OEP 21: The Art of Partnership with Tessa Nicolet of Cohesive Horsemanship

In this conversation, Tessa Nicolet shares her journey from a young horse enthusiast in Switzerland to a respected trainer and clinician based in Arizona. She discusses her philosophy of Cohesive Horsemanship, which blends classical techniques with practical applications, emphasizing mutual respect and communication between horse and rider. Tessa delves into the world of working equitation, highlighting its versatility and the diverse community around the sport. She reflects on the lessons horses have taught her about confidence and personal growth, and acknowledges the influential figures and experiences that have shaped her approach to horsemanship. Takeaways1. Diverse Training Background Creates Better HorsemanshipTessa's exposure to European pony club, Western reining, ranch work, and French classical dressage has developed a well-rounded approachCross-disciplinary training helps develop more versatile and educated horses and ridersDifferent disciplines can complement and enhance each other rather than conflict2. Working Equitation as a Comprehensive SportFour trials: dressage, ease of handling (obstacles), speed, and cattle workEmphasizes practical application of dressage skills through obstacles that simulate real ranch workCross-discipline friendly - riders can compete in Western or English tackSeven levels from introductory (walk/trot) to advanced (one-handed, freestyle to music)3. Quality Horsemanship is Partnership, Not DominanceDefined as "two willing beings coming together for a dance"Built on mutual trust, confidence, and respectNot about obedience or dominance, but about communication and willing cooperationRequires vulnerability and openness from the human partner4. Horses as Teachers and TherapistsHorses communicate through body language - humans must become skilled observersSimply acknowledging what you see in a horse's behavior can change the conversationHorses taught Tessa confidence, leadership skills, and how to be vulnerable in a healthy wayThe therapeutic value of horses extends far beyond riding5. Modern Training Must Adapt to Modern HorsesToday's horses are bred for athletic ability that didn't exist in classical timesThis can mask poor training methods because naturally gifted horses succeed despite themWorking with less naturally gifted horses requires better technique and deeper understandingBuilding an athlete requires progressive development of strength, flexibility, and mental capacityLearn more about Tessa Nicolet and Cohesive Horsemanship at cohesivehorsemanship.comFollow our socials and tune in to more episodes of the Optimized Equine Podcast at tamaraleebarrett.comChapters00:00 Tessa's Journey with Horses11:04 The Evolution of Cohesive Horsemanship20:02 Working Equitation: A Unique Discipline28:27 Defining Quality Horsemanship35:43 The Journey of Learning and Improvement42:06 Life Lessons from Horses48:01 Wishes for the Future of Horsemanship