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June 24, 2025 93 mins

Jen Dayton returns to discuss the power of choice in relationships, the impact of societal conditioning, and the complexities of coming out. They explore the dynamics of queer relationships, the expectations placed on parenting, and the importance of emotional intelligence in navigating personal connections.

Jen shares their coming out story, the reactions from family, and the lessons learned about self-acceptance and relationship standards. The conversation emphasizes the need for individuals to define their own paths and challenge societal norms.

In this conversation, Cilia and Jen explore the complexities of relationships, sexuality, and self-discovery. They challenge societal norms surrounding monogamy and heterosexuality, discussing the impact of patriarchy on personal relationships.

The importance of communication, consent, and prioritizing one's own needs is emphasized, alongside the exploration of pleasure and sexual education. They advocate for decentering men in relationships, embracing queer identities, and the power of vulnerability and assertiveness. The discussion culminates in reflections on self-love and the potential for growth and change in relationships.

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Here's a previous episode on this show with Jen where we talked about nervous system healing: https://rss.com/podcasts/openlyspoken/1589071/

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Free Resources from Jen: https://www.jendayton.com/uncle-jens-library

Follow Jen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jendayton/

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If you want a playlist to feel and explore your rage like we mentioned in this episode, here's a playlist for that from Cilia: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2cfTxuIPtx0RUyeCWScpYP?si=a68a7da40ca9443c

(Feel free to follow me there I'm always making new playlists and adding to existing ones!)

Rate & Review this show on Apple to help us get to our first 200 reviews: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/openly-spoken/id1589276227

Follow Cilia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfexpressedbabe/

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