When you're in—or recovering from—a destructive relationship, especially while trying to co-parent, it’s tempting to focus solely on the other person’s behavior. But what if one of the most powerful paths to healing is found in taking an honest look at your part?
In this episode, we dive into a deeper examen of how we may unknowingly contribute to the relational patterns we desperately want to break. This isn’t about blame—it’s about awareness, growth, and the freedom that comes from doing things differently moving forward.
This conversation is raw, real, and rooted in hope—especially for women who feel stuck in fear, shame, or self-doubt. You’ll leave with clarity, compassion for yourself, and maybe even the language you’ve been missing to name what’s really going on inside you.
Whether you're still in it, out of it, or somewhere in between—this one’s for you.
Related Episodes from Own Your Revival:
Ep. 16 – Tori Harris Gray on Marriage, Motherhood & Moving with the Holy Spirit
Ep. 71 – 3 Ways to Find Peace When Big Moments Don’t Go as Planned
Resources:
I Want to Trust You But I Don’t by Lysa TerKeurst
Al-Anon Family Groups (for families and friends of those affected by another’s drinking)
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