Not Well

Not Well

Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment. Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community. Every Wednesday or Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves. Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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April 25, 2024 56 mins

In this episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and freewheeling conversation that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting their podcast's ethos of exploring hot topics and deep dives into various societal issues. Their dialogue traverses the lighthearted to the serious, offering both humor and insight.


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  1. Lifestyle and Leisure:
    The episode opens with a c...
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The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements...

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In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo.

Bobby kicks thing...

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Hey there, our fabulous "Not Well" listeners! It's your favorite dynamic duo, Bobby and Jim, back at it again with another episode that's sure to have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even clutching your pearls a little bit.

So, let's dive right in, shall we? We couldn't resist starting off with the hot mess express that is the "plane lady" fiasco. I mean, come on, what kind of cocktail was s...

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Hey everyone, it's your hosts Bobby and Jim here with another wild ride of an episode of "Not Well." We've got a jam-packed show for you today, filled with everything from personal anecdotes to societal musings.

First off, we want to give a shout out to our sponsor, Dr. Scholl's Skin Tag Remover. If you're looking to get rid of those pesky skin tags, this might just be the solution for you.

In personal n...

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"Grab Life by the Bulge: Unzipping the Secrets of Flaccid Confidence, Digital Flirting, and the Twists of Modern Gay Banter" embarks on an unabashed journey into the heart of contemporary gay dating, social dynamics, and self-empowerment. This episode doesn't just scratch the surface but dives deep into the fabric of what it means to find one's place and pride within the gay community today.

The conversation open...

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We kicked things off with a discussion about a political video that's giving off some serious "Handmaid's Tale" vibes. The eerie music, the dramatic speeches, and the over-the-top patriotic sentiments had us drawing parallels to Gilead and questioning the state of our union.

From politics, we shifted to a more personal note, recounting our recent experiences and the aftermath of a wild night out. We reminisced ab...

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Episode Summary: Reflections on Post-Vacation Blues and Enneagram Personalities

Hey everyone, it's your host Bobby here with another episode of "This is Not Well." Today, we're diving deep into the post-vacation blues that hit us after our recent trip to Park City, Utah. I'm feeling the weight of it all, and it's got me thinking about Enneagrams and how they play into our personalities and rea...

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Hey there, Not Well fam! It's your unfiltered duo, Bobby and Jim, back with another episode that's sure to ruffle some feathers. We're diving headfirst into the deep end of controversy, and we're not holding back. So, if you're easily offended, consider this your warning.

We kicked things off with a bang, discussing the intimate details of our sex lives and the hilariously crude nicknames for our f...

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February 15, 2024 65 mins

Episode 233 of the "Not Well" podcast with Bobby and Jim kicks off with their signature blend of humor and edginess, tackling a banned children's book parody that's laced with adult humor and sexual innuendos. Despite its controversy, the hosts dive into its comedic value, setting the tone for an episode filled with laughter and candid discussions.

As the conversation unfolds, the duo shares their unconventional ...

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February 8, 2024 50 mins

In the latest episode of Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim deliver an eclectic mix of personal anecdotes, cultural observations, and insightful discussions, making for an engaging and entertaining listen.

The episode opens with Bobby sharing his foray into the world of "puppy fatherhood." The arrival of his new puppy, Pam, has introduced him to the whirlwind of sleepless nights and the demanding schedules that come with pet pa...

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In this riveting episode of the "Not Well" podcast, your hosts dive deep into a kaleidoscope of topics that span the spectrum from the profoundly personal to the broadly societal, all while maintaining their signature blend of humor, edginess, and insightful commentary.

The episode kicks off with a discussion on the importance of names and the beauty found in uniqueness, challenging societal norms and embracing the in...

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[00:01:14] Cancelled flight and bad luck.
[00:04:13] Sharing drinks in New Orleans.
[00:08:06] An interesting uber ride.
[00:10:22] New Orleans gay scene.
[00:14:10-00:14:21] Long bridge across Lake Pontchartrain
[00:18:32] Powdered sugar explained.
[00:21:15] The gay stare.
[00:26:11] A sensual kiss.
[00:29:19] A bizarre New Orleans experience.
[00:31:46] The designated ugly fat friend.
[00:...

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In this deeply engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim take listeners on a vivid journey through the realms of LGBTQ+ culture and identity. The conversation opens with an animated exploration of diverse subcultures within the gay community, including humorous and insightful descriptions of terms like 'twink,' 'twunk,' and 'otter.' The hosts share personal stories and experien...

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This week, Jim loses his shit and Bobby is obsessed with Saltburn. In the latest "Not Well" podcast episode, Bobby and Jim engage in a spirited discussion that seamlessly blends comedy with deep commentary on contemporary social and political issues. They address the complexities of gay culture, offering personal insights on dating and social dynamics. The episode's unique combination of humor and critical analysis m...

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The "Not Well" podcast episode "I love Christmas because you could be a fairy and get away with it to up" offers a deep dive into a myriad of topics, all presented with a unique blend of humor and insight. The episode starts with a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reminiscing about Christmas memories, and the colorful experiences of New Orleans, setting a tone of nostalgia mixed with humor. This personal touch i...

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In their latest episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and humorous discussion encompassing a range of topics. They talk about the intriguing world of OnlyFans and its impact on the digital creator economy, offering a unique perspective on the blend of social media trends and modern lifestyle choices. Their conversation humorously demystifies the expectations versus the realities of being an On...

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December 14, 2023 56 mins

 The episode kicks off with an overview of subjects, including trans pornography, a critique of specific Republicans, and humorous commentary on a group called Moms for Liberty, which they whimsically rename "Lesbians for Liberty." Additionally, they comment on an individual named Mike Knowles, particularly focusing on his appearance.

The discussion then shifts to an upcoming trip to New Orleans, where the hosts express ea...

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The podcast episode from "Not Well" features hosts Bobby and Jim engaging in a lively, unfiltered conversation. Their humor is edgy, with topics ranging from personal experiences to social commentary.

In the episode, Bobby and Jim discuss various topics, including their appearances, aspirations for cosmetic procedures, and personal experiences. They joke about getting Botox, fillers, and other beauty treatments. Bobby ment...

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  1. "Why don't you be like I'm really sick. I said maybe when you pull sick I can pull a sick." - Discussing strategies to avoid work.
  2. "Well the shaved pussy I liked I think period." - A humorous comment on personal preferences.
  3. "Stuffing or dressing? What's the difference? Stuffing's actually in... Oh no, I don't put it in the turkey." - A conversation about Thanksgiving meal pr...
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