Play with your d!ck, not me!

Play with your d!ck, not me!

Discussions of love, relationships, marriage, sex, healing, wellness, spirituality, mindfulness, navigating the ups and downs of life, parenting, you name it. I may even share my writing and poetry. No topic is off limits.

Episodes

September 1, 2025 โ€ข 62 mins

Hey yall!

In ep18 We are discussing adjusting to a good man when you've had " bad ones."

It can be tricky to navigate in what feels like unfamiliar territory.


When you've had a bad one, you know what a good one feels like. But what do you do with a good one when all you have known is unhealed, unregulated, sometimes abusive. disrespectful, emotional immature or unavailable "bad ones"?


Let's discuss.


The insta videos I was referencing...

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Lets talk about it.

Why is it that when we are FINALLY in a safe space, or safe relationship all our trauma decides its time to finally catch up with us? What is that all about?

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August 13, 2025 โ€ข 3 mins

I have decided to take a little break for awhile from podcasting and a few other projects I have in the works.


These last few years, the last 2 specifically have done a major number on my mental, emotional and newly spiritual health.


I went through a LONG debilitating and painful grieving process, shed the old skin that was formerly me and under went a complete transformation from within and was dragged by my hair on an ex...

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In ep 16 I give little details of one of the books I have been writing.


Bingo at almost 40 ๐Ÿ˜‚.


And trying to shift the stigma behind the conditioning to default to feeling sad for another human when they share with you that their relationship is taking a pause or ending.

The ending of a relationship doesnt have to always be sad. It can also be a much needed gift that deserves to be celebrated.

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"PLAY WITH YOUR D!CK,

not me" ๐ŸŽ™

Ep #15

"Don't let nobody play you while you out in these streets"


I felt called in this episode to reconnect and bring forward the past, the younger me that was operating from a lower vibrational state me, me that hadn't quite discovered her worth yet to drop some much learned wisdom for those navigating the dating world for the first time or again for the first time.

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In this episode I wanted to expand a little bit on my saying, "Be fucking nice!" and discuss the improtance of picking up your friends when they are down without discussing it with the world.


My bad, I think I said Ep 13. Guys, this is actually episode 14! my bad, yall โค๏ธ



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July 25, 2025 โ€ข 43 mins

Have you assessed your circle lately?

Have you had some new exciting things happen for you in your life recently?

Has life been rough? You currently at rock bottom?

Did you recently just enter a new, happy and healthy relationship?

Start a new buisness or idea?

Look around ๐Ÿ‘€ ....

Who's cheering for you? Who's showing up for you? Who's checking on you?

Who's happy for you? Who's supporting you? Who is clapping for you? Who is promoting...

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*Wait for it* Episode starts after the Kendrick Lamar bit.


"Don't be out here just giving your energy away or taking in too much negative energy."


In Episode 12, I discuss having discernment in circles you run in. Reserving your energy and being mindful of how other people's energies affect you.

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Guys! Episode 11!!!!!!โค๏ธ

11:11 โœจ๏ธ

It just felt divine and like the universe orchestrated it to be this way, that in my 11th episode I have one of my BEST friends be not just a guest but my very 1st guest.


You guys are going to love Chelsea, if you don't already. She is amazing! I hope by the end of the episode, you understand why.


We are discussing her incredible journey to self love, family, relationships and our hopes and manifesta...

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July 11, 2025 โ€ข 49 mins

Ep 10 "OMG Becky! She's got daddy issues" of my podcast "Play with your d!ck, not me"

We are tackling tough conversations surrounded around healing, specifially healing the "father wound" . I take some inserts out of a few books I am reading regarding healing and how they are helping and benefitting me on my own healing journey.


This episode is airing Friday 7/11. Will be available to listen on Spotify and iHeartRadio and to watch o...

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In the 9th podcast episode of "Play with your d!ck, not me" I discuss a little bit of the hurdles we must go through to get to the other side of people pleasing. Getting comfortable with setting a boundary and staying grounded and unapologetic when you must tell someone, "no".

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In this early release podcast episode, (video on my youtube channel)

due to the holiday this week I deep dive into what I have researched and personally expeirenced in regards to different attachment styles specifically the "Avoidant Attachment" style. I also give my opinion on why they should just be left competely alone like no one eff with them so they can heal & not continue to be out here destroying people.

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In this episode I discuss the importance of meeting yourself halfway and not relying on others to heal, fix or be a distraction for you, so you continue to not do the work of healing yourself. Healing is painful but necessary. It's also a journey meant to be walked alone.

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*Video of Podcast avaialble to watch on my Youtube Channel*

In this week's episode I discussed a few different topics.

I am discussing the Halsey concert and what her music has meant to me, leaving people where they are at and healing being our responsibility. I discuss my experience with Mel Robbin's "Let them" theory and how it has and hasn't worked for me.


Shout out:

Janet

insta: beauty_byblondie

Duo Barbershop and Salon


Lauren Spenc...

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June 23, 2025 โ€ข 59 mins

We did it! Ep 5!

In this episode we talk a bit about healing methods and our inner child then pivot to emotional fight styles in relationships

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I am manifesting the potential of this podcast and future hopes & plans I have. Also talking about fun events coming up.

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June 16, 2025 โ€ข 31 mins

Guard your heart. Honor your heart. Self-love and spreading love everywhere.

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In this episode , I discuss the importance of showing up for others, making sure you give grace and pour into cups but also knowing when to fall back and protect your peace.

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In our first episode I do a little intro and discussion about my own personal experience woth setting boundaries and choosing to go no contact with my own family. I also offer a bit of advice.

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June 9, 2025 โ€ข 49 secs

introduction

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