Ep 91 - From Conflict to Connection: Turning Spousal Feedback Into Growth

Marriage is like a mirror—it reflects both the beauty we love and the flaws we’d rather avoid. Like mirrors, our spouses often reveal truths about us that we can’t see on our own. God uses marriage to shape us, to refine us, and to prepare us for His purposes. The problem is that none of us enjoy having our weaknesses exposed. Our natural instinct is to deny, defend, or pull away. But when we distance ourselves from our spouse’s observations, we not only weaken the bond of marriage but also miss an opportunity for spiritual growth and deeper intimacy with God.

Thriving marriages grow when we choose to look in the mirror instead of turning away. That means noticing our emotional triggers, inviting honest feedback, and communicating without blame. Practical tools like journaling, counseling, or even a monthly “mirror date” can help couples reflect and grow together. Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” The next time you feel criticized or irritated, ask yourself: “What is this showing me about me?” Marriage is not just about comfort—it’s God’s way of making us more like Him. Lean into the truth your spouse reflects, and let it strengthen both your relationship with God and with each other