Bullschnitzel

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Whispery scene whispery seen sneak like I leg you just that.
I used to be like, hey, can you put my
stuff to the side? An then the tab come out
of you that I putting your card down because I
already paid.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Y'all don't got a word right, But why you whispery?
I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?
You hosses ordered for lay me? Y'all? Medium rare brussels
sprous with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gru potatoes. Bitch,
I don't even know what a grunt is. Of course,

(00:36):
I'm embarrassed, bitch, I ordered a season saddle with no crewton.
Yeah the fuck? What's up? Y'all? It's your girl, Alex

(01:05):
p And it's your girl drain and the call and
you are tuned in to another episode of Pull.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Mine, where a drunk mind speaks soberthight.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
We ain't got no guests today, We ain't got no
guests today? Who I just took a shot? Sorry, my
throat burning? You know what I like when we dress
like this because it gives our personalities, does he? Yes,
it's given like bougie. You mean business. You mean business.

(01:34):
You're gonna walk into a business meeting right now putting
somebody in the chest.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
You don't do that. But I'm saying I'm aggress You've
never bunched nobody the whole time I've known you.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
But I'm aggressive. I'm just saying, it's given our personalities. Chill,
just in the field with it. You feel me, Okay,
you know what I'm saying. So what's up, girl? Nothing, girl,
Just it's another week, Just another week. Let me ask
you a question because I saw somebody post something very

(02:07):
interesting and I'm not gonna say what it was or
what it was. I'm gonna just ask you this. If
somebody is born somewhere and then they move when they're
a tiny tot anything under the age of I'll stay
five years old. They're born somewhere and they move when
they're five, and they're raised in this city, is it
okay that they claim the city that they were raised

(02:28):
in from five and above. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
I think five is a young age, So yeah, to me,
that's fine.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
I'm saying I think that.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
When I think it's weird when people are adults, like
move somewhere, when they're adults, and they claim right. I
think that's a little strange because I mean, no, if
you live somewhere for twenty years, if you live somewhere
for fifteen years, that's where you're from. Now, if you
move somewhere when you're five years old, you probably don't
even remember the place that you originally lived.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
That's what I'm saying. So I just I saw something.
I'm like, I said, I'm not gonna say it, but like,
for example, my sister, we were both born in California,
and my sister moved you know, when we were she
was about she was five and I was two. And
I'm from Orange Texas. I'm not from California. My sister

(03:18):
is from Orange Texas. She's not from California. And I
just think it's so where and people be like, oh,
you can't claim from here.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
You were born.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Here, bookie butt or girl, wherever you were raised at
where I feel like third grade and I'll even take
it further, little give you some more years third grade
and up wherever you at from third grade to your
senior year in high school, unless you're like an army
brat and you from all different places, Cause there are
some people like that where they really not from somewhere

(03:46):
because they moved around a lot. But third grade to
your senior year, that's where you're from.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Well, I think that y'all are from California because I
feel like wherever you're born, that's where you're from. Like,
if that's not your worth to seefe, that's where you're from.
But I feel like you were raised in Orange.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, so I claim Orange like I don't. I don't
give because I mean, you don't remember.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
I wouldn't claim it necessarily either, but I mean it
is where you're from though, Yeah, but you probably don't
even remember living there and don't and don't. That's why
I said she probably don't either. Well she does.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
She remembers our house, and she remembers like our dad
and stuff like that. But and like I said, I'll
even give people like to third grade because I feel
like where you're from is like what really shapes you.
I don't give Callie Girl at all because I'm not
from there. I wasn't raised there like Orange, Texas really
raised me, like that's where I became. Oh I'm so sorry, y'all,

(04:41):
I thought my phone was off. I ain't that unprofessional
of me. Oh Jesus Christ, but orange like you don't
raise me. That's where I became who I am. So
I feel like wherever you're going, wherever you're at, where
you're going through, like your adolescent stage and all that
first love, first day, first everything's like, that's where you're from.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
I just wanted to make sure I wasn't tripping. You
know what I'm saying, because you know, people be trying
to say things about one, two and this and that.
So I was just making show I wasn't tripping.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
No, I don't think you were. I think that that
makes sense, Like why would you claim somewhere that you
didn't live for that long and then you don't remember.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
You know, the people be tripping over the city. You know.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Somebody said that to your sister.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
No, they didn't say that to my sister. Okay, I'll
say what it is. Somebody said that Meg needs to
stop claiming Houston because she's from San Antonio. Because Meg
was born in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston, right,
Meg moved to Houston when she was very small, Like
she doesn't say, she doesn't hide that. Yeah, so I
was just like the girl is from Houston, she was

(05:50):
raised in Houston.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, she was just born in San. I mean, I
don't know what is she supposed to say that every
time she do an interview.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
You don't even think it's stuff like that be weird
because like you said, it's like people who was born
on military basis and stuff and that's where they was born,
but they grew up somewhere completely different or multiple places.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
But sometimes military people be tricky to military babies because
like they'll be born in Germany. But like raising you talking,
I'll be like, I'm German girl.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
They are no technique.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
I mean they are, but you know what they be doing.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
But to me, if you're from somewhere, you are like
that is what you are. You technically German, but.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
You don't know nothing about the Germany.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
I don't want to to be German.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
That where you were born.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Like I feel like that like somebody that was born
in America and they might move somewhere else and may
not know much about American culture because they moved at
a young age. But like you're American, you not from
like say they moved to Asia, You're not from Asia.
You're not age either, you're from there.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
But I feel like if you spent more years in Asia,
like you're it's a difference between what is it called
your what do we talk about all the time.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
I don't know why my mom is going blank.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
I go off your race and your what is it nationality?
That's too, that's it's totally.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Different, right right. But I go based off of people's
birth certificates. So if your birth certificate say that you're American,
you're American. If your birth certificates say you're German, you're German.
It is because I don't feel like even when you
go to these places, like people that are born in Germany,

(07:35):
they don't really have a different look or anything than
people that are born here in America or even like
to me, the culture isn't really like that much different
in Germany. Yeah, I don't feel like the culture is chocolate.
Well I'm but I'm okay chocolate. But I'm saying like
the culture in itself, like I don't feel like the

(07:56):
culture is like that much different from like American culture.
Like if you were to go somewhere like Tokyo, the
culture there is completely different from the culture here. If
you was to go somewhere like Ghana, the culture there
is completely different than what it is here. I don't
think the culture in Germany is like that much different

(08:16):
to where it's like I need to say yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
The reason I think it's so different because when I
think about culture, one of the first things I think
about personally is.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
Like, ain't there where Hamburger's from? Yes, exactly, and you.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
Know I love a little Burger.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
You might be German.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Facts because my parents met on the little But I
think when I think about culture, one of the first
things I always think about being a foodie. Girls. I
think about food, I think about like fashion and things
like that. So I feel like German culture to me
personally is very different just from the food they eat.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
They eat sausages, like what is it? What is it called?
Is that the saucyles?

Speaker 2 (09:04):
I used to go the Wiener Schnitzel when I was little.
My mom loved the hot dog bitch I'll see. We
used to go to Wiener Schnitzel. But that's when I
realized I don't like weenie, so I started eating hot
dogs without the weenie, which is chili and cheese.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
That's how I used to eat my hot dogs. I
hate a Wiener. I hate a w if Shane look
up at me one more time, freak.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Like seriercely.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
And then Wieners are just so nasty, like if you
know what's idiot, Like, it's just all type of like
bullsh yeah, bullshit.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
That in that sh.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
That exactly what it is.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Bull is what it is. That's what I'll say. I
think all cultures are so different.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
I mean even you. I mean obviously we've been there
and I see they speak a different language.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
Yeah yeah, yeah. But I just feel that's why Europe
is so it's such an interesting place to me because
they're so close, but it's whole different cultures that are
right next door to each other. So I do understand
what you're saying as far as like the life that
they live, you know, like the nine to five stuff
like that, you know, But again, I just be feeling

(10:19):
like wherever you were raised at is like where you're from.
Like wherever you were raised at, like, that's where you're from.
I don't care what your birth certificate says, whatever culture
you were raised in, like or wherever you were at,
that's where you from. I lived in Houston for ten
years I'm not from Houston. I'm not from California. I
was born there. I am from Orange Saxies.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Yeah, I mean that's there. But I guess I just
be thinking about like if somebody like you die and
y'all bech where he's gonna stay born in any yacht California,
people gonna.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Be like I'm gonna say, in my city.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
People gonna be people gonna be like, who the fuck
is from California?

Speaker 2 (10:56):
But yes they would they My people don't hung up
there and say no Orange Texas for all.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
None.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
No, they're gonna they're gonna be like, who was born
in California? Because you never say, but you are, but
I'm not you are.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
We should do a poll because what's you think?

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Ta? I think it is where you're raised at Like
you could be you would say I'm born in this city,
but I was raised in But you have to prefacee,
which I feel like if you're from somewhere else and
then you grew up somewhere, you still have to say
where are you from?

Speaker 2 (11:34):
No, not necessarily, it depends because I'll say this, Okay,
say somebody was born in America and then they moved
to Tokyo. Okay, and there they speak Japanese very fluently
and English is their second language, and then they come back.
So I feel like that's a that's when you need
to say, like, oh, I was born in America, but

(11:56):
I'm Japanese. You know what I'm saying. I'm Japanese like
I grew up, but you know I'm from here, but
I'm Japanese.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
Yeah, you Japanese.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
You know what I'm saying. I just feel like, ain't nobody,
it ain't finna be no Cali bitches at my futures.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
It ain't.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
It ain't gonna be. Nobody might never know. You might
make some more I'm not making. I am good on friends.
I feel like my circle is good. I know y'all
be like, oh, Lex, I want to be your friend.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
I am good.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
I have a good circle. No Cali bitches, No offense
is the Cali bitches. I'm just no, not happening.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
You might though you could never say never. You might
meet somebody and y'all just click, is she be from
she might be from where you're from?

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Fuck? No no offensing of orange bitches either. Y'all will
be supporting me enough for me, y'all ain't booked me
at Spanky's yet, bitch, What the fuck is spank the
local club?

Speaker 1 (12:52):
It's still oupy?

Speaker 2 (12:53):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Is it the only club? Andies I'm playing?

Speaker 2 (12:57):
I don't know. I haven't been there. I only go
there for Christmas.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
But you know, Orange, do y'all have a downtown?

Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (13:03):
Like with skyscrapers.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
The skotscraper was.

Speaker 1 (13:07):
My house beach. I'm weakest, So it's really like Charleston.
Oh no, Charleston is nice, but I guess what I'm
saying is like, you know, we found out that Charleston
can't have buildings over a certain height, so they don't

(13:27):
have any skyscrapers.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
There's no skyscrapers in Orange cause it's like, who's gonna
be in there?

Speaker 1 (13:33):
What you mean the people, bro?

Speaker 2 (13:36):
The people need to say they ass on ground? Oh
my god, keep their feet on the ground.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Oh my goodness.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
It's nothing bad.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
But I know my city like it ain't nothing.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
It's just chill. Y'all don't need no hoigh riz in Orange,
Texas for what. Y'all need to keep that rent like
the see Houston girl, they need to keep that rent low.
Eat the boot in, keep the boot in in tect
Orange is good, and I love my city, but it's
a country town. I don't believe that high rises should

(14:07):
be everywhere.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
Yeah, I wonder if it's high rise in Acadochi's now.
I don't know because it wasn't a and they had
a downtown though, but it was like brick roads. I
was like, oh, you know, we in a country.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
Well, you know there's a Lamar in Orange, Lamar orangell College.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
Yeah, it's the college. Whole bunch of people then went
to my school, They went to my high school, went
to Lamar. Well, they went to Lamar in Beaumont. In Beaumont.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
Lamar's in Beamont, that's the popular one. But Lamar had
a branch in Orange too, the colleague. Yes, lamarka Lamar
State Orange, Lamar Orange.

Speaker 1 (14:44):
And it's attached to the one in Beaumont.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
Yes, there's like it's a branch off of it, just
like HCCA.

Speaker 1 (14:51):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
You know how HCC had different brandes around Houston. It
was the same thing with Lamar. They have a Lamar
and port author too. Okay, go here in Lamar.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
I know.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
You better get that college education. Don't play with us.
I see DC girl. Oh, Okay, okay, that's all I
just had to ask, is like I said, stop playing
with my girl, mad She's she's from Houston. She gives Houston.
She just gives Houston. And I feel like, why would

(15:22):
y'all not want her to be from Houston, Like that's
a big thing to say.

Speaker 1 (15:26):
Begs from Houston, Like stop because they want to claim
San Antonio, y'all got the Alamo, y'all got a enough.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah. I was about to say that has Celena, y'all
got the world. What was Selena from Corpus Christie.

Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, she was from Corpus Christie. She wasn't from synor tennant.
I said with San Antonio, gay two things. No, you
live that down, that's what you don't. Gotta let me
live it down. And that's what they be saying. I
mean that's what they said. They probably still do. He's

(16:00):
needs probably be in class me. It was areditory the
whole family. Okay, I'm sorry, but no, they got the
Alamo and they got Sea World. This is the two
things to San Antonio, AND's some good tacos. They don't
need me.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
That's all I had. That's all I had to ask, Tad,
what are we drinking today.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
Technically she is from Senato.

Speaker 2 (16:24):
She was born in San Antonio. That's all. We're gonna
get Meg on the show so we can ask I
can ask her myself.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
No, that's yeah. I mean she's gonna say she's from Houston.
I know she's just like you say you from Orange.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
I don't play. You know where I'm from, from California.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Your birth certificate in your passport, it's right there on
the past. I said, Orange.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
We don't do me the yeah, leave me alone, you
fucking bully. I'm wee. Oh okay, we drank what we drinking.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
This one is gonna be called the Forbidden Kiss. This
is good, okay, ooh okay. Jolly rinchhair a little bit
like it might be that desert pear syrup that we
added to it. I think y'all liked that a little
bit has some cranberry juice in it, a little bit
of lime, and we did for Lex. We had a
little bit of Valka in hers. We got mocktails over here,

(17:34):
and then we topped it with a little bit of
ginger beer just to kind of give it a little bit.
We got bite into it, and then we kind of
did as a garnish, like a medley of berries, so
everyone's is different. I have strawberry, raspberry, blueberry. The girls
have some blackberries and strawberries and raspberries in there, so
just kind of a cute blend. Just as we prepare
to go into the month of Love. So this is
the forbidden kiss. Cheers.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
This is really really juicy.

Speaker 1 (17:58):
I mean, You're gonna have to remake these that when
I'm drinking again. Okay, I got you, bat you seeing
what Honelet now you know that's right?

Speaker 2 (18:07):
That juicy away. Okay. Ever since I was a little girl,
I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around
me by sharing my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture.
For the past few years, I've heard your requests. But

(18:30):
now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, let's get
into the teeth with love lexp Tasty.

Speaker 4 (18:46):
It's gonna be about twenty questions.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
A lot of the questions that y'all see me were
kind of similar, so I've merged some of the questions together,
and y have gonna let y'all get in my business
a little bit.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
Let y'all be a little a little noisy. I know,
so I don't normally do that. What did you learn
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I'm twenty one. I'm not sure how to keep going.
Any tips on how to keep going?

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It?

Speaker 4 (19:09):
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Speaker 1 (19:13):
This is another question I feel like I answer all
the time, but I don't mind answering it again. What
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I've never really been the type. Are you making a
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Speaker 4 (19:30):
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Speaker 1 (20:50):
So for the first topic, I wanted to talk about
toxic positivity and is it hurting our mental health? So basically, like,
do you think that you could be positive to the
point that it's toxic to where it's making people not
recognize like the real issues that people have to deal
with on a daily basis, Like, because people are always

(21:11):
telling other people, No, you gotta be positive, you gotta
have a positive mindset. You can't let stuff get you down,
you can't be depressed and stressed out. You gotta pray,
you gotta have faith, all of these things that people
are always telling people when they're going through, you know,
the trials and tribulations their life throw at you. Is
there a way that you could be being too positive

(21:33):
to the point that he's toxic.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
Absolutely. I feel like one thing that I've learned was
like mental health and dealing with things like that, we
have to be realistic. So I saw this good example.
I think it was a TikTok I had seen. I
do not know who said this, Maybe y'all can find them.
I hate when I reference what people say and I
can't remember who said it. But basically, this guy was
talking about life and he was saying, life has up

(21:59):
and so the reality of it is, of course, we
want to be happy every day. Is that realistic? No,
Because life happens. People die, you lose money, you lose
a job, you lose a friend. It's life. There's no
way to be It's not normal. To be happy every day.
God gave us emotions for a reason so we could
feel all of them. Right, So when you're hooked up

(22:20):
to a machine, your heart is hooked up to a machine,
what does it do? It beats.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
And it goes up and down.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
When you're dead, that's when it's steady. So whether it's
a high up or a high down, think about it.
A person was happy all the time, say they're on drugs,
that's what makes them happy all the time. That person
is losing themselves off of a drug or whatever because
they're steadily being high because they're off of a drug.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
Or you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
It's or whenever you're sad all the time, it's one
emotion you're supposed to feel. A life, you have to
feel all those emotions. So I think it's realistic to
tell people, yes, be happy, look for the positive things.
But you know what, it's also okay to tell people, Hey,
it's okay to be sad today. If you don't want
to get out of bed today, feel that. Go through
those emotions, but don't stay there because as much as

(23:11):
you go down, that heart gotta beat, you gotta go
back up. So I do think it's a it gets
too much with the online, the self help and all
that self help books and the self I'm gonna teach
you how to stop it. Let tell people it's okay
to feel. It's okay to cry, it's okay to be sad,
it's okay to have these moments, because that's a part
of life. We're humans. You're gonna feel some emotions. It's

(23:33):
not realistic to be happy every single fucking day, bro,
It's just not so. Yeah, I do believe that toxic
positivity will make people draw people further into depression. To
be honest, how do you feel?

Speaker 1 (23:50):
I disagree, just because I feel like some people need that,
Like some people need people around them supporting them, im
pouring into them, telling them that things are gonna be okay.
That's what gets some people through things, you know. And
then I think you have people who just want to
deal with stuff on their own, which either way, however

(24:11):
you choose to deal with things, either way, it is fine,
But I think some people need that, And I don't
think in telling people to have faith and that things
are gonna get better and being positive and trying to
give them a positive outlook, I don't think that necessarily
means that you're telling them that they can't be sad
or to not feel their emotions, you know what I mean,

(24:33):
Like I feel like you can still feel the person
can still feel their emotions, and then a friend or
a family member is telling them, you have to pull
yourself out of these Yeah, because you do. You know
what I mean, you need to, Like, like you said,
life is about you have to feel the emotions and stuff.
But like if you stay in that emotion, a lot
of things could go wrong, Like when people are sad

(24:53):
and depressed and I feel like they don't want to
do anything and stuff. Sometimes I think a lot of
things you can oo's a lot of things in the
process of like sitting in there. So I think sometimes
people do need people around them to tell them, like, no,
you have to get up, you have to pull yourself
out of these funk because it doesn't last forever. Because

(25:14):
I think too, when a lot of people go through things,
they think it's gonna last forever, Like people be thinking
it's to end and it's nice, and sometimes I think
a lot of people need that reminder that like this too,
shell pad.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
Yeah, And that's what I'm saying I agree with you
on that. That's what I'm saying. You do need somebody
to tell you, hey, don't stay in this. But I
think with the social media aspect of it, the gurules,
I'll be seeing these gurus with no degree and no
nothing like wake up every day and choose yourself and
choose like, yes, that's what you're supposed to do.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
I do need to hear that.

Speaker 2 (25:49):
But also they're not saying, you know what, it's okay
to sit in bed sometimes. That's what I'm saying. It's
two sides to it, So yes, tell these people to
get out of bed, but also tell them if you
want to have a day to yourself, to be sad
and to cry, that's okay too. I just think there's
like two sides of it, and a lot of times
these people try to push this narrative like I'm happy

(26:12):
and I'm great all the time. Most of these like
self help and motivational speakers, they're not telling you the
hard days that they have. And I think that's what's
good about our show, cause, bitch, we talk about our wins,
but we talk about our losses too. It's real because
life is real. It's not always pictures and Creams No.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
One twelve right, all yeah, I mean in no shade,
But I think that that shit, like is that not
like common scenes at this it's a go that everybody
has bad days. Like literally, it's nobody walking this earth
that is happy and happy, go lookie and positive and
in a great mood every single day, Like life happens.

(26:52):
Things happen, you know what I mean, whether it's you
losing a job, whether you're going through financial issues, whether
you're going through a breakup, whether you you lost a
parent or lost somebody close to you, whether it's a
friendship breakup, whatever. I mean, you could have tripped and
filled in the hole in front of a whole bunch
of people down the escalator or some set, and now
they're ruined JO day because you and Barry. It's like

(27:15):
things happen to everybody, even though and I use that
last example because I feel like that's something that's not
so serious, like there's something small that's not really in
the green scheme of things, but it'd be little, so
sometimes they could fuck YO day up, Like nobody has
great days five hundred and sixty five days after years.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
Unfortunately, we are in a time where people look up
to these people on social media, and they believe that
they're being honest and real.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
And well, that's why I need y'all to put child
thinking caps on. Ain't that what we learn the elementary? Yeah,
critical thinking, critical usual, critical thinking.

Speaker 2 (27:49):
But you have these people on social media, they follow them,
and these people are posting four or five videos a day,
and even with relationship goals. They're looking at these couples
and all of a sudden, couple breaks up and the
girl talking about, oh, he was beating my ass or
he talking about she was cheating on me, and you'd
be like, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Does that ain't a couple that set up? They try
pardy act.

Speaker 2 (28:09):
Like they just got out of bed bro the same couple,
see the same couple that be acting like it's a prank, Like, oh,
you know what the prank? I hate? I just seen this.
It was a prank and a man had like this
life sized doll laying on him, and she like walked
in and was like beating up the doll. It was
so lame and cringey, and everybody in the comments was like,

(28:29):
oh my god, this is so good.

Speaker 1 (28:31):
She loves you, because in what world do a doll
look like a person.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
But anyways, that was But I say all that to say, though,
but you do have gullible people on the internet. You
know what. Keiki Palmer made a good statement the other
day cause she just came out with this book that
I actually want to read. But she was basically saying, like, yes,
what's it called shay Master of Me? So she was

(28:57):
promoting her book and she was talking about how you
have to realize you are in your bubble. We are
in a poor crew bubble, so we can only get
back and feedback what our people see. And we are
so big in some of these people's world. But it's
people that don't come on pace to be like, who
the hell is this? You know what I'm saying. So
I say all that to say because we look at

(29:19):
people who look at others like you really believe this
shit or you're buying that shit. But it's a whole
other world out there. It'd be people that have fifteen
million followers on their Facebook page or their TikTok and
I have no idea who they are, and they believe
that they're hanging on to every single person this word,
every single word this person says and I'm like, he's

(29:41):
spewing bullshit and I can see that, but bull snel,
bull schnitzel, you know what I'm saying. But she made
a good point of we are in our own little world,
and you know, sometimes we have to think outside the
box and put ourselves in other people's shoes to understand
what they're feeling, what they may be experiencing, and things
like that. So I think that's important to understand. So yeah,

(30:04):
some people, really they probably even look at us and
look at the things that we complain about and think
it's silly. They probably be like, oh, and even as
extreme as like us losing a parent. Okay, y'all lost
a parent, but look at y'all, some people really look
at us like that, you know what I'm saying. So
they'd be like, okay, even when.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
You lose one and come make and tell me how
you feel.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
But they probably it'll be probably be somebody who never
had parents, who grew up in a foster home, so
they like y'all complained about what at least you have
the experience of having a day.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
But see, I think that's the problem with people though.
You have to stop comparing traumas like what I went
through is just as fair as what you went right,
you know what I mean, It's just as equal, Like
one is not greater than the other just because you
never had a parent, they didn't have no daddy around
when I was growing up.

Speaker 2 (30:53):
Why did she do that?

Speaker 1 (30:54):
Because she did it.

Speaker 2 (30:57):
Same though experience, I mean, and it was a I
have one.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
But I still like this song.

Speaker 2 (31:03):
You used to sing that when your daddy made I used.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
To sing it from him. But yeah, it's like people
have to stop trying to compare traumas in and be like, oh, well,
what I went through is worse than with you than
what you went through. Losing a parent is fucked up,
and not having a parent is fucked up, and it
affects different people in different ways. It was a trauma

(31:26):
for you, and losing my daddy's a trauma for me.
Like you can't say that, oh, because we have the
success that we have and we have the things going
on in our life that we have going on, or
because we look the way we look that we it
didn't hurt us losing our parents, Like I think that's
a stupid ass mindset.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
But what I'm saying is, but that's but listen, but
that's what I'll be talking about.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
You have to try to not saying.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
It's stupid, but just look at where they're coming from, though,
And I think that's what we have to do sometimes
being in this position. Only reason I say that.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
What they need to look but I hear you, but
I feel like it goes both ways, right. They have
to look at where we're coming from too. I think
that that's crazy to think the way. I'm never gonna
not think that.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
Oh yeah, yeah, I agree with you. But what I'm
saying is, in this situation, if somebody is judging me
and being like, oh, I don't feel sorry for Lex.
And I'm not saying people out there feel that way.
We're just speaking hypathetically. But if somebody was out there like,
I don't feel sorry for Lex Andrea for losing their
parents because look at their lives that they live at
the end of the day, they're viewing me like this,

(32:36):
and I am the more fortunate person in this situation
because I'm not looking at anybody like that. And whatever
trauma that you went through, you're fighting some kind of
demons in your head to look at another person who
is struggling or going through.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Something and looking at them like that.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
Yeah. So I say all that to say it's my
job to not judge them or put myself in their
shoes because they're not there mentally, they're not Their emotional
intelligence isn't where I'm at yet, so it's my part.
I feel like, not that it's my job, but I
instead of attacking them or call them crazy, I'm like,
you know what, I really am praying for you, and
I hope God gives you the grace that He gave

(33:14):
me to grow and learn because I used to be
that person.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I feel like I
can feel that way about them and then still be like,
you sound stupid. It's his but I'm still praying for
you and I hope that God give you the peace
that you need. But get about my goddamn comment.

Speaker 2 (33:30):
Yeah, yeah, no, I feel with that bullshe Yeah, but
I do think.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
Things could be true at once, because I don't. I
just have at a point in life where I feel
like I don't have to be nice or extend grace
to people that don't extend it to me. But my
thing is, I'm also not going to say anything to
you either, because I really don't be saying she to people.
A lot of the time, I'm just gonna block yours
by blocking.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
I used to not be a blocker. I'm a blocker
now because it's gotten to the point. Do you know
I tweet I tweeted, I said, I love the fact
that Adam Sandler puts his wife in all his movies. Yeah,
because one thing about it, Adam Sandler gonna cast that
wife baby. I don't care if she's.

Speaker 1 (34:09):
Playing a bell hop.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
He's gonna beat in the motherfucking movie, bitch. And it
was so many people like y'all are just you're just
finding this out. You're just somebody literally said to me,
how you reviewing movies and you just found out? Did
I say, I just found out that Adam Sandler was
putting his wife in movies? Because if you know me,
you know I talk about movies all day and night.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
And if you did, did you say you was a
motherfucking guru?

Speaker 2 (34:33):
But what movie I did find out? Why is that
not like just something that I'm saying. I hate when people,
Oh you just heard this sound, this sound, Oh I
just heard it.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
Go away from you with these go away from me
with this apollo period. What what do y'all be talking about?

Speaker 2 (34:53):
For real?

Speaker 1 (34:53):
Like, I just think people be angry and I'll be
thinking he's floody a little bit.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
They love to bring their pitchforks.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
They do because it's like, why are you so mad?

Speaker 2 (35:03):
Adam Sandler is not gonna put you in Oh my god,
why are you so upseting? They were like, how you
didn't know this? He puts his children and his friends.
Don't forget that.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
I know this.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
I was talking about relationships and stuff, and then I
was just tweeting about how I love men and women
that are in relationships and they look at it as
a partnership. I was talking about that to someone. So
that's when I was like, I got on the topic
of Adam Sandler. One thing about me, I'll be having
a conversation in real life and it'll remind me of something.
I'll just tweet about it real quick. I know Adam
Sandler puts all his friends and his kids and everybody.

(35:36):
I was talking about the love he has for his wife. Yeah,
because a lot of y'all have wives up and won't
even buy her a fucking daisy bitch. So yeah, I
was talking about the love he has nothing, a nothing. Yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
People just be angry. And that's why I believe you
can never have too much positive heving the world. No,
I don't think the world could ever have enough positivity
because most people are negative as FuG for no reason.
Listen to the things you just said. God, they could
have just scrolled past their tweet and I said nothing.
You know how many times I see some bullshnitzel that

(36:15):
somebody say, that's my new word. You know how I
see so many you know how many times I see
shit online that I'd be like, what the FuG is
this person talking about? Like you sound crazy? Whatever?

Speaker 2 (36:30):
But why do I yes?

Speaker 1 (36:32):
For what? And I'll say, the point in responding to
every little thing that you see that somebody say and
you feel like, oh this is stupid. They should have
known this, or they sound crazy, you don't have to respond.
You could just keep scrolling, y'all negative.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
I agree with you, there's never too much positivity for
the world.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
I do agree with you on that.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Like there's there is a such thing as toxic positivity.
But on the other end, there's never too much positivety.
So when I say it's toxic positivity, I think it's
toxic when you're not being honest and when you're telling
people I wake up every day and I'm happy and
be honest about your journey to where you are.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
I wake up.

Speaker 2 (37:15):
I'm not gonna lie, y'all know me, bitch, I'll be
satisfucked right now. My life is.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
Since January one till now.

Speaker 2 (37:24):
I haven't woke up sad yet, bitch. I ain't gonna
lie st y'all, but y'all know I keep it real
with y'all. I'm gonna keep it real with what's going on.
So I think when we're talking about positivity, I am
here because of the work I've done. Though, do I
have my rainy days? Yes? So I think when it
becomes toxic when you're not honest. It's never too much positivity,
but we need to be honest about how we got here.

(37:46):
So even if there is a guru talking about be positive,
wake up happy every day, talk about the journey that
you did to get there, more so than acting like
help the people, pump the folks. Baby, I'm looking at
y'all like, why is you?

Speaker 1 (38:01):
And I'm sadis fun and I see the sun? Is
what I said? What did I say? About comparing. Comparison
is the thief joy people, and that's another word. Stop
comparing ourselves. Stop looking at other people. I just feel
like we should. We too deep in the game at
this point, all of us as a whole, as a community,

(38:23):
we too deep in the game when it comes to
social media to still be getting online and looking at
the sheep people post and thinking that there's really their
life all the time. Be for real. We should know
at this point that like a lot of shit be orchestrated,
it be calculated, and this is not what's really going on.
And if people are going through downtimes in their life,

(38:44):
if they are going through you know, trials and tribulations,
they're not going to tell you thank you toy. They
not gonna tell you about that shit. They just gonna
show you the good time. And maybe one day, eventually,
maybe once they through the storm there they'll open up
and share what they went through. But most people are
not going to share with you in the midst of
a storm what they going through. So stop looking at

(39:08):
other people and being like, oh, they so happy and
I'm so sad, or oh they got this and they
got that and I don't have half the things that
they have or it looks like they just have everything
they want. They're so lucky. Nobody is that lucky. We
all go through shit, everybody, your face, everybody goes through something.
Everybody is going through and maybe not currently because I

(39:29):
mean everybody has time seeing life where you're not really
going through, but we've all been through something. Nobody that's
walking God's Green Earth having not went.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Through bad baby. What's up y'all?

Speaker 1 (39:44):
At your girl likex pee and it's your girl draining
a call And we have.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
A very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new
show dropping.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
Yes, we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon.
It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
We're gonna be doing so much stuf up on there.
We're gonna be doing challenges.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
If you can't go to Bill and Dauche, where the
hell could you go? If you can't go to Blanche,
what the hell.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
We're gonna be doing? Talk to me, Chat with me.
We're gonna be feeling a little tea.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Oh my god, No, you didn't go everything y'all been
wanting to see.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
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Speaker 1 (40:24):
Right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,
and it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds
has grown into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna
have a lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles.
So make sure y'all tune in September second, it's going down.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
Thanks, what's up y'all?

Speaker 2 (40:53):
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Speaker 1 (41:52):
Amen.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
Okay, all right, let's get into the second topic, the
broke BFF epidemic. So this is the topic about you
have a friend who is their funds aren't matching yours.
They're maybe their ambition, their drive to reach the successes
in matching yours. They y'all go out. They always kind

(42:14):
of like missing a wallet or when it's time to
send the cash apps and ZiLs at the end of
the meal, they phoned on got service. So how do
we feel about having a friend who is not as
financially stable as you? How we feel about that?

Speaker 1 (42:33):
I okay, So I've had friends before where like we
would go do stuff and then when the tab will come,
they would want to separate their money, or they would.

Speaker 2 (42:43):
Like, I told you cheese sticks and sprite that's all
I have.

Speaker 1 (42:46):
Yes, yes for sure, helly so yes, so like I've
had friends, or they would want to separate their money,
or like when the tab will come, they wouldn't want
to split it evenly, or like they cash apps and
stuff wouldn't be back then. I feel like I extended
more grace to friends like that because we were younger
and everybody was just trying to.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Find their way.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Now that I'm in my thirties, I feel like, don't
come like we can still be friends. I'm not gonna
stop being your friend because you having financial issues because
you going through something, because you don't have to have
a lot of money to be my friend. But if
you know you ain't got no money, don't bring your
ass to this dinner and then be looking at me.

(43:29):
Absolutely not, Or don't bring your ass to a dinner
where we're doing family style food and you eating, you
eating off of everybody plate, trying little samples, and then
when the tab comeing, I ain't order nothing. I just
had water and cheese steaks.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
Cause I had cheese sticks and water bapp you ordered
that for lat me ya it's no you bitch, So
I played my role. I half family style.

Speaker 1 (43:53):
You is crazy. But no, seriously though, like at this point,
just don't come.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Don't come, like keep it real.

Speaker 1 (44:01):
I have all the grace in the world for people
who keep it real about things like that. Like if
you like, look, I ain't got it, I can't come
to the dinner or you know just what, you don't
even got to tell me you ain't gotty. Like if
you just say you can't come or whatever the case
may be cool, but I would prefer you stay your
ass at home then coming knowing you don't have no
money and that goes for a trip, that goes for dinner,

(44:24):
that goes for anything where you're going to need to
pay for something. Yeah, So I agree with you on that.

Speaker 2 (44:32):
So I'm like, it depends on the scenario, because if
we're going to like a group setting and you come
and then you like spring it on me like, oh, Lex,
I ain't got it. Can you pay my yeah a
portion that's gonna piss me off, or cause I've had
this happen to me before. We're like we all at
the dinner. Ooh I'm about to give y'all a good
tip of what I do now. But anyways, don't spring

(44:55):
this shit on me. Now. If I invite you one
on one and you like, oh, look, Lex, I don't
got it right now, girl, I got you, yeah, because
I'm not gonna lie to you. Sometimes I just need
to get out the house and I want to talk,
and I just need a friend, and I just need
to get out the house. And Drea knows I'm an
at home bitch. So if I'm inviting you to dinner,
I want to go out somewhere.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
I need it.

Speaker 2 (45:13):
I need to get out the house. So I got you.
But if you just not, if I tell everybody, hey,
I'll put it on my card, everybody zell me eighty
dollars and you zelling me sixty five because you were like,
oh I didn't order this.

Speaker 1 (45:28):
I don't order that.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
Bitch.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
You got me fucked up. So let me tell you
what I do.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
Y'all. Please get your note passed out when you go
on a trip, when you going to dinner, be that
person that puts it on the car. But guess what
you're gonna start doing putting it on that cash ap
card car ain't gonna go through until everybody cash aps
you and it lands on that goddamn card. So when
we went to Turks and Caicos, I have my cash
ap card.

Speaker 1 (45:53):
So if the tab is.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
Five of us, for example, tab five hundred dollars, I
got my hundred on there. You don't send me your
one hundred dollars. It's not going through when he swiped
that bitch until you send it. We finish it at
this table standing at so what you gonna do? So
what you're finnah do? So I was at the table
like this, the funds ain't been received, man, because y'all

(46:17):
not finna play with people like that no more. So.
I do think that with the money situation, it depends
on the scenario. I was always the type of friend
when I didn't have it, I would I would get
my friends and hands up. I don't got it, I
don't want, I don't want to go. I don't And
if I didn't have it, I would, literally I would
be the type of friend like I'm whispering to the waiter,

(46:39):
how my cheese sticks, put my spriten my cheese sticks.
I slide my ten dollars, y'all that's on y'all.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
See, I do feel like you shouldn't do that, though,
Like I don't feel like you should do that.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
But that was also back in the day. Different I'm we're.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
Not talking about you. I'm saying in general. I'm saying
in general, I don't think people should do that at all. Like,
if you know that you're gonna go somewhere and you
gonna want your stuff to be separate, I feel like
you should say that at the beginning of the night
before people start ordering.

Speaker 2 (47:16):
She okay, So let me ask you this, though, why
if they're paying for their stuff, why do they gotta
let other people know I pay for my stuff already?
Because I just think that's courteous, especially if it's a
setting where majority of the time y'all sleep the bial
At least I can speak for me and my friends.
Majority of the time when we go out to eat,
we don't be looking at the tab like, oh, I

(47:36):
order this, I order this, let's put this on separate tabs.

Speaker 1 (47:41):
We just get one bial and we spleitty right. But
what I'm saying is like, Okay, even if it's not
family style, Like, even if it's just like everybody ordering,
they entrees, they appetizers whatever, because we might order like
five appetizers and sharing.

Speaker 2 (47:53):
We do that. We definitely everybody might order like two
or three drinks.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
I'm not clocking who order two drinks and who ordered four?
We just yes, we just put it all on one
tab and then we split it. So that's why I
said that, because if you even if you do only
order one drink and you order some cheese sticks in
the water, But if you don't say that prior to
people starting to order stuff, and then at the end

(48:19):
people see you getting your tabs separately and then they
all putting it together. I just feel like to avoid confusion,
because it's fine, you should just say something because nine
times out of ten you don't have a person in
the group that feel some type of way about that. Now, personally,
I don't care about this. Shep put your sheet separate
if you want to.

Speaker 2 (48:36):
Who cares?

Speaker 1 (48:37):
But I have But I'm speaking because I have friends
who like, they don't be liking this sheep. I don't
see them get into it with other friends over like
why she putting stuff separately? She broke and she like that.
So yeah, like to avoid confused, I feel just put
it you know, just put it on the No, put

(48:58):
it on the table for everybody. Start ordering stuff. Hey,
I'm only ordering I ate before I came. I'm only
gonna order an appetizer in one glass of wine. I'm
gonna put a separate tag exactly, and I'm not gonna
lie if you look.

Speaker 2 (49:13):
I love my girl Kiki, but Kiki orders die.

Speaker 1 (49:16):
Whispery, scene whisper. It seems sneaky, like I let you this, dad.
I used to be like, hey, can you put my
stuff to the side an then the tab come out
and you know, I putting your card down already paid,
y'all don't gotta work, right, But why you whispery?

Speaker 2 (49:32):
I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?
You hoses ordered for lay me, y'all medium rare Brussels
sprounce with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gro potatoes. Bitch,
I don't even know what a gun is. Of course,

(49:52):
I'm embarrassed. Bitch I ordered a season saddle.

Speaker 1 (49:55):
With no crew toon.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
Yeah the fuck, I know I'm saying that the day
but it was different though, so it was easy to
split tabs restaurants used to split tabs. Now, I mean
it's a different now. I'm not gonna lie to you.
When I go to a restaurant, I'm here to eat.
I don't care one thing about me. I'm very cheap
still because I am. I like to save my money.

(50:16):
But one thing I'm always spend money on is food.
Food is a part of my experience in life. I
feel like when you taste the different flavors of the world,
you're living okay.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
And I'm a tourist, I just booty. So now, yeah,
throw that card in the middle.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
And like I said, our friend Kiki Kiki orders six
appetizers too entree.

Speaker 1 (50:35):
She don't even eat it all. She just wanna taste everything.

Speaker 2 (50:37):
If you go out to eat with Kiki Bab, you
got to be ready to throw that card in. I
think we're all like that, so I think that's okay.
But I'm very mindful, so I know when we in
certain settings. I know it's certain people it's not gonna pay.
I know when I got it with that cash ap

(50:58):
card up. I'm gonna just say that.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
I know when I gotta do that cash hup. Shiteah
and hey, y'all, hey, you know what instead of everybody
laying their cars now, put it on the cashp car
because y'all ain't finna slide to the waitress.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
Put eighty on this line.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
Walford one on the raft.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
Yeah, well, I feel like for trips though, that's just
a good idea in general.

Speaker 2 (51:18):
I think I'm putting my bag when I saw this.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
Yeah, I think when people go on group trips it
should be like that.

Speaker 2 (51:23):
Anyway.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
It's like when y'all going so smooth, it really was smart,
Like yeah, when you go to the club or when
you going out to eat and you on a trip
with your friends, I feel like it should be one
person in charge of pinion.

Speaker 2 (51:35):
And with that commnimize confused.

Speaker 1 (51:38):
Everybody's seeing this person they money, and this person is
the person that's gonna pay with cash.

Speaker 2 (51:44):
And then when you and when you got the cash
up car, you be feeling like a baller. I'll be
like I got it, not knowing that everybody paid me.
But I used to I was doing that the whole
time in turks Grown. I was like Branda tapped to me,
I got it, broke, bitches, I would have to get
payback on everybody. I was in a section full of

(52:07):
bad bitches yet sending another bottle, and from far away
it looks like a am. It's because it's black and.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
It's black and it's hard and they.

Speaker 2 (52:19):
Got my signature on it to it. You know, I
got a good signature, bitch. Their hope is looking fly.
But okay, back to the topic. I do feel like
finances shouldn't come between friendship though, and I can say
that I can attest for no, no financing.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I feel like finances should come can come between any
fucking relationship.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
No, I feel like it shouldn't because it now, if
somebody is using you and they're doing the most, okay,
I understand. But if it's like somebody's just not up
and you're and you're up and they're not up, and
y'all be having conversations, they're letting you know.

Speaker 1 (52:54):
I just don't mind.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
Help, like because I used to be that person. So
I don't mind helping or doing what I can and
as long as they communicate with me. And one thing
I can say for I have friends that make way
more money than me, and I have friends that make
way less than me. I feel like we all just
it's a community. We all trying to figure shit out,
you know what I'm saying. But I think finances are
tricky because if we would just communicate, none of this

(53:18):
stuff would even exist.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
Open your mouth and talk not being embarrassed.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
I mean, I agree.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
I feel like that's what I had said earlier too,
Like it doesn't really matter to me if somebody doesn't
have money, like that's not gonna affect our friendship. It
won't affect our friendship until it's things like that, like
feeling like you're using me, feeling like you're trying to
be sneaky and get over you borrowing money and not
giving it back. Because I consider myself a gracious a

(53:45):
generous person too, like I have helped a lot of
people out over the years. But it's just like people
be trying to take stuff for granted though, you know
what I mean, And then that's when it can become
an issue in relationship. That's why I said, I feel
like finances can fuck up any relationship, whether it's a marriage,
a partnership, a business partnership, a friendship, a familyship, any

(54:11):
of that.

Speaker 2 (54:11):
Shit, a schnittleship, It could fuck up any relationship.

Speaker 1 (54:16):
Because that's the number one reason. Money is one of
the number one reason for every breakup across the board.
When it comes to any relationship, that's one of the
number one reasons people stop being friends, stop fucking with
each other. It be over money because then two, when
you start getting money, then sometimes people around you start
feeling entitled to your money, and that's a whole nother time.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
Tell you something, you ain't tired of the shit around here.
But I always made that very clear, even when I
worked at Dreams and I had two dollars. You're not
entitled to these wings, bitch. Don't come in here feeling
like I'm finna give you no. I've always been that way.
I draw boundaries.

Speaker 1 (54:53):
I mean you have to. I feel like that's important.
You have to draw boundaries with people, because that's when
people will try to take evan each of you, you know.
And I say that from a place of like I
didn't always draw boundaries with people. I feel like I
always been the type of person. If I got it,
you got it, Like that's always been the type of
friend that I was, especially when I was younger, like
now not so much. I mean, like, if you my

(55:15):
friend and I fuck with you and I'm doing something
and I know you can't pay, or I know you
going through some shit, I'll pay your tab or I'll
help you out. But as far as just always across
the board being like I gott e, I gotty, you
would now absolutely, And that's well, yeah exactly. And if
you're helping everybody out, how you gonna do that. That's
why I said, sometimes you got to put people in position.

(55:38):
We talked about these on the other episode.

Speaker 2 (55:40):
Circle Small, and that's just for a reason. Yeah, I
don't need no Kelli bitches Aswing for my money.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
Okay, or no Orange Beaches.

Speaker 2 (55:47):
Or no or no Houston be nobody, none of you,
none of you.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Bet chess, not you think, because we ain't even ask
you what you think.

Speaker 2 (55:55):
I hate.

Speaker 1 (55:56):
I like my group of friends were the ones that
throw our cart in the middle. But I have had
times in my life where I wasn't the you know,
I wasn't in this position, and but I would be
the one like you know, I came before I let
people know I came before.

Speaker 2 (56:09):
I mean, I ate before I came. I'm not in
it type of thing.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
But I don't necessarily like to sit there and count everything.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
Yeah, like, just don't come.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
I would rather just stay home and avoid the embarrassment,
avoid any of that.

Speaker 2 (56:23):
And just keep it moving because it's the next one. Yeah,
because I'm gonna eat.

Speaker 1 (56:27):
I agree, Because then so even if you say you
ate before you came, everybody gonna be like.

Speaker 2 (56:32):
Yeah, you give me, why would you stay your appetite?

Speaker 1 (56:40):
You know if you know he was going, I'm about
to soon, like, we can't be doing this dip and
you know what I mean, came.

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Centnaments touching your back.

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Speaker 1 (59:43):
Okay, y'all. So for the band topic, I wanted to
talk about if no for play is needy because I
saw a tweet on Twitter and I had read tweeted
it and it's so crazy because all I.

Speaker 2 (59:55):
Said was no, and he got a whole bunch of resweets.
I guess the girls felt there.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
So the girl the original tweet, the girl was like,
have y'all ever dated a man that was so fine
and you was just so physically attracted to him X,
Y and Z, you didn't need any for play? I said, No,
never met a nigga the fine. I always need a
little head, always always need my couchie scrade.

Speaker 2 (01:00:22):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (01:00:23):
So yeah, so it's like, excuse me, like, no, never
met a nigga the fine?

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
Ever?

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
We need you need for play?

Speaker 2 (01:00:35):
I think that's.

Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
Essential when it comes to six. But that's just me now. Obviously,
considering time restraints, you may not always have time for
for a play, like you know what I mean, if
you're trying to get a little quickie in before work
or before you gotta go to an event church. Maybe
I don't know. If you're trying to get a little
quickie in real quick then yeah, you might not have

(01:00:59):
time off four play. But like just on a normal basis,
me and this man don't never be doing four play
because he's so fine like Cuci just with off the rip. No,
mm hmmm, I need do be like that sometimes.

Speaker 2 (01:01:14):
But like a little quickie or a little having fun. Yeah,
but I always I think. But honestly, I feel like
it's weird as a woman or a man, whoever, whatever
you like today, you don't like four play.

Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Yeah, you don't like to build up. I think it's
your all.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
Four play is a part of it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:37):
I don't know when you said that. I just started
to thinking about it. Chris Brown, So he'd be like, beauty,
because that's what.

Speaker 2 (01:01:47):
We're doing if we building up. Cause you got me
fucked up, because what are we doing here?

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
My love?

Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
Clearly not you ain't even.

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
You not getting all.

Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
His love because he eating somebody somebody else coaching it.
It ain't yours eating No, my coupe, you're not getting
all that nigga love somebody else. Okay, Again, like I said,
four play is a part of sex. If you are
dealing with a man or a woman who is not
going down on you, not caressing them, teles, I love

(01:02:29):
a titty career. I love a titty caress. I love
when a man just kissed me up around and round.
Oh sorry, I love to you know, bring it on back. Yeah,
you're right, you're right. I just feel like four play
is a part of sex. So I think that is

(01:02:50):
a little bit childish.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
Whoever tweeted that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
I bet you she's like in her twenties early and
she was just trying to say something to im. She
was trying to say, so I'm to impress the nigga
that she fucking with who be watching her tweets, And
she didn't expect Dre and Nicole to answer it and
respond to it. Well, I will say to young Cuccie,
be high so it'd be hot and ready.

Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
You really do. It's the person who once had.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
It could still be hot.

Speaker 1 (01:03:18):
Ch I mean, And it's not old, but it's older
like it's season. It's seasoned coochie now like back when
I was in my twenties, though it was young hot
in like my my early twenties, it was young, hot
and ready. Now when you be in your early twenties,
I will say it takes minimal effort. Yeah, it takes

(01:03:38):
wayless if to get you there. It's I mean, I
kind of get where she coming from. But even back then,
I used to be like, yo, open my legs.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
Oh you thing, put the CATAMOUTI right there.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
I had to think about it. That's why I was like,
oh but God like look, it was always like, so
what we're about to do?

Speaker 2 (01:04:09):
I just like, rap that engine up. You never start
your car, just take off. You start your car, let
it rev up.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
And what happened if your car weren't out of oil.

Speaker 2 (01:04:19):
That bitch gonna break down.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
It's gonna break down, might blow up. Hey oh yeah,
you absolutely always need four play. So ladies, stop letting
these niggas get away with not eating your kuchie.

Speaker 2 (01:04:31):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
I always have thought that was so weird when you
girls be like, oh.

Speaker 2 (01:04:36):
I deal with a dude.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
He don't eat my kucci though.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
And why are you with it? If you see me
with a if you see me, if you see me,
no that he ate that thing up from the root
of touto.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
Please know he eating fat?

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Mind? Oh, full meal, full meal. Thanksgiving brunch bitch, but
off the bone, TI getting them neck bones and them
collar green stags.

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
But as a way, like what do you mean he
don't eat it?

Speaker 2 (01:05:07):
Fo he beat it? It's such enough out of you
and Heath Cliff Way, you couldn't up. I'm not I'm chilling.
I'm just saying I think that is after crazy. But
I mean it goes both ways too. Y'all gotta start
sucking that dick too. They do, y'all ain't giving y'all
y'all ain't sucking at dick good.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
But I'm talking about like I used to know people
where they would be like, oh, I be sucking my
men like dick or whatever. But he don't eat my cucci.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
Only time that happens if it's that time of the month.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
Well, I mean I feel like sometimes that will happen
in a relationship. Yeah, I'm talking about in general across
the board, like you always giving him head and then
he never give me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
Here I'm finning like remy Ma on that video and
like I said, way that man.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
Was giving her head while she was driving. No, remy Ma,
don't look at me. I didn't do that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
But why do you know A lot like it because
it was one of her It was a music I
got a reason, and the nigga was giving her head
in the video.

Speaker 1 (01:06:09):
She was like, but it was obviously you're doing it
for real. But the fact that it was even like
acted out, that is crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:06:23):
Re me mine. He was like.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
She was like, because you know that's.

Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
What niggas do, not see m M.

Speaker 1 (01:06:30):
But yeah, I just always thought that was a crazy
thing though, because like, if you get a hit here,
he need to eat a little here.

Speaker 2 (01:06:36):
I agree, I agree. I really want to show you
this clip now.

Speaker 1 (01:06:39):
I want to see the clip because I am intrigued.

Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
Oh my god, I hope it comes up.

Speaker 1 (01:06:44):
I wonder how pampoos feel. Oh oh, it's not the video.

Speaker 2 (01:06:47):
Hold on, I know somebody got the video. Oh my god,
but this is a picture of it.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
Okay, go ahead. It's the Bangs.

Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
Did you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:03):
One time?

Speaker 2 (01:07:04):
And I didn't like it on me. I have a
very small forehead. So so let me tell y'all something
about makeup.

Speaker 1 (01:07:11):
It was way down, bro, It just was.

Speaker 2 (01:07:14):
It looks so dumb. So one thing about makeup that
I learned is that we have to stop want makeup.
I was doing what it was probably way up people. Remember,
it just looked funny because I have a small forehead, Like,
look at my forehead, it's not big, so even contour.
I don't contour my forehead anymore. You conter your forehead

(01:07:36):
if you have a big forehead. You contour your nose
if you have like a big nose, like, you contour
your chin if you have a long chin, like there's
certain like I contoured my cheeks. I have fat cheeks.
You know what I'm saying. I contour my nose a
little bit and my cheeks a little bit, but that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:52):
I don't do my chin and all this.

Speaker 2 (01:07:54):
I don't need all that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:07:56):
So Chinese bangs, I feel like, works on people with
like a your forehead and styles like that, but they
definitely didn't look good on me.

Speaker 1 (01:08:04):
Baby, the Chinese bang had me in a choke hold.
Oh god, I just had it. I need Oh, Nikki, Nikki,
tell me nothing. I had a Chinese bang. But what
I used to hate about it, especially too because my
skin is like Willie, like even right now, like my
little forehead getting a little shiny, my bangs will always

(01:08:28):
get so greasy, and I would be like I could
never have their hellstyle in like a week or two
because my bangs would always get so greasy and I
used to have to wash wash them every day or
they would be looking all stringy. Yeah, I hate a
stringy I hate a stringy bang. I hate I hate strings.

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You know what I'm saying. So yeah, I love Keana.

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enough and music is tone of voice. I was talking
about this with Shye a little bit because she was
showing me like some freestyles by Sweety and I don't
care what y'all say about Sweety, y'all be like, uh,
she can't rap. She just needs to be pretty. Sweety
got that tone. She got that tone, so it's I
don't give a fuck who what's somebody rapping about?

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
It sounds good.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
We are creatures. They gotta sound good in our ear.
Same thing with Sexy Red. I don't care what y'all
say about Sexy Red. It sounds the fuck good. Keanna
Lede has that voice. It sounds good. Summer Walker, same way,
she got that tone. Bruh, Sizza, she got that tone.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:53):
Even look boss Man Dilo, he got that tone. Yeah,
telling you it's such a major thing when you're making
music like and Keana Today. She has such a good tone.
I feel the same way about Aaron Ray. He has
a good tone. But anyways, Yeah, my bop of the
week Kiana Today, Weakness fire. Go listen to her EP

(01:14:18):
is bomb.

Speaker 1 (01:14:19):
Yeah. My BP of the week is about to be
Residuals because I forgot how good this song.

Speaker 2 (01:14:24):
It is such a good song.

Speaker 1 (01:14:27):
This song is so good. Amen. Chris Brown, Okay, what
all about? He won't come out with some hits.

Speaker 2 (01:14:34):
No, because, like you know, I'm gonna just say this,
Residuals is probably one of the best R and B
songs I've heard in a good like two three years.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
Yeah, I mean it's a good song. It just what
it came out in the twenty twenty three. Yeah, it's
a good song, like a year old.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
And I'm like, have we ever said talking about this?

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
No, we haven't, we haven't.

Speaker 2 (01:15:04):
We gotta I know, we said, let's get back to
the beg and music that he's making, the bigger music
that was getting all my love tell me who oh
but I am, I'm I'm gonna you know, I gotta
give you a critique, Chris, I didn't like the video.
You should have been heading outside of somebody's house with

(01:15:25):
a boombox on your knees and crying. We needed a storyline.
If we bring back storyline music videos. You remember how
Keith Sweat had no what was it? You know? You
want twisted? Do y'all remember the end when she was
climbing the rail and she got struck by lightning and died.
I know, y'all don't.

Speaker 1 (01:15:44):
Well, of course we don't. Leg because that song came
out in like nineteen ninety two and I was three,
and I was like, you don't even remember.

Speaker 2 (01:15:52):
You remember? That's how I told you about it.

Speaker 1 (01:15:54):
You remember because you probably seen it recent you want,
I remember drew him in my bed at the end.

Speaker 2 (01:16:01):
She was a lesbian. He thought he was. She was
cheating with a.

Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
Man on lines in these music video ray J one wish.
That's how Chris Brown should have did it. Ray J
got it right.

Speaker 2 (01:16:13):
I'm telling y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
In that range was the one who he was for real.

Speaker 2 (01:16:21):
That's how he be begging for suki.

Speaker 1 (01:16:24):
Did you know? Fun fact, this was about the lady
they just passed away r I pizza, the young lady
from seven oh two. That was his girlfriend, did you know?
I wish? Oh that was some hot tea.

Speaker 2 (01:16:37):
Yes, I did not know that, but his girlfriend. But
the thing about Chris is he's such a big global artist.
You can remake the video. You still got time and
we're gonna watch it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:47):
Yeah, do it do it again, do it again, increase,
do it again. We were not pleased. I'm playing it was.

Speaker 2 (01:16:55):
It was a good video. I don't know she was
about to say it was a good That's how you
know he's about to get your perfer.

Speaker 1 (01:17:00):
I was about because really I believe the song is good.
But that's why I stopped myself because I'm like.

Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
It's a good video because it had it highlighted from
his tour and it ended like with him and the girl,
and you know, it was a good video. But I
feel like, give us one more, give us a movie.
Remember how Michael Jackson did thriller?

Speaker 1 (01:17:20):
Give us some movie or what I'm not gonna say
his name. Oh funk no.

Speaker 2 (01:17:30):
About something right?

Speaker 1 (01:17:32):
That was a movie. That was a movie. It was
very I want to know.

Speaker 2 (01:17:40):
I walk off.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
I know you. Now you want me to be quiet?

Speaker 2 (01:17:52):
You know that? God damn it, we're not talking about
that right now? All right, So your first segment of
the week, pour your heart out.

Speaker 1 (01:18:05):
Yes, if you have any questions testimonial, send them to
ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:18:11):
A S K P O U R M I N
D S at gmail dot com. I'm sorry, real bad.

Speaker 1 (01:18:20):
He's only over there. What's that you know that meme
with that man when he takes the headphones, whole goddamn
episode over there? Like how he needs to insert he
needs to insert that youth in the fucking video how
people can see I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:18:38):
Sorry, I'm sorry. Okay, go ahead, okay. Question number one.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
And for guys in a relationship, it used to date him,
but you've decided to keep things friendly since he has
a girlfriend. You still hang out occasionally. He even gave
you a birthday gift that seems a bit worn or
like something he didn't spend money on. He says he
can't find the receipt to exchange it, but I think
that's a lie. I don't mean to be ungrateful, but
I still feel like bringing it up and don't know

(01:19:05):
how this raise is a question should a guy in
a committed relationship be giving gifts to another girl even
if they're just friends. During our time together, I always
asked him to be honest if he was serious with anyone.
Eventually I learned he was indeed serious, but he said
they weren't official yet, which meant he was involved with
both of us at the same time. She clearly has

(01:19:26):
no clue about this situation, but I'm left carrying the
weight of it, making it tough for me to maintain
our friendship just knowing that it hurts. He apologized, But
is it just me or does knowing the person that
he was dating at the same time hit differently, especially
because he told me he wasn't. Now he's chilling all
in love while I'm the one hurting trying to be

(01:19:46):
his friend. I feel heartbroken because he's fine and not
carrying any and not carrying any burden since she doesn't know. Meanwhile,
I'm the one he lied to and I know, so
I have to carry the weight. I don't believe in
go because it's been done to me and it's unhealthy.
How can I let go peacefully? She's beyond Gorge's and
I am not on her level at all, which makes

(01:20:08):
me feel even worse. I just want to get over him.
Any advice and help will be appreciated. Thank you, girls,
first of all, First and for motherfucking modes. Girl, if
you don't leave that fucking nigga alone, you talk about
ghosting him. We don't give a fun and a whole relationship.

(01:20:32):
You can't go somebody that's in a relationship. You just
need to block him and move on with your life.
And yeah, I'm sure she cute or whatever, but I'm
sure you cute too, And just because she's cute, that
doesn't give him a reason to treat you the way
he treated you and to lead you on the way
that he led you on. That is not okay. He

(01:20:53):
is not a good person. He does not have good character,
and that is why he does not deserve to remain
in your life. Then he gave you a gift that
he probably gifted to somebody else or probably took back
from somebody and gave it to you. Like, girl, he
don't care about you at all, and you deserve so
much better. Let him be, we sees because he chose to.

(01:21:17):
This is what I'm This is my advice. When somebody
chose another person, let them lay in the bed with
the decisions that they made. He made that decision, so
he got a state of and then see it ain't
no coming back to you now because he had a
choice and he made his choice. Let him stay over there,

(01:21:38):
move on with your life, and girl, fuck him.

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
Fuck that, nigga, fuck him. Let me play devil's advocates.
Fuck for that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Let me play.

Speaker 2 (01:21:48):
Devil's advocate for a minute, because I'm gonna tell you
why you weak as fucked because you were talking to this.

Speaker 1 (01:21:54):
Man knowing he had a game.

Speaker 2 (01:21:55):
Eat my black beerry No, because I gotta be real
with my ladies. For you were talking to this man
knowing he had a situation, and you thought you thought
you were finna come into this situation and he was
gonna choose you or whatever the situation may be.

Speaker 1 (01:22:10):
Only for the letter to go on and you.

Speaker 2 (01:22:12):
Talking about she's so beautiful, She's so beautiful, And that's
that's when I realized what it was. Right there a
lot of men and women I'm gonna stay people in general,
y'all don't have confidence about y'allselves, right, So y'all think
y'all gonna go in this situation with a man who's
dealing with or a woman who's dealing with a nigga
who got money, or a man who's dealing with a
woman who's beautiful, and you feel like that'll raise your

(01:22:36):
confidence up because I can take her nigga. I can like,
for example, I can take Dre and the call I'm
on a date and I'm chilling with Dre and the
cold nigga, only for him still to be like, oh,
I'm not leaving Dre and the cold. So your intentions
were wrong from the get go. Anyway, you were using
this situation, what it sounds like to me, to boost

(01:22:57):
up your confidence because you felt better about going on
a day or hanging out with a man. Oh, you
sounds like you looking up to his girl. You don't
want him, You wanted to match what his girl had
going on.

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
Well for will to be fair, she said, when she
started dating him, she did not know he had a girl.
She asked him to be honest, and he wasn't being honest.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
But once you found out, you decided to feel hauled.

Speaker 1 (01:23:22):
Asked after that though, once you found out, you stuck there.

Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
Not only did you stick there, you went and snooped
and found out who his girl was. And I'm not
mad at you for that, but you started putting yourself
in the competition with this girl who doesn't probably even
know you exist. She don't, she said, And that's what
I'm saying. We have got to stop doing that to
each other as women. I don't give a fuck if
she looked like Tommy Pickles. Bitch you when a man

(01:23:47):
tells you he's dealing with somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:23:48):
Leaves Tommy Pickles as well, three hairs.

Speaker 2 (01:23:53):
Ok the ball bitches be puling. Okay, okay, okay, he
got it. That's all I got to say, girl, but
move on crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
Okay, next question, this is mine?

Speaker 2 (01:24:09):
Right, m hm Okay, Hey ladies. So I've been dating
this guy for the past two years. We've recently talked
about getting more serious marriage and kids over the last
few months. One day, we were having a conversation and
he decided to share something with me that he thought
I should know so I wouldn't be blindsided. He shared
that he made a mistake and slept with his cousin,

(01:24:30):
who isn't really his cousin by blood or marriage. She
was adopted into the family, shut out to Dreana Cole.
He felt I should know because she might be around
at family events from time to time and he wanted
to be transparent. He reassured me that there was no
feelings between them and that it only happened once on
a drunk night when she came on to him. I

(01:24:53):
was really shocked and upset because it's not like an
ex that I'll never see again. This is a relative
who I could be in the same room with from
time to time. Am I overreacting? Would you want to
know if you were in the same room as one
of your eskimo's sisters? Would you tell a guy you're dating,
if he just shook hands with one of your exes, yeah,

(01:25:15):
I would, I go on, motherfuckers, he did right, Yeah he.

Speaker 1 (01:25:19):
Did right by telling you that. But I mean, first
of all, this wildest fuck because what how you accidentally
sleep with your cause how was adopted? But how was
that an accident? Like he didn't know when he slept
with her? Or did he already know she was adopted
your cousin and then he slept with her? Anyways, maybe

(01:25:40):
on a drunken night.

Speaker 2 (01:25:41):
I don't know, because that's what I want to know.

Speaker 1 (01:25:46):
We did a part two sit as another email in
put part two I don't know scandal Eskimo Gate put
that so anyways, likes, I was saying, how do you

(01:26:07):
accidentally sleep with show cousin? But that ain't the point
of the question. I would want to know absolutely. I
don't know if I would keep talking to a dude
that admitted to me that he slipped with his cousin.

Speaker 2 (01:26:18):
That's not what she asked, bitch, that's not what she asked.

Speaker 1 (01:26:23):
No, I'm just silly. You ain't gotta ask why it's
free this one on the house. I don't know if
I always still deal with somebody you told me to
tay slip with their goods.

Speaker 2 (01:26:36):
But I do believe. Let me tell you something. When
I walk in the room, it ain't no nigga that
can walk up to my man and be like, yeah,
he already knows. And that's why it's just gotta carry
yourself because anybody in my past, it ain't no man
even comfortable enough to walk up to my man on

(01:26:58):
some shit about me either anyway. So he did the
right thing by letting you know. But in case you
try something funny. So I think it's very important if
you're gonna be in a situation where your man or
you're a woman is gonna be in the room with
an Eskimo sister, because men and women both be trying
to be cute and her, Oh oh, I see you

(01:27:21):
keep it cute.

Speaker 1 (01:27:23):
I see you too, bitch.

Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
Yeah, I see you too, bitch. And I know and
guess where he at because it wasn't fat, juicy and
wet shout out to Bruno.

Speaker 1 (01:27:31):
Yo, that's what you need. The title part too, faith.

Speaker 2 (01:27:38):
Cousin fact, So no, you're not overreacting, but he did
the right thing. And yes, I would want to know
if I'm in the same room as an Eskimo suits
because don't be in my face, like, hey girl, you
look staircared. I'll be like, bitch, yeah, keep your distance.
You ain't gotta speak to me. Booth.

Speaker 1 (01:27:58):
Yeah, we don't even gotta do all it. It's just
so exy trying to be fun so unnecessary they.

Speaker 2 (01:28:03):
Be trying to be funny. I don't know. I've never
been in it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:06):
I've never been in a situation like this. I haven't
either where I've had to like be around somebody or
be friendly with somebody, did like only like a sister.

Speaker 2 (01:28:16):
If it was like it was a dude in our past,
and we're like it's funny, like girl, yeah, yeah, laugh
at but yeah, so yeah girl. Make sure y'all email
us ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. And I
hope y'all enjoyed this episode. I'm just so excited. We
have so much in store for y'all. Yes, we do.

Speaker 1 (01:28:37):
Make sure y'all shop music Beauty Collection dot com. Make
sure you subscribe to my YouTube dra and a call
with three e's, And yes, y'all, make sure you subscribe
to love lix p and do that next week period
by y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:28:53):
Y'all, make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow
all that good stuff. And let me say before we
close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is
connected to poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (01:29:05):
It's p O.

Speaker 2 (01:29:06):
You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the
wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds
with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not
follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the
pour minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,
one Twitter, one TikTok. It is p O, you are

(01:29:29):
underscore in my nds, all.

Speaker 1 (01:29:31):
Right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page
on the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing
is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of fileput.

Speaker 2 (01:29:41):
So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the
least amount of.

Speaker 1 (01:29:44):
File, but one that's not us got like two hundred
and fifty thousand.

Speaker 2 (01:29:47):
Y'all, make if you actually look at the content because
the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,
because their capches are like bumba clad? Should men?

Speaker 1 (01:29:56):
Should men pay bill?

Speaker 2 (01:29:58):
Should men pay bill?

Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
No check answer below block block.

Speaker 1 (01:30:06):
Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like, what that
d bumba claud claud la la la la La La
La La La la la la la.

Speaker 2 (01:30:20):
La lo la.

Speaker 1 (01:30:23):
A bus this part now, sipsy off this book car
about to take this fight so high, say bye bye.
We're been here all right now. My girl like, hey,
that's my song because I'm feeling fine, so fine, so fine.

Speaker 3 (01:30:44):
All the girls I feel me say oh yeah, hell
you hear me say oh yeah, good, great, great, don't hate,
don't hate the fells feeling you say oh yeah, like
and what should you say? Oh yeah good, feeling good, great,
feeling girl, look good, look good?

Speaker 1 (01:31:05):
Don't hey oh hey? Oh my girls with your hair
figs and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

Speaker 5 (01:31:12):
Okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, get another one?

Speaker 1 (01:31:20):
What it pay for it?

Speaker 2 (01:31:22):
But it any air?

Speaker 5 (01:31:23):
Say okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 6 (01:31:28):
Okay, your hands out on my booty to stepping my guccie,
And they're like, goga, go go go go.

Speaker 2 (01:31:41):
I like the way are shaky? You wanna see me naked?

Speaker 1 (01:31:46):
It could be you're not, You're not.

Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
You'll know the girls the.

Speaker 1 (01:31:52):
Feel me say oh yeah the club you hear me
say you're good feeling good.

Speaker 2 (01:31:59):
Feeling girl, the.

Speaker 1 (01:32:02):
Sail is feeling you say oh yeah, like and what
your do say? Oh yeah, feeling good? Goodling great, I
look good good. Don't hat my girls, with your hair
fixed and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

Speaker 5 (01:32:19):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, drink, get another.

Speaker 1 (01:32:27):
One, make them pay for it, put it in the
air and say.

Speaker 5 (01:32:30):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:32:36):
It's happening. Shorty. I'm Suan Paul.

Speaker 1 (01:32:38):
Let me hogh lash you. What I gotta do is
go a couple of dollars that se by my arm,
show my wrists, tell your dad I all pick you
up and be take you to the malin all. Here's
my number shot in case you want some street frame,
look me up. I introduced you to the street game.

Speaker 2 (01:32:54):
Hey, you be my sweet thing. I love it side.

Speaker 1 (01:32:57):
I love your nails and your tight jeans collar play baby,
how you love that? A young love? Feeling good and
never laid back, running with that goosey, never kneyag and
keep my ears to the streets. Is that's where home met.

Speaker 2 (01:33:11):
Throw a drinker, throw your hands over fellas that you
know we like to get crab, like to see in
that for me. Now, Storm, get your hair fixed and
your nail done.

Speaker 1 (01:33:25):
Get her hands up and.

Speaker 5 (01:33:26):
Say okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:33:32):
Gotta drink, get another one, make him pay for it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
Put in They ever say.

Speaker 5 (01:33:37):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:33:44):
Man, shout out to Nia. That's a fucking pop.

Speaker 1 (01:33:50):
They stick like grigs.

Speaker 2 (01:33:55):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:34:01):
Yeah it is.

Speaker 2 (01:34:07):
Is it

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