In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of Pockets of Knowledge, host Desiree Stanley welcomes Jewel Hohman, a coach, connection enthusiast, and expert on building meaningful friendships. Jewel shares her personal journey of overcoming emotional loneliness, high-functioning social anxiety, and the struggle to find deep, fulfilling connections—experiences that ultimately led her to become a coach dedicated to helping others cultivate authentic friendships.
Jewel dives deep into the science of friendship, explaining why connection is essential to our mental health and how factors like shame, social media, and modern isolation culture have made true connection harder to find. She introduces a powerful model—the "Friendship Triangle"—to help listeners understand how meaningful friendships are built through meaningful moments, vulnerability, and consistency. Jewel also offers practical advice for navigating the "social avoidance" cycle, deepening existing friendships, and creating new connections, even if you're feeling anxious, shy, or out of practice.
Together, Desiree and Jewel explore how simple changes like unplugging from your phone and embracing small social risks can reignite connection, and why building "social fitness" is vital for long-term well-being. Jewel’s compassionate, actionable strategies remind us that creating deep friendships is possible at any stage of life—and that connection is one of the most powerful gifts we can offer and receive.
If you've ever longed for deeper friendships, struggled with overthinking social interactions, or felt unsure about how to reconnect with others, this episode is packed with hopeful, practical tools you can start using today to build a more connected and fulfilling life.
Bio:
As a connection enthusiast with a degree in psychology and sociology, over 4000 hours of friendship coaching, and a pending master’s in social work, Jewel combines Evidence-Based self-help and the latest friendship research to help women build friendships that actually nourish them. In a post-pandemic world where millions are lonelier and more disconnected than ever, this conversation is urgent but mostly ignored, and I’m on a mission to change that!
Connect with Jewel:
Website: https://www.connectionwithjewel.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifecoachjewel
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/connectionwithjewel
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jewel-hohman/
Resources:
https://www.connectionwithjewel.com/authentic-connections-freebie
Podcasts mentioned:
The Socially Delightful Podcast with Jewel Hohman https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-socially-delightful-podcast/id1752724241
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