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June 23, 2025 46 mins

Without Sleep, You Can’t Regulate
I got a coveted hour with Dr. Jessica Payne, a neuroscientist, who studies sleep, to ask all the questions you've probably wondered about but never had the chance to explore. We get into what the brain actually does during sleep and dreaming, how exercisecaffeinealcohol, and sex affect your rest, and why good sleep matters for your relationship. 

Dr. Payne tells me, “It’s hard to draw on resources for empathy or connection when people are not rested.” This directly affects the couples we see in therapy. They cannot be their best selves when they are sleep deprived. Dr. Payne will tell you how much sleep is recommended and detail the various types of sleepers. In this episode, you’ll hear a grounded, science-backed conversation on how to care of your brain, improve your sleep, and better understand your body—especially in bed.

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Reach Jess at:

https://www.brainbasedleader.org

https://www.jessicadpayne.com

https://samlab.nd.edu


Free Giveaway: Download Your Quick-Guide — The Brain on Sleep, Stress, & Connection

A bonus from Dr. Jessica Payne with science-backed tips for better sleep, less stress, and deeper connection.


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