She Comes First: Mastering The Art Of Oral Pleasure

Vive la Vulva! Rachel Watson is back joining Clare Sente as a regular guest to kick off Season 5. This episode is dedicated to increasing the pleasure and frequency of oral sex as a main event for creating pleasure and intimacy, rather than obligatory "foreplay" before intercourse. They discuss personal takeaways from reading the book, "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner, PhD. and experiences that made oral sex more pleasurable.

 

They highlight the significance of not rushing and the importance of the partner enjoying the act as much as the receiver. They also mention the physical and emotional vulnerability involved in oral sex, the social conditioning of shame around a woman's taste and smell, and the need for open communication and experimentation in relationships. She Comes First book advocates viewing oral sex as more than foreplay and renames it "coreplay" being a core part of sexual pleasure.