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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Cause ain't nothing but a G thing.
Baby Too low down G, so wecrazy Death row is the label
that pays man Unfadable soplease don't try to fade this,
but I'm back to the lecture athand.

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Speaker 2 (00:38):
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Contact anybody when we talkabout our business ventures.
Join the team, have fun, becool.
Damn, we're actually startingto sound like a gang, huh.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Hang out with us.
It sounds like you're trying topush drugs.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
I'm not trying to do that.
I'm just trying to make surey'all join the team.
Y'all keep it lovely.
It's nothing but a G thing,team but a G thing Team.
Back to the lecture or thelegend at hand how y'all doing,
man?
Y'all having a good day?

(01:16):
I hope so.
So y'all?
There was a time in my lifewhere I said no to everything
just because I wanted to say no.
Say, for instance, somebodywould ask to use my car when

(01:37):
they didn't have a car and I'dbe like, no, I'm going to use my
car today.
And then, as me and this personare chilling in the house all
day, she would see me not use mycar.
Now I should have realized thatkarma is a mug, because,

(02:01):
unconsciously, this person hadharbored and she was waiting for
the time and the moment in lifewhere she could pay it back or
pay it forward.
However, you want to thinkabout that, which has been the
last two to three years of mylife, where I'll be like, hey,

(02:34):
I'll give you a little, justplay-by-play.
Oh, hey, yemi, do me a favor,yemi, do me a favor.
Yemi, yemi, yemi, do me a favor.
Yeah me, yeah me, yeah me, dome a favor.

(02:57):
The silence is deafening.
Huh, that's how I feel, and nowthat I've gotten to the point
of ultimate frustration with thelack of response, I have coined
a phrase that I feel like it'sstarting to grow and I feel like

(03:18):
it's starting to get to thepoint of annoyance, where I want
it to be, which is it don't payyou to be difficult.
Oh boy, snap, snap, snap, snap,snap.
Hey, I know the yummy face hasbeen very straight, but she was
like, yeah, deji did that.
Deji did that, I know, I did, Iknow.
Hey, I know I did, I know I did, I know I did.

(03:40):
And what are we talking abouttoday?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Today, I know I did.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
And what are we talking about today?
Today, we're talking aboutcattiness, catty, petty,
whatever you want to call it.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
Ask yourself who is the pettiest person that you
know.
It's a nigga, right, it'susually a nigga.
That's a lie, because thepettiest person I know is you.
It's not how I'm not petty.
You're like, intentionallypetty and I'm just not an

(04:12):
intentional petty person.
I just happen to like, incertain situations, think of
myself first, but you'reintentionally petty, like you
will know that the situation isthe way that you would respond
would be petty and you fullylean into it.

(04:34):
Me, it's unintentional.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
How can you unintentionally be petty?
How the hell did that sound?

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Sometimes it just happens like if, like I said, if
you have the tendency to thinkof yourself first which you know
uncandidly, I do and an outcomeof a situation turns out to be
petty, or I have a.
I have this thing where, likeyou know, some of the things
that I say come off as petty,but it's literally just meant to

(05:03):
be like a statement as it is.
It's never meant to be petty.
Like you know where you have topreface stuff and say no shade.
That's literally where I becoming from.
But I don't think I mean I,like I said, I think that you
know that it is uncharacteristicof you to be petty and you have
fully leaned into it recently,as of late, being petty because

(05:25):
you're trying to I don't knowmaybe match energy, or you just
don't have the patience thatyou're used to having, or maybe
for a bigger reason.
But yeah, I think that you havethe tendency to be petty for no
reason.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
So what was the?

Speaker 3 (05:39):
question.
Oh, oh, no question, but we'retoday.
We're talking about pettinessor levels two levels to
pettiness I.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
I like to think, because I was in a.
I was in a.
I heard something the other daythat if you don't monitor your
emotions, they tend to controlyou.
And the example they use isanger, like when it's a level
one anger, but because you don'tknow how to react, you always

(06:10):
act at a level three and I feellike pettiness is like that a
lot of the times, right, like ifyou feel like you've been, you
do this a lot.
That's why I said you talkabout me being petty.
You literally will not activelydo things because you feel like
you've been slighted before.
You know the situation.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
I'm not gonna speak no, give me like something that
teases it so I can think aboutit, because I don't know
everyday people who, who was Ibeing petty towards?
I wasn't being petty towardsthat person.
I didn't think I don't.
I don't know why people bethinking like okay, so if I have
an opinion about something, itcan literally just be an opinion

(06:52):
, but like I don't be caringabout stuff, like I don't care
about anything for real to whereI would let it affect me in a
way.
But I feel like it's okay tohave an opinion about something,
state your opinion and just letit be that.
Like I feel like it's yeah, butI didn't.
I haven't acted in a petty waytowards that person or in a

(07:15):
situation like I don't butyou'll actively avoid functions,
because that's not petty,though, like that's literally
preference, is that preference?

Speaker 2 (07:23):
so if everybody's going versus petty, thatference
versus petty.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
That's a conversation .
Is it preference though it is?
It is.
I mean, I feel like for mepersonally, like because I'm
like some way in the industrythat I work in but also still
have to be social in it, I feellike it's preference.
You can't go to everything, soI'm gonna make it a priority of

(07:47):
mine to only go to the thingsthat one I feel like would be
good for me to go to, but alsothings that I care to be at,
because I did go to an eventthat that person was at and just
because, like socially, myfriends were there, um, but that
didn't have any bearing on me.
Not going is what I'm saying.
Like I'm sorry to speak in incircles, but you know, we we're

(08:09):
trying to keep um, trying tokeep good, good relationships
with people trying to keep hopealive, trying to keep good
relationships with people.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
So hope alive or a steady copacetic.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
But yeah, like I don't think it's petty for me
not to want to go somewhere,because I have a preference on
the type of things that I wantwhen I go out socially okay but
like I think it would be pettyif I was intentionally stopping
that person's bag or likethrowing dirt on the person's
name that is associated with.

(08:41):
You know certain things, but Imean the, the people I have to
sneeze, the people that I fuckwith the promoters, that I fuck
with the people that I actuallywant to do things with have
sense.
Not as I won't, because I won'tsay that the people that do not
align with the way I thinkdon't have sense.
I just feel like it's business.

(09:01):
Some things are business andsome things are personal.
And, um, the stuff that'sbusiness, I keep business, and
the stuff that's personal, Ikeep personal.
I hear all that.
It's like a roundabout way totalk about what we're talking
about.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
But but I feel like at the same token it's it's
still categorized as petty yeah,it could be.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
I feel like there's a .
If there was another word thatis synonymous with petty, that's
like unintentional, I couldunderstand it being like that,
but for me really, it's justlike I think it's okay to know
what a situation is for you andto move different based off of
that.
But I agree, like for somepeople, yeah, if I explain that
to them fully, that could bepetty, but I don't know.

(09:42):
I feel like we can move onbecause we can talk.
I know, but it was just anexample, like I said like that's
not me being um intentionallypetty, but I do think, like if I
think about myself, but it isintention, though, right no, I
mean, I just feel like for me,at the end of the day, like me,
not going to somebody's event isnot going to have a bearing on
whether it's a good event or notso we can move on.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
But you can't say you intentionally do something but
it's unintentional right.
That doesn't make any sense,because in order for you to do
something you have to haveintention right right,
especially you can do thingswithout.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
I don't think you can .

Speaker 2 (10:15):
That's why I said, like when you say you can be
unintentionally petty, pettythat's like very hard to do,
like that's.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
That's basically saying you believe that you're
better than everybody no, whatI'm saying is that some things
come across that way even thoughthat was not what would come
off as petty some, some of thethings that I say, like I can be
very um direct.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's your own affect and that's and i'm- not
talking about anybody else.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
I'm talking about myself.
I can be very direct and someof the things that I say come
across as petty, but it's just amatter of fact but.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
But I also am.
Very.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
Direct yeah, but I don't think that it depends on
the situation.
If it's a particular situationand I say something and it comes
across as petty, then then thenthat's what it is, but that
that was not my intention.
My intention was just toprobably state my opinion, to
give an asked and answered.
It could be a myriad of things,but I just think that for me

(11:12):
personally, I'm not one of thosepeople that leads with bad
intention in anything that I do.
It may just come across thatway, but in my head I never do
anything with ill intention andI put that on everything that I
love.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Do you think that pettiness is even a useful form
of emotion?

Speaker 3 (11:30):
no, I do think it just comes from the fact that I
am a very passive aggressive,but I feel like, no, yeah, I
think that you know, it wouldfare better in the world if
people were just direct withtheir approach to everything and
everybody.
But I also think of conflictand confrontation, and those are

(11:52):
two things that I don't like.
So I would just prefer to bepassive, aggressive, say things
in a gentle, playful manner, orto just do it in my own Suki
style, which is kind of likeJust like keeping it funny but

(12:12):
also being dead ass, serious,sure.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Yeah, sure, okay, and that's just tact too.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
I think my tact in the way that I say things
because I be serious but likeyou never really know if I'm
like joking or serious but youreally think that men are the
most petty yeah y'all are pettyas hell, like you be gossiping I
don't gossip.

Speaker 2 (12:31):
Actually, when's the last time I gossip?

Speaker 3 (12:32):
not with me, but I'm sure when you get with your
people you be gossiping like menbe gossiping.
You gossip, everybody gossips,but men be gossiping like y'all
be in the business, y'all be in.
You know the phrase men'sbusiness and women's business
came because somebody along thelines got things crossed and I
feel like nine times out of tenis probably a nigga.

(12:54):
Most of the conflict thathappens on social media or most
of the discourse comes from anigga being in women's business.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Well, I don't do that at all.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
No, but we're not talking about you specifically.
We're talking about the world.
That's true, that's what we doon the podcast.
We talk about y'all.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
Okay.
So then what's the most recentpetty situation you've seen?
Oh, the Russell Wilson versusFuture.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
That shit is petty, but I mean, I feel like that
shit is hella petty.
It's petty on Future.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
No, it's petty on Russell's part.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
What is he doing Besides raising another nigga's
kids?

Speaker 2 (13:28):
See, that's what y'all, that's what women do oh
see there you go, got you.
I said women.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
Bring out that misogyny, because I knew it was
in you.
It was not.
I knew that misogyny was in you.
Sure, bring that up about you.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
Sure, let's say it as a man we all understand that
when a single baby mom is single, she has every right to date
whoever she wants to date.

Speaker 3 (13:49):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
Right, but there is no.
We understand the good graces,we understand the play date.
Hey, I want to be with thiswoman so bad that I will make
sure that I win her child over.
But, shumbo, there's a linewhen you start raising this kid
like he's your own and I have.
No, this is not me trying tojustify anything of anything of

(14:13):
what future has done.
I'm gonna just say it like thisyou have no right to dictate
what that person like you astepdad, you are a stepdad.
Your role is that.
So when decisions are made inthe house for that child, if the
mom is not making it she neededto call the pops.
I don't care if the pops isfuture.
It's not a decision you maketogether and you exclude the

(14:35):
father and the fact that futureactually spoke up about it One.
I guess it's because he's messyand we all know this.

Speaker 1 (14:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
But the second part is that like hey, at the end of
the day, that's my kid, likethat's my seed, that's one of my
loin, you feel me?

Speaker 3 (14:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
And that's something that Russell won't have ever.

Speaker 3 (14:56):
I don't care With that particular child, but he
has other kids with her.
I don't know.
I just think that, like, if anigga not doing what he's
supposed to do as a father, thenyou can't get mad at another
nigga doing his fatherly duties.
I don't see no problem withthat.
I feel like and also this is aseparate topic that we can talk

(15:16):
about for another day Don't comeover here with no kids asking
me to be stepmom, because fuckthem kids.
No shade to your kids, see andI was petty and I wasn't
intending on being petty, butfor real, that's not petty.
That's preference.
That's what I was just talkingabout earlier.
You told me that having apreference was petty.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
No, but you're taking a situation where you're
putting your own preference asbeing it might be considered
petty, but that's not petty.
It's own preference is being itmight be considered petty, but
that's not petty.
That's it's petty because ofthe world's view, but in all
actuality it's not petty if Isay, hey, I don't want to be
with somebody who got a kid.
Unfortunately, I don't want tobe with nobody who has a kid.
Yeah, don't matter how greatyou are of a person, yeah, I

(15:57):
need all the attention no, it'swell, that might be your
reasoning.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
Mine is just because I don't want to be in a
situation where, like I can'tnot that I believe in discipline
, but I don't want no kid totell me that I can't tell them
what to do because I'm you'renot my dad.
Well, you, motherfucking right,you can go find that nigga Like
and tell him to take you tobasketball practice if you want
to, or whatever the case may be.

(16:22):
You're not my mom, you damnright, and because of that I'm
not going to be cooking youdinner today.
You can figure out how you'regoing to eat Now.
They're calling CPS on me and Itold this nigga that I didn't
want to raise this baby.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
So that is actually petty.

Speaker 3 (16:37):
So let it be.

Speaker 2 (16:38):
That's petty.

Speaker 3 (16:38):
Let it be.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
But mine's petty too.
I'm not saying that I need thatmuch attention, I really don't.
But if it comes push, cut andthe shove and you be like, damn,
my kid's sick, I got to takecare of it, I'm going to be like
, okay, well.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
Have a good one, have a good one.
I just don't think that itmatches.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
Like.
I feel like you know, in thispeople just need to date folks
who match their lifestyle, likeyou have to date folks who?
But you don't meet people likethat.
Who doesn't?
You don't meet people like that.
Like what do you mean?
You meet people?
You meet people by living forthe people who actually do like
I.
I know I can meet somebody whois in the same life frame I am
because I actively go out butfor people most generally, most
people are doing it on datingapps so they don't know if you
have kids.
They only know you through your, your avi.

(17:27):
I feel like oh, your profilepicture yeah um, I think you can
but because, like, how are yousupposed to tell somebody got
kids?

Speaker 3 (17:35):
if you look at it, on your dating profile, have a
picture with the child that'snot information.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
People tell nor should you put that out in front
street, because there'spedophiles there's true there's
creeps true, yeah child.
I just feel like they talkingabout you know, we're getting to
the age to where, like folks,the number of people who are
dating have children as opposedto don't yeah, it's really
normal and the pickings aregoing to be slim well, and they,

(18:02):
they have a, they have a ruleof thumb the closer you get to
30, the more the dating pool ofpeople who are single without
children is doing it getssmaller and then when the other
side they say if you for a woman, specifically if you're single
over the age of 30 and don'thave no kids, they say what's
wrong with you as a guy?
It's great.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
Yeah, they're like, oh wow you've made it this far,
you're lucky, you're lucky.

Speaker 2 (18:26):
Yes, that's what they say.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
So I mean it's or you're fortunate enough to have
some money so you can kill them.
Sure, because if I ended uppregnant today, send the 500 you
said it already.
You said oh yeah, I say it allthe time, this is not news.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
We are a very progressive podcast.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
Yes, trigger.
Warning, we kill kids.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
No, we do not.
Don't say that shit like that.
What the fuck we?

Speaker 1 (18:57):
don't do it, the hell what we don't kill children.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
What the fuck.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Can you recall?

Speaker 1 (19:14):
something.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Pet, something petty that you have done recently.
Recently, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I've been going back andforth with my brother on
something, and I keep sayingthat I was like you have a
family.
I'm single, yeah, and he's likeand he said nigga ain't nobody
nigga.
I know I'm married, thank you.
I know I got kids.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
Amen, god bless the home.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
And it got to the point he said I'm thinking about
other folks.
I said I don't give a fuckabout them niggas, fuck them
niggas, like what?
But that's again.
But he's like hey, blah, blah,blah, I know what?
Again, I'm talking a veryroundabout way because I believe
in principalities.
You know, I'm a Christian, alsoI'm Yoruba.

(19:52):
We believe in principalities.

Speaker 3 (19:55):
Tradition.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
Yes, yes, exactly so.
I'm not going to speak.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
Rules of order.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
I'm not going to speak words and have people try
to sow seeds in my sow discordsin my field.
Do you feel me?

Speaker 3 (20:07):
What the hell are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (20:08):
You ain't watched Greenleaf.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
No, I did, but it's hard to get into.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
What For people who like acting?

Speaker 3 (20:19):
It's drama.
It's just dramatic in a waythat's like too much for me.
Like I like shows, I do, likeyou, like soap operas.
So that's why you likeGreenleaf, cause you used to
watch soap operas.

Speaker 2 (20:28):
You like reality TV shows?

Speaker 3 (20:31):
I do, but I, oh, it's a lot of drama, but it's that's
more like I don't know, I don'tknow what it is about,
greenleaf, that I didn't like.
I just felt like Black peoplewho are wealthy, I don't know,
probably the church, I don'tknow.
I don't know, I can't tell youwhat it is, but I watched like
the first couple of episodes,like the first couple of seasons
, for sure yeah, it definitelygets redundant, but you know

(20:53):
it's a good show.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
But what I'll say is this um, what the hell?
What was he talking?

Speaker 3 (20:59):
about the pettiest thing you've done.
Oh yeah, the pettiest thing.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
That was the pettiest thing I did with my brother and
my brother actually, he got, hegot hot, and then I was like oh
, why are you getting hot?
Because he's like no,motherfucker, I don't keep.
I was like I knew what he saidmotherfucker.
What did he say?
He was like nah, motherfuckerI'm thinking about the other
motherfuckers oh true okay, so,okay.

Speaker 3 (21:17):
So let's talk about that, like, when you are in a
situation where things get petty, how do you resolve the, the,
the situation?

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Oh well, me.
I usually take a step back andthen I'm like, yeah, my bad G.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
Yeah, I, I'm very quick.

Speaker 2 (21:33):
The thing about me is a lot of people don't notice I
talk a lot of shit but I am soquick to apologize.
I, I, if I know.

Speaker 3 (21:41):
I've done this to me.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
I've definitely apologized to you.

Speaker 3 (21:45):
Then one time you've apologized to me.
I just gaslit you, I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
I apologize, I don't I mean.
I don't apologize often cause Idon't often.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
You're often not wrong or you often just don't
apologize.

Speaker 2 (21:56):
No, I don't Cause you .
You would assume that I do alot wrong, but I don't do that
much.
Actually, I'm a pretty decenthuman being to Yemi, but, yeah,
usually that's what I do.
But because me and Tunde havesuch a close relationship and we
talk literally every day, weliterally were like we didn't
have to apologize.
It was like nah, bro, you wasright, you was right.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
But I was right too.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
No, it was like you, right.
I was like da-da-da, we'll dothis.
And then he was like nah, he'slike nah, I feel you.
I see what you was talkingabout, but that's how me and
Tune communicate.
It's a very like.
We're both very passionatepeople in different ways, so
it's hard, you know, when youhave two very passionate people
it's always like butting heads.
But then when things are smoothsailing, it's smooth sailing.

(22:49):
The last party thing I did toYemi was at our most recent
event, and it was whenever youasked for help.
I found a convenient excuse tosay no, you didn't know at the
time, but I felt very jadedbecause she decided not to talk
to me all week and I was likeyou're not going to talk to me
when you want me to do labor,but you can't even say hi or
hello to me.
That's it, simple, simple, tellme if I'm wrong.

(23:11):
The people, the people tell meif I'm wrong people.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
No, no, no.
Let the people, let the peoplesound off, but I'm going me like
I don't know what it is.
But people just like I'm noteven trying to be like to my own
horn, but like the people wholiterally love me and they be
acting like they don't and Ijust, I just be living my life
like what do you talk about?

Speaker 2 (23:33):
I wasn't even being passive.
All I wanted is a hi, hello,that's it.
It's not hard.
You see, we live in the samehouse, yes, and I think it's the
weirdest thing.
When somebody can walk rightpast, you know that you're there
and don't say nothing, and hetook it so personal and didn't
say anything.

Speaker 3 (23:48):
But then, yeah, yeah, I would just say this, like and
you, the people will probablysay that I was being petty, but
like we in here setting up forthe event and you, a man, why,
why is you mixing drinks whenyou see people moving?

Speaker 2 (24:01):
furniture.
First of all, don't that?
I actually did cut my finger.
You saw the band-aid.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
I did Okay, but then you said it.
And once you said it I left italone.
But before that I just outsidelooking in because I had went to
the car.

Speaker 2 (24:12):
I actually was going to do that right away, but then
I was like you know fuck it.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
Let the women do that , because that's women, women's
business.
One thing, no.
Or did you let?
Did you let?
No no, no, no, no, no, no, no,no, no, no, go ahead.
No, no, no.
Or did you let the way you feltabout not getting a hello deter
you from doing men's business?
That's very petty.
And that's, that's that'sthat's crazy that you allowed

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that to happen.

Speaker 2 (24:40):
Let's start One.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Because you cut your finger.

Speaker 2 (24:43):
One.
Let's start.
Yemi, you are a very sexistperson in the wrong way.
I'm not.
That was just very sexist Inone way Towards woman.
Now I will say this I'm not.
I will say this.

Speaker 3 (24:54):
I respect all the sexists.

Speaker 2 (24:55):
Yemi knows.
One of the things Yemi knows isif you, if you fail to
acknowledge me as a human, thatjust irks me, for whatever
reason I did not not acknowledgeyou, but you were like you have
not been the most.

Speaker 3 (25:10):
let me talk to this.
Let me talk to you, know, letme have a full conversation with
.
Deji Hi, hello For what we livetogether.
Like, Deji wants to be greetedlike he's a Nigerian uncle and
I'm his.

Speaker 2 (25:22):
Hi hello, I'm his mate, what?

Speaker 3 (25:25):
That's something we grew up on.
I give you a head nod, but youwere upset because I was not
giving you conversation and Ijust didn't have that for you
last week.
What?
No, I knew you were sick.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
Most of the time I was in the bed.
So what are you talking about?
Thank you for admitting that,because when you talk, I was
most of the time I was in thebed.

Speaker 3 (25:42):
So what are you talking about?
Thank you.
Thank you for admitting that,because when you talk about hi
hello, I can't fucking, I can'teven breathe, for real, Because.

Speaker 2 (25:49):
My head is hurting.
I don't like that.
I can't breathe through my nose.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
You could say hi.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
I spent most of the week.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Why would I do that?
How are you doing?

Speaker 2 (25:59):
How's your week going ?
Because I do that.

Speaker 3 (26:01):
I do that, when do you text me asking me how am I
doing?

Speaker 2 (26:04):
Because I just go in your room I'll be like, hey, how
are you doing?
Yes, yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
When you feeling all right, but I'm sick.
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (26:15):
I don't give a fuck what anybody's saying that's
what you're supposed to do whenyou like day people are going to
be like well it seems like Dejiloves Yemi a little bit more
than Yemi loves Deji.
And now you know what?

Speaker 3 (26:25):
All I'm trying to say is this Don't let that be the
hell you die on.
Don't let that be the hell thatyou die on.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
It's not but what I was trying to say.
All I wanted was a hi hello,Because then, when the event
comes, you're over here tryingto dictate me.
You can't dictate.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
Yeah, but we're doing business.
You shouldn't have let thataffect the business.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
I also didn't want to cut my finger three hours
before the event.
Okay.

Speaker 3 (26:47):
No problem.
Did you cut it really bad?
Because you don't have a badcut.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
It was one of those joints where you pull the nail
and there's a hangnail and itstarts bleeding.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
Oh, so that incapacitated you.
I feel like you was just beingpetty and you took it out on
everybody else.
I I feel like you was justbeing petty and you took it out
on everybody else.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
I learned not to get in front when women are doing.
You see, I didn't do a lot oftalking.
I let y'all run it when we havethe post-mortem tomorrow and we
talk about it when are yougoing to be?
Here.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
Oh, okay.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
Oh, I might have to go to Chicago but I'll be on the
call.
But yeah, when we do a littlepost-mortem I probably get bit
into, which rightfully so.
There's a few things I need toget bit into, but also I'm going
to do some biting because I didnot know the full scope no
problem that's it, you don'thave to do no biting.

Speaker 3 (27:38):
You could just be like I was unaware of certain
things but you know that's fine.

Speaker 2 (27:43):
But you're right, you know I'd be petty, but my petty
foot is my pettiness is taxal,like I am I don't think that was
the right place for you to dothat, but but it's not the point
.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
What I'm trying to say is that my pettiness is
usually 100 and I had no ideawhich makes it a little, which
makes speak to you, because Iwas sick all week and if y'all
y'all can still hear a littlebit of congestion in me now to
this day, it's becausedisregarding somebody makes them
feel like they're not.
I've told you, oh you.
You've been feeling inhumane,but that's not because of me

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inhumane.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
I said I feel very human, but I'm just saying
you've been feeling less likemyself.
Yes, yeah you know, I'm not,I'm not, I'm not, I'm not
clicking on 110 like yeah, sowhen you do things you have to
just think you.

Speaker 3 (28:31):
You be thinking it's millen ill intent and I was
literally sick all week, so I'mnot thinking about you.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
I'm sorry you don't have to be thinking about me.
That's not what I'm saying.
Listen, I see you hello, Iguess, but also like we live
together someone walked throughthe door, take everything off,
come into the kitchen, look atme and then go upstairs like
what, what?

Speaker 3 (28:55):
that's crazy, because I always do that, did you?
We live together, I see youevery day?

Speaker 2 (28:58):
what the fuck?
You will say something,something that will suffice as a
greeting.
I don't give a fuck.
If it's a fuck, I couldn't evengreeting.
I don't give a fuck.
If it's a fuck, I couldn't eventalk.
I'll give a fuck.

Speaker 3 (29:06):
If it's a fuck, you or hey, nigga or whatever, you
know whatever oh my goodness,not only was I sick, but I was
also on my period, so I was notworried about what they had
going on.
Life is life happens withoutyou.
Day g like life always has okay,and we happy that we have you
in it to live, but let's move on, because that's honestly, even
the even talking about this isvery petty Like this is so below

(29:27):
, below us.
I'm very laid back, I'm evenkeel, I'm joking, I'm kind of go
with the flow.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Wherever you need me I help.
But the one little passive, theone little toxic thing I have
is my pettiness and I know I tryto break it in so many ways.

(29:54):
I'm still trying to break it tothis day.
But I'm a very petty ass person.
Like I'm not talking likerespectfully, like I'm a
disrespectful in-your-face typeof petty person.
But if I don't choose to bepetty with you, that usually
means I don't give two shitsabout you.
And I've come to realize when Idon't want to give my energy

(30:15):
into pettiness towards somebodythat means that, like my life
will be good without you.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
I think the pettiest thing you could do to somebody
is just Be indifferent.
Just like I don't have goodwithout you.
I think the pettiest thing youcould do to somebody is just be
indifferent, just like I don'thave nothing for you.
Yeah, I don't have nothing foryou, cause, like, even if you
are on the attack, like in a mad, like in a negative way, like
you talking shit about them, youthrowing dirt on their name,
like you're still giving itenergy, but I think the pettiest

(30:51):
thing you can do is just leaveit alone, pay no mind.
What happened between you andwho, who are you talking about?
I don't even know that personexists.
What they're doing, like, whatearth they working on?
If it's this one, if it's thenext one, like I don't think I
would ever.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
I would never talk dirt on nobody's name.

Speaker 3 (31:02):
Do you think like that's real petty though, like
in life, Like if someone you'redating talking bad about them,
that's petty.
But also like if you see themin public not acknowledging them
.
That would probably be theworst thing you could do to me
and I'd probably snatch you fromlike a hood.
Actually, I probably wouldn'tdo anything, to be quite honest,
I probably wouldn't do anything.

(31:27):
To be quite honest, I probablywouldn't do anything.
I'd probably be really sadabout it.
That's always tough, though,because it's like how did it?
And and yeah, well, I mean likeif you're not talking to the
person because you're justindifferent to the situation.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Like, yeah, like I have people I don't talk to,
though, because I feel like, ifI talk to them, something might
come up like and I don't meanlike come up romantically, like
something might come up inconversation.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
I just meant like in general, like you could just
have a friend that you foughtout.
You felt, that's what I'msaying, that's what I that's
what I meant.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
Like it could be like that damn son.
So you just let me, you justlet me go out the way and never
reached out and I try to hit menothing yeah, I have a bad.

Speaker 3 (31:56):
I have a bad thing about like I'll be wondering
what my friends are doing, thatI'm not really close to anymore,
but also like I'm not in theposition to invest too much into
relationships.
But I would.
I really do like I really wishI could be one of those people
that just has like a reallystrong relationship with like a

(32:17):
particular group of girls.
Um, this is crazy because I'min a sorority, but I feel like,
yeah, like I just want to.
That's something that I need tounpetty unpetty is that
pettiness or is that just likeyou, just be tired I'm uh, I
would say so, but I just feellike for me I just need like my

(32:38):
own.
You know, I think it's veryhard as we become adults to like
form relationships, platonicthat are substantial.
So I just feel like for me, ifit's not my own, if it's not
personable or personal, if it'snot exclusive, I kind of don't
really want it and I feel likeeverybody already has that

(33:00):
established.
But you know, I don't know,that may be petty of me and my
thinking, but that's kind of howI feel about that.

Speaker 2 (33:07):
Um yeah, you know I'm always twisted, I'm torn, you
feel me.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
I still think that the pettiest person you know is
a nigga.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
So I doubt that.
So you said who's the pettiestperson you know nigga.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
So I doubt that.
So you said who's the pettiestperson you know?
A nigga, no, who?
No, not like directly, but Ifeel like when I think of people
who I'm asking you though no, Imean, I don't have a specific
person because I I don't knowbut I do know that the men that
I, that I have around me, that Iassociate with, they be saying
some petty ass shit.

Speaker 2 (33:44):
They'd be petty the pettiest person I know is in
this house yes, who is it?

Speaker 3 (33:49):
it's not you okay, I was about to say because you
could.
You could call it out.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
You could say my name no, you know who it is.
She's the pettiest person.
You know who she is.
Your mom yeah.
Is she the pettiest, yes.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
She just has a very innate way of like undercutting
and like just like doing things.
That that's what I'm saying.
I'm saying like her pettinessis not intentional and-.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
But it is.
But it is Because she didn'tget what she wanted.

Speaker 3 (34:22):
But it is yeah.
When she don't get what shewanted, but it is yeah.
When she don't get what shewants, she become the worst, the
prettiest.
I just never understood that.
Like how could somebody like mymother is a grown like, an
adult woman and if she does notget what she wants out of her
children, she will treat us likethe stepchildren and we're from

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her loins?
She pushed me out early becauseI was supposed to be born at the
end of july you pretty much wasI just, I just I feel like I
should have been a leo to bequite honest, things, things
would make so much more sense.
But, honestly, if I was a leoand I was a july leo I would
feel a type of way because Ifeel like leos in august make

(35:03):
more actually.
I don't know, I like being ajuly leo.
I would feel a type of waybecause I feel like leo's in
august make more actually.
I don't know, I like being ajuly baby in general, but we're
getting off topic, I think Idon't know.
But yeah, our mom is prettypetty, so that's where we get it
from.
Our dad is petty as well.
Extremely, you know what it is.
I think it's pisces, becauseboth of our parents are pisces
petty, petty Pisces.

(35:25):
If we didn't name theseepisodes with the letter G, that
would be the name of thisepisode Petty Pisces.
Cease to cease, because y'allbitches be petty as fuck.
I'm thinking about it.
Who's the messiest person?
You know the pettiest person.
You know it's a Pisces.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
So now you just went from it's a pisces.

Speaker 3 (35:43):
So now you just went from it was a nigga to now it's
a nigga who's a pisces andthere's no shade to the nigga
that's a pisces, that I know,but he's pretty petty.
But like, not in like a meanway, just like in a, you know
everybody has it in themeverybody has it in them.
I think everybody has theability to be petty and your
maturity is how you decide totake it, and I feel like, for me
, everyone is looking for me tobe like this petty, yummy, yummy

(36:06):
, mean person and I really amnot like.
I really, at the end of the day, for me, I feel like my
reaction to things is to justnot care sure and it's not about
being intentionally petty.
I just don't give a fuck abouta lot of stuff sure friend you
don't believe.
So I said sure, friend, I justfeel like I'm not.

(36:27):
I don't know, I don't think I'mintentionally petty.
I feel like I got into asituation where, like the people
in the room thought I was beingpetty because, like I
completely forgot about asituation.
It was like a card game, youknow, like those drinking games
and a card came up and it waslike a card game, you know, like
those drinking games, and acard came up and it was like
something that was like messyright and I didn't peep until it

(36:50):
clicked for me that the cardhad like some sort of
significance for some people inthe room.
And when I finally got it I waslike oh, no, no, no.
I was like oh.
And then everybody else waslike damn, suki, you being petty
.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
And.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
I'm like, I'm really not.
I really don't give a fuckabout what y'all be telling me.
I don't know shady shit, butlike you, just don't be
remembering.
I just like.
I feel like if it's not mybusiness, it's not my business?

Speaker 2 (37:14):
It's not my business.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
I do live by that rule too.
The rule because people willcall you petty and it's really
just.
I'm not one of those peoplethat are that invested into shit
that don't got nothing to dowith me.
If I tell you all the stuffthat I have going on in my life
right now, you would be likegirl.
How do you keep it all togetherin your brain?

Speaker 2 (37:32):
I don't, I don't, I just when it comes in.

Speaker 3 (37:35):
That's when it comes in.
It comes out like and if it, ifit comes in and it don't got
shit to do with what I got goingon in my life, I'll push it to
the side.
So that way, when it happened,when it happened and it clicked,
I was like oh, and they thoughtI was being petty and I was
like no, I literally forgot andI just remembered.
But now y'all got me out hereas public enemy and it didn't

(37:56):
even give that, because but Iunderstand where that comes from
, because I just give that off Itell you it's the affect, but
that's something you can changeI think so, but I honestly like
we talked about it before youcan't change people's perception
of you because but fuck themyeah it's not really for them to
.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Honestly, everything you do is for yourself.
If you change and you like whoyou are, then are you good?
Yeah, that's what?
The same thing.
I used to be a very pettyperson.
So the fact that I'm talkingabout this openly and letting
people know like I used to doextreme, like my pettiness knew
no bounds, like I would be inhere plotting plot, it was like
one of my most DV.
It was like the one time wherepeople could not like I'm a very

(38:33):
transparent person, like youusually know what I'm doing a
thousand, a thousand miles away,but when I would want to be
petty, I'm telling you right nowI was unmatched, I was
unmatched, I was unmatched andthat's it.
But we could move on because,you know, I feel like we beat

(38:54):
this to a head.
So let's do some.
I have a segment, but I'll waitfor us to do our regular stuff.
Oh, you over here doing stuffdifferent.
Now no, we said, we were gonnado this.
Really, remember back you werelike oh yeah, let's talk about.
Uh, this is r&b thug, where wediscuss musical lyrics let's do
that then okay.
Well, you have to pull up themusical lyric okay, what's the
song?

(39:15):
Saturn remember, um sure, butwe don't I have other songs as
well.

Speaker 3 (39:20):
I don't know if that necessarily fits with the theme
of today's episode.
Not that it has to.
We can pull up Saturn anddissect it.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
We could go over Kill Bill, but we've already done.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Cezanne, I might kill my ex.
Not the best idea.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
Oh, I actually have a really good song that we could
do.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
How did I get here?
I might kill my ex.
I still don't know.

Speaker 3 (39:50):
Actually I feel like we should do Saturn for a
different episode.
Okay, that's fine.
Yeah, let's do the ghettointellectual because, deji, you
actually asked me this questionand I thought this would be a
good answer, good question foryou to answer on ghetto
intellectual.
You asked the question, ask thisso we're not doing r&b though
no that's fine friends, we'llsave that for a different

(40:11):
episode, because I actually needto look at the lyrics and
interpret them for myself.
But I did what?
The lyrics that I did here fromsaturn was fire.
But we're gonna save that for adifferent episode, um, because
that could go with somethingelse 100 but%.
But the gut and intellectualquestion is this and I feel like
it comes in line with pettinessyou said after someone has left
your life, when is anappropriate time to re-invite

(40:35):
them back into your life, ifthat's even an option?

Speaker 2 (40:37):
Oh, I did ask you that question.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
You did ask me that question and I said save that
for later.
Also don't Me personally, okay.
So look, asked me that questionand I said save that for later.
Also don't me personally okayso I think it's contingent, but
like, yes, you can go ahead uh,I mean obviously, if it's
contingent, but if it's a ghetto, answer shit I guess this is
always your ghetto.

Speaker 2 (40:55):
Intellectual answer my ghetto intellectual answer is
sugar and spice and everything.
Nice type of answer it dependshow I'm feeling on the night.
You know what I'm sayinghonestly, honestly.
That's real, that's the realshit like I'm saying that like
like if I'm feeling like man, Ican't believe this person did
this shit to me, like becauseyou know I'm saying that and
like because you know everynight is different, but in

(41:15):
totality, if I step back and belike, oh no, this person was
really good to me, it would beit'd have to be.
How did how do I think thisperson was really good to me?
It would be it'd have to be.
How did how do I think thisperson perceives me?
If I feel like the personperceives me pretty favorably,
which yeah like for most of thetime.
There's never been somebody whoI was messing with.
Don't get me wrong.
I got.

(41:36):
I have my strikeouts where Iwould never reach out to that
woman again.
You know what I'm saying.
Oh, so this is somebody thatyou dated.
No, oh, I was saying this ingeneral because I was thinking
about how a lot of my friendsare getting married and you were
, and you've been complainingabout the dates and I'm like
shit, what do you want me to?

Speaker 3 (41:54):
do, just because I don't like when people plan they
uh, they like birthdays,weddings, around holidays, right
, like I only get this holidayoff for work and or for whatever
and you want me to spend itwith you celebrating you.
It's no shade, but I just feellike I get it financially but
also like I want to do hood rest, shit or you know, and I don't

(42:16):
want to have to be limited tothe things that I can do but I
started because I want tocelebrate you or be a part of
your union or whatever the fuck.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
So that's why I started thinking about it,
because I was like damn, likeyou had a whole this time to
kind of get back into contactwith me, but because you want my
gift.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
Oh, you want me to be there for your special day.

Speaker 2 (42:36):
Like what the fuck.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
So what you?

Speaker 2 (42:38):
gonna do.
We gonna catch up and talk likewe friends.
You know what I we gonna catchup and talk like we friends.
You know I'm saying there's alot of things that we we've.
I you know like I myself havelived life, so I can't only
imagine what you have right,yeah, especially when I've tried
to reach out.

Speaker 3 (42:54):
So then it's like interesting.
I feel like it's contingent onhow things ended.
Like if they ended on goodterms, then yeah for sure.
If they ended on bad terms,definitely not.
But if it's like this, likeambient in between hot, cold
type of thing, I don't know, ifyou feel like that, you should
probably just wait it out.
Also, just think about likewhat, for what?

(43:14):
You know what I mean.
Like if someone is not in yourlife anymore, what's what's to
having them re-enter your lifeor be a re-part of your life,
like in a different capacity,because of course it's not going
to be in the same capacity.
Like I'll be thinking aboutthat, like, especially when I
get drunk, because I'll be likedamn, I got shit to say.
But I'm also like for what?
Because the worst thing youcould do is the worst thing that

(43:36):
could happen for me is I like,uh, like get off of my, my ego
or whatever, and I reach out,and it's not receptive the way
that I would want it to be.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
That's the worst thing that can happen.

Speaker 3 (43:52):
That's why I do that shit sober, because then I'm
like at least at least you didit with a clear mind, yes, but
you know, the alcohol give youcourage not me, well, because
you courage to say the shit, you, you, the spicy shit yes but at
least when you do it with aclear mind, you could say this,
that you did it like with, withthe, with the sound decision,
like you did it with, like, yeah, um, I feel that twofold.

(44:14):
Like I feel like the same waywhen you drunk for show, when
you sober, for sure.
But I just feel like I want tomake sure that when I do get lit
, my mind is is thinking thesame way that my sober mind
would think, but just withoutthe verbato, like without that
extra push, because I I'm okaywith, you know, talking my shit,

(44:34):
sober, drunk, what all thethings.
But, um, yeah, so that wasghetto, intellectual.
What do y'all think?
Do y'all think you should be,um, reaching out to anybody that
has left your life?
And do you think it'scontingent?
And what is it contingent on?

Speaker 2 (44:48):
I think it, and this crazy thing is, I think it's
easier when it's been a lover asopposed to a friend.
Oh, I think, because for me, Ialways have a challenge with
friends because I'm like man, we, we, we parted.
Because we parted.
Whatever happened happened.
It is what it is for sure.

Speaker 3 (45:03):
I mean, I give everyone the this space to come
back into my life like forwhatever, whatever it was
romantic and not romantic, like,but you just have to.

Speaker 2 (45:11):
I just need at this point in my life, like for what
you know, but for me, it'sbecause I know how much I invest
and if I'm gonna do that with afriendship bruh, we locked in.
So whatever you tell me you'regoing through, we going through
it.
We finna go through thistransfer, we finna get it
together.
We finna get it done.
You feel me, but as a sametoken, I don't want to be in

(45:32):
that same position where I tryto lean on you and you not there
.

Speaker 3 (45:35):
I would never lean on anybody that left my life Like
that's not Right.
Well, well, well, well, okay.
No, I say that and now that Ithink about it, that might be
because then that your friend,somebody that you dated, they
know you better than anybodyelse and it's like I feel like
for me, I just have this thingwhere I'm like, damn, this would

(45:55):
have been such a good thing totalk about with this person
because they understand, I don'teven think about it.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
That's what I'll be thinking like.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
I'll be thinking about my friends and I'll be
thinking about like situationsthat I feel like damn they would
have.
Like this is just.
I just need to tell them thisand I feel like if you know it'd
be weird I do that with music.

Speaker 2 (46:14):
I do that with music, music tweets like anything,
like, like anything I'd be likedamn motherfucker would love
this song.
Yes, sure you would have lovedthat song, you know.

Speaker 3 (46:23):
Yes, yes, yes, yes or and yeah, that's more so what
it is and in those situationslike you kind of just got to eat
that, but that's, that's likethat's a good topic to talk
about with like a mass of peopleof course that'd be, uh, that's
a um, that's a, that's a think,that's a think joint yeah, well
, I was also thinking like asunday session, like songs that

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you, that you want, that youcould send to somebody yeah, um,
okay, so let's move on tothings I send ag on twitter.
I sent this tweet to you march14th, 2024, the year that we're
in right now.
Um, it's a video of the of thefight that broke out on the on

(47:05):
the train in new york.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
So funny, oh my goodness, I would laugh a little
bit harder, but I'm goingthrough life.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
Uh, but is she talking about whereish?
The door, the door, the door,the door, the door, the door,
the door, the door, the door,the door, the door, the door,
the door, the door, the door,the door, the door, the door,
the door, the door, the door,the door, the door, the door,
the door, the door, the door,the door, the door, the.
Let me out.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out, let
me out.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
Let me out.

Speaker 3 (48:01):
Okay, y'all, that's not funny.
Okay, gunshots is not funny.
Trigger, warning, trigger,warning's not funny.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
Okay, gunshots is not funny.

Speaker 3 (48:06):
Trigger warning, trigger warning, yes, trigger
warning gunshots but um it's notfunny because you know, you
know somebody ended up losingtheir life exactly.
But it was funny because shewas recorded the whole time
talking about let me out, let meout.
And then she turned the cameraon herself Because are you

(48:27):
really that scared?
But also like, look how far theworld has come.
Where, like you're in danger andyou pulling out your phone to
tell people to let you out Likebitch, even if you post, even if
you are alive.
You think I'm finna.
Come to where a nigga with agun is on a train in New York to
come and help save your, yourlife.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
I was just there.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
I'm cool, shorty oh my goodness, it was just so
funny because she got an accent.
You could tell she's been inthe states for a little bit, but
she's still african, yeah, soshe talked about me out even
before that.
Excuse me, she was like.
She was like, man, go stop them, go stop them.
I'm right here, girl bro.
I'm right here, bro, stop them.
Oh, my goodness, that's just sofunny.
But yes, um, that was, that was.

(49:09):
That was.
That was great so she sent thatto me because she wanted to
laugh yeah, you know we'd belaughing about stuff that's not
supposed to be funny for real,but of course we all do.
We all have a wicked sense ofhumor yeah, also my humor is dry
, but I it's that was dry no, nothat that video wasn't dry, but
what preceded?

Speaker 2 (49:26):
that was that buddy got stabbed, so the whole video
oh yeah, we'll post the videothe video is very wild.

Speaker 3 (49:32):
Yes, yes yeah, the girl's stabbing him the dude, he
was fighting the one guy andthen the girl stabbed him and
she was like you stabbed a cop,he wasn't a police.
Yeah, exactly, he wasn't apolice.
You know, people in new yorkare crazy.
I don't know what.
What they got in the water.
I just I don't understand howy'all it's too many people I
just don't understand how likey'all live like that like it's

(49:52):
too many people.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
Y'all have very small quarters like it's a lot you.
You're dealing with a lot.

Speaker 3 (49:57):
You feel me but the people that I know I mean like
the people that I work with atmy job they like cheerful and be
in New York.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
Because they have money.

Speaker 3 (50:04):
Yeah, but even my boss.
I know that man make money he'stalking about.
Yeah, you know we live in alittle one bedroom apartment in
New York and I'm like but yougot, I know you got bands
Because he want to.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
Yeah, probably because of location.

Speaker 2 (50:18):
People will live some places just because of location
.
It's the easy I'm right by thesubway or yeah, he lives in
Brooklyn.
Brooklyn's a good place.
Yeah, I love Brooklyn.
Okay, honestly, it was cool andthey just go to New York now,
you.

Speaker 3 (50:30):
I feel like you've been to New York too many times.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
I do like New York.

Speaker 3 (50:34):
Yeah, you would move there.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
No, no Hell, no hands a lot man just getting used to
the grime is it's enough it'slike a two-day adjustment it's
enough two days two, four days,and then I'm like, all right,
cool oh, like cool you can Ifeel like I don't need to always

(50:55):
put on hand sanitizer.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
Yeah, but other than that, it's fun it's just, we
just don't never go to sleep,and we like we like sleep I like
sleep chicago be asleep becausethey need all the black people
to be up and out the out the wayI just like it.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
It's a good time.
What are we missing?
I?

Speaker 1 (51:14):
don't know, I didn't really like new york.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
I feel like if you went again, I gotta go one time
I feel like there's like bitsand pieces from the trips that
I've gone on that I appreciate,but in totality the times that
I've gone to New York, I haven'thad like an experience that
made me feel like, oh mygoodness, I need to go back.
Like I've been there twice forwork and the second time.

(51:39):
The last time I went there iswhen the fires from Canada was
coming so a bitch couldn'tbreathe.
The sky was yellow and like Iwas actually like the last day I
was planning to go out was whenthe sky was yellow and I was
like, damn, I gotta be in ahotel room all day and that's
fine.
I went and got a chopped cheeseand I went to the not to the

(52:00):
bodega, but I went to one ofthese like dispensaries, cause
they just sell weed anywhere buyme some weed and I just got
high in the hotel room.
I went to sleep.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
I woke up and caught a flight back home yeah, the
bodega, I don't know, but thechopped cheese, but you, I'll go
to back to new york for thechopped cheese.
But you go to new york at theright time, because I ain't
never been in the summer, andthat's the thing I just need at
this point.
I just need to go to new yorkin the summer.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Yeah, I'm straight yeah, I want to go to new york.
In this, I feel like that's theexperience I'm missing, because
I haven't gone to new york tojust be like a tourist for real.
It's always been like for work,or we're doing rolling loud and
we can't do anything but go tothe concert, or even when we
never do that, even when we wentfor, when we went for barnaby

(52:46):
white.
That was a good weekend, thoughthat was that was a good weekend
because, like, we only had theone day where we were tied to
stuff and then we were able todo other things.
But even like that last daywhen we went to soho, I was like
I'm ready to go we went to soholike the area, not soho house I
was about to say we went toSoho to do like shopping, but
there was no places in the shopin Soho.
Really yeah.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
But then people said they don't really be going
shopping in Soho.
That's what I've been hearing.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
No.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
But no, it was a good time.
It was a little good time.
I'm very happy, all right, butwe had our first event, dirty
Denim.

Speaker 3 (53:34):
Yummy, what you about the event?
I think it was great.
I feel like that could be itsown episode, and we should
probably make it one.
How are we looking for time?
Good, we're at 55, okay, yeah,we can wrap up this episode then
.
Um, thank you so much.
We're gonna talk about dirty,dirty denim at a later date.
Thank you so much for the folksthat showed up.
It was a good turnout for ourfirst event and we're definitely
going to scale up.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
And plan another.

Speaker 3 (53:51):
The only way to make sure that you get informed about
the events that we're doing isto follow us on social medias.
I am Suki G's on Instagram andTwitter.
That is S-U-K-I-G, double E-Z,because I make everything that I
try look twice as easy.
On TikTok.
I am DJ Suki G's, that'sD-J-S-U-K-I-G-E-Z.

(54:12):
Nothing but a G thing on socialmedia.
We are nothing.
Spelled all the way outN-O-T-H-I-N-G.
On Instagram and Twitter.
We are active, we are activethere.
If you communicate with us, wewill communicate.
Twitter we are active, we areactive there.
If you communicate with us, wewill communicate back.
We are also on TikTok atnothing.
Spelled all the way outN-O-T-H-I-N-G.
Capital B, capital A, capital G, thing spelled all the way out.

(54:36):
That's on TikTok as well, deji.

Speaker 2 (54:39):
You can follow me on IG and Twitter at the R-M&B
underscore thug.
I'm sorry, the R&B thugunderscore daji.
R&b is spelled R and B.
Lastly, what I always like tosay y'all keep it lovely.

Speaker 3 (54:56):
Free mellow bucks.

Speaker 2 (54:58):
Free more bucks.
Free mellow bucks, mellow bucks, free mellow bucks.
Condolences to the people of bemore baltimore.

Speaker 3 (55:06):
That bridge falling is just that.
Shit is one of the scariestthings.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
That's why, my goodness, I don't even imagine I
don't even get good when I'm ona bridge.
That's actually one of my likefinal destiny yours.

Speaker 3 (55:16):
Yeah, I'll be speeding across them, bitches,
oh my god on bridges for nothing, oh my goodness, especially
since, like chicago, has bridgestoo.
Yeah, I don't like being onbridges for nothing, oh my
goodness, especially since, likeChicago, has bridges too.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
Yeah, I don't like that shit.
I'd be trying to figure out howto get off the motherfuckers as
soon as you get on the bridges,as soon.
Oh, my goodness, I don't eventrust them, but yeah prayers for
all those people.

Speaker 3 (55:32):
Also, I'm rooting on LSU to make it to the final four
and to win the championship.
I don't give a about Iowa andCaitlin Clark and I can talk
shit about that place because Iwent to school there for four
years.
They don't give a fuck aboutblack people, just like George
Bush.
And that's where I end thisright here Angel Reese, anissa

(55:55):
Morrow from Chicago.
If they make it to the, if theybeat Iowa, or if it's Iowa and
LSU again playing on that side,I'm getting an Iowa jersey with
Anissa Morrow on it, becausethat's a superstar right there.
She was at DePaul.

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Wait, is she on?

Speaker 3 (56:14):
Iowa.
No, she's on LSU, she's fromChicago.
She went to DePaul for twoyears and then transferred but
when she was at DePaul she wasaveraging like 27, 28 points a
game, like double digitsrebounds, like averaging a
double-double.
She transferred to LSU andshe's literally like one of
their best.

(56:34):
Well, they have a lot of goodplayers on their team but she's
one of the best players but shejust gets overlooked because
Angel Reese but she's dope asfuck and I need Samara for the
the win.
I'm team LSU all the way forthe repeat.
Got you Fuck.
Kaylin Clark, no shade.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
You heard?

Speaker 3 (56:47):
her.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
She's cool, we're going to catch up.

Speaker 3 (56:50):
We're going to talk about that in episode two.

Speaker 1 (56:53):
Cause ain't nothing but a G-Bang.
Baby Too low, damn G.
So we crazy.
Death row is the label thatpays man.

Speaker 2 (57:05):
Unfadable, so please don't try to fade this.
But back to the lecture at hand.