In this heartfelt episode of Pockets of Knowledge, host Desiree Stanley sits down with Dr. Lynn Banis, executive coach, grief guide, and founder of Widows Rising Together, to explore the deeply personal and transformative journey of grief—and the life that can emerge on the other side of loss. After losing her mother, brother, and husband in a short span of time, Dr. Lynn found herself navigating unimaginable sorrow. But rather than retreat, she answered a powerful inner call to help other women rebuild their lives after profound change, whether through death, divorce, identity loss, or trauma.
Dr. Lynn shares how grief touches every part of our lives, mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual, and why true healing must go beyond just surviving. With honesty and compassion, she discusses the importance of community and how our culture’s avoidance of death often leaves people feeling isolated in their pain. She also explains the real difference between getting “over it” and moving forward while honoring the past.
This episode offers not only comfort, but also practical insights—like how to show up for someone in grief, why it’s okay (and necessary) to invest in your healing, and how small steps can lead to a life filled with renewed purpose. Whether you’ve experienced loss yourself or want to better support someone who has, this conversation is filled with wisdom, warmth, and hope.
Bio:
Dr. Lynn Banis’s life was turned upside down within just three years. She lost her mother, her younger brother, and her husband—each loss compounding the grief and leaving her feeling as though the ground had disappeared beneath her. Grief, she discovered, isn’t just about sadness—it’s profoundly disorienting. Each day felt like walking through a fog, uncertain if she’d ever find clarity again.
Despite her background as a psychologist and executive coach, nothing could have prepared her for the depth of the emotional pain she experienced. For years, she had guided others through their darkest moments, but now she was the one who needed a lifeline.
Through deep self-reflection, Dr. Banis examined the experiences that followed her losses and began uncovering the lessons within them. She identified and replaced limiting beliefs, rewired her mindset, and committed to a transformation process using the tools she had once offered others. In doing so, she found her way out of the fog and into a powerful new chapter. Dr. Banis realized that everything she had endured—her caregiving journey, the profound grief, the years of professional training—had uniquely prepared her to help others rebuild their lives.
Today, Dr. Banis works with individuals and groups, guiding widows through their own paths of reinvention. Her mission isn’t about erasing grief—it’s about honoring it, learning from it, and using it as the foundation for a life that feels truly worth living. Her work has become her passion and purpose: helping others transform loss into lasting empowerment.
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Books mentioned:
Healthy Grief: Normalizing and Navigating Loss in a Culture of Toxic Positivity by Dr. Karen Kramer - Bookshop.org
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