Ep 93 - Loving Jesus… But Losing Each Other: The Hidden Cost of Ministry Burnout

Ministry burnout doesn’t just impact your calling—it can quietly erode your marriage. Whether you’re a pastor, ministry leader, or volunteer, the weight of constant service can lead to emotional exhaustion, disconnection, and resentment. Couples often find themselves running on empty, functioning more like co-workers than partners. When one spouse feels like they’re only getting the “leftovers” of the other’s time and energy, the relationship begins to suffer. Burnout is a silent killer in ministry marriages—showing up as fatigue, loss of intimacy, and the slow fading of joy once found in serving together.

 

In this episode, Bryon and Jen unpack the warning signs of ministry burnout and share practical, faith-based strategies for protecting your relationship. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, maintain spiritual intimacy, and have honest conversations about ministry demands. Discover why pride can blind us to our own limits—and how following Jesus’s rhythm of rest and retreat can bring healing and renewal to your marriage. Whether you’re in full-time ministry or a lay leader, this conversation will help you rediscover balance, connection, and purpose in both your calling and your marriage.