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July 18, 2025 118 mins

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Ep 636: **Breaking Free from Traditional Masculinity: A Journey of Healing and Connection**

Dive into a powerful conversation with Tyler, host of the masculinity podcast "STAG," as he shares his transformative journey from battling alcoholism in the people around him while growing up and in himself to creating meaningful spaces for male connection. This eye-opening episode explores how informal stag meetings are revolutionizing the way men approach emotional well-being and vulnerability.

Key highlights:
- Overcoming alcoholism and finding purpose through community building
- Challenging toxic masculinity and embracing authentic male connections
- The role of vulnerability in fostering genuine relationships
- Navigating intimacy, trust, and personal boundaries
- Understanding the difference between jealousy and healthy attachment
- The importance of emotional connections over superficial encounters

Through raw and honest dialogue, Tyler demonstrates how breaking free from traditional masculine norms can lead to profound personal growth and stronger communities. His story serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in our ability to be vulnerable and support one another.

Ready to challenge your perspectives on modern masculinity? Listen to this transformative episode that's changing the conversation around male connection and emotional well-being.

Timeline: 00:00:02 - Introduction to the Guest Podcast
00:02:35 - Exploring Modern Masculinity
00:06:38 - Respect and Vulnerability in Relationships
00:23:07 - Exploring Boundaries in Relationships
00:48:46 - Understanding Clit Boners
00:52:45 - Conversations on Pleasure and Generational Ideas
00:57:05 - Embracing Pleasure and Self-Acceptance
00:58:55 - Understanding Sexuality and Media Influence
01:15:13 - Exploring Pleasure and Spirituality
01:23:50 - Finding Balance in Self-Service
01:30:01 - Understanding Negative Reactions to Service
01:32:40 - Exploring Boundaries and Sexuality
01:55:13 - Enjoying Conversations and Podcast Insights

Takeaways: • Tyler's journey through alcoholism led to the creation of stag meetings, highlighting the need for structured spaces for men to discuss emotional challenges openly.  
• The dialogue critiques traditional masculinity, arguing that vulnerability and authenticity are essential components of healthy male relationships.  
• The distinction between jealousy and envy is explored, emphasizing the importance of trust and understanding one's desires in fostering deeper emotional connections.

STAG Podcast: http://stagpod.com/

Ruan's appearance on STAG: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ySEOlaLuQtZCYX6nJCEmD?si=JC7vwcZ3SWS_4HVfOKFEvA

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