March 4, 2024 • 16 mins
Ever feel like you're just one positive thought away from transforming your day? Join us, Kody & Caine, as we unpack the magnetic power of the law of attraction. Discover through our personal experience how maintaining a glass half full mentality, particularly in work, can act as a magnet for success, drawing opportunities to you like bees to honey. We also get real about the tough stuff – the non-negotiable value of honesty and integrity, and how positivity can really help in tough times.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to another edition
of Motivational Monday, orMonday Motivation.
What are we deciding?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I think Monday Motivates is kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Yeah, I agree.
Monday Motivates Okay, you gotCody me, you got Kane, my
co-host, yeah.
So today we're going to bespitting a little knowledge on
you guys.
We're going to be learning alittle something about a little
something, and that thing iscalled the law of attraction.
Kane, are you familiar with thelaw of attraction?
Oh yeah, okay.
(00:29):
So for the people that don'tknow, I'm going to run you
through a little Wikipediadefinition.
The law of attraction is thenew thought, spiritual belief
that positive or negativethoughts bring positive or
negative experiences into aperson's life.
So you know, in terms that wecan understand here, if you're a
piece of shit at the job,you're going to attract nothing
(00:51):
but pieces of shit to youNothing but shit.
So I think the main thing forme I feel like I'm a glass half
full kind of guy as it is, Ilike to stay pretty positive,
yeah, and I think that thatdirectly reflects opportunities
that you're able to get.
Right, because if you meetsomeone and you've got a good
vibe and you're doing shit thatis fun and you're just, you have
(01:15):
a good outlook on life, peopleare going to be way more willing
to either help you out or giveyou new opportunity or help you
reach your goals.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah, I mean because nobody likes somebody.
That's just like throwing pityparties and playing the smallest
violin every day Exactly, and Iknow okay.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So if you're listening to this, if you're on
your way to work or you'resitting behind your computer,
you work from home.
Whatever the case, think toyourself do you like working
with people who have a shittyattitude?
No, I know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
No, there's actually a horrible work.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
If you're doing worse than going to work and working
with that person that's alwaysbitching about the schedule or
how much money they're notmaking or when they're working,
Problems at home, everything.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
And not that you can't express those things Like
obviously you got to tell peoplewhat's on your mind, but at the
same time, if you just spin ita little bit different and sort
of like, make it more, like thisis kind of funny because I'm
complaining about this, so thenjust complaining about it, it
changes the whole thing Right.
So, for example, I worked witha guy when I worked at Sears and
(02:25):
I didn't know this, but when Ifirst started there it was all
commission.
It was all commission based.
You got like five bucks an hour, plus commission.
I worked in the electronicsdepartment and when I was
training in I didn't know that Icould be making commission.
This guy had told me that whileI'm training because I don't
know how to do the full job yetthat he gets my commission.
(02:46):
I was thinking in my head likeokay, whatever, I'm fine with
going through the ringer.
I know, I know I could sellshit, I'm fine, like I'm going
to be okay.
And then come to find out whenI go to train someone in that
it's not the case and that wasjust this dude being a dick to
me.
Wow, so forever after that Ihated that motherfucker.
I hated that motherfucker.
He was just one of those guysthat would complain and bitch
(03:09):
about everything.
I mean, honestly, only like twodays of training and I was
ringing everything in myself.
I'm using his numbers, so he'sgetting the commission and then
come to find out he's just thisfucking dirt bag Getting your
money.
Yeah, give my money, give mymoney.
There's nothing that pisses meoff more.
So this is a testament, andI've worked with plenty of these
guys.
(03:29):
It sucks being around someonewho just has a negative outlook
on life in general.
What do you think your take ison a normal day?
Are you a half full, half emptykind of guy?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I'm going to be honest.
I've been told many times thatI'm a very positive person, so I
like to be the energy in theroom that I want to see.
You know what I mean, like that, which is kind of hard at times
, because I mean, as you know,as I shared before, like I've
been through some pretty darktimes that I put myself into or
that I had to go through, youknow, and that's all you really
have when you go through thosehardships is like you just have
(04:02):
to be positive, because that'sall you got to make you through
some dark shit.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Definitely.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
But I've also studied a lot of things on, you know,
the law of attraction and on.
Jim Carey is actually reallybig into law of attraction and
he's got a video about itactually and he's interviewed
talking about how he made hisfirst $10 million check.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Didn't he write it to himself?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
He wrote it to himself, the $10 million check,
and he said one day I'm going tomake this check cashable.
And he did on a $10 millionmovie, the Dumb and Dumber one,
the first one.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Did he set it for it?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Ten years and it was like three days before the ten
year market that he got Dang.
And he said on there obviouslyyou can't do these types of
things and then just go make asandwich.
You still have to put in allthis work, but you have to also
have those insights and thoughtsof like this is this shit's
going to happen.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Definitely.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
And I've seen that happen in my life too, man,
where I've had days or weeks ormonths, man, where I'm either
just kind of down in the dumpsand negative and shit's just not
going right.
I've had to change my mindsetto be more positive and think
more positive, and then thingsjust start coming.
Man, you know I'm a prayingperson, so I'm going to also
believe in faith and actions andstuff like that also.
But the mindset is a big thingthat I think a lot of people
(05:06):
have to change is just beingmore positive and just knowing
that this is not where you'regoing to end if you don't want
to be here.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Absolutely, and you're the only one that can
change that.
So here's the deal.
If you're on your way to workright now or, like I said,
you're sitting at home, you workfrom home.
Just think to yourself do youwant to be that kind of person?
Do you want to be thatco-worker that no one wants to
talk to?
I hope not, hell.
No, you want to be a Karen.
You don't want to be a Karen.
They need to be a Karen, Be afreaking be a Cain, be a Cody
(05:32):
yeah, be a glass half full kindof guy.
Or gal Gal, gal yeah,definitely, yeah.
So you've obviously worked inplenty of places that you've had
shitty co-workers.
Yeah, what do you think drawsyou to people that makes you
think like damn, this is a goodthing, like what's the makeup of
(05:53):
someone?
When you meet someone that youfind good chemistry and you're
like damn okay, this guy's cool.
What makes that?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I think some people's energies just match other
people's energies.
You know what I mean.
Like I'm a kind of I'm a joker.
I like to joke around a lot andmake light of situations.
So anybody I can vibe with likethat that doesn't take things
to heart every time you likemake a joke or you know whatever
, say anything, it's like theylaugh with you and make another
joke or whatever.
I mean I like to find peoplethat are kind of like me.
So I think you know everybody'senergy kind of attracts certain
(06:21):
energies.
But you also have to be in mindthat your positive energy man
attracts people that aren'tpositive or don't have good
energy either.
And you got to be mindful ofthat man, because people see you
and that night and that lightand that mindset and that and
that energy and they want thatshit too and they'll be
attracted to you also and youhave to kind of, you know, help
(06:41):
them be more like that.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
You know it's kind of a, it's kind of a, totally kind
of like a calling almost havingthat kind of presence in a room
too Definitely, and it shiftsthe whole room, like you be the
energy that you want to see,game changer.
You know, I can not tell youhow many times I've gotten to a
room with some bodies and I'mlike, oh my God, I'm so tired.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And then I get in there and they're all hyped up
because, like, all the boys arehanging out, we're going to have
fun, we're going to have acouple drinks, whatever the case
, the energy changes for sure.
Like I get a boost of energyoff of everyone else, but it
also goes the opposite direction.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
You pour into people, definitely.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Like I walk in a room and one guy is like he's going
through it and all of a suddenit's like he's down in the dumps
.
I'll send, I'm down in the dumps, Like being around some people
just makes me depressed, butalso, you know, the exact
opposite.
I try to be the exact opposite.
I like I like getting into aroom where I can tell people are
not in a good space, but thenlike transforming it and making
(07:39):
them sort of have a good timejust because we're kind of
laughing, we're joking whateverthe case.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, room change.
You're a.
You're a.
What is it?
No-transcript.
Not a thermometer.
No, you're thermo, whatever.
You change it you change thetemperature in the room.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I like that.
I've never heard that before.
Yeah, yeah, um, what was?
There was another Jim Carreyquote that was like I wish
everyone could be famous so thatthey would, they would, they
could see it's not everythingthat they wanted, or something,
yeah, so they could see that itreally sucks.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Yeah, which obviously only famous people can say,
because that sounds crazy.
It does Like everyone wants tobe famous.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Yeah, but I mean look at all the celebrity overdoses
and all the celebrity suicidesand everything.
I mean, yeah, that's a goodpoint, Dude.
I mean it's probably not allit's cracked up to be.
Again, that's a positivemindset compared to the negative
mindset.
Very true, you have all theseriches and you're piss poor
morally and you don't have anyhappiness.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Well, and that's the thing too, when it, when it
comes to making money, you know,like if, if you're only driven
by money and there's not othermotivations behind it.
Speaking of that, moneymotivation, shout out, money
motivation shout out hashtaghashtag money motivation.
If you don't have other thingsdriving you to once you get that
money, then it's like now whatyou're just going to make more.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, it's never going to be enough.
You know you'll always bechasing it.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I heard that, yeah, I just need some allergic to
bullshit, bullshit.
Yeah, dude, you got to figureout why you're grinding and why
you're driving and busting yourass for 12 hours a day or
whatever you're doing.
You know, everyone's got adifferent perception of what
hard work is.
Yeah, and you know, for mepersonally, I can't get through
(09:16):
that hard work if I don't knowwhy I'm doing it.
Yeah, I'm totally fine withputting in the time, totally
fine with putting in the effort.
Yeah, but I need to know whyI'm doing it, otherwise it's not
, it won't stay consistent.
For example, ever since I'velinked up with you and I started
lifting weights, I startedeating better, getting swollen,
getting swollen Shreddedclothing, you know the why for
(09:38):
me is like I just want to feelhealthy, Like I'm sick of
feeling like shit because I wantto run on all cylinders every
day.
Yeah, I want to just have thatmental clarity.
I want to be able to get into aroom with people that I don't
know and change the temperatureof that room, and I can't do
that if I'm too tired or if Ifeel like shit.
Yeah, and also I mean like Ijust feel good in general.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
And that's going to transfer on to other people for
sure and they notice that.
Yeah, I can't tell you how manyfriends that I have in the last
eight, nine weeks that are like, damn, dude, you've lost a lot
of weight.
Yeah, what are you doing?
And I'm like dude, honestly,I'm just hitting the gym Like
I'm hitting the sauna Shut upShut up.
Kain loves the sauna.
Yeah, yeah, you know, justchanging little things in your
(10:25):
life that make everything elsethat much easier, yeah, and I
think that's just like key, Ithink honestly, for me it just
starts at the basics, where it'slike you don't necessarily have
to change your entire lifestyle, but even something as simple
as getting more sleep if youdon't want to be on a full diet.
I get that Like that's kind ofinconvenient at times.
Yeah, because you got to likeplan out when you're eating,
(10:46):
what you're eating, weigh it out, plan it out.
But even if you just getsomething as simple as another
hour of sleep, spread outthroughout the week.
That's a lot of time.
Cut out little things like pop.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Cut no sugar.
That's massive.
How many?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
calories are in one soda?
How many grams of sugar in onesoda?
Or even juices that aresupposed to be healthy for you,
dude?
It's like I switched to a zerocalorie sugar because I still
need to drink something that hassome kind of flavor, right, but
just looking at the juices, asI'm trying to buy one, it's like
damn dude.
I wonder why these kids gotproblems when they're growing up
.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
For real, for real.
I've been on a big Gary Brekkakick.
Are you familiar with GaryBrekka?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
No, I'm sure you're going to share it.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yes, the Ultimate Human Podcast and he talks about
gene mutations and enrichedwheats in America.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Oh, yeah, you did tell me about that.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And then it basically gives you ADHD without having
to do anything other than justconsuming bread.
So it's wild to me now lookingat some of this stuff and my
wife gives me so much shitbecause I don't feed our kid
like white bread normal whitebread and she gets kind of
rattled about it.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I did, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Switching to that sprouted grain Dude.
Not only does it taste betterbut it's so much better for you.
And I mean, if I notice adifference, I know that he's
going to notice a difference.
And my wife gets so pissedbecause she loves just regular
white bread which is fine,whatever, but we still have it
in the house and she gets so madthat when, when, when he's out
(12:20):
of, like the sprouted grain,then I'm switching them to like
a banana and you know somethingelse pancake, whatever the case.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
And so I'm testing a theory.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
damn it yeah it'll be interesting to see, because I
was thinking in my head like,damn if, if we can like, give
him the tools necessary to like,be better, why wouldn't we?
If we can, of course, yeah,wouldn't that just make so much
more sense to me that just goeswith everything, with everything
.
If all you need is just likeone more hour of sleep or just
(12:53):
eat a little bit better or justlay off the pop dude, that would
change your life.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah, you don't have to be crazy like Such a simple
thing.
You don't have to be crazy likeme and just go balls of the
wall right away.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Yeah, but you strike me as one of those guys that's
like all in or all out.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I'm definitely all in or all out.
I'm kind of the same way.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I can't half-ass it, because then I just won't do it.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
No, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You know, like if you got me started on that diet
plan and I just didn't do it allthe way right away, I probably
wouldn't even be on it.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Yeah, and see, that goes into the law of attraction.
You wanted something better andyou wanted.
You know you've seen yourselfin a better condition and look
at you now.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
For real.
James Clear, Tom and Cabot'sgreat book.
If you haven't read it, gocheck it out.
But it starts with somethingjust as simple as rewording how
you're saying things Like I'mnot going to try to go to the
gym, I am going to the gym orwhatever the case, I'm not going
to try to stop drinking pop,I'm going to stop drinking pop.
(13:49):
And that, just like something inyour brain just comprehends
that as like, oh, this is what Ihave to do.
Yeah, a great example isjumping in the river last
weekend.
Oh God, dude, I know I've seenthe video you guys were pussy
about it.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Oh, you were pussy about it, it was cold, dude.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
There's ice all the way around us and I looked it up
in like a normal ice bath perse.
It's like 30 to 50 degrees,dude.
This had to have been like 20.
It was so cold.
Of course it was so cold.
But, you know, I put myself ina position where, like, I told
all my friends that I was doingthis, so you had to do it.
I had to, otherwise I lookedlike a bitch.
(14:25):
Yeah, you know, I don't want tosay I'm going to do something
and I don't do it.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
I'm not that guy.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Now I have to do it.
I'm all in If I've put it outinto the world.
It needs to happen.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Or I'm going to do everything I can to make it
happen.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
There's power in the spoken word for sure, like when,
especially if you're, you know,like we are whatever and you
say something, you have to do it.
You know what I mean Definitely, and I think a lot of people
kind of mistreat that a lot ofthe times, or whatever, or, and
that's why they don't feel sosatisfied with themselves,
because they know that theycan't even tell the truth to
themself, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
That's a good point.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Like I say I'm going to do something and then I don't
do it, Then you lose confidencein yourself.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
You know what I mean?
Damn, I didn't even think aboutit from that standpoint.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
They might not even see it like that, but they were
like man.
Then every time that somethinghappens or something's going on,
they're like, oh, I'm not goingto be able to do that.
And then they start reiteratingnegative thoughts in their head
like, oh, I can't do that, Ican't do this, I'm not going to
be able to accomplish that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
You can, I was in a sales.
You just don't want to.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, and it's because of the stories that
they're telling themselves.
Like you were saying, I was ina sales meeting yesterday
actually, and sales training, Ishould say I'm like.
One of the guys was like, oh,we're going to have a good year.
I'm like, man, I hope so, causeI need to have a good year.
He's like, no, don't say that,shit You're going to have a good
year, and then it hit me, I'mlike man, he's right.
So then afterwards and I do thisstuff a lot I talk to myself in
the mirror.
I kind of give myselfaffirmations and stuff to
(15:40):
positive reinforcement You'regoing to kill it this year.
You're going to sell a millionin sales.
You're going to do this, you'regoing to do that just because I
need to hear myself say thingslike that, because it gets me
out of my head more and it givesme more confidence to finish it
.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yep, I completely agree with you.
It's all just a mindset change.
Really, you attract what youwant, and what you want may not
always be what you think youwant.
If you're just complaining, ifyou're just moping, if you're
just always tired, that's whatyou're going to get back out of.
Whatever the hell you're doing,put in your all drive to that
(16:15):
job and make that job or thatkeyboard, your bitch, your bitch
dude your bitch Monday morningbitches, monday morning, monday
motivation.
Thank you guys for joining usagain.
Again, cody, signing out, kaneyou any last words of wisdom?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
here for the people we're out to go crush on Monday.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to another edition
of Motivational Monday, orMonday Motivation.
What are we deciding?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I think Monday Motivates is kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Yeah, I agree.
Monday Motivates Okay, you gotCody me, you got Kane, my
co-host, yeah.
So today we're going to bespitting a little knowledge on
you guys.
We're going to be learning alittle something about a little
something, and that thing iscalled the law of attraction.
Kane, are you familiar with thelaw of attraction?
Oh yeah, okay.
(00:29):
So for the people that don'tknow, I'm going to run you
through a little Wikipediadefinition.
The law of attraction is thenew thought, spiritual belief
that positive or negativethoughts bring positive or
negative experiences into aperson's life.
So you know, in terms that wecan understand here, if you're a
piece of shit at the job,you're going to attract nothing
(00:51):
but pieces of shit to youNothing but shit.
So I think the main thing forme I feel like I'm a glass half
full kind of guy as it is, Ilike to stay pretty positive,
yeah, and I think that thatdirectly reflects opportunities
that you're able to get.
Right, because if you meetsomeone and you've got a good
vibe and you're doing shit thatis fun and you're just, you have
(01:15):
a good outlook on life, peopleare going to be way more willing
to either help you out or giveyou new opportunity or help you
reach your goals.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah, I mean because nobody likes somebody.
That's just like throwing pityparties and playing the smallest
violin every day Exactly, and Iknow okay.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So if you're listening to this, if you're on
your way to work or you'resitting behind your computer,
you work from home.
Whatever the case, think toyourself do you like working
with people who have a shittyattitude?
No, I know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
No, there's actually a horrible work.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
If you're doing worse than going to work and working
with that person that's alwaysbitching about the schedule or
how much money they're notmaking or when they're working,
Problems at home, everything.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
And not that you can't express those things Like
obviously you got to tell peoplewhat's on your mind, but at the
same time, if you just spin ita little bit different and sort
of like, make it more, like thisis kind of funny because I'm
complaining about this, so thenjust complaining about it, it
changes the whole thing Right.
So, for example, I worked witha guy when I worked at Sears and
(02:25):
I didn't know this, but when Ifirst started there it was all
commission.
It was all commission based.
You got like five bucks an hour, plus commission.
I worked in the electronicsdepartment and when I was
training in I didn't know that Icould be making commission.
This guy had told me that whileI'm training because I don't
know how to do the full job yetthat he gets my commission.
(02:46):
I was thinking in my head likeokay, whatever, I'm fine with
going through the ringer.
I know, I know I could sellshit, I'm fine, like I'm going
to be okay.
And then come to find out whenI go to train someone in that
it's not the case and that wasjust this dude being a dick to
me.
Wow, so forever after that Ihated that motherfucker.
I hated that motherfucker.
He was just one of those guysthat would complain and bitch
(03:09):
about everything.
I mean, honestly, only like twodays of training and I was
ringing everything in myself.
I'm using his numbers, so he'sgetting the commission and then
come to find out he's just thisfucking dirt bag Getting your
money.
Yeah, give my money, give mymoney.
There's nothing that pisses meoff more.
So this is a testament, andI've worked with plenty of these
guys.
(03:29):
It sucks being around someonewho just has a negative outlook
on life in general.
What do you think your take ison a normal day?
Are you a half full, half emptykind of guy?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I'm going to be honest.
I've been told many times thatI'm a very positive person, so I
like to be the energy in theroom that I want to see.
You know what I mean, like that, which is kind of hard at times
, because I mean, as you know,as I shared before, like I've
been through some pretty darktimes that I put myself into or
that I had to go through, youknow, and that's all you really
have when you go through thosehardships is like you just have
(04:02):
to be positive, because that'sall you got to make you through
some dark shit.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Definitely.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
But I've also studied a lot of things on, you know,
the law of attraction and on.
Jim Carey is actually reallybig into law of attraction and
he's got a video about itactually and he's interviewed
talking about how he made hisfirst $10 million check.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Didn't he write it to himself?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
He wrote it to himself, the $10 million check,
and he said one day I'm going tomake this check cashable.
And he did on a $10 millionmovie, the Dumb and Dumber one,
the first one.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Did he set it for it?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Ten years and it was like three days before the ten
year market that he got Dang.
And he said on there obviouslyyou can't do these types of
things and then just go make asandwich.
You still have to put in allthis work, but you have to also
have those insights and thoughtsof like this is this shit's
going to happen.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Definitely.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
And I've seen that happen in my life too, man,
where I've had days or weeks ormonths, man, where I'm either
just kind of down in the dumpsand negative and shit's just not
going right.
I've had to change my mindsetto be more positive and think
more positive, and then thingsjust start coming.
Man, you know I'm a prayingperson, so I'm going to also
believe in faith and actions andstuff like that also.
But the mindset is a big thingthat I think a lot of people
(05:06):
have to change is just beingmore positive and just knowing
that this is not where you'regoing to end if you don't want
to be here.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Absolutely, and you're the only one that can
change that.
So here's the deal.
If you're on your way to workright now or, like I said,
you're sitting at home, you workfrom home.
Just think to yourself do youwant to be that kind of person?
Do you want to be thatco-worker that no one wants to
talk to?
I hope not, hell.
No, you want to be a Karen.
You don't want to be a Karen.
They need to be a Karen, Be afreaking be a Cain, be a Cody
(05:32):
yeah, be a glass half full kindof guy.
Or gal Gal, gal yeah,definitely, yeah.
So you've obviously worked inplenty of places that you've had
shitty co-workers.
Yeah, what do you think drawsyou to people that makes you
think like damn, this is a goodthing, like what's the makeup of
(05:53):
someone?
When you meet someone that youfind good chemistry and you're
like damn okay, this guy's cool.
What makes that?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I think some people's energies just match other
people's energies.
You know what I mean.
Like I'm a kind of I'm a joker.
I like to joke around a lot andmake light of situations.
So anybody I can vibe with likethat that doesn't take things
to heart every time you likemake a joke or you know whatever
, say anything, it's like theylaugh with you and make another
joke or whatever.
I mean I like to find peoplethat are kind of like me.
So I think you know everybody'senergy kind of attracts certain
(06:21):
energies.
But you also have to be in mindthat your positive energy man
attracts people that aren'tpositive or don't have good
energy either.
And you got to be mindful ofthat man, because people see you
and that night and that lightand that mindset and that and
that energy and they want thatshit too and they'll be
attracted to you also and youhave to kind of, you know, help
(06:41):
them be more like that.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
You know it's kind of a, it's kind of a, totally kind
of like a calling almost havingthat kind of presence in a room
too Definitely, and it shiftsthe whole room, like you be the
energy that you want to see,game changer.
You know, I can not tell youhow many times I've gotten to a
room with some bodies and I'mlike, oh my God, I'm so tired.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And then I get in there and they're all hyped up
because, like, all the boys arehanging out, we're going to have
fun, we're going to have acouple drinks, whatever the case
, the energy changes for sure.
Like I get a boost of energyoff of everyone else, but it
also goes the opposite direction.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
You pour into people, definitely.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Like I walk in a room and one guy is like he's going
through it and all of a suddenit's like he's down in the dumps
.
I'll send, I'm down in the dumps, Like being around some people
just makes me depressed, butalso, you know, the exact
opposite.
I try to be the exact opposite.
I like I like getting into aroom where I can tell people are
not in a good space, but thenlike transforming it and making
(07:39):
them sort of have a good timejust because we're kind of
laughing, we're joking whateverthe case.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, room change.
You're a.
You're a.
What is it?
No-transcript.
Not a thermometer.
No, you're thermo, whatever.
You change it you change thetemperature in the room.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I like that.
I've never heard that before.
Yeah, yeah, um, what was?
There was another Jim Carreyquote that was like I wish
everyone could be famous so thatthey would, they would, they
could see it's not everythingthat they wanted, or something,
yeah, so they could see that itreally sucks.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Yeah, which obviously only famous people can say,
because that sounds crazy.
It does Like everyone wants tobe famous.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Yeah, but I mean look at all the celebrity overdoses
and all the celebrity suicidesand everything.
I mean, yeah, that's a goodpoint, Dude.
I mean it's probably not allit's cracked up to be.
Again, that's a positivemindset compared to the negative
mindset.
Very true, you have all theseriches and you're piss poor
morally and you don't have anyhappiness.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Well, and that's the thing too, when it, when it
comes to making money, you know,like if, if you're only driven
by money and there's not othermotivations behind it.
Speaking of that, moneymotivation, shout out, money
motivation shout out hashtaghashtag money motivation.
If you don't have other thingsdriving you to once you get that
money, then it's like now whatyou're just going to make more.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, it's never going to be enough.
You know you'll always bechasing it.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I heard that, yeah, I just need some allergic to
bullshit, bullshit.
Yeah, dude, you got to figureout why you're grinding and why
you're driving and busting yourass for 12 hours a day or
whatever you're doing.
You know, everyone's got adifferent perception of what
hard work is.
Yeah, and you know, for mepersonally, I can't get through
(09:16):
that hard work if I don't knowwhy I'm doing it.
Yeah, I'm totally fine withputting in the time, totally
fine with putting in the effort.
Yeah, but I need to know whyI'm doing it, otherwise it's not
, it won't stay consistent.
For example, ever since I'velinked up with you and I started
lifting weights, I startedeating better, getting swollen,
getting swollen Shreddedclothing, you know the why for
(09:38):
me is like I just want to feelhealthy, Like I'm sick of
feeling like shit because I wantto run on all cylinders every
day.
Yeah, I want to just have thatmental clarity.
I want to be able to get into aroom with people that I don't
know and change the temperatureof that room, and I can't do
that if I'm too tired or if Ifeel like shit.
Yeah, and also I mean like Ijust feel good in general.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
And that's going to transfer on to other people for
sure and they notice that.
Yeah, I can't tell you how manyfriends that I have in the last
eight, nine weeks that are like, damn, dude, you've lost a lot
of weight.
Yeah, what are you doing?
And I'm like dude, honestly,I'm just hitting the gym Like
I'm hitting the sauna Shut upShut up.
Kain loves the sauna.
Yeah, yeah, you know, justchanging little things in your
(10:25):
life that make everything elsethat much easier, yeah, and I
think that's just like key, Ithink honestly, for me it just
starts at the basics, where it'slike you don't necessarily have
to change your entire lifestyle, but even something as simple
as getting more sleep if youdon't want to be on a full diet.
I get that Like that's kind ofinconvenient at times.
Yeah, because you got to likeplan out when you're eating,
(10:46):
what you're eating, weigh it out, plan it out.
But even if you just getsomething as simple as another
hour of sleep, spread outthroughout the week.
That's a lot of time.
Cut out little things like pop.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Cut no sugar.
That's massive.
How many?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
calories are in one soda?
How many grams of sugar in onesoda?
Or even juices that aresupposed to be healthy for you,
dude?
It's like I switched to a zerocalorie sugar because I still
need to drink something that hassome kind of flavor, right, but
just looking at the juices, asI'm trying to buy one, it's like
damn dude.
I wonder why these kids gotproblems when they're growing up
.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
For real, for real.
I've been on a big Gary Brekkakick.
Are you familiar with GaryBrekka?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
No, I'm sure you're going to share it.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yes, the Ultimate Human Podcast and he talks about
gene mutations and enrichedwheats in America.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Oh, yeah, you did tell me about that.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
And then it basically gives you ADHD without having
to do anything other than justconsuming bread.
So it's wild to me now lookingat some of this stuff and my
wife gives me so much shitbecause I don't feed our kid
like white bread normal whitebread and she gets kind of
rattled about it.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I did, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Switching to that sprouted grain Dude.
Not only does it taste betterbut it's so much better for you.
And I mean, if I notice adifference, I know that he's
going to notice a difference.
And my wife gets so pissedbecause she loves just regular
white bread which is fine,whatever, but we still have it
in the house and she gets so madthat when, when, when he's out
(12:20):
of, like the sprouted grain,then I'm switching them to like
a banana and you know somethingelse pancake, whatever the case.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
And so I'm testing a theory.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
damn it yeah it'll be interesting to see, because I
was thinking in my head like,damn if, if we can like, give
him the tools necessary to like,be better, why wouldn't we?
If we can, of course, yeah,wouldn't that just make so much
more sense to me that just goeswith everything, with everything
.
If all you need is just likeone more hour of sleep or just
(12:53):
eat a little bit better or justlay off the pop dude, that would
change your life.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah, you don't have to be crazy like Such a simple
thing.
You don't have to be crazy likeme and just go balls of the
wall right away.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Yeah, but you strike me as one of those guys that's
like all in or all out.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I'm definitely all in or all out.
I'm kind of the same way.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I can't half-ass it, because then I just won't do it.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
No, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
You know, like if you got me started on that diet
plan and I just didn't do it allthe way right away, I probably
wouldn't even be on it.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Yeah, and see, that goes into the law of attraction.
You wanted something better andyou wanted.
You know you've seen yourselfin a better condition and look
at you now.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
For real.
James Clear, Tom and Cabot'sgreat book.
If you haven't read it, gocheck it out.
But it starts with somethingjust as simple as rewording how
you're saying things Like I'mnot going to try to go to the
gym, I am going to the gym orwhatever the case, I'm not going
to try to stop drinking pop,I'm going to stop drinking pop.
(13:49):
And that, just like something inyour brain just comprehends
that as like, oh, this is what Ihave to do.
Yeah, a great example isjumping in the river last
weekend.
Oh God, dude, I know I've seenthe video you guys were pussy
about it.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Oh, you were pussy about it, it was cold, dude.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
There's ice all the way around us and I looked it up
in like a normal ice bath perse.
It's like 30 to 50 degrees,dude.
This had to have been like 20.
It was so cold.
Of course it was so cold.
But, you know, I put myself ina position where, like, I told
all my friends that I was doingthis, so you had to do it.
I had to, otherwise I lookedlike a bitch.
(14:25):
Yeah, you know, I don't want tosay I'm going to do something
and I don't do it.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
I'm not that guy.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Now I have to do it.
I'm all in If I've put it outinto the world.
It needs to happen.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Or I'm going to do everything I can to make it
happen.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
There's power in the spoken word for sure, like when,
especially if you're, you know,like we are whatever and you
say something, you have to do it.
You know what I mean Definitely, and I think a lot of people
kind of mistreat that a lot ofthe times, or whatever, or, and
that's why they don't feel sosatisfied with themselves,
because they know that theycan't even tell the truth to
themself, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
That's a good point.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Like I say I'm going to do something and then I don't
do it, Then you lose confidencein yourself.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
You know what I mean?
Damn, I didn't even think aboutit from that standpoint.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
They might not even see it like that, but they were
like man.
Then every time that somethinghappens or something's going on,
they're like, oh, I'm not goingto be able to do that.
And then they start reiteratingnegative thoughts in their head
like, oh, I can't do that, Ican't do this, I'm not going to
be able to accomplish that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
You can, I was in a sales.
You just don't want to.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, and it's because of the stories that
they're telling themselves.
Like you were saying, I was ina sales meeting yesterday
actually, and sales training, Ishould say I'm like.
One of the guys was like, oh,we're going to have a good year.
I'm like, man, I hope so, causeI need to have a good year.
He's like, no, don't say that,shit You're going to have a good
year, and then it hit me, I'mlike man, he's right.
So then afterwards and I do thisstuff a lot I talk to myself in
the mirror.
I kind of give myselfaffirmations and stuff to
(15:40):
positive reinforcement You'regoing to kill it this year.
You're going to sell a millionin sales.
You're going to do this, you'regoing to do that just because I
need to hear myself say thingslike that, because it gets me
out of my head more and it givesme more confidence to finish it
.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Yep, I completely agree with you.
It's all just a mindset change.
Really, you attract what youwant, and what you want may not
always be what you think youwant.
If you're just complaining, ifyou're just moping, if you're
just always tired, that's whatyou're going to get back out of.
Whatever the hell you're doing,put in your all drive to that
(16:15):
job and make that job or thatkeyboard, your bitch, your bitch
dude your bitch Monday morningbitches, monday morning, monday
motivation.
Thank you guys for joining usagain.
Again, cody, signing out, kaneyou any last words of wisdom?
Speaker 2 (16:29):
here for the people we're out to go crush on Monday.
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