#46 - Sex & Sandwiches

Jamal and Marianne discussed listener feedback about their podcast's authenticity and explored topics around polyamory, bisexuality, and relationship dynamics, including experiences with open relationships and boundaries. They shared personal anecdotes about their own dating experiences and discussed societal changes in attitudes toward relationships and marriage over generations. The conversation concluded with discussions about food experiences, TV shows and upcoming football games

Episode Transcript

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2 Ladies and gentlemen welcome to the Welcome to another
episode of Not About You podcaststarring myself Jamal
Harrington. You guys already know me, but
you also know my Co host as wellstarting with Romeo Nash the
husband, Marianne Riley, the wife of Romeo Nash.

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And I just want to read something before we begin.
Ladies and gentlemen, thank you for listening.
But I do want to read something.We've been, we on this show have
been getting quite a bit of emails.
And what am I doing? OK, quite a bit of emails from
people all around the world. Can you guys see my screen or
no? Yes, we can see you.

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We'll see you. Oh, you can't?
OK, I guess I'm not sharing my screen, but that's.
That's fine. Yeah.
So I'm going to read. I'm going to read something from
a fan who's been listening. Hi, Jamal.
Marianne. Oh, before I even begin, this is
from. I want to pronounce this right.
Annie Ani. Oh, my God.

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Aniya. Oh, yeah.
Aniya. And I don't know what country
she's from. I kind of have a feel that this
is, you know, she's from anothercountry.
But nonetheless, I will read this e-mail that she sent to me
about 3 days ago. Hi Jamal, Marianne and Romeo and

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she spelled all of our names correctly.
First of all, I have to give herprops for that, OK?
Marianne spelled Marianne and she spelled Romeo perfectly and
she spelled my name perfectly. So first of all, kudos to that,
right? Your recent episode had me

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laughing and thinking only you 3can segue from a fan's deeply
honest e-mail about his journey from Islamophobia to Islam into
debating stand up competitions and then finishing off with a

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spirited chat about strip clubs and mental health.
The unpredictable. Yeah, I know, right?
You guys remember the episode? Yeah, we had the gentleman send
us an e-mail about Islam, you know, his journey through Islam.

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The unpredictability and openness you bring absolutely
hooked me. Especially the conversation on
dating differences across regions.
So good. OK, your fearless energy for
taboo tackling is exactly why I want to introduce you to Honey
Brooks. She is.

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Give me one second. She is a rural Australian farm
girl and only fans top. Earner.
Whose history? I mean, whose story lands right
on the intersection of the unexpected and the authentic?

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Oh, and the authentic Beyond thebeyond the farm fence.
Beyond the farm fences. Honey shares her husband with
other women, openly and playfully embracing a
polyamorous life by her own design, not anyone else's.
She genuine. She's genuinely smart and has

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always understood the commercialpower of only fans, confidently
turning her family's rule hustleinto a digital phenomenon.
Her audience. Her audience stretches to

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thoroughly half a million, but it's her candid perspective on
motherhood, sex empowerment, andupturning country stereotypes
that makes her stand out. I think your listeners would be
fascinated by how she's broken every rural digital mole along

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the way. No apologies, but always plenty
of reflection, humor, and honesty.
Thank you so much for considering her.
She would absolutely thrive in your world.
Best and of course that is one of the emails that we received

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from I reached out. To her.
Oh can we re re say her name again?
It's honey. Something honey.
Honey Brooks, I believe. But.
That's that's the polyamorous wife in rural Australia.
Is that who? Who wrote to us?
Or no, no, it's her I I would imagine her.

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It was her friend. Who?
Yeah, and I love things like that.
I love things. I love being able to.
First of all, as somebody who isfrom the backwoods, I get it.
I mean, if you've got like in, it's very much like Alaska.
I'm not from Alaska, but I, I'm familiar with a lot of their

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lifestyles, right. And just because I have a like a
parallel kind of background as some of the people who live in
the, in the more remote areas. And one of the things they have,
you know, they have one of the biggest employers up there, the
largest employers is the North Slope.
It's the oil fields. They caught them up on the north
slopes and the people who work on the North Slope, oops.

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They typically work a schedule like six weeks on, six weeks off
or two weeks on, two weeks off. Wait, they don't work a nine to
five? They they don't because it's so
remote and far out there and difficult to get people out
there that they send them out there for big chunks of time and

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then they send them home for bigchunks of time.
So it's it's a definitely a muchdifferent kind of structure for
for work environment. And that coupled with the fact
that there are what about approximately 5 men to every
woman in Alaska women, it is notuncommon for a woman to have two

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separate husbands. They share a home and they're
her husband or her her boyfriendwork opposite shifts.
So she's never home alone. She's always got one of them at
home with her, but they're neverall three in the same house at
the same time. It's typically like one will go

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to work for a few weeks while the other one comes home and
they they rotate those shifts out and it's it's not a bad
situation because stop and thinkabout it.
If you if you were living in a situation where you were one
woman to five men, 5 of you fighting for one woman, OK,

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would you rather be gone for weeks at a time, leaving her
completely on her own, knowing that those other four guys or
more are trying to get to her? Or would you rather say, look,
I'm not going to be able to likethat's a really lonely life for
the woman who stays at home? Why wouldn't you say, look, I

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would rather share you. I don't necessarily want to, but
I would rather share you with one and and not have to worry
about you going out of the parameters of our relationships
versus wondering the whole time I'm out here who else you're
sleeping with or who you're out there with.

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I would go C move to a place where I don't have to worry
about having to make those type.Of decisions.
I would say C move. I would say C move to Seattle.
However, however, now let's takea look.
Let's take a look. That's not an option.
Let's and I and I get that, but let's say that's not an option.

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And both men, both men bring into their household and they're
all sharing these finances, so they're able to share $500,000 a
year income. No, because I'll, I'll tell you
why. Me personally, I would never
want to share somebody who I claim to say I love.

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I don't want to share. I'm I'm that selfish.
You know what I'm saying? I'm not like I am too.
I am very selfish. I don't.
First of all, you mean to tell me that I'm going to work my ass
off many weeks at a time while somebody is, you know, hanging
out with my No, we're not. We're not doing that.
You know what I'm saying. So if it now, since you said

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that there's a choice and I do believe with you're offered a
choice. So my choice would be what was
it like? Yeah, you're going to be lonely
for a while. But you know what?
I'm bringing home the bacon, OK,I'm making enough money where
you could buy a bunch of vibrators and pretend that I'm
there. OK, Like that's what I'm talking
about. So if that's what you got to do

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and nothing. No, it's like if I if I say I
love you, that doesn't mean I love you and want you to be with
other dudes, even, you know, even if it means oh, you.
This helps your loneliness for, you know, the four weeks that
I'm away. No, we prepared for this.

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You knew this was going to happen.
Now one of two things going to happen.
You could have said, hey, no, I'm not moving to Alaska with
you. I don't care how much money
they're giving you to live there.
Or you could, yeah, you could just be like, yeah, I'm not
doing that. So I, I am not I in any
capacity. I'm not sharing one to five

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guys. Why would I move to a place like
that? You know, those other four guys
could. Those other four guys could fuck
a grizzly bear for all I care. They're not fucking my
girlfriend, OK? Well, here it is.
Polar bear. Well, Miss Honey Brooks, she,

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she lives in her own comfortableness with the, the
choices that she's made. Then there's polyamorous people
out there and, and well, no, no,I'm not saying exactly.
What I'm saying is, is what happens is a lot of people are
conditioned to live in a certainway.

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We're conditioned already to have one spouse and one partner.
And a lot of countries, they have 5 wives, they have 10
wives, They have they have multiple partners.
So. And and there's no, there's no
wrong or right way to say this is how you do things.

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We do things because that's the way we were brought up to
believe they should be done exactly here.
Same as religion, same as religion.
Right. Right, exactly that, you know.
And so survival of the species, I can understand where the
necessity would be. It is not just about sex, it's

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not just about companionship, it's also about finances.
It's also about being able to maintain a.
It's a survival mode. Yeah, it is.
It is being, it's a safety mechanism too, because you can,
especially as a woman, you couldbe out there and be vulnerable

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by yourself versus having a partner with you that's able to
help stabilize things to make ita more secure environment.
And I'm not saying that it has to be necessarily a man, but
I'll tell you what, it's nice tobe able to know that if

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something goes down, there's, there's safety in numbers,
right? And so it's, it is a multi
factor situation that would, could drive that.
And, and a lot of it is just that, you know, there are women
who have multiple partners with polyamorous.
They have multiple partners thatthey, you know, there's a, a, a

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meme that I saw one time, I think it said something like,
may you have a man who makes youlaugh?
May you have a man who makes youbreakfast in bed?
May you have a man that comfort you, protects you, and may you
have a man who takes you on and may none of these men meet each

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other, you know, type thing. It's just that it's for some
people, maybe they they feel like there's things that are
missing. Maybe they want to have multiple
people they don't have. They haven't been raised with
that or or have an insecurity inthemselves.
They don't feel insecure in their relationship and they feel

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OK with having multiple. Partners.
Well shit, I'll tell you one thing is if you feel if you my
own lady and you feel like you need another man, you better
feel insecure because you betternot sleep.
You better sleep with one eye open.
God damn I'm letting you. Down right now that's.
That's what I'm saying it's like, and The thing is I've been
in situations where I've had women make those kind of like, I

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mean, when they make those statements first they try it's
like a playful statement like let me see, let me see what he's
going to say if I throw this outthere and and I'm just.
And it's almost like, OK, you'reyou're giving yourself away
already with that. But it's like and again if.
That's your thing? I'm not.
Well, no, because when you. Out to see.

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That's what I'm saying. No, that's what I'm saying.
They throw it out there to see how you react to it, right?
Right. But what I'm saying is it's a
trap, that trap being like, if Ithrow that out there, you know,
like sometimes somebody like in relationships, they'll say shit
like bring up something about a,a let's have a, a, you know, a

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threesome and they're joking about it and stuff, not because
they want one, but they want to see how your reaction.
Your response is going to be. Because if you get excited about
it, that's that's a red flag forsome people right now.
Did you see what my husband justsaid when I what he just did
when I mentioned? That's the case.
That's the case. Why bring it up?

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You know why bring it up if you're like, because here's.
The thing every. Guy wants every guy wants that,
you know what I'm saying? Assume every guy wants that, OK,
Like no, Mary Ann and and Romeo,if I'm wrong, if Mary Ann was to
say, hey, what if we, you know, make it interesting and I bring

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another woman into the bed, likesomething down there is going to
be like, OK, keep talking. I'm listening, I'm listening.
You know what I'm saying? Like if, if that's the case, OK,
this is all hypothetical, but because I know I, I used to date
a biosexual, I used to date a few bisexual women and every
last one of them brought the same thing up.

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They they all brought it up. You know, I've even had one that
told, I remember I was having dinner with one when I was gosh,
I was, I was, I remember I was upstate New York one time and I
was hanging out Flint and she brought it up.
She was like, oh, by the way, I'm bisexual and I'm like, yeah,

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I'm I'm still here. I didn't run out the door, you
know what I'm saying? I'm like, and you know, and and
she was like, well, sometimes I like to be with the company of
women and I'm like, I have no problem.
I had no problem with that, You know what I'm saying?
So and and I was clear. I was like, so let me get this
straight. If I was not here and and we
were dating, you would not have a problem with with you would

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not have you think that I would have a problem with you being
with a with a woman? I I told us I'm like, I don't, I
don't have a problem with that. I'm like you do you?
I would. Hold on.
I have a question. Go ahead.
I'll save my question for after.Yeah, so I told her I did not
have a problem with that at all.And and she was like, really?

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I was like, no. And she told me most men did.
And I was like, well, I don't, but I and I told her I was like,
look, I'm not bisexual, so don'texpect me to be like with a guy
if I'm not with you. That's not how this works.
You know what I'm saying? I had no issue.
I have no issue with that. I told.
So she kind of threw a hypothetical, like let's say I
invite you over and you saw me and this girl kissing on the

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couch or something. Like what would you do?
I'd be like, but you, I'd be like you said, 7:30, it's 725.
I thought you'd be ready by now.Like that's where I'd be at.
You know what I'm saying? So I, I, I wouldn't have an
issue. And there was a time where I
remember I went over her house. We were supposed to go out and
there was already a girl there. And I already knew what they did

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before I got there. And I had no problem with it.
She even asked me was like, hey,do you want me?
She's like, do you even care what happened?
Or do you kind of already have an idea?
I'm like, no, already have an idea because she was in the
bathroom, like cleaning up and what have you.
Like her guest was cleaning up and what have you.
And I did not have a problem with that.

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I thought it was kind of hilarious.
But yeah, I didn't have a problem with that.
But what it was. What's your question, Marianne?
So my question is, My question is, when it comes to a with a
bisexual woman, would you expecther to invite you in?

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Would you want her to invite youin?
So I mean, that would be up to her.
I kind of figured that. I mean, and again, every guy,
that's every guy's dream, right?Like I was just saying like
every guy wants that. But at the same time, it's how
you handle that information. You know what I'm saying?
When I first heard that, I was kind of like, like even the

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first girl that I dated that wasbisexual, I didn't know she was
bisexual until like the second date.
She had mentioned it. So I was thinking, why would she
tell me this now and not tell methis on the first date?
You know what I'm saying? But I think she was.
But then she told me when I asked, she was like, I was
trying to kind of like ease. I wanted to turn the first date,

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but I kind of wanted to ease youinto the situation.
Of course, it's, I think with a guy, it's how you handle that
information. And the girl says she's bisexual
and you're just like, oh, fuck, yeah, yeah.
So you that was whatever, right?It's like you're not.
Handling it right and. She's like, wow, it's how I feel
like it's depends on how you handle the information.

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Because when she told me this, my response was like, oh that's
cool, can you pass the salt? I didn't care.
You know what I'm saying? That was that was the right
direct, that was the right direction to go with.
I've been with. I've been with, I've been in
plenty before you babe, I know I've been in plenty.
I've been in plenty. I've had plenty relationships

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with bisexual women. I've had.
Was I invited in on several occasions?
Yes, but it's not expected. It's never by.
The way you're not expected. That's right.
So you don't for you to not pay attention to the information

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given and you'd be like, Oh my God, yes, no, no, that's the
wrong way to go. Because at that point, at that
point you became a creep. Right.
Yeah, you became a creep in the eyes and it's.
It's a turn off. It's a right turn off exactly,
You know, here's. The question.
Here's the question, what's the difference between a woman that

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you are committed to and in lovewith having a sexual
relationship with another word woman versus another man?
Well, The thing is, I again, I'ma selfish dude.
I'm the man OK, that's where it lies Now, the fact that if first

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of first of all, when a woman tells you that she's bisexual,
it is up to the person who was getting that information.
Again, it's how you handle that information.
But also it's something and you can either accept it or not
because here's the thing. But I.
Also. Know I know bisexual women who

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are in relationships and their relationship is look, I married
this man. I'm only with this man.
Yes, I'm still attracted. It doesn't mean that I'm not
attracted to women and it doesn't mean that I don't still
sometimes have fantasies about being, you know, with a woman

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ever. I'm monogamist and only want to
be with my my husband. Yeah, but so, but again, the
first time I was told this, I had questions because I get
again, I wasn't like super excited like I've never been
excited when somebody told me that they're bisexual.
I'm never that excited. I again, it's how you handle
that information. You got to handle that kind of

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information like a mature man. You know what I'm saying?
You can't act like a 13 year oldwho's like using it for the
first time. It's.
Like, Oh my God. Yeah, no, you have to it.
It's how I think what attracts women for the most part is, hey,
how you handle that information.I asked a lot of questions like,
OK, does that mean like, if we're together, it's me and a

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bunch of other dudes and then a bunch of other girls?
Or is it just me? And then you're just like, hey,
on occasion, if I see a hot chick, I want to do things with
her. You know what I'm saying?
Like you have to ask those questions again.
Because again, you, you're in this, you are in a relationship
where you want to make sure thatyour heart's protected.
Again, you're about to say, I love you, this person you want

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to. And again, if I'm going to, if
you, if I'm going to be the man that you're going to be with in
your bisexual encounters, I needto know what's the limit of your
of, of, of your sexual web per SE.
If she says, look, I am with you.

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But when you're not here, don't be surprised if you see other
women's panties around this apartment that aren't mine.
OK, great. You're.
Establishing boundaries, you know what I'm saying.
But if she was to tell me, hey, not only am I going to be
fucking you and other women, butthere's some, there's a few
dudes that's on my, that's on the bench, you know, that's on

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my roster that I kind of like tofuck as well.
I have a problem with that, you know what I'm saying?
I don't want to be like, you know, you're, I don't want to be
that. Yeah.
You girlfriend. Well, I have a question for you,
babe. So and, and I'm not, and

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obviously me, we're in our 50s. So there's a difference.
When we were younger, we were different people, right?
I mean, we were much different people when we were younger,
before we met each other. So let me ask you, would you
have a problem with any of the, the bisexual women that you had
been with? Would you have been a problem if

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they wanted to have sex with other women when you weren't
around? If they want to have sex, should
other women when I wasn't around, yeah, no.
You wouldn't have a problem. With them they they would have
to well the reason OK, first of all, when OK, so.

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Look what Honey Brooks did when I was seeing these.
Women. When I was seeing these women,
when I was seeing these women, Iwas in the military.
OK, Yeah. I wasn't stationed there.
I wasn't there all the time. So I knew that I knew that our

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time was limited to be together.And I knew that they were
bisexual. And when she when I came to
town, it was different because when I was there, she wanted to
be that. She wanted my, they wanted my
time and we spent our time together and if I wasn't around,

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I wasn't around. See, I'm going to say this.
I'm going to say to me that tells me that both both of you
guys from your perspectives haveinsecurities about yourself
because there's literally in my opinion, in my opinion, there's

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literally no difference to me. If my partner is having it
doesn't matter You're having sexwith another person.
It doesn't matter period what that what their gender is if you
are having sex with somebody else.
If I'm OK with that, I would be like, if it does, it shouldn't

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matter what that gender is. It should not matter.
If you're OK with them having intimacy with another person,
then it shouldn't matter what the gender is unless you have
some kind of insecurities about yourself.
Now, and and I say this based onon on also my own thoughts, as
the reason why I would never want my partner to have sex with

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other women is because I'm insecure about myself and I
don't want you to like what if you find out like sexually,
because men are visual. If you guys and keeping this in
my men are visual. Women are emotional when it
comes to intimacy. So with men, it's about how does

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she look? Does she have a nice tight ass
and she got nice tits? Does she she have a nice little
waist? You know, or.
Whatever it is that attracts youto a woman versus my
insecurities, I'm like, OK, there.
There's women out there definitely, especially at my
age, have much better waist thanI do, have nicer asses than I

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do, and their tits don't hit thefloor anymore.
You know, they or yet they don'thit them.
Yeah, because they're still younger.
It's about that, that insecurityabout myself that you're going
to find another woman that you're more attracted to for the
visual aspect of being with thatwoman, then you are me.

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And you're going to like, cut meout versus like with a woman if
if a woman's having sex with another man.
I got news for you guys. The the size of the deck don't
matter. It's not about the size of the
deck unless you like I said, unless you're about the itty
bitty, teeny tiny. You can use toys, do something

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else. You you know, if you ain't got
it in the hips, put it in the lips.
Let's go. There's other ways that you
could pleasure a woman, but for a woman, the intimacy part is
intellectual. Not only intellectual, but like
emotional. It starts with with how you make
her feel about herself, the way you talk to her, the way you.

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That's that's. Turn and.
And that's absolutely right. I used to always have a saying
when I was younger and when I was single and and absolutely
the way the way that I used to look in and I would tell the
women that I was seeing and I used to tell them all the time
that that you start making love to a woman when you enter her

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mind, period, period. You enter you start having you
start having sex with him. Nice to say sex is in the bed.
Love is out the bed period. And that's the way it was.
You can anybody can get in the bed and have sex.
Oh yeah. But love, love making is done,
is done from oh God, it's. Morning if you don't wake up

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next to each other, but in the morning and she rolls over and
looks and sees a text from you that you sent and it says good
morning beautiful. I hope you have a great day and
that feeling that you get like in your tummy you're like aw,
he's thinking about me and then like maybe throughout the day,
and this is from somebody who's in a relationship.

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I'm not talking about crazy after a couple dates, but you're
like you. I was just thinking about you
and it just made me smile. I was having a bit of a rough
day. And then I looked at a picture
that I have of you on my phone and it just made me, you know,
feel just really warm inside. And then she's just like, Oh my
God. And then at night as you're

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driving home and then he calls you and says, baby, I know
you've had a really hard day, sohow about?
How would you? Come over and let me make you
dinner and. You're going to put all my stuff
out there, aren't? We going to I'm going to let's
make you some dinner and let me rub your feet.
I know you've been on your feet all day and you're tired or let

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me give you a massage. Oh, let me tell you something.
None of that should even have tohappen.
The the mere idea that you were going to do it.
You come in and you smell McDonald's.
It don't matter your clothes areon the floor.
You're already because he's already engaged you intimately
hours forehand. OK, I want to, I want to address

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a couple of things. I want to address a couple of
things while that you had talkedabout.
So I'm going to kind of like circle back to the bisexuality
thing #1 like, and, and like yousaid earlier, it's having, it's.
Your. Partner having sex with somebody

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else right now, and no matter ifit's a man or a woman, I get
what you're saying. Here's the thing though, if
you're with somebody who's a bisexual and first of all, you
already know and have already automatically accepted if you're
staying with this person, that she's going to fuck up, that
she's going to fuck women. You already know that.

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You already know. That if she is.
Well, that was that was what I that was something that I didn't
mention. Thank you.
It's not like let's say I'm dead.
A girl that's bisexual, If I'm not around her right now,
chances are she's probably with another girl.
Chances are, you know, because bisexual women or men, they're
very social. They see somebody that they

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like, they go after that person.Male, female, doesn't matter.
They're going after that person.They're using their charm.
To. Get that person to put them in a
position that they want to put them in.
But at the same time, if I'm a man dating a woman who's
bisexual, it's already in my head because first of all, she
has already done this. This is not new to her, you

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know, and it's not even new to me.
So I know that if she's telling me, hey, I'm about to, I'm about
to go to the movies with, you know, Stacy.
I know it's going to happen after the movie.
Now, do I ask? Do I?
I don't ask because first of all, I already know she's
bisexual. So in my mind, she's already

(32:49):
done it. You know what I'm saying?
I'm not even, I'm not even goingto ask her if she's had sex with
that person. I don't need to.
But you know if she at the same time help.
Me understand what's the difference if Stacey is a woman
or Stacey is a man and what's the difference to you because

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it's sharing of their most intimate personal self.
The thing is though, it's it's accepting the fact that this
person is bisexual. Now, let's say she told me she
was bisexual and I was like, youknow what?
I'm not into that. I could easily walk away.
And I'm pretty sure that has happened before.
You know, some guys, they want to be the only one.

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They don't, you know, oh, you'rebisexual.
I don't want to share, you know,myself.
I don't want to share you with abunch of other women.
But The thing is, there is a such thing as bisexuality.
Now, again, some guys, they all they think about is some, some
guys all they think about is what if she's going to ask me

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to, you know, for a three-way orwhatever.
And that's all. And that's what most guys think
about. But also going on with what you
were saying earlier, you were talking about how, you know,
there are other women. I've been married before.
First of all, I've been married for six years.
Once Upon a time, I've cooked for my wife, I've cleaned, I've
done all those things that a husband's supposed to do, you

(34:14):
know, coming home from work, wife is on her way home from
work. I'll, I'll make something by the
time she gets there. All she has to do is shower and
eat and then we sit back and watch CSI, whatever fucking city
is on that week. You know what I'm saying?
So the right thing. So The thing is, you know, but

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my, in my eyes, my wife was the most not was.
I mean, I'm pretty sure she still is.
Is the most. Beautiful woman in my world
right now. Now, are there other were there
thirtier women that of course, of course there's always going
to be somebody prettier than your girlfriend than your what?
There's always somebody out there that is better looking,

(34:56):
But at the same time you have you have already committed
yourself to this person. I've already committed myself,
you know, with the wedding ring and the whole 9 to this person.
So I don't even think about like, Oh my God, I could be with
that. No, I'm already with somebody
who a loves me for who I am, whodoes all the things that I do.

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For she reciprocated you. Know what I'm saying, All the
things I did for her as far as cooking and all that, she did
the same for me. Sometimes we would go hiking and
do you know, we would do all kinds of stuff, but we were in
love. We did it together.
Even if I'm right and, and, and forget marriage, if I'm with
somebody in an intimate relationship, just because I see

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somebody pretty, I could. No, because The thing is, first
of all, once achieve, always achieve #1 right?
If I'm committed to somebody, I'm committed all the way.
Like that's the PER. That is my person.
And hopefully one day that'll bemy person that I'll be buried
next to, you know what I'm saying?
Whether I'm married or not. Not the same.

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Because you're making it sound like because they are.
No, there's a difference betweendating somebody and being in a
committed, serious relationship,living with that person whether
you're married or not. OK, and you've established
outside those primers. Now let's let's take this to the
next level. Let's say that you are with this
person and you just go, you knowwhat, you're amazing and I want

(36:26):
to live with you. You spend my life with you and
you guys are sharing a. Home.
So that's commitment though. Right, but it is commitment.
Is it still at that point you'restill OK with her being bisexual
and having other women over in your marriage bed?
See. But that's where the boundaries,
that's where you have to do the boundaries because then you

(36:47):
could say, hey, you know what, this is a happy home.
I do not want women coming over here.
I do not. I want you.
I don't want you to have sex in my bed.
You could go out there and hotelor there, but not here.
You know what I'm saying? That would be like.
That would be the like. Could you?

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You'd still be OK with them having sex with another woman as
long as it wasn't in your bed. Yeah, but again, she's she's
bisexual. We know that she's bisexual and
it's something that has already been accepted.
Well, it's not something like. At that point, it's nothing that
he can turn off. He's already he knew.
Understand what I'm saying? You understand that the point

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that I'm making is it doesn't matter to me.
Here's here's my point. I don't see a difference between
if I was bisexual or if I wantedto have sex with another man.
If I'm going to go have sex withsomebody other than my partner,
that's a, that's A and, and that's a conscious choice.

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And if it's something that I've already had, I don't understand
that there's any difference. I don't distinguish any
difference between those two. It doesn't help you.
Have sex with somebody the same gender, but not somebody who is
the opposite sex. But again, most couples, they
have boundaries, understandings,they have rules.
Oh, absolutely, I know. Couples who are married and

(38:13):
they're in open relationships, the rule is don't fuck somebody
in our bed. That's been.
The real it works. For them and it works for them,
absolutely. And that's the same thing with
like, like our, we know our boundaries.
Which, by the way, I see Romeo'sphone is reminding him that our
wedding anniversary is actually tomorrow.
Oh. Which we we both remember, but

(38:36):
our wedding anniversary is tomorrow.
And those were boundaries that we had.
Like to me, that was the commitment that we made to each
other when we became, you know, actually even before we even
started like became a couple, all communication with anybody
else stopped. But to me, it's and that was my

(38:58):
choice, just like it was his choice.
And we agreed when we came together.
It's the two of us. We are.
We are a couple. We're in the end, gang, OK?
We're in it together, just the two of us.
We don't bring. We don't ever need our lives to
be spiced up. We don't need to have 1/3 or any
of that. Oh.

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My God, right? And they're done.
That we're. Yeah, that's right.
It's all over. I don't you know the shit that
we did when we were single when we were younger is not what
we're hold to today. We are in our 50s now.
That wild child crazy ass lifestyle is.
Is put to rest, yeah. Right.
And because that's not what we want, but I also understand that

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there's people who they have a different perspective.
And for them, the threesome foursome and more, some is still
a part of their their life stuff, even if they're married
and having children. You know, it's no different than
like, and we say polyamorous now, but there's no different
than the terminologies just changed.
It used to be swingers. They also have sister wives.

(40:04):
They have all that stuff. There's no difference in that.
It's not like anybody reinvent it.
Just have different titles now. Society's acceptance, right?
But to me, I, I just struggle with the thought of like, for
instance, like a man who has five wives.

(40:29):
Well, what the fuck? Why can't a woman have 5
husbands? Because most men are like you
and Romeo. I'm the only man.
I'm the only man. So you know.
Yeah, I will be. There could only be some women.
Some women do have that. Sometimes some women don't even
let the other poor guys know that they know each other, that
she knows them. No, there there are that there

(40:50):
is that you know. And that's OK.
I don't. To me, that's.
If that works for them, more power to you.
I've. Met couples here in New York
where comedians for that matter,where I'm like, you know, in my

(41:12):
and I think I don't say it. I don't say anything out loud
because I'm like, I'll see a comic who is dating a girl or a
guy and you go to a show and she's hugging up on somebody
else. None of my business.
I don't care. That's your thing.
But for me, far be it for me to run to the other person and be

(41:33):
like, hey, you're not going to here look at this video.
No, I don't care you. Know what I'm saying?
First of all, when it comes to. Things of the.
When it comes to things of the heart, I don't give a shit and I
suck at it. I don't care, OK?
Yes, a lot of times. There's a reason why I said I
would never date a comedian is because I've been around for so
many comedians for so long, and I've gotten this phone call more

(41:55):
than once. Hey, if anybody asked, I was
with you yesterday. OK, What were we doing?
What show? What were we doing?
So in case somebody does ask, wecan keep our stories straight.
I don't give a shit. I'm not your moral comic.
I've seen comics tell jokes about their wives and then leave
with somebody. I'll see, I'll see comics tell

(42:21):
jokes about their wives on an 8 O clock show, disappear for an
hour and change with some groupie bitch and then come back
at a 10 O clock show, you know, smelling a pussy to do the 10 O
clock show. I've seen this, you know what
I'm saying? And it's like, and so one time I
was like, damn, dude, at least take your fucking ring off like

(42:42):
if you're going to do that, you know what I'm saying?
Like, but, but again, I don't care because, you know, you're
dating a comic. Expect that not to say that I do
that, but you know, in, in, in any relationships, there's
always the setting of the boundaries.
You know, even like, you know, when I was dating in Seattle and

(43:06):
I would, you know, I was a comic, there were, you know,
there were certain questions that was asked, you know, if you
know, and and of course there was boundaries set.
Who am I to be like, look, I'm my own man.
No, it's like I remember one of the new boundaries that was
created was when we went on a trip.

(43:28):
If we went somewhere I couldn't do comedy while I was on
vacation with her, which seems very fair, you know, because she
wanted, you know, she's like, we're going to go somewhere.
I want to have all of your time.You know, you get to go do
comedy anytime you want. You know you get to go on the

(43:49):
road anytime you want. And of course, never have I been
told no. But she was like, if we were
ever to go, let's say we went tolike Tampa, FL.
Case in point, unless you know, she was like, look, I'm not
saying that you can't do it, butI would rather you not be on
your phone looking for open micson your phone, doing business,

(44:11):
trying to get booked on shows while you and I are spending a
weekend somewhere that I don't believe that that's an
unreasonable request. I get that.
And you know, but at the same time, you know, some some normy
normal people that use the dating comics, they don't know
what to expect. You know, you're gone, You know,

(44:32):
so many times a weekend in a month, it's like, you know, hey,
call when you get to your hotel room, just not whatever.
And if I and you know, I mean, and again, I people have, you
know, women, Hey, so like if a groupie like you ever fuck
groupies or whatever, like how does that happen?
And I'm just like, no, I like myspace.

(44:54):
I like my hotel room. I don't invite people to my
hotel, you know, And if you wantto call and talk to me till I
fall asleep while watching Rick and Morty while I'm eating a
bucket of chicken naked, that's fine.
That's a cool phone date for me.I don't care, you know what I'm
saying? But I'll tell you this much.
I've had women and even while I was dating.
Hey, what hotel you're staying at?

(45:15):
What room are you in? Can I get the key to your hotel?
I'll meet you. No, no, I don't want you
snooping through my shit. This is my you know.
I travelled 5 hours to be here. I don't want to be in anybody's
face. I want my space outside of being
on that stage. But yeah, I don't.
I don't. I don't get mad when when women
ask me about like the road, likewhat do you do on the road?

(45:37):
Like, you know, do you fuck other?
No, I don't do that. I'm a better.
I would like to thank you that I'm a better person than that.
So and I tell them flat out, no,I don't.
If I did, I would be, I'd be like, yeah, you know, the
occasional chick want to come upto my room and you know, it
first starts off as a back massage and then instead I'm
massaging inside of her. You know, shit happens.

(45:58):
But if that was the case, I'd beopen about it.
But you know, because might be in a relationship if you can
fuck any girl you want on the road.
Well, see, that's that's the thing.
What it is, is like I used to when I was younger and I was
dating and this and the keyword is dating and I told people this

(46:20):
and I told everybody this. And my roommates, when I was
when I was single, I had a couple of roommates and we would
go to Canada and we came back from Canada one day and one of
my roommates let three of my girlfriends into my house.

(46:41):
And the guy I went up to Canada with goes, oh, let me see you
get out of this one. And I looked at him and I
laughed and I walked into the house and the three girls were
like, oh, well, we heard that, Iheard that she was coming back
today, just want to bring you some liquor, yadda, yadda,
yadda. I said OK, gave her a kiss and

(47:01):
I'll see you on Tuesday. And she left.
Yeah, I did the same one, same thing with the next one.
And then the next one, I you lether stay the night.
Now this is how this happens with each and every single woman
that I was dating at the time I was dating.
And I told all of them this. I told them just like this.

(47:23):
I said, look, I like you and I like spending time with you.
Now I will go out with you. And if we go out, we have a good
time and we should end up getting intimate.
That's cool, I said. But this does not make me your
me, your man, nor you my woman. So if you should see me the next

(47:44):
day with someone else, I said. Because while I'm with you, you
will have 100% of my attention. But if you see me with somebody
else tomorrow, they, me will have 100% of my attention.
I will not disregard you. I will say hello to you, but I

(48:06):
will not engage into, into a conversation with you.
And I, and that's the way I leftit.
And I said, now, if you're cool with this, because if I see you
tomorrow with somebody else, I'mgoing to give you the same
respect as you give me. I'm not going to act stupid.
We're dating. It's not like you, my man and
I'm and it's not like you my, I'm your woman or vice versa.

(48:29):
You know what I meant? So and I said, if you, if you're
cool with this, we can, we can continue to see each other.
Not you know, we can say I, you know, whatever.
And most of the women who I was seeing at the time were like,
cool, You mean I can go out. We can have a good time if we if
we having a great time, we can sleep together and then I can go

(48:51):
out with somebody else tomorrow and you know, I'm going to trip.
Yes. So all the women that I was
seeing at the time was on board.So when I got to my crib and,
and these three women was in my house and my roommate was like,
dude, let me see how you get outof this one.
I just walked up to each one of them because I knew I had my

(49:12):
Tuesday night, my Thursday night, and my Friday night girl
there. And they all knew it was my I
don't see you till tomorrow and then I'll see you on Wednesday,
I'll see you on Thursday and I'll see you on Friday.
And that's what I told each one,each one of them.
And neither one of them get mad because each and every single
one of them I laid my cards on the table.

(49:32):
Already. Yeah, they knew the deal.
You're. Just dating and if you lay your
cards on the table up front, youlet them know, hey what's the we
can go out we can have a great time and we can continue to do
this but when I'm with you you're going to have 100% of my
attention and. Well, you're going to receive.

(49:55):
Somebody else, they're going to have 100% of my attention.
I'm not going to trip if I see you with somebody else.
Don't trip if you see me with somebody else.
If you can roll with this, we roll with this.
Like I said, that was my dating phase so.
You were part of what makes thatwork isn't just you being

(50:17):
upfront with them, but also if say the woman wasn't OK with it,
then you said OK, then we're done.
And so there has to be that commitment on both sides that
that understanding on both sides, it's not just you being
upfront. With them not.
Only that saying I'm fine with that that works for.

(50:38):
Me and not only that, for the most part, most women will give
it a shot. They won't even say no.
They'll give it a shot. They'll be like, I can actually
go out with him and still go outwith other people now let's try
it. You know what I'm saying?
Most of them will give it a shot.
And then even if they even if they do see you the next day or

(51:00):
two days later and you walking through the mall with somebody
else, they can't trip. They can, but they don't, you
know, And some. Of.
Them they don't because they. They realize that that's and,
and it's not for everybody. It's just not for.
Everybody right? Right.
Like if a woman, if a woman says, you know, I'm not with
that. That's where your pimp hand has
to be strong. Right, so exactly, I'm a geek

(51:21):
guy. I'm a team.
I've had I've had married men ormen in relationships like, hey,
I want to scratch an itch. Can I come see you?
And I'm like, oh, child, I don'tknow where you got your fucking
information, but I am way too much of A diva to ever take a
backseat to the other woman. I am not the other woman.

(51:43):
I am not. I don't play that game.
Thanks for the offer. And, you know, might I suggest
maybe a talent and some Louvre go have some fun.
But I am for me, it's just I'm not that kind of person should
be in the but you know, and and I could also, I could see where

(52:05):
there's been times in my life where that arrangement would
have worked fine for me. Had I had a conversation, I
would have been very honest. If you you don't have a problem,
come see me and all you want to do is do a lick down Dick down.
OK, let me talk to your wife or let me talk to your girlfriend.

(52:26):
And as long as she says that she's OK with it.
But she doesn't have any problems because sometimes she
just wants to she has a headacheor just wants to be left alone.
OK, let's just go have some fun and I'll send you on your way
and call it a day. Or Dennis put her on the
Commission for two weeks. Yeah, something like that.

(52:47):
Exactly, exactly. You know, whatever.
And and that's just it though. It's just that.
And there are women that would be OK with that.
Like, look, I don't want your man.
I don't want any of his money. I don't want any, You know, it's
not like, but it's, it's that having that conversation ahead
of time. Like you said, it's boundaries
all the way around and open communication all the way
around. Right.

(53:07):
And, and I don't have a problem with that.
I just know that at this stage in my life, and I don't know if
that's something that you know, and I think a lot of it is like
the way we've been raised in society about how we're
monogamous. We have one partner and and

(53:28):
that's. Well, we, OK, first of all, we
came up in the era, we came up in the age era where fucking
around get that you killed. Yeah, fuck yeah, fucking around
got you AIDS, got you killed. So you, we, it started out, it
started out with get a shot and clear it up and then it ended up

(53:49):
and then it ended up, yeah, fuckaround and end up in the morgue.
OK, That's. And then, hey, before you put it
in me, you're going to go get a dip.
You're going to find out that you ain't got nothing in you
that you're going to give to me.That's right.
So we, yeah, so we, we did have to go through, you know, that

(54:10):
first of all, you need to get tested.
Yeah. Before you do, you need to get
tested. Right, exactly.
And that's and that is somethingthat, you know, that does
definitely have an impact on it for sure, but it's also, you
know, like the flower power and the seven where they were out

(54:35):
there. It was cool to to have.
All the What's that? Woodstock.
Woodstock. Yes, Woodstock.
And because we're the 50s where,you know, like the, the, the
progress through the years and the ages for the women has been
a lot different. But you know, you're right, we,
we still come from a predominantly Christian nation

(55:01):
and that having multiple partners is still frowned upon.
And so it's, it is especially for women, more so for women,
like men have a, an idea that they want this peer chased woman
so that when they have a child with her, they know that there's

(55:21):
no other man's DNA in her. Look, there's a difference.
Honey, we're old. Like, I know, I know that
you've, you've you've had your way around and nobody's,
nobody's asking me. You know, I sure as hell wasn't

(55:42):
a virgin when we got married at all.
I mean, hell, I had a grandchildwhen we got married.
He knew I wasn't a virgin. So I mean, but it it is
interesting just. Might trust that spots on it.
Yeah. A lot of them.

(56:02):
Exactly, exactly. But you know, it's, it's
definitely a different era era now.
And it's very interesting to seelike what when I think about
what my grandmother's, how they came up through the ages and,
and how much that things change.And I look at on my side now

(56:28):
that I have granddaughters and Ilook about how life is
progressing well in in this day and age.
It's actually scary because it'sactually regressing in a lot of
ways with this. It's trying to regress.
I don't think that women it today will allow it to backslide

(56:50):
that far. We're going to get to the point
where we say enough is enough. We're done fucking around.
Y'all fucked around, now you're going to find out we are not
playing this game anymore. There's a lot more of us and
there are of you guys. And trust me, we will put this
pussy on lockdown until our demands are made.
If you ain't, you don't meet ourdemands.

(57:12):
Guess what? Welcome to football Land.
Yeah, but also there's a flip side to that coin.
Women love sex just as much as men, so you're not going to.
Fool. Even more so.
Women love sex more than we do when women.
Try to lock that shit down. I'm like, yeah, OK, I'll see you
in. I'll see you in a couple of.
Days as a single woman and any woman.

(57:35):
That does that, and any guy thatfalls for that is a pussy
himself. I'm like, oh, really good,
you're going to shut it down. As a nation, we had to do it to
band together as a nation to get.
Things like a war on drugs. You'll you'll never win that
battle. You'll never win that battle.
It was like a war on drugs. I I wish.

(57:57):
I wish women would come togetherand do that.
Dudes will be on the other side just laughing up.
We'll be laughing our asses off.But really, you're going to
close it down, All right? Yeah, All right.
Let me tell you something. That little Bunny rabbit thing
that you guys have is not going to replace the warmth of a man.
I promise you that. Or, and forget men, the warmth
of your significant other who might be a woman if you're gay

(58:19):
or whatever. No, that'll never happen.
OK, No the lesbians. Would have.
A great they wouldn't have to give up anything.
Yeah, exactly. They, they, they want they're,
they're probably looking at women.
Like really, you guys are just going to shut it down like that?
Nah, man, we're, we're over here, you know, scissoring
ourselves to death here, but youguys are going to shut it down

(58:40):
over here. Nah, man.
I I Yeah, man. Definitely rock, paper,
scissors, you know, you're like.Patrice O'Neal said it best.
He said, man, women your age, Marianne, they're like, yo, they
got to chase men for Dick, man. You're like, they got to chase
men half the time for Dick. He's like, yeah.

(59:01):
He's like, well, my girl threatened me to shut it down.
He's like, man, I wish you would, man.
All right, That means that meansI don't have to talk to you for
a while, bitch. OK, whatever.
Like, he has a great bit on that.
And I'm like, yeah, because whena, when a woman was like there
was like a 24 year old going to,she was like, how old is she?
Like 24? He's like, see, she can say some
shit like that. But man, you got to a woman like

(59:23):
in her 40s, man. She's got to chase her man for
Dick, man, chase him. You know what I'm saying?
When he's when, when she says, oh, I'm going to shut it down.
He's like, all right, bitch, whatever.
You know what I'm saying? It'll never.
Happen. That's actually.
Hilarious that you think. That you think that a woman in
her 40s and 50s has to chase anyman down, especially her own

(59:46):
man? Well.
No, but yeah. Like I.
Think it was a married couple inthe audience and he feels like
look, they've been married for along time.
She has to chase him for Dick. You know what I'm?
Saying I've been in that relationship, I was in that
relationship is which is why I said I would never.
I had a condition when I got married.
This is literally my condition. I told my husband as when we

(01:00:09):
were engaged. I said never.
And last one of us is, is very sick.
We will never go longer than a week without having sex.
There's no excuse because if I have to or if we're not in the
same state, country or house, then then that's acceptable.

(01:00:31):
Like obviously if if one of us had to go travel.
But other than that, if it goes longer than a week, no, no.
And if you make me wait more than two weeks, that's that
right there. Is it acceptable for me to
cheat? You know what you mean, Dick.
What was your response? What was your?

(01:00:51):
Response to that that ultimatum.Oh shit, I'm down with that.
Oh shit, you ain't never got to worry about me not not putting,
no. Gosh, I was, I was seeing this
girl like we were being for a good while and she went, she
went out of the country and she came back and I remember I was
at her, I was at her, I was at her place.

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And she I was in the kitchen andshe came in the kitchen and she
was like, you know, we had sex all the time.
Like it was just like, it was almost like we had so much sex.
I was like, damn, it's illegal. We had like, it's illegal.
How much sex that we had? OK, sometimes I would try to,

(01:01:35):
you know, sometimes I would initiate it.
Sometimes she would. But when I there was a time
where I was like, OK, I'm not going to initiate sex.
I'm going to see how she plays it off.
And let me tell you something. It was like, I remember one time
we went two days without it. We were watching like hanging
out, watching TV shows. And I I'm not going to lie.
I was. 40 all the fucking time when I'm when I'm with her.

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I'm sorry. How old were you?
What age? I was 30.
I was. I was actually 32, OK.
Yeah, 30s. Yeah, and it was just like every
time I was with her, I was just like, so I remember what time I.
And how old was she? Was she close to that?
Was she's in her 30s also she Was she?

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Was three years older than me, so yeah, I was 32.
She was. She was 35 and.
Yeah, and she was like a 30. Five year old.
Woman is like an 18 year old boy.
Yeah, yeah, I mean, and you know, sometimes she would come
over the apartment sometimes andwe would hang out sometimes like
go to her place and what have you.
But I remember once I think the and I and I kid you not, I think

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the longest streak we went without having sex while she was
of course home or, you know, notvisit was four days and we dated
for 3 1/2 years. We were all I mean, it was just
like I remember one time I had joked around.
I was like, you know what would be awesome if one day you didn't

(01:03:09):
wear panties on a date and we just fucked in the train station
and that's what happened. I remember one time went out to
dinner and then, you know, therewas like only a few people on
the train. It was like one O clock in the
morning and people like falling out of the train and it was only
us in the train car. And we did that.

(01:03:32):
Like I was like, she was like, oh, remember that thing that you
told me about? I'm not wearing any.
And then she kind of like did a little flashy thing and I was
like, no shit. And I was like, yeah.
And we did like, it was like maybe 30 seconds because we were
pulling into a train station. And I was like, oh, and then

(01:03:55):
we're just kind of like gigglingabout it.
But it was just, yeah, no, it was.
We went four days. And let me tell you something,
when we that four days might as well have been a fucking
eternity, OK? It might as well have been a
year. But those are those 30 year
olds. That's that 30 year old now that

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you're like getting older, like when you're in your 50s, it's a
little bit different. But the intimacy is not always
necessarily for us, it's, it's in our 50s.
Intimacy is not always about penetration.
Intimacy. We're like intimate everyday,
all the time, you know? And it's those the the touching,

(01:04:39):
the caressing, the kissing, the hugging.
The hand holding. There's.
A lot of. Intimacy in that.
Which? Was our love language and it was
like indoor outdoor cats around,dogs around.
It was like I knew that if I went to her like usually after

(01:05:00):
hard day work, I'd be stressed out.
I'd go to, you know, we were either at each other's place,
but I knew that if I wanted to, I'm like, look, I can, you know,
And the best part, if I can, thebest part, not going to lie,
guys, the best part about havingsex with somebody like this, no

(01:05:23):
condom. It's the best.
I mean, I was coming in and out of her.
It was like, it, it, it, dude, it was great.
It was great. Yeah.
I was like, Oh my God, I get. To come in this time I want.
Yeah, it was great. It was just like.
That's part of that's part of the the benefits of a committed

(01:05:45):
relationship, too. Yeah.
You know. I was, I mean, I wasn't trying
to have a baby, but I was tryingto have a baby.
But yeah, it was great. And, and the thing was, it was
like, I mean, again, after a while, you know, I mean, don't
get me wrong, you want to protect yourself, but after a
while when you get to know that person, I'm like, all right, you
know, she doesn't have herpes. Yay.

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But it's like whenever you get, whenever you get to just, I
mean, just, it was just, Oh my God.
I kind of wish she had a secret camera so I could see, like, the
film of us doing it. So I could just be like, yeah,
that was. Yeah, she was, yeah.
I could tell you exactly how herday went based on the position

(01:06:32):
that I was in and the position she was in.
But yeah, sex with her. But there was never a dull
moment with her as far as the sex go.
And it's just like. Don't you guys break?
Up 'cause I'm me, I guess. I don't know.
And she was she, Yeah, we, I mean, yeah, should we have
stayed together? Of course, but I don't know.

(01:06:57):
Even up to the day, I don't know, she had, you know, we both
hadn't moved away. And I, I, I could say this, I
don't think sexually, sexual wise, I've had like again, I've,
I mean pound town after pound town after pound town.
But what sucks does it's just like she was great and even like

(01:07:20):
the little, you know, the littlesexual encounters that I get it.
I don't think I've ever had likemind blowing sex that reminded
me of her because she knew what to do.
I knew, you know what she wantedto do.
You know, like we got each other, you know what I'm saying?
And we did everything, I mean, short of invite somebody else to

(01:07:41):
the bit, we did everything OK. You guys were very sexy
compatible. You guys were very sexually
compatible, but when there wasn't sex involved, how
compatible were you? When sex wasn't involved, we
always went out and did things like we were always like, we
would always go out. Like, you know, we go, I would,

(01:08:03):
you know, we went to movies, dinners.
We always, we like the same foods.
So we would always go out and like we were always adventurous
when it came to restaurants because I like going to new
restaurants. There were certain things that
she didn't like. There was things that I like,
but but you know, I kind of feltlike she got my crazy.

(01:08:25):
I got her crazy. You know, she wasn't a comic.
I kind of wish she was, but she she was just, she was very
funny. And The thing is, I think what
really kept us together was eventhough at the time I was like a
very, I was like a young comic coming in.
She made me laugh and I and and The thing is like ladies who are

(01:08:49):
listening, you want to know what's the quickest way to my
heart? Cheesecake, anything Batman
related. And if you're funny, you have
one. And she was very, very funny for
somebody who wasn't a comedian. I think what it was was she was
very sarcastic. You know, this chick was she was
from Chicago and she was a modeland she had like a day job.

(01:09:09):
But you know, she was very sarcastic.
But at the same time, you know, she was as far as beauty wise,
she was my type. I remember the first time I I
met her in Times Square when back in my old and you know,
when I was here and I saw her and my but the first time I came
out of my mouth was, Oh my God, can I get your occupation model?

(01:09:33):
And she was like, as a matter offact, I am a model.
And I was like, get the fuck outof here.
She was like, no, I'm a model. And she was visiting from
Chicago at the time and she was doing modeling gigs in Bryant
Park and what have you. So and then we just ended up
dating and then we second night we banged.
So yeah, it was great. Second night, baby.

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I thought it was going to take me longer than that.
But you know, my 32 year old charm allowed that to happen.
But yeah, and she ultimately moved to New York because she
didn't like Chicago. And she ended up, I mean, she
ended up living in the Bronx andthen moved around New York a
lot. But we hung out a lot because,

(01:10:19):
you know. Yeah.
We hung out a lot and I just kind of felt like, yeah, it was
it was great again. Lasted 2 1/2 years we had there
was one time we had sex twice inone day within 4 hours of each
other. So I remember we had sex and I

(01:10:40):
was exhausted. I took a nap and she woke me up
and I was like what's going on? And she was like I'm not She was
like I'm so horny and I was likelike in my mind I was like wait
didn't I? I thought I was like, did you
fake it the last time? Like I thought, you know, you

(01:11:02):
cut. Orgasm, she was like, it was, it
was a little bit I, I kind of held back a little bit and I was
like. OK, so luckily for us, she's she
was a Red Bull fanatic. She had a bunch of energy drinks
in the refrigerator. So I'd go into refrigerator.
Pop. You know, pop 2 Red Bulls and
and then, you know, she came into the kitchen.

(01:11:25):
Oh my God, I'll never forget that.
She comes into the kitchen and she did this little dance for
me. And I was worried like my boxer
that she took my boxers off and she, you know, in the kitchen.
And I was like, so I picked her up from the kitchen and walked
her over to the bed, threw her on the bed and you know, Round 2

(01:11:48):
and did it until I got wow. We were talking about sex on a
podcast. I love this.
So people have it, you know, so.Yeah, yeah, every.
Generation thinks they invented it.
That's what's so funny to me is that go hang around like I had a

(01:12:09):
teenage niece. I have younger nieces and it's
so funny to listen to these kidsact like they invented sex and
that we don't know shit and it's.
And I laughed the what makes me laugh the hardest is because I
know that when I was a teenager,we were the same.
We were the same way. We acted like the generation we

(01:12:32):
love us when. We talked when we talked about
some facts like, I mean, we didn't like hold back.
We just, I mean, we just let it out, you know?
I mean, but again, this was like, now I remember I was
talking to a comic and he was telling me that he didn't start
having sex till he was 20. And he was kind of embarrassed
about that. And I was like, bro, I did not

(01:12:53):
have sex till I was 20 also. And he was like, yeah, but he
was like, yeah, but you know, you know, I was handsome.
This, that, whatever. I'm like, yeah, me too.
But let me tell you something. When I started having it at 20,
I was like, I wanted more of it,you know what I'm saying?
I was like, I want more. Why didn't I have this in high

(01:13:16):
school? And I was like when I was in my
20s, I was, I mean, yeah, movingto New York when I was 20.
Yeah. When I was 19.
I moved back to New York after high school.
No, I take that back. I was 17, moved back to New York
when I was 17. And then, you know, the first
time I did it, it was, it was, Iwas like, Oh my God, it was, I

(01:13:40):
kind of used that as like the first time I tried horseradish.
I don't know if you guys have ever had horseradish.
Well, Marianne, you're white, soI'm going to assume you've had.
I'm going to tell you guys. Mexican.
Food. It's very good on Mexicans.

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Oh, OK, OK, I. Love Horseradishes.
But I. Remember when I was living in
Seattle when I was dating this, this Asian girl, I think she was
Cambodian. And we went to a in in downtown
Seattle. There's like this bodega.
Actually, it's called New York. Something had the word New York
in it. And we walk in and this guy, you

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know, behind the counter sees myhead.
He's like, hey. Are you from New York?
He. Spoke with a New York accent.
I was like, I felt like I was athome and I was like, yeah, man.
And I was like, what's good here?
He's like, yo, I make a really good Turkey sandwich and I was
like, he's like, have you ever tried the Turkey sandwich back
home in? Brooklyn.
And I was like, no, I never. Really ate the sandwiches like
that. It was like a sausage and egg on
a roll or something for breakfast.

(01:14:46):
He was like, let me tell you something, I'm going to make you
the best Turkey sandwich you've ever fucking had.
Do you like? Lettuce.
Do you like tomatoes? Do you like tomatoes?
Do you like tomatoes? Do you like Pickles?
And, and I was like, I like, youknow, I was like, well, if
you're going to make this sandwich, here's how I so he
customized the sandwich. He was like, hold on a second
though. And then he he brought out the

(01:15:06):
stingle and, you know, horseradish and he was like
horseradish. Let me tell you something.
Wow, this is right here. Best.
Horseradish. I'm gonna put horseradish on.
It and I was like, I don't like,I thought it was male.
I was like, I don't like male. Hold on, hold on.
I totally fucked that up. It's not.
I was thinking radishes, not radishes, Horseradish.

(01:15:27):
Oh my God, I'm Irish. Fuck yeah.
I eat horseradish. What do you think we put on our
cabbage? OK, I'm glad to.
Yes. Not not not on street tacos
because that would be probably good, but prime rib with
horseradish. Oh my God, so, so this, so this

(01:15:49):
guy tells me like, you know, what's in the horseradish or
whatever. And I'm like, all right.
And, and, and the, the, the girlthat I'm with, she was like, you
know, the horseradish is good. You've never had a horseradish?
I'm like, and I'm like, well, ifshe says it's good, I'm going to
try. And he puts horseradish on the
bun, slaps again. And he was like, look.
If you don't like this sandwich,I'm going to fucking.

(01:16:09):
Plot. You know what I'm saying?
So. So I take a bite at a sandwich
and let me tell you something. It felt like the first time I
went down on a girl and nobody told me it was that good.
You know what I'm saying? That's exactly what every time I
think of horseradish I got, I get like angry because I'm like,
well, I had so many white friends in high school.

(01:16:30):
I had so many white friends after high school.
And no, it took this Italian guyin Seattle, WA to tell me about.
Let me tell you something, I took my wallet out and I laid it
on the counter. I'm like, there's cash in there
and take whatever you want. I was eating this horseradish
Turkey sandwich with lettuce andPickles.

(01:16:52):
And he put a little bit of baconshrimps in there.
And I ate that fucking sandwich.And I was like, we went to this
girl's house who lived in downtown Seattle, and I farted
her brains out afterwards. And I was like, thank you for
the horseradish recommendation afterwards.
Yeah, horse radish on everythingnowadays.

(01:17:12):
So a white guy told you about the sandwich?
An an Italian guy told me about that.
Yeah, you know they beat him up for that.
What is wrong with you telling this black guy about our
beautiful sandwiches? Oh.
My. God bro, let me tell you
something, after I knocked it out that night, I went back to
that place for another sandwich that morning.

(01:17:33):
OK? Why, before going home, I was
like, yo, that, you Remember Me,I was The New Yorker.
Yo, can I get that sandwich again?
You know what I'm saying? So it's like that sandwich.
And I'm sure that place is stillthere because last time I was in
Seattle, I rode by, I was in a downtown area and that place was
still there. And I go, it's like a bodega.
But it's like a, It's a. Nice, you know, it's a very nice

(01:17:56):
place, but you know, they had everything but the cats sitting
on top of like the the Lacroise.You know what I'm saying?
On top of the bread, Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
As a matter of fact. Town you'll have to show so.
Where? That's at so I can go get a.
Sandwich Matter of fact, what I'm I'm going to try to I got to
I know what area it is and what street.
So what I'm going to do is I'm going to try to Google Maps it

(01:18:19):
and yeah. And yeah, it's, it's that
sandwich was good, man. And again, it was a good spot
and the guy made me feel like I was at home, you know what I'm
saying? Here's a little Taste of Home,
you know? And, and again, I, I, I really
didn't have anything to compare that sandwich with because I'm
like, I've never really eaten. I mean, now I go to Cats and get
a pastrami sandwich, which, you know, a $26 pastrami sandwich

(01:18:42):
that'll just half of it will just knock me out, you know what
I'm saying? So it's like, you know, but
yeah, man, it was sandwiches andsnacks, man.
I'll never forget that. So Romeo, it just, it made me
think when, when you were telling me about this food
experience, it made me think where was the place that I ate

(01:19:06):
that the food was so amazing that I can pinpoint the exact
place and, and time and the food.
And it was when my mom and I were, we were touring, driving
around Ireland and we stopped atthis, this little restaurant.
It was kind of, I mean, it's really in the middle of, I don't

(01:19:29):
even remember it's in, in Western or, I'm sorry, Southern
Ireland. And we did.
It was a pork loin with mashed potatoes and applesauce on it.
So you had the mashed potatoes over here, you had the pork loin
with the applesauce on top. And this salad, this salad like

(01:19:53):
basically was like a lettuce andlike the lemon juice.
It was so amazing. It was so fresh and so
delicious. And I miss like I know that you
mix pork with apple, right, because it oh, pork and apple.

(01:20:13):
Tastes really, really good, but the mass potatoes, even though
like it was like a five star restaurant in the middle of of a
hotel somewhere and I still remember they had this beauty.
I wish I could find it again. They had a beautiful huge dining
room with a big fire pit or fireplace, huge fireplace.

(01:20:35):
It was enormous, but it was veryyou know, old world is is why
that's not an uncommon to see those huge fireplaces like like
you can walk into this fireplace, but it just like I
those when I think about food, those are some of that's one of
the things that comes to my memory because my mom and I both

(01:20:55):
we were just like going on and on and on about this this dinner
that we had. What about you?
Where did you What if you think about a?
Food. Like a.
A mill Ellinger's Chicago, IL's it was on Dalton St. it was it
was right next to Dillinger's. They had these gear rolls right?

(01:21:23):
These guy with gear rolls, guy rolls, G roses guy rolls, but
they they made theirs they made theirs with cheese.
They made theirs with cheese andit was salivating.
It would make me salivate every time I seen this, this sandwich.

(01:21:43):
It was so delicious. Dillinger's.
I would never ever forget it. Dillinger's in Chicago, IL.
They had the best guy Rose ever.Jeez Louise.
I still and and maybe you tell. Me about that so was it like
they made just was it like American.
American cheese, but they but they make it with the feta and

(01:22:05):
all that. But if you ask them to put
American cheese on it, they would heat the bread up, then
they would lay the they, they'llget the bread nice and hot.
Then they put the the American cheese on there.
While the American cheese sitting there starting to melt
already, they have the meat that's on the grill with the
onions and everything. They have it on the grill next

(01:22:28):
to it and it's getting super hotand they scoop it up and they
sit on top of the on top of the American cheese.
And then they start sprinkling the feta and all that stuff in
there and then you and then the tzatziki sauce.
Oh my God, yes, yes, yes. They put all that stuff in
there. They put all that on there, man,
a good, great salon. Best sandwich ever.

(01:22:49):
Dillinger's Dillinger. Knows if they're still there
because it's been how many 30 years?
Shit. I know this, but I know I should
call home and see if they're still there.
Order one and have it next day aired.
I know, right? Well, yeah, it would not be the
same, but you know. Yeah.
Yeah, I know. Like, it's funny because I think

(01:23:10):
about like some of the different, different foods that
I've eaten and some of the different places, but it's just
that one particular, I don't know why that one particular
meal. And it was, I know that a lot of
it was the the memories that were being built, like with my
mom and I touring through Ireland, how much fun we had and

(01:23:32):
it was just the two of us and a rental car and getting lost in
Ireland, like the adventures that we went on, that
fearlessness. It was a lot of fun.
OK, tonight is the first football game that's coming on,
so I think we're going to be wrapping this up a little early
We so let's start talking, I think.

(01:23:53):
We're probably. Close to being.
It's already on actually, but that's fine watching it on.
Sky. So let's talk about what's we've
been binge watching right quick,if that's OK.
No, that's very that's very fineway to take charge, Romeo.
So I guess I'll start because I've been what I have been binge

(01:24:13):
watching, I've been binge watching Scrubs on Hulu, all
those T-Mobile commercials that I keep seeing Zach Braff and
Donald face on. Do I get their friendship while
watching Scrubs? I'm like, you know what I
understand that like they're best friends just, you know, off

(01:24:34):
camera and what not. So it's such a great show.
I mean, again, I never hated theshow.
I never watched it all the way through.
I think last time I tried to do this, I stopped at season 4.
So this time I'm going to give it another go around.
I have been watching it. It's.
You've never seen. It no, I've never seen it.
It's nine seasons, OK. So it used to be on NBC.

(01:24:58):
And then I think after, I think after seven seasons, they moved
to ABC and I think they did two seasons, but they're doing a
reunion. So I think they're doing that.
They're bringing Scrubs back. And like, Judy Reyes, I believe,
has already showed, I think she's already going to be on the
show. I mean, it's, you know, I don't

(01:25:22):
know if John C McGinley is goingto reprise his role as Cox
because to be honest with you, he was the show, you know what
I'm saying? Like he was the Comic Relief on
the show again, if Ken Jenkins is going to come, I mean, I
don't know if I'll get, I would imagine that there's going to be
like a cast overhaul. Like a lot of the old heads are

(01:25:42):
probably going to be gone. So.
But yeah, I've been I've been watching that.
It's I'm on season. I just started.
So I'm on like season 1 episode 4.
How long is the the the? Episode half an hour, half hour.
It's really, I mean, the The thing is, it's really funny.

(01:26:04):
We'll get the shot. Yeah, it's.
A it's a really funny show. I'm so I mean, The thing is, I
didn't watch it when it was likewhen it was on, but it it's very
funny. You know, when when people make
fun of it, I'm just like, reallythe the show's pretty funny.
I mean, it's kind of Corky a little bit, but I think you guys

(01:26:25):
would definitely enjoy it. Nine Seasons tells you that it
did something right. Right.
Yeah, exactly the same amount ofthe same amount of season
Seinfeld did. So what does that tell you?
I never liked Seinfeld. I didn't watch it.
That's. Not a Seinfeld fan?
Just so anyway, so we was watching Extent with Halle

(01:26:49):
Berry. I'm supposed to go out into
space. It's on Netflix.
Yeah, she went on a 13 month mission.
In space. Solo mission.
Solo mission. Well, she's the only one up.
There the only person up there 13 months and.
Comes. Back and find out she's

(01:27:09):
pregnant. Yeah.
And then? That's how it starts.
How it starts. It is a super, super good show.
There was, I don't even know howmany, 13 episodes.
Oh, it's 13. Yeah, it's two seasons.
And there is. A Season 2.

(01:27:30):
Yeah, we just started Season 2, so it's 13 episodes, It's 13
episodes per season, and it's only two seasons and they're an
hour long each. So we watched and it was like we
were watching three and four of them a day.
Like that's how good it was. So.
It's really super good. You it it, it definitely has

(01:27:52):
you, but what makes it because it was they take the beginning,
they it spells out extinct, and then it switches some letters.
To make an extent. And so that's kind of what it
is. And part of it too is that her
and her husband have a humanoid or a human humanic, humanics,

(01:28:22):
humanics, which is a little boy,but he's actually an Android,
but you can't tell that he's an Android.
So that, so just that's all. Futuristic.
It's futuristic. Futuristic.
It is very futuristic and it is very good.

(01:28:42):
I enjoyed it. Then we we kind of interrupted
Animal Kingdom to watch that. Yeah, still watching.
Still watching? Animals.
We're on the last. We're on the last like 6
episodes. Yeah, we're on the last season,
so OK, so. Midway through the last season.
Yeah, the last 6 episodes. And I think that they, this is

(01:29:04):
one of those, see, I think this is one of the shows that they
actually planned the exit strategy.
So everything that they're doingin this season is for them to
exit out, wrap up, tie up all any loose ends.
So I'm, I'm thinking that that'skind of how that's.
That's been a still good show. Very good.
Show. Very good show I.
Think I try to work on a spin off of that show actually, so

(01:29:26):
that'll. Be cool, yeah?
I I I've read somewhere that they're, they're looking to see
if they can do a spin off on that show.
Yeah. It was very good.
It was. Very good.
Because I'm wondering at this point, like who?
I don't know, like how many of them make it out alive on this
last season? But.
And then we're watching the new The second-half of Season 2 just

(01:29:51):
came out of Wednesday. Wednesday came out yesterday.
Yesterday so we're we started watching that and then.
They got the new black. Beauty and black.
Beauty and black. Season 2 just came out also this
week, so we'll probably watch Wednesday 1st just because
that's only like 4 episodes and then we're going to delve back

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into beauty and black. Yeah.
That was because I'm really curious how.
Yeah, Beauty and Black. The way Beauty and Black ended
it was like, oh damn, yeah, you.Just went oh shit, how?
And so it makes you wonder like that's where they got to pick up
and and start going from. So it's going to be interesting
to see how how manipulative it gets and and stuff like that.

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So. I mean it's.
The fall so a lot of shows are, you know, going to be spilling
out between now and October, so.We're watching like we don't
have regular TV so. I'm staying.
Here, staying here. So we don't know like how to
watch. We're still trying to figure out
how to watch the football, but. Oh, I got Peacock.

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I got Peacock if. You have Peacock, you'll be able
to watch it Peacock Plus you have to have like the the
premium. I think the premium it's going
to right now it is the Eagles and the Cowboys.
Cowboys at the Eagles. I know, but it's football.
I so I am just hoping that the ground opens up and swallows

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both teams, leaving just the Giants commanders in the Easter
in the NFC East. You know, I mean, you know, I've
been. Waiting for this day.
First of all, as a Giants fan, I've already, you know, with
Russell Wilson. I'm very excited to see how this
season turns out. So wait.

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A minute. Stop, back up, Back up, you just
said with Russell Wilson. He's our starting quarterback.
Wow, I did not know that. So I've not because again I've.
It's funny you we have Russell Wilson who used to play for
Seattle, but also Seattle has Sam Darnell who used to play for

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the New York Jets, which is kindof a.
Weird. Crossing but.
That you know, I hope I hope that giants do great this year.
I do. I don't wish any will ill will
because he sucked a Dick in in Denver.
So you. Know Denver.
He was. He was asked in Denver.
He was asked in Pittsburgh. He's probably going to be ass

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here, but who? Knows he might find a coach that
brings it out of. Him well, again, if this coach,
if this coach doesn't, then it'sreally on him because every
coach he had with the with the exception of Mike Tomlin in
Pittsburgh were offensive coach.I mean, not even showing that

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Peyton could fix that. Russell, I mean, come on, He
turned Drew Brees into a superstar.
He's Yeah. So I'm just so, you know, if if
Sean Payton can't, if you can't learn from Sean Payton and a
rookie Bo Nicks is, you know, looking pretty good with him.
I don't, I don't know what to I don't know what to tell you, but

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Dabel, our coach, you know, we'll we'll see what happens.
We are going to we we face the commanders this Sunday and me
and some of my Co workers, well,one of my Co workers we've
already planned on going to we're going to take a day trip
down to Baltimore on November 25th to catch the Ravens jets

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game. So we're going to he's a Ravens
fan and also a Jets fan. I want to see Justin Fields play
and I want to go to the Baltimore stadium and check it
out. I have no no like dog in this
fight but. But I was just going to say.
You. Keep saying The Jets and I'm
like if you're a Giants fan, don't confuse the listeners.

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They might think because you saywas is Jamal a Giants fan or or
a Jets. Here's the thing.
Because they're. Both New York.
Yeah, that is true. But during this, like the
offseason, I bitched and moaned.How much I was very upset with
my team and I'm like, don't be surprised if I start going to
other cities and watching football games and not putting

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money in the Giants pockets. And my buddy was like looking
through some of the schedule. He was like, I was looking
through the schedule like anywhere like nearby I'm going
to go watch some good games. And he was like, well, The Jets
go down to Baltimore and we could catch a Bolt bus for like
70 bucks round trip and then getlike 100, get $145.00 ticket,

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hang out with a bunch of screaming Ravens fans, slash
Jets fans who also came down. You know it's.
I like football, I like traveling, I like going to
different stadiums. And I'm like, dude, the bus is
going to drop us off downtown. The stadium is downtown
Baltimore. As long as we don't go to the
places that The Wire taught us not to go, we'll be safe and

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we'll get back to New York. Yeah, we'll be fine.
As long as we're not in like W Baltimore, we will be fine.
Yes, and that's, and that right there is the whole key is, is
knowing where you're going when you travel.
So I've always wanted to do that.
I've always wanted to like especially when the Seahawks

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were hot, I was like, or the theprices were at least very, very
hot. It's like it would be cheaper
for me to fly to another city, stay the night in a hotel, pay
the price to go into that other stadium to go watch them play,
and then fly home. Then it would be for me to just
get 2 tickets here at home. Yep, yeah, I mean, I thought

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about, I thought about hey, let's do a weekend in Baltimore.
But I'm just like, or you know, I mean, we're not super rich,
but I'm like, let's be savvy. Let's because I'm like, bro, we
could take a six O clock bus down to Baltimore, get there by
10/10/30. The game is at one O clock.
So that gives us plenty of time to either have like eat in the

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like a nice place in Baltimore, go tailgate with, I'm pretty
sure the Ravens fans will acceptus because every city that I've
ever been to, I have always beenable to go into a tailgating
with no problem. There's a way to do it.
There's a science to it. But at the same time, you know,
I don't expect the Baltimore Ravens fans to be like, I mean,

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they're probably going to be doing well in their division.
They're not. They're probably not going to
give us a hard time. I think if anything, you know,
I'm like, look, we're visiting here, we're putting money into,
you know, we're, we're giving money to your team or whatever.
So it's like, you know, whatever, but you know, but at.
The end of the day, football fans are still football fans.
As long as you're not from one of their bitter rivals.

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And you you're. Right.
That's right. You can't be a bitter right?
You got to. Pity you, I just can't.
You show up as a as a freaking Giants fan.
Show up as I can't show up with like an Aaron Rodgers Steeler
jersey. I'll probably get Cane, but I
know where my I'm, I'm going to go down there with my my Giants
jersey and they'll remind me of 2000, I believe 2002 when the

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Ravens beat the shit out of us in the Super Bowl.
But, you know, nonetheless, I'm going to Rep my team, I'm going
to Rep my city. He's going to Rep his team.
He's going to Rep, you know, ourcity.
As a Jets fan, of course for him.
But yeah, we're going to make, we're going to take the day trip
because I'm like, look, if we travel with luggage and we're
going to a game and then when the game is over, we got to go

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back to the hotel and grab our stuff and probably pay for
another night. Let's just show up, hang out for
a day in Baltimore when the gameis over, probably at around four
or five. We could still hang out in
Baltimore as long as it's downtown.
My friends are staying. Stay by the harbor.
That's where it's safe. And you know, we're eating, you

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know, crabs or, you know, crab cakes or whatever.
Like, you know, we want to do things that Baltimore people do
and then leave at like, you know, 8:00, be there by like
midnight and then just brag to our Co workers about what we did
AS2 Co workers who like football.
And it's like, it's almost like a A-Team buildership kind of

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thing. Exactly, exactly.
And that's you know what a what a you know, it's getting that
time of year is that season. So it is all.
It's time of year, yeah. Time of year.
So yeah, thanks, ladies and gentlemen.

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So with that being said, ladies and gentlemen, thank you for
listening. And also I'm going to contact
this honey gold honey Brooks chick to see oh, to schedule her
on. I I would love to hear her input
on all the stuff that we've beentalking about.
I'm pretty sure she can give us some good insight.
But ladies and gentlemen, that has been our show.
Of course, our thanks, special thanks to Romeo and Mary Ann,

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our podcast Co host and you know.
And thank you, Jamal. Well, I.
Mean that that one. Without saying, but thank you.
Thank you very much. As as Marianne always say, make
good choices. There you go.
All right, I did. Finally get it right, it is

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signing. You'll suck it up.
Holiday, All this talk about sex.
I cannot afford to get anything wrong tonight.
Shit. I'm thinking about sandwiches.
Goddammit. That's it.
Might make me a Turkey sandwich and if you have a problem with
people's sexual preferences, Please remember it is not about

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you Amen. So with that being said, thank
you for listening. Good day everybody.
And we are out stop recording and we.