On Our Terms with Ismatou Bah

On Our Terms with Ismatou Bah

After growing up in a Guinean-Muslim home in Queens, earning scholarships to attend an elite Prep school and New York University, and eventually landing in the world of tech, Ismatou has felt forced to compartmentalize her various identities and life experiences. But as she charges through her 20s, she’s learned that those disparate experiences are the things that render her perspective unique. So welcome to On Our Terms–the place where those disparate identities converge, convene and come home—featuring your host, Ismatou Bah, the big sister who fucks up so you don’t have to.

Episodes

December 18, 2024 27 mins

Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou recaps her year on the orange chair, reflecting on the highs, lows, and learnings, and sharing some of her final 2024 takeaways. 

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Arewà Basit and Ismatou sit down to talk all things chosen family, navigating the holidays, living independently of your family's projections and of course--Arewà's experience on the iconic and historical, all-queer season of MTV's Are You The One? 

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou @uotamsi on IG. You can find Arewà on IG @basit_.

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

The full OOT team (Ismatou, Esther, Samantha and Cahleb) break the fourth wall and let you in on what making this podcast was really like, and how their professional and personal journeys with creativity landed them here.

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG.

You can find the OOT team on IG at:
@the.esther.c 
@what.son
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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Cahleb returns to the pod, this time in the Orange Chair, to discuss all things friendship with Ismatou from adjusting to changes in relationships throughout your 20s and navigating NYC's social scene, to how Ismatou and Cahleb deal with conflict in their own friendship. 

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou @uotamsi on IG. You can find Cahleb on IG @cmuulaaa...

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Flo sit down to talk their respective paths to creativity, finessing your career as a creative, and navigating the tweeters & deleters along the way.

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You can find Flo @flongala on IG and check out her work at HERE.

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Eni take the couch to talk beauty and brains, the pressure on Black women to be “perfect,” desirability, dating expectations, and more.

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You can find Eni @enigivensunday on all platforms.

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September 11, 2024 75 mins

Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Amadou sit down to chat queerness in Fulani culture, coming out, and navigating cultural/social dynamics while showing up as your authentic self.

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You can find Amadou on IG @amazouu

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August 21, 2024 24 mins

Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou sits down solo to talk about her new hair, dealing with body changes, divesting from the male gaze, and the dramatic story of the day she cut it all off!

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Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG.

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou, Skylar, & Jasiel sit down and chat all things polyamory - from polyamory in media to polyamory in practice and everything in between.

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You can find Jasiel on IG @allducksrock and Skylar @_skylarrrrrrrrr .

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Bestfriends-in-law Ismatou and Skylar get into all things misandry including disappointment in men, colorism, weaponization of therapy language, tricking niggas, getting a lick vs. finding a partner, and more. 

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG.

You can find Skylar on IG @_skylarrrrrrrrr.

Skylar-Bree Takyi is a queer Black w...

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Nadir talk gender and racial dynamics in boarding school, the difference in experiences of Black men and Black women in predominantly white spaces, and their perspectives on it all then and now.

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You can find Nadir on IG @itsnadirp.

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Addis get into demystifying sex work, humanizing sex workers, and how to tell your Caribbean parents that you do porn.

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG.

You can find Addis @addisfouche on IG, Twitter and OnlyFans. Be sure to also follow @bitterblush, @the.l.u.s.t.files, and her meme accounts: @nycyourselfout.sj and nycyo...

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Fatou sit down to chat all things Islam from their Fulani Muslim upbringings to the conflation of religion and culture and more. Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG.

You can find Fatou @itsfatoub on IG.

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Jendayi sit down to talk all things mental health from their upbringings, finding the right therapist, getting medicated, and more.

Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG

You can find Jendayi on IG @⁠_jendayi_, the band @charliebellemusic, & the parties @lesbianhouseparty 

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Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Ismatou and Cahleb sit down to chat about the phenomenon of “Black Excellence.” They get into their own journeys towards Black Excellence, their critiques of it, and why its ultimately corny.

Follow us on all socials @⁠onourtermspod⁠ and your host Ismatou @⁠uotamsi⁠ on IG.

You can find Cahleb on IG @⁠cmuulaaa⁠ and his blog CD radio ⁠HERE

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April 24, 2024 26 mins

Be Brave! What's on your mind?

In this episode Ismatou discusses her experience dropping out of grad school, her immigrant parents, being a recovering perfectionist, and more...

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April 18, 2024 41 secs

Be Brave! What's on your mind?

Welcome to the official trailer for On Our Terms with Ismatou Bah. This is a coming of age podcast where we’ll have unfiltered conversations on hot topics, current events, triumphs, failures and more! 

Hosted by the big sister who fucks up so you don’t have to ;)

Follow us on socials @onourtermspod and Ismatou @uotamsi

  

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