Here are the 3 Steps to building unshakable ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ
๐ ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป and ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ are two separate things.
Many people are Motivated, very few are Confident.
You may be inspired or motivated to do something, but until you take ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, make ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ or actually ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐๐ฒ it you won't be confident.
Because true unshakable ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ is only EARNED.
Progress and action are the primary way to build ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ. A self-confident person is simply someone who keeps promises to themselves. Those promises compound over time.... Good or Bad.
๐ฆ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐ precedes ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฏ ๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ญ: Make is as simple as possible -Start small, remove obstacles, execute
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฎ: Make it measurable -Know when you completed the task
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฏ: Prioritize - Simplify to 3 -Everything does not matter equally
๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐: ๐ฏ ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป
1. Competency- Develop great competency in your craft. Have a high competency in what you do.
2. Autonomy- YOU are responsible for YOU. Have Extreme Ownership of your life, where it is now and where it is going.
3. Relationships- Build great relationships. Be somebody to others
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