Ep 89 - Contraception and Christian Marriage

In this episode of Operation: Thriving Marriage, we tackle one of the most debated and often misunderstood topics in Christian marriage—contraception. With so many competing voices, from the cultural message of “do whatever you want,” to Catholic rejection of all forms of contraception, to nuanced Orthodox views, to the Protestant perspective of leaving the decision to the couple, it’s easy to feel confused about what is right. We explore the history of contraception, from ancient methods in Egypt and Israel, through modern developments like the pill, to the legal and cultural shifts of the twentieth century. Along the way, we look at how concerns about immorality and family planning have shaped the conversation, and why simply dismissing contraception as wrong fails to recognize the complexities of marriage, health, and family dynamics.

 

The Bible does not directly address contraception, but it does affirm that sex within marriage is good and that children are a blessing. With modern medicine lowering child mortality and changing family realities, couples now face new responsibilities in making wise, prayerful decisions about family planning. We share our own story of choosing to have two children, taking into account health concerns, financial stewardship, and God’s leading. Ultimately, contraception is a deeply personal issue, one that requires unity, prayer, and counsel within the Christian community. Our hope is that this conversation helps couples approach the topic with both wisdom and grace, strengthening not just their marriage but their faith as well.