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June 6, 2025

Episode 10: Boundaries, Red Flags, and Keeping It Player This week, Ray Etc. and Lotto Marie don't hold back—diving straight into how setting standards isn't insecurity, it's survival. From navigating jealousy at the gym to calling out "houseguest" relationships, they break down why protection, boundaries, and communication matter more now than ever. Lotto opens up about singleness, abstinence, and finally seeing people for who they are, while Ray shares the raw male perspective on why sometimes love has to be guarded, not flaunted.

They debate whether posting your partner means anything, when "lowkey" becomes a red flag, and why modern dating is full of too many moments and not enough longevity. This episode is personal, passionate, and realer than real—if you’re raising your standards, this conversation is for you.

Tap in, reflect, and protect your peace. #OnTheWayToTheBodega

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