Good Good

You can be "good good" or you can be good but, you can't be good-er than us....

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Because ain't nothing but a cheap bang baby To low
down G.
So we crazy Death grow againstthe label that pays man
Unfatable.
So please don't try to fadethis.
But I'm back to the lecture athand.
Back to the lecture, or legend,at hand.

(00:21):
This one gonna be veryroundabout, but we gonna get
there.
You know, as being an oldersibling, you learn a lot of
times how to bite your tongue.
You know, younger siblings tendto complain about things that

(00:42):
are kind of useless and thenthey do things like you know
throw your jacket on the groundwhen there's other places to put
your jacket, but because theywanna make a point or emphasize
that you are affecting a commonspace, cause ain't nothing but a
cheap bang baby To low down G.

(01:05):
So we crazy Death grow againstthe label that pays man
Unfatable.
So please don't try to fadethis.
But I'm back to the lecture athand.
Between iPhone 13 and Mi aroseand the series that's what Gแ

(01:43):
are kind of useless.
And then they do things like youknow throw your jacket on the
ground when there's other placesto put your jacket, but because
they wanna make a point oremphasize that you are affecting
a common space, let that beknown a common space.

(02:04):
Right, that they haveself-proclaimed their own.
When you live in a home withother people, it just starts to
get on your nerves.
You know what I'm saying.
As mild-mannered as oneindividual being myself can be,
you know they try and test yourpace.

(02:24):
It's almost like somebody say,being in a romantic relationship
, you know, and in this episode,like I said, it's gonna be a
roundabout way.
I talked about having a youngersibling who tends to always
want to feel heard and make surethat her opinion is being

(02:45):
valued.
But, shumbo, how can I as a man, you know, trying to be a good
man, you know we have ourstumbles Introduce someone new
in my life to someone who wantsto bring so much chaos into mind

(03:06):
.
They say blood is thicker thanwater.
God damn it.
Sometimes you need to let shitburn.
What by one of my favorite R&Bartists shout out to my man?

(03:27):
Usher recently put out a song.
You know he had Let it BurnConfessions Part Two, and he had
Good, good.
So if y'all have been keepingon track, I used right, because
you, I used the tension.
I used the tension of being anolder brother to a little sister

(03:51):
who want to complain about bullschnike and how that little
thing can affect a relationshipthat I am trying to partake with
said individual.
Or vice versa.
What, what?
Vice versa and how?

(04:14):
Sometimes, when you think aboutspinning the block or that,
good good, you have to take astep back and you'd be like is
it worth it to do all the workagain?

Speaker 2 (04:29):
I feel like you're talking.
Did you say you was talking incircles or roundabout way?
It was a roundabout way BecauseI feel like you.
You know how when people tell astory but they don't want to
give you all the context to thestory.
But I feel like you just toldlike three different things, so
let's figure out how to get them.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Nope, I told one thing I said.
I started it off with ananecdote.
An adult is yummy is being verypicky about something that is
very trivial, hmm, interesting.
Now the second part of theanecdote is what does the
anecdote mean?
If I am trying to get in saidrelationship with somebody and

(05:10):
it doesn't work out and I'mmaybe begrudging or feel a type
of way about that, I now have togo through that process of
reintroducing this person intomy most sacred and dynamic
relationships, being my family,because we parted ways.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Wait, so you saying that somebody that you dated in
the past is trying to spin ablock on you, or you're trying
to spin a block on somebody thatyou dated?

Speaker 1 (05:37):
That's what we're talking about.
Okay, you know I don't believein spending the block, you know
this Okay.
But today, inevitably, wetalking about spending the block
, and I'm just talking, I wasjust giving a hypothetical you
know, because not really ahypothetical Yummy has made her
opinion very well known in myown love life.
Actually, everybody has madetheir opinion known in my own

(06:00):
love life.
The only one who doesn't havean opinion sometimes is my damn
self.
Yeah, crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
Well.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
Who would have known?

Speaker 2 (06:09):
that out of the-.
So that's the thing.
So you try to make it seem like, oh, I'm the one that is being
persecuted or I'm the one thatis doing the persecution, but
your other brother is the mainone.
Like, I learned that from him.
I learned that from him.
He has something to say aboutevery.
Okay, Nah, I'm lying.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
Nah, nah, nah, nah.
I'm lying, so I'm lying.
I don't know if I'll ever finda perfect woman with these two
motherfuckers, but Chumbo youcan be close, we give it to
college.
I don't think anybody isperfect.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
I don't think that I'm perfect, so why would I feel
like you're gonna find somebodywho is perfect?

Speaker 1 (06:45):
The way you intend it , y'all Okay.
So let's just say you know, we-.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
So what's the episode today?
What are we talking about?

Speaker 1 (06:53):
It's.
The episode is yummy.
You have the mill in the note.
Yeah, Is this good, good, Sure,what else would it be if I just
used that?

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Okay, so we're talking about the song ushering.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
The song is saying like I know that we didn't make
it till forever.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yes, Probably eight, in fact the day going back
together, yes, but that don'tmean that we can that we can
It'd be the we ain't good, good,good, but we still good, Okay.
So I really was trying to giveyou the clip notes, Like I was
feeding you the lyrics, Like Iwas the assistant to that.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
And I don't memorize lyrics.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
We know that already, so I don't even know why you
started singing with me.
Because-.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
Because I can't.
It's part of the R&B thug term.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
But, chumbo, I said it again, we are talking about A
lot of us today Booty, booty,booty, booty, rocking everywhere
.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
We are talking about the Spinning the block, spinning
the block.
But why are we talking aboutspinning the block?
Well, if you listened to GreatStart, which was our last
episode, first episode of 2024.
Ooh, yemi had this idea of theU-turn.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
I said that.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yes, you did.
Okay, U-turn, whatever the fuckshe said the why the?

Speaker 2 (08:13):
why turn the three point turn?

Speaker 1 (08:15):
So let's just start off with what the hell is any of
those things?
Right, you can start off withwhatever one you would like to
explain.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
I mean, I really can't remember what I said even
though it was last week, but Ifeel like for me, spinning the
block U-turn, three point turn,really, just for me, I feel like
if y'all were never in acommitted relationship before
and y'all were just like in thissituation, ship dating, kicking

(08:45):
, all these things that reallydon't make any sense to me, to
me personally, I mean, yeah, butwhat's the difference between
like dating, talking to somebody, like exclusively dating, you
know, type shit?
Like if you never defined therelationship and it was like
we're committed to each otherand each other, only Like, if no

(09:06):
one asked can you be mygirlfriend?
Can you?
Like you would never ask thatLike.
I feel like you have theopportunity to spin the block,
but when you do this time around, you need to be very
intentional and you need to say,like, what it is and what it's
not.
So if you never had thatpre-conversation, yes, you can
spin the block.
If it comes to the point towhere y'all reconnect and y'all

(09:30):
define the relationship and it'sset in stone that we are
together, we're only talking toeach other.
Unless you're Polly, that'syour business.
But like, if that becomes thecase, then there's no spinning
the block Before that?
For sure, because we were justlike in this, like purgatory,
like in between gray area.
Now we're defining it, we'resaying what it is.
There's a commitment attachedto this, there's loyalty

(09:53):
attached to this.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Once you cross that, I don't know if there's any
going back after that.
I don't think there is no grayarea, though I think it's a
miscommunication.
I think the gray area isbecause people don't have the
conversation.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, people be having like different intentions
when they start dating, whenthey are dating, and I feel like
nobody ever really wants to beclear or Guys, I'm very clear,
well, okay, you are.
But I feel like, for themajority, I feel like and
speaking for myself, I feel likethere was a situation where,
like it wasn't really clear orit wasn't really direct, because

(10:28):
, like you wanna keep fuckingwith somebody, but like that
might not be what they want.
You know what I mean.
Like y'all need to be on thesame accord and I just feel like
dating nowadays is kind of justlike.
Like everybody has this likecomplex of like ego where they
don't wanna be there's trauma,yeah, trauma, and I feel like in
anything like if you're beingheld back by your trauma or

(10:50):
you're allowing your trauma todefine you.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Which the majority of people do.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Then you're not getting anywhere.
I feel like you have to fullylean in and fully commit,
because that's the only way tosee like whatever the outcome is
gonna be Right.
Sure, but my question is- Letme look, let me pull up the
lyrics to see what else he wastalking about in the song.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
But my question is what the hell is a U-turn, what
the hell is a three point turn,what the hell is a Y?

Speaker 2 (11:17):
A U-turn is when you go in a U, so you start at one
point and you turn back around.
A three point turn is where youstart at one side, you go to
the other side and then youreverse back.
It's just different ways ofgoing backwards.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
So basically you're saying a U-turn is when Help me
if I'm confused A three pointturn, I understand, because
you're saying you're going toanother destination.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
I'm not speaking metaphorically, I'm speaking
direct.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
A U turn is when you go turn around in a U, but you
use those terms Like I said Idon't remember what I said.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
I don't even remember what I said 20 minutes ago.
You remember what I said lastweek or the last time we
recorded?

Speaker 1 (11:59):
That's why we call a call back.
But Shumbo, I mean I agree withyou, but I guess I agree with
you.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
You tell me what I said, remind me.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
I agree with you to the extent as simple as this.

Speaker 2 (12:13):
But I mean, I feel like if you good good, you good
good with the person that youdating I'm sorry, go ahead,
because I'm looking at thelyrics right now.
We'll interpret these after youfinish your point.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, all I was going to say is that I think if
you're clearing yourcommunication, at the end of the
day people are inevitably goingto fill away, based on how
everything plays out.
Me, I try to make everythingsuper easy.
I have a rule that if we're notexclusive or if I'm not

(12:41):
committed to you, then I usuallyleave it on the other party to
end it, and then I keep movingabout my business, just because
at that point, what does it doto me if we just kicking it?
You know what I'm saying.
I'm not really vested and I'mnot really wasting time.
It might suck that it ended,but at the end of the day, oh

(13:03):
well, you know what.
I'm saying and that's the way.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
That's how you feel, like, if you actually like
somebody, are you like oh well,that it ended Like yes, okay.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
Not in a.
So I'm saying that in a matterof fact way.
But I'm saying that in a waythat, like, yeah, I don't be
chasing nobody, If we cut it, wecut it.
I don't pay attention todaylive.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
I move on, but if we see each other, it's hi, hello,
I hope you're having a wonderfullife and I really do hope that
honestly.
I hope that any person thatI've been with romantically,
that they are having the besttime of their life and they're
finding whatever brings them joy.
But that's also because Iunderstand that like and I got a
reminder of this in 2023, butnobody is really yours.

(13:47):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
So, like that's what the people who be Pauly be
saying, that's why they be Pauly, because they, like I mean at
the end of the day, like, yeah,everybody they Pauly, because
they can.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
they can accept being in a relationship with multiple
people.
Me, that statement just meansthat, like, unless somebody is
choosing to be with me, then Idon't have to choose to be with
them and that's justreciprocation.
That's why I'm like it is whatit is.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
If you reciprocate to me that you don't want to mess
with me, then at the end of theday, I'm not going to mess with
you For sure, like I would neverbeg nobody to be in a
relationship with me, especiallysince I know that I have all of
these amazing, amazingqualities about myself and
anybody would be lucky to be ina relationship with me.
That's no shade, I'm not sayingthat.

(14:34):
Like you know, I'm not.
Also let me not try to.
Yes, anybody would be lucky tobe in a relationship with me.
I was trying to be.
I was trying to, you know, bePC and like not be like big
headed, but like for real.
Like you know, I feel like thisis the year of like talking
your shit and being in your shitand like owning your shit and
not being, like you know,because why not?

Speaker 1 (14:56):
I mean I'm highly flawed, but yes, I know I'm a
pretty good catch.
Yes, I'm.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
I have very flawed, like when you leave your stuff
around and say that if I move it, so are you to the floor.
I never said I was not flawed,all right, but I'm just saying
that, yes, you are, I want youto.
Did you, did you threatenviolence?
Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me, no, no, no, I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.
I'm not muted.

(15:20):
I'm not muted.
If he no, he said, if youcontinue to do what you're doing
with my jackets his jacket he'sgoing to put his hands on me.
Is that what I said?
Yes, you, you, you're 29 yearsold.
You say you was going tothreaten me and put your hands
on me?

Speaker 1 (15:39):
29 year old, because this is why context is key.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
It don't matter what the situation is, If you go, if
you say I'm going to put myhands on you.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Context is key.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
If you think about spending the black on Daisy.
Just know context is key willthreaten you with violence.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Sexist key Younger sibling.
All I did was put my jacket onthe back seat of a chair and
because Yemi is so fixated, thisis my workspace, when really
the majority of the time shouldhe be laid up in the bed almost
95% of the time.

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Why would you say that you don't know who is
listening to this podcast?

Speaker 1 (16:15):
That doesn't mean you're not doing your work.

Speaker 2 (16:17):
I was about to say.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
That doesn't mean you do, but you do your work in a
bed, unless you have to be in ameeting Now.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
I don't know where you're getting that from Now.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Now, now to take my jacket that you may be in that
chair for 10% of your week andto throw it on the floor.
Y'all tell me what y'all goingto do you know and if, but I
have asked.

Speaker 2 (16:38):
I have asked numerous of times.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
If somebody is not hearing you.
If somebody is not hearing you,Anybody that know me know I got
hella jackets.
That is the one staple I got.
I got like 30 jackets.
The reason why is because I getcold At the end of the day.
You could never have enoughjackets.
Y'all been outside lately.
If you from Chicago, it's likenegative 22 degrees outside, you
need jackets.

Speaker 2 (17:00):
That motherfucker is not real.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
So if you telling me at the end of the day, every
jacket I have just say fuck it.
Yeah me does this thing whereshe likes to say fuck me, but
then she don't be like, no, it'snot really fucked you, but it
is fucked me, right?
Y'all see what I'm saying.
You can't throw somebody'sproperty on the ground and then
be like, oh my bad, but youusing my space.
If you did that in the streetssomebody would be fighting.

(17:25):
But because Yemi knows I'm herolder brother and all I can do
is talk, she be really pushingit, she be taking.
It's not a mile with Yemi, it'sa motherfucking.
What is bigger than a milepeople?
What is bigger than a mileAnybody?

Speaker 2 (17:42):
I don't know what he talking about.
Let him carry on.

Speaker 1 (17:44):
Yemi take an itch and she turn that itch to a whole
fucking country.
Y'all don't know what it's likeliving in this household with
her.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
It's terrible because you get free meals, you get
free soap, you get what else?
You get free seasoning.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
Yemi, you get a whole financial advisor for free.
People pay thousands of dollarsa year for that.
The game I'm giving y'all, thegame I give her, is not
universal.
I give her the tricks of thetrade and she trying to act like
I can't.
I'm making you a couplethousand dollars a month or a
year and you want to talk aboutsome one or two meals that I eat

(18:19):
.
See, I'll tell y'all somethingman, your family is be the one
that be trying you the most.
Okay, yes, but let's get back.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Yes, anybody close to you, really anybody that you
allow into your inner circle, toyour inner peace, be the ones
that will do you the dirtiest,because you expected from
somebody not saying that I dodigi dirty, I'm just you know,
and I'm not saying that anybodyelse is doing me dirty, I'm just
saying, like, the people whoare the closest to you have the
potential to do you.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Damage because you have allowed them to be close to
you.
Because if somebody who's notclose to you does something to
you like you expect that, likeyou don't know me, no loyalty.
But the people who are closestto you have the who are in close
proximity to you have theability to affect you the most,
but that's because yourperception of them changes.

Speaker 1 (19:01):
That's why because they're so close to you.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Yeah, I wouldn't give a fuck if anybody else put
their jacket on my chair, butyou know that I work there.
Sort of now don't be trying toshave me sort of you work.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
I mean, you just don't work in that chair.
What do you work from home?
It's a beautiful thing.
You get to do exactly what Ijust said.
Now, what was I going?
Let's get back to what I wastalking about right spinning the
block.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
That's what we're talking about In El block.
Should I read the lyrics to thesong?

Speaker 1 (19:31):
I was going to ask you first.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
We should start Go ahead.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
Do you believe in spinning the block?

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Yes, I've already said that I do, but I said that
it's contingent.
I agree with you.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
I would I spend a block and anybody.
While I've only been in onecommitted relationship, I would
not spend a block on shorty.
That's not a shit girl, fuckyou.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
Sorry, but fuck you.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
That's not what I said.
I just said no, don't, don't,don't, don't dramatize what I
said.
That's not not even within you.
But let's digest, go ahead andlet's read the lyrics, and then
we can analyze.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Right Discuss.
Okay, we ain't good, good, butwe still good.
The parts you know.
Please join in with me.
Okay, we ain't good, good, butwe still good.
I hate that we didn't make itto forever, probably get back
together.
But that don't mean that Ican't wish you better.

(20:30):
We ain't good good, but westill good Period.
Okay, I was just feeling aboutit.
I was just feeling about itOkay.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
So far.
We is good.
Good, but we still good.
We not getting back together?
Yeah, we probably not gettingback together.

Speaker 2 (20:47):
I don't mean that I don't wish you better, but that
don't mean I don't wish youright there, I don't wish you
bad, but I don't wish you betterthan me, so do you actually see
exactly where I was getting.

Speaker 1 (20:59):
I feel like a lot of y'all's pay.
At times I be talking like I amholier than now.
But, if you catch me.
So I have a timeframe.
Usually, if you catch me inthat first one to three months
after I've parted ways withsomebody, I'm a little petty,
little petty, you know, monththree, four or four, five, six,

(21:21):
whatever Good riddance you, wehave fun.
I have a memory memory, blah,blah, blah.
But that first three, the firstone to three months, petty, I
don't care about this person, Idon't want to see this person.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
So come and collect your teens.
Come and collect your stuff.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
Come collect your things, and I'm very much so,
I'm very much so a, b like that,because for me, the moment we
part ways, I don't want to.
I don't want to see anything.
Truthfully, the whole goingghost thing that's what I do
after I cut people, you know, orafter someone has cut me.

(21:58):
Let me not act like it.
Don't go both ways.
It's not a bitter thing for me.
I feel like if y'all decidethat it did not work or
something came up or the timingwasn't right, why are we got to
do all this co-mingling?
I've never been somebody wholikes to co-mingle.
I feel like at times it makesthings very confusing.

Speaker 2 (22:18):
I tend to.
I don't think right away Like Ithink you can.
If you feel like you, you know,like if you're actually friends
with the person I don't know, Ifeel like I haven't really been
friends with anyone before westarted dating, so, like it's,
it's easier to just like cutties, but like if y'all friends,
y'all get along, you justrealize that you can't be in a
romantic relationship with eachother.
Why not?
Why not co-mingle?

(22:38):
I do that in the first threemonths?
No, like I got to get over youfirst for show.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
I feel like co-mingling is something you do
after y'all, like, have stoppedtalking to each other for like
six to seven months, maybe evena year.
See, I'm a big advocate after,like, you cut it with somebody
Unless the chemistry was reallythere and like.
And I have another question toask you.
Yeah, because I've been havingthis question asked to me more

(23:09):
and more and I feel like theanswer is bullshit.
But I'll just say at this, verydirect you got to give it time.
You got to really forget aboutwhat that person felt like, what
that person was to be around,all the things that made you
like fall for that person beforeyou be like, okay, let's be
friends, ish, co-mingle orwhatever, if you choose to have

(23:34):
that person back in your life.
Me I am very much like.
If we decided to cut it, youmight get a happy birthday text,
random call out of nowhere, butI'm never going to be like, so
like, do you ever think about us?
Eww Cups of the Rose?
Like I'm not.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Oh, okay, yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:52):
I'm not doing.
No, I'm not doing.
No drunk calls, no drunk texts.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
I'm not liking your story.
I'm not doing anything.
Honestly, you'll be a blip forboth of us.
Like, oh, I was in relationwith this person.
I don't remember that time.
Y'all heard me last week.

Speaker 2 (24:12):
If you was messing with me in 2023 and 2023, you
don't know what you're talkingabout.
You're a whole new person.

Speaker 1 (24:18):
It's like tech of it.
It's like tax evasion.
I ain't make no money.
I didn't spend that money.
Right, I didn't spend thatmoney.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
I don't know where any of that stuff came from.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
So my question, Yemi, is when people say anybody that
you've tried to pursue romanticor anybody who's tried to
pursue you romantically, whenthey tell you that it's
important for me to be friendswith my partner, do?

Speaker 2 (24:45):
you really believe that.
Do I feel anybody I did?
Yeah, I feel like I'm outsideof it just being romantic Like I
have to want to.
I have to feel like, well, Idon't know.
Yeah, I need to like you, likeI don't need to like, like I
need to like you because I feellike I like all my friends Right
, like I like all my friends, Ilove them as well, like friendly

(25:06):
.
But if I don't have that withyou, there's no way it could go
further.
That's why I don't be doingthat Like cutesy, kiki, holding
hands with my friends, kissingmy friends, you know, just like
very platonic.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
That's weird, I don't do that?

Speaker 2 (25:21):
I don't do that because that could turn into
like maybe this could go.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
And I've had girlfriends who have had that
conversation with me.
They're like oh what type offriends are we?

Speaker 2 (25:33):
I said, just friends, just like we friends yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
They're like oh, are we the smooching friends, the
cuddling friends.

Speaker 2 (25:40):
I said, I said no, my first got ulterior motives with
you.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
I said, we are just friends.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
No more.
Focus got ulterior motives.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
I've had to become very serious and intentional by
saying this specifically towomen If you want friendships
out of me, that's all you'regoing to get.
So the level of friend I wouldconsider myself I'm a decent
friend.
You know what I'm saying.
I engage, I try to check up, Itry to do all those things, but

(26:09):
if you want friendship, that'sall you're going to get.
So if you don't hear from me formonths on end, or if we talk
every week, or if we talk once ayear.
That's the friendship.
That's the friendship.
That's the friendship.
But I was going to say thatyour ascertaination just saying
words at this point.
I was about to say what I feellike when people say that I need

(26:33):
to be friends with my person ormy partner.
I feel like I've gone to thepoint where I'm like lie, lie to
me some more.
I feel like that's a way forsomebody to say, even if we
don't end up together, what didI just say?
We probably ain't good, weain't probably lasted for

(26:55):
forever, but I could still wishyou better.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
Right, we ain't good good, but we still good.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
That's just a way for you to stay in my life.
I don't want that.
I don't want that.
I don't want that.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
So you think this is like, in a way, he's saying yes,
the relationship is whatever,but we're good.
I don't think he we couldcontinue on.
But I don't think that he'ssaying oh yeah, we could spend a
block.
I think he's literally justadmitting that we didn't.
We might have not been allright with for each other, but
it's good, it's no pressure, weended on good terms.

Speaker 1 (27:28):
Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that
?
It's so fast, and this is why Isaid trauma, because so many
people are afraid to get theirheart broken Anytime somebody
comes in their life.
They feel like they have tohold on to them.
But the thing about life isthat you was always supposed to
meet a bunch of people on theway until you met your person,

(27:49):
so why are you so fixated onkeeping this person in your life
If that person want to go?
Oh yeah, oh yeah show them thedoor.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
Show them the door, turn up, go with the.
I can kick you with the goodlaw, split you.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Exactly Next time, sir.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Next time, sir.
Yeah, I realize that I can't beyour lover.
Let's just be honest with eachother.
I'll be happy for you when youfind another.
We ain't good good, but westill good, stop.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
This is my favorite part of the song.
This and 21 Savage he said.
Repeat it for me one more time.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
The part that you're probably fixated on is let's be
honest with each other.
I'll be happy if you findanother.
We ain't good.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
Yeah, one of the biggest things and hurdles in my
life is I used to feel bad fornot ending relationships sooner,
relationships, situations,ships sooner than anticipated,
because I didn't want to be theperson that and this was very,
very mature, I mean, I mean veryinnocent, naive, gullible,

(28:58):
whatever you want to say ofmyself I didn't want to be this
person's Mr Right and then menot feel that and I have to say,
hey, I don't think you're theone for me.
But if the other person did it,I could be like okay, cool, I
understand.

Speaker 2 (29:15):
Right.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
I'll be happy when you find another.
You know what I'm saying I feelopposite.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
I'm not going to be happy to be quite I mean, it's
on how the relationship ended,but I feel like that's like
that's that petty part right.
Like I feel like I'll be happyif you find another.
But, yes, I'll be happy if youfind another, but I mean, like I
said, are they going to bebetter than me?
I don't know.
They may be better than me foryou, and that's the difference.
Like you know how people be,like oh, I see who they did and

(29:41):
that's a rebound or that's likea down.
You know, like you know howgirls be like that's stuff that
be saying.
But I just feel like I don'tknow.
Like, yeah, some, some peoplejust don't don't mix and match
with each other, but at the endof the day, like me.
Question.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
Moving on next Stand up.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Who knew it'd be like this.
Usually my ex's turn to enemies, but this is different because
we don't got, because we done,we done got closer now that you
ain't with me.
All that love that we had ain'tnowhere, no, ain't no way.
We don't forget that.
And your family love me likeI'm family, excuse me, you know

(30:22):
where you stand with me.
So when they asked, tell themright one, right place, wrong
time, can't say we didn't try,but we always been a real one,
but you always been a real oneeven though we ain't together.
It was real love and baby, it'sstill love.
And then the chorus I hate thatwe didn't make it to forever.

(30:43):
I don't know that sounds likethat sounds like there's still
potential, like your family.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
That's a little bit toxic.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (30:48):
I don't know.
I don't know about this song,no more than now that I listen
to the lyrics.
I thought it was more so like awe good on good terms, but it's
more like a we good, like thereis potential for us to maybe
down the line get back together.
Next point right, because youknow so are you ever really done
with somebody when I?

Speaker 1 (31:03):
think I think there are certain individuals that you
be willing to spend a block for, so like I think, if we're
being honest with ourselves,there is certain people, that
one.
They met us at the wrong time,but in the time that we shared
it was good.
It was good.
It could have been good, bad,but there was a lot of things

(31:26):
that had you yearning for whatcould be, and I think it not
enough.
People like to acknowledge.
I know men don't like toacknowledge that at all.
I think women are a little bitmore versed, but they just not.
They're a little more pridefuland they don't ever want to.
I don't know I feel like womenwould be like nah, if that man
never came correct again, I'lldrop what, I'll drop whatever,

(31:49):
thanks, but I feel like that'sso.
I feel like that type of man isso few and far between.
But I do feel like women aremore inclined and let me not
speak for y'all, but if y'allhave a, if y'all have someone
that was like nah, I wouldreally want him to spend a block

(32:10):
.
Y'all gonna let us win theblock, why not?
We saw with Isa.
Oh right, we saw with Isa.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Right, I forgot about that.

Speaker 1 (32:19):
But hey, y'all be thinking I'll be crazy, but I
hope time I forgot about that.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
But also he came back with a kid.
I'm not.
You can't spend a block on meand have children.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
That's life For them.
That's life and if the more youget the closer, you get to 30.

Speaker 2 (32:33):
I would assume there's less people out there
that are yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Yeah, yeah, but Shambu, I think, I think people
need to be real.

Speaker 2 (32:44):
I mean, there might be a couple, maybe one, but
again, I'm not one of thosepeople that denies love like
something that is just so,whatever.
It is like somebody could doyou wrong.
Not do you wrong, because Idon't think they would do you
wrong if they actually loved you, but, like the situation, just
something happened and it waslike there's, we just need a

(33:05):
break, yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
Like a Saturn return.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
Yeah.
You know, yeah, that's a longtime, though, like 27 to 32 is a
long time.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
That's it.
So if somebody thugs it throughyour Saturn return for five
years.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
Well, I would now if y'all are still in each other's
lives, like if it's like metoday, somebody for five years
and not marry them.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
Yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Y'all, y'all, y'all wild for that Y'all are wild.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
A lot of people who do that.
That's not saying any y'all arewild for that.
Weddings are expensive.
Don't say that I mean you livein a whole culture.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
Well then you wait to get engaged with the fuck, like
if we're just, if we're justboyfriend, girlfriend for five
years.

Speaker 1 (33:41):
No, no, don't listen to her.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
No, yeah, don't, don't listen to me, y'all get
engaged.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
No, no Broke, no, definitely.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
But also feel like, yeah, I mean it's, everybody's
life is different.
But I just feel like for me, ifwe're together for five years
and I don't have a ring, and Ido end up getting a ring, and
we're like if we, it's thenumbers game right, but also a
society.
So don't, don't listen to me.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
Go to the courthouse.
Yeah, don't listen to me.
Have a big party.
Yeah, say for the party.
Don't, don't listen to me,because clearly there is
benefits to being married.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
Obviously.
We all know that can for surein our society.
But you ain't got to be married.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
No, let me hey, this is a new society.
You could be.
You could be Polly, you couldbe what's it on.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
You can't be, you can't be monogamous.
Yeah, you can't be like thatwith me.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
Ethically monogamous.
That was.
That was a new one.
What's that it's a you watchwhat's the show.
That mean you sex educationethically monogamous.
Yeah, sex education.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
They brought that up, it was all individuals involved
in the relationship are awareof and agree to the terms of the
relationship and that there isno description or description.
This is the deception ordeception, or these or okay.

Speaker 1 (35:03):
I'm not.
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
I'm not, I'm looking at that, you look at that.
I'm like what do you want me todo?

Speaker 1 (35:11):
I'm over here.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
Look at that, you don't worry, phonics, phonics
anyway.
So Both partners are free toexpress their needs and desires
and to make informed decisionsabout the relationship.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah.
So basically it's a socialcontract where if you say you
could date other people, as longas that's been communicated,
you don't have to even check inwith the other person.
You could just be like, oh yeah, I'm dating this person, but
I'm ethically y'all newgeneration, y'all coming up with
this?

Speaker 2 (35:52):
I'm up, please.
I'm old school.
Like, do you like me?
Yes, I know.
Like I'm old school.
Circle, circle one, Circle one.
I was thinking, do you have thenote in the class?

Speaker 1 (36:07):
Yes, I'm old school, you know, I was thinking about
one of the Nali Boob films thatmom was watching with the kids
in the classroom.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
I'm old school, I'm old school, I'm old school.
Oh my god, please, you ain'tsaid nothing but a word right
there, please et joe.
Don't confuse me with all this.
You know, like, if you like me,just let me know and let it be.
I'm the only one you like.
That's it for me, that's allfor me.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
I can do it, but all right, next time let's go
through it.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
Uh-oh, ok, so I'm having Autumn Plans you Made.
I think this is 21 Savage PartAutumn Plans you Made for me to
be your Mrs.
Oh wait, hold on, for me to beyour Mrs, that must be Summer.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
This isn't the song.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
No, summer, summer.
So all the plans you made forme to be your Mrs, all the
stacks that you done spent on meat Linux oh yeah, this is
Summer, it don't go forgotten,but we're happier part than
locked in.
No smoke with me, I promise,boy, I don't do drama.
I didn't work, it didn't work,but I hope you find another.

(37:17):
I wish you peace.
I wish you good sex and goodsleep.
Find the girl of your dreams,because I sleep well at night,
knowing that this ain't meant tobe right.
One right place, wrong timeCan't say we didn't try.
All good things come to an end,so let's just learn the lessons

(37:38):
and find love again.
So let's find love again.

Speaker 1 (37:44):
One I'm going to say this Summer, Walker Eight Shorty
got a pant.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
She has an amazing pant.
Like sometimes, I just don'twant her to ever be happy
because I want the music to staygood.
But also, if she came up withan album that was a love album,
I would live for that too, itwould be phenomenal.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Yeah, I want her to be in love again.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Yeah, for sure, the other side of all this hurt is
but it is called rhythm.
It's called rhythm in blues,like it's not supposed to be
music that is supposed to upliftyou.
If it was that, it would be pop.
This is like pain music, right,this is where it originated
from.
Was black people talking abouttheir struggles and just putting
it behind song to make it whatit is now?

Speaker 1 (38:24):
But yeah, I would fully lean into a Summer Walker
album with her being happy, butI do like the depression as well
, or we could just talk about ifshe had an album that focused
on moments in time where shefelt so loved.
That would be a beautiful album.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
She does have songs like that.
There are songs on her projectsthat are like the first over it
.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
Yeah, over it.
Yeah, yeah, the first over itwere Body and Potential.
No, that album actually waslike it was very good, it was a.
It wasn't like a depressedalbum, that was more like me and
London or whatever.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
Yeah, because she did have some songs on there that
were like the reason why I saythat is that's why people love
Cleo, so she's all about thishealing journey and all that
stuff.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
Oh, really Right, I don't listen to her.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Or they'll listen to, like Snow Allegra, and she'll
talk about, although theserelationships broke, all these
relationships were that endedpoorly.
She talks about how she learnedto love and all the moments of
love.
That's the thing that we alwaysforget.
We always get so bitter aboutrelationships and until you
realize, like y'all were soclose, that y'all shared some

(39:35):
very special moments, I don'tcare how short lived it was.
I'm going to be honest with you.
I know sometimes there's beenand y'all don't want to say it
because y'all in some three,four, five, six year
relationships, but the personyou was dating for four months
or for a season showed you morelove, more everything than you

(39:55):
dealing with now.
But, you chose that life and theonly reason why I could say
that circle back.
What did someone walk and say Iwish you peace.

Speaker 2 (40:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:05):
I wish you good sex and sleep.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
I wish you you find the woman of your dreams.
That's a heel woman.
Yeah, that's a heel woman.
Even though she said rightperson, right wrong place, right
wrong time.
Yeah, even though she said shecould admit, damn, you might
have been the one.
Yeah, in fact, you probably wasthe one, but the fact of the
matter is I don't ever feel likethat about somebody that you

(40:30):
dated with me.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
Like, don't ever feel like if you date me, you need
to be over all the bitches thatyou was with before me, because
I don't, ever, I don't, I don'tcare if it's mature of you or
not.
You need to be like fuck thatbitch, I don't.
I wish her the worst time ever.
I hope that bitch eat glass onaccident, like that's.
I mean, of course I don'treally want that, but I just

(40:54):
that's just how I want you tofeel, not because I want you
better, but because I want you.
Why would you move on?

Speaker 1 (40:59):
I want you moved on what the person that's like.
Yeah, I had a wonderful timewith that person but honestly,
that person doesn't hold aBecause this song to me gives
like I might spin the block tome.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
Honestly, now that I read the lyrics talking about.
Yes, but some, some Not with me.
This is not my song.
I didn't write the words to thesong.
We just talking about it.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
You're right.
You're right, but you see, whatI'm saying matured so that four
to six months after I get overthe person, yeah, let's, let's
be friends.
Let's be friends.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Holla at me.
Yeah, what you need, ok, oh,blah, blah, blah blah, you got
to do.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
But not like an everyday thing.
Also, yeah, don't bring mearound.
Yo the new person that's yourday.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Can just communicate it.
Yeah, if you if we are the sameenvironment and you know it's a
planned thing.

Speaker 2 (41:44):
Yeah.
Communication is key because weall don't want to look stupid,
it's look stupid.
Yeah, just if you ever love meand you ever really gave a fuck
about me, never have me in asituation with a stupid.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
Say that?
Just say that, because we don'tever have to fuck with each
other.
But, like summer said, I'm justgoing to wish you good peace,
yeah.

Speaker 2 (42:03):
I'm just going to sleep.
Honestly, I think that's thebest thing that you can do.
That's really how you show thegirl or somebody Don't do what I
said.
Definitely don't do what I said.
I was just joking.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
No, that was funny.

Speaker 2 (42:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Next, let's just get to the 21 part.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
That's the only, that's the only I thought that
was the end of the song.
He had his own perspective.
That's not the end of the song,it's more.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
Yes, there's more.

Speaker 2 (42:21):
Hold on.
I thought summer was the end ofit.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
Oh it's a long ass song, that's why I say you got
to get to the 21.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
21.
Oh, yeah, ok, he does have hisown part.
We ain't good.
No matter who you were, I wantto see you happy or God, it
didn't work out, but that don'tmean you should attack me 21.
21.
We enjoy the five star meals,but you was with me for Zach
Speaks facts holding me down.

(42:51):
From the start, I used to bebroke.
I was really 21.
I hate that we didn't tie theknot, but shit that.
That's how it goes on.
God.
You always will say that Imight blow up.
21, got rich and I paid foryour lipo 21.

(43:12):
I know the person you is.
Yeah, that's why I still wantto be friends on God.
If you want to open up a salon,I still help pay for the wigs
straight up and I help with thelease on God.
You know I ain't never beencheap.

(43:33):
21 relationships don't alwayslast, but let's not turn it into
be 21.
I come through from time totime and have you grabbing them
sheets, that's if you want to.
Ok, I'm just playing girl.
Stop smacking your tweet.
21, 21.

(43:54):
I hate that we didn't make itfood forever, probably, and get
it back together, but that don'tmean I can't wish you better.
We ain't good.
Good, but we still good.

Speaker 1 (44:02):
OK, let's.
That's OK.
Out of all of the 21 isprobably the only one that might
not spend a block or that hemight.
Well, I guess, he said.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
he said, if you want, I could still come and smack,
grab and from time I comethrough from time to time and
have you grabbing them sheets,that's if you want to.
I'm just playing, girls, Stopsmacking your teeth.
2121.
So no, he's not just playing.
Well, she ain't playing either.
She's back in her teeth, so OK.

(44:31):
So they, all three of them,give different perspectives to a
breakup in a relationship.
Right, Like, what's the nextsteps?
Yes, like OK, there's potentialfor us to like you know ever
now.
And then like fuck.
One is like no, like mature me,you know you're good, I'm good.
The other one is like yourfamily still fucks with me.
So there's you know we're stillconnected in some way, but

(44:52):
saying that you go find yourex's business is kind of crazy.
I don't know, because I feellike actually no, if I fuck with
you, yeah, I want you to eat.
I want you to eat, yeah, and Iknow I'm still making some money
off it too because I'm going tobe like an investor for sure,
like, follow your dreams, and ifI can help you in any way, if
you were, if you were with mewhen I was in Zach's piece, for
sure we're going to be togethernow that we didn't know.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
You have a.
That's a.
That's a.
That's a special place.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (45:16):
So 21 is talking about that person who really
sell you through your mostemotional, so can you and it's
like when people will be like,oh yeah, the baby daddy, the
first baby daddy like they willalways have a connection, they
will always have a relationship.
Yeah, I can't be nobody step,my mom not going to hold you.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
But at the end of the day this is why I always say
this whoever was with youshooting the gym.
Yeah and I'm saying this for Ldoesn't matter what your gym is,
I don't care if it's school, Idon't care if it's unemployment,
I don't care if it's a mentalillness, I don't care if it's
you trying to make a pivot inyour life.
Whatever it is you, whoever waswith you shooting in that gym,

(45:54):
if it didn't work out, you willalways hold a flame for that
person.
Because what, when you didn'thave a North Star?
Guess what that person was toyou.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
That was the moon.

Speaker 1 (46:03):
They was the moon, that was the moon, they was the
moon, they was it all.
So I mean I'm fully support.
If any shorty I have a messwith, she got a business, I'm
going to put bread on it, butthat's just me, because I'm like
, at the end of the day, what'sher?
It don't mean nothing.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
Nothing.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
It means nothing at all for me to do business with
you At the end of the day.
One that's another black woman.
I'm helping you know, what I'msaying.
See, now I can say that that'sanother black woman.
I'm helping.
We ain't good good, but westill good To like what is the
most thoughtful thing you coulddo to somebody.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
Invest in them.
Invest in them, yeah, invest inthem.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
Regardless.

Speaker 2 (46:44):
I don't have to be financial either.
It could just be like whateverthey see fit, but like, yeah,
investing in them, giving a fuckabout what they got going on
outside of you, outside of likeyour relationship with them,
like actually caring aboutpeople, is probably the most
important thing, exactly.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
Yeah, that's true.
At the end of the day, if youwere, that person was good, you
still probably going to be ableto get that little for it off,
and if it is, she go for it.
Or if you go for it, you know,don't be doing that shit.

Speaker 2 (47:10):
Okay, sorry, see, see , that's that's, that's, that's
true.
Yeah, for sure, for sure, forsure, for sure, for sure, for
sure, for sure, for sure.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Well, yeah, like qualifications we said for
spinning the block is it has tobe a committed relationship.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
It can't be, though.
It cannot be for spinning theblock, like you had to have not
been committed, because now thedynamic is different, now it's
like we were in a relationship.
It depends also depends on whathappened, like, did you lose
your job and you just letyourself go?
Did you cheat on me?
Did you, you know, have asecret baby that I did not know

(47:44):
about?
Have you been keeping secretsfrom me and they come, like you
know?
So for everybody, I feel likeeverything is individualistic.
We all know what's, we all knowwhat's dead ass wrong, but we
there is a great area, there iswiggle room.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
How long?
How long should you wait tospend the block?

Speaker 2 (47:59):
How long should you wait to spend the block?
I feel like there does need tobe some time that past.
Like I feel like we need to sitwith ourselves or you need to
sit with whoever else.
You decided you needed to dowhatever.
But again, everything issituational.
That's why I feel likerelationships is just one of
those things that you just haveto go through.
You just got to do it.
You just have to do it because,I mean, every situation is

(48:19):
different, but we all know that,like there are some, there are
some definite knows, likecheating is a definite know, I'm
not spending the block forcheating, you're not.

Speaker 1 (48:30):
Yeah, I wouldn't either.
That's hard, that's a hard linefor me to say that like there's
no way.

Speaker 2 (48:35):
We would still be good.
Good if you did that on me.

Speaker 1 (48:38):
We could still be good.
We just I would not, I wouldnot, I would just not fight with
you.
Yeah, yeah, that's, that'ssimply as.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
I foot with you, but that was that Shout out to that
section.
Let's move on.
Okay, you know what the nexttwo sections are that I do,
because I do all the work forthem.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
The little that you do.
Yes, I'll give it to you,Shorty you better hope we still
good.

Speaker 2 (49:03):
Good, you'd be disrespecting me.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
I don't know if I do that.
I think it might be the otherway around, but okay younger
sibling.
We got you.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
They just stop saying that I'm the younger sibling.
Does that make you feel betterabout yourself?

Speaker 1 (49:17):
It does make you feel better because you don't want
nobody know your age.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
I don't give a fuck about that.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
I'm going to need you to read this.

Speaker 2 (49:29):
I'm actually.
The tweet that I sent you wasfrom the first of the year and
it says drink in my cup came outin 2011 and still rise to this
day.
Why do you think I sent that toyou?
I got this drink in my cup.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
I feel like that's out.
I feel like any function anyfunction anywhere where black
focus playing and that song,yeah, it's a hit.
Also, I used to play that songonline in high school, I think I
used to.

Speaker 2 (50:01):
We was, we was Coco bands fans, that one in the
other one he got.
Now, girl, you know you got me,you know I got you too.

Speaker 1 (50:10):
Keep it true.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
The mother ate us.
They be by me.
You know I feel you.
But, girl, I'm feeling you.
Baby, I know you down me,things like about me and where
you go, these, not a hose like,why should I shit about me?
It's like I know you down mebut, just to keep it true, I
know you got the Baby.

(50:33):
Lay it down, baby.
Yeah, just because we like herco banks.
That's why I sent it to you,very nostalgic.
That's a very nostalgic timefor us.
So, yes, that's why I sent youon Twitter.
But we was talking about thisearlier.
We're going to jump right intothe ghetto intellectual.
We was talking about thisearlier because I was watching
the show and it was this guy whowe was trying to figure out who
was, who was in the right,who's in the wrong.
Two friends.

(50:53):
One of the friends forgot theother friends birthday, didn't?
I wish them a happy birthday.
So the one friend blocked themand he was saying like I would
have reached out to you, like Iwas trying to reach out to you
to apologize for missing yourbirthday, but you blocked me and
he was like no, you know Idon't play that.
You're my friend.
You forgot my birthday.
So the ghetto.
Intellectual question for todayis if you, as a friend, forget

(51:16):
your friend's birthday, is therethe retribution?

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I mean in hindsight, yes, because if you value this
person to be your friend, youwould, at least, within that
weak time frame that is yourbirthday, that they would say
some, right?
If they don't, then it's likewell, fuck me, dan, right?
Nobody really cares about me,right?

Speaker 2 (51:42):
Well, I mean other people, just not your friend,
right?
That's why I said they missed ahappy birthday.

Speaker 1 (51:47):
I give everybody me.
I don't actually this.
I'm a bad example because Iactually don't care.
But if you tell me happybirthday a week after my
birthday, I'll be like thank you, I appreciate you, I love.

Speaker 2 (51:57):
I would say thank you too, but anybody who does that
is not really like my friend forreal, like people that are
people that I actually not tosay that I don't value all of
the friendships that I have, butI feel like like if Daisy
forgot to say what she wouldnever, but like if he forgot to
say happy birthday to me.
Yes, I would feel some type ofway, but like if somebody that,

(52:17):
like I had an encounter with onetime and we're like social
media friends.

Speaker 1 (52:21):
Yeah me, stop hitting the mic.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
Whatever.
So so, yeah, I just feel likeit's honest.
Everything is on a slidingscale.
Yeah Well, you know thateverything is on a science scale
, but would you be blocking?
Probably not.

Speaker 1 (52:35):
I don't block nobody yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
What I block.
I mean, I'm like I'm likesomebody.
I blocked a couple people fordifferent reasons, but I feel
like I I'm like really big on,like I won't block you, but I
will unfollow you on socialmedia If I feel like you're
moving incorrect as it pertainsto me and I feel like you have

(52:59):
You're supposed to be someonewho's who I have a different
type of relationship with.
That is further than surface.
If I feel like you've wrongedme, yeah, like, I'll unfollow
you, I'll cut ties with you andlike, if you figure it out or
even give a fuck, we can have aconversation about it.
But once I pee out, the energyis wrong.
I move, I move on my own accord.
You don't even have to worryabout like because I peeped.

(53:21):
Once I pee and you, if you don'tsay nothing, yes, I take the
initiative to just movedifferently on my end, which
means like I don't need to befollowing you, I don't need to
be keeping up with what you'redoing, we don't need to be in
communication.
But blocking, know, because Iwould always give you the
opportunity, just like an Xright, I would always give you
the opportunity to come andreach out to me.
So, no, I wouldn't block you,but yeah, I would, I would let

(53:43):
it be known on my side that Isee what you're doing and I see
how you're moving.
Maybe not directly, indirectly,because I'm passive, aggressive
, but yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
I know people.
I know people who would changetheir whole number.

Speaker 2 (53:56):
Okay, my kind of petty.

Speaker 1 (53:59):
That's a different little petty.
But yeah, I feel like itdepends the dynamic of the
friendship.
But I am really, I am really anadvocate that life be life.

Speaker 2 (54:10):
So like I really don't put but the thing was the
blocking thing, like communicatewith, like if you, I was, I was
trying to reach out but youblocked me, which is the ghetto
part, that's the ghettointellectual part of it.
Would you be on that?
No, you wouldn't.
We know you wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (54:26):
Me no I would move different if I felt some type of
but if I got blocked, I feellike at that point it's up to
you to figure out a way tocontact me.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
Yeah, and we'll probably never talk until we see
each other in person, Right?

Speaker 1 (54:36):
and if you do that at a setting.
But that's why I said when Ithought about it, the dude was
right.
He was like, yeah, you can't betrying to apologize to me at
the club.
Like this is a conversationthat we need to sit down and
have, but I haven't been able toreach out to you because you
blocked me.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
Well then well if you value the relationship enough,
you could probably one today.
Friend, like hey, tell them tounblock me, type shit.

Speaker 1 (54:56):
Or even at that party .
You'd be like give me yourinformation now.
Yeah, unblock me and unblock me, and then we can, or I'll be
like I'll really come to yourhouse after this.
And we'll talk it out.
I'll lose sleep Like I'll driveto you blah, blah, blah types,
because it was just an honestmistake because it was just.
But you know, that's what I'msaying.
We live in a generation wherepeople don't value friendships,
so for them, friendships is adiamond, and that's what he was

(55:18):
saying.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
He was like I value my friendship, so for me, like
saying that you're my friend andmy birthday came and you did
not say anything, made me feelsome type of way, and he was
just like you know.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
I don't remember what happened, but I'm sorry, but
that's real, because he couldhave said I don't remember, or
he could just not be ready todivulge what he was going
through.

Speaker 2 (55:41):
Yeah, what was happening.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
Yeah, like people were getting like damn son, the
world be moving without you.

Speaker 2 (55:46):
That's the fact.
Like people's like I just be,so we'll talk about this.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
It's that super it and people's brains.
They be thinking like oh my God, if a person doesn't, bro, go
sit down.

Speaker 2 (55:57):
Nobody is really thinking about you for real.
We're all living our own lives.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
I live by this statement.
Nobody is checking for you,yeah.
And then when you could realizethat as people, that's why the
social media, the social mediashit, got y'all fucked up,
because y'all think that, andI'm not saying y'all, I'm saying
us In general.
I've also fallen prey to it, butain't nobody checking for us?
Period, and that's, that's noshade.
I'm sorry if you feel like youare entitled to have people all

(56:25):
up in your business, but no, whyyou think celebrities are
annoyed.
They want to be just like us,just with the money.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
Nobody is checking for us, nobody.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
But nobody.
But that don't mean that it'snot good Good.
Thank you so much for listeningto this episode, this week's
episode.
We appreciate y'all so much.

Speaker 1 (56:44):
Stop messing with the mic.
Whatever we be out here wealmost out here.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
I'm trying to wrap up there.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
I need y'all to complain about it.
I need y'all to complain aboutit.
Because, I'm the one with themic and the headset in their ear
, and she keep acting like Well,hopefully y'all don't listen to
us in your ears.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Hopefully, like this is something that you listen to
while you do and other things.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
And it probably will be fixed in post, but still.

Speaker 2 (57:03):
Like at the gym, or negative five degrees outside.
God damn.

Speaker 1 (57:07):
But, as Yemi was saying, thank you so much for
listening to nothing but the Gthing.
I'm going to let you do thispart On the outro, because I
don't do the outro.

Speaker 2 (57:16):
Yes, if you are looking for us on our social
medias, you can find me at sukiG's on Instagram and Twitter.
Suki I G W E Z, because I makeeverything that I do look twice
as easy.
I'm also on tic-tac on tic-tacat DJ suki G's.
So DJ suki I G W E Z.
Nothing but a G thing is alsoon social media.

(57:37):
We are on Twitter and Instagram, we are back active and we are
on YouTube.
Yes, so YouTube is actuallynothing but a G thing, spelled
all the way out, and Instagramand Twitter is nothing.
N O T H I N G.
Capital B, capital A, capital G, capital T.

Speaker 1 (57:56):
And you can find me on X Twitter.
Whatever you want to call it, IG under the same thing.
It is the R and B thugunderscore daigie.
I hope you all enjoyed thisride.

Speaker 2 (58:09):
We love every brand.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
We do.
And at the end of the day,whether you choose to spend a
block or not, just remember it'sgood, good Y'all.
Keep it lovely.