do those partnerships orwhatever it like states that
they, to not do that, you know?
And so do you think they'regonna cancel their partnership
here, girl?
I don't know.
I don't even know if she, Idon't think she's even been back
on the internet since that, orlike responded or whatever.
No, she hasn't because it's beensix days.

(06:45):
It has been rough.
And then if you go in thecomments, someone asked her if
she was wearing false lashes andshe was like, she said no.
Like she like blatantly liedabout it.
Yeah.
Someone said, mm-hmm.
did you add lash clusters on theedges?
And people are like, yes.
Because it doesn't look likeshe's wearing like a full strip
of falsies.
Yeah.
It looks like she either addedin like individuals or it looks

(07:06):
like she added.
I don't know.
Someone said, are you lashlighting us right now?
Like gaslighting, but lashlighting?
Yeah, that is.
So someone said she forgot totag Ardell.
Bye.
Dang.
Someone said, no, Mikayla, Ican't back you up on this video.
Okay.

(07:26):
Well that's crazy.
Thanks for letting me know.
You always are up to date on thetea.
Oh, cuz you know me.
I didn't know this girl had thatmany followers.
No, she's, I've known about herfor a while.
She did blow up.
Blew up.
Yeah.
So, um, wow.
Yeah, that's how we wanted to, Iwanted to start the episode
before we get into our maintopic today, which is gonna be

(07:47):
about our x.
our eggs.
Ew.
I wish we had a sauna pic thatwe can put after that.
W Ew, ick.
Something like that.
But yeah, I just wanted to dothis because I like to complain.
So Yeah, same.
Hello.
Have to talk about talking aboutour X and I'm gonna have my dear
friend Lauren Gophers.
Yeah.
So I'm just, I'm just gonna kindof go.

(08:09):
Don't go too fast, cuz I reallymight have Well, I was gonna,
I'm not gonna go too fast.
I'm not gonna like just startlisting him or anything.
I, I'm just gonna kind of gothrough that.
I have one, but I don't know ifI should say mine.
Okay.
Well I will start, actually, no,I can't say mine.
Okay, so my first egg, this isjust one of my everyday s that
just, okay, it pops up at leastonce.
At least once.

(08:29):
I cannot stand, cry often.
This cannot stand, stand.
Like chewing loud.
Chewing.
Oh no.
And I hate loud chewing.
I wish you guys, I wish we hadvideo.
We'll get it eventually, butLauren is cracking me up.
Okay, go for it.
I just, whenever it's like, youknow, in a really quiet room and

(08:50):
people are eating, you can heareverything.
It makes me, it makes me wannavomit.
You use my thing.
Oh really?
It's so bad.
It's so bad.
But here's my thing.
I, the stomach is like, okay,but I'm allowed chewer and I
don't mean to.
So what do I do there?
Let's make sure that we don'teat in a quiet.
but like, I try, like if I'm toochest.
Do you not chew with your, withyour mouth closed?
I do, but that's fine.

(09:10):
But it's like crunch, crunch,crunch.
It's crunch.
It's crunch.
It's like that.
It's giving crunch.
It's like that, but that's me.
Oh no, I don't do that.
No, absolutely not.
It's disgusting.
Ugh, that's so gross.
I hate that so much.
And like the, I also put like,when it's too quiet mm-hmm.
you know, so when it's too, too,that's giving, that's giving

(09:30):
ick.
Yeah, like it's too quiet.
Like if the fan's not going orsomething and it's literally
like you can hear a pin drop.
Oh yeah.
Like, you know, like whathappens when, if the power goes
out and then you hear mm-hmm.
nothing that you can hear everylittle, Hey pop.
Ooh, he be geebies.
That's gonna be a no from me.
Here's one of my aches not beingable to breathe.

(09:54):
That's a horrible ach.
Like whenever you're sick andyour nose is stuffy.
Yeah.
I'm not even like sick.
My nose is just stopped up.
It's allergies.
It sucks.
Yeah, that is annoying.
It freaks me out because I haveto breathe so deep.
Yeah, it's really annoying isn'tit?
Hate, especially when you haveto like lay down.
Oh, you know, it's also a nickof mine.
when people disagree with me.

(10:18):
Yeah.
I'm just kidding.
When people think, no, you'renot like No, you're not.
You, you are very like, if, ifit, it's your way or the highway
sometimes.
And if it doesn't go your way,sister.
It's pissy you think A littlebit, but I've been pissy in a
long time.
It's not that.
It's not that you do that to menecessarily.
You cannot put any of your achesin the episode.

(10:39):
I love Any of my, no, youliterally like you think of a
bitch.
I'm like, you know what gives methe.
When someone's breathing oh myGod was such a bitch.
Oh my god.
Okay, this one.
This one I, okay.
It's not that I don't like dogs.
This does not mean I don't likedogs cause I do.

(10:59):
But when people make their wholepersonality dogs, I literally
put people that only talk abouttheir dogs.
I can't stand, and when peopleonly talk about their dogs,
like, okay, please give me more,give me something.
No, it's, it's not giving whatit needs to give.
Especially if I don't know you.
If I don't know you, and allyou're talking about is your
dog, oh my God.

(11:19):
It's giving Or clearly like whenyou're out and about and you're
like walking around and peoplehave their dogs and clearly they
want people to like come inlike.
Yeah, I'm not that person.
I'm that person that's like,that's cute dog.
Anyways, no, so I don't petrandom people's dogs.
I'm the person that pets thedogs because people are
disgusting.
Okay?
I don't know what your livingsituation is, but don't come
over here This is giving, okay.

(11:41):
Here's the thing though.
Don't, I can't stand, that's whyI love cats because no one knows
I have a cat then.
And listen, I don't need tobroadcast it.
I love it.
I love it.
Cats are till there's not reallymuch to broadcast.
I love cats.
Do I make my cats mypersonality?
A little?
Yeah, a little bit.
Um, I don't know if it's justcuz we're like, but in the best
way.
I don't know if it's justbecause we talk so often that we
talk about all kinds ofdifferent things, but I don't

(12:02):
feel like you do that.
But here's the thing.
Is that like your icebreaker alittle bit?
Yeah.
I'm like, not cats.
Here's the thing though, theydon't do much, so there's not
really much to say.
Yeah.
There's only so much I can sayabout, yeah.
My rat.
Yeah.
Cat.
Yeah.
And my good cat.
So Remy gives you more.
Remy gives rat energy.

(12:22):
Greg gives us nothing.
Greg gives us, Greg gives greatvibes, but he's not giving it's
good vibes.
But he, Remy is bad vibes only100%.
He's sleeping right now too.
He's, he's on chill vibes.
Doesn't he kinda look like arat?
He does look like a rat.
He's giving rat energy.
So that's the thing.
That's all I can really tellpeople.
But dogs, oh God, there's adifferent type of dog people out

(12:43):
there.
Look, I don't care like I, butif you say that, see anymore,
then I'm a bad person.
Now I a bad person.
That is true.
That's true.
But people can shell on cats allthey want and nobody thinks
they're a bad person.
Yeah.
You know what?
Giving me ick.
What?
The discrimination between dogsand cats.
Cat haters.
That's an ick no cat.
If you're a cat hater, Iimmediately get outta my life.
Ick.
Delete this podcast.

(13:03):
It drives me nuts.
Delete this podcast Delete thispodcast.
Just kidding.
We need your downloads.
Download it, please.
Um, okay.
What else is giving Nick?
What else is giving Nickstandalone books?
With a subpar ending.
Oh, and I put in all caps.
Do not leave me wanting more.
Give me an epilogue.
Give it to me.
Do you say epilogue?
Epilogue.

(13:24):
Epilogue.
What is it supposed to be?
Epilogue.
I think.
Epilogue.
You always said it.
Yeah.
I love that.
I don't think I've ever said itout loud.
Epilogue.
Epilogue.
No, I don't think I have either.
Epilogue.
Epilogue.
Do you know what's giving ick?
What?
I'm gonna call out specificpeople.
What's giving ick?
and now Miss Colleen Hoover.
I do love you.

(13:44):
Okay.
Uhhuh but it's giving ick thatshe made a second part to Verity
and gave no further information.
Have I read the second part toVerity?
No.
Uhhuh.
but I have, uh, what's the wordI have?
bystanders, Uhhuh that have toldme.
I have the insight of the peopleand they've told you that have
told me it's subpar at bookclub.
They said it?

(14:04):
Mm-hmm.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
They said we read it.
Oh, you're talking about thatlike bonus, like stuff that she
don't give us a bonus if it'snot gonna wrap up anything.
Well, I mean that's like thesecond book to it ends with us.
I haven't read it.
I haven't read it either, butlike, have you even read it?
Yes.
Oh, I didn't know that.
Yeah, I have read it.
I did not know that.
I thought that was a book thatyou hadn't read because it gets
hyped up too much.
No, I mean it was one of thebooks I read cuz it was hyped up

(14:27):
and it was good.
But it wasn't like that bookdidn't give what any to give
that.
I think that's the problem withher books.
The reason why I don't, cause Iused to read her like back like
yeah in the day.
But like she's so popular now.
I'm like, anything I read byyou, you don't like popular
people.
I'm going to look at it withsuch a critical lens.
I don't know if I can actuallyenjoy.

(14:47):
Yeah.
It's really nothing to do withher.
It's just you don't like thingsthat have been hyped up because
I, I wanna enjoy it for likewhat it is.
That's why I kind of circle backto things.
You're not critical.
I'm not as critical about booksafter it's been, well, I can't
help but be that way.
That's, I'm saying it on myfeed.
and people being like, you'reright.
I hate calling.
Could you read Archer's voice?
I, no, cuz again, I haven't readit either.

(15:09):
I think I might for a workbookclub.
No, I might, I mean, people, Ireally haven't seen too much
negative about it.
The people that have saidnegative about it, they are
like, they hate it.
They're like, Ooh.
Like, yeah, they don't like it.
I'm like, oh, please don't letthat be me.
Yeah, yeah.
But yeah, agreed.
That was, I'm more of a seriesperson anyway, but like
standalone books that don'thave, like, that's a perfect
ending and I'm happy to leave itwhere it's.

(15:30):
It makes me so mad cuz it's likean itch you can't scratch cuz
they're not gonna give youanymore.
They won't.
I kind of like it.
I don't Okay.
I have attachment issues, soOkay.
Me go to We love that.
Actually we don't, we're workingon it.
Yep.
Um, but the next one.
is people who are rude towaitstaff and also like that was

(15:51):
one of my service providers ingeneral.
Mm-hmm.
because like I think a lot ofpeople can agree like that's an
ick but like just rude to serservice providers in general,
like your hair stylists orpeople that like hop hair
stylists and they like talk shitabout.
I hate that.
I can't stand that.
It's also giving ick if youdon't tip your service
providers.
Yeah.
What are y'all doing?
Yeah, it's the same energy.

(16:11):
Like people that are rude tolike weight stuff are also like,
I don't know, it just drives menuts that that gets on my
nerves.
Or like when they get mad atlike the way a stylist did their
hair, but like, you know, thatyou literally don't take care of
your hair.
You probably weren't fullyhonest with them.
or you know, what's giving beick though, or trying to get

(16:33):
something for free.
People that try to get stuff forfree.
Yeah.
Yes.
That's, and you know, also givesick if you're not willing to
tell the person that you don'tlike it.
Yeah.
And you're just going complainor just Yeah.
You know what also is an ick,what people who complain about
certain things but don't ever doanything to change it.
Yep.
Now hear me out.
Yep.
I've done that before in mylife.
But if you're complaining aboutthe same thing day in, if it's

(16:54):
constant, constant day in, dayout, I would've ied myself out
in the past.
Mm-hmm.
No, I mean, I use, I feel likeI've definitely done that before
and I know that's annoying.
Mm-hmm.
but I also feel like I'm reallyself.
Yeah.
Oh, that's an I.
When people lack self-awareness,it's kind of ick to also be too
someone my freaking God, like onmy part.
Can you read the room?
Yeah.

(17:14):
My next one.
Mm.
this is kind of one, I mean,I've noticed it before just
because of the jobs I've had inthe past.
Mm-hmm.
like working in hospitality,obviously like you work with a
lot of different kinds ofpeople.
Yeah.
But, um, working where I worknow, this is just something I've
seen so often and it really justgrinds my gears.

(17:37):
So what I put was.
When the man is the only onespeaking and a couple, yeah, let
me explain.
That's giving.
Oh, you, you get what I'msaying?
Yes.
So for the people that make, Ineed to piggyback off of you for
that.
Okay.
So, um, for people that don'tunderstand what I mean, it can

(17:57):
be like just one person in arelationship just talking, but
specifically when it's a man anda woman, it like, it makes me
feel.
They're purposely doing that cuzthey don't want that person to
talk.
And I also have like, I havethings I need to work through
cuz when I feel like a man isbeing too dominant or something
in a situation I like, I'llsquish you.

(18:19):
Yeah, I trip out and so peoplecome in all the time and like
check in for their appointments.
What me saying?
I'll squish them and I'll squishthem.
I'll squish them.
I'm like, I'll squish you.
Like what does that mean, girl,pop off Queen.
Um, but yeah, it happens all thetime where I'm like expecting
someone to come in and like 30minutes and I.

(18:41):
This man and this woman come inand I'm thinking It's together.
Yeah.
And I'm thinking it's like acouple that's gonna get
something.
He like drops her off basically.
And he's like, um, no, she hasan appointment at this time
speaking.
I'm like, literally, oh, hedoesn't let her.
That's where it gets confusingand that's where it gets
confused.
Are you nervous?
Maybe she has anxiety or is hejust not letting him?
And there's been times where notat this.

(19:04):
But like working in restaurantswhere a family will come in.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
And the guy talks and literallyall of the women are like
looking down.
That's happened.
I've seen it happen too manytimes.
Can I piggyback off that though?
Go ahead.
Um, opposite side of this.
Mm-hmm.
But another ick is when maybeit's giving car dealership
vibes.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.

(19:24):
when like a car dealership, likemaybe I'm the one buying the
car.
Mm-hmm.
but I'm with a guy Yes.
And he's only speaking to theguy.
Yes.
Uh, that's yes.
Gonna be an o for me.
Mm-hmm.
Yes.
That's giving massive ick.
Like my mom, I know she's, she'shad.
the car she has now.
She went and got herself, butprior, fuck off.
Yeah.
She was like, she's a queen.
She went and just got itherself.
Um, but prior to that, like shewould always go with Yeah.

(19:47):
A guy, you know, because of thatreason, like we're, it's almost
like we're incapable of makingsound decisions.
Yeah.
Or they try to like get over onus.
Like, I remember one timewhenever I was, um, I.
It's the thinking they canoutsmart us for me.
Yeah.
I was like 18 or 19 orsomething, and it was the first
time I ever went on like a trip.

(20:09):
Like a road trip with just meand my friends and we went to
Dallas and my car got likemessed up while we were down
there and I had to take it to,um, uh, what, where like
AutoZone or something?
Yeah, that AutoZone, um, toHibdon Tires or something like
that.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
and, um, Pretty much like mygrandpa had to come and like,

(20:29):
get us.
And so did like, uh, anothergirl that I was with, like her
dad came and like, you know, um,just to get my car back to
Oklahoma.
And um, my grandpa was like, um,where's the receipt they gave
you?
They didn't even gimme areceipt.
No.
He was like, this is why, like,I hate, like he's giving
massive.
Yeah.
So like anytime that I have togo to like Hibs for like

(20:52):
anything, like if something, ifsomething's wrong with my tires
or whatever.
Mm-hmm.
which I haven't had to have mynew car serviced yet or
anything, but my grandpa's veryadamant about like if he can't
be there, he's like, call mewhen they take your car back.
Yeah.
Call me when this happens.
Call me when this happens.
And.
I feel like I have to put on themost aggressive R B F to go into
and I hate not knowing what I'mtalking about.

(21:13):
Cause they same, like I don'tknow much about cars, so it's
just a very, like anytime theytell me anything, I'm like, no.
It can be a very condescendinglike environment to be in.
Yeah.
And it's annoying.
Yeah, like, don't try to likeget over on me cause you know, I
dunno, don't swindle me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Like, do what needs to be doneon my car and leave it at that.
Like, quit trying to, you know,rack up my, like bill.

(21:35):
It's just I do take that.
Take five though.
Take five is pretty nice.
I haven't ever been there.
They're nice people.
They gave me an air filter tofor$5.
Nice.
Um, they said it's normally like30, and I was like, I don't
know.
They're probably just telling methis, but I'll take, I'll take
the$5 one.
I don't know.
Those places can be expensive,so, but they ask you so many
things like, do you want this,do you want No, I just want my
freaking oil change.
Mm-hmm.
Nope.

(21:56):
So, yeah, definitely.
I definitely agree with youthat, and also to all of the
people that hate Crocs outthere.
I don't like you either.
I love Crocs.
I don't know.
I've never had a pair and Istand on.
I can't stand people.
They're like, they're so ugly.
They're just made out of likerubber and like whatever.
I love Crocs.
I've never owned a pair.

(22:17):
I, I might not ever, but I don'thate'em, not a hater.
Some people are just, I'm like,you're literally just hating so
you can fit in with like, peoplethat hate Crocs.
It's annoying.
Okay.
That's, that's, that's givinganother egg.
Anything that was about to saypeople.
don't have an opinion, but actlike they have an opinion about
something is giving it.
And it's clearly like you'rejust saying that.
Yeah.
They're just like, oh my gosh,that thing sucks.

(22:39):
And it's like, okay, but why?
I'd be like, do you really, doyou really think that?
And then they have no opinion,actual opinion about it.
Yeah.
Giving it totally empty upthere.
Yeah, just empty.
Um ooh.
People that make non-drinkersfeel guilty for not drinking.
Yeah.
Oh, that is giving.
Massive ick.
Mm-hmm.
Especially in your earlytwenties, like that's what.

(23:04):
the culture is kind of pushingon you.
Mm-hmm.
um, it doesn't mean you have tofollow it.
No.
But there's a, there can be alot of people that are around
you at that time, even whenyou're older, that make you feel
like that's what you should bedoing.
Mm-hmm.
it's okay if you.
Take a sip of liquor and you'relike, I don't like it.
Go my own way.
Yeah.
Like, they're gonna be okay.

(23:24):
What about not about anything?
You know, I never wanted to, Iknow we were gonna break into,
am I supposed to?
If you didn't know I'm a singer.
I'm joking.
Let stop.
I feel I'd be, this one is goingto be on a future song or album.

(23:46):
I'm so excited.
We're.
Pop off, People that make otherpeople feel bad for honestly
anything.
It's giving it, but they don'twant to do is just a major red
flag.
Don't like it.
Yeah.
That is a major red flag.
Actually do nothing.
And here's the thing.
I truthfully can't be peerpressured anything, so if you're
gonna Yeah, it's just gonna pissme off, to be honest.
No, I was gonna say, it's justgonna piss me off.
Mm-hmm.
if you're trying to get me to dosomething mm-hmm.

(24:07):
I don't wanna do, it's gonnapiss me off.
Or making it, or making you feellike you even have to go out
when you don't want.
pop off.
That is really frustrating.
Yeah, it's very, veryfrustrating because like for me,
I'm more of a homebody.
So whenever I am not trying todo that, me.
Putting my foot down.
Yeah.
Doesn't mean I don't love youand wanna hang out with you,

(24:29):
whatever.
Yeah.
No, I need my space.
Well, even like, and I asked youto do something at this point,
and I was like, listen, it'safter 9:00 PM I know you're not
gonna want to, but I'm justgonna extend the invite.
Yep.
And you're like, no.
And I was like, okay, perfect.
Like I just knock, get myfeelings.
Want you to go, like, if I wantyou to go, if you want my
company or whatever, Yeah.
Who knows?
I might say yes, I'm an ebb andflow kind of gal.
Yeah.
Like there are some times whereI'm so like, go, go, go.

(24:51):
I want to go out.
Mm-hmm.
and like, not necessarily partyor whatever, like I don't party,
but just go do something.
Yeah.
Just like be out on the weekendor whatever.
Yeah.
And then there's some timeswhere I'm like, I am feeling so
Yeah.
Like anxious or just over it andI just wanna chill.
Like maybe this week was superbusy for me.
Mm-hmm.
I just wanna chill.
Yep.
Yep.
And that's that.
That's that.
And just, just leave peoplealone to be honest.

(25:13):
Um, another one, um, mencomplaining about women wearing
makeup.
Wait, you ever heard about thatlately?
Like men being like, oh, likeshe's not natural.
Like she has a full face ofmakeup on and like, oh yeah.
Complaining about that.
I'm like, why?
No.
What?
No.
Here's the thing.
It's giving ick.
If a man is saying anythingabout a woman, I know.

(25:34):
Literally men.
Ick immediately.
No, that should be the wholeepisode.
Men are giving, I.
Big ick, and it's giving big,ick energy.
That sounds like big ick energy.
That should be the title of thisepisode.
Big, big Energy.
Energy.
Yes.
Yeah, because honestly, menshould not be, unless they're
complimenting you just don'ttalk like leave alone, don't

(25:57):
speak men.
I'm giving you all the guide,like here's the, here's the
tour.
don't speak unless you'recomplimenting me.
Don't speak.
I know.
Just that's your thing.
This is a full on freaking.
Oh my gosh.
Unless you're Gregor Rumi, don'ttalk.
Please don't talk to me anddon't look at me too long
either.

(26:17):
Here's another, I men at the gymwho stare at women.
Ooh.
It's giving ick.
I feel like I go to a gym that'skind of like l.
Do you know what the term wonkymeans?
I think I made it up.
Is it a bunch of dudes?
Yeah.
Like wonky, you know what Imean?
Like I have to like, like abunch of weightlifting dudes

(26:39):
that are like just giving likearound like this.
Yes.
Yeah.
And it's just not giving what itneeds to give.
That's like their time to like,don't stare, shine.
You know how like girls going tobrunch and like getting dressed
up and like makeup is like, oh,it's my time to shine.
Going to the gym is like some ofthese dudes, this is, this is
where they shine.
This is their peak of their day.
This is their, because theyliterally dunno how to function

(27:00):
outside.
That's good.
Get a personality.
How about that?
You got muscles.
Get a personality.
Now let's work on that.
It's giving kick.
It's giving kick.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That if you're one, if yourpersonality is just one thing,
it's giving.
Yeah.
Dumb I'm just wanting to seewhat you would say.

(27:21):
Jah is a drunk.
She said.
I like, Well-roundedness.
Yeah.
I'm like, you don't have morethan 10 hobbies.
Okay.
Get a life.
I'm kidding.
I don't even have 10 hobbies.
Katie's just so chaotic.
She can't with that Yeah.
That's so funny.
Um, so I would say I have twomore.
Okay.
Um, this one applies.

(27:46):
Listen, I understand people arepicky eaters.
Mm.
But just know.
If I go on vacation with L, likeanywhere I want to eat, like,
yeah, good food, you know, andyou just can't do that with
people that eat like their five.
like only want chicken nuggetsand fries, chicken, chicken
tenders and fries.

(28:07):
Stop it.
Is that how Corey is?
No.
Okay, good.
No, we eat honey.
No, no, no.
I didn't know if Corey waspickier or not.
I didn't think he was, but Iknow he's not.
There's there, but the thingsthat he doesn't like, he's like
hard.
No.
Oh, okay.
But I mean, he, it is nu list islike very short.
Oh, okay.
He, he's willing to try a lot ofthings.
Try things more than me.
I'm pickier than him, but, um,okay.

(28:27):
Yeah.
I can't stand that.
I like that.
Those are people, like, I don'twanna go on vacation with you.
Yeah.
If we're in a.
and they're like, majority ofthe people in the group are
like, eat like how I do then go.
So if we go vacation and I wantchicken tenders and fries,
you're gonna, if we're going toihop sure go ahead and eat that.
But you're not doing that ifwe're going to a new place.
No.

(28:47):
Yeah, it literally just makesyou wanna rip them in you outta
your hand and throw it.
I can't Okay.
Pop off.
Damn that.
Yeah.
No, that makes sense.
You know what sounds so good.
Mm-hmm.
freaking Waffle House.
I love Waffle House.
I love a Waffle House moment.
Oh, it's so good.
Yeah.
That is so good.
Love it.
My gosh.
Um, with breakfast food,honestly.
I wish there were more places,had breakfast food later on,
just like, yeah.
So you didn't have to just getup.

(29:09):
There's only like two optionshere I know for that, so, so one
thing that's giving ick is if Igive you my number the night
before and you text me in themorning and say, good morning,
beautiful.
That's an ick.
I feel like you're just beingharsh at that point.
You think, why would you otherpeople think not wanna hear that
other people?
Because it's too soon.

(29:31):
I mean, when I was single.
When I was single.
This is not happening now, butlike it's giving ick for me.
I would love waking up tomultiple, I know we've talked
men saying that.
Thank you.
Okay.
But it's different when you meetsomeone in person and you give
them their number and then thenext day, like a dating app I
think is different.

(29:51):
Yeah.
When you meet someone in personand the next day and, and they
know your situation, you have agroup date, Uhhuh and the next
day they say, good morning,beautiful.
You're like, That's giving,that's giving ick.
That's giving ick for sure.
You don't think so, my friend?
No.
Okay.
How?
I don't, but I also, also, itdepends too on like what you're

(30:16):
already thinking about thatperson.
If you're already like, I'm notfeeling them, and then they do,
it's like, just leave me alone.
Sure.
That's also different.
So I, I do agree with you.
Like it's a situational thing.
100%.
Okay, I got one more.
Okay, go ahead.
people that like look down onreality tv, it makes me so mad
or makes it feel like, likethey're on a pedestal because

(30:36):
they don't enjoy trash tv.
Like, or like talking to meabout it.
Like, I don't know.
It's trash.
I know, I know it's trash.
I know that some of this mightnot be real.
Why do you think I'm watchingit?
Hello?
I have trauma.
I can't watch all that heavystuff.
Well, like I said, anyone whobash.
Here's the thing, it's givingick if you don't just mind your

(30:59):
own business literally like mindyour business and also, okay, I
understand.
Like fighting with someone orarguing with someone about
something specific, right?
Yeah.
Like.
Politics, religion, whatever.
Mm-hmm.
reality TV is not something thatyou should just be digging at
someone for.
Yeah.
Like that is so minuscule.
Yeah.
Like just, bro, if you don'tlike that tv then that's fine.

(31:21):
But that tv, like reality tv,what something else?
TV has saved me so many times.
Yeah.
From complete turmoil.
Yeah.
If we want to be, um, real, it'slike let people like what they
like.
Unless like if it's hurtingsomebody else, obviously, or if
it's like destroying somewhatever, then obviously say
something.
But if someone just likessomething, let them like it.
Literally, you don't have toagree with them.

(31:42):
Yeah.
That's giving ick.
Exactly.
That drives me nuts.
Um, I would say another thingtoo is people that are a little
too obsessed with serial killersand like those documentaries and
shows.
Yeah.
I, I can't mm-hmm.
I'm.
There's a line somewherebetween, I find this stuff
interesting and you're like,well, also did you know that

(32:05):
people that, like there'sstudies now, well, maybe let's
not that, maybe not be backedup, but I think there's studies
about how like when you areconstantly listening to that
stuff, you're just constantly infight or flight when you're
watching those shows.
Mm-hmm.
And so of course it's likerelaxing because it's your
normal Yeah.

(32:26):
State.
But I've heard this one girl onmy Facebook talked about how
she'd stopped watching it andshe feels so much more relaxed
now.
Yeah.
She thought she was relaxedbefore.
But she was just constantlybehind that.
I mean, that's pretty much me.
Like I used to be that personand then that watched, I had to
stuff.
Yes, I had to stop because,which, I mean I always enjoyed

(32:46):
reality tv, but I used to lovelike the ID channel.
I used to love the ID channel.
Oh, my family watches that.
Yeah.
Oh, like I would be up watchingit all night.
All really night.
Yes.
And the paranoia was real.
It's still bad now, but yeah.
Like I had to quit watching itbecause I'm like, this is, I
don't listen any of that kindastuff so high, like just so

(33:08):
wound up.
Yeah.
It, it was just so bad.
And so it's part of why I enjoyreality TV too.
It's very mindless.
It's not very mindless fearfulat all.
Mm-hmm.
it doesn't like scare me.
It's just I had to stop.
So I'm not just saying that justbecause, yeah.
I can't really even watch likehow to get away with murder or
things like that.
Mm.
Like I'm just not somebody who,that kind of No.
A show like that.

(33:29):
is different.
Like that stuff you're talkingabout, like the Jeffrey Dahmer,
like this stuff really happened.
Like Yeah, this is, or like theCrime Junkie podcast or
whatever.
Yeah.
Mind you and I used to listen tocrime junkies like.
Every day on my way to campus,that's what I would listen to.
That is crazy.
On my breaks, I would listen tositting in car just so careful
all the time by myself.

(33:50):
No, literally just sittingthere, like living, eating.
I, the only thing that I readthat's even close to that is
just like thriller books.
Mm-hmm.
Or if I'm listening to like anaudiobook, if it's stuff that I,
that apparently like reallyhappened, that's when I'm like,
no, I don't wanna listen tothat, y'all.
But I mean, that's pretty,that's, that's my ex Those are
great exs, my friend.

(34:11):
Yeah.
Um, I was kind of unhinged thisepisode, but mm-hmm.
um, yeah, mine are very like,um, men driven right now.
I mean, pop off.
Pop off.
Yeah.
But I think that like I havemore, but they're just so

(34:32):
unhinged.
I can't say them.
You're going crazy.
Big ick is.
This one, I mean, honestly isprobably everyone's sick.
Mm-hmm.
but just like people thatliterally ride your ass while
driving.
That was a massive, I'm dyingcuz you do that to other people.

(34:53):
do I?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well so, but that's the end ofthe episode, That's it everyone.
Time to fight with Lauren.
I'm dying.
Katie literally does that to me.
I do.
Yes.
That's so funny.
Maybe the Dallas, but that's it,girl.
No.
you've driven with me anywhereelse.

(35:13):
You're kind of a chaotic driver,really?
Yeah.
I think I'm pretty good Here'sthe thing, I'm just not a
passive driver.
Like I'm not gonna gonna letsomeone else ram into me.
Yeah.
Like, get outta my way.
And that's when you ridepeople's ass.
What guys?
And with that, I think we'redone.
We're done.
I think that's the episode.

(35:33):
Everyone.
We'll be back next week foranother, he's gonna kiss.
That's so funny.
But yeah, y'all, um, Yeah, wejust wanted, I just wanted to
complain honestly.
So I was really excited to dothis episode.
Yeah.
This has been in the works for,we had to a couple of weeks.
Yeah.
We've been meaning to record it,but other things we just felt

(35:54):
like we should have recordedbefore it.
But I'm glad we got it down.
Yeah, for sure.
So, um, I think that is all.
We love you guys.
Hope you have a lovely rest ofyour week.
Yep.
And we'll catch you next time.
Cry babies.
Bye.
Bye.