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July 29, 2025 43 mins

Lexi Silver is 15 years old. She lost both of her parents before she turned 11. That should tell you enough—but it doesn’t. Because Lexi isn’t here for your pity. She’s not a sob story. She’s not a trauma statistic. She’s a writer, an advocate, and one of the most emotionally intelligent people you’ll ever hear speak into a microphone.

In this episode, Lexi breaks down what grief actually feels like when you’re a kid and the adults around you just don’t get it. She talks about losing her mom on Christmas morning, her dad nine months later, how the system let her down, and how Instagram trolls tell her she’s faking it for attention. She also explains why she writes, what Experience Camps gave her, how she channels anger into poems, and what to say—and not say—to someone grieving.

Her life isn’t a Netflix drama. But it should be.

And by the way, she’s not “so strong.” She’s just human. You’ll never forget this conversation.


RELATED LINKS

Lexi on Instagram: @meet.my.grief

Buy her book: The Girl Behind Grief’s Shadow

Experience Camps


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