In this episode I share a quick story about my brother Jeff, a moment on a kitchen floor after heavy drinking, and how it turned into a massive wake-up call—not just for him, but for anyone who’s ready to change.
I break down what I call the three levels of change:
- You don’t even know you need to change. You’re just doing your thing on autopilot.
- You know you should do something different… but you still react the same way.
- You hit that same situation again—and this time, you actually choose differently.
You’ll hear how Jeff went from drifting, doubting himself, and hunting for “the right job,” to realizing: he is the value. His experience, his discipline, his story—that’s what employers were responding to.
My goal is that you walk away asking yourself the same question:
“What happens when I start moving through my day like I’m the value in every room I walk into?”
If you’ve ever underestimated yourself, played small in interviews or relationships, or let old patterns run your life, this episode is your reminder to shift that story—starting today.
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