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November 28, 2025 • 29 mins
Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education. Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics CoveredšŸŒ BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM Understanding subspace and domspace The ā€œBDSM chemical cocktailā€: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation Identity exploration and self-expression Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more Safety and confidence in animal headspace Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools Psychological and somatic benefits Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping Trauma-informed educational approach Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos Perfect for anyone curious about: BDSM safety Neurodiverse kink practices Trauma-informed intimacy Somatic pleasure exploration Cultural history in kink This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices. 🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-PlayšŸ‘£ Foot Play BasicsšŸ‘ Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink HistorianWebsite: hausofthecommandant.com Patreon Bonus Listen to theĀ full-length, uncensored episodeĀ on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version.Access theĀ entire Kink SeriesĀ for justĀ $10/month. Additional Resources Mentioned Shameless Care — Use codeĀ PLEASMEĀ for $15 off at-home sexual health testing :Ā https://shamelesscare.com/Ā  SDC.com — Use codeĀ 37340Ā for a free trial membership World Vision — Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake :Ā Ā https://www.worldvision.org/Ā  Eve’s Substack & PatreonĀ for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content pleaseme.online :Ā https://pleaseme.online/Ā  patreon.com/PleaseMePodcastĀ :Ā http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcastĀ  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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