Parental Alienation Speaks

Parental Alienation Speaks

Like many who have lived through the nightmare of parental alienation, I thought I knew all there was to know after experiencing it with my husband. But as I began speaking with child advocates, counselors, social workers, and other professionals, I realized that simply living through it didn’t mean I fully understood it. I wasn’t connecting the dots for them, and if I wanted to make a real impact, I knew I needed to bridge that gap. This realization led me to dive deep into evidence-based research. Now, I’m passionate about combing through books, journal articles and other resources to uncover key insights that can make a difference for those going through this. Through this podcast, I aim to break down the most important findings and present them in a way that resonates with you. My goal is not only to give you information that sticks but also to provide practical tools to help you along your journey. Join me as I confront the psychological abuse of Parental Alienation with an evidence-based approach, delivering expert insights and actionable strategies to understand, navigate, and cope with its harmful impact. The information shared in this podcast is drawn from my YouTube videos. If you'd like to dive deeper or watch the full videos, feel free to check out my YouTube channel for more in-depth content. ---- YouTube Channel: Parental Alienation Speaks - YouTube Website: Parental Alienation Speaks Free Evidence-Based Resources Download: Here References Donate Here Contact Me: hello@ParentalAlienationSpeaks.com

Episodes

December 8, 2024 30 mins

Arkansas Court of Appeals

Cyndall Sharp (Alienator) v. MJ Keeler (Target Parent)

May 9, 2007

Join me as I explore this precedential case whereby Cyndall Sharp (alienator) appeals the Washington County Circuit Court's grant of M.J. Keeler's (Target Parent) petition for change of custody of the parties' minor son, Corbin Michael Jonas Sharp Keeler, who was born August 30, 2004. On appeal, she argues that the trial court erred in finding...

Mark as Played

Indiana Court of Appeals

Marianne Lawrence Hanson (Alienator) vs. Edward Joseph Spolnik (Target Parent)

August 29, 1995

Join me as I explore this precedential 1995 custody case at the Indiana Court of Appeals. In this appeal, Marianne Lawrence Hanson (mother) challenges a decision that granted sole legal & physical custody of her 4-year-old daughter to Edward Joseph Spolnik, Jr. (father) largely due to her relentless use of pare...

Mark as Played

Did you know that Parental Alienation can happen in Intact Families? Learn 3 patterns used by alienators that were revealed by talking with 40 adults that were alienated as children in both Intact and Divorced Families. Hear what these children say about their alienators.

---

Baker1, A. L. (2006). Patterns of Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Qualitative Study of Adults Who were Alienated from a Parent as a Child. American Journal of F...

Mark as Played

Alienators are masterful at rewriting history. Learn why they do it and how it's accomplished.

-----------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

Listen to 7 ways our alienator encouraged betrayal in our parental alienation nightmare.

---------------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

How exactly do alienators undermine a target parent's authority? Learn ways alienators accomplish this and why.

The 17 Tactics Podcast is Here -->https://rss.com/podcasts/parentalalienationspeaks/1695008

The 5 Categories Are:

  1. Isolation
  2. Fear
  3. Erasing & False Memory Implantation
  4. Undermining Authority
  5. Encouraging Betrayal

-------------------

Website: ParentalAlienationSpeaks.com

-------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Pri...

Mark as Played

Alienators use rituals to break any emotional ties a child has to a target parent. Hear personal stories of rituals used by the alienator to destroy their attachment to their father.

The 17 Tactics Podcast is Here -->https://rss.com/podcasts/parentalalienationspeaks/1695008

The 5 Categories Are:

  1. Isolation
  2. Fear
  3. Erasing & False Memory Implantation
  4. Undermining Authority
  5. Encouraging Betrayal

-------------------

Website: Parental...

Mark as Played

Fear is the 2nd tactic used most by an alienating parent. Find out why fear is used & hear 6 examples from our personal story.

The 17 Tactics Podcast is Here -->https://rss.com/podcasts/parentalalienationspeaks/1695008

The 5 Categories Are:

  1. Isolation
  2. Fear
  3. Erasing & False Memory Implantation
  4. Undermining Authority
  5. Encouraging Betrayal

-------------------

Website: ParentalAlienationSpeaks.com

For Free Evidence-Based Resource...

Mark as Played

Isolation is the number 1 tactic used by an alienating parent. Learn why it's used and what it accomplishes in the alienated child. Hear 8 examples from our personal experience.

The 17 Tactics Podcast is Here -->https://rss.com/podcasts/parentalalienationspeaks/1695008

The 5 Categories Are:

  1. Isolation
  2. Fear
  3. Erasing & False Memory Implantation
  4. Undermining Authority
  5. Encouraging Betrayal

-------------------

Website: ParentalAlien...

Mark as Played

What is ambivalence? And how does an alienator use it to his or her advantage? Learn what ambivalence is and why it's one of the most powerful weapons used in parental alienation

-----------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

How does parental alienation fit into adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)? How much could it contribute to an ACEs score? Learn what ACEs is and how PA fits.

---------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

Learn 11 possible motives for why alienators destroy children. Find out 6 facts we know about their behavior thru evidence-based research that will absolutely shock you.

--------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

Learn the 8 behavioral manifestations experienced only by children who are victims of parental alienation.

-------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

The impact of psychological abuse on the brain can impact a child for a lifetime. Learn how the brain forms and what happens when it forms under a toxic stress environment.

--------------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

Hear the 17 Tactics identified through research that alienating parents use to manipulate children.

  1. Denigrading the other parent to the child to create the impression the other parent is unsafe, unloving & unavailable
  2. Limiting the child's contact w the other parent such that the parent & child cannot share meaningfully in each other's lives
  3. Interfering w the child's communication w the other parent such that the parent &...
Mark as Played

Do you know what psychological abuse is? Does parental alienation fit the criteria? Learn the exact definition of psychological abuse and the 8 categories it covers in this comprehensive evidence-based podcast.

----

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochures

Sign Up For My Free E-Course: Free Parental Alienation E-Course

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel

References

Mark as Played

Learn 16 ways to possibly identify a child experiencing parental alienation and 7 possible ways to stop it. This information is critical for everyone but especially schoolteachers, school counselors and any child advocate directly involved with children.

Because parental alienation looks different on every child, this list, although helpful, is most not all inclusive.

---------

For Free Evidence-Based Resources: Printable PDF Brochur...

Mark as Played
October 10, 2024 4 mins

In this episode, I delve into the complex and often misunderstood topic of parental alienation. Parental alienation occurs when (typically) one parent, intentionally or unintentionally, influences a child to reject or distance themselves from the other parent, often as part of a high-conflict separation or divorce. This behavior is a form of psychological abuse that can leave lasting emotional scars on children and alienated parent...

Mark as Played
October 9, 2024 1 min

Hi, I’m Cheryl Mefferd, founder of Parental Alienation Speaks.

For 10 years, my husband and I battled parental alienation firsthand. Like many, I believed that experiencing it meant I fully understood it. But after founding my nonprofit and educating professionals on the topic, I realized there were gaps in my knowledge—I wasn’t fully connecting the dots. This led me to dive deeply into evidence-based research, which helped me devel...

Mark as Played

Popular Podcasts

    If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

    Dateline NBC

    Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

    Business History

    It’s the history of business. How did Hitler’s favorite car become synonymous with hippies? What got Thomas Edison tangled up with the electric chair? Did someone murder the guy who invented the movies? Former Planet Money hosts Jacob Goldstein and Robert Smith examine the surprising stories of businesses big and small and find out what you can learn from those who founded them.

    The Breakfast Club

    The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, And Charlamagne Tha God!

    The Joe Rogan Experience

    The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.

Advertise With Us
Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2026 iHeartMedia, Inc.