Heinous Heaux FT. Shxts & Gigs Podcast

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Speaker 1 (00:19):
What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex P and it's
your girl drying the call and you.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We got some
guests surday.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
We got some guess saday Hey, oh that was a
good ad lip.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
So you've been practicing, okay, So y'all already know who
this is. You know what I'm saying. We went and
grabbed them from across the poem. Who as come on now?
Practice that aren't Who asked? Is that? How y'all say?
Nig nigga? No, it's yeah, nigga, niggah nigga. You said

(01:10):
that kind of like stopped playing like he in Alma.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yeah, even in Atlanta for a week.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
So y'all already know. We have James and food high
from ships and gigs in the building.

Speaker 5 (01:24):
Let's go. Thank you for having us going up.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
I'm excited to have y'all to be here.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
So y'all are on tour right now, so talk to
us a little bit about the tour and how that's going.

Speaker 5 (01:34):
All that this stuff it's going, boy, isn't it halfway through? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:39):
Halfway is through? Yeah, we had a lot to show.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
Two nights ago. Yeah, it was lit. It was you
guys passed. You guys couldn't turn up.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Oh my god, we got a ride about the blast.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
We are right. We didn come to the show thirty
What time did I say it started? I was I was.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
There, actually had eight O five. No you was not
their niece was there? Was there, but were come bad.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
The traffic was bad. And then when we got there.
See this is how I know y'all got y'all ship
together because y'all thought on time.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
They started on time, first of all, and two like
they wasn't playing.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
It was like, oh no, y'all came on in. Dre said,
do you know why I didn't say that. I didn't say,
but what I think it absolutely? What the fuck? What
you mean? Let it in? They would not let us.
We are Atlanta legends time. They was not letting us

(02:40):
in because they were like, oh, well, it's about the end,
and I was like they was lying.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
We knew that y'all was going to go at least
until like CENTERTI.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
We was outside for a little bit. We was listening.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
We heard y'all was playing in those jeans.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
But we did see y'all at the London showing y'all,
And you know what shocked me is that y'all know
y'all be in your R and B bad. Yeah, I
just thought that y'all listened to like Josh Stone and
Adel but it's given.

Speaker 6 (03:16):
Like Josh Josh Stone heard that name in a decade
and that.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Name but she has angered did. But that's what I'm saying,
That's what I thought. So I was like, y'all know
who genuine are.

Speaker 5 (03:31):
You think that didn't make it across?

Speaker 7 (03:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Y'all have to realize I'm from a small, small, small, Okay.
So I was like, oh, there, y'all was in y'all bay,
very impressed, very impressed. So were y'all the type of
guys like y'all would make a playlist when you like,
go and pick your girl up?

Speaker 5 (03:49):
I had? How did I have?

Speaker 7 (03:51):
I had like a first date playlist, just chilling in
the bedroom at a sex playlisty times?

Speaker 5 (03:59):
I trade songs.

Speaker 7 (04:00):
Tray songs when he was in his bat anticipation, Yeah
is a tree song?

Speaker 1 (04:09):
I don't like, I ever love tree songs.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
I'm talking about like I was deep in my Trae
songs bag like I used to be listening to the remixes.
Remember he used to be remixing all the songs like Ego.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
And it was something about his voice. Let's always awful,
sound like.

Speaker 4 (04:35):
Song you don't know, spooky awful, Hello, Halloween music in
the background.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
I hate him here, anybody, if you ever played track songs,
it was drying that coochie right on.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
The I don't live though Trey songs was the sex
symbol at one.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
You're not gonna do him like that.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Calling a man with mini braids, he had no hang
time letting it grow you.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
You gotta start somewhere. But you never did a nigga
with little braids about me? See why? I know they
called starter breaks, grades or anything. Don't always have a always.
You ain't never had even a little bro anything.

Speaker 6 (05:33):
Your lockdown that was? That does account no never? I
like her a little always.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
I don't. You don't know. I feel like but I
don't like short braids. But I also like, don't add
no hair to it, like mystical.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
Y'all know who mystical is.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Danger He added hair to his brain.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
I feel like me, first of all, I'm about to
get mad. Because I feel like we had this conversation
before on the show. Mystical used to add cankal on
hair to his braids.

Speaker 5 (06:16):
What canklon it's.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Like the it's like textured hair.

Speaker 4 (06:20):
Like hair the hair that the girls used like they're not.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
Because first of all, you could tell, Okay, so.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
Before not this braid, it was a not y'all, remember
when the girls had the knot At the time, mystical
braids looked like that.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Oh you know what, No, it wasn't then that we
could tell. And he had a ball and he used
to burn the ends. You know, he got a ball.
We used to burn the ends of our hair, so
you would see the burn mark in his braids. So
you're right, damn Mystical, his ball was.

Speaker 5 (06:53):
Slicked up.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
Okay, So y'all not drinking today today, So tell us
about y'all's Atlanta weekend.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
In Atlanta.

Speaker 6 (07:02):
So we got here two days ago, showed the same day.
Show was incredible, if an, it was incredible, it was good.
And yeah, we chilled that night and the next day yesterday,
we had the rum punch brunch.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
What a time that was.

Speaker 2 (07:16):
What is a rum punch brunch? I'm not gonna lie,
I've never been like an UNLIMITEDD.

Speaker 7 (07:21):
It was kind, was strong.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
It was using it right.

Speaker 7 (07:29):
It literally was I know about it.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
It's like all.

Speaker 8 (07:37):
Night.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
I was right, and isn't it take you down? I
was just giving an emphasis of what it does.

Speaker 5 (07:46):
It was insane.

Speaker 7 (07:47):
So we were having I had one of them and
I was twisted I think three.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
That's why you were sweating like that. You were sweating.
You're sweating like did.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
You take your shirt off?

Speaker 5 (07:58):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
No, no, oh you you'll never take your shut off?
Y'all wouldn't partying for real? Like shut off.

Speaker 5 (08:06):
The jacket?

Speaker 7 (08:07):
Yeah, shouting the club is a little bit club does
not happened in London. That's not That's not a thing
you'll be asked to leave a meeting for.

Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yeah, y'all ain't partying right, gumbs off.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
I came in a three PCE suit. It's all staying
on fat. I'll just sweat through it.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
Did y'all go through that era where you'll was wearing
suits like business casual.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
To the club club?

Speaker 1 (08:33):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (08:34):
I went for a little what face was this.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
Way way?

Speaker 5 (08:43):
Little boat era? At one point, I don't want to
talk about you are a classic man. Yeah, I was
trying to.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
I was what's this, what's what's home boy?

Speaker 7 (08:53):
But not by like the Summer and a half.

Speaker 5 (09:03):
It bit me in the used to.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
Take pictures like this, the like I love that. I
feel like you had Bill's character.

Speaker 4 (09:14):
You know, we used to be cutting up in the club.
We used to be wearing blazers. Oh I had on
a mean means for both tie blazer suspenders.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Yeah, I wore suspenders at one point. I actually I
was Wayne. I was putting that ship. Don't do that,
I hear it. We had the air where the girls
will wear ties like Levine.

Speaker 5 (09:32):
Put the the fish.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
I would eating that up. He said that was my
ar not he was in his back. Oh she got
a town bro, too bad.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
I love that for you.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
We don't even stay on track anyway, right, but it's
in general.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
Needs to stop raining.

Speaker 7 (10:00):
That's bad, y'all not used to that body?

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Was there? Baddies there?

Speaker 5 (10:05):
I think that was I don't even remember bro from
when he was sitting on standing. It was like it
was slim pickens. Yeah. I haven't seen.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
In Atlanta.

Speaker 5 (10:20):
I've seen the least bodies so far.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
Thank god we ain't from here. Very surprising were from
takes you ain't infend of me. You see that?

Speaker 5 (10:40):
Oh god, that's that's hilarious. But no, we're still got
a couple of days. Maybe we'll find out. But yeah,
like two.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
Or three though to be just the type of.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Okay, that's that's fair. So what makes the girl bad?
Like what's the criteri.

Speaker 5 (10:58):
Veries?

Speaker 7 (10:59):
It does very from go to just mats how you
own it? Like you can be like there can be
a like a skinny girl who wears the funk out
of being a skinny girl. She just rocks it, and
then you've got a thick thing. It just owns the shop.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
That's a pr answer.

Speaker 7 (11:18):
If you everyone's beautiful, I just told you Atlanta's clopps.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
I never said everyone was beautiful.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
I just said I'm not seeing anybody said okay. You
know what's funny about Atlanta?

Speaker 4 (11:27):
Though Atlanta has a lot of transplantes, so a lot
of the people that live here, like you rarely run
into people when you're out and stuff that are from Atlanta,
Like the real Atlanta people, they be eating the trenches
like off Cascade. Lord, we're about to get jumped next
time we go out to the Cleveland abb That's what
they beat.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
Cleveland. Ass, I'm not getting jumps. I don't even go
to those areas. So how are the women in Houston?
Oh you said y'all didn't stand for minutes?

Speaker 5 (11:57):
I'm sure the banging.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yeah did y'all do meet and greet everywhere. A lot
of people go to y'all show. It's like date night,
like a lot of it was a lot of couples.

Speaker 7 (12:11):
Yeah, it has been a lot of couple Now there's
been a lot of couples.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Even one week because I mean we didn't go in
the Atlanta show with the people that was coming out.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
I said, oh, y'all are love like.

Speaker 7 (12:21):
I feel for guys to bring that girl to all show.
Really it's not nice, because yeah, it's not nice.

Speaker 5 (12:31):
Well I had a time as a woman exactly.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
So bad for the guy.

Speaker 5 (12:37):
It's just m.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
Why the girls be thirsty?

Speaker 7 (12:42):
That's yeah story. Sure you just see the guys looking down,
just holding holding that and then you can tell he's
he doesn't want it to start showering stuff.

Speaker 5 (12:55):
I don't want to for his sake.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
For real. That's my niggas just like, yeah, fun get
on stage and tell a joke and make you laugh.
You feel sorry for you Bro.

Speaker 4 (13:11):
I'm telling you, bro, but no, y'all listeners are different.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
I'm really truly to be honest.

Speaker 4 (13:19):
Like, looking at y'all story throughout y'all tour, it makes
me feel like our listeners need to step they game
because ain't none of y'all never came to our shows
which are face on y'all.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
Fingers nails on the T shirt. Yeah, I bet y'all,
somebody got a tattoo. Somebody gotta have.

Speaker 5 (13:40):
Just sign her leg so she just get that.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
Oh wow, I mean, damn, I ain't never told a
knock knock joke that fire like, come on, bit.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
Of tattoo and so I got of a tattoo. I'm
telling you, but that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (13:52):
I mean, I've never seen a podcast do a show
like in.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
An arena like that.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
That's crazy. Do y'all feel like that was a moment,
Like that's crazy?

Speaker 1 (14:01):
It was a huge.

Speaker 5 (14:02):
It was a cool day, Yeah, a cool day. It
was a cool day. Yeah it was not.

Speaker 6 (14:09):
It was a surreal day though, Yeah, only like deep
they experience after the show. When I was going through
social media and seeing people posting, I was thinking, funk,
we actually just dideo too.

Speaker 5 (14:19):
That's when they read something like.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Yeah, I mean and if y'all don't know for the
listeners watching, if y'all don't know what the O two
arena is, this is like Chris Brown when he goes
to London. That's where he performs at NICKI Minaj, like
when they go when the like yeah, like when they
go to London and perform like people be you know, doing.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
The O two. You know what I'm saying? Like that
that was that was, It was inspiring for the people.
So I want to start at the beginning. Well, yeah,
that's all I was gonna stay.

Speaker 4 (14:45):
I wanted to ask y'all, so like, how did y'all
start the podcast?

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Like, how did y'all even get into the space?

Speaker 5 (14:52):
That was?

Speaker 6 (14:53):
It was more hymn because it was a time where
I was living in Manchester. This was five five and
a half years ago, and he's he loves podcasts. He
listened to it pretty much all his adult life, driving
and stuff, and he said, oh, let's.

Speaker 5 (15:08):
Start a podcast.

Speaker 6 (15:09):
And at this time I was working in hospitality and
I said, this is the last thing I want to
do because I don't listen to podcasts, I don't watch podcasts,
I don't fuck with YouTube like that, so it will
be pointless for me. And he was like, the conversations
we have when we go out, when he comes up
to visit me, let's just put a camera on and
just have these conversations and laugh because this is we're
fighting like.

Speaker 5 (15:29):
This, you know.

Speaker 6 (15:30):
And I was thinking to myself, I don't know whether
I'd want to do that because of the job I
was in at the time. I didn't know how I
would be viewed, you know. So I was like, I'm
not really feeling I'm not really feeling that. But eventually
I finally said yes, probably like after like six months
or something. I said yes, and we started from day
one and then just not really looked back. To be honest,
I didn't really complain.

Speaker 5 (15:50):
I'd be it takes for.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Like the traction of starting out like years years, so
how long how many years would you say? Yeah, I
was loned for y'all. I really started to notice it
in views.

Speaker 5 (16:00):
Big jump fair.

Speaker 7 (16:04):
Probably not like even like even six months in because
Lockdown we started picking up a little bit and then
like but it varies because for us, like a big
jump is a big jump, so like for example, like
for us going from like zero to like ten k it's.

Speaker 1 (16:23):
Like you, I mean that's big here.

Speaker 7 (16:26):
Yeah, so we were we were like gas and I
didn't take like years and years, but the serious serious
stuff before it got to like crazy level.

Speaker 5 (16:36):
That was like like.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah, and what were you doing at the time for work?

Speaker 5 (16:42):
I was a personal trainer.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
I know that he was in a gym. You know what,
he got them holes?

Speaker 5 (16:51):
What's going on?

Speaker 1 (16:52):
And he is more of a like let me rollman,
you like.

Speaker 4 (16:55):
He's probably more low key got He is low key
with his outward holes.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
I can tell by the tattoo on your neck. You'd
be like kiss it.

Speaker 4 (17:02):
But I always say, you can't trust the nigga with
a neck what.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
You was a personal trainer, I know, I know, like
doing that wrong. Like he can see the girls, the
me and.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Grabbing that girl. He come around. Yeah, don't leave your
girl around me. True player for real? I see it
on you. It takes one to no one. Hey, come on,
now give it to him. He don't know. You know,
I ain't never seen a player.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
He ain't never seen a player like this before.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
You don't know. I don't know. We gotta put you got.
But what I'm saying a personal trainer.

Speaker 7 (17:40):
I know the girl I was not to be fair,
I was. I was a wholesome trainer that okay, trying it.
I didn't suck anyone, I don't think.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Let me say, look at me, he'sn't he got light
brown eyes with them lashes. He looks like he got
a fresh seven folto seven on girl. Wait, I know
some beautiful that's just when I see.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
Him, kind of got some long last look, very full beards.

Speaker 5 (18:08):
I know when I see him, you.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
Know, because everybody looks at y'all like, oh, they're so
happy and go there'll y'all are great guys, gentlemen.

Speaker 5 (18:20):
Thank you on.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
The low key, lo key though wholesome guys that we're
not trying to paint in that.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
I'll say this, women, y'all, I know y'all got some
groupie stories or women have done some crazy things.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
Can anybody give a pulled up follow them?

Speaker 7 (18:42):
People that we've met on this tour has probably been
the most outwear in the UK.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
Everyone's everyone themselves. You guys have more shame.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
Now, that's not I mean, that's true. You're very shameless.
I get one.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
They feel like it's one shot. So it's like if
if a girl feels like she has one shot to
meet you.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
You tag it up. You be working out your hairline,
full and a full beer, and y'all have kids either,
and y'all got straight tea jackpot. You don't hit the lottery.

Speaker 5 (19:18):
You don't see that they be saying stuff.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
She says, like crazy, these host behave.

Speaker 1 (19:36):
You're a reader reading.

Speaker 8 (19:39):
I like that.

Speaker 1 (19:43):
He reads. Yeah, he's the reader.

Speaker 7 (19:45):
What the fuck did she say? She said something to
you like because then she asked me, do you want
to know what?

Speaker 5 (19:49):
I told him?

Speaker 6 (19:50):
No, bitch, this is in the meet and greet, right,
so she's lining up, hug, she's hung up both we've
taken a picture together. James stepped a sign and said
she wants to take a picture of me separately. I'm like,
she said, I want to tell you something first, I said, cool.

Speaker 5 (20:07):
I told me she.

Speaker 6 (20:08):
Couldn't sipping her trink because we need She said, I'm
going to paraphrase. I really can't remember. She said something
along the lines of I want you to block my
air waves so I can taste your calm down my throat.

Speaker 7 (20:24):
And I was like, said no, she said, she said,
I would happily lose oxygen to feel you down my throats.

Speaker 5 (20:32):
Yes, that's what she said.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
This wasn't the South.

Speaker 5 (20:37):
I generally remember this maybe like five shows.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
I want to look.

Speaker 5 (20:41):
This might have been in like Texas.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
Actually, honestly, it's giving it's giving up and you ain't going.
That was kind of a bar.

Speaker 5 (20:51):
It was. She works herself up for that. She was
practicing that in the mirror a room or nurs She
told me, yeah, I mean.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
I would never do that. But how did you what
was your what was your response?

Speaker 5 (21:01):
I like laughed, I just laughed.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
Was she cute?

Speaker 5 (21:06):
She was like a wholesome woman.

Speaker 1 (21:07):
She was a cool girl. It wasn't she went because
if they was bad, they would have been telling me,
yes the name, she would have been outside waiting.

Speaker 5 (21:17):
She was. She was, which was a wholesome mother.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
She's watching right now. Tell you, daddy, daddy, what that.

Speaker 5 (21:27):
Other homegirls T shirt said? You remember which one is? Said?
Don't bully me, I'll come. What's like that?

Speaker 7 (21:35):
She came with her husband. Husband husband came in there
with her. Don't bully me, I'll come. And then she
was all like, uh what she said? She said, like
sign here, signed there, sign here, and then oh no, no, no, no,
what was it? It was homegirl that bought the husband
and she just had him yeah on the side.

Speaker 5 (21:55):
Yeah, that was hands in pockets waiting for her saying that's.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
All he probably one of them now wanted me and
they're like to watch. She's want to get booked by
at the many incident type of stuff.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
He said that.

Speaker 5 (22:10):
You hold this heinous, that's all I got.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
I like.

Speaker 9 (22:16):
My girl.

Speaker 1 (22:16):
What are we drinking today? Because I'm a little leader,
so I'm gonna leave another one drinking. The week is
Daddy's Home. You can do vodka or tequila with your base.
It's just a little line juice and maga based some
prickly para syrup.

Speaker 5 (22:29):
You give it a good shakeover ice and I hope
you guys enjoy cheers.

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Speaker 1 (25:05):
Okay, so before we get into this topic today, we
wanted to do a little translation type of game because
you know, I think we all need to come together.
We do, especially right now. I know y'all are in American,
but for us.

Speaker 4 (25:23):
Oh my, and so it is given that the silk
press is pressing vote don't play with her.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
But so in order for us to come together, we
have to understand each other. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
So there, when you're from different sides of the world,
things that we say mean different things.

Speaker 7 (25:41):
So we are.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
White people phrases yep, and we need y'all to translate
it how y'all would say it, and then we'll tell
y'all how you know we would say. Okay, we would
say it over here. Okay, you want to start, you
want me.

Speaker 2 (25:55):
To start, I'll start. You gotta say it in the
voice though, give it to them like Bob Wood. Okay,
because I used to work with Bob. I don't give
a rat sass.

Speaker 8 (26:08):
That that was.

Speaker 5 (26:09):
I was very strong, oh, I know.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
Because somebody said it to me before I don't want
to do it.

Speaker 5 (26:15):
I don't give a fun. Yeah, that's what we're saying. Yeah,
I don't give a I don't give a fun.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
That don't That's that's how we were saying too. We'll
probably add nigga, I don't give a nigga.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
Boy, fucked you for a little sauce, add a little
I don't give a rat sass, boy, I don't give
a Hey, step on, stop boy.

Speaker 4 (26:43):
Because we can really go there, we can tag trying
to what I'm trying to do though.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
What's upthing? Yeah that's what I thought.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
Yeah, see, And that's when he responds because at this
point we're arguing.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
He would go that far. No, it would because he
Bob is ready at this point. Oh yeah, oh yeah,
this is what he's not. Come on, you're cruising for
a bruisen.

Speaker 5 (27:07):
Yeah, cruising for a bruising.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
Bruising for a bruising for.

Speaker 5 (27:11):
A bruising is just like probably say or something like
what you want? Yeah, what you on?

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Yeah? What you are? What you really? What you on?
What you really? I would probably say you small?

Speaker 5 (27:24):
Yeah, your bed probably, I mean we'll just say what
is it?

Speaker 1 (27:29):
What is what is it? But you got like a like,
what is it?

Speaker 7 (27:33):
Yeah, it just be like, sorry, you're proba, You're I'm cuising.
You're the cruising for a brisen all right, and then
I'm I'm rodman. Cool, Okay, you're cruising for a bruising.

Speaker 6 (27:50):
Lock it looking locking, locking, locking, lock for a bruising locking,
bro all right, my man, looking say to me more time.
You're cruising for a bruising So yeah, yeah, alright, facts,
big man, boys, yeah, big really, what is it?

Speaker 5 (28:08):
Step outside, let's go, let's go.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
Oh my god, let's go.

Speaker 7 (28:19):
Let's go outside. Let's go outside. No, it could never,
could never, it could never. I don't think I remember,
I don't think anyone's invited me outside.

Speaker 2 (28:29):
Okay, so the conversation is going, Okay, you gotta give
him this one because at this point he can't believe.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
He can't believe that you say it. So he looked
at hardness. Yeah, what do you say, get a load
of this guy because he's around everybody speculating, everybody speculating,
they watching. Now get a load of this guy.

Speaker 5 (28:48):
This guy.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
Yeah, like, let's say something like he's just pussy off. Well,
look at this prick, he's a bee chance and yep,
look at this prick. Yeah, hope this has whole.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
You would not never about to say hating his whole
before today, but I.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Say it now this say that what you want, I
would say, Okay, that's fair, that's fair. Okay, So now
now you mad already, Now you're mad.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Still his blood is boiling, the blood is boiling. He's
still mad, mad as hell. So now he's just aggravating.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
Now he's ready to go outside and people playing with
So what he says, what he saying.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
Dagnabit, dagnamic, dagnabit translate dagnabbit dag nabby will probably be.

Speaker 5 (29:42):
That would just be like a man fuck.

Speaker 1 (29:45):
Motherfucker literally, yeah.

Speaker 5 (29:47):
This motherfucker. Okay, I've never said motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Motherfucker, not the hearty yard, not the hearty yar.

Speaker 5 (29:57):
I've never said that word. And he yeah, because on
this motherfucker. Yeah, you've never been angry before.

Speaker 7 (30:07):
I don't know why you're lying to everyone in that
you've never said this, mother You're lying, bro.

Speaker 6 (30:16):
I'm trying to think because that's it's motherfucker. That's what
I would think.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
I would say, Like it could be anything like you're
an aggravag nabby, something like So what do y'all say
when y'all aggravated like you stubbed your toe?

Speaker 5 (30:29):
What you say? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (30:30):
Just fuck yeah, okay, you'll say.

Speaker 5 (30:35):
Yeah, stay saying yeah, that's.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
M okay. So what would you say, dag nabbed? You
never in your fucking lifestyle, dag nabby? But I would
I haven't been in a situation I think I would
say dag nabby. So what would he say? A bitch
to make me a hainous hold appears off? Dag navity
is a nut if somebody honestly, but I'm not a lotto.

(31:04):
This is why I would say that.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
Thinking about it, If somebody say dag nabbit, I don't
know what you've been through to.

Speaker 5 (31:11):
Say that, I don't want no smoke.

Speaker 2 (31:13):
If I say dag nabby, they're gonna be like, oh,
I don't want to suck with her. She bes she
knows something, she doesn't seen something.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
You know what I'm saying, you know you know? Okay?

Speaker 4 (31:23):
So I feel like after that, then maybe you might
be mad because they don't want to fight, like they
ain't really trying to go outside.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Want they don't that they started.

Speaker 5 (31:36):
It does look good?

Speaker 1 (31:37):
Okay, try it. We get on with the story and
let us know what y'all think, What y'all think? What's up?
What's up? How y'all feeling?

Speaker 5 (31:44):
Yes, tasty, it's good.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Sneak upon you.

Speaker 5 (31:48):
I can tell them, take your time right in neew
that's good. It's good, really good. A sweet ship. Yes,
now what honest? This is peach?

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah, I mean.

Speaker 5 (32:04):
Little mean, we don't use enough peach.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
And a funny I don't know about. But I'm giggling.
So what am I doing? Yeah that's the only option left.

Speaker 4 (32:23):
Yeah, so okay, So anyways, they might not want to smoke,
they don't want to go outside. They ain't trying to
fight you for real, they don't want them problems. So
now you like, oh, for Pete's.

Speaker 5 (32:34):
Sake, for Pete's sake, for Pete's sake, for Pete's sake. Yeah,
that's it. I'm just yeah, I'm just we're just frustrated
for Pete. He say it's terrible because who is Pete
just sake? That's what I think.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
We just say, like, oh my god. We definitely say,
oh my god. The lot all right, broa, that's fair.
You guys say, oh my god, it makes me laugh.
Why you had a barber in.

Speaker 7 (33:08):
And every time it's telling the story every two seconds
to just accentuate the story.

Speaker 5 (33:12):
Oh my god, Oh my god, my god. That's how
you funny? Hilarious? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Laughter. Do y'all be faking y'all laughs? Sometimes? To be honest,
you ain't never faked to laugh.

Speaker 5 (33:26):
I'm never faked a laugh.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Yeah, I'm enjoy with him.

Speaker 5 (33:31):
I never faked never.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
What would we do?

Speaker 5 (33:35):
You guys takes exactly?

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Really?

Speaker 5 (33:38):
Do you?

Speaker 1 (33:39):
I mean? I faked to laugh on a date?

Speaker 5 (33:41):
Okay?

Speaker 8 (33:44):
Laugh?

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Do I ain't? Yeah, judge safe space. I'll be batting
the man eye lasses at me, laugh when it ain't funny,
and then you gotta it's be a lot of it
and you got away. Here's that tooth there? You know
what you told us.

Speaker 4 (34:04):
That's the little treat though, that is you gotta make
a nigga laugh so you can see if he got
his side teeth.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
I don't know in London that's but out here I
love to make. I love to make a nigga laugh
on the first day because I need to see if
you have all your teeth.

Speaker 5 (34:20):
Why would you not have all his teeth?

Speaker 1 (34:21):
Because niggas we don't know it's a thing though, it
is a thing out here. That's not a thing there.
Everybody got their teeth.

Speaker 5 (34:35):
Everyone's got their teeth.

Speaker 7 (34:36):
No one's ever trying to find out if that's never
even crossing anyone's mind.

Speaker 5 (34:43):
Let me find out if he's on his teeth.

Speaker 4 (34:44):
But have you ever dated a girl and me you
found out later she didn't have a tooth like while
you was having six, and she was like.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Never anything like that.

Speaker 5 (34:58):
Yeah, weird, Jesus, But Jesus, that's not something we should
be thinking about.

Speaker 4 (35:07):
A nigga who don't got a tooth don't care about nothing.
He cannot be my legga. So I do need to
worry about it.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
You should too.

Speaker 5 (35:15):
Yeah, I will now, I will now, But it's never
crossed my mind.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
And y'all got a long time on this tour. That's
why I was had.

Speaker 5 (35:22):
Aemonnia looking for teeth, all right, y'all in the south
to the teeth. I need to see that.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
I need to see that. I do that. I got
a few aunties.

Speaker 2 (35:36):
No, I definitely beautiful, but also she's she stole from
me a couple of times.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
But but she was a crackad.

Speaker 5 (35:43):
Your cousins, she was that's all right, though, what are y'all?

Speaker 1 (35:47):
I know what y'all call craeads, Yeah, is what you'll call.

Speaker 7 (35:51):
Crackheads, right, putting anyone a crackhead adjacent issive.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
Unless I've been I've been called worse. I call it.

Speaker 5 (36:07):
I call it like a smoke, Yeah, just like a cracket.

Speaker 6 (36:09):
As well, smackhead catch I would says, well, ain't never
say that. I never saying it to Yeah ever, wha though,
is it like it's it's not in my vocabular Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
Crackhead is definitely a mind line. So okay, drag go ahead.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
Were gonna bring in the first topic because we ain't
even got to the topic. No topics have been discussed.
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Speaker 8 (37:35):
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Speaker 4 (37:36):
Okay, So with my topic, I really wanted to talk
to y'all about, like, you know, y'all dating life, because
I feel like y'all really talk about y'all dating life.
So I wanted to talk about do you feel like
when a woman is successful that you.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
Have to do less for her?

Speaker 5 (37:52):
Y'all have to do less for her?

Speaker 1 (37:53):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (37:53):
Sin, because I feel like a lot of the time
when successful men day successful women sometimes or even as
successful men, but just me and in general, I think
when they date women that are successful, they feel like
they don't have to rise to the occasion because you
got it or because you good and you could take

(38:14):
care of yourself versus I feel like a lot of
the time when women who don't have anything going for theirselves,
men will do more for them because.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
They feel like they're like saving you.

Speaker 4 (38:23):
And I also feel like successful men a lot of
the time they don't like successful women because sometimes I
think it's an intimidation thing.

Speaker 6 (38:33):
Yeah. I can somewhat agree on the last bit you said,
like some men not me personally, I know, but I
feel like there can be men out there that will
be insecure with a successful women, or especially if them
themselves aren't as successful as the women right be insecure.
But I don't feel like me as a man, would
provide less or want to provide less to another successful woman.

(38:56):
I feel like it just depends on the person you meet.
I don't think the finances mattered more about who the
person is to me, if that makes sense.

Speaker 5 (39:04):
Yeah, that's now I'm trying to think.

Speaker 7 (39:08):
Also, it depends about what like in terms of the
intimidation thing. Like me personally, I don't I don't necessarily
value that in a partner.

Speaker 5 (39:19):
So if I was looking to date you, your job.

Speaker 7 (39:25):
You're successful, Like your career isn't on the checklist of
stuff I'm looking for.

Speaker 5 (39:31):
So for you to be successful, I think it's great,
But I don't care.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
So your day to girl with three dollars.

Speaker 5 (39:40):
Is she amazing? Then yeah? What she needs? Why she
needs more than she don't need less or anymore, I'll
take care.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Of it exactly. That's the Black King right now. Okay,
but I think that's more so. See, that's why I
told you he know what he doing. He do, he
know what he doing.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
But I'll say this though, I think a good example
is like if you're dating a woman who has the
money and you know, has her own thing going, and
she's like, oh, bab I'm gonna get my my nails
done today. You know, you know, I'm just having a
self care day. If this is a woman like you know,
doesn't have much, you will probably be like, oh, let
me send her some money she can go do. Versus
a woman who has a lot, you wouldn't even think
that that matters to center or anything, because she got it.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
But it's the thought that counts, Like, oh, you care
to do that for me?

Speaker 2 (40:31):
And I think a lot of times with us being
in this space that we are being successful, it's.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
Like a lot of times like men will forget, like
you know, I still like to be treated with little
small things as well. Yeah, you know what I mean,
you can do it got above and beyond.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
For us, that means boning a a Chanelle bag, are
going to Louis Vaitan And it's like, I take that,
but that's not necessarily what it means all the time.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
It's just being thoughtful and remembering.

Speaker 5 (40:55):
I get that.

Speaker 7 (40:57):
I think it's also as well though. It's like it
when when you're dealing with someone who has their own money.
Is also hard to distinguish what you would consider a gesture.
So for example, actually, if you wanted to get your
nails done, if you have zero money and I'm sending
you one hundred so you can do it, You're gonna
be like, oh my god, that's so nice. But if
you have so much money that one hundred dollars is

(41:18):
literally the same as one dollar, you wouldn't consider it
a gesture. If I sent you one dollar to go
get a Snickers, people be like.

Speaker 5 (41:24):
What the fuck is that.

Speaker 7 (41:25):
So it's hard to if you if I'm so convinced
that the money that these nails are going to cost
is literally nothing to you, yeah, then I might not
see it as even a gesture, even though you're like
I was the small things.

Speaker 5 (41:36):
It was like, I didn't even see that as a
small thing. I saw that as a nothing.

Speaker 7 (41:39):
Yeah, just like I didn't see yeah, giving your bottle
of water as a small thing that's literally nothing. I
think sometimes the lines can get skewed, and I think
sometimes it is difficult for guys mentally if they're dealing
with a successful woman, because they don't even know what
a gesture is anymore, right, because it was always reminded
like we can go to a nice hotel, and sometimes
I know a lot of guys will be reminded like,

(42:00):
oh I can, Like the girl might say I can get.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
This myself's been there before.

Speaker 7 (42:04):
Yeah. Yeah, So it's hard to it's hard to provide
gestures because the gesture is always always deemed as if
I can do it myself, you're doing a bad minimum
where it's like I feel like I'm just doing gestures.

Speaker 1 (42:16):
Yeah, I think it's.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
Thoughtful, like when somebody thinks to do something for me,
and I'm like, oh, like you know, because you know
I got it.

Speaker 1 (42:23):
But it's just like, you know what, just relaxed today,
Like you don't have to pull out your it's just
the thought of me. I don't got to dig for
a while. You gotta pull out my purse, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
I think we're like losing that part of like fun
dating with successful people with people who don't, you know,
middle class, everybody is losing the plot when it comes
to dating.

Speaker 4 (42:42):
Sow do y'all feel like people just have like really
high expectations early in dating these days?

Speaker 6 (42:47):
I think it depends on who you're dating. I don't
necessarily think everyone has high expectations people.

Speaker 7 (42:52):
Yeah, I think it does depend on the person they
value out of a partner as well. And then yeah,
it expectations can get insane.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
So how is dating for you? Do you feel like
women just be like, oh, girl, I'm going out with tonight.

Speaker 6 (43:08):
I don't think that much, especially because like, I don't
go often. I like to stay within my boundaries my
community and stuff, so I don't really go out that much.
But when I do, is it has to be someone
where I feel comfortable. Yeah, and obviously as she has
to feel comfortable too, So it's a nice balance.

Speaker 5 (43:24):
But I don't day often.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
I don't you ever call a girl trying to record you,
Not that I know of, it's a problem. I'm probably
own some people fences I know too.

Speaker 5 (43:38):
I don't think that's tough.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
I'm not going to accuse you of nothing no more.

Speaker 5 (43:42):
I'm a respectful host. You can you can go for it,
respect for us, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (43:48):
Okay, do you feel like people have I feel like
these days people do kind of have high expectations to
a certain extent when it comes to dating, especially in
the early stages.

Speaker 2 (43:59):
I think having expectations of what you want out of
Like if I expect certain things, that's okay, but it
doesn't need to be out landish.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
Like I like to be dated, I like to be courted.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
So if I like, I'm not finna come hang out
with you and watch Netflix and chill, I don't do
you know what I'm saying. So me expecting you to
take me out to dinner, you me expecting you.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
To come pick me up.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
Things like that is normal, But like the girls be
pushing it, crabs hit the table.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
Listen.

Speaker 5 (44:33):
But you said you said, like say minutes ago.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
She said that was my twenties. Though, look I told
you I am auntie. The only reason I'm up right
now is because y'all have y'all pulled up out here.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
You would be under.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
I am thirty four years old. I ain't fin the fact,
no laugh, fact nothing. I like to be at hunh
dre what I do every day watching in Little Valley.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Hello, I'll be at home.

Speaker 5 (45:02):
I actually hate Love Island, but it's the UK favorite thing.

Speaker 7 (45:09):
It's the UK's favorite show ever, and that's probably why
I hate it.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Well, you know, the US, we had our first good
season this year, the first season, so I was like.

Speaker 5 (45:21):
You guys have been slumping every year.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
Yeah, you know, he ain't lying.

Speaker 4 (45:28):
Were like, we're more of like real housewives, like we
have a lot of But I just think, yes.

Speaker 5 (45:35):
We do.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
In the Olympics on right now, I'm proud to be
in American to US, a US we never root for.

Speaker 1 (45:43):
Let me say something about black people.

Speaker 4 (45:44):
We have all type of issues internally, but when the
Olympics come around. Whenever the Olympics come around and we
gotta go against everybody else, it's going.

Speaker 5 (45:52):
Down at Yeah, the Olympics, that's what.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
There's a guy that's running for the UK right now,
what's his name? And they love him down because, like
I guess, it's the first time y'all had a fast
guy in years.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
You can't relate. Just to throw that out there, it's
f fast me, y'all, y'all need to be slow as hell.
That's just in comparison smooth. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (46:18):
I want to actually look up his name because I
want to shout him out because he's been doing that.
Nigga broke a record that was like thirty years old.
Disease Darnell Hughes shout out to even.

Speaker 5 (46:34):
His accident ain't even British, it's not from he's from. Yeah.
I thought I heard a little walk on and now, yeah,
he's okay.

Speaker 2 (46:44):
But he was talking about that in the documentary I saw,
but he was given no shoutout to, no allows. It's
the American runner and he was giving him a run
for his money. But I was like, damn, they were
talking about how like y'all like love track and field
over there. I was trying to look up the history
and I was like, now it was given no.

Speaker 5 (47:01):
Medals, guys, sprint is not our bike. It's not. No,
it's not, but we smash everything else, right, Like if
you think about this way, right, So.

Speaker 7 (47:13):
As far as gold medals go, I'm pretty sure Great
Britain is fourth of all time and it goes USA. Okay, Usa, Russia,
China a top three. Bearing in mind China has three
billion people. You guys have what three hundred million something
like that. Russia have probably the same. We have like

(47:35):
sixty sixty seven million.

Speaker 1 (47:39):
And only four of them black.

Speaker 5 (47:40):
Yeah, exactly why.

Speaker 7 (47:41):
Niggas came around the Olympics. We're like one tenth the
size of everyone else, and we smash it.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
I believe it. I believe it. Smash y'all do a
good job. Like but also number four, that's smashing.

Speaker 5 (47:58):
Yeah, that's that's cool.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
I mean, the most decorated Olympian in history the US
we know.

Speaker 5 (48:05):
But all right, all right, we can go back and beautiful.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
Lash, beautiful lash. They are they long. I'm having a time.
I hope you'll have a good time. Okay, So we're
gonna move on to.

Speaker 10 (48:28):
The next time. What's up y'all? As your girl XP
and it's your garl draining.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
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It's going down.

Speaker 5 (49:33):
Thanks.

Speaker 9 (49:43):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (49:43):
Now it's time to get into the bed ay the
bed bow the bed bow Bow Bow bow Bow.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
You ready to get into bed, I am, but I
thought she was gonna go into the other.

Speaker 5 (49:56):
Well, you know, I mean we.

Speaker 1 (50:00):
We're the time is I mean, if you want to
go over, we can what you want to do, I
don't know, it's up to you. I mean we can
definitely do the same. But I think that would be funny. Okay,
go ahead making me bring it in his.

Speaker 4 (50:16):
Nuds, but we want to talk about do you feel
like a romance is a red flag?

Speaker 1 (50:22):
Why are you.

Speaker 5 (50:22):
Laughing specifically at us?

Speaker 1 (50:25):
Yes, it is all right.

Speaker 5 (50:27):
I'm going to be a red flag because he likes
your his boy more than you.

Speaker 1 (50:31):
Yeah, okay, I'll give it. No, you can go ahead.

Speaker 2 (50:34):
I'll say this, and I'm not saying with y'all specifically,
but you see this a lot. It'll be like, say
it's James birthday, right and you give him a shout out,
like you know, yo, bro, you have been such a
impact on my life and you know we've traveled the
world together.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
And you mean so much to me.

Speaker 4 (50:52):
It's like everything, It's like a whole paragraph that people
gotta read. Then it show girl birthday and you like
HBD love l U.

Speaker 5 (51:01):
First of all, I've never heart.

Speaker 7 (51:03):
Second of all, a blue one, not even a red
heart second heart where it's.

Speaker 5 (51:10):
Yeah, red one for me.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Purple. We give a little balance, but it ain't.

Speaker 5 (51:18):
The first of all.

Speaker 6 (51:20):
I feel like the reason why the mandem get the
shout outs because don't give us problems.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
We don't have issues.

Speaker 6 (51:26):
So it's like the love I'm going to give him
back pause is always going to be It's always going
to be strong, you know. But that's never to say
that the person I'm with or the girl that I'm
dating isn't going to get lovers. I've never done HB
D heart like I will send you a I'll send
you a nice message. So I just feel like field
exactly heartfelt message. But I don't feel like there should

(51:47):
be a comparison.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
I think that.

Speaker 2 (51:52):
Relationships and franchis are all about balance. Okay, so I
should not feel as your girlfriend that.

Speaker 1 (52:02):
I'm kind of being like pushed out the way you
don't want a back burner, like on the back burner,
you know, Like I think it's all about it is
about balance.

Speaker 6 (52:09):
But in the same breath you're talking about let's use
myself in jameson example, I've known this guy longer than
I've known anyone in this room. So it's like, how
are you comparing a fifteen year friendship to a potentially
one year relationship and you got.

Speaker 5 (52:22):
To marry up the things like.

Speaker 7 (52:25):
He might get like a paragraph on Instagram and this
is like, oh, this is your birthday thing, and then
you might get a car, and then you're going to
complain that you didn't get the Instagram as well.

Speaker 1 (52:35):
Like how I don't know about that though. If I
got a car, what I probably would call do you
want I'll take a hmmm, I'll take like a.

Speaker 5 (52:51):
Uh, there's some of Mercedes or something Mercedes. Do you No?

Speaker 1 (52:56):
You don't even know what type of car you want?
To pin the X me. I know the model, I
know the year?

Speaker 5 (53:01):
Yeah, what call car?

Speaker 1 (53:02):
What car like a twenty twenty five gay or a
Bentley truck. What's the car that I like? I can't
think of the name of it. I don't know, you
don't like it that much? It is it's an shoe?
Like if you like I got a car, girl, what's

(53:23):
the g L E? So the cool? Yeah? The g
L Yeah. So if I ask for a little g
L E coop, like you know what I'm saying, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (53:31):
For your birthday and you're crying the Instagram point.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
No, that's what I'm saying. No, you got me really
cool right down, be like, thank you, baby. You ain't
gotta post me, got gotta do all that, bro.

Speaker 4 (53:43):
Real though we're talking about y'all and being in the
position to do that most of the time, that is
not what's happening. If a nigga posts his friend for
his birthday and he writing a whole paragraph, he is
not getting his girl a car for her birthday, A
gli cool, It don't be the same energy.

Speaker 7 (54:01):
It could be like a whole weekend. You might get
like everything. He might get a post and we might
not even see each.

Speaker 5 (54:07):
Other on his birthday.

Speaker 7 (54:08):
On your birthday, you're getting days and days and days
of love and attention.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
As I should. I'm here.

Speaker 5 (54:16):
About the paragraph.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
Let me keep him sign.

Speaker 5 (54:18):
He's got nothing else.

Speaker 1 (54:21):
I have got nothing else for him.

Speaker 5 (54:22):
Crazy, Huh?

Speaker 8 (54:24):
What did you?

Speaker 1 (54:26):
I'm asking like, what did you get him for his
birth What what you're gonna do for me? That's what
you said. What you're gonna do for me? Mama? For
what do I give him my birthday? What do I
give him my car?

Speaker 5 (54:39):
I'm gonna say this, gl who or a sea class.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
It wouldn't. I know, it's not. That's why I'm asking.
I'm being messy, baby mama, being telling what you got.

Speaker 5 (54:54):
A G sixty three?

Speaker 1 (54:59):
He like andy? And once you got him for his birthday?

Speaker 5 (55:04):
Are you gonna make them glosses?

Speaker 1 (55:07):
Okay? You got him what?

Speaker 8 (55:09):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (55:09):
Okay, that's not the same.

Speaker 5 (55:11):
It doesn't have to be. It doesn't have to be
the same.

Speaker 1 (55:13):
Yes it does. Because I bought her car.

Speaker 6 (55:15):
She get no offense, bitch, he didn't. I didn't need
to buy him.

Speaker 7 (55:19):
Yeah, exactly, I already had a car. Oh you had
a new fresh three fair for context him the car.
And I also got myself the same car exact the
same time. He ain't gonna get me a car.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
No, that's right, y'all have a now, once you get
your girl for her birthday. See this is no, don't
do I didn't say it. I didn't. I'm just one
about the brow man. This is why we got to

(55:49):
get to the bottom of it. He bought him a
car for his birthday, which was amazed and amazing give
and cardia is let me just say, are not cheap cheap?

Speaker 2 (55:59):
That I said, that's expensive gift. That's what I'm saying,
what did you get to your girlfriend for her birthday?

Speaker 5 (56:06):
I can't remember, but it was a lot.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
Okay, that's fair.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
But you got your boo for whoever you were dating
at the time for her birthday, the last birthday of
the girl you were dating.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
What you got her?

Speaker 5 (56:19):
I think? I said on holiday?

Speaker 1 (56:20):
Actually, oh, okay, that's a good.

Speaker 5 (56:22):
That's a good that's usually want to go to.

Speaker 1 (56:24):
Okay, her friends or by her school friends.

Speaker 6 (56:28):
Okay, last best Thursday and lost birthday, then our hotel presence.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
Okay, so y'all y'all do it. Y'all do it big
equal love.

Speaker 5 (56:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (56:43):
Now, if you I'll be your friend if you.

Speaker 7 (56:45):
Buy Yeah, that's not that this is that's just the
one time that next birthday will probably.

Speaker 5 (56:50):
Get nothing and last we don't exchange. Yeah, it's not like.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
But that's sweet. I mean that's you know, y'all came
up together. Y'all are doing it together. So it's understanding.
And I wouldn't be mad if somebody bought me a
g waggon then they didn't buy me nothing else never,
that's fine. Noted we can still be friends. Noted, Yeah,
for sure. But I don't know.

Speaker 8 (57:10):
I do.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
I do feel like romances get a bad rub and
I don't know, I just feel like they do.

Speaker 1 (57:17):
I think it's a double standard type of thing.

Speaker 4 (57:21):
Like women can go really hard for their friends and
love their friends, to spend a lot of time with
their friends and go above and beyond for them, but
men can't do the same things, okay, you know. And
I still like, especially here in America, like we just
have like this weird thing where men out here just
think everything is like gay yeah, yeah, or like it's gay,
Like you can't show too much love to yo pa

(57:42):
that gay.

Speaker 1 (57:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (57:43):
I think that's weird too, because I like to see, like,
you know, a man tell his friend that he loves them.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
Me too.

Speaker 4 (57:48):
I don't think anything is wrong with it. I think
men need other men the same way women need other women.
Like you, look at that camaraderie. You need that friendship.

Speaker 5 (57:56):
It's a word, you know, I do what I do.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Just called me cr because that was a bigger camaraderie.
Is crazy?

Speaker 5 (58:11):
Are you trying to spell it? Are you writing this down?

Speaker 1 (58:14):
To be completely honest, she was probably googling with me.

Speaker 5 (58:20):
How are you spelling? How are you spelling it?

Speaker 6 (58:22):
Hold next, how are you spelling its.

Speaker 1 (58:27):
C oh, you're on the right trade M yeah.

Speaker 5 (58:34):
Rotie, how are you spelling it? Good question? Yeah exactly,
m R A.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
D E I I is that right?

Speaker 5 (58:44):
I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
Okay, let me look at up. Let me look at
a come rot c O m.

Speaker 5 (58:51):
R A d E I.

Speaker 2 (58:54):
Oh, you were right except the end it ends and
A y o no I E yey you.

Speaker 1 (59:00):
Are smart fool hunts I am in praised. That's close
enough because if he would have if you would have
said camarader reees, he would have been on the right comrade.

Speaker 4 (59:17):
If I said comrade, he probably would have got a
right that I E fucked him up.

Speaker 1 (59:23):
It's all right, though, you got closer than I did,
because after that, M I was cooked. I didn't know
what you way to go. What's up, y'all is.

Speaker 2 (59:31):
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Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
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Speaker 1 (01:00:52):
We gonna play a little game. I love a little sipping.
Give us another one, you want another one.

Speaker 5 (01:01:00):
I'm still nothing this way, but yeah, I know that's
why you're but.

Speaker 1 (01:01:04):
Yeah, so let's because y'all are really funny for real,
I think. Okay, so can I be honest?

Speaker 5 (01:01:12):
Yeah, of course I love.

Speaker 6 (01:01:15):
So.

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
My thing is a lot of times when I like.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Watch podcasts or I see podcasts, y'all know how this
is collaborating with I think the difference with me andre
with a lot of people is like sometimes we realize, oh.

Speaker 5 (01:01:26):
Your clips are good, okay, right, but yeah, and you're.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
But like being you can't sit on the couch and
hang with you, you know what I'm saying. So I
didn't know what to expect. I ain't like I hope
you know, I hope we messed well, but I'm.

Speaker 5 (01:01:38):
Having I'm glad you're having fun because we're hung over
to that. Y'all are honest. We're given like the best
we can, but it's like seventeen percent.

Speaker 1 (01:01:50):
You couldn't even give me a little.

Speaker 5 (01:01:51):
I'm trying my best. It's one hundred percent of effort.
It's output. Yeah, I know we're not doing our best,
so we're trying. We're trying. We're trying.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
I know how him hung over days, b but y'all
are doing great.

Speaker 4 (01:02:04):
We're having y'all are all right? I want to get
into this game. I love to play a little game,
especially for the sixth topics. So I want to play
the A, B C's of six. So we're gonna go
around in a circle and everybody has to like say

(01:02:25):
a six word that goes with the litter okay, all right,
and then whoever has to take a shot. Okay, well
we won't make y'all. Y'all are a little hungover, but
you have to take a si.

Speaker 1 (01:02:39):
He probably gonna need another drink. Yes, he probably gonna
need another one.

Speaker 7 (01:02:42):
You don't have to drink it all Okay. I don't
think I'm gonna lose, so I don't. I'm not sure
i'll need it, but I'll take it.

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
All right, I might lose. So you want to start,
because we're gonna go A B C D. Yeah, sure, start, Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:02:58):
I ain't gonna I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
But it has to be.

Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
It has to be something that has to do with sex,
a body part, anything, anything, A B c's all right,
are you ready?

Speaker 1 (01:03:11):
Anal breasts? Damn, it was gonna be mine.

Speaker 5 (01:03:21):
That's what.

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
I want to start with. The damn see see I'm
the smart one. That's why I wrote down camaraderie.

Speaker 9 (01:03:30):
If you would have wrote it down, if you would
have wrote it down, or to go after eat eats,
you say, what's fu?

Speaker 5 (01:03:43):
M g.

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Mhm, I don't know?

Speaker 5 (01:03:48):
Easy easy?

Speaker 8 (01:03:49):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:03:52):
Give give me a g Google Google see that I
said one word.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
That's how you know? Okay, my bad, Okay, I'll take it.
I'll take a sip. Okay, you're on h horny al
in sucks.

Speaker 5 (01:04:13):
In sucks Yeah. What's the next?

Speaker 1 (01:04:15):
J freaky j J J j J who.

Speaker 5 (01:04:24):
No, damn all, I'll take a sip.

Speaker 1 (01:04:28):
Okay, it will be a d okay, kiss it leaking
o master bab you're freaky. You would have said the
nastiest word.

Speaker 5 (01:04:41):
It's abc of sex.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
No, what are we.

Speaker 5 (01:04:49):
Nipple?

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:04:51):
Orgasm?

Speaker 1 (01:04:54):
Pussy? That's hard? Is it cute? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:04:59):
Oh yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
Okay? Four? I can think of one.

Speaker 5 (01:05:05):
Queef a freak.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
That's the one. Because what.

Speaker 5 (01:05:14):
Which was quef?

Speaker 1 (01:05:16):
Is good?

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
Good?

Speaker 5 (01:05:21):
What's your thinking? What were you thinking?

Speaker 1 (01:05:23):
What you say?

Speaker 5 (01:05:24):
Were you thinking about? What was it?

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
What is there? I was thinking of like a quadruple, Oh,
a quadruple, because what is going on? But that do
be happening.

Speaker 5 (01:05:44):
Ro roar, oh raw, yeah, like the rule.

Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
Yes sex mm hm m hmm. Titties got out to
mind you as hard, you as hard these last ones

(01:06:20):
is gonna be hard. I'm drinking, drinking up, drinking up
anybody how you were you? Oh now that's probably the
only one. Touches can't use it anything that's easy.

Speaker 5 (01:06:43):
Yeah, I don't want to go for hanging fruit, he said.

Speaker 2 (01:06:46):
I want to get my next getting my nast or
nasty easy vagina.

Speaker 5 (01:06:57):
Vagina to be fair lost.

Speaker 1 (01:07:01):
Wait what am I.

Speaker 5 (01:07:04):
W W.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
Really? W that's easy? What that dick hidden for?

Speaker 5 (01:07:13):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:07:14):
No, thank you? Way do I gotta take a shripa.
What that dick hitting for is a sentence?

Speaker 5 (01:07:23):
That's not that's like, that's such a stretch.

Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
Yeah, you know it's streaked. The parliament is streaked. I
was marinating.

Speaker 5 (01:07:37):
W X.

Speaker 1 (01:07:38):
It's a excuse me.

Speaker 5 (01:07:43):
No, you can't get that. You can't get that. You
can't you can't get that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
Excuse me. That nig is for me.

Speaker 5 (01:08:00):
Be x rayed.

Speaker 1 (01:08:05):
This star game and we didn't. Okay, okay, why mm
hmm hmm. You see we can't use it.

Speaker 5 (01:08:19):
Let the use no sentences yelling, yelling, that was good.

Speaker 1 (01:08:25):
Fair. You are fair. You are fair. Freak got nigga because.

Speaker 5 (01:08:37):
You know what that oh ship.

Speaker 1 (01:08:44):
Z that was a good way about it works.

Speaker 5 (01:08:53):
Let's go.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
I think we lost. We absolutely lost. We absolutely well,
you lost because I did good. I feel like, you
know what, I've never been a woman of words, but
I said you a woman of action. I'm about that action.

Speaker 8 (01:09:10):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:09:11):
Okay, what's up y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
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said that, but I mean a scrimmadade.

Speaker 4 (01:10:07):
Any business is welcome. So now it's time to get
into the bye bow.

Speaker 1 (01:10:17):
About.

Speaker 2 (01:10:18):
So the bop of the week is what we have
been jamming this week? What are you into all that
good stuff? Dre You want me to start?

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
Yeah, you can go with her.

Speaker 2 (01:10:30):
Well, okay a barb shout out to the barbs. Okay,
So my bop of the week is by an artist.
Her name is I hope I'm saying this right, Aquila.
She had a song that went viral on TikTok. That's
when I first heard of her. She had that song
bloom you know what the girls is doing their makeup,
and it was like, what is it you see to me?

Speaker 1 (01:10:48):
What you want to be with me? Even drama free?
So it's that girl. So she had that song and
so she I like to see when people drop a
song that goes viral on TikTok, I'm like, okay, are
you really artist? Are you a TikTok artist?

Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
Because there's a difference between somebody like making a viral
moment versus being an artist, and she dropped this other
song and I really like it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
It's called most Wanted and it's fire. I really I
support the girls. Y'all know.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
I'm an R and B girly, and I'll be trying
to put you'all own new music because everybody says music
is dead, but it's not. So shout out to Aquila.
My bop of the week is called most Wanted.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
What y'all and jamming. It don't got to be new,
and don't gotta be new. It can be anything, it
can be Okay, why they do that? So I'll go
in the means.

Speaker 4 (01:11:34):
Yeah, yeah, So I don't feel like we've ever talked
about this on the show, which is crazy because I
love Party next Door, but we've never talked about his
new album. Okay, So he has a new album out
and he has this song called No Chill.

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
I love that song. Like we were talking about a
six play least earlier.

Speaker 4 (01:11:53):
I absolutely feel like that song would be on my
six play least if I had to have a six
play least. But Party next Door just makes like really
sexual sensual.

Speaker 5 (01:12:03):
I think it was best back in the day, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:06):
I do think that as well.

Speaker 7 (01:12:08):
Tourist ship as well. Really he's on tour right now.
And it was I said, the show is bad.

Speaker 1 (01:12:16):
People aren't good live.

Speaker 5 (01:12:17):
Yeah, that's fair.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
Yeah, people aren't that great.

Speaker 5 (01:12:20):
When what's that.

Speaker 6 (01:12:22):
Song that I wanted to I'm gonna go if you
go ahead, go ahead. The mine is Don Tolliver.

Speaker 5 (01:12:28):
Glock.

Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
H Uh that you in your bag?

Speaker 6 (01:12:34):
Don Tolliver Glock or Brotherston featuring Coda Black.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
I love that Don Tolliver. Let me tell you, I've
been listened to Don Tolera since like two thousand, eighteen
eighteen nineteen. The talents because that he did crazy, I mean, who.

Speaker 8 (01:12:55):
What was it?

Speaker 2 (01:12:55):
The shoot Whitney Houston sample that he used on Clock
Shoe Shoot and y'all know, I'm an Auntie Waiting to
Excel is one of the best movies ever. On one
of the best movies ever, and that was the soundtrack.

Speaker 1 (01:13:09):
It was on him.

Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
A lot of people when you talk about Whitney Houston songs,
they don't think about.

Speaker 1 (01:13:13):
You know, shoot. So the fact that he sampled that
amazing of the week. All right, all right, freaky fool?

Speaker 7 (01:13:20):
What I spoke Jesus by this song before. It's a
song called love and Champagne. I just go called Cody Shane.

Speaker 1 (01:13:29):
Who that is?

Speaker 2 (01:13:31):
But wait, what's the name Cody Shane? Okay, song called
Loving Champagne, Love and Champagne.

Speaker 1 (01:13:39):
Okay. I like that. I like a little new jam.
Like I said, I feel like the music game is
still very much a lot people just don't like searching
for music, but they don't listen to projects. I also
said the reason.

Speaker 2 (01:13:55):
I'm scared for Cardi B to release her next album
is because people are going to be listening to critique
it and not.

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
Say enjoy it. Yeah, because it's been so long. It's
been so long.

Speaker 2 (01:14:04):
Now people are gonna listen to be mean and they're
not listening to like, Okay, let's see if this is
good music or yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
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n d a s at gmail dot com. Do y'all
feel like y'all give good advice?

Speaker 5 (01:15:35):
Try try not to be trusted?

Speaker 4 (01:15:38):
Yeah, okay, okay, we gonna see they be asking some
crazy Oh this is a long one, and we be
asking y'all to keep it to a minimum.

Speaker 1 (01:15:50):
They don't. They don't care.

Speaker 4 (01:15:51):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:15:53):
Mine is kind of.

Speaker 5 (01:15:59):
Public read I am.

Speaker 2 (01:16:01):
Can I say something before you start? Somebody said this,
They said, Lex, we know that's not you reading them as.

Speaker 1 (01:16:07):
I can read. Same time they said, Lex, we know
it's not you that reads. They bogues to sell for
that because they said they know. I said, actually, it
was bitch, And I'm about to go respond again and
call him.

Speaker 4 (01:16:26):
Shout them up, like it's how you gonna prove to
them today. It's not gonna forgot about that.

Speaker 5 (01:16:31):
Let me respond.

Speaker 1 (01:16:35):
Cause you call me. Question number one.

Speaker 4 (01:16:39):
I'm a twenty two year old girl and my man
is twenty three. He has a two year old daughter
and has her around me all the time, and we
have only been talking for about two months. Personally, this
is a little too soon for me to meet someone's child,
but he is a very active father and has her
just about every day. My threshold for the talking stage
is seven to eight months, and would like to be

(01:17:00):
in a relationship thereafter I've expressed it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:08):
That's so long.

Speaker 4 (01:17:09):
Yeah, we're talking about now they could be a whole
other topic, because I do feel like niggas know if
they want to be in a relationship with you, it
don't take a month.

Speaker 5 (01:17:22):
No, oft.

Speaker 1 (01:17:26):
Agreed, facts agreed.

Speaker 4 (01:17:30):
So she said, I've expressed to him that if we
make it to be in a relationship, since I'll be
around his daughter, that I would eventually like to meet
his baby's mother, just so she's aware of who her
daughter is around. He wasn't opposed to the idea, but
he was very surprised that I suggested these and said
it was very mature of me, but it didn't seem
to be a big deal if I met the mother

(01:17:50):
of his child or not, as if he would initiate
the meeting further down the line. My question is am
I doing too much? Is this the right and grown
woman thing to do? Is around seven to eight months
too soon to meet her? Should I suggest it sooner?
Am I overstepping my boundaries? And should I let him
mention us meeting? Have either of you ever met the

(01:18:11):
child's mother of a man you were dealing with? Let
me know, ladies, thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:18:14):
She's doing way too much. She's doing way too much.

Speaker 6 (01:18:17):
Yeah, yeah, wanting to meet the mother of your boyfriend's
child after seven.

Speaker 5 (01:18:22):
Eight months is way too much.

Speaker 1 (01:18:24):
That's too early.

Speaker 6 (01:18:25):
It's way too early, and I feel like she shouldn't
be the one to even be addressed in that conversation.
It's his that's his department, and the mom's yeah up,
the dad like I want to meet exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (01:18:38):
That shows somebody like, yeah, that's overstepping it's not. It's
also not her fault that the dad and the child
are always together, so obviously they're bound to like cross
paths your girlfriend.

Speaker 5 (01:18:48):
But I think meeting the mother of the child is
way too.

Speaker 2 (01:18:52):
Because maybe he's not taking you serious as you think,
because maybe he's like, maybe that my daughter. It appears
like is he leaving the daughter with you? Yeah, because
that'd be a little different. Like if you're around and
he's there, that's a different situation. But like if he's
like leaving the girl around you and he's like gone
and you're with her, you know, because I've been, you know,
obviously in that situation before, and I think if it's

(01:19:17):
like like I said, if he's leaving the daughter with you,
I think you do need to meet the baby. Mama agree,
because I don't have kids. But if I was a
mother and I'm not with the father of my child anymore,
if you're leaving my son or daughter with somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:19:31):
I need to know who it is. So in case
I just want to call out the blue or check
up on them, I can call. I have a number
to call. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
But I also feel like, if somebody wants you to
meet their head, it's not something you're gonna have to
ask about. It's not something you gonna have to put
on the table, like he's gonna put it on the
table and let it be known. Like I think we're
at this point where I want you to meet the
mother of my child. Like I feel like for her
to be writing in asking this question, like you know
what it is, Clearly he's not really taking you that

(01:20:02):
series are taking the situation. That's serious because if that's
what he wanted, that's what it would be me. And
don't hesitate when they know what they want.

Speaker 1 (01:20:09):
And also she said she was twenty two, Why do
you want to be a step mama right now?

Speaker 7 (01:20:13):
Girl?

Speaker 1 (01:20:13):
Go off, You've bossed to be outside. I was cutting
up twenty two, cutting.

Speaker 2 (01:20:18):
Up because I'm not gonna lie, like but also it's different. Like,
I'm thirty four, I'm in a relationship. My boyfriend has
a daughter. You know, we be around each other and
all that stuff. But I'm also thirty four and i'd
be inside like but in my twenties, meet your baby,
mom for what, I ain't feinnabout to be around it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:34):
That's no kids, baby on the way. I'm gonna fuck
with you because that baby ain't got nothing to do
with me. Hey, ain't got nothing to do with me.
It's different.

Speaker 2 (01:20:48):
I'm just saying, twenties used to have fun. I think
so No, you know, Okay, question two, Hey, let's see.
You thought I couldn't read.

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
That's just let that hole know you can read.

Speaker 2 (01:21:05):
Question number two. Hey, ladies, I love y'all. Now y'all
get me through my Friday workouts. I'm writing in because
I'm currently at brunch alone. I'm supposed to be with
a friend who was staying with me for the weekend.
An hour before we were supposed to be at the
brunch spot, she left my apartment to go see a
nigga she dealt with before she moved to another city.
I still needed to shower and get ready because I

(01:21:27):
went to the gym. So we agreed to meet at
the place, and we agreed to a meeting time, and
she said she'd make it. It's been over an hour
since that time. Of course, I'll order my food by now,
and I'm almost finished with my.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Shrimp and grits.

Speaker 2 (01:21:40):
So at this point I could leave. Am I crazy
to be upset? Or should I be understanding because a
nigga was involved? Should I cut her off? Or take
this as a lesson about who she is? And noted
to add a little context. When she offered to meet
him after we ate, he told her, if we don't
meet now, I'll see you next time.

Speaker 1 (01:22:00):
Isn't that kind of manipulative? First of all? And not
come to see you? I was gonna say, I feel
like the needst should go first, because I got my thought. Okay,
go ahead, go ahead. What's your thing?

Speaker 6 (01:22:13):
I don't I don't think she's wrong for feeling the
type of way that her friends an hour considering that's
not happening.

Speaker 5 (01:22:20):
Like, there's no way you're dealing with a thing.

Speaker 7 (01:22:22):
And I'm in a restaurant by myself, waiting and eating
by myself for over an hour, so you can.

Speaker 5 (01:22:26):
Clap some h it's not.

Speaker 1 (01:22:28):
It's not.

Speaker 6 (01:22:30):
I would have been gone, you would you would have
gone time. But I don't think it's a relationship or
a friendship ender. I just think it's a discussion afterwards,
and it's like, you can't put me through this position again.
I understand that, yes, you got this call, but big man,
you could have met her afterwards, or if you don't
meet her now, you can meet another time.

Speaker 5 (01:22:46):
Like we agreed on the time, or let me know
or let him know, like, don't leave the house. I'm late, late,
bro facts, I'm late. Hollow him or hollow her later
and like, yeah, just just go from there. Literally, just
be on. But you had other thoughts.

Speaker 1 (01:23:01):
Yeah, I just feel like, at the end of the day,
just leave the shit alone. What you mean.

Speaker 4 (01:23:09):
But I just feel like, I don't know, like I
just feel like she just shouldn't even care that much.

Speaker 1 (01:23:16):
Nigga, she shouldn't care that much. It's just not that serious.
Like it's just kind of like it is what it is.
I feel like people be putting in too much.

Speaker 8 (01:23:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
Sometimes I feel like people be putting too much pressure
on their friends.

Speaker 6 (01:23:26):
Okay, that's fair, So would you if you were in
that situation and you were in the restaurant waiting for
an hour.

Speaker 4 (01:23:32):
I probably wouldn't have waited for an hour to be
completely honest, I probably would have texted her after like
twenty minutes and be.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
Like, hey, girl, where are you at? And if she
said she has something going on, I would have been like, oh,
I have to leave. I'm not waiting for.

Speaker 2 (01:23:43):
An hour for nobody here is honesty because the friends
should have teld a bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:23:48):
Yeah, I'm not the doe.

Speaker 2 (01:23:49):
I think that's what I would have felt more disrespected
about you not being honest because, honestly, the way you
talking about the whole weekend, she wasn't. She was coming
out there to low key see that nigga Fox. She
was waiting for him to hit her up. We all
been done behind somebody that we deal with. So I
feel like, girl, let that girl go get her a
little little dick.

Speaker 4 (01:24:08):
Yeah, I And like going back to I feel like
people be putting too much pressure on a friend sometimes,
like it's just kind of about pressure.

Speaker 1 (01:24:16):
She should have been honest that she wasn't coming.

Speaker 4 (01:24:18):
She should have been, But even if she wasn't, you
can always take it up on yourself to not waste
your own time because waiting for hours it's crazy. I'm
not waiting for nobody for an hour. You got about
a twenty minute grace period with me. I'm gonna wait
about twenty minutes. I'm gonna have me a little drink.

Speaker 1 (01:24:34):
I'm after that. Yeah, I finished my crumpets and tea.
You feel I that's a basicit right.

Speaker 5 (01:24:43):
It's ship ship of bread. Yeah, how could I even
explain it? It's like anything's compared to ship, like spinach
dip finished, dep y'all have never had spinich?

Speaker 1 (01:25:02):
Dial y'all need to come out with us. Y'all crumping
some spinach? You never did that?

Speaker 5 (01:25:09):
What's in this dip? You know?

Speaker 4 (01:25:12):
It's usually like a it's usually like an Alfredo type
of sauce, cream based sauce, and then it has spinach
and has like you know, a variety of season.

Speaker 5 (01:25:22):
It doesn't even taste.

Speaker 1 (01:25:23):
That's why the sauce is the start of the show,
is what I'm trying to. Let me show you a picture,
because the spinisch is in it to add a little texture.
So good you anywhere like chip now, it's delicious and.

Speaker 5 (01:25:40):
Good for you, but it's good for you, but it
looks creamy as a mother. Yeah, it's good.

Speaker 1 (01:25:52):
Serving with like peter bread a little Okay, I do
have one one more questions? What's more question? Do y'all
Do y'all eat beans? For real?

Speaker 5 (01:26:01):
Does everyone keep?

Speaker 1 (01:26:03):
But I know y'all if y'all do y'all be walking
around for because you don't.

Speaker 5 (01:26:11):
I hardly ever have. But that's what I'm saying. I
love being okay. So the difference is we have beans
for breakfast. You don't have beans for what I do.

Speaker 1 (01:26:23):
I didn't even know that was an English thing. I
do that. That's how I get down. That's lie I
lived there, beans breakfast, light and then a bean patty
pinto beans beans.

Speaker 4 (01:26:43):
Red no, no, see, that's what I'm saying. I mean,
I'm deeper in my bean bags.

Speaker 1 (01:26:50):
I love bean bag but you.

Speaker 7 (01:26:53):
But you do?

Speaker 1 (01:26:54):
You put me on in bean burgers, bro, I don't have.

Speaker 2 (01:26:57):
I had a I have a bean burger for breakfast sometimes,
the little breakfast sand which a little bean patty with
an egg. It's hitting, bro, That's what I'm saying. They
be like, oh, English people love beans, y'all don't love.

Speaker 5 (01:27:09):
Beans like I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:27:10):
Bean sometimes sometimes yeah, sometimes for English.

Speaker 1 (01:27:16):
And I don't like how they be trying to because
I get offended as a bean connas people exactly. And
I figured that out when I went there.

Speaker 5 (01:27:27):
Okay, you look like.

Speaker 1 (01:27:28):
You got a bean in your pocket, right, I know
a bean eating when I it takes one to know
one bean.

Speaker 4 (01:27:50):
Sorry, okay, okay, you're gonna eat make beans. You gotta
saw them up a little bit like doctor, you gotta
put a little girl.

Speaker 1 (01:27:59):
Of course. Yeah, yeah, I know how to make a
baked bean. I just like all varieties of beans, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:28:06):
And when I went to London, of course, you know,
I went to London for the first time in December
of last year. That was my first time going. And
of course we went back this year to work. But
you know, every time I was asking people about the beans,
it was giving like, y'all don't know what y'all talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:28:23):
And I'm glad that we could get that, because I
feel like a lot of times it's stereotypeing.

Speaker 5 (01:28:27):
This is like the third time we've been if we
eat beans, and.

Speaker 1 (01:28:30):
I'm like, stop doing that to them, but talk about beans.
Ask me. Stop asking the British folks they don't know.

Speaker 11 (01:28:39):
That's okay, that's okay, England because the food here is
so oh well, I will tell my cooks down Joe
Ankle's gonna be swollen.

Speaker 5 (01:28:50):
Jesus, you will be walking out.

Speaker 1 (01:28:55):
Blood.

Speaker 4 (01:29:00):
So my favorite place when I went to London the
first whole house Duck and Waffle.

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
I love duck and Waffle. That's like my slot.

Speaker 2 (01:29:07):
But honestly, like as a whole I like salt. I'm
a salty grub. I need seasoning the.

Speaker 5 (01:29:14):
Season like the season. This season is salt.

Speaker 2 (01:29:17):
Okay, well, I am a person too, like I use
a lot of like herbs in my food, and I
have actually gotten away from like the heavy salt.

Speaker 1 (01:29:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:29:25):
I think that comes with learning how to cook in general.
And what we do is like a lot of people
that cook out here, they like to use a lot
of Tony sacharies that's a and lawry.

Speaker 4 (01:29:34):
And it's like, that's not how you season Yeah, got
a season it with herbs, garlic, you know, your basil,
all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:29:41):
So I think that's with learning how to cook. I agree.

Speaker 4 (01:29:45):
When we were in London, one of the I had
one of the best burgers that I've ever had in
my life when we went to Soho House and I
have been to Soho Hose here in the States, and
I just feel like the burger did not taste It.

Speaker 1 (01:29:57):
Didn't taste like that. It wasn't right there a smash burger.

Speaker 4 (01:30:02):
It just had cheese, pickles, beef, It was seasoned, It
had like a little ioli sauce. It was really really
good though, like emmaculately, I had never.

Speaker 1 (01:30:12):
The food is saucy out here for you.

Speaker 2 (01:30:16):
Yeah, yeah, everywhere y'all been because l A got good
food too, l A, Okay, that.

Speaker 1 (01:30:24):
Is a little healthier.

Speaker 5 (01:30:25):
I feel it's definitely healthy, y'all. Where was my ship salty?
Charlotte salty? Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (01:30:35):
Yeah, they said wrap this ship up, bitches. But that
makes it Charlotte is the South. I feel like that's
a Southern thing. Though we are heavy on the season
and we are, but it's because we eat a lot
of seafood down here. You know, a lot of crab legs, crawfish.

Speaker 1 (01:30:54):
So you got a season of water. And I think
it's just like, yeah, it translated like you.

Speaker 2 (01:30:58):
Just because you're season your water heavy, you don't got
a season your food.

Speaker 1 (01:31:03):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:31:04):
It It's a little crazy for sure. That's why I
feel like people got a lot of people have high
blood pressure. But I mean, you know, they say we're
the most unhealthiest country.

Speaker 1 (01:31:13):
Oh fat big box in this large box. But some
of them was purchased so big. Who purchased the big bag?

Speaker 8 (01:31:25):
Me?

Speaker 5 (01:31:27):
No, okay, we're talking about different ends.

Speaker 8 (01:31:29):
Of the.

Speaker 1 (01:31:35):
But at the same time, a lot of times when
you purchase the bag, you gotta keep it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:38):
In shape so that back that you bought at the
bottom will not break to the top if you don't
take care.

Speaker 1 (01:31:45):
Of That's very true.

Speaker 4 (01:31:46):
Like once you get life old, like the weight distributes
different after that.

Speaker 1 (01:31:51):
Yeah, it definitely does. All right, we do because I
can't focus. The terrain is raining.

Speaker 2 (01:31:58):
Okay, so that everybody, y'all, y'all still be you know,
traveling around doing y'all tour things. Let everybody know, I mean,
they can know where they can find y'all. Well, where
they can find y'all tour tickets, all that good.

Speaker 6 (01:32:11):
Stuff, ships and gigs, everyone, Google, YouTube, Spotify tour tickets
unfortunately sold out, but they can't even pull up the
unfortunately unfortunately.

Speaker 5 (01:32:22):
Maybe next year, maybe next year, will we come back.

Speaker 1 (01:32:26):
I'll be begging for people to buy tickets day up, Nigga,
is y'all coming or.

Speaker 5 (01:32:33):
It is crazy the box.

Speaker 1 (01:32:38):
Y'all are on tour to thank y'all so much for me.
Be fine. So when we come to London, y'all can't
act like strange because we're friends.

Speaker 5 (01:32:48):
Now, I thought his friends already. You know, you can
show stuff that.

Speaker 1 (01:32:53):
Was not honor. But you know what, I like to
see people, especially like black people, in this space. I
think podcast as.

Speaker 5 (01:33:00):
A little it for us for you to come.

Speaker 8 (01:33:02):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:33:04):
Oh, I was surprised. I got in backstage. I snuck in. Hi, motherfucker.
I told her to go, Oh my god, look at Nikki.
He looked. I ran in, I said, taking shoes over.
We gotta get in this. Absolutely did not take my
shoes off.

Speaker 2 (01:33:19):
I snuck in that bitch. But it was an amazing show. Honestly,
we appreciate y'all for pulling up.

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And yeah, just stay songed, and y'all, y'all gotta put
a karaoke song.

Speaker 5 (01:33:52):
We're about to do karaoke karaoke.

Speaker 1 (01:33:55):
We'll see y'all next week, by y'all.

Speaker 5 (01:34:03):
H Yes, lad, I love. It's been since you had
an old piece of dick. Hey Coult, you probably smell

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like rubber. I don't know why, y'all laying man. Everybody
know that stood puts a grip like a new basketball.

Speaker 1 (01:34:37):
Yeah, man, it looks at the baby. Both of your
mama's pregnant. You do it?

Speaker 8 (01:34:43):
Brother?

Speaker 5 (01:34:43):
What is your name? You're wrong, see my brother? It
looks like that pork team and as a whole, don't you.

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and try to be more disabled when they're going there,
they're like, y'all, like I got denied.

Speaker 5 (01:34:59):
This is a move.

Speaker 8 (01:35:00):
Ships changed since you came in.

Speaker 1 (01:35:11):
I knew back then you were best facial. I'm so
in love.

Speaker 5 (01:35:18):
What else? So deep in love?

Speaker 1 (01:35:20):
You made my life complete? You are so sweet. No
one be glad you came into my life. Your love
with you, I have no cause you open me. I'm
my hop and I'm doing with things I never do.

(01:35:43):
But I feel so good. I feel so good.

Speaker 5 (01:35:48):
It take so long, louder.

Speaker 1 (01:35:51):
This is my story.

Speaker 5 (01:35:52):
Find the key, and.

Speaker 2 (01:35:53):
I'm telling it's a pictures, surely a fact.

Speaker 1 (01:36:00):
Let's go having my bad, Let's go my whole life ship.

Speaker 5 (01:36:10):
Yeah you came. I knew back just when you were
that you were very.

Speaker 1 (01:36:22):
You completely my bad.

Speaker 5 (01:36:26):
You are so sweet. No one compan Yeah, that you
came into my life.

Speaker 12 (01:36:38):
That myself I was never thought about settling. But at
the time I knew I was writing.

Speaker 1 (01:36:49):
But my friends.

Speaker 5 (01:36:51):
Around amazing guys. Well done.

Speaker 1 (01:36:58):
You supposed to bro maake it down, sah.

Speaker 5 (01:37:03):
And everything.

Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
Shout out to sink. You's in a building. You want
a very very special wand oh you want a very
very special one.

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