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March 24, 2025 7 mins

On paper, you’ve got it together— isn’t it time you felt like it? Whether it's stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or JOYFULLY PRESENT AMBITIOUS again, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/rewire

 

In this Episode You’ll Learn:

  • How neuroplasticity works and why it’s crucial for perfectionists
  • The surprising difference in brain flexibility before and after age 45
  • Real-life coaching breakthroughs that prove brain rewiring is possible
  • Why *use it or lose it* is the key to changing perfectionist tendencies
  • The fastest way to stop rumination, self-doubt and overanalyzing mistakes

 

Resources Mentioned In Episode 251:


 

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00-Why Age 45 Is a Brain Plasticity Tipping Point
01:07-Analogy for what is neuroplasticity
02:52-Rewire your brain with Perfect Start Session
05:29-Framework for Rewiring Perfectionism Inside Out
06:10-Transformative Effects of Cognitive Flexibility

 

Citations/Sources:

  1. Cramer, S. C., Sur, M., Dobkin, B. H., C. O'Brien, Sanger, T. D., Trojanowski, J. Q., … Haber, S. (2011). Harnessing neuroplasticity for clinical applications. Brain134(6), 1591–1609. https://doi.org/10.1093/brain/awr039
  2. Fuchs, E., & Flügge, G. (2014). Adult Neuroplasticity: More Than 40 Years of Research. Neural Plasticity2014, 1–10. https://doi.org/10.1155/2014/541870
  3. Green, C. S., & Bavelier, D. (2008). Exercising your brain: A review of human brain plasticity and training-induced learning. Psychology and Aging23(4), 692–701. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0014345
  4. Isheqlou, L.K., Soltanlou, M., Zarean, M., Saeedi, M.T. and Heysieattalab, S. (2023). Feedback-related negativity in perfectionists: An index of performance outcome evaluation. Behavioural Brain Research444, 114358–114358. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bbr.2023.114358
  5. Petersen, J., Ong, C. W., Hancock, A. S., Gillam, R. B., Levin, M. E., & Twohig, M. P. (2021). An Examination of the Relationship Between Perfectionism and Neurological Functioning. Journal of Cognitive Psychotherapy35(3), 195–211. https://doi.org/10.1891/jcpsy-d-20-00037

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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