March 1, 2022 • 21 mins
A memory popped up on my socials from a year ago when a new client signed with me, and she was terrified, but she did it anyway. That reminded me of the time I went to an event in Dallas when I became a firewalker. At the time, I didn’t know why I did it exactly, but looking back now I get it.
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Tatiana Amico (00:29):
I shared this thought that I'm going to be
sharing in a moment on my socialmedias the other day.
And it was actually a memorythat had popped up from the
previous year.
So I had shared it last year andit popped up and I was like, oh,
damn, yes, this is so good.
And it brought me back to why Ishared the thought that I had,
(00:49):
which is there is something somagnetizing about a woman who
makes a scary decision.
That brings up a lot of what shehas been suppressing because she
knows it's leading her to whereshe is meant to go.
And I had shared that like soonafter I had a new client joined
my higher level, longer term,higher investment coach.
(01:12):
Experience.
And I just, it was not an easydecision for her, right?
It was an F yes, I'm doing thisand she did it, but it was scary
for her.
And soon after she joined, likeshe was, she had new clients
coming in and just a lot ofthings were happening for her.
And it's just, it's so truebecause the energy of saying,
(01:36):
fuck yes to yourself.
Especially when it's scary asheck.
Is magnetizing a woman in thatenergy is magnetizing when she
trusts herself so much, when shelistens to herself, when she
listens to her desires, when sheknows what it is that she wants,
and she's making the decisionsin alignment with that and who
(01:58):
she must be in order to havewhat she wants, like that shit
is powerful and it is felt byothers, right?
This is energetic.
This is what we do in my world.
Like full body embodiment, allthis kind of stuff.
We don't just do mindset.
Do like strategy and shit likethat.
We're doing energetics andembodiment, which is a whole
(02:19):
other level.
Right.
So I have done this so manytimes too.
So I started thinking back tomyself and I'm like, damn, yes,
this is it.
Like, this is what it's allabout.
In 2016, I went to an event mydaughter I'm actually looking at
a picture of her.
Right.
She was a little baby, likearound that time.
(02:41):
So I think she was what, maybelike six months old.
And we went to an event inDallas.
It was a big, big, big event.
I would be there all freakingday, all day, all night long.
And my husband would bring herto me to feed her.
Like it was a whole thing, but Iwent, I showed up anyway and it
was an amazing experience.
(03:02):
And the first night I had towalk across.
Very very, very hot coals.
Right.
I became a fire Walker that,that night, and it hit me today.
I didn't know why I was doing itwhen I was doing it.
Right.
I did it cause they were like,yeah, let's do it.
(03:23):
And you know, whatever I was inthe moment, but now it's hitting
me.
Now, it's all making sense.
And this can happen.
Often we do something, we gothrough something and then we
look back.
As we are like this whole newperson and we look back to
something that we've done, we'relike, oh yes, yes, yes.
This is all making sense now.
(03:43):
But I started thinking about it.
I didn't have to do it.
Right.
Like there were, I don't even alot of people, thousands, tens
of thousands, a lot, a lot ofpeople.
So nobody would have known if Ididn't do it.
Right.
Like I wasn't being tracked.
Right.
They wouldn't have known if Ididn't do it.
And I almost didn't do it.
But I did it.
(04:05):
I did it.
I made it through, I made it tothe other side.
I'm sure I felt my power in thatmoment.
All the endorphins were goingall of that, but it was a scary
decision to do that.
And I did it anyway.
Two years later, I went toanother event put on and this
time I had to climb up a 40 footpole and jump off.
(04:28):
I have a whole story about that.
That was an amazing experienceas well, which I almost didn't
go to because I had some money,shit coming up and blah, blah,
blah.
Like there was a lot coming up,but I felt this pulling.
It was like, you have to go, youhave to go, you have to go, like
you're being called to do this.
And it was there at that eventafter jumping off the pole,
maybe a few days later that Ihad this voice just come through
(04:52):
and it was like, you're here todo so much more.
This has happened for me in thepast, obviously many, many times
it was like, no, you're here toreach more women in another way,
in a next level way, you arehere to do so much more.
And soon after that came mybook, an opportunity to write a
book, which I took, which thatwas a very scary decision.
(05:14):
One.
The investment was more thanI've ever invested in anything
in my life.
And to just who I had to becomein order to write a book, to put
my story out there in that way.
And I mean, if you want to like,get all your shit out, write a
book, like so much came up forme when I did that, you know, I
say that being an entrepreneur,a lot of your stuff comes up.
(05:34):
Writing a book is the samething, actually, a podcast as
well.
So we make this Garry decisionsright.
To become the woman that we mustbe in order to have what we
desire last week.
I went to a waterpark and indoorwater park with my family.
And my son is finally at thatage where he's like, let's go on
(05:56):
the water sides.
Let's do this.
And he went and he's like, mom,you gotta go.
You gotta come with me.
I'm telling you, like I wasfreaking the F out about it.
Woman, you gotta do it.
Go fricking do it, go on theWaterside.
Like I was talking myself intothis.
I felt the butterflies as I wasgoing up those stairs, but I
(06:17):
went down and it went down againand again and again and again,
and we had so much fun.
So the scary decisions, so weknow this, yay.
I'm going to make a scarydecision.
I'm going to be so magnetizing.
Well, here's the.
There's also these periods oneof my mentors said this to me
(06:38):
and I was just like, oh my gosh,I feel this so deep in my soul.
I love this so much.
These periods that are calledinitiations initiations.
It's that like?
Gooey funky thing.
(06:59):
I don't know.
Like, that's just how you'refeeling like, oh my goodness,
what is happening right now?
I don't know what's going on.
Like you're making scarydecisions.
You might think you're frickingcrazy.
Other people might think thatyou're crazy.
You're going to have to let goof certain things.
You may be feeling all kinds ofemotions, sadness, anger.
(07:23):
I don't know.
There could be excitement.
It's like a whole, it's hard toeven explain when you're in it,
but you know, again, that you'rein it for a reason and you're
going to get through it andthen.
You're going to be able to leadothers in a whole new way that
(07:44):
you never even knew waspossible, right?
Because you have led yourselfand you have been initiated, and
now you are the woman that canhelp your people that are a few
steps behind you.
With that too.
So we go through this for areason.
So the scary decisions are for areason it's leading you to where
you are meant to go to be thatleader that you must be for your
(08:07):
people to show others what ispossible to create the ripple
effect.
So again, you might think you'recrazy.
It might feel like nothing isworking.
And these are those.
These are those moments.
Again, it's like thatinitiation, it sees.
do.
I allow myself to dip down intothat into the it's not working
(08:31):
bullshit, or am I going to keepgoing?
Am I going to trust that everysingle thing is working for me?
Am I going to trust that everydecision that I have made every
scary decision that I have madeevery move that I have made
towards where I know I meant togo all the aligned moves, all of
that is leading me to where I'mgoing.
Even if right now in thismoment, it doesn't look.
(08:53):
Even if right now in thismoment, it seems like nothing is
working.
And I thought of that as I wasthinking of what I was going to
say for this.
I started thinking about, I wastelling my, my husband and I had
a day night last night.
I would just start sharing thiswith him.
I specifically remember thiswith my last two.
(09:14):
So I have three kids and Ibirthed all of them, no
medication.
Like my first was born in a poolthing.
My other two were born at abirthing center.
And that last stage of labor,which is so perfectly named
transitions.
(09:35):
That last stage of labor, whereI remember thinking to myself,
man, I'm getting, I'm gettingchoked up thinking about this.
I remember thinking this isn'tworking.
And I remember thinking what'swrong with me?
Why am I not?
Why are they not coming?
What is going on?
This is like fucking horrible.
Like this hurts so bad.
I don't think that I could takeit any more.
(09:56):
Like nothing is working.
I remember literally saying thatto my.
Over and over like this isn'tworking, there's something
wrong.
Like, there's something wrongwith me.
This isn't what, what ishappening?
She's not coming.
She's not coming.
Like what is going on?
And she just kept saying,everything is working.
It's fine.
You're doing fine.
(10:16):
This is exactly how it's meantto be.
You're fine.
You're fine.
You're fine.
And I had to surrender and Iremember so, especially with
Arden, my third.
That moment of completesurrender, where I went into, I
don't even know where the hell Iwent in that moment, but it was
(10:39):
just pure trust and faith, puretrust and face.
So whenever I am in a momentwhere I am thinking, oh my God,
nothing is working.
Why isn't anything working?
I remember that moment.
And I surrender and I rememberwhat true, like really true
trust and faith feels like.
(11:00):
And moments later she came, shecame.
So we might think that thingsaren't working, we might feel
like we're freeing on crazy, butit all is.
We just need to go through thatinitiated.
(11:20):
Transition releasing an oldidentity.
In that moment, I released theidentity of the woman who
doesn't think that everything isworking.
She doesn't believe thateverything is working into the
woman who did right.
(11:44):
So we must do that in order togo to that next level, that old
identity is seeing things.
That has you where you are rightnow, but you're wanting to go
further.
So you must have the new beliefsin order to do that.
You must take actions from adifferent state, from maybe a
(12:06):
different emotion from thatdifferent energy, right?
I just want to share somethingthat's been, it's coming up for
a couple of clients and it'sactually around the money and
just chatting with them andseeing how.
You know, so many live in thisfear and scarcity around money,
(12:29):
around many, many things, butaround money as well, we were
talking about and just thinkingvery like logically, right.
We have been taught, especiallyaround money.
Like there's this paradigm ofjust thinking super logically
around money and like thebudgeting and making sure.
You know, you don't go over thisand you don't do that.
And like hide the credit cardand all this other shit.
(12:51):
Right.
So, So many live in this fearand scarcity around me.
And being super strict andholding onto it so tight versus
understanding that money isenergy versus understanding, not
even understanding like fuckingknowing in their soul, that
(13:13):
there is an abundance and somuch as possible.
Like there's so much possibilityfor.
Believing that when you spend,when you invest, you get that
back, time's a shit ton.
And no matter what it is, I go,this just happened.
I went to target and I just, Iwent in for something and they
(13:34):
didn't have that.
And obviously, you know, targetfricking target, man.
I ended up with a couple, a fewother things.
This is going to come back.
I just think it, this is goingto come back to me times.
I don't even freaking know, buta lot.
Right.
Because every time that I spent,every time I invest, I know it
comes back to me in times, 10times, a hundred times, whatever
(13:55):
the hell I want to say.
I'm.
Get a new freaking sexy assvehicle that I've been desiring
for like three years.
And I've been having some stuffcome up again, but I'm like, who
am I tapping into right now?
Is it the old identity of thescarcity and the fear and all of
that?
Or is it this new identity thatyou talk about all the time and
that you say you embody thewoman who listens to what she
(14:18):
wants has a desire.
It shows up for her and shesays, fuck yes to it.
No matter.
So I'm going for it, right.
I'm going for it.
Scared I'm going for it.
Okay.
So it's the beliefs, it's theemotions that come up around it,
checking in on those emotions,feeling those emotions.
(14:42):
How do I want to be feelinginstead around all of this and
then doing the work to getthere?
Because there's a lot of talk inmanifestation where it's like,
just feel just, you know, howwould it feel like to have this
was like, if you've neverfreaking had it, you know, or it
scares the crap out of you.
(15:03):
That's not going to work.
And this is what this wholeseason has been about.
The reality, the truth, likelet's really do this.
So you're not just shiny objectsall over the place.
You're actually doing the workin order to get the things that
you really, really truly desirethe energetics around it.
You stepping into this identity.
Okay.
(15:23):
Ooh.
So that you're not blocking.
The money or whatever it Lwhatever else it is that is
literally all around you.
Like everything you desire isright there.
It's all there.
But if we're not doing the work,then we're blocking it.
We're not seeing it.
The ideas and the opportunitiesare right there.
(15:45):
We got to be open to actuallyseeing them.
as things start to get comfy,You're going for an ex Saba.
Right?
Right.
You wouldn't be listening tothis if you weren't here for
next levels and more and allthat shit.
Right.
So if you notice as things startto get comfortable, it's a sign
(16:06):
to get uncomfortable again.
Right.
It's assigned to getuncomfortable again.
So when I'm working out and I'mdoing a certain number of, let's
just say squats with a weight.
And it just gets so easy that Icould do so many.
I know that it's time for me toincrease that weight.
(16:30):
Right.
If it's comfy, it's time for meto get uncomfortable again,
because again, what we haveright now is based on what we
know that we can do that we'vedone.
So to go for more, it's going totake you doing something you
have.
Or having that new belief, a newenergy when you do the thing,
(16:54):
because yeah, it might be thesame thing, right?
It might be the same action, butyou're different when you do it,
who you are when you're doing itis different.
And the thing is, is you may notknow what it is.
That's next they got to dobecause.
(17:16):
I haven't done it yet.
Right.
You'd be doing it if you knew.
Right.
So decide, decide decision time.
Are you really, truly here forit?
Ask what's next.
(17:39):
And notice as you are given allof the opportunities and
remember they're not going tobe, usually they're not rainbows
and unicorns.
Sometimes, sometimes you know,it is right, but oftentimes we
have to get through somechallenges.
We have to be able to walkacross that fire, jump off that
pole, go down the water slide,make it through that transition.
(18:03):
In order to be the woman we mustbe in order to go to that next
level.
So notice when things get easy,do you stay there?
Do you stay in the comfy?
COVID.
Or are you willing to go formore?
Are you really, really willingto go for more, to do the scary
(18:26):
things, to believe in somethingnew to trust and to have faith.
Are you willing to decide?
Are you deciding and what isyour decision?
What are you here for?
(18:47):
And remember this, that noteveryone will get it right.
Not everyone will get it.
Not everyone will understandsome of the things that I say in
that I believe they'll look atme like I'm freaking crazy.
They'll be like, don't listen toher.
I mean, I don't know if peopledo this, but I'm just saying
right.
How can you think that you couldjust go and, you know, get that
(19:09):
and get this and all, it's allgoing to come back to you and
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Like, no, I know this.
If you don't that's okay.
You can decide to step into thisvibe if you want.
It's a very nice place to be,but if you don't.
That's your journey, not mine.
(19:30):
I'm not here to control you, butI'm here to be in command of
myself.
And so, again, not everyone willget it.
It's not up to them, to it's onyou to continue to honor
yourself.
And what you know is your truthand where, you know, you are
(19:50):
going, even if it's not aperfectly laid out plan.
So again, you know, that thereis something so magnetizing
about a woman who makes a scarydecision.
That brings up a lot of what shehas been suppressing because she
(20:11):
knows it's leading her to whereshe has meant to go.
And she is willing to go throughthe initiation.
I shared this thought that I'm going to be
sharing in a moment on my socialmedias the other day.
And it was actually a memorythat had popped up from the
previous year.
So I had shared it last year andit popped up and I was like, oh,
damn, yes, this is so good.
And it brought me back to why Ishared the thought that I had,
(00:49):
which is there is something somagnetizing about a woman who
makes a scary decision.
That brings up a lot of what shehas been suppressing because she
knows it's leading her to whereshe is meant to go.
And I had shared that like soonafter I had a new client joined
my higher level, longer term,higher investment coach.
(01:12):
Experience.
And I just, it was not an easydecision for her, right?
It was an F yes, I'm doing thisand she did it, but it was scary
for her.
And soon after she joined, likeshe was, she had new clients
coming in and just a lot ofthings were happening for her.
And it's just, it's so truebecause the energy of saying,
(01:36):
fuck yes to yourself.
Especially when it's scary asheck.
Is magnetizing a woman in thatenergy is magnetizing when she
trusts herself so much, when shelistens to herself, when she
listens to her desires, when sheknows what it is that she wants,
and she's making the decisionsin alignment with that and who
(01:58):
she must be in order to havewhat she wants, like that shit
is powerful and it is felt byothers, right?
This is energetic.
This is what we do in my world.
Like full body embodiment, allthis kind of stuff.
We don't just do mindset.
Do like strategy and shit likethat.
We're doing energetics andembodiment, which is a whole
(02:19):
other level.
Right.
So I have done this so manytimes too.
So I started thinking back tomyself and I'm like, damn, yes,
this is it.
Like, this is what it's allabout.
In 2016, I went to an event mydaughter I'm actually looking at
a picture of her.
Right.
She was a little baby, likearound that time.
(02:41):
So I think she was what, maybelike six months old.
And we went to an event inDallas.
It was a big, big, big event.
I would be there all freakingday, all day, all night long.
And my husband would bring herto me to feed her.
Like it was a whole thing, but Iwent, I showed up anyway and it
was an amazing experience.
(03:02):
And the first night I had towalk across.
Very very, very hot coals.
Right.
I became a fire Walker that,that night, and it hit me today.
I didn't know why I was doing itwhen I was doing it.
Right.
I did it cause they were like,yeah, let's do it.
(03:23):
And you know, whatever I was inthe moment, but now it's hitting
me.
Now, it's all making sense.
And this can happen.
Often we do something, we gothrough something and then we
look back.
As we are like this whole newperson and we look back to
something that we've done, we'relike, oh yes, yes, yes.
This is all making sense now.
(03:43):
But I started thinking about it.
I didn't have to do it.
Right.
Like there were, I don't even alot of people, thousands, tens
of thousands, a lot, a lot ofpeople.
So nobody would have known if Ididn't do it.
Right.
Like I wasn't being tracked.
Right.
They wouldn't have known if Ididn't do it.
And I almost didn't do it.
But I did it.
(04:05):
I did it.
I made it through, I made it tothe other side.
I'm sure I felt my power in thatmoment.
All the endorphins were goingall of that, but it was a scary
decision to do that.
And I did it anyway.
Two years later, I went toanother event put on and this
time I had to climb up a 40 footpole and jump off.
(04:28):
I have a whole story about that.
That was an amazing experienceas well, which I almost didn't
go to because I had some money,shit coming up and blah, blah,
blah.
Like there was a lot coming up,but I felt this pulling.
It was like, you have to go, youhave to go, you have to go, like
you're being called to do this.
And it was there at that eventafter jumping off the pole,
maybe a few days later that Ihad this voice just come through
(04:52):
and it was like, you're here todo so much more.
This has happened for me in thepast, obviously many, many times
it was like, no, you're here toreach more women in another way,
in a next level way, you arehere to do so much more.
And soon after that came mybook, an opportunity to write a
book, which I took, which thatwas a very scary decision.
(05:14):
One.
The investment was more thanI've ever invested in anything
in my life.
And to just who I had to becomein order to write a book, to put
my story out there in that way.
And I mean, if you want to like,get all your shit out, write a
book, like so much came up forme when I did that, you know, I
say that being an entrepreneur,a lot of your stuff comes up.
(05:34):
Writing a book is the samething, actually, a podcast as
well.
So we make this Garry decisionsright.
To become the woman that we mustbe in order to have what we
desire last week.
I went to a waterpark and indoorwater park with my family.
And my son is finally at thatage where he's like, let's go on
(05:56):
the water sides.
Let's do this.
And he went and he's like, mom,you gotta go.
You gotta come with me.
I'm telling you, like I wasfreaking the F out about it.
Woman, you gotta do it.
Go fricking do it, go on theWaterside.
Like I was talking myself intothis.
I felt the butterflies as I wasgoing up those stairs, but I
(06:17):
went down and it went down againand again and again and again,
and we had so much fun.
So the scary decisions, so weknow this, yay.
I'm going to make a scarydecision.
I'm going to be so magnetizing.
Well, here's the.
There's also these periods oneof my mentors said this to me
(06:38):
and I was just like, oh my gosh,I feel this so deep in my soul.
I love this so much.
These periods that are calledinitiations initiations.
It's that like?
Gooey funky thing.
(06:59):
I don't know.
Like, that's just how you'refeeling like, oh my goodness,
what is happening right now?
I don't know what's going on.
Like you're making scarydecisions.
You might think you're frickingcrazy.
Other people might think thatyou're crazy.
You're going to have to let goof certain things.
You may be feeling all kinds ofemotions, sadness, anger.
(07:23):
I don't know.
There could be excitement.
It's like a whole, it's hard toeven explain when you're in it,
but you know, again, that you'rein it for a reason and you're
going to get through it andthen.
You're going to be able to leadothers in a whole new way that
(07:44):
you never even knew waspossible, right?
Because you have led yourselfand you have been initiated, and
now you are the woman that canhelp your people that are a few
steps behind you.
With that too.
So we go through this for areason.
So the scary decisions are for areason it's leading you to where
you are meant to go to be thatleader that you must be for your
(08:07):
people to show others what ispossible to create the ripple
effect.
So again, you might think you'recrazy.
It might feel like nothing isworking.
And these are those.
These are those moments.
Again, it's like thatinitiation, it sees.
do.
I allow myself to dip down intothat into the it's not working
(08:31):
bullshit, or am I going to keepgoing?
Am I going to trust that everysingle thing is working for me?
Am I going to trust that everydecision that I have made every
scary decision that I have madeevery move that I have made
towards where I know I meant togo all the aligned moves, all of
that is leading me to where I'mgoing.
Even if right now in thismoment, it doesn't look.
(08:53):
Even if right now in thismoment, it seems like nothing is
working.
And I thought of that as I wasthinking of what I was going to
say for this.
I started thinking about, I wastelling my, my husband and I had
a day night last night.
I would just start sharing thiswith him.
I specifically remember thiswith my last two.
(09:14):
So I have three kids and Ibirthed all of them, no
medication.
Like my first was born in a poolthing.
My other two were born at abirthing center.
And that last stage of labor,which is so perfectly named
transitions.
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That last stage of labor, whereI remember thinking to myself,
man, I'm getting, I'm gettingchoked up thinking about this.
I remember thinking this isn'tworking.
And I remember thinking what'swrong with me?
Why am I not?
Why are they not coming?
What is going on?
This is like fucking horrible.
Like this hurts so bad.
I don't think that I could takeit any more.
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Like nothing is working.
I remember literally saying thatto my.
Over and over like this isn'tworking, there's something
wrong.
Like, there's something wrongwith me.
This isn't what, what ishappening?
She's not coming.
She's not coming.
Like what is going on?
And she just kept saying,everything is working.
It's fine.
You're doing fine.
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This is exactly how it's meantto be.
You're fine.
You're fine.
You're fine.
And I had to surrender and Iremember so, especially with
Arden, my third.
That moment of completesurrender, where I went into, I
don't even know where the hell Iwent in that moment, but it was
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just pure trust and faith, puretrust and face.
So whenever I am in a momentwhere I am thinking, oh my God,
nothing is working.
Why isn't anything working?
I remember that moment.
And I surrender and I rememberwhat true, like really true
trust and faith feels like.
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And moments later she came, shecame.
So we might think that thingsaren't working, we might feel
like we're freeing on crazy, butit all is.
We just need to go through thatinitiated.
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Transition releasing an oldidentity.
In that moment, I released theidentity of the woman who
doesn't think that everything isworking.
She doesn't believe thateverything is working into the
woman who did right.
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So we must do that in order togo to that next level, that old
identity is seeing things.
That has you where you are rightnow, but you're wanting to go
further.
So you must have the new beliefsin order to do that.
You must take actions from adifferent state, from maybe a
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different emotion from thatdifferent energy, right?
I just want to share somethingthat's been, it's coming up for
a couple of clients and it'sactually around the money and
just chatting with them andseeing how.
You know, so many live in thisfear and scarcity around money,
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around many, many things, butaround money as well, we were
talking about and just thinkingvery like logically, right.
We have been taught, especiallyaround money.
Like there's this paradigm ofjust thinking super logically
around money and like thebudgeting and making sure.
You know, you don't go over thisand you don't do that.
And like hide the credit cardand all this other shit.
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Right.
So, So many live in this fearand scarcity around me.
And being super strict andholding onto it so tight versus
understanding that money isenergy versus understanding, not
even understanding like fuckingknowing in their soul, that
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there is an abundance and somuch as possible.
Like there's so much possibilityfor.
Believing that when you spend,when you invest, you get that
back, time's a shit ton.
And no matter what it is, I go,this just happened.
I went to target and I just, Iwent in for something and they
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didn't have that.
And obviously, you know, targetfricking target, man.
I ended up with a couple, a fewother things.
This is going to come back.
I just think it, this is goingto come back to me times.
I don't even freaking know, buta lot.
Right.
Because every time that I spent,every time I invest, I know it
comes back to me in times, 10times, a hundred times, whatever
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the hell I want to say.
I'm.
Get a new freaking sexy assvehicle that I've been desiring
for like three years.
And I've been having some stuffcome up again, but I'm like, who
am I tapping into right now?
Is it the old identity of thescarcity and the fear and all of
that?
Or is it this new identity thatyou talk about all the time and
that you say you embody thewoman who listens to what she
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wants has a desire.
It shows up for her and shesays, fuck yes to it.
No matter.
So I'm going for it, right.
I'm going for it.
Scared I'm going for it.
Okay.
So it's the beliefs, it's theemotions that come up around it,
checking in on those emotions,feeling those emotions.
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How do I want to be feelinginstead around all of this and
then doing the work to getthere?
Because there's a lot of talk inmanifestation where it's like,
just feel just, you know, howwould it feel like to have this
was like, if you've neverfreaking had it, you know, or it
scares the crap out of you.
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That's not going to work.
And this is what this wholeseason has been about.
The reality, the truth, likelet's really do this.
So you're not just shiny objectsall over the place.
You're actually doing the workin order to get the things that
you really, really truly desirethe energetics around it.
You stepping into this identity.
Okay.
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Ooh.
So that you're not blocking.
The money or whatever it Lwhatever else it is that is
literally all around you.
Like everything you desire isright there.
It's all there.
But if we're not doing the work,then we're blocking it.
We're not seeing it.
The ideas and the opportunitiesare right there.
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We got to be open to actuallyseeing them.
as things start to get comfy,You're going for an ex Saba.
Right?
Right.
You wouldn't be listening tothis if you weren't here for
next levels and more and allthat shit.
Right.
So if you notice as things startto get comfortable, it's a sign
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to get uncomfortable again.
Right.
It's assigned to getuncomfortable again.
So when I'm working out and I'mdoing a certain number of, let's
just say squats with a weight.
And it just gets so easy that Icould do so many.
I know that it's time for me toincrease that weight.
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Right.
If it's comfy, it's time for meto get uncomfortable again,
because again, what we haveright now is based on what we
know that we can do that we'vedone.
So to go for more, it's going totake you doing something you
have.
Or having that new belief, a newenergy when you do the thing,
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because yeah, it might be thesame thing, right?
It might be the same action, butyou're different when you do it,
who you are when you're doing itis different.
And the thing is, is you may notknow what it is.
That's next they got to dobecause.
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I haven't done it yet.
Right.
You'd be doing it if you knew.
Right.
So decide, decide decision time.
Are you really, truly here forit?
Ask what's next.
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And notice as you are given allof the opportunities and
remember they're not going tobe, usually they're not rainbows
and unicorns.
Sometimes, sometimes you know,it is right, but oftentimes we
have to get through somechallenges.
We have to be able to walkacross that fire, jump off that
pole, go down the water slide,make it through that transition.
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In order to be the woman we mustbe in order to go to that next
level.
So notice when things get easy,do you stay there?
Do you stay in the comfy?
COVID.
Or are you willing to go formore?
Are you really, really willingto go for more, to do the scary
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things, to believe in somethingnew to trust and to have faith.
Are you willing to decide?
Are you deciding and what isyour decision?
What are you here for?
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And remember this, that noteveryone will get it right.
Not everyone will get it.
Not everyone will understandsome of the things that I say in
that I believe they'll look atme like I'm freaking crazy.
They'll be like, don't listen toher.
I mean, I don't know if peopledo this, but I'm just saying
right.
How can you think that you couldjust go and, you know, get that
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and get this and all, it's allgoing to come back to you and
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Like, no, I know this.
If you don't that's okay.
You can decide to step into thisvibe if you want.
It's a very nice place to be,but if you don't.
That's your journey, not mine.
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I'm not here to control you, butI'm here to be in command of
myself.
And so, again, not everyone willget it.
It's not up to them, to it's onyou to continue to honor
yourself.
And what you know is your truthand where, you know, you are
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going, even if it's not aperfectly laid out plan.
So again, you know, that thereis something so magnetizing
about a woman who makes a scarydecision.
That brings up a lot of what shehas been suppressing because she
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knows it's leading her to whereshe has meant to go.
And she is willing to go throughthe initiation.
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