Opes and Dreams™ Podcast

When life hands you a rotten lemon, do you still try to make the juice? This week, Carrin and Kylei do some active talk-therapy while patiently waiting to eat some tacos. Things get heavy, but they manage to lift your spirits and allow you to laugh between the bouts of crying. Grab the tissues, and get your fire sauce, we’re going deep y’all.TRIGGER WARNING: this episode contains references to self-harm, depression, and suicidal th...

This episode is a whole mix of real life lately: weird weather, old injuries, mild existential crises, and the ongoing saga of Carrin’s patio cushion drama. We talk about being perfectionists (even when we know better), holding onto clothes for way too long, and that fine line between doing it all and doing nothing.

We also share some funny stories from Devere’s night market, a wild moment at a burlesque show, and a deep dive into o...

Carrin and Kylei explore the oddly satisfying moments that make life better- like watching ant colonies, falling down ASMR rabbit holes, spotting vintage lamp posts, and chasing the perfect haircut. They talk about navigating birthdays (and the pressure we put on them), using ChatGPT to win at adulting, and learning to let go of caring what others think. It’s real conversation, lots of laughs, and the kind of offbeat observations t...

We made it to episode 12 somehow, and this one’s a mix of random thoughts, weird stories, and a little heart. We talk about wanting crow costumes, why SkyZone is a germ pit, and how trampolines used to be fun before our backs gave out. There's also some love for Driftless Music Gardens, sober life shifts, childhood chaos, and the complicated art of being social when you’d rather not be. Bonus points if you make it to the part about...

New foam walls, same chaos. In Episode 11, Carrin and Kylei break down their janky studio upgrades, Big Richard concert adventures, sketchy tow truck drama, and the ongoing beige vs. bold-color standoff ...spoiler: Carrin’s Team Beige, Kylei’s Team Maximalist. They also get real about grief, boundaries, and why being an adult feels like managing one minor crisis after another. It’s messy, it’s honest, it’s dangerously relatable — a...

We made it to double digits, baby! In this milestone episode, we talk about why we skipped a week...spoiler alert: burnout hit hard. Carrin and Kylei get real about the emotional overload of trying to do it all, the ADHD struggle bus, and what it feels like to show up for things you love when you’re running on empty. We dive into the messiness of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the importance of protecting your energy (even...

In this episode, Kylei and Carrin definitely had a plan… until they didn’t. What started as a gender-affirming haircut spotlight quickly spirals into a full-blown ramblefest featuring macarons, fantasy book obsessions, e-bike speed scares, and unsolicited opinions about Ariana Grande in Wicked.

We touch on safe spaces (because duh), the absurdity of “warm gray” bike colors, adulting fails, and why we’ll fake phone calls to avoid awk...

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Carrin and Kylei take you inside the Green Room Public House in Madison, WI~ a dream come true for their dear friends John and Teresa Marie Hardy. They sit down with Teresa to talk about the incredible energy of this new space, the legacy of Up North, and the creative community that brought the Green Room to life with serious love and elbow grease.

Teresa opens up about performing in the Resp...

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In this episode of Opes and Dreams, we attempt our first-ever remote recording (fancy, right?), and somehow it actually works! Kylei reports live from St. Louis, sharing tales of zoo trips, surprise arch sightings, and her questionable vacation weather optimism. Meanwhile, we reflect on eight years of friendship, our unintentional Tim fan club, and the absolute necessity of gassing up your besties.

Also on the agenda: Ga...

Live music is supposed to be fun… so why are we sobbing? This week, we unpack the unexpected emotions of concerts, the struggle of festival season exhaustion, and our (Carrin's mostly) ongoing campaign to make shows end at a reasonable hour (because we need our beauty sleep). Plus, work-life chaos, travel dreams, and why unplugging is sometimes the best self-care.

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In this episode of Ope’s and Dreams Podcast, we dive into part two of our series on women’s health, covering everything from endometriosis and postpartum depression to the realities of perimenopause and menopause. Our candid conversation includes personal experiences, medical insights, and a discussion on the importance of mammograms. We also celebrate Carrin’s five years of sobriety and explore the impact of alcohol on women’s hea...

In this two-part series of Opes & Dreams, we’re diving deep into women’s health- starting with periods, menstrual myths, and the realities of living with cycles. From first-period horror stories to blood clots the size of Texas, we’re normalizing the conversation with humor and honesty. We also touch on birth control experiences, natural remedies, and why everyone—including men—should care about this topic.

Trigger warning: Thi...