Not By Chance Podcast

Not By Chance Podcast

It’s hard to define what a successful and happy family is, much less how to achieve one. Dr. Tim Thayne, a thought-leader in teen treatment and parent coaching, shares inspiring best practices gleaned from decades of his own and other expert’s work related to intentional family living. Whether your family is in the midst of a major struggle or you are looking for fresh ideas to help you prioritize and enhance your home life, this podcast is for you.

Episodes

August 21, 2025 41 mins

Ready to revolutionize your approach to teen independence? Join Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne as they unpack the power of freedom as a motivator in this eye-opening episode of "Not By Chance." We're diving deep into the world of intentional parenting, where trust becomes your secret weapon and your teen's autonomy isn't just respected—it's celebrated.

Ever felt like you're constantly battling o...

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Ready to revolutionize your approach to parenting teens? Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they unpack a groundbreaking shift in teen treatment and family dynamics. This episode of "Not By Chance" challenges the old control-based parenting model, replacing it with a fresh perspective that honors your teen's innate drive for autonomy.

Discover why giving your teenager more freedom—not less—might be the key to...

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Are you tired of feeling like you're in a constant tug-of-war with your resistant teen? Get ready to transform your parenting approach as Tim and Roxanne Thayne dive deep into the world of teen resistance, offering you a lifeline of understanding and practical strategies.

In this eye-opening episode, we explore the hidden emotions behind your teen's defiant facade. Through vivid storytelling—like the scout conquering his f...

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Ready to revolutionize your parenting game? Join Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne as they uncover the hidden superpower of family history in building teen resilience. This episode of "Not By Chance" isn't just a walk down memory lane—it's a blueprint for crafting unshakeable teen confidence using the stories etched in your family tree.

Ever wondered how to turn dusty old tales into vibrant life lessons? We've got ...

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Are you feeling like you're in a constant tug-of-war with your teen? Get ready to transform that power struggle into a powerful partnership! In this episode of "Not By Chance," Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne dive deep into the world of modern parenting, where traditional consequences just don't cut it anymore.

We're tackling the tough questions head-on. Why do our old strategies fall flat? How c...

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Ready for a revolution in teen treatment? Join Dr. Tim Thayne and Trina Packard as they unpack the seismic shifts reshaping adolescent care. From behavioral boot camps to family-centered healing, discover how treatment programs are evolving to meet the needs of today's teens and their families.

Ever wondered how to truly empower your teen in their recovery journey? Trina shares game-changing strategies that put teens in the dri...

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Ever wondered how a troubled teen transforms into a beacon of hope for others? Join Dr. Tim Thayne on the "Not By Chance" podcast as he sits down with Ciara Fanlow, a former troubled teen turned mentor. Together, they explore Ciara's journey through the stormy seas of adolescence, highlighting the pivotal role of wilderness therapy in her transformation. Discover how this unique approach provided Ciara with a new sen...

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Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of powerlessness when it comes to parenting challenging teens? This episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast is your guide to transforming that feeling into a sense of empowerment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they explore strategies to help parents become effective leaders in their family dynamics.

Discover the power of family-based approaches—Dr. Thayne shares insi...

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Ever wondered how wilderness therapy can transform a teen's life? Join Tim Thayne and guest Danny as they explore the intricate balance of safety and growth in teen treatment programs. This episode dives into the heart of wilderness therapy, where safety isn't just a protocol—it's the foundation. Danny shares insights on creating a culture that believes in every teen's potential, emphasizing the power of seeing ...

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Ever wondered how to navigate the maze of adolescent mental health treatment? Join Tim Thayne and Tony Moshier in this enlightening episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where they unravel the complexities of residential treatment programs. With Tony's extensive experience as a past president of NATSAP and co-founder of multiple treatment programs, the conversation is rich with insights and practical advice.

Discove...

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In this episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, Dr. Tim Thayne welcomes Kristin Oliver, a mother from Wisconsin, to share her heartfelt journey through her daughter's long-term residential treatment for mental health and behavioral challenges. Kristin opens up about the struggles her daughter faced, including bullying, self-harm, and substance use, which led to the difficult decision to seek residential care. She rec...

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Ever feel like traditional transition plans for teens are more of a burden than a benefit? In this episode, Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne introduce a groundbreaking shift in approach that promises to change the game. Imagine a world where teens take the reins of their own transition plans when they come home from treatment, supported by the innovative Trustyy app. This isn't just a tweak—it's a transformation.

Dr. Thay...

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Ever feel like the transition of bringing your teen home from treatment is a daunting task? In this episode of "Not By Chance," Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne transform this challenge into an opportunity for growth and positive change. They guide you through reframing anxiety as excitement, turning what seems like a tightrope walk into a confident stride.

Discover the power of finding "silver linings" in life&...

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Welcome to the fifth season of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where we embark on a journey of innovation and support for families navigating adolescent treatment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they unveil Trustyy, a groundbreaking app and service designed to bridge the gap between treatment programs and home life. With decades of experience in adolescent treatment, the Thaynes are on a mission to make their ex...

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Ever feel like you're walking a tightrope when it comes to parenting teens? Get ready to transform that precarious walk into a confident stride as Dr. Tim Thane and I explore the art of intentional parenting. Discover how to turn your home into a hub of negotiation savvy, where business smarts meet family hearts, providing a solid foundation for both personal growth and career success.

In a lively discussion with...
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Ever wish granting your teenager's requests wasn't such a minefield? We're here to guide you through an innovative approach that starts with your teen, enabling them to brainstorm their wishes, categorize their timeframes, and understand their trustworthiness from your perspective. In this episode, we also challenge you to consider how to handle requests that defy family values, and how to encourage your teen's ...

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In this episode Tim and Roxanne celebrate 10 years of the influential book “Not By Chance.” They discuss the initial struggles of publishing the book and why they did it in the first place. 

Ever wondered how a book could redefine an entire field? “Not By Chance” did just that. Discover how it transformed teen treatment by reinstating parents as the primary focus, shifting from program-centric to family-centric approaches....

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What if there were a way to lead your family with intention, navigating the complex dynamics of the parent-child relationship, and ultimately building a resilient bond with your teenagers? As a single parent or a member of a two-parent family, you might be seeking guidance to balance hard work and recreation, or perhaps you're embarking on the challenging journey of parenting a teenager. This episode is for you. 

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Imagine holding all the keys to unlock the full potential in your children. The truth is, you do! We're here to guide you on harnessing your inherent power as a parent, an indispensable force that shapes your family's success journey and happiness. In this episode, we navigate the essence of intentional parenting, the incredible influence you have, and how to step up as the indisputable agent of change in your teen's...

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Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of parenting can feel like braving stormy seas without a compass. Promising to be that guiding light, today's podcast explores the concept of intentional parenting, and how it can be the anchor amidst the turbulent waves of everyday challenges. Through the lens of personal experiences and community influences, we'll uncover how my parents, though unaware, were pioneers of this approa...

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