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July 25, 2025 88 mins

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Ep 639: Small Town Romance with Big Heart: Crafting Authentic Queer Stories with Britton Ashley. 

Dive into the charming world of Gunnison, Colorado, where author Britton Ashley crafts compelling small-town romances featuring authentic, diverse characters who feel like old friends. In this captivating conversation, Britton reveals how she weaves neurodivergent, queer, and chronically ill representation into her interconnected standalone stories, creating a rich tapestry of relatable experiences.

From "Covered in You" to "Casual Sparks," the works showcase her dedication to authentic storytelling. The episode explores her evolution as a writer during the pandemic, balancing the challenges of character development with the need for genuine representation. Personal experiences, including the loss of a loved one, have deeply influenced her narrative approach, infusing her stories with raw emotion and genuine family dynamics.

Whether you're a romance reader craving authentic representation or a writer navigating your creative journey, this episode offers valuable insights into the craft of storytelling. Tune in to discover how Britton transforms real-life experiences into compelling romance narratives that resonate with readers worldwide.

Timeline: 00:00:00 - Interview with Author Britton Ashley
00:13:30 - Choosing Between Plotting and Pantsing
00:17:53 - Challenges of Writing and Marketing
00:20:00 - Tips for Editing and Proofreading
00:21:49 - Understanding Book Spice Levels
00:25:50 - Writing for Different Audiences
00:29:27 - Awkward Reintroduction and Lightning Strike excerpt
00:34:34 - Stormy Night Reflections
00:37:21 - Character Development in Writing
00:40:57 - Character Design and Book Development
00:44:09 - Writing Rituals and Creative Processes
00:51:30 - Indie Author Experience and Community
00:59:42 - Celebrating Feminine Energy and Creativity
01:02:29 - Growth in the Bookstagram Community
01:04:21 - Celebrating Human Connection at Events
01:06:22 - Exciting Upcoming Author Events
01:16:46 - Excitement for Booked Eau Claire Event
01:18:50 - Future Book Plans and Themes
01:24:01 - Writing a Regency Horror Novel

Key Takeaways:

• Smaller towns can provide a rich backdrop for diverse character development, challenging the stereotype that only big cities inspire complex stories.  
• The pandemic has significantly influenced creativity, prompting writers to find new ways to balance structure with spontaneity in their work.  
• Authenticity in portraying romance is crucial for meeting reader expectations, underscoring the challenges authors face in promotion and representation.

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