In this raw, honest, pre-recorded episode, Eve dives deep into the real risks that can happen in the bedroom—the uncomfortable truths most people avoid but absolutely need to understand.
From modern dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamory, Eve breaks down actual exposure risks, the tools that protect you, and how to stay empowered while enjoying pleasure.
This episode delivers accurate, science-based guidance on:
Doxy-PEP
PrEP
HPV & herpes management
At-home STI testing
Emergency contraception
Oxytocin arousal products
Eve also shares lived experiences from BDSM and femdom spaces—including DomCon—and explains why kink communities often lead the way in communication, consent, boundaries, and pre-negotiation.
Whether you’re casually dating, exploring ENM, attending play parties, or simply want more control over your sexual wellness, this conversation expands your knowledge and strengthens your sexual health toolkit.
Modern dating culture & increased STI exposure
Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM
Communication lessons from BDSM communities
STI prevention tools:
At-home STI testing
Doxy-PEP
Daily PrEP
Emergency contraception
Herpes suppression
The truth about herpes, HPV, and HIV
Clarifying PrEP vs PEP
Condom usage trends across sexual communities
Oxytocin oral tabs, nasal spray & topical arousal cream
Building a sexual health bug-out bag
BDSM & kink events: DomCon, KinkFest, and more
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